The Daily Stoic - This Is The Most Important Virtue | A Hard Winter Training
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Courage is a pretty obvious choice for being the most important of the foretoe of virtues.
It was Aristotle who said that courage was the mother of all the rest.
In a world that's not virtuous, in a world that's scary, in a world that's difficult,
it takes courage to go out there and do what needs to be done.
Self-discipline is another obvious choice because, well, you can't do anything without it.
And as Aristotle pointed out, courage that isn't checked by temperance,
quite easily veers into recklessness.
And yet, Marcus Aurelius himself said that justice was the source of all the other virtues.
As Stoics were clear, the point of philosophy, the point of life, is to direct a person towards doing what's right.
Courage and service of injustice, discipline aimed at selfish ends, that's not what Marcus or Epictetus or Zeno would have called the good life.
But the fact that you can argue for any of these three as the most important virtue,
as I myself have done, hey, it's Ryan here, I did this when I announced courage's calling.
I said courage was the most important. And when discipline is destiny was coming out,
I said discipline is the most important. And when right thing right now came out, I said justice was
the most important virtue because it guides and balances the others. But it is in fact wisdom
that is the most important virtue. Because what situations call for courage? When is discretion
the better part of valor? When do we know to push ourselves harder or hold back
from overdoing it. What's the right thing to do? And how do we even do it? Courage and discipline and
justice, they all descend first from knowing what's what. That is to say, wisdom. It's wisdom that
gives us perspective, uncovers truth, shows us how the world works, and guides us where to go.
And it's this critical and all too rare ability. Discernment is not something anyone is born with.
and yet all the virtues are born from it.
Wisdom is cultivated.
Wisdom is earned.
It is essential.
And there is no one or no thing that can give you this wisdom.
No, wisdom is cultivated.
Wisdom is earned.
And it's earned with a timeless methodology.
The methodology that the Stoics used,
a methodology that remains available to us now.
And this is why we say that wisdom takes work.
That's the fourth and final book in the Stoic Virtue series
that I have been working on myself now for the last six years.
My argument is that wisdom is a byproduct of doing the right thing
and the right way at the right time over the course of your life.
It's mentorship, it's teachers, it's reading, its experiences, it's travel,
it's all these things and more.
And my goal in writing wisdom takes work was to not only show,
that wisdom, but to show you what it looks like in practice. And to remind us, of course,
that nobody gets their wisdom for free. As Seneca says, no man was ever wise by chance.
And, you know, I've loved getting to do this work myself, getting to write these emails to you
over the last nine years. If you've gotten anything out of them, it would mean so much to me.
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A hard winter training. The art of living has three levels of discipline, study, practice,
and hard training. Reading the Stoics are listening to them, that's study, trying out the lessons
and reflecting on them in a journal, the friend, that's practice.
What's left, though, is hard training.
Epictetus liked to use the analogy of the Roman Army's practice of training hard in the off months of winter
so that they could be prepared to meet any challenge when they return to battle in the spring.
Seneca would spend time each month exposing himself to tougher than usual conditions.
He too used a military analogy, pointing to the way that soldiers are tasked with hard jobs
so they could be strong when the enemy eventually came.
So what are you doing in your life
to push yourself beyond mere study and practice?
And this is from this week's entry in the Daily Stoic Journal,
366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living by yours truly
and my co-writer and translator Stephen Hanselman.
I actually do this journal every single day.
There's a question in the morning, a question in the afternoon,
then there's these sort of weekly meditations.
As Epictetus says, every day and night, we keep thoughts like this at hand, write them, read them aloud, and talk to yourself and others about them.
You can check out the Daily Stoak Journal anywhere books are sold.
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This idea of keeping the thoughts at hand really ties into this week's entry.
We've got two quotes from Epictetus and one from Seneca.
We must undergo a hard winter training and not rush into things for which we haven't prepared.
that's Epictetus in his discourses. Here's Seneca in Moral Letters 18. Here's a lesson to test your mind's metal. Take part of the week in which you have only the most meager and cheap food, dress scantily and shabby clothes, and ask yourself, this is really the worst you feared. It is when times are good that you should gird yourself for tougher times ahead. For when fortune is kind, the soul can build up defenses against her ravages. So it is that the soldiers practice maneuvers in peacetime, erecting bunkers with no enemies in sight,
and exhausting themselves under no attack so that when it comes, they won't grow tired.
And then finally, Epictetus says,
when a challenge confronts you, remember that God is matching you with a younger sparring partner,
as would a physical trainer.
Why?
Because becoming an Olympian takes sweat.
I think that no one has a better challenge than yours.
If only you would use it like an athlete would use a younger sparring partner.
So a couple things here.
one, I sometimes get this question, should I seek out adversity? If adversity is such a good
teacher, should I seek it out? I say, look, for the most part, life is going to give us most
of the training we need. Life's going to throw most of the adversity we need at us. So you don't
need to go like getting yourself into trouble so you can know what a prison cell feels like, right?
I don't think that's really what it is. As Epictetus is saying, look, instead of bemoaning the
adversity when you do feel it, go like, hey, this is good. This is training I needed. I'm
going to use this. So I think about that way. How are you, though, actively engaged in training that
makes you stronger, more mentally tough, more physically tough? So to me, this is where like a strong
physical practice comes in. It's also where getting up early, maybe intermittent fasting, maybe cold
showers, but mostly working out, because I love working out, but still every time I have to
convince myself to do it, right? I love running. It's almost painful not to run, but there's still
lots of days when I don't want to do it and still be easier to go slower. I have to push myself
every single time. But every time I do it, I get better at pushing myself, right? I usually do
some sort of weight training about four days a week as well. And so that is much less fun for me.
And I really do have to push myself to do it. And that training, though, the act of pushing myself
to do something that I'm uncomfortable with that's not fun that challenges me, this doesn't just make me
stronger and more fit and better at chasing my kids around the house. What it really does
is make me better at overriding that impulse that I don't want to do something because it's hard
or that I'm afraid or that it's going to be exhausting. And you think I don't wake up so many days
and I don't feel it. I don't want to do it. It's hard. What if I phone it in today? Is anyone
really watching? Will anyone know? Well, I've trained for exactly that kind of insidious opponent
as Stephen Pressville talks about, I know the resistance well, I have built up a lot of muscles
that make me stronger than the resistance, and that's where this training comes in. And I think
that's a metaphor for all forms of adversity, difficulty, resistance, weakness in life. And so I hope
you have some sort of active practice. Use the adversity, train against it when it's there,
but also build some active daily practices or weekly practices in your life as well.
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