The Daily Stoic - The Top 10 Most Popular Passages From The Daily Stoic

Episode Date: October 18, 2026

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Welcome to the Daily Stoic podcast, designed to help bring those four key stoic virtues, courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom into the real world. Ten years later, this is new again. It seems unbelievable, but it's true. 10 years ago today, we published a book called The Daily Stoic. And the idea was simple. 366 short meditations, one for every. every day of the year, including leap years, that was designed to teach you about Stoicism and then to help you actually practice it. Now, I obviously could not have imagined where the book would go.

If I had, it would have been not just egotistical, but basically insane to predict any of this. Something like 3 million copies have been sold now. It's been translated into 40 languages. And I've heard from athletes and soldiers and CEOs, parents, heads, of state students stay at home parents and everyone in tweet. People keep it on their nightstand, they carry it in their bags, they listen to it on

their commute, they give it to friends, come back to the same pages over and over and over and over and over again, which is why I'm excited to be able to say that 10 years later, we are releasing it again, not with a new cover slapped on it or commemorative forward in front of what is effectively the same text, but no, we went back through it page by page and made the book better. And that might seem like a strange thing to do on a book that's sold so well, but I think it would be stranger if didn't. Because the whole point of stoicism is that you're supposed to keep progressing, keep examining yourself, keep practicing, keep getting a little bit better, keep learning, as Seneca wrote to the end of your life. And I'm not the same person that I

was when I wrote this book 10 years ago. I'm not the same person I was last year. When the Daily Stoic came out, I was 29, newly married, about to become a father. I've learned a little bit in the time sense, right? Raising two boys, opening a bookstore, building businesses, losing mentors, succeeding at some things, failing at many others, living through a pandemic, writing a couple more books, thousands and thousands of these emails and podcasts, spending another 10 years, reading Marcus and Seneca and Epitetus and the other Stoic. So when Steve and I decided to go back through the Daily Stoic, we asked ourselves this question.

If we were making the book today, knowing what we know now, how would we make it better? That's what we did. We revisited the texts. We added something like 60 new translations, give or take, including a bunch of stoaks who weren't in the first edition. We brought in stoic ideas and concepts. We wish we'd included the first time.

We improved the stories and the meditations. we added illustrations and some bonus chapters, we revised entries where, you know, another decades of studying and practicing gave me a better sense of how to actually say what I was trying to say. And I think the Daily Stoic, like basically anything in the Stoic genre, is it meant to be read once.

It's supposed to be something you are reading, not something you're done with. Because maybe a passage that you barely noticed five years ago might be exactly what you need today. something you underlined at 25 could mean something different to you at 35. The words might be the same, but you aren't. I know I'm not.

And so that's what the new 10-year anniversary edition of The Daily Stoic is. It's out in the world, and I'm excited to bring it to you. You know, it's been a crazy ride doing this book, and I feel so grateful to all of you who've made it possible of listen to this podcast

or subscribe to the email or read the book, like I just wouldn't have predicted any of this 10 years ago. I have no idea what the next 10 years will bring. I think Stoicism will still be relevant. You know, we have 2,400 years, give or take of it standing in the test of time. I think that's going to continue. I've changed a lot. The Stoic words, I think, still rang true.

I want to you to present in an even better form in this new addition. You've had the Daily Stoic on your bedside. If you've marked it up, you dog-eared your copies. You've carried it from apartment. to apartment. I wanted to make something that was worth another decade. So that's what the leather edition is about. It's signed, numbered. There's gold foil end pages. It's a special cream paper. There's a cool ribbon in there. And by the way, if you want to sign page from the manuscript of this new edition, I'll send you that to. You can grab all that at dailystoke.com.

