The Daily Stoic - Why Do You Wait for This to Get Harder? | Turn Words Into Works

Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a stoic-inspired meditation designed to help you find strength and insight and wisdom into everyday life. Each one of these episodes is based on the 2,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women help you learn from them. to follow in their example, and to start your day off with a little dose of courage and discipline and justice and wisdom. For more, visitdailystoic.com. It's not going to be easy whenever you do it. It's going to be uncomfortable.

Starting point is 00:01:04 It's not going to pay off right away. It may even be a little painful. But you know what? Procrastination isn't saving you. It's only adding interest to the bill you're going to have to pay eventually. As Nathaniel Raitliff sings in his song's center of me, it's a trap that we all fall into. Hey, wait.

Starting point is 00:01:26 Why do I wait until this shit gives hard? I wait I wait I wait on arriving now So I wait Until the shit gets harder Alone In my head

Starting point is 00:01:52 We do this to ourselves, putting off until tomorrow what we could do today. We delay conversations we need to have, only making them more painful when we ultimately do have them. We put off eating healthier, making it harder to get started the longer we work. We put off going to the gym or exercising, not thinking about how much more effort. effort that time will cost us. We tell ourselves we'll deal with our phone addiction, but we're too busy to start this week. Maybe after this big project at work, maybe after things settle down a bit, maybe after your parents visit, maybe after this next birthday, and on and on. How much longer are you going to wait, Epictetus says, to demand the best for yourself? Why are you waiting to make that

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Starting point is 00:08:14 his journals. Yet within these pages we find him admonishing himself to throw them away to never read them. Why? Because he didn't want it to be an excuse from the essential tasks at hand. The art of living will never be found anywhere but in our own efforts to be a good person. Never forget that that is the aim of stoicism and of your own journals. It's not to fill up pages with pretty thoughts, but inspire you to take action to turn the words, as Seneca said, into works. And in that, we had the perfect place to end the year with the ultimate stoic prompt. Get active in your own rescue. We have two quotes this week from Marcus Aurelius' meditations and then one from Seneca's moral letters.

Starting point is 00:09:01 Stop wandering about, Marcus says. You aren't likely to read your own notebooks or ancient histories or anthologies you've collected to enjoy in your old age. Get busy with life's purpose. Toss aside empty hopes. Get active in your own rescue. If you care for yourself at all, do it while you can. That's Marcus Aurelius 314. You have proof in the extent of your wanderings that you never found the art of living anywhere, not in logic, nor in wealth, nor in fame, or in any indulgence, nowhere. Where is it then? In doing what human nature demands? And how, is a person to do this? By having principles be the source of desire and action. What principles? Those to do with good and evil, indeed in the belief that there is no good for a human being

Starting point is 00:09:51 except what creates justice, self-control, courage, and freedom. And nothing evil except what destroys these things. That's Marcus Aurelius' Meditations 8.1. And then ultimately, Seneca in Moral Letters 108, he says, all study of philosophy and reading should be for purpose of living a happy life. We should seek precepts to help us, noble and courageous words that can become facts. We should learn them in a way that the words become works. And ultimately, look, that's the journey for me. Ironically, as a writer, is that I write them. That's my job. But if I don't listen to them, if I don't get better at it, then I'm, what am I? I'm nothing but a sophist, right? And what are you? If you read about

Starting point is 00:10:39 Stoicism, if you listen to this podcast, if you follow the quotes on Instagram or watch the videos, but you're not actually getting better day to day. You're not getting better at those virtues. Courage, self-control, justice, wisdom, right? You're not focused on applying the ideas. Ultimately, that's what matters. As Mark Seriali says, we should waste no more time arguing what a good person is, B1, as Epictetus talks about. Emboddy the ideas. Am I as good at that as I want to be? Are you? Right? All this stuff is pretty straightforward, pretty simple. You find yourself nodding your head to it. But then when you're tired, when you're frustrated, then when you're trying to do something that's really important to you,

Starting point is 00:11:31 when things are really going sideways, well, it's hard to actually stick with them. It's hard to actually apply them, right? But that's the whole point. That's the whole point of the philosophy. Look, I take some solace in the fact that clearly Marcus Aurelius is struggling with that, right? He's saying that even as an old man, right, he's telling himself, you got to stop wandering about, right? He's saying, you still haven't figured it out. You got to get active in your rescue now before it's too late. Right? So I take some solace in the fact that one of the greatest Stoics to ever live is still struggling with that, you know, many decades older than I am.

Starting point is 00:12:10 But that time is tick, tick, ticking away. And those opportunities are passing this by. And so the purpose of the Daily Stoke Journal, the purpose of the Daily Stoak podcast, the purpose of all this content, obviously, yes, it's compelling to me as a writer. I feel a duty to bring the ideas to other people. But ultimately, what I'm really trying to work on is just be a little bit better at them day to day my own life. How would I grade myself on that? I don't know. Not as high as I'd like, but higher than before, right? Higher than if the intervention had never happened,

Starting point is 00:12:46 which is ultimately, right, how we judge medicine, how we judge anything scientifically. We compare it against a control group. We compare it against a placebo. And I know how I was before, right? I know what I'm capable of if I don't try, if I just sort of go the path of least resistance. If I think about what I could get away with, that's not enough. We have to be better than that. We have to push ourselves. So that's ultimately the whole purpose of stoicism. That's the thought I want to leave you here with at the end of the year.

Starting point is 00:13:24 It's about turning the words into works. What do you have to show for it? Right? It's not about pretending. It's not about imitating. it's about action. It's about putting up the numbers, putting up the results, trying to get a little bit better every single day. I don't expect magical transformation from myself or from you. That's not possible. This isn't about epiphany, but it is about repetition and practice,

Starting point is 00:13:52 holding yourself accountable. And with that, I bid you ado to the end of this year. I hope you can look back, reflect here as the year is winding up and see where you could have done better. Hope you can set aside some plans, some goals for the next year. I hope you can build on the successes that you did have. That's what I'm going to try to do. And we'll be right back at this again because we don't stop. Talk soon. Hey, it's Ryan.

Starting point is 00:14:25 Thank you for listening to the Daily Stoog podcast. I just wanted to say we so appreciate it. We love serving you. It's amazing to us that over 30 million people have downloaded these episodes in the couple of years we've been doing it. It's an honor. Please spread the word, tell people about it, and this isn't to sell anything. I just wanted to say thank you. Hey, it's Ryan. I try not to make too many puns on my last name because I've been hearing it my whole life.

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The Daily Stoic - Why Do You Wait for This to Get Harder? | Turn Words Into Works

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