The Daily Stoic - The Greatest Leader You’ve Never Understood | Doris Kearns Goodwin

Episode Date: August 27, 2025

What made Lincoln great wasn’t power or genius, it was his moral fiber. Historian and bestselling author Doris Kearns Goodwin joins Ryan to explore why Lincoln stands above the rest, how am...bition can be twisted toward selfishness or greatness, and how moments of pain and principle shape true leaders. Ryan and Doris discuss the pressures of writing about legendary figures, Doris’s years working for LBJ, and what it takes to bring history to life for future generations.Doris Kearns Goodwin is a Pulitzer Prize–winning presidential historian and bestselling author. Her latest #1 New York Times bestseller, An Unfinished Love Story: A Personal History of the 1960s, is being adapted into a feature film, while her earlier works, Team of Rivals, The Bully Pulpit, and No Ordinary Time, have won some of the nation’s highest literary honors and inspired leaders worldwide. She has served as a White House Fellow to President Lyndon Johnson, produced acclaimed docuseries for the HISTORY Channel, and earned countless awards for her contributions to history and leadership.She has a new book out called The Leadership Journey: How Four Kids Became Presidents in which she shares the different childhood experiences of Abraham Lincoln. Theodore Roosevelt. Franklin Delano Roosevelt. Lyndon B. Johnson, and how they each found their way to the presidency. Grab copies of Doris’ books Team of Rivals and Leadership at The Painted Porch | https://www.thepaintedporch.comFollow Doris on Instagram @DorisKGoodwin and check out more of her work on her website doriskearnsgoodwin.com📕 Books mentioned:Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns GoodwinLeadership: In Turbulent Times by Doris Kearns GoodwinMeditations by Marcus Aurelius (Gregory Hays Translation)📚 The Four Stoic Virtues: Justice, Temperance, Wisdom, Courage, are timeless keys to living your best life. The Daily Stoic is releasing a limited collector’s edition set of all four books signed and numbered, with a title page identifying these books as part of the only printing of this series. PLUS we're including one of the notecards Ryan used while writing the series. Pre-order the Limited Edition Stoic Virtues Series Today! | https://store.dailystoic.com/pages/stoic-virtues👉 Support the podcast and go deeper into Stoicism by subscribing to The Daily Stoic Premium - unlock ad-free listening, early access, and bonus content coming soon: dailystoic.com/premium🎟️ Come see Ryan Holiday LIVE in Austin, Texas on September 17! | https://www.dailystoiclive.com/📖 Preorder the final book in Ryan Holiday's The Stoic Virtues Series: "Wisdom Takes Work": https://store.dailystoic.com/pages/wisdom-takes-work🎙️ Follow The Daily Stoic Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dailystoicpodcast🎥 Watch top moments from The Daily Stoic Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dailystoicpodcast✉️ Want Stoic wisdom delivered to your inbox daily? Sign up for the FREE Daily Stoic email at https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Get Stoic inspired books, medallions, and prints to remember these lessons at the Daily Stoic Store: https://store.dailystoic.com/📱 Follow us:  Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, and FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:01:51 of ancient philosophy, well-known and obscure, fascinating and powerful. With them, we discuss the strategies and habits that have helped them become who they are, and also to find peace and wisdom in their lives. Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoic podcast. When I went to Australia last summer, I was bringing two kids, my wife, we're going to be on for a month. So I had to think very carefully about what books I was going to bring. I knew obviously there'd be English bookstores there.
Starting point is 00:02:38 This is one of the downsides of reading physical books, is that I have to spend a lot of time thinking about what books I'm going to bring, how much space I have my suitcase, how many books am I going to get while I am there, and how I'm going to like lugging them around. And so I was working on the Wisdom book at this time, which, by the way, is out October 21st, and you can pre-order it, a bunch of awesome bonuses, including something related to what I'm about to say. So I was working on part three of the book. The main character in Part 3 of Wisdom is Lincoln. So I was thinking, okay, what book do I want to read on a very long plane flight, the first few days of the trip that I can then use as part of this thing? So I'm not carrying books that I'm reading for work.
Starting point is 00:03:24 And so I said, you know what, I think I'm going to read Team of Rivals on the plane. Now, I bought Team of Rivals in 2006 or 2007, right when I dropped out of college, to work my first job in Hollywood. My boss told me, you have to read Team of Rivals. It's amazing. And I read some of it, and I stopped for some reason. And then I read a lot of other great books about Lincoln and other presidential biographies. And I read other books from Doris Kearns, Goodwin. And I loved leadership, which is her sort of greatest hits on Lincoln and LBJ and Dita Roosevelt.
Starting point is 00:04:00 But for some reason, I never actually made it all the way through this very, very big book on Lincoln. I'd seen the movie Lincoln, which it's based on, but I never actually got around to Team of Rivals. So I started reading it on the plane. And then when I got to the place we were staying in Sydney, we stayed in the rocks for the first half of the trip and then over to Bondi, I then broke the book down, my note cards, right? And not just reading the book and folding the pages, but then the process by which I begin to break down a book and take out all the pieces that I'm going to use.
Starting point is 00:04:35 And by the way, if you want one of those note cards, you can pre-order the set of the Virtue Series, courage, discipline, and wisdom. And maybe you can even get one from my copy of Doris Kearns Goodwin. I will link to that in today's show notes. We have a few copies of all four, limited edition set, signed and numbered. Anyways, of course, it's an incredible book. It's one of the great presidential biographies of all time, deserving of the millions of copies it has
Starting point is 00:05:04 sold. And of course it is, because Doris Kearns-Goodwin is one of our greatest living biographers. And when you read Wisdom Takes Work, you'll see, I borrow a story that I'd heard about from a couple different sources, but she actually uses as an epigraph to team of rivals. And actually I just finished reading this section on Lincoln for the audiobook of Wisdom Takes Work, which will come out when it comes out on the 21st, going back through all the things that I learned about wisdom from Doris's books, from all the different biographies of Lincoln I read over the year, just maybe the greatest man. That's what the Tolstoy quote that she has is the epigraphy team of rivals. One of the only men that nations have a right to be proud of,
Starting point is 00:05:50 just an incredible human being. And you see that in team of rivals. How does he manage to not just cultivate people who disagree with him, but learn from the people who disagree with it. This is what it looks like to see a leader in command of himself, a leader who is not afraid to be challenged, to hear differing opinions, to work with imperfect people. It's a lovely, incredible book. I'm grateful to her for the influence she's had on my work over the years. which is to say, I love Doris Kern's Goodwin's work, enough that I flew it basically all the way around the world. If you've seen some of the stuff I've recorded while sitting at this desk before we had the studio, you'd often see I have a copy of her book leadership right behind me because it's one of my all-time favorite books.