slash DS10. And let me get into a little special episode we have for you this weekend. Enjoy. A little over 10 years ago, I sat down to write this book, The Daily Stoic. We didn't know if it would work. We didn't know if people would be interested in it. We didn't know who would be interested in. We certainly didn't predict that it would sell millions of copies, be translated in 40 different languages, that it would influence teams on their way to the Super Bowl, special operators on the way to do dangerous, heroic missions, that it would reach all sorts of people who didn't think philosophy was for them. And maybe didn't even know what Stoicism was. This edition has become this edition, the 10-year anniversary edition. I know because of Goodreads and Kindle and Audible,

which pages people have lingered on the most, which ones they've shared the most. And that's what we're going to talk about in today's episode. I'm going to read to you the 10 most popular sections of the Daily Stoic that have resonated with people all over the world. So let's get into it. May 2nd, be the person you want to be. First, tell yourself what kind of person you want to be, Epictetus famously said, and then do what you have to do. For in nearly every pursuit, we see this to be the case. Those in an athletic pursuit first choose the sport they want, and then they do that work. An archer is unlikely to hit a target she did not aim for. The same goes for you, for all of us, whatever we are after.

You are certain to miss the target if you don't bother to draw back and fire. Our perceptions and our principles guide us in the selection of what we want, but ultimately our actions determine whether we get there or not. So yes, spend some time, real uninterrupted time thinking about what's important to you, what your priorities are. but then work towards that and forsake all the others. It is not enough to wish and hope. One must act and act right.

June 30th, the obstacle is the way. While it's true that someone can impede our actions, Marx really famously says in meditations, they can't impede our intentions or our attitudes, which have the power of being conditional and adaptable. for the mind adapts and converts any obstacle to its action into a means of achieving it. That which is an impediment to action is turned to advance action. The obstacle on the path becomes the way.

Today, things will happen that will be contrary to your plans. If not today, then certainly tomorrow. As a result of these obstacles, you will not be able to do what you planned. This is not as bad as it seems. however, because your mind is infinitely elastic and adaptable. You have the power to use the stoic exercise of turning obstacles upside down. The idea that takes one negative circumstance and uses it as an opportunity to practice an unintended virtue or form of excellence.

Someone hurts you. It's a chance to practice forgiveness. Something is hard. It's a chance to get stronger. Try this line of thinking and see. see whether there is a situation in which one could not find some virtue to practice or derive some benefit. There isn't one. Every impediment can advance action in some form or another. April 16th, observe, cause, and effect. Through the work of the psychologist Albert Ellis,

Stoicism has reached millions of people through what's known as cognitive behavioral therapy or CBT. As a form of therapy, CBT helps patients identify destructive patterns in their thoughts and behavior so they can, over time, direct and influence them in a more positive direction. Of course, Marcus Aurelius had no formal training in psychology, but his words here are as important as any doctors. He's asking you to become an observer of your own thoughts and the actions those thoughts provoke. Where do they come from? What biases do they contain? Are they constructive or destructive? Do they cause you to make mistakes or engage in behavior you later reject? Look for patterns find where cause meets effect.

Only when this is done can negative behavioral patterns be broken. Only then can real life improvements be made. December 15th, a simple way to measure our days. The Stoics didn't think anyone could be perfect. The idea of becoming a sage, the highest aspiration of a philosopher, for wasn't realistic. This was just their platonic ideal. Still, they started every day hoping to get a little bit closer to that mark, to do a little better than yesterday. There was much to gain in the trying, they thought. Can you actually live today like it is your last? Is it even possible to embody

completeness or perfection in our ethos? That is our character? Effortlessly doing the right thing for a full 24 hours? Is it even possible for more than a minute? Maybe not. But if trying was enough for the Stoics, it should be enough for us too. June 7th, finding the right mentors. Seneca's great line was that we don't get to choose our parents, but we do get to choose whose children we are going to be. We are fortunate that some of the greatest men and women in history have recorded their wisdom, folly in books and journals. Many others have had their lives chronicled by a careful biographer, from Plutarch to Boswell to Robert Caro. The literature available at your average library amounts to millions of pages and thousands of years of knowledge and insight and experience. Maybe your parents

were poor role models, or you lacked a great mentor. Yet if we choose to, we can easily access the wisdom of those who came before us. who we aspire to be like. Zeno, the founder of Stoicism, did both. He had conversations with the debt, meaning he read the classic text. And he also had a great teacher, Cretes, who is known in Athens as the door opener, which all great teachers are. Whoever we are lucky or unlucky enough to be born to is just the beginning of who we can learn from, who we can emulate and be led by. 21st, made for working together. Marcus Surrealis was the emperor of Rome.

