The Daily Stoic - What Are You Waiting For? | 10 Timeless Meditations From Stoic Philosophy

Episode Date: December 31, 2024

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to the daily Stoic early and ad free right now. Just join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple podcasts. So for this tour I was just doing in Europe, we had I think four days in London and I was with my kids, my wife and my in-laws. So we knew we didn't want to stay in a hotel. We'd spend a fortune. We'd be cramped. So we booked an Airbnb and it was awesome. As it happens, the Airbnb we stayed in was like this super historic building. I think it was where like the first meeting of the Red Cross or the Salvation Army ever was. It was awesome. That's why I love staying in Airbnbs.

To stay in a cool place, you get a sense of what the place is actually like. You're coming home to your house, not to the lobby of a hotel every night. It just made it easier to coordinate everything and get a sense of what the city is like. When I spent last summer in LA, we used an Airbnb also. So you may have read something that I wrote while staying in an Airbnb. Airbnb has the flexibility in size and location that work for your family and you can always find awesome stuff. You click on guest favorites to narrow your search down. Travel is always stressful. It's always hard to be away from home, but if you're gonna do it, do it right. And that's why you should check out Airbnb.

Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we read a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you in your everyday life. On Tuesdays, we take a closer look at these stoic ideas, how we can apply them in our actual lives. Thanks for listening, and I hope you enjoy. What are you waiting for? And by the way, today is the last day to sign up

for the Daily Stoic New Year New You Challenge, DailyStoic.com slash challenge. Let's get into it. This is that weird time of year that sneaks up on us. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it.

And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. And I hope you enjoy it. is the last day to sign up for the Daily Stoic New Year New You Challenge, dailystoic.com slash challenge. But let's get into it. This is that weird time of year that sneaks up on us.

We knew that last year was winding down. We knew that the date was coming, and then suddenly it's here, the last day of 2024. Faced with a calendar turning over, we suddenly have to get serious about the vague plans we had for next year. Because that year is almost here. Those resolutions we were thinking about, that we'd been kicking around, the things we were going to start, the habits we were going to quit, all our runway has run out. Now we have to decide, will we commit to them? Will we make a serious go of it in 2025? We're not. It's kind of mind-blowing to think of how many of us are coming

simultaneously to this same crossroads, the kind that Hercules came to thousands of years ago in the hills of Greece, the one that inspired Zeno to start Stoicism. Across the globe millions of people simultaneously decide to embrace change, to get in shape, to start that big project, to be more present for their families, to give back, to finally read those books gathering dust on their shelves. Or they'll tell themselves it's just another day. They tell themselves that they'll start when they get back to the office. They are already deferring, making excuses, choosing the easy way, the betrayal of self that Hercules knew he could not make. You don't love yourself enough, Marcus Aurelius writes in Meditations as he

worked on a habit that you might be thinking of starting this year. I was talking about waking up early. Or you love your nature too, he says, and what it demands of you. So here you are today staring down the barrel of another year. The truth is the best time to demand more of yourself was years ago, but the second best time it's right now. Do what your nature demands. Choose to challenge yourself this year. Make a firm and clear resolution. Quit being a slave. Stop delaying. You are out of runway. You are at a crossroads. Make the right call. And as I said, the Daily Stoic 2025 New Year, New Year challenge begins tomorrow.

I'm pumped. I'm doing a polar plunge tomorrow morning and it's gonna be awesome. That's how I'm starting off the year, a Seneca inspired thing, which is partly how we start the challenge. So I am giving you a little bit of a teaser there, I guess. It's gonna be a set of 21 actionable challenges,

presented one per day, built around the best stoic practices to help you have an awesome year. The next 12 months I don't know what's gonna happen I just know that I don't know what's gonna happen but I would predict challenges and difficulty and we got to prepare accordingly. You've been meaning to get out of your comfort zone and make serious changes well now it's the time to do it. We here at Daily Stoke have been doing this challenge every year for the last seven years. I've done it every year for the last seven years. I have all these different habits, practices in my life

that have come from the challenges each year. Thousands of Stoics from all over the world join us for three weeks of new and unique challenges designed to help them get the best out of themselves and to start the year off with a bang. Will you join us? You can sign up right now at dailystoic.com slash challenge. Let's put missed opportunities behind us and think about this passage from Epictetus. From now on then he says, Resolve to live as a grownup who is making progress

and make whatever you think best a law that you never set aside. And whenever you encounter anything that is difficult or pleasurable, highly or lowly regarded, remember that the contest is now. You are at an Olympic Games. You cannot wait any longer and your progress is wrecked and preserved by a single day and a single event. Well, that single day and single event is right now. Today is your moment, not Monday, not next year, not when things settle down, now. So I would love to see you in the Daily Stoic New Year New You Challenge.

I will be in there with you, looking forward to all the different Q&As and all the stuff we get to do together. What will you choose? You are at that crossroads. Demand the best for yourself or not. Push yourself or not. Sign up or not. You know what to do.

Dailystoic.com slash challenge for the 2025 Daily Stoic New Year, New You Challenge. This is your last day to sign up. The challenge begins tomorrow. I will see you in there. Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoke podcast. I am recording this late.