Starting point is 00:06:41 So I was so excited to have her on the podcast. Thanks to the folks at Masterclass who connected us. By the way, she has a great masterclass, as do I, I think. I did one on Stoicism last summer as well. I was just so excited to get to have this conversation. And we went much deeper into Stoicism than I would have thought. Of course, I asked her about the subject of one of her famous books, the president that she knew personally, Lyndon Johnson. and then because I am working on a biography, I asked her a bunch of questions about the art of writing biographies. You're going to love this interview. She was awesome. If you've never heard this name before, I don't know what you're doing with your life, but she is a Pulitzer Prize-winning
Starting point is 00:07:28 presidential historian. Her latest book was a number one New York Times bestseller, an unfinished love story, a personal history of the 1960s. It's being adapted into a film. Her other books include team of rivals, the bully pulpit, no ordinary time, and as I said, leadership. She served as a White House fellow to LBJ. She produced an acclaimed series of documentaries for the History Channel. And then she has a new book out called The Leadership Journey, How Four Kids Became Presidents, which is all about the presidential experiences of Lincoln, both Roosevelt's and Lyndon Johnson. I took it home and read it to my kids. That was awesome. You can grab team of rivals and leadership at the Painted Porch
Starting point is 00:08:10 and follow her on Instagram at Doris K. Goodwin or Doris Kearnsgoodwin.com. I believe I will be interviewing her on stage sometime in February. That might be why I'm in San Diego. I know I'm doing a talk live on stage in San Diego that's open to the public. I don't think the Doris Kearns-Goodwin one is, unfortunately. But I'm going to be doing a talk in San Diego in February.
Starting point is 00:08:35 and then I'm doing one in Austin on September 17th that you can come to also. That's why I was in Australia. I was doing a speaking tour. I'm now doing two U.S. states. I'm going to be talking more about the ideas in the wisdom book. You can grab those tickets at daily stoiclive.com. I think you will really like this interview. Thanks.
Starting point is 00:08:57 When I read about you, Lincoln is the Stoic. I've already ordered Aurelius again. I haven't read him since college. I can't. wait to read meditations. Oh, wow. Well, I'm writing a lot about Lincoln now. So I've been doing this series on the cardinal virtues. Oh, he's got them. Yeah, he does. And Lincoln's my main subject for the final virtue of wisdom. I think he is the wisest. Me too. Adversity and resilience and self-reflection. I mean, he's amazing. I'm so glad. I can't believe that I haven't read
Starting point is 00:09:30 meditations in so long. Oh, man. I'm very excited. Actually, let me just get into it right now then, because for that chapter, I fell in love with a thing that you have as an epigraph to team of rivals, which you can see here. I have done my reading on these are all pages I have marked. But I love the scene. You have it as the third epigraph in team of rivals where Tolstoy, maybe you can tell the story. Tolstoy is about as far east as you can get and still be. in the West, about as remote as you could get in the 20th century. And what are these distant tribes people ask him? Yeah, these distant tribe people, somewhere in the caucuses, seemingly very far away from any kind of civilization, are so excited that he's in their midst that they ask him to tell
Starting point is 00:10:22 stories of the great men of history. So he says, I loved finding this. He told a reporter this story. So he told him about Julius Caesar and Alexander the Great and Frederick the Great and Napoleon and they seemed to love it, he said, but then they stopped him, the chief. And he said, but wait, you haven't told us about the greatest ruler of them all. We want to hear about that man who spoke with the voice of thunder, who laughed like the sunrise, who came from that place called America that is so far from here that if a young man should travel there, he'd be an old man when he arrived. Tell us of that man. tell us of Abraham Lincoln. And Tolstoy was stunned to know that Lincoln's name had reached this remote corner, but then he told them everything he knew about Lincoln.
Starting point is 00:11:04 And then the reporter said, okay, so what made Lincoln so great after all? And Tolstoy said, well, he wasn't as great a general as Napoleon, not as great as statesman perhaps as Frederick the great, but his greatness consisted altogether in his character and the moral fiber of his being. Is that great? I mean, that's what we need in everybody and our kids, in what our teachers, teach our students, what our leaders should be made of.
Starting point is 00:11:28 That story, I was so happy to find it, so I didn't have to end with Lincoln dying. I never want them to die. They're my guys. As you know, I saw that you were calling Orelius, your guy. And I was thinking, oh, my God, I'll do the same thing with Teddy and Franklin and Lincoln. And I don't mean to be on deferential,
Starting point is 00:11:44 just that I've lived with it for so long. Like, you've lived with meditations. Yeah, you fall in love with these characters, and they come to life to you. And I think that's what Tolstoy was capturing about Lincoln, which I loved so much, because it is an interesting distinction, like all those other great conquerors, they did obviously do impressive things, but for what reason and why? And there is something, you know, modern, but then also classical about Lincoln in the sense that he didn't really do any of it for himself. Like there was no, although he had the peculiar ambition, it was distinct from a Napoleon. or any of the others. I really think that's right. In fact, you know, when it was, as you mentioned,
Starting point is 00:12:28 the peculiar ambition was when he was 23 years old and running for office the first time. And he talks about every man has his peculiar ambition, but his was to be esteemed of by his fellow man. And that meant somehow by doing something worthy that would be remembered over time. So that I think that distinguishes. I mean, everybody has ambition.
Starting point is 00:12:48 It's a drive for success is important for any leader or anybody to be successful. The question is, when does it become something more than the ambition for your own rise and it becomes the ambition for the greater good? And maybe even in school, it could be the ambition for the team rather than your own glory, maybe the ambition for your state, for your country, and then for Lincoln, something even larger than that. And I think what it ends up being, too, is that it wasn't just what he did, but who he was in the end that's so, so impressive. Yeah, he says somewhere that a man of ambition can realize,
Starting point is 00:13:22 that ambition by making slaves of men or by freeing slaves. And again, that distinction to decide to use your powers and your drive for good is sort of this crossroads moment that not all of those sort of, you know, there is something distinct about these people that become these epic historical figures, usually some profound trauma. But there's something about the decision to say, hey, I'm going to have a hero origin story rather than a villain origin story. And I think he really thought along those lines. I mean, I think the great moment when it becomes so clear is in the summer of 1864, when despite the victory at Gettysburg the year before and the war seemingly going all right,
Starting point is 00:14:06 everybody on both the north and the south was just exhausted with hundreds of thousands dead. And the Republican bigwigs come to him and say, nobody is going to support you for the presidency in November unless you at least start peace talks and the only way you can start peace talks is to agree that you'll put off emancipation until later and you'll just restore the union and he just turns them away
Starting point is 00:14:28 and he said, you know, I'd be damned in time and eternity if I returned the black warriors to slavery and that meant he was really thinking he might lose the race and then Atlanta falls and the whole mood of the north changes from that, you know, frustration and sadness and just desire to end the war, the mad cry for peace ends, and he's able to win the war, but he wins it with emancipation and union, both goals intact because that moment, that was the key moment when the ambition for his own victory, and he wanted to win that
Starting point is 00:14:57 second term. He said it's a, you know, it's a reaffirmation of what his first term had been all about. He wanted to finish the war, but he wouldn't do it on the terms that would be morally wrong. Yeah, the idea of there being a principle beneath the ambition that that doesn't get corroded or diminished as the, as the ambition begins to be realized. Because I think we see both ancient and in modern figures, they often did start with a reason. And then that reason falls away and is sort of just replaced with either momentum or self-preservation or some other force. And for Lincoln, you know, that it all kind of harkens back to this singular experience where he watches those slaves being walked onto a riverboat, just the black and
Starting point is 00:15:49 whiteness of that being wrong, and that's staying with him always. I just, I, that's what I found, like, what good is the wisdom if it, if it isn't directed at some fundamentally moral purpose? Absolutely. I mean, you're right. That, that vision of seeing that just made him know if, as he said later, if slavery isn't wrong, nothing is wrong. You know, it had to be wrong. And then he had just had to figure out what he could do about it. That's the complication. Even with the powers of the presidency, he couldn't free the slaves until he came up with the idea that he could use his powers as commander-in-chief because the slaves were giving an undue advantage to the South so that as a commander-in-chief, he could free them and bring them to our lines rather than the
Starting point is 00:16:31 southern lines and then allow that. But even then he knew that when the war was coming to an end, that he had to then get the constitutional amendment to end slavery because then he would no longer have the commander in chief powers to do it. So that's why it took him a while to realize that desire to free them. But it was always there from that moment, you rightly point out. Yeah, that's what I, what I love about Lincoln is, is, okay, there are obviously many, many principled people out there. Very rarely do they find themselves in the presidency, right? And or in really any position of leadership or power. And Lincoln's wisdom wasn't just about sort of getting to the nub of it, as I think he once described, as someone once described his powers, he could wrap his head around
