The Daily Stoic - These Are No Good To You

Episode Date: December 18, 2024

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Why don't you challenge yourself right now to stop procrastinating and do it. And I will see you in there. and do it and I will see you in there. These are no good to you. The thing you're about to do is scary. It can be hard to be up there in front of people on stage. It's terrifying to step out onto a battlefield or rush into a dangerous situation.

Of course you're nervous. It's normal that you would be, but normal? Normal is not what leads to elite performance. On the set of Gladiator 2, Paul Muskao felt exactly those kinds of nerves. He was starring in a $210 million movie after all. A sequel to a movie that won five Academy Awards. You nervous? Ridley Scott, the director, asked him on the first day of shooting and when he answered in the affirmative Scott looked at him and said, Your nerves are no fucking good to me. And then he walked out on to set. Stoicism is a philosophy of nerve control. The first two virtues, courage and discipline, are all about this. We're gonna face scary situations in life. Our

mind can be our friend in these situations or our worst enemy. We can use it to calm ourselves down, to master our emotions, or we can allow it to stir us up, to drive us crazy, to paralyze us. Anxiety, worry, doubt, imposter syndrome, these things are no good to you. You must put these impressions to the test. Master them so they won't master you so that you can do what you need to do. And speaking of gladiator, the new movie is really good. I have no tie or stake in it. I wish I did. I wish they'd brought me on as a consultant or something. But we have a great video that we did over on the Daily Stoke YouTube channel about the first gladiator where I dive into the opening scene of that movie. I'm gonna play it for you now.

Here's this, I think you'll like it. There's a man walking through a field. The stalks of grain are bending low under their weight. The wind is blowing softly on, seems like a cold day. He sees a small bird land on a branch. Then the bird takes flight and he follows it with his eyes, smiling at the beauty of what

the Stokes would call nature's inadvertence. And then the man turns and you see that actually this isn't such a beautiful and pretty scene. That he's surrounded not just by mud, but by all the signs of war. Calvary is getting ready. Men are marching behind sharp palisades, checking their shields and their swords. They're about to do terrible damage to each other. There will be ceaseless, ferocious violence and death. This is, as you know, the opening scene of the movie Gladiator. Russell Crowe is preparing for a fictionalized version of the macro-manic wars,

the wars that Marcus Aurelius does in fact wage on the far-flung borders of the Roman Empire. Actually, this is Ridley Scott and Russell Crowe, and they've talked about this scene before. This is kind of an unscripted, improvised moment between the director and the actor in the earliest days of shooting, and they realize that they have this incredible connection

and they're gonna do something magical together. I'm pretty sure I did every single thing he asked and I put little strokes of color on certain things and then I brought the attention back to the battlefield and he just came up to me and go, you and me are gonna be fucking great together. But it's also through Maximus, an embodiment of a really key,

but easy to miss stoic lesson. In the midst of darkness and death and the worst things that human beings can do to each other, humans also have the ability to see light and beauty and feel wonder and majesty. Epictetus would say that every situation has two handles. We choose which one we're gonna grab. We also get to choose the angle, not unlike a director,

that we look at a specific scene at, right? Maximus's gaze, how he's thinking, how he's looking, by framing it one way, he sees all the good, and then he zooms out slightly and he's able to see all the not so good. Which is an exercise that we humans can do, whatever is happening in the world, whether it's the middle of a pandemic

or political polarization or your own impending divorce or bankruptcy or health crisis. You choose how you're going to look at this. The Stoics say that our life is dyed by the color of our thoughts. How we choose to look, the perception, the lens with which we look at the world shapes how we're going to see it and how we're going to feel as a

result of it. The perspective that we take on life is everything. It's the most important thing and we miss this power all the time just as many of you have probably seen this scene in Gladier and not noticed the subtext of what's happening, the stoic message that's underneath it. We have to really look. We have to hone our senses. And Marcus Aurelius' life is the quintessential example of this. Again, this is a life with a plague. This is a life where he buried multiple children, where he was betrayed, where there were natural disasters. There was one thing after another. And yet what you find in meditations, is there a certain amount of world-weariness? Is this a certain amount of darkness?

Is there a certain amount of depressiveness? Yeah, sure, and people have noted that for a long time. But you also can't read meditations and not see Marcus Aurelius' zest for life, his poet's eye, his gratitude, his perception about how lucky he is, about how wonderful life can be. And this is the power that we all have, an edge that the Stoic is trying to hone always. We should remember that in almost every way Marcus Aurelius's times were worse than ours are now,

more stressful than ours are now, darker than ours are now. We should choose to see all the positivity and beauty and change and progress and take solace and inspiration in the fact that if he was able to find good and things to be excited about and things to get out of bed for in the morning, then certainly we can too. If you like The Daily Stoic and thanks for listening,

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