Apologies to Claire, the editor of the Daily Stoke podcast. The internet went out. My kids took forever to go to bed. But now I am recording this down here in Florida. I was just sitting with my father-in-law and I said, you know what's crazy? Next year, not like the year that starts in a day, but 2026 will be the 10 year anniversary of the Daily Stoic, which is absolutely insane to me.

I would have been writing it about this time, finishing it up. I'm reading this book about Vietnam, where I've never been, but it's made me think of where I was when I was finishing up the book. I was doing a talk in Thailand, and I remember sitting down

and editing some of the final entries. And then on my run this morning, I was running down the road and I passed, you know, sometimes you have kind of one of those like fleeting little memories, you go, I remember something totally insignificant, but it happened exactly in this spot. And I remember I was having breakfast with my family at this little restaurant. I guess I only had one kid then, and I had stepped out to take a call from my publisher.

There was something about getting scrubbed from the New York Times list. We'd sold enough copies for the Daily Stoke to hit it and suddenly it wasn't there. And the reason it was happening exactly, I guess this would have been maybe six or seven years ago to now, to the end of January, is we started doing this thing about a year or so after the Daily Stoic came out, which is that we would discount the ebook going into the first week of the year, just to get people who were maybe interested

in trying Stoicism, they wanted another more portable copy or whatever, and so we started back, maybe it was 2017, 2018, we started doing this, and we've done it every year since, including this year. So if you want to get the ebook of the Daily Stoic 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living, you can grab it right now as an ebook for $2.99 anywhere you get your ebooks in the U.S. that's at DailyStoic.com slash discount. It'll redirect you to the right link. And then of course we have

the Leatherbound edition which has got some signed copies in the painted porch and at store.dailystilk.com, we've got obviously the regular hardcover edition which I will also sign to go to store.dailystilk.com. But in today's episode, I wanted to bring you some thoughts from the Daily Stilk. Here are some entries that I think will help you kick off this final day of the year. And then if you want to check out the book, you can.

Dailysteelic.com slash discount. We'll get you our signed leather edition at store.dailysteelic.com. ["Daisy's Lullaby"] Every good thing in your life has come from change. Don't fight it, accept it, bend with it, be flexible about it, embrace it, and flow alongside the river. For 2,500 years, the Stoics have been putting out wisdom and insights about how to get better.

The hard part is knowing where to start. Should you read Epictetus? Should you read Seneca? Should you read Marcus Aurelius? I'm Ryan Holiday and I feel so blessed that 15 years ago I randomly got the right translation of Marcus Aurelius at the right time in my life. But a different translation at a different time, the entire scope of my life might have turned out differently.

I wouldn't have written these books. I wouldn't have got to speak about Stoicism to the NFL and the NBA to Special Forces and sitting senators I wouldn't be standing here in this bookstore right now. So one of the reasons I wrote the Daily Stoic was the idea that first off don't start with one of the stoics start with all of the stoics there should be a sampling of the best of stoic wisdom available for everyone and since that didn't exist I wanted to make that and so this book now is sold more than a million copies it It's translated in dozens of languages. I hope you check it out. But in today's video, I wanted to give you a sampling of some of the best Stoic quotes from pages in the

Daily Stoic that I think you will get a lot out of. I hope you check out the book. We have a leather edition also you can check out but here's the book. Enjoy. God laid down this law saying if you want some good get it for yourself. I mean what I think this is saying is there's one way to guarantee that you have a good day today. It's that you do good right? You can always do that. It's always in your control Doesn't depend on other people doesn't depend on things going right if you want to feel good do good It's as simple as that Whatever anyone does or says My part is to be good in the same way that an emerald or gold or purple must always claim what anyone else does or says, I must be what I am and show my true colors.

The Stokes believe that we all have a purpose, we all have a task, we all have something we were uniquely fitted to do. And I think our job is to not only do that well, but to be good in the world, to be a positive difference maker. Marcus says in meditation, this is one of my favorite quotes, he said, you have to remain the person that philosophy tried to make you. You have to be good, whatever anyone says or does,

whatever other people's jobs are, however well or poor they do them, your job is to be good and do good. Hey, it's Ryan, quick interruption for me. Crazy news. The Daily Stoic is $1.99 as an ebook this week only. Amazon iBooks anywhere you get your iBooks. Check it out. We do this every New Year. It's the cheapest the book will ever be. It's like one tenth of the retail price. It's like 1% of the leather bound edition price. So check it out if you were on the fence about checking out the book. Never get cheaper than this. Hope you like

it. This is Epictetus. He says, You can bind up my leg, but not even Zeus has the power break my freedom of choice. And this happens to Epictetus. His leg is broken by his slave master. He walks with a limp his whole life. And I think what he's saying is that those things can happen to you. Life can literally break you, can take things from you, but nothing can affect the power you have over your own choices about your thoughts, about your opinions, about the story you tell yourself about things. And I think he's literally doing that there. He's deciding to tell himself a story that says, yes, he's been deprived of one thing, but he still maintains even in Roman slavery, which is a horrible institution. Even within that, he still has control over so much his power of choice. And you have that power today.

power today. Meditate often on the swiftness which all of it exists is coming into being is swept by us and carried away. Substance he says is like a rivers unending flow. It's constantly changing and causes infinite shifting and so that nothing stands still. I think the Stoics say this over and over again that the one constant in life is change. You try to keep everything as it is. Not only you're acting contrary to nature, what the Stoics say is, is it not right? You are preventing good things from coming into being as well.