Starting point is 00:17:14 the issue of sort of what was right and wrong. But then he had this very pragmatic sense of how to get things done. I always come back to this quote from JFK, I think, who said, you know, parents want their kids to be president, but not politicians. Like Lincoln had the unique fusing of that sort of moral sense with a real ability. to operate in the political sphere, and those traits tend to be mutually exclusive, it seems. I think you're right. I mean, he combined several different qualities. I mean, he think that was one of them. I mean, he was a very practical politician, and he knew the importance of educating public sentiment, because as he said in a democracy, there's nothing more important than public
Starting point is 00:18:01 sentiment. It's more important than what Congress does or the Supreme Court does. And he didn't mean just public opinion. He meant you have to really educate the country. to an understanding that slavery had to be ended. And once he had done that, once he realized that that spread, he knew that somehow it was going to end, you know, that there was a force then. That was a force that would take it along. So that was a very practical sense of when he said that if he had issued
Starting point is 00:18:26 the Emancipation Proclamation six months earlier, his practical politician side said he would have lost the border states and then he would have lost the war. If he'd waited any longer, he would have lost the morale boost that had provided to give the Emancipation Proclamation, the black soldiers into play. So his sense of timing came from that practical politician, but the principle was always there. You're absolutely right. And I love the idea of the president
Starting point is 00:18:50 calling for books about war from the Library of Congress, you know, like that he also had this sort of ability to educate himself quickly, but then also he manages to grasp the sort of central strategic issues of the Civil War, better than the people actually educated in the science of war at that time? No, it's incredible. I mean, I think that's the great thing about his self-education. When I think about all the books that he read when he was young, and there's some of the great books he's reading, you know, I mean, when he got a copy of Shakespeare or he got
Starting point is 00:19:27 Aesop's Fables or the Bible, he couldn't eat, he couldn't sleep. He was so excited. So he educated himself in great books, and then he was able to have the humility enough I mean, can you imagine what it was like to say at that time I'm the president? Could I have some on the art of war? You have to have a lot of confidence in yourself to not know in today's world, somebody would make fun of him. Oh, my God, he's just beginning to educate himself on this. He thinks he knows what the generals.
Starting point is 00:19:52 Of course, McClellan would think he was educated far better, but he knew better than McClellan what to do. You're not just capturing land. You have to capture the army and decimate that as time went by. Yeah, I mean, I think he has to check out one of Halleck's books. So he's reading books from his subordinates who are, you know, shortly thereafter briefing him. You're right that the confidence to say on the one hand, I don't know enough about this. And then to do the work to learn about it and then to not be bullied by this person who is, you know, objectively more educated than you or more schooled than you in the issue, Lincoln had this both humility and this confidence
Starting point is 00:20:35 without it sort of seeping over into egoism? Absolutely. I mean, you see that at the moment when he wins the election and that night he can't sleep and he makes up his mind that he's going to put those three chief rivals into his cabinet because he has the humility to know, I don't know enough. These states are potentially seceding from the union and who knows what's going to happen And here, the country is in the worst shape that it's been in. And I've only had one term in Congress. So he has the humility to know he needs people around him who know things more than he does.
Starting point is 00:21:08 But the confidence to think I might be able to still take hold of them. Because his friend said to him, how can you do this? You're going to look like a figurehead. They're more powerful than you. They're more celebrated, more educated. Each one thinks he should be present instead of you. And he famously says, well, the country's in peril. These are the strongest and most able men in the country.
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Starting point is 00:24:27 I mean, I love the idea that Seward thought at first he would be like the premier, and, you know, he would just be a figurehead that Lincoln would be. But he realized after months, not too long later, after Lincoln is the best of us, he wrote to his wife. He could see, they saw something in him. And he obviously treated them with respect. He shared credit when things went well. He shouldered blame when things did not. And he took time with each one of them, giving them their separate.
Starting point is 00:24:53 time. And so that when the moment came that they, even if they didn't agree with him on the Emancipation Proclamation, they kept their disagreement quiet because he had told them what he was doing. He had taken responsibility for it. They respected that. And they then presented a united front to the country, which was essential. If they had disagreed at that point, given that the country was going to have a hard time, where the two in the north, there were factions, then the whole thing might have fallen apart. Well, I want to ask you about your process a little bit, somewhat selfishly, because I'm starting my first biography. I've done a number of books,
Starting point is 00:25:27 but I've never done a biography before. How does something like this come to get? Like, just the sheer size of it overwhelms me. As you set out on a project, when you're going to do the life of someone, where do you begin or do you have a conception of where it's going to go or do you just kind of get lost in the details?
Starting point is 00:25:46 How do you approach an epic life for an epic book? Well, you know, each one of the books that I've written have been a subject on which lots of other people have written as well, which is the scariest thing. But it's also the reason why you're attracted to these people is because they are the most interesting and they lived in the most challenging time. So after I had done the first book on Lyndon Johnson and then the Kennedys and then FDR, after doing FDR in World War II, you think, well, what could be more interesting than that? And I hadn't really studied the 19th century, but I realized I really wanted to live with Lincoln because it takes me so
Starting point is 00:26:21 longer takes me, took me twice as long as World War II to write about FDR and Eleanor. So I knew it was going to be a commitment of years and years, and I wanted to know Lincoln. But then I thought, well, how can I do anything different about what other people have done on him? So at first, I made the mistake of thinking that I could write about Mary and Abe, maybe because I had just had the chance of writing about Franklin and Eleanor. And I spent some time really looking at their relationship, but I realized after that period of time that she could never carry the public side of the story the same way Eleanor could so that I'd be writing about a marriage and I really wanted to write about what was happening in the country and I couldn't use it the way I could
Starting point is 00:27:00 with Eleanor. So just luckily I went up to Auburn, New York for some other reason to give a lecture and Seward's house was there. And so I went to his house and I just became in trance. The house is almost like it was when he was there. You see his chair. You see his snuff box. You see mannequins that are dressed up the way his wife were and his daughter was. And so I said, started reading about sewer and then I found out there were a thousand letters or so that he'd written because he was in Washington, his wife was in Auburn. And then I somehow went to Ohio and I saw Chase, to where Chase had been, and I saw the Ohio State House. And then I knew that Bates had carried a diary. And that's where the idea of these three guys, rather than Mary and A,
Starting point is 00:27:40 became the center of, but that was like two years into it. Wow. So it took a long time. And then, then it was like a quadruple biography. Then I was saying, oh my God, what am I going to do? And it was much harder to write than any of the other ones were because I had to figure out how to make structure it so that the people would keep them straight at the beginning. When I look at it now, I almost wish like a playbill I had announced who all the people were and so people keep clear when they're beginning to read about it. Then once I got going and figured out, as I've done with most of the others, I wasn't going to start when they were being born. I started with that race for the 1860 thing and then went backwards to where they came from and how they were set
Starting point is 00:28:20 up against each other. And it just, it was a wonderful chance to really immerse myself in the people. And then, then I got into the larger sense of what the factions were in the North through them. So you sort of look for a unique way into the story that, that even though many of the details have been told, that specific lens hasn't been tackled. That's right. I mean, with Franklin Roosevelt, too, so much had been written about him. And I also knew I wanted to write about a woman. So I remember I called up Schlesinger, who had studied Arthur Schlesinger, or the great historian who I loved as a friend as well. And I said, if I do the home front and not the war front,
Starting point is 00:28:57 can I really truly say that Eleanor was a partner? I don't want to be stretching it. And he said, absolutely, she is Mrs. Homefront. So then I had Eleanor and Franklin and the home front rather than the war front. So that that gave me my own angle. And similarly, when I decided I wanted to do Teddy Roosevelt, in the turn of the 20th century, I taught a seminar on the progressive era when I was teaching at Harvard,
Starting point is 00:29:19 against so many books on him, then I got interested in, well, who did he write letters to? And I found out he'd written 400 letters to Taft, because I love letters, my famous, you probably do too. And you're going back in the past and you see some handwriting, and you can imagine the person writing to the person and you're looking over their shoulders. And then I decided I could do Teddy and Taft. And then I realized that the journalists were so important and the Golden Age of Journalism. So I make it harder for myself by that. That's why these books become so fat, because I'm really. doing a lot of people at the same time. So finally, when I did leadership, I had my four guys
Starting point is 00:29:54 there, and I had to just choose the main object to which they were remembered, whether it was the coal strike for Teddy or emancipation for Lincoln or the first hundred days for FDR and civil rights for LBJ. But then I could write a shorter book. I think partly what happened is somebody was telling me they were reading. A woman wrote me a letter, the bully pulpit on Teddy, and she said she was loving it, but she was reading it at night when she went to and she fell asleep and it broke her nose. So after that, I thought, oh, my God, I'm now a hazard to people reading this book as they get so fat.
