The Daily Stoic - There Will Always Be People Who Don’t Get It | Hasan Minhaj Tests Ryan Holiday’s Stoic Knowledge

Episode Date: March 25, 2026

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It's about saying what needs to be said. It's about being who you feel you need to be. So if you're waiting for your friends to understand you, if you're holding back until you get approval from family members or colleagues, if you hope 100% of your audience is going to be on board, you're waiting for something that may never come. Do what you believe is right. Do what you believe is just.

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Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoke podcast. Okay, so in the fall, I went and I did something in New York. And I posted about it on Instagram or something. And I got a text from Hassan Minaj who said, hey, why didn't you tell me you were in town? We should have linked up. And I said, I didn't tell you, I was in town for two reasons. One, I thought you lived in like Connecticut. And two, I just didn't think you would want to hang out with me. And he said, no, no, no. First off, I have an office in a studio in New York. And I would love to see you tell me when you're going to be in New York next. And we'll do the podcast and we'll get to together. And I was like, sweet, that's amazing. Asan Minaj and I, first of all, I'm a huge fan of

his comedy, but we had very different yet also very similar childhoods. We both grew up in Northern California, although when people think Northern California, they don't think Sacramento or Davis. But that is Northern California. And it's a very, well, Joan Didion was right when she called it the Midwest of California. Anyways, I've gotten to know him. We could, we got connected, I think, over something with the Sacramento Kings. He's a Kings fan. I'm a Kings fan. I love his comedy. He'd read some of the books. Anyways, he did have me come out to the studio, and we had a really awesome conversation. I want to bring you a little chunk of that. If you don't listen to his podcast, Hassan Minaj doesn't know is hilarious. It's produced by Lemonata Media.

You can watch it on YouTube. You've almost certainly seen a million of the clips. He's hilarious. and actually does a really great interview, and I thought I'd bring you a little chunk of that. Go listen to the whole episode. I'll link to that. But in the meantime, here's me talking with my friend, who I'm glad that I told I was in town. So we're going to play a simple game.

I'm going to read you a quote from one of these 12 philosophers. You tell me who said it. Okay. However, there is a catch. Some of these are from Kanye West. So will I know it by the virulent anti-Semitism? I mean, you're going to have to navigate this yourself. Are you ready?

Yes. Okay. Let's go with number one. The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts. Marks really? Classic. If a man knows not to which port he sails, no wind is favorable. Seneca.

We suffer more in imagination than in reality. Giving up is harder than trying. That sounds like Kanye. Kanye West. Our worker's never done. Kanye? Kanye, correct. The fates guide the willing.

and drag the unwilling. Ooh, Cleanthes. If you accomplish something good with hard work, the labor passes quickly, but the good endures. Musonius Rufus. Oh, my God. I am a Nazi. Ah, ooh.

Hmm. Just really, really think about this one. Yeah, that sounds like, Kanye? Guyana. Why did stoicism speak to you at a particular period of time in your life? I think it spoke to me for the reason it speaks to a lot of young men,

which is, you know, how to live a good life, but also an interesting life of how to deal with setbacks and how to be resilient, how to sort of take these feelings and this energy inside you and direct it properly. That's not what they talk about in school. And it's not even really what they talk about in church anymore, right? And so stoicism or ancient philosophy as a framework for living, a way to design your life, I think that it was addressing a big hole in my upbringing. And I think that's historically what, like, imagine.

But what was happening in your life that you didn't get from dad, coaches, the church, cousins, teachers, and more. So both me and Ryan were NorCal kids. Yes. So what was not happening at Granite Bay that needed to be filled here? Because by the way, you know, dad didn't hug me that part of the algorithm. That is, that's catnip to me. Yeah, yeah.

