Determined Society with Shawn French | Adversity & Mindset - How Sobriety, Faith, and Doing Hard Things Changed Brady McDonald’s Life

Episode Date: January 9, 2026

Check Out Therabody 👇https://www.therabody.com/discount/DETERMINEDUse Code: DETERMINED to get 15% off at checkout------------------------------------------------------------------------------------...------------In this powerful episode of The Determined Society Podcast, Brady McDonald shares his raw journey from alcohol dependency and fear to sobriety, faith, ultra-endurance racing, and building a life rooted in discipline and purpose.Brady opens up about quitting alcohol after realizing the cycle he was passing down to his daughters, how doing hard things like 75 Hard and ultra running gave him clarity, and the moment God intervened and changed the trajectory of his life. We dive deep into fatherhood, leadership, failure, faith, resilience, and why children don’t do what we say, they do what we do.This conversation also explores Brady’s mission to use running for something bigger than himself through 50K in 50 States, raising millions for the Make-A-Wish Foundation, and how serving others brings more fulfillment than success ever could. Key Takeaways-Sobriety gave Brady clarity, courage, and control over his life.-Doing hard things builds confidence that transfers into every area of life.-Discipline is simple, but it’s never easy.-Fitness became the gateway to mental, emotional, and spiritual growth-Failure isn’t the end; it’s feedback for the next attempt.-The right people in your corner determine how far you go.-Faith showed up when quitting no longer felt like an option.-Serving others creates deeper fulfillment than personal success. Connect with me :https://link.me/theshawnfrench?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaY2s9TipS1cPaEZZ9h692pnV-rlsO-lzvK6LSFGtkKZ53WvtCAYTKY7lmQ_aem_OY08g381oa759QqTr7iPGABrady McDonaldhttps://www.instagram.com/brady.mcdonald84/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I haven't not drank for a week since I was 14 probably. I was scared. Like, I didn't know how I was going to solve my own problems. It was so bad. And I started realizing that I was using the alcohol to make the fear go away. I remember the moment that God spoke to me for the first time. Tomorrow is your last day that you're going to drink. I saw my future self, my daughters in their future.
Starting point is 00:00:20 And he was saying that if you don't stop, they're going to have this problem. I have to put in the work now. So they don't have to do that. I have goosebumps, dude. Wow. Oh. Um, brother, that impresses me more than any amount of mileage you've ran. Yeah, 100%.
Starting point is 00:00:35 Because that is the hard part. What are some of the things that you saw in your parenting style and being a husband that astronomically changed? Yeah. I realized they don't do what we say. They do what we do. Once I realized that, I just took that to the extreme. Put in the work and take them to like the Moab 240 and let them see what it looks like to be in such a hard position but never quit.
Starting point is 00:00:58 What up my people? We're back today. I got Brady MacDonald here with me. A good friend of mine doing some amazing things here locally and all across the United States through none other than running and bringing that mission. He's going to be doing something really cool that we'll talk about in this episode, 50K and 50 states, all done through the Make a Wish Foundation to fundraise for that organization. But dude, you have done so much since I've known you in the last few years. But, I mean, before we go any further, man, welcome to the show. Thanks, Sean. Happy to be here. Dude, it's just like, it has been, man. It has this way. Like, it was just saying this that we're so thankful it didn't happen a year ago and it's happening today. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:01:46 I think a year ago, you know, we talked about it. You know, we were at that event. And then it just kind of, we both went and did our own thing. And then now, but we're back here. And there's so much more substance to what you're doing. I mean, you know, I want to start from the beginning, man, because the audience loves to listen to where were you? And what did you start to implement
Starting point is 00:02:06 to gain some progress? And now you're all the way over here on this other end of the spectrum running races right next to David Gagins where I mean me, I would probably need a go cart to run next to that guy. But, you know, I want them to see the progression. So where was that for you, man?
Starting point is 00:02:21 I know there was a point where you decided to stop drinking some alcohol. Yeah, like this was back in 2021. And I was just before that, I was an entrepreneur. Like we had a real estate investors in Canada. And I still having lots of success, like just pure hustle and grit and grind.