Starting point is 00:30:26 So they've been getting shorter as I've gotten older. Well, is it a painstaking process to do a book like that? I imagine, you know, yeah, if you're writing basically a thousand-page book, it must take a while to feel like you've even made a serious dent in the project. Like, you've got to be like the length of one of my books before you're even a quarter of the way through. So how do you prevent yourself from getting like demoralized or despair when you're going to work on a project that must take years and years and years to even compile a few pages? Yeah, the only way it worked is that because I'm writing it chronologically, essentially,
Starting point is 00:31:05 despite wherever I start and go back, so you feel like you're making progress. And I think chronologically anyway, and I tend to write chapters that when they're done, they're sort of done. You know, I mean, some people write a whole book, and it's really a first draft, and then they go back and work on it a lot. When I finish a chapter, it's sort of done, and then I turn it into the editors, and so I get the reaction, so I get the sense of confidence that comes from if they think it's going well, and then they accumulate, and then there's one, two, ten, and then, you know, a couple of years have gone by, but at least I feel like they've progressed.
Starting point is 00:31:42 I've gone from 1860 to 1862, and wow, I'm now in 1864, 1865, so. I look back at sometimes, it does seem hard to imagine that you could spend that much time on it. The last book I wrote on the unfinished love story about the 1960s, well, I had all my husband's boxes to go through so that it wasn't an unlimited amount of research, even though it was 300 boxes, but that one turned out to be, you know, less voluminous than these other books were. And maybe that was a good feeling to know that it could be carried as you walked around. So you kind of create things that give you the markers of progress. Like when I swim, if I'm swimming a mile, I'm like, okay, 10 laps. So I'm swimming 70 laps. So that's, you know, seven sets of 10. And then I go, oh, I'm halfway through the first set of 10. I'm creating this sense that I'm making progress. But I'm really just fooling myself because I've just cut it up into smaller pieces. You're sort of doing that with months and years and eras in the person's life. Absolutely. And I mean, I do believe, I remember
Starting point is 00:32:46 Robert Tuckman was a great heroine when I read her book Guns of August when I was in college. And she said that even when you're a narrative historian, you have to pretend to yourself, you do not know how a war ended. So you can carry your reader with you every step along the way, not telling them anything ahead of time. Sometimes academics, you know, make points and they tell people, oh, this is that or that was this. And you lose the momentum of a story, which has a beginning, a middle, and an end. So as long as I was moving from the beginning to the middle and the near end and then the end, it was okay. I remember when I was in graduate school, there was a man in Texas who everybody knew. He was writing about Sam Rayburn, the Speaker of the House, and he had done so much research,
Starting point is 00:33:27 and he never finished the book before he died. And that was just a panic, you know, I think on all of us graduate students. So that's why at least I could feel I was building as it went along. And I loved learning about all these people. Well, you know what it's like. The research is so much. fun when you're writing one of these things. Like you, I mean, I've read about you getting up in the morning. I'm a morning person. So I love the idea. I wake up at 5.30 every morning.
Starting point is 00:33:53 Try not to stay up too late at night. Sometimes it's a little harder to wake up at 5.30, but no matter what, I wake up at 5.30. And between 5.30 and noon, I don't do anything else. I try not to look at emails unless something important is coming that I know has got to come through. And I feel like by 7 o'clock in the morning, I've already into it. And a lot of people aren't even up. And it's my favorite time of day to do that. And then I can do the rest of the other things that I'm doing besides working on the books in the afternoon, the television stuff that I'm doing or the movies that I'm working on. But I know I've gotten that writing done in the morning. And it's, it's a great feeling then to bring the rest of the day. Well, it's like you've won the day before
Starting point is 00:34:31 some people have even gotten up. In one of my books, in my book on Discipline, I tell the story of Tony Morrison when she was a single mom still working as an editor at Penguin. And I think random house and she she would say that she would she would try to get all her writing done before she heard the word mom for the first time yeah exactly exactly because then you need it in somewhere else yes those couple magical hours where you can get lost in it before the world has intruded whether it's a doctor's appointment or a meeting or a phone call like if you can just have a kind of a magical morning where you you make some small bit of progress and you get to go visit these characters that you're studying, you get to return to that world for, that's just,
Starting point is 00:35:18 that's the life, right? That's just the dream. Oh, absolutely. No, I, even now, I'm just starting a new book on Teddy Roosevelt and the business titans, the robber baron surrounding him. And I realized I missed it. You know, once I finished the other book on the unfinished love story and I traveled the country for it these last year, then I thought, well, really, I'm like, I'm really at 82 years old, going to do another book with this kind of commitment. But I knew that. that that creative sense in the mornings is what I was missing. I would wake up in the mornings with all these other things I was doing and which one will I do now? But I didn't have that
Starting point is 00:35:51 sense of a central project. So now I've gotten three new bookcases in my bedroom, actually. I've had to spread them out because I moved from my big house in Concord to a condo in Boston. So I have to put bookcases everywhere. And it's so exciting to fill them up again with new books and new things to learn about, you know, Morgan, J.P. Morgan and Rockefeller. and Vanderbilt and Carnegie and armor and it's really been fun. It's really been fun. It's the most exciting thing of all. Well, that's how you know you're doing the right thing if you love that part of the process. Like if I feel like if you're into it because you like publishing, you've done the wrong thing. If you're into it because you love the research and then you love the writing and then
Starting point is 00:36:34 the byproduct of that is this, you know, you're doing it right as opposed to maybe some people who who are getting into it for the recognition or the attention or whatever. I couldn't agree with you more. I mean, and that is, I was interesting. I met a woman not long ago who was in an assisted living place, and she had been a president of two universities and had an extraordinary career. And I asked her, what was the happiest time of your career? And she said when she was writing in the early days, you know, before all this other stuff,
Starting point is 00:37:04 because that was the core of it. She'd originally been a professor. And her writing was part of who she was. So I understand all that. Isn't that sad? Sometimes people have this thing. They get the dream, the thing they love doing, and they promote themselves out of it. You know, like success deprives them of the thing that actually animated them and was most fulfilling.