And I wouldn't say my dad never. hugged me. But like, I wasn't getting that sort of guidance about like, this is how to be a man. This is how to be a person. This is like, this is what we do. This is what we don't do. There's just kind of this assumption that you'll like, you'll pick it up as you go. You know, there isn't, there isn't like a tradition. There's no, you know, like, there's no sort of, this is the coming of age thing. This is what we do when, you know, you turn 13 in our culture, right? There wasn't any of that. And so I think, You went to church, right?

I did. I grew up Catholic until we moved across town. So you have Mass. You have... The church was too far away. Okay. But were you baptized and all that stuff? I'm a confirmed Catholic.

So I do think Stoicism resonated in a way because the teachings of Stoicism and Catholicism are pretty... They share the same cardinal virtues. Like, cardinal comes from the Latin cardos, which means pivotal. And so courage, discipline, justice, wisdom. Those are the virtues that Zeno lays down in the four-sense. century BC that also, you know, are inscribed in every Catholic Church. And what was it about specifically those teachings that resonated with you more than, say, Old Testament, New Testament, that stuff, because a lot of this stuff predates the Bible.

Yeah. I mean, what I think is interesting about the Stoics and a lot of philosophy, is they're making a rational argument. They're not saying, hey, do this or don't do this, or you'll end up in hell. I think fundamentally Stoicism is saying, like, don't do this because your life will be a form of hell, right? Like, to not be in control of yourself. Like the quote you mentioned from Musonis Rufus, he says, you know, if you do something easy in the pursuit of pleasure, the pleasure goes by quickly, but the shame endures.

And then he says, but if you do something hard in pursuit of something good, the labor passes quickly, but the good endures. That is, I think, that overlaps with the sort of Christian teachings. But nowhere are they saying, like, also God will be mad at you. You know, like, also you will rot in hell. What they're trying to do is, are you saying basically, it grapples with physical reality on earth as we see it, feel it, and experience it? Yeah, I think it's making a relatively rational argument, a logical argument for why some things are good and some things are bad.

How do you think it's so popular right now with Titans of Industry? You'll hear that Bill Clinton loves meditations. He'll read it every year. He revisits it. That's not new. I mean, first off, Stoicism was popular in the ancient world with the quote unquote elites, right? This is what you would send your son or daughter. Mousonius Rufus writes this fascinating essay, you know, 2,000 years ago about how the question is, should women be taught philosophy? And then the other essay is like, is virtue the same in a man as in a woman? And his argument, is he writing New York Times op-eds? Yes, yes, hot takes. But he's saying, yeah, ultimately like virtue is virtue. It doesn't know gender. So like the Stoics are grappling with sadly some of the same things we're still

grappling with today. But but the argument then was like this is what you want to teach young people so they can grow up to be not just good people but contributors and leaders in society. Yeah. So I think it's sort of relevance with those people today shouldn't surprise us. I think it's more interesting that your sort of regular folks are interested in it. And that probably says something about what a train wreck the world is right now like stoicism is not resurgent and popular because everything's amazing and going super well right perhaps a guidebook or a handbook to the craziness that people are experiencing their data that last yeah like cato's in the the fall of the roman republic marcus realis is in the decline in fall of the roman empire zeno is is there you know when the sort

of world created by alexander the grate is falling apart so you know it's popular again you know in the Renaissance, the Enlightenment, the age of revolutions, you know, the American Civil War. It's popular when shit feels like it's coming apart. So stoicism, from what I understand, is not a partisan philosophy. But it most recently has been hijacked by different partisan groups. And I wanted to talk to you about that. Because you're someone who is tried to research stoicism, dare I say stoically. You know, like, hey, let me be cool, calm and collected and write about what. what these men were teaching. And you're a big reason why stoicism became so popular.

But there's also been a huge rise of what I call broicism. Yes. The Manosphere loves this shit. If you just go to Twitter right now and you type in any of these names from the quiz, oh my God. Yeah. The accounts that are reposting them, you know, I don't know if they're people that I would want to be like per se.