Borrowing from Heraclitus, Marcus says that, we never step in the same river twice. The river is changing and also we are changing, right? Even this book, you read the Daily Stoic one or two or three times, you come back to the entries, you are different, even though the words are exactly the same. The world is different. I am different as the person who wrote them. And so we have to remember that everything has changed. All is changed. Life is change. Every good thing in your life has come from change. Don't fight it, accept it, bend with it, be flexible about it, embrace it, and flow alongside the river.

Silence is a lesson learned from the many sufferings of life. My favorite quotes actually from Robert Greene is one of the laws of power. He says, always say less than necessary. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish. What we learn by messing up, by saying too much, saying the wrong thing at the wrong time is that we are better to shut up. And that's why Zeno said, two ears and one mouth for a reason. Who is invincible, he said, the one who cannot be upset by anything outside their reasoned choice. So as we said, the job of the philosophers to distinguish what's in my control, what's not in my control, and then to tune out all those things,

the person who can't be upset by things that are not up to them, that only measure themselves by what is up to them. That person to the Stokes is invincible. And you are invincible in the sense that you are impervious to the things that are happening in the outside world, what other people are saying, what other people are doing, the random bad news that just got tweeted out, the thing that your phone is buzzing about. All that matters is what's up to you, what you're doing, what's in your control. And if you focus on that, you become, in a sense, invincible.

That which isn't good for the hive, isn't good for the hive isn't good for the bee. You know, Marcus Surriles talks in meditations more than 80 times about the common good. He said the fruit of this life is good character and acts for the common good. The Stoics believed that we were all interconnected. There was a kind of mutual interdependence of all of us. We were woven together. We were put here for each other. And to do something that's good for you at the expense of everyone else is not only not

right, it is ultimately a punishment of yourself. The Stoics believed in this connectedness. It guided why they participated in public life. It should guide you and it should be something to think about today. What isn't good for the hive isn't good for the bee. What isn't good for the whole isn't good for me. Don't let your reflection on the sweep of life crush you. Don't think about all the bad things that might happen. Stay focused on the present situation. Ask yourself why it's unbearable and can't be survived. He says you will find that it can be. There's a great line from the writer Chuck Palma that I like. He says,

the trick to forgetting the big picture is to look at it up be. There's a great line from the writer Chuck Palma that I like, he says, the trick to forgetting the big picture is to look at it up close. Sometimes, yeah, we have to zoom way out and see the big picture, but sometimes we have to zoom way in because the big picture is overwhelming and scary and quite frankly, more than we can bear. Zoom way in, focus on a small piece.

You're crossing a tightrope, you don't think about how high up you are. There's a great Hebrew saying about how the world is a small piece. You're crossing a tightrope. You don't think about how high up you are. There's a great Hebrew saying about how the world is a narrow bridge. Don't look down, don't be afraid. Zoom in on the next step you have to take. Philosophy calls for simple living, but not for penance. It's quite possible to be simple without being crude.

I love this because Seneca was, I think, the most worldly and practical of all the Stoics. He's wealthy, he has nice parties, he has friends. It's important that we don't see Stoicism as like self-flagellation or needless deprivation. The Stoics say if it's there, enjoy it. You just don't need it. And in fact, the Stoics sort of are rejection of the cynical idea that nothing matters. Diogenes sort of walks around in a barrel, he's very uncouth. The Stokes are saying, no, you should be a part of the world, you should figure out how the world works. Just don't be addicted to it,

just don't be dependent on it. Often injustice lies in what you aren't doing, not only what you are doing. This goes to that that famous quote, it's now sort of a common expression that, the only thing that evil needs to triumph is for good men to do nothing, right? Yes, other people might be committing the injustice, but if you don't say anything,

if you don't try to stop it, if you just go along with it, then you are complicit in it happening. So we talked about this before, but Seneca says that one of the ways to get to wisdom is by like finding one thing a day one thing to chew on each day that makes you better his exchange of letters with his friend Lucilius, that's what they're doing. And that's also what I tried to build the daily

stoic around the idea of one quote from the stoics, which had never before been in one book together. One thought from the stoics each day and then some analysis, a meditation, a prompt from me about how to apply that in your actual life. So that's what the Daily Stoic is. I wrote this book now five years ago. It sold over a million copies. It spent something like 300 weeks on the bestseller list. But my favorite thing about the first week of January is that the publisher discounts it as an ebook. It's as cheap as it'll ever get.

That's like a 10th of the retail price. That's like 1% of the leather bound edition price. So check it out and why not start the new year with Daily Stoic in audio, digital, leather bound, hardcover, whatever, but I'm wishing you a very stoic new year. If you liked the Daily Stoic and thanks for listening, you can listen early and ad free right now by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple

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