Starting point is 00:37:29 My father was a police detective when I was a kid, and he got promoted. He took the sergeant's test. He became a sergeant, which, you know, was a more management thing. And I remember he really didn't like it. And he was telling me, he was like, what have I done? He's like, they make TV shows about police detectives. Like his point was like, he had the fun, like the job with the doing in it. And then to get more money or to get more status, you know, you end up promoting yourself out of the thing that, you know, most people would kill to be able to do.
Starting point is 00:38:02 Yeah, I think that's right. I've just been really lucky now, I think, to have this as my morning always. and I really have enjoyed working on these documentaries for the History Channel. And again, they've been about, you know, George Washington and I got to learn about him by working on the documentary. I'd always wanted to write a biography of him, but it was too late to have another 10-year project. And then you work on a team, and somehow after two years, you can put together a six-hour documentary because there's a lot of other people working with you, you know, and then be able to do FDR and Teddy Roosevelt, now just did a History of the West with Kevin Costner that's coming out at the end of May.
Starting point is 00:38:36 So I love all of that too, but to have this at the core and then have that as well, which allows me to be with people more, which is great to work with people so that it's not, I don't have my husband anymore to read what I'm doing every day. So there was a partnership before. So it's been really wonderful to work on these other projects. But now that I realize back with Teddy Roosevelt again on something different, I feel that sense of excitement at the core. When you look at history, I'm curious, does history reassure and relax you in the present moment? Or does it actually add a kind of a sense of dread or fear? I've been thinking about this because when you study history, one thing that's always there is a sense of just how bad it can get, right? Like how badly it can be screwed up. And also how narrowly maybe we avoided some of those. outcomes in the past. And when you watch people in the present fooling around with things or ignoring some of those lessons, it's kind of terrifying. Maybe you disagree. Well, you're scaring me even as you say that because you're right. I mean, the people that I've written about lived in times when democracy was truly in peril. And you're right, it could have gone different ways. I somehow think about the fact that it went the right way. Obviously, in the 1850s, if Buchanan had been the president in 1860, it would have been a lot more difficult. But we had Lincoln come along at that time.
Starting point is 00:40:05 But the fact of all the times that I've written about, whether it was the Civil War, the Great Depression, or the early days of World War II, or the turn of the 20th century, were very fraught times. And they turned out all right. So my optimism is encouraged by looking back at these times. It probably sounds silly to think, oh, I'm going to live in the Civil War. I'm going to make you feel better because when I talk to people, they expect that from me because I can really believe that history gives you that solace and hope because we somehow managed with all manner of difficulty to get through very hard times before, harder even than this. As hard as this seems, this sometimes seems like maybe it's the hardest. It is in our lifetime, but not for the
Starting point is 00:40:47 lifetime of the nation. I mean, it was much more difficult to be in a war with 600,000 people being killed and states having broken off from the Union or the early days of World War II when it wasn't sure that Hitler could be contained and America's standing, you know, without any much help to Britain at first, being only 18th in military power and finally is able to mobilize itself and the Allies win that war, but they didn't know that at the time. So for me, it could be the other way around. You're right. When you think of how if it had been a different person, if the country had been in a different mood, it would have turned out terribly and we would have lost, if we lost World War II, we would lost Western civilization. I mean, that was, that's the
Starting point is 00:41:27 worst thing to imagine what would have happened if Hitler had conquered Europe more. And then we had not been able to stay that. But somehow we did. So that's why I get the, I get the positive side of that. And, you know, people will come up to me sometimes because they hear me saying that history is going to give us solace and perspective and lessons. And they'll come and say, is everything all right? Are we going to be okay? And now I'm going to have to have your thought in my head, too, but I'll have to just put it next to my thought, too. Yes, it was terrifying. It could have gone in a different direction, but each time it didn't. So hopefully this way will be the same. Yeah, I just, sometimes I go, what if McClellan had won in 1864? Like, what happens when
Starting point is 00:42:05 you put someone sort of constitutionally or morally unsuited to the presidency at a moment of great peril? What happens, you know? And yeah, there's something about America where we We've always kind of walked through raindrops, and maybe it was equally terrifying at the time, but what happens if that luck runs out? I know that kind of keeps me up at night sometimes. Well, that's fair. I'm going to have to include that in my head, but I will banish it if I'm getting too terrified. So what I loved about the leadership book was, first off, what I loved about that book is it felt like it was the culmination of your career. Very rarely do you get someone, getting to do what it felt like a greatest hits. Like it felt like you took all of your thinking from
Starting point is 00:42:56 all these people and you put it in one place. It was just such a great sort of survey course in all your biographies. I loved it so much. I sort of took the premise of that book as being that leadership is not something you're born with. It's something that you develop. That it's a, it's a skill. And each of the four leaders in the book were very different leaders, but they were, they were nevertheless sort of trained slowly over time to be exactly what their moment in time needed. I think that's exactly right. I mean, there's no master key of leadership that I found, but rather there was a family resemblance of leadership traits that they all possessed to some degree greater than others, sometimes and some had some more than other than humility being the
Starting point is 00:43:40 first, that ability to acknowledge errors and learn from mistakes. Empathy, so important and so important now, you know, that, and I think maybe sometimes people can be born with empathy. Lincoln seemed to be when you think about when he was a little kid and, you know, his friends are throwing hot coals on turtles to make them wriggle. And he says, this is wrong. Why hurt another being? You can watch him really caring about other people's feelings in a good way even then. And then resilience, they all go through adversity and they all get wisdom from it as a result of it, and then accountability and taking responsibility and communicating in a trustworthy way, and then finally that ambition that becomes something larger than themselves.
Starting point is 00:44:22 Maybe there are certain gifts you're born with, like Lincoln's gift for language, or Teddy's enormous photographic memory and energy, and FDR's optimism helps, and LBJ too had energy, but all of those things really, mostly you make yourself a leader. I mean, Teddy had that great phrase in which he said, there's two kinds of success in the world. One is if you have enormous quality that somebody, no matter how hard they try, can't emulate a talent like a Shakespeare or an Emily Dickinson. But he said most people's success, and he included himself in the second category, come from taking ordinary qualities to an extraordinary degree through hard, sustained work. And I really believe that. I'm definitely, you watch all of them, they made themselves leaders rather than the fact that they were born with certain games.