Starting point is 00:02:37 You know, nobody gave us the, you know, the bunch of money. It was all like our own money. And we ended up building a pretty successful business there. But with that comes, you know, and I was drinking since I was 14 years old. Are you from Canada? Yeah. Oh, I didn't know that. I didn't know Canadian.
Starting point is 00:02:52 Canadian. Interesting. Did not know that. Yeah. So, you know, like we grew up in small town. Started drinking. I was 14. That's just what we did.
Starting point is 00:02:59 Right. And then, you know, as as you grew up as, adults. And I remember looking as a kid actually, just like, like, seeing my parents, how they acted and what they were doing. I'm like, I can't wait to do that. So when I was 14, it was fine. We did it. And, and, and then, you know, as, you know, I worked for the big power company for 14 years, transitioned into being full-time real estate investor and doing my own thing, you know, and, and we start, we did, you know, the main goal was to buy like 12 rental properties. We thought that would be freedom. And then it was like, okay, let's go hit a
Starting point is 00:03:32 under it and then, you know, we just kept on getting bigger and bigger. And but with that, you know, and more time and more freedom and more money, we had a big boat. We had a 53 foot boat. And like, that's, that was our life. It was live hard, work hard. That was actually the, I'm a big thing, you know, I'm big on vision boards. And so very, very, very first vision board, it was like live hard, live hard, work hard, work hard, work hard. And, but it became tiring, right?
Starting point is 00:03:57 It was like having the same conversations with the same people, you know, every weekend, you were, you know, you were two steps forward during the week, two steps back on the weekend. It was just like still having success. But, you know, I didn't love myself. I lived with regret every Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, start feeling better, you know. And so right. Real quick, sorry, for the context. You're referring to Monday through Friday, great weekend, go out and party a little bit.
Starting point is 00:04:23 Yeah. Take a step backwards. Head into that Monday and taking all the way to Wednesday to recover. Yeah. Yeah. Like just to kind of get back out of the fogginess. you know. Been there, yeah.
Starting point is 00:04:33 Yeah. And it's a trap. And it's a socially accepted trap. You know? And it was like, it was almost like you're celebrated, you know, by doing that and not by staying healthy. And it was, I had nobody in my life, you know, that was leading me to the healthy path. But I remember it was 2021.
Starting point is 00:04:50 I told my wife, I saw somebody on social media, one of my friends. And he was doing this thing about 75 hard rate. Yep. Yeah. So I tell, I rhyme off the store, all of the rules to my wife, you know, that you got to work out twice a day. Once has to be outside. One outside workout in Canada sucks a heck of a lot better than down here in Florida.
Starting point is 00:05:05 No, I'm not bad, dude. I bet. But we get to the point where in not drinking, she's literally laughing at me. She's like, there is no way you can do that. Like, I haven't not drank for a week since I was 14 probably. Wow. I mean, maybe two weeks. I mean, at the most.
Starting point is 00:05:21 But like, really, you know, like, it's not going to be 75 days. Right. I'm like, I know. I was scared. Yeah. But that's why I knew, like at that moment, that's why I knew it was worth trying, right? And I think because it was a goal that I didn't know that I could succeed at. It was going to be hard. Yeah. And at this point, Kylie was, our daughter was five years old and we were
Starting point is 00:05:42 pregnant with another one. And so I started this journey and went 75 days and, you know, Christy was giving birth and I was in the, in the hospital, you know, on the floor doing pushups and sit ups and doing the, you know, going through the challenge. 25 minutes, baby. Yeah, I got to get that thing done. And Christy had the best care because of that probably. But, I, You know, I did it. And so what had happened was it changed. Obviously, my body, I lost, you know, some weight. I gained a lot of muscle.
Starting point is 00:06:09 But it changed this. And it gave me courage. It was the first time my life that I ever had clarity. And I started to love the person that I became. I became a better dad father. I became a better communicator. You know, I became a better husband. The deals got bigger.
