The Daily Stoic - Who Do You Wish To Become? | Turn Words Into Works

Episode Date: December 23, 2024

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Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to the daily Stoic early and ad free right now. Just join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple podcasts. So for this tour I was just doing in Europe, we had I think four days in London and I was with my kids, my wife and my in-laws. So we knew we didn't want to stay in a hotel. We'd spend a fortune. We'd be cramped. So we booked an Airbnb and it was awesome. As it happens, the Airbnb we stayed in was like this super historic building. I think it was where like the first meeting of the Red Cross or the Salvation Army ever was. It was awesome. That's why I love staying in Airbnbs.

To stay in a cool place, you get a sense of what the place is actually like. You're coming home to your house, not to the lobby of a hotel every night. It just made it easier to coordinate everything and get a sense of what the city is like. When I spent last summer in LA, we used an Airbnb also. So you may have read something that I wrote while staying in an Airbnb. Airbnb has the flexibility in size and location that work for your family and you can always find awesome stuff. You click on guest favorites to narrow your search down. Travel is always stressful. It's always hard to be away from home. But if you're going to do it, do it right. And that's why you should check out Airbnb. Welcome to the daily stoic podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient stoics illustrated with stories from history, current events and literature to help you be

better at what you do. And at the beginning of the week, we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoic intention for the week, something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave you with, to journal about, whatever it is you happen to be doing. So let's get into it. Who do you wish to become? This is that time of year that we make resolutions and dream up what possibilities a new year

could bring. Maybe this is the year we break six figures in salary, or maybe this is the year that we lose a certain amount of weight or read a certain number of books. But as we know, these kinds of resolutions tend not to stick. Talk to James Clear about this on the podcast recently. You should listen to that episode if you haven't. But he talks a lot about this in Atomic Habits, because we too often focus on achieving things. Instead, he says we ought to ask ourselves what new identity we want for ourselves

and what are the habits and behaviors and routines that we could start to begin showing up as that person. This is what he said. And it doesn't matter if it's two minutes or if it's 20 minutes or if it's an hour. But I'm going to try to find a way to show up today. And my little phrase is every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.

The ancients understood that we don't change or grow in one giant leap. It was Aristotle who said that, you know, we are what we repeatedly do. And this is, I think, something the Stokes would agree with. Well-being, Zeno said, is realized by small steps, but it's no small thing. And it's why the Stokes were all about habits and routines, why Marcus Aurelius tried to wake up early,

why Seneca was always going on long walks, why Epictetus encouraged his students to write down their thoughts each day and reflect on them at night. It wasn't just about knowing what the right thing was, it was about showing up and doing it day in and day out in the little chunks of time that we had. The Stoics understood that only by changing what we do,

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Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast. This is the last of these entries of the year. The last as we pull from the Daily Stoic Journal, 366 Meditations of Writing and Reflection on the Art of Living, I think ultimately the most important, it's about turning words into works. Marcus Aurelius spent a great deal of time on his journals, yet within these pages we find him admonishing himself to throw them away, to never read them. Why? Because he didn't want it to be an excuse from the essential tasks at hand. The art of living will never be found anywhere but in our own efforts to be a good person. Never forget that that is the aim of Stoicism and of your own journals.

It's not to fill up pages with pretty thoughts, but inspire you to take action, to turn the words as Seneca said, into works. And in that we have the perfect place to end the year with the ultimate stoic prompt, get active in your own rescue. We have two quotes this week from Marcus Aurelius' Meditations and then one from Seneca's Moral Letters. Stop wandering about, Marcus says, you aren't likely to read your own notebooks or ancient histories or anthologies you've collected to enjoy in your old age.

Get busy with life's purpose. Toss aside empty hopes. Get active in your own rescue. If you care for yourself at all, do it while you can. That's Marcus Aureus 3.14. You have proof in the extent of your wanderings that you never found the art of living anywhere, not in logic, nor in wealth, nor in fame, or in any indulgence, nowhere. Where is it then? In doing what human nature demands. And how is a person to do this? By having principles be the

source of desire and action. What principles? Those to do with good and evil, indeed in the belief that there is no good for a human being except what creates justice, self-control, courage, and freedom. And nothing evil except what destroys these things. That's Marcus Aurelius' Meditations 8.1. And then ultimately Seneca in Moral Letters 108, he says, all study of philosophy and reading should be for the purpose of living a happy life. We should seek precepts to help us, noble and courageous words that can become facts.

We should learn them in a way that the words become works. And ultimately, look, that's the journey for me. Ironically, as a writer is that I write them, that's my job. But if I don't listen to them, if I don't get better at it, then I'm, what am I? I'm nothing but a sophist, right? And what are you? If you read about Stoicism, if you listen to this podcast, if you follow the quotes on Instagram or watch the videos, but you're not actually getting better day to day, you're not getting better at those virtues, courage, self-control, justice, wisdom, right? You're not focused on applying the ideas.

Ultimately, that's what matters. As Mark Cerullo says, we should waste no more time arguing what a good person is be one. As Epictetus talks about, embody the ideas. Am I as good at that as I want to be? Are you? Right? All this stuff is pretty straightforward, pretty simple. You find yourself nodding your head to it. But then when you're tired, then when you're frustrated, then when you're trying to do something

that's really important to you, when things are really going sideways, well, it's hard to actually stick with them. It's hard to actually apply them, right? But that's the whole point. That's the whole point of the philosophy. Look, I take some solace in the fact that clearly Marcus Aurelius is struggling with that, right? He's saying that even as an old man, right, he's telling himself you got to stop wandering about,

right? He's saying you still haven't figured it out. You got to get active in your rescue now before it's too late, right? So I take some solace in the fact that one of the greatest stoics to ever live is still struggling with that, you know, many decades older than I am. But that time is tick, tick, ticking away. And those opportunities are passing this by. And so the purpose of the Daily Stoke Journal, the purpose of the Daily Stoke Podcast, the purpose of all this content, obviously, yes purpose of the Daily Stoke Podcast, the purpose of all this content. Obviously yes, it's compelling to me as a writer.

I feel a duty to bring the ideas to other people. But ultimately what I'm really trying to work on is just be a little bit better at them day to day, my own life. How would I grade myself on that? I don't know. Not as high as I'd like, but higher than before, right? Higher than if the intervention had never happened, which is ultimately right how we judge medicine, how we judge anything scientifically, we compare it

against a control group, we compare it against a placebo. And I know how I was before right? I know What I'm capable of if I don't try if I just sort of go the path of least resistance If I think about what I could get away with That's not enough. We have to be better than that. We have to push ourselves So that's ultimately the whole purpose of stoicism.. That's the thought I wanna leave you here with at the end of the year. It's about turning the words into words.

What do you have to show for it, right? It's not about pretending, it's not about imitating, it's about action. It's about putting up the numbers, putting up the results, trying to get a little bit better every single day. I don't expect magical transformation from myself or from you, that's not possible. This isn't about epiphany, but it is about repetition

and practice, holding yourself accountable. And with that, I bid you adieu to the end of this year. I hope you can look back, reflect here as the year is winding up and see where you could have done better. Hope you can set aside some plans, some goals for the next year. I hope you can build on the successes that you did have. That's what I'm going to try to do. And we'll be right back at this again, because we don't stop. Talk soon. Because we don't stop talk soon Hey, it's Ryan. Thank you for listening to the daily stoke podcast. I just wanted to say we so appreciate it

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