Starting point is 00:45:10 Well, you knew one of the four people in leadership, which I think is so interesting. How did sort of meeting and in the flesh one of the great men inform your understanding of the other four? Because I do think there is something in common that those sort of Shakespearean or epic figures have in common. You know, you could take any of these figures and drop them in ancient Rome or Greece. Like they all read like there's something out of Plutarch, right? And probably always. will, the people that sort of keep going where mere mortals would have said, hey, this is enough, I'm good. What did your experiences with LBJ help you to understand about Roosevelt or Lincoln? Well, I'd like to think that what happened is because I had originally been judging
Starting point is 00:45:58 LBJ when I was a graduate student at Harvard before I got to work for him from the outside in, just so angry with him about the war, marching with people against the war. And then when I got to know him by working on the White House staff with him, and more importantly, by accompanying him to his ranch to help him on his memoirs those last years of his life. It wasn't that he changed my mind about how he had conducted the war and the wrong purposes for which that war was probably fought. But I felt an empathy and an understanding of him. So I think from then on in, it would be that all the people that I was going to write about will disappoint you at some point, FDR's incarceration of the Japanese Americans, not bringing more Jewish refugees into the
Starting point is 00:46:39 country before Hitler closed the door forever or Teddy in some of the ways he dealt with black soldiers with Brownsville or running again in 1912 when when he probably should have waited and he could have been the World War I leader but but essentially I just wanted to understand them from the inside out and that really helped I think by knowing Lyndon Johnson and feeling an enormous connection to him before he died and realizing that I could I could I could I could get to know these larger than life figures. He was certainly law. I mean, he was so interesting. I mean, I would have not been a presidential historian had I not had that experience within my PhD thesis was in the Supreme Court history, mainly because I had a great professor
Starting point is 00:47:24 who taught constitutional law. So that's how you go into a certain area. But I think it was more fun to study presidents. So I'll be always grateful to him for having created that desire to have my first book on him and then make the rest of the presidents. And after 50 years go by, you suddenly a presidential historian, and you've done one after another. And the only thing I worry about I tease is that somehow in the afterlife, there'll be a panel of all these guys, and they'll all going to tell me everything I missed or didn't quite get right about them. And the first person to scream out will be Lyndon Johnson. How come that damn book on the Roosevelt's was twice as long as the book he wrote about me? I can well imagine him saying that. Well, no, it's funny. I just took my
Starting point is 00:48:02 kids at Disney World and we went to see the Hall of Presidents thing. And there was something about seeing them not as photographs, but is all standing next to each other or sitting, some standing, some sitting. And even though they were wearing relatively different clothes, they were all sort of, you just get a sense there's kind of an archetype to it. I mean, obviously they were all men up until this point. I believe that'll change someday. But you just get a sense that even as the centuries bleed into each other, there's something that draws a person to that, like something that says, hey, there's a most powerful person in the world. I deserve to be that person. I should be in charge of millions of other people. I was just struck in that moment by the similarities. And I
Starting point is 00:48:46 I bet you could expand that stage until, you know, suddenly they're in, they're in Togas. You know, you could go back far. And they'd all effectively feel the same. There's something about the archetype, I think. I think you're absolutely right. And you're right. When you see them in three dimensions, I love, I love that Disney cared so much about that Hall of Presidents. I actually was able to work with the people putting together some of the script for one of the most recent stories that they tell along the way. But again, seeing Lincoln again, I was there not long ago, too, just to see him again. You feel like he's coming alive. I love going to the President's homes for that same reason, even more sometimes than the museums.
Starting point is 00:49:25 When you walk around the rooms that they walked around in, then you really feel their presence. I think parents being able to take their kids, you know, know, to the various homes. Like I was at Truman's home not long ago. And what a great. Have you ever been there in Independence to see this home? I haven't, but Truman's, Mike, one of my favorite presidents. So he's great.
Starting point is 00:49:45 Oh, my God. So, I mean, and he's one of the self-educating ones, right? Not having gone to college, but he loved books on history. Plutarch. I love Plutarch, too, actually. Yeah. And I was doing the last book on leadership. Plutarch mattered a lot to just see the contrast between who had come before them,
Starting point is 00:50:02 whether it was Buchanan and Lincoln or Hoover and FDR, just to see what it was that made that. But anyway, when you go to the Truman Library and you go to the Truman Home, there's a study where all his history books are, and it's right on the street so that it's not a house that's set back at all. And there was a great story that the tour guy told to us that when he came there after he was president, and he was sitting there one day, and a person came to the door that cars broken down and asked if he could use the phone to help. So the guy goes in the kitchen and uses the phone, then comes back and stares at Truman. He said, it's so incredible. You look like that S-O-B, Harry Truman.
Starting point is 00:50:38 And Truman just says, I am that S-O-B, Harry Truman. I love him. There's just a great sense of his being a natural guy who, you know, never. Now, he may be one who didn't expect that he'd end up. But yet he saw himself as like when he was in the war. He led people. He saw that he had done a good job doing that. And then surprisingly, even though at the very beginning he was saying,
Starting point is 00:50:59 how can I ever fill his shoes? Pray for me, everybody. He surely did fill the shoes. I mean, he was a, I think he was one of the great presidents. I just ran with my buddy on Town Lake Trail here in Austin, did 10 miles in roughly 70 minutes. And then I ran with his brother, his twin brother. This is my best friends from middle school. I ran with his twin brother when I was in Greece. He was there with his wife's family. We ran outside Olympia. And then in between these two runs, I ran the original marathon.
Starting point is 00:51:38 I ran from Marathon to Athens. And you know what shoes I used? I used today's sponsor, Hoka. They actually have a new shoe, the Rocket X3, which is a race day shoe that's engineered for speed when every second counts. The Rocket X3 is built to meet the demands of race day. It's lightweight. It's responsive.
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Starting point is 00:52:28 especially if you've been running a long time, and then you feel the sort of spring of that carbon fiber, and it is crazy. Try the Rocket X3 for yourself at hoaget.com, and you can check out this cool video I did about the marathon run, which Hokit is sponsored. I'll link to that in description, or you can just go to dailystilic.com slash marathon. Well, one of my favorite presidential biographies I'm using that term loosely is Merle Miller's plain speaking. I love it. And one of the things that I love about that is there's a scene in where he starts talking about Marcus Aurelius, Truman does. And he goes and he gets his copy of
Starting point is 00:53:09 meditations. And he shows Merle Miller the underlinings that he's done in meditations. And it made me think of that that quote about Roosevelt, about Theodore Roosevelt, where that this was a kid who grew up reading about great men and decided to just be like them. In Truman, you have this unprecedented thing of the kid who loved history and loved virtue and all these classical ideas sort of accidentally becoming the president and then giving us a master class, if you will, on putting those ideas into practice. And I mean, I would absolutely kill to get my hands on on truman's copy of meditations i don't know if it'll ever go up for auction or it's not in any collection that i've managed to hear about but uh you know to have the private
Starting point is 00:54:00 thoughts of of of one head of state influencing another head of state two thousand years later there's just something magical about that yeah i mean truman tells the story just in terms of how history mattered to him that when he was about to fire macarthur he went back and looked at Lincoln and how Lincoln was able to finally fire Fremont. And then when he was thinking about the Marshall Plan, he went back and read about World War I and how wrong it was that we crushed these states in Europe. And similarly then, when Teddy Roosevelt is going through the cold strike, he spends the summer worrying about the cold strike, reading the nine volumes of Nicholas and Hay on Lincoln. And it gives him solace to know that somehow there were people on either extremes that
Starting point is 00:54:45 thought he wasn't doing the right thing because he was in the middle. So then Teddy could feel maybe I'm right that way. How great it is that these people are reading history to give them a sense of, I mean, you want that. You can learn from these people. You know, Obama had a series of dinners that I was involved with when he was president where he'd bring historians in and we would come, you know, with them in our heads, not dressed up as them, but, you know, it could have been Truman or Jackson or whoever Lincoln and Washington. And we'd give him advice. on whatever he was going through at that time from our guy. Then he even had the China set with different presidents, each one of the, it was really fun. Biden had a couple of them as well, too.