Starting point is 00:06:23 And this was a time when, you know, COVID was infiltrating everywhere, but like really bad in Canada. And they were locking us down. And I just said, you know what? we're not standing for this. And I had the courage to take the family with a brand new baby, two month old baby. We actually had to wait around to give the baby the two month shots or whatever. And we took them to Costa Rica,
Starting point is 00:06:43 right? Because we're like, and that's the courage and that's the type of, that's what happens when you get clarity, you know? And I just, I saw the proof of what, you know,
Starting point is 00:06:54 sober and focus on fitness and health can do for me. And so we went to Costa Rica. it was amazing. But when we came back to Canada, who do you think I hang around? I hung around the same people. And then all the same old habits came slipping right back in.
Starting point is 00:07:09 And, you know, a few months later, we're back on the big boat. We're doing the same things on the weekend. And that summer went flying by. And again, I look back and I'm like, how did I end up in this place? It's so easy to lose track of, dude. It's the devil's sleek, is sneaky.
Starting point is 00:07:25 Dude, whenever you're not looking. Yeah. The best always say that he's always working. He's always. Just so you stay vigilant, man. It's just crazy to me. But real quick, I mean, I want to touch on 75 hard. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:37 It's amazing to me. And people can say whatever they want about Annie Fricela. You know, he's too intense or he curses too much or he's gotten too political. Which the latter, I do agree with. I really enjoyed MFCEO project. I'm glad he's finally bringing it back. I know Vaughn personally, and they were, Vaughn was telling me years ago that they were bringing it back and it just got getting delayed.
Starting point is 00:07:59 Well, now Andy finally. announced it on his socials. He has changed more lives, people that he's never even seen. There's no doubt. That I truly feel Andy would be overwhelmed if he opened that up because I did the, I did 75 hard phase one, phase two.
Starting point is 00:08:21 Yeah. I didn't do the full live hard program. Okay, but that was the moment when I started doing that, that's when I started getting this idea. Yeah. this idea. That's the type of growth.
Starting point is 00:08:33 Dude, like the guy helped mold and bring out of me what my gifts were and he doesn't even know me. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it's amazing to me how many lives
Starting point is 00:08:44 this man has touched through a freaking program. Well, think about this. So to your point, one of the, you have to read 10 pages of a personal development book, right? Well, one of the very first books
Starting point is 00:08:55 was David Goggins can't hurt me. I read that one too. And then the next one, was never finished about the Moab 240. And what, look, what I just finished. Yeah, I know. Like, again, if that never, if we never were pointed in the direction to do that thing. It's wild to me.
Starting point is 00:09:13 And would we even be here? It's just like, I had a conversation with Bejors Kulian a few years ago in a studio. And it's like a rich dad, poor dad, right? And, you know, his dad was the poor, you know, poor dad. And then his mentor was the rich dad. but but he says like now everybody can have a rich dad because of the internet because of YouTube like you can literally go on and get so much free education
Starting point is 00:09:37 from all these dudes and that's what you and I did with Annie Fricela like we dove into his message and what he was doing and said okay well maybe there's something to this this guy's very successful he's built the number one online supplement company in America probably the world well let me let me try this out and then you start to understand and when you start sacrificing certain things
Starting point is 00:10:00 that aren't helping you and diving into the things that are going to help you, how much in your world just completely opens out. Yeah, yeah, it's powerful. Yeah. The really thing, the really interesting thing about it is that it's really hard, but it's really simple. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:10:14 And I think that's the thing that, that's why it works, is because, like, listen, you got five things to do today. Yeah. What was the hardest one for you every day? Um, it was probably, it probably was, I ended up getting the second workout in. because of the cold. Like I didn't have a problem with the water.
Starting point is 00:10:31 And the book actually, you know, trying not to fall asleep while you're reading was a legit thing. There was a couple times you wake up at midnight. You're like, oh, oh, crap. So got three pages to do it. Exactly. You know, for me it was a picture. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:43 It was a progress picture every day. Yeah. Oh, because you didn't want to take it? I was so sloppy. I just, I didn't want to look at it. It was just a constant reminder. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:51 You know, but as you go through the progression, you look at day one, then you get to day 75, you're like, yeah. Oh my God. Gosh. Just by showing up. God, you took those pictures.