Which is weird because when I went to my publisher in 2012 and I was like, hey, I want to write about this obscure school of ancient philosophy. Yeah, yeah. They were not like, oh, that'll crush it with, dudes. Like, this is all an interesting turn of events. For you. For me, too. Really? I mean, I mean, I understood and thought it could be popular, but I didn't think that it would be this enormous thing. You didn't think nerdy tech titans wouldn't read this stuff and be like, I could be Gerard Butler in 300. There is something about that idea of like... I mean,

the Roman Empire for most dudes is the Roman Empire. But Ryan, now it's Michael Jordan, last shot, Marcus Aurelius quote. Kobe Bryant final game, Marcus Aurelius quote. Like this is now a cottage industry. But it's something you talk about in the new book. And I'd love to ask you, what is the main difference between stoicism and broicism, in your opinion? There seems to be this tendency to look at the cardinal virtues of stoicism, which are courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom. And be like, I don't have to bother with the third one, right?

Like, I like courage. That's cool. I like self-discipline. I like moderation. I like resilience. And then obviously, you know, reading and learning and being smart, that's all cool. But you're telling me that I have to ascribe to a certain, you know, list of ethics that I have to give a shit about other human beings. I don't, I don't like that. And I get it. I mean, my primary and initial interest in Stoicism is like, what can it do for me? Right? Like, how can it make me better, stronger, faster, smarter? I get it. That's, when you're 19, that's what's going to be interesting to you.

But like, the thing Marcus Reelis talks about most in meditations, like the phrase that appears the most is not, you know, like destroying your enemies or, you know, mastering your emotions or, you know, being super productive. He uses the Greek phrase, he's writing in Greek, but the phrase for the common good, which he refers to 80 times in meditation. So it was inherently a philosophy about our obligated, and our responsibility to and with other people. And so broicism to me is stoicism

when you remove any of the moral elements. So it's this recipe for being a better sociopath and in some cases I think being a better psychopath. And that's, you know, whatever Pete Heggseth thinks stoicism is is not what I'm about. Sure. I don't know if you've seen Bobby Kennedy Jr. He was banging out pull-ups with Mr. Duffy, just like, hey, this is how.

we're gonna fix infrastructure in this country. Sure. This is how we make people healthy again. Sure. You need bang out 20 pull-ups right now. Yes. And there's a lot of people that go, you know what, Marcus Aurelius was a dictator though.

Sure. At night he writes in his journal, waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be, B1. But the next morning he's just out here butchering people, and I'm sure denying them basic human rights and or democratic rights. This is where, you know, studying the past requires

putting on your sort of big boy pants, you know, there's a Jeffersonian element to it. Sure. Like, all men are created equal is a beautiful sentence that he didn't fully believe. Yeah. But we can take it literally and we can sort of try to get a little bit closer to it. Like there is, there's a passage in the beginning of meditations where Marksruz thanks one of his friends for introducing him to Stoicism.

And he says, you know, he's like for introducing me to Helvidius and Cassius and all these different Stoics. And he says, because the Stoics conceived of, you know, a world of equal rights and personal liberty, where rulers respect the rights of their subjects. And he's describing a beautiful world, which the Roman Empire was not remotely like. But that idea, again, it's Jeffersonian in another way, that is the world that inspires the founders two thousand years later to take a big step towards getting to the idea. deals of the Roman Republic and the sort of classical virtue. So they're certainly not perfect. And we could list the innumerable flaws of the Stoics. And I have no problem, I have no problem

holding Seneca both up as a inspiring heroic figure and a tragic, disgusting hypocrite. And I think that's perfectly acceptable to do. Hey, it's Ryan. Thank you for listening to The Daily Stoag podcast. I just wanted to say we so appreciate it. We love serving you. It's amazing to us that over 30 million people have downloaded these episodes in the couple of years we've been doing it. It's an honor. Please spread the word, tell people about it, and this isn't to sell anything. I just wanted to say thank you.