Starting point is 00:55:24 But why would presidents not want to learn about what other presidents have done and give them, like we learn from our parents and grandparents, we can learn from these presidents if you're a president? Well, I can see why they wouldn't like to do that if they had a bunch of stupid things that they wanted to do and that they didn't want to receive the feedback, the obvious feedback of how we have painfully learned lessons about that exact impulse in the past. Oh, that's right. You have to be a different kind of person. That's exactly right. Well, what you just said makes me think of the sort of founding myth of Stoicism story, myth, you know, in the ancient historians, that line wasn't so clear. But Zeno, the founder of
Starting point is 00:56:05 Stoicism, he visits the Oracle as a young man. And the priestess tells him that the secret to a good life, the secret to wisdom is to have conversations with the dead. And he doesn't know what this means. And it's not until he washes up in Athens, penniless, and he walks by this bookseller in the Athenian Agora. And the bookseller is reading one of the stories from Socrates, the story of the choice of Hercules. Now, Socrates is only recently dead at this point, you know, like within a generation. But what Zeno realizes in this moment is that's what the prophecy was saying, that history and literature is a way to have conversations with the dead. And that hearing the wisdom of Socrates being read aloud, he's talking to, you know, a spirit, a ghost. He's communing with
Starting point is 00:56:58 history. And to me, that's why we study the past. Is it as a way to bring the wisdom of these long dead figures into the present moment. It's a story. superpower, but not everyone takes advantage of it. Oh, I couldn't agree with you more. I mean, I was thinking about you're having been so interested in knowing that you want, part of the philosophy is to assume that it could be the last day of your life. And then how would you do it differently knowing that? And that's communing with the idea that you're going to die, but not being afraid of it, but using it as a positive thing. When Teddy Roosevelt lost his wife and his mother on the same day in the same house.
Starting point is 00:57:36 His wife dying of childbirth, his mother of typhoid fever, she contracted while she went to take care of the young girl. And the depression sent him off to the North Dakota area. And when he came back from that two-year experience of being out there, he was not only a cowboy as well as an eastern dude and therefore able to knit together those two parts of the country, but he decided that fate showed him that it can go away from you at any moment. He thought that was the end of his life, that there'd never be happiness again.
Starting point is 00:58:05 And so he decides, I'm going to take any job that looks to me like the job I want it to be, whether it takes me up the ladder or not, instead of his resume climbing, which he'd been doing before. So he becomes civil service commissioner because he believed in the civil service, and he makes it real the merit system. It had not been working until that point. We had the spoiled system from Jackson. Then he becomes police commissioner, and his friends say, why are you doing this?
Starting point is 00:58:28 It seems below you. But he learns about tenements and slums and police and all that from that. And then he leaves the Navy Department where he has power to become a soldier, but he becomes a rough rider. And that gets him the heroism that allows him to win the presidency eventually. So that, you know, if you choose to just throw everything on the field as if it's your last job, it means you're going to do the right thing and not be too cautious because of your next upward move. Yeah, it gives him a sense of urgency that never quite leaves him. Right. Never.
Starting point is 00:58:58 Well, that's a perfect segue to what I wanted to talk about next, which is how you teach history to kids. I took my eight-year-old and my five-year-old to the Manger Hotel in San Antonio a couple weeks back because they, well, I told them that they served this special ice cream there. They served like this mango soft serve ice cream, which they did not actually end up enjoying. But the idea that you're just sort of in this hotel bar that Theodore Roosevelt was recruiting the Rough Riders in and that it's just a normal bar and a normal hotel, like this sort of acceptance. accessibility and the ordinaryness of history, I just, I love. And I think the earlier you can kind of pick up that, that bug, one, the smarter you'll be, but two, like, the more interesting your life will be. Oh, I mean, one of the reasons why I think I wanted to write a book for young children today is just that there's a sense of history being diminished in schools at all level. And it takes
Starting point is 00:59:56 my heart to think about that. Because for me, I had a teacher in high school, Ms. Austin, who really made us feel like she knew the people she was telling us about from the past. She loved biography as history. And when she talked to us about Lincoln dying, she actually cried. And I thought, oh, my God, she must have known him. She really must have known him. It was very special to have her. She won an award as one of the best teachers in New York State. But I was in a college talking some years ago about FDR and Lincoln. And a college student stood up and said, how can I ever become them? They're icons. They're on Mount Rushmore. or they, you know, they're in movies, they're on the currency.
Starting point is 01:00:35 And I realized that if I could start writing about them in that book for middle school kids, that when they first ran for office, when they're in their 20s and they're going to make mistakes and some of it from arrogance, some from the not knowing things, they're going to screw up, they're going to be available. They look like you might feel, you know, when they're younger. Then maybe they could imagine that they can learn and grow like FDR couldn't speak very well when he started out. he was speaking so slowly that Eleanor figured, oh, my God, he's never going to continue. He has these huge pauses between his sentences.
Starting point is 01:01:07 Then she teased that once he got more comfortable, they could never get him off the stage, even though they were afraid he'd never keep going on at the beginning. And that's what I wanted to reach out and tell stories to the young kids so that they could imagine themselves in the boys' shoes and then becoming men and learning how to become leaders. Again, not a woman yet at that point, but there will be hopefully before I die. No, my APUS history teachers Miss Carr's and Mr. Delordo, the idea of, like, there's this process, I think, where you start to study history where at first they sort of demolish all the myths, you know, hey, these people weren't the people you thought they were, the Civil War was more complicated than you think it was, you know, sort of going, that that first process is deeply uncomfortable and painful, especially if you've been given sort of a propaganda version of history. as most kids are. But then that process where it begins to reassemble, right? Like you learn as a kid that the Civil War was very simple. It was about slavery. And then you study it more and you realize
Starting point is 01:02:10 oh, no, it was much more complicated. It was about these other things. And it certainly wasn't as simple as simply trying to free the slaves, right? And then you really begin to study it and you get to the core of Lincoln and what makes him tick. And it becomes simple again. But it becomes simple for different reasons, and it becomes inspirational for different reasons. And that process of doing the work to really deeply understand and to kind of understand the whole world that they were living in is just, I don't know, it's time travel, you know, it's, it's magic. So have you started working on your biography? Have you gone, are you already beginning? Is it, do we know what it is? So I'm, I'm doing a biography on Stockdale. Oh, wow. Not so much as a political figure, but as at Stanford.
Starting point is 01:02:57 Yeah, the Navy sends him to Stanford. He basically gets a Ph.D. in philosophy. And, I mean, I didn't quite understand just how old he was in Vietnam. I mean, he was in his mid-40s when he shot down. But he is introduced to Epictetus, the Stoic philosopher, before he shot down. So I'm going to try to connect Stoicism and biography. Fabulous. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:03:20 Well, I wish you the best on it. That's great. But you know Lincoln. You should be writing about him as well. Well, I'll send you my Lincoln chapter. that I just did for this book because it was very much influenced by yours. You've got two at almost the same time, right? That's what you were saying.
Starting point is 01:03:34 One is out this fall and then I'm about to start working on this next one. What is it like for you? You said you're starting a book. Are you excited when you start a book or is there also some part of you that you know what kind of journey this is going to be so you're kind of like tired in advance? No, you know, it's both feelings. I mean, some days I'm so excited about it because I can see the whole thing. I think I can see the whole thing.
Starting point is 01:03:58 And then the next day's you think, oh, yeah, but it's this really, it's just really the whole thing. And how am I going to do this? So it doesn't have the confidence that it does when you start building up the chapters. But it's also the most exciting part because you can imagine it being anything you wanted to be. I mean, I think I could tell somebody the whole story of this book. I'm sure it's not going to work out that way. Yeah. But it feels like it is at the time.