He didn't have to get up early. He didn't have to get up and do anything. In fact, plenty of the emperors didn't. That's what makes it so remarkable that in 8-12 of meditations, he says, whenever you have trouble getting up in the morning, remind yourself that you've been made by nature for the purpose of working with others. Whereas even unthinking animals share sleeping, he says, it's our own natural purpose that it's more fitting and more satisfying.

If a dog spends all day in bed, your bed, most likely, that's fine. It's just being a dog. It doesn't have anywhere to be, has no other obligations than being itself. According to the Stoics, though, we humans have a higher obligation, not to the gods, but to each other. What gets us out of bed each morning, even if we sometimes fight it like Marcus, sometimes to is to render works held in common. Civilization and country are great projects we build together and have been building together with our ancestors for millennia.

We are made for cooperation, synergy with each other. So if you need some extra boost to get out of bed this morning, if you need something more than caffeine can offer, use this. People are dependent on you. Your purpose is to help us render this great, work together, and we are waiting and excited for you to show up. June 21st, take a walk. Seneca believed that every person should take wandering outdoor walks.

He said that so the mind might be nourished and refreshed by the open air and deep breathing. In a notoriously loud city like Rome, it was impossible to get much peace and quiet. The noises of wagons, the shouting of vendors, the hammering of a blacksmith, all this noise filled the streets with piercing violence, to say nothing of the putrid smells of a city with poor sewage and sanitation. So philosophers went on a lot of walks to get where they needed to go, to clear their head to get fresh air. Throughout the ages, philosophers, writers, poets, and thinkers

have found that walking offers in additional, benefit, time and space for better work. As Nietzsche would later say, it is only ideas gained from walking that have any worth. Today, make sure that you take a walk. And in the future, when you get stressed or overwhelmed, take a walk. When you have some tough problem to solve or a decision to make, take a walk. When you want to be creative, take a walk. When you need to get some air, take a walk. When you have a phone call to make, take a walk. When you need to make, take a walk. When you some exercise, take a long walk, nourish yourself and your mind, solve your problems along the way. May 5th, you are the project.

Professionals don't have to justify spending time training or practicing their work. It's what they do, and practice is how they get good at it. The raw materials vary from career to career just as the locations and the duration vary depending on the person and the profession. But the one constant is the working of those materials. materials, the gradual improvements and proficiency. According to the Stoics, your mind is the asset that must be worked on most and understood best. While we are making things in the world, we are also making ourselves. For the Stoics, we are both artisans and artifacts.

Are you putting in the hours? December 18th, what comes to us all. Both Alexander the Great and his mule driver, Marks really, writes in meditations, were brought to the same place by death. They were either received into the all generative reason or scattered among the atoms. There aren't many truly egalitarian experiences left. When Benjamin Franklin observed that in this world, nothing can be said to be certain except death and taxes. Couldn't have known how good some people would get at avoiding their taxes. But death? That's still the one thing that everyone

experiences. We all face the same end. Whether you conquer the known world or shine the shoes the people who do. At the end, death will be a radical equalizer, a lesson in abject humility. The next time you feel yourself getting high and mighty, or conversely feeling low or inferior, just remember, we all end up the same way. In death, no one is better, no one is worse. All are have the same finale. November 1st, accepting what is. Something happened that we wish had not. What's easier to change?

Our opinion or the event that is passed? The answer is obvious. Accept what happened and change your wish that it had not happened. Stoicism calls this the art of acquiescence to accept rather than fight every little thing. And the most practiced Stoics take it a step further. Instead of simply accepting what happens, they urge us to actually enjoy what has happened, whatever it is. Nietzsche, many centuries later, coined the perfect expression to capture this idea.

Amor Fati, a love of fate. It's not just accepting, it's loving everything that happens. To wish for what has happened to happen is a common. clever way to avoid disappointment because nothing is contrary to your desires. To actually feel gratitude for what happens to love it, that is a recipe for happiness and joy. Thanks for watching. This is the new edition of the book. You can check it out. If you want a signed numbered first edition, you can grab that from the link below or at dailystoke.com slash ds10.