The Daily Stoic - You Know You’ve Made This Mistake

Episode Date: January 18, 2023

It is certainly true that people can do some awful things to each other. We hear of a trusted representative who is stealing from their clients. We hear of a man who has been leading a second life, even starting a second family. We hear of a woman who commits an unspeakable crime.These gross violations of morality and law do exist. They are things we would never do, we’d never even consider doing them. However, the truth is that most of the wrongs committed day to day are done by ordinary people in ordinary ways.✉️  Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today. Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we bring you a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you find strength, insight, and wisdom every day life. Each one of these passages is based on the 2,000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us dailystow.com. It's certainly true that people can do some awful things to each other. We hear of a trusted representative who is stealing from their clients.

We hear of a man who has been leading a second life, even start in a second family. We hear of a woman who commits, and speakable crime. These gross violations of morality and law do exist. They are things that we would never do. We would never even consider doing it. However, the truth is that most of the wrongs committed day to day are done by ordinary people in ordinary ways. Even most of the wrongs done to us are not done with any particular amalice, but instead stem from ignorance or fatigue or simple selfishness. Moreover, most of them are mistakes we have made ourselves in the distant, or not so distant past.

As Seneca writes, a good look at ourselves will make us more temperate if we ask. Haven't we ourselves also done something like that? Haven't we gone astray in the same way? Does condemning these things really benefit us? When we realize that most errors are relatable and human, we are more likely to understand and forgive. We will not take personally a slight or a

screw up we have been guilty of ourselves because we will remember that when we did it, it was not personal or even intentional. We can recall how dumb we were when we were young and we won't be so quick to judge the generation coming after us. When we consider all the current beliefs we will be judged for by that generation. Perhaps we can be a little more tolerant of the older generation in front of us. We've all messed up, we will all continue to mess up. Does it really benefit us? Is it really fair to go around condemning people for mistakes we've made ourselves? For going astray as we've gone astray?

No, it doesn't. you