Starting point is 01:04:20 Yeah, starting, you know, Amazon's motto for many years was it's still day one. You know, they were always trying to remind themselves that it was still they went. And their point was that it was flexible, that it could be anything, but also they wanted to sort of stay scrappy and hungry. And there is something about starting on page zero, like starting with nothing that's both exhilarating and then profoundly demoralizing because you know how many, how many pages you have to write and that they basically come out of your hide. Right. No, no, it's both things. I can't this is so much fun to talk to you this is just incredible it's a total honor for me and I love your stuff and um my my my kids right now are obsessed with Hamilton so and I'm I keep trying to
Starting point is 01:05:06 go you know Lincoln's really interesting too we got to learn about theater that but they're stuck on Hamilton because of the musical and so it's wonderful what that musical has done for young people it's it just shows that their their minds are so potentially susceptible to loving this stuff and then they can love history as a result yes and then Who knows where that can go? No, it's a great thing. When either a movie can do that, a book can do that sometimes, or sometimes something like that magic that Manuel was able to put together. It's incredible.
Starting point is 01:05:36 I thought the same thing watching the Spielberg Lincoln movie, having read all your stuff and read so much about Lincoln, there is something about seeing it in the flesh or getting to hear it that just, I mean, that is the magic of cinema. That's the miracle of it. It is suddenly made real. And he, of course, made it so profoundly real. real, like one of the greatest performances of all time real. It's really, it's a magical thing.
Starting point is 01:06:00 I remember I watched one of the early cuts of it at Steven Spielberg's house with his wife and his partner who had not seen it yet either. And Spielberg was so nervous, which is so great, that he wasn't with us. He was outside pacing, which is what you wanted a professional. With all the success he'd had, he still had to wonder, will this be a, will they like it? And so when he came in after it was over, they said, well, what? did you think? And I said, I just saw Lincoln. He was walking. He was talking. He was there. So then we called Daniel in Ireland and saw him, they liked it. Then we were able to celebrate. But just getting to know, Daniel, that process for an entire year, I would, he never emails.
Starting point is 01:06:39 He just texted, but I would send him books to read and we'd talk about it through texts. And then when I finally saw him, I didn't get to see him actually doing the show because he wouldn't let anybody talk to him other than people were saying, Mr. President. So I couldn't be there. I had to go watch other scenes that other people were in so that I couldn't see him until the premiere. And then finally I saw this person that I'd become friends with over the year. And then we went together to the bar at the Carlisle to celebrate the first time we'd been in Springfield together. And he became a friend. And he just captured everything about Lincoln's spirit, his melancholy, his political genius, his depth of person.
Starting point is 01:07:20 It just got it all. you know and the way he walked and talked it was just magic to watch him when he bangs on that table uh and gives that you got to see what's before you it's the only thing that counts uh i could watch that scene a thousand times in a row and you know that it took a while for him to to gather up that kind of thing because he wasn't usually a yeller you know wasn't somebody who does that often so you knew that that was a moment when that that emotion was absolutely necessary yeah that that's a great point he he was certainly Stoic in the sense that he was, he was almost unbelievably slow to anger.
Starting point is 01:07:57 Right. But then when it came, then people knew they were in the presence of something that they better listen to. But, you know, just capturing that, that the ability to tell stories, as, you know, as Lincoln said, you whistle off sadness with humor that a good story for him was better than a drop of whiskey. And to be able to, when he told my favorite story about Ethan Allen going over to England after the war, you know, and they were going to embarrass him by putting a huge picture
Starting point is 01:08:21 of General Washington in the outhouse where he'd be thinking it was so incredibly, you know, bad of them to put him in such an undignified place. And he comes out and not upset at all. And they say, and Lincoln loved this story. So, you know, so what, did you see George Washington there? Oh, yes, he said, I think it was the perfectly appropriate place from Ethan Allen said, what do you mean? They say, well, there's nothing to make an Englishman shit faster than the side of general George Washington. And the way Daniel told the story, it was even better than when Lincoln told it. But he laughed like Lincoln did in the middle of telling these funny stories just so that he could be part of, it made his face come alive. It made his whole body come alive.
Starting point is 01:09:00 So to be able to capture that part and the melancholy and the confidence and the humility, I mean, he really, he got it. He became Abraham Lincoln. One of my fantasies is someone doesn't do it on. Maybe I'll do it. But towards the end of the Civil War, when Grant, Sherman, Lincoln, and Porter are all on that boat for, like, three days. There's a Da Vinci, Caesar Borja, and Machiavelli were trapped in a castle
Starting point is 01:09:28 for a brief period of time. Just the moment of like all these figures in the same room at the same time. I just, I want to read a book about that period. That's a great thought. That's a great. That's one of those events that takes place over a short period of time, but you could get so much
Starting point is 01:09:44 into it. What's happening at the war at that point, what their relationships are with one. And that's a great idea. So can I ask you, where did you get this love of the past and of the mythologies and the Greeks and the Romans and all of that? Oh, thank you. I don't know. I just always loved reading and I fell in love with history as a kid and my parents would take us to these different places. I remember this memory came back the other day. We were on this road trip when I was a kid and we were supposed to be able to visit the Battle of Fredericksburg and something happened and we couldn't. And all I remember is
Starting point is 01:10:17 like crying and yelling in the car at my parents. Like, how could you, you know? So clearly it went way back, but I just didn't know, I didn't know it was a thing you could do. I mean, I loved books, but I didn't, none of my parents' friends were writers, certainly, you know. So it wasn't until college that, you know, you meet these professors and you're like, oh, you're an author. Like, it's just a thing that, like, anyone can do, you know? I fell in love with it. I was a, I was a research assistant. I don't know if you know who Robert Green is. I remember you said you dropped out in order to do that work with him, right? Yeah, so I started as a research assistant and really sort of learned how the craft of it works.
Starting point is 01:10:57 And then, yeah, I started writing. So it's been a surreal journey to make that leap to go work with him as opposed to staying in school. Yeah. I mean, it was like John Hay getting to getting the work for Lincoln. You know, you get your whole world opened up and you're totally unqualified. to be there, but you learn by osmosis. And so, yeah, it was a magical thing. How terrific. I mean, one of my sons, my youngest son loves, loves all the old stuff that you love. I mean, I can't wait to talk to him about meditations, because I know he's read it. So I'm going to say
Starting point is 01:11:32 tonight, I'm going to, when I see him tonight, in fact, it's his two-year-old kid's birthday tonight. So we're going to talk about Marcus Aurelius tonight at the two-year-old's kid. Well, I'll get your address because I wrote a kid's book from my son when he was three about Marcus Aurelius. So I'll send you that. Oh, yes. I would love to get that. That would be true. I can give that to him as a belated birthday present. Okay. Okay. Amazing. And then I'll start reading this one, this one to my kids, and we'll report back. Deal. Sounds great. This is amazing. A complete and total honor. And thank you because many of the pages in my books would not have been possible without the pages in your books. You've pointed me to so many things over the year. So thank you very much.
Starting point is 01:12:14 Oh, I thank you so much. I could never have imagined how much fun this would be. This was terrific. Absolutely. I could talk to you for a long time. Thanks so much. All right. Well, I'll follow up and you have a great week. Thank you. You too. Take care. Thanks so much for listening. If you could rate this podcast and leave a review on iTunes, that would mean so much to us and it would really help the show. We appreciate it. And I'll see you next episode. ...you know... ...you know... ...a...

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