The Daily Stoic - The Only Thing New In The World | Pretend Today Is The End

Episode Date: December 1, 2022

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Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoke Podcast. On Thursdays, we do double duty, not just reading our daily meditation, but also reading a passage from the book, The Daily Stokeic, 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living, which I wrote with my wonderful co-author and collaborator, Stephen Hanselman. And so today, we'll give you a quick meditation from one of the Stoics,

from Epictetus Markus, Relius, Seneca, then some analysis for me, and then we send you out into the world to do your best to turn these words into works. Hi, I'm David Brown, the host of Wanderies Podcast Business Wars. And in our new season, Walmart must fight off target, the new discounter that's both savvy and fashion forward. Listen to business wars on Amazon music or wherever you get your podcasts. The only new thing in the world. We live in unprecedented times we like to think. Our technology, our conflicts, the state of the world. It's all very new and it's all very different. But isn't though, Marcus really has lived through a plague which originated in the Far East and also civil unrest.

Cato was a senator and a republic where political dysfunction enabled a strong man to tear apart centuries-old institutions. In 1968, when Stockdale was imprisoned in the Hanoi Hilton, America went through a pandemic and a massive civil rights reckoning. A couple years later, when he was still there, the media was dominated by headlines about special congressional hearings about the alleged election-related crimes of the president. All of this illustrates perfectly a quote from another US president, an avid reader named Harry Truman. There is nothing new in the world except the history you do not know," he said.

It sounds like something Marcus would have said himself, and indeed, the idea might well have been inspired from Truman's own warn and underlined copy of meditations. History is the same thing happening over and over again, Marcus would say, there is no escape from the rhythm of events. There's nothing new in human nature, the only thing that changes are the names we give things. Is that Marcus or Harry Truman? Does it matter? The point stands, human nature doesn't change, gravity doesn't change, the laws of the universe don't change. If you want to understand what's happening today, if you want perspective, so it doesn't crush or overwhelm or surprise you then you need to study the past. All leaders must be readers for

this reason. Truman said, and we're lucky that he was, with the people who follow or depend on you be able to say the same thing. And look, we actually named the Read to Lead Challenge after Truman Truman famously said that not all readers are leaders, but all leaders have to be readers. And if you want to develop a better reading practice, check out the Daily Stoke Reading Challenge at dailystoke.com slash read to lead or the link in today's episode. I'd love to have you join us. Pretend today is the end. This is Senka's moral letters.

This is the first entry, December 1st, from the Daily Stoic. 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living by yours truly and my co-writer and translators, Stephen Hanselman. I actually do this journal every single day. There's a question in the morning, a question in the afternoon, and then there's these sort of weekly meditations. As Epictetus says, every day and night, we keep thoughts like this at hand, write them, read them aloud, and talk to yourself and others about them. You can check out the Daily Stoke Journal,

anywhere books are sold. You can also get a signed personalized copy from me in the Daily Stoke Store. It's store.dailystoke.com. Sena Seneca says, let us prepare our minds as if we'd come to the very end of life. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life's books each day. The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time. Live each day as if it's your last as a cliche. Plenty of people say it, but few actually do it. How reasonable would that be? Surely, Sennaka isn't saying that we forsake laws and considerations to find some orgy to join because the world is ending.

A better analogy would be a soldier about to leave on deployment, not knowing whether they'll return or not. What do they do? They get their affairs in order. They handle their business. They tell their children and their family that they love them. They don't have time for quarreling or petty matters. And then in the morning, they are ready to go, hoping to come back in one piece, but prepared

for the possibility that they might not. Let us live today the same way. This is something that I wrestled with, right? Because I don't think the stokes are saying live as if you will die tomorrow, right? In the sense that live as if it is certain that an asteroid is coming, that a nuclear missile has already been launched, that you're being euthanized in 24 hours. I think it's that that could happen is the way to think about it. You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do in

saying, think, Marcus is saying, you could leave life, not that you will. The fact that you will, that you know, for certain, it does make so many, many, many things, not worth doing and pointless, right? It makes needing to plan for the future, or even thinking about the future to be totally pointless and unnecessary. Obviously, Marcus as a leader, as a ruler, as a parent, made decisions about the future all the time. He had to be. He would have been terrible had he not done that. It's thinking about the possibility accepting the reality that tomorrow is not certain that gives us, I think, the perspective that we need to make better decisions day to day.

If I knew for certain that I wasn't going to live tomorrow, I would stop or even that I knew I wasn't going to be alive ten years from now, I'd stop saving for retirement. I'd make a bunch of different decisions. But I could live into my 70s or 80s and so I plan and save accordingly. I just also knowing that that might not happen. I don't leave things that are important to me, that I want to do, how I want to live. I don't leave that until I retire. I take also as essential, that I have to do the things that are important or interesting or exciting to me now before it's too late. And that is just a really important caveat to this whole Momento Mori thing.

It's not, Momento Mori will nothing matters. It's on the contrary. It's that, Momento Mori, you could leave life right now, so you have to make decisions accordingly. It's a helpful perspective that highlights the meaning of what's important, that highlights what's unimportant, as opposed to rendering everything meaningless or insignificant. We're not dancing because the world is coming to an end. That's to miss the point. And also to put you in a bad spot if it doesn't happen. the point. And also to put you in a bad spot if it doesn't happen. So I just thought, this is an important day. There's a reason this opens the month's meditation on mortality that is December of the daily stoic. It's really making this point because I think it's easy to forget. It's not nihilism. It's not little nothing matters. It's perspective. And the

momentum-mory reminders that I have, whether it's the coin or the ring I've been wearing, you could have lots and lots and lots of bubbles left. But you could also not. And it's the tension between these two things that give us the perspective that we're talking about here. And what I wanted to leave you all with today, can't believe it's December already. I mean, time is just absolutely full. It's December 2022, 2023 is a month away. Seems insane. We'll have the new year, new year challenge coming up.

So stay tuned for that. Also don't stay tuned for that in the sense of if there are changes you want to make, things, improvements you want to make in your life, things you want to do. Do them now. Don't wait a month. Don't wait for New Year's. Do them now. Thanks so much for listening. If you could rate this podcast and leave a review on iTunes, that would mean so much to us and it would really help the show. We appreciate it and I'll see you next episode. Hey, Prime Members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic early and ad-free on Amazon Music, download the Amazon Music app today, or you can listen early and ad-free with Wondery

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