The Daily Stoic - This Is Who We Have To Be | A Garden Is Not For Show

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Starting point is 00:03:49 here but quote today is from epicetus's discourses four eight he says first practice not letting people know who you are keep your philosophy to yourself for a bit in just the manner that fruit is produced the seed buried for a season hidden growing gradually so that it may come for full maturity but if the grain sprouts before the stock is fully developed it will never ripen that's the kind of plant you are displaying fruit too soon and the winter will kill you You know, after you listen to this podcast for a while or follow us on Instagram, it might be tempting to say, oh, this is great, I get it, I'm a stoic, I've always been that way. But it's not that easy. Just because you agree with the philosophy doesn't mean the roots have fully taken hold. Fooling around with books so you can sound smart or have an intimidating library is like tending a garden to impress your neighbors.

Starting point is 00:04:46 Growing one to feed someone, that's a pure and profitable use of your time. The seeds of stoicism are long underground. do the work required to nurture and tend to them so that they and you are prepared and sturdy for the hard winters of life. The idea is not that we get credit for working on a book, that we get credit for doing this or that. It's that we are actually doing it. Right? The doing is important. And I deeply believe this, that talking and doing fight for the same resources. And you have to cultivate a willingness to be misunderstood, to be not fully appreciated, to just be like, I'm working on my stuff, man, I'm developing.

Starting point is 00:05:32 I don't need your approval. I don't need your recognition. Nobody likes it when they're not appreciated. When they don't get a thank you, they don't get credit. But it's like that scene in Mad Men where Peggy's complaining that Don doesn't appreciate her. He never says thank you. And he goes, that's what the money is for. But the reality is sometimes the money's not there.

Starting point is 00:05:52 either. And this is why the Stoics talk about not asking for the third thing. Mark Shrewis says, you've done something good and someone has benefited from it. That's the whole exchange. He says, don't ask for the third thing on top. Recognition, credit, the thank you, because it's not coming and it shouldn't have been why you did it in the first place. He says, you've done well and someone else has benefited from it. It says, why like a fool, do you expect the third thing for someone to thank you for it or to do a favor for you in return. That's not why you did it. And look, the basis of Stoicism is let's focus on what we control. We control the act. We don't control the outcome of the act, the recognition of the act, the appreciation of the act. And we're setting

Starting point is 00:06:35 ourselves up for disappointment, frustration, and resentment. We don't control what other people do. We don't control the thank you. We don't control whether they appreciate it. We don't control whether they even notice it. Epicetus also says, you know, if you want to improve, be content to be misunderstood and unappreciated, be content to be foolish. Say, I don't know about that. You know, he means to not talk about being a stoic, not to identify with being a stoic, but to quietly work on being one, to quietly get to work on that project, to put in the hours, to put your butt where it should be, do the work, leave the recognition, the understanding, the appreciation to someone or something else. That's not why you're doing it. That's not what's

Starting point is 00:07:18 motivating you. That's not what is important. So I'm going to leave you here today, let you get after it, get to work, turn this off, go after it, make some progress. Hey, it's Ryan. Thank you for listening to the Daily Stoag podcast. I just wanted to say we so appreciate it. We love serving you. It's amazing to that over 30 million people have downloaded these episodes in the couple years we've been doing it. It's an honor. Please spread the word, tell people about it, and this isn't to sell anything. I just wanted to say thank you. are annoying. They are to be avoided, if at all possible. I understand as a content creator why they need to exist. That's why I don't begrudge them when they appear on the shows that I listen

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The Daily Stoic - This Is Who We Have To Be | A Garden Is Not For Show

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