The Daily Stoic - This Says So Much About You
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This says so much
about you.
It seems like a rather small thing to
clinch such an enormous position. But it's a true story, one I tell in right thing right now.
Hadrian decided that he could trust Antoninus with absolute power, a man he had no blood relation to,
after watching Antoninus, who had no idea anyone was looking, carefully and respectfully guide
his ailing father-in-law up a flight of stairs. Why would this have meant so much to the emperor of
Rome, perhaps because Rome's founding myth celebrated this exact behavior. Captured in countless statues
and paintings and mosaics, but best rendered in Virgil's the Aeneid, generations of Romans were told
the story of Aeneas, the founder of Rome fleeing Troy with his enfeebled father in his arms. For all
Rome's obsession with power, it was this beautiful act of compassion that Rome sought to memorialize. So we can
imagine when Hadrian saw Antoninus helping his own father-in-law, he must have thought
this is a man after Rome's own heart. It was a minor moment, but a revealing one. It was a
glimpse into Antoninus's character, as is the way we treat our own elders. It says something
about a person and their society when the old are mistreated, when people who have served their
country or a company are discarded after they've passed their prime. That was a disturbing part of
the pandemic when people tried to shrug it off as something that was only risky to old people,
as if we don't have an obligation to our parents and grandparents. This is the disturbing part about
people who talk about getting rid of the social safety matter, try to cut benefits to pensioners
and retirees. We are how we treat the vulnerable. We are how we treat the people who can't do much
for us anymore. We are who we take care of. And Neas understood this, and so did Antoninus and
Hadrian. So did Marcus Aurelius, who spent close to two decades learning from and helping Antoninus,
never seeing him as a rival or as some old person in his way, but someone with wisdom and
experience he could benefit from.