Starting point is 00:11:00 Right. Yeah. Right. It's just crazy to me. Yeah. Okay. So you did 75 hard. I interrupted you.
Starting point is 00:11:05 You're going through all this thing. You fell back into that summer of being on the boat. Yeah. And then we, what I learned from, you know, like sometimes you have to fail to move forward. And,
Starting point is 00:11:16 and so what I like, I can kind of connect the dots looking back. And I could see, okay, well, the thing that got me stopped, stop drinking was to do something hard. So I said,
Starting point is 00:11:26 okay, what is the next hard thing? So I signed up for a half iron man. Never swam like that, never trained like, you know, never rode a bike like that. And then, of course, I've done a little bit of running. I've done a half marathon before at the time. But so I hired a coach. I did all the things.
Starting point is 00:11:39 I did four months of training. I didn't drink during the four months. And this is actually at this point. So when we came back from from Costa Rica, we were in a limo. And this was in the spring of 2020. And I told my wife, because they locked us down over the radio, I said next in the fall of 2022, we're going to the U.S. We're going to scale business and life.
Starting point is 00:11:59 So we built this big, beautiful, four million dollar house, a brand new dream home. We lived in it for six months, right? And then fall came when I was training for this half iron man. We literally came down to South West Florida. We didn't know a soul. But again, it was hard,
Starting point is 00:12:16 but I was sober, courage, confidence. Like, I was working out like a madman to get through this half iron man. And we moved down to Cape Girl and started, business up brand new life from scratch. Anyway, so did that high fireman kind of realized, hey, I can drink and do training for
Starting point is 00:12:34 half iron mans and it kind of snucked back in. But eventually there wasn't very long when the hurricane Ian hit here. And then shortly after that, which we had six properties that crushed us. And then we had 76 or about 80 properties in Canada that were on variable interest rates. So we ended up in big developments. And we were bleeding, my friend, like 300 to 800. thousand a month. And I started realizing that I was using the alcohol to make the fear go away. And I, you know, and I didn't know how to, like, I didn't know how I was going to solve my own
Starting point is 00:13:09 problems. Like it was getting, it was so bad, you know, like it was, we were probably months away from not being able to make payments. Um, but we were, you know, we were sitting in the Bahamas and I remember the moment that God spoke to me for the first time that I can, I can see this looking back. I didn't, you know, I wasn't a believer then. I didn't even know. I just, but I had a something told me you today, tomorrow is your last day that you're going to drink. Wow. And I remember just seeing Kylie, you know, and I saw my
Starting point is 00:13:37 future self and I saw my few, my daughters in their future. And I, and he was saying that if you don't stop, they're going to have this problem. And that, and I just said to myself, okay, well, I have to put in the work now. So they don't have to. I have goosebumps, dude. Hey guys, we're going to take a quick break and we're going to slide into our recovery segment brought to you by Therobody. What an amazing technology that Therobody has. And it was founded on a really cool story by Dr. Jason Wersland. It was founded on pain. He got into an accident and had this extreme pain in his arm and found that percussive therapy really helped.
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Starting point is 00:17:04 and then the next day, there's no pain in my lower extremity, like my feet. The other thing that I really enjoy is that product really helps me recover a lot quicker. And let's face it, that's the most important thing when we're trying to move our bodies or we're trying to succeed in life is we want quick recovery emotionally and physically. And these products help me do that, and it can help you do that as well. One of the other things that I really want to go into because it's helping my wife out, a ton with headaches and being able to distract from the noise in our mind. And honestly, it helps me with that too as a smart goggles. Whenever we feel a slight headache coming on or things
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Starting point is 00:20:16 Oh. I feel the most important thing about being a parent is being able to identify what cycle you're in and cutting it off so it doesn't get passed down to the younger. generation. We get to make the choice. Yeah. And that is a beautiful thing that you did for your kids, dude. That's, brother, that impresses me more. Like that, that part