The Daily Stoic - You Must Stay Outside of Time | 24 Life Changing Quotes From Epictetus

Episode Date: June 13, 2023

Technology is advancing rapidly. While every generation has felt like it was impossible to keep up, today it really is mindblowing to try to understand everything that’s happening on the cutting edge of artificial intelligence, machine learning, quantum computing, biotechnology, the blockchain, virtual and augmented reality, and on and on.World events and trends continue to accelerate too.Perhaps this is why the wisest people try to do the opposite of keeping up with it all.---And in today's Daily Stoic video excerpt, Ryan shares 24 of his favorite and most life-changing quotes from the ancient Roman slave turned student turned hugely influential Stoic, Epictetus. You can watch the video on YouTube.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoic Podcast early and add free on Amazon Music. Download the app today. Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, where each day we read a passage of ancient wisdom designed to help you in your everyday life. On Tuesdays, we take a closer look at these stoic ideas, how we can apply them in our actual lives. Thanks for listening, and I hope you enjoy. You must stay outside of time. Technology is advancing rapidly, and while every generation is felt like it was impossible to keep up today, it really is mind-blowing to try to understand everything that's happening on the cutting edge of artificial intelligence,

machine learning, quantum computing, biotechnology, the blockchain, virtual and augmented reality and on and on. World events and trends continue to accelerate too. There is literally an inhuman amount of news produced each day, an incomprehensible amount of new content on every single platform, all of it delivered instantaneously, directly into your eyes and ears. Perhaps this is why the wisest people try to do the opposite of keeping up with it all. They escue the latest on purpose. On a recent episode of The Daily Stoic Podcast, the legendary music producer Rick Rubin, we actually did a fantastic double episode with him that you should listen to. He talked about why he doesn't try to

chase trends. Yeah, I love music that is outside of time. And one of the things about using organic instruments is a piano sounds like a piano a hundred years ago and it sounds like a piano today. And it will sound like a piano in a hundred years. If you use the latest sounds, the newest sounds, the sounds of today, then tomorrow they'll sound like the sounds of yesterday. So it's a very delicate line to work with the newest of sounds because it can end up sounding very dated. Isn't this what we love about the Stokes too that they are outside of time? Their wisdom is timeless because they weren't chasing trends, but ideas that were stable in time. In meditations, we see Marcus quoting and referencing the

erypides, Socrates and Plato, writers from hundreds and hundreds of years before him, and this is no accident, in meditations, Marcus actually reminds himself to stop being bounced around by every bit of breaking news and gossip, telling himself to turn inward to zoom out, slow down. Sure, to be successful we have to have some sense of what's happening in the world, but we shouldn't live and die by that. It's far better to be rooted in something deeper, something less urgent, something more timeless. Keep a finger on the pulse of today, but remember that most of the trends of today will

tomorrow sound like the trends of yesterday. So let's continue to invest our time and attention and trust in ideas and tools and art that is outside time. Let us do our best to live in that space too, rejoicing, as Marcus said, quoting a fifth-century poet named Impedacles, existing in perfect timeless stillness. That's what I think is so amazing about meditations, of course, is that it is this timeless but totally timely bit of advice.

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