The Daily Stoic - The Whiplash is Your Fault
Episode Date: September 14, 2021Ryan discusses how much control you have over your response, on today’s Daily Stoic Podcast.Pre-orders are available for Ryan Holiday’s new book Courage Is Calling: Fortune Favors Th...e Brave - check it out at https://dailystoic.com/preorderSign up for the Daily Stoic email: http://DailyStoic.com/emailFollow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, and FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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The Whiplash is your fault.
It felt like things were heading in the right direction, like things were finally getting
better.
Not just right now with the pandemic or the political situation, but on so many other occasions in our lives,
when we went through what we thought was the hardest part of a situation and figured that
of course we over soon, that of course things would go back to normal to the way that they
used to be.
Did that happen?
Does that ever happen?
No, it does not. James Stockdale was one's
asked, who struggled the most in the famous Hanway Hilton? Oh, that's easy, he said. It was
the optimists. Dr. Edith Inger, on the Daily Stooded Podcast with me, talked about a
campmate in Auschwitz who was convinced they'd be rescued by Christmas.
On that day when the liberation did not come, her friend died of a broken heart.
The situation that we're in right now, it's not our fault.
We didn't cause the pandemic.
We didn't ask for this miserable period at work.
We're not the ones who prescribed six to eight weeks of recovery for the injury that
was a freak accident. And nor is it our fault if this drags on longer than predicted or something else
happens on top of what has already occurred. But, Aesthetic doesn't make things worse with optimism.
That is, fixate on conditional hopes about things that are outside of our control.
Instead, we settle in.
We are comfortable with this comfort.
We make the most of this moment in front of us.
That's a lifetime or dead time.
We don't complain.
We don't fool ourselves with mirages or wishful thinking because to do otherwise would
be to add whiplash and disappointment on top of our
trouble. And the last thing we need in times of difficulty is a bowed head and a
stopped neck which prevent us from seeing what's coming next around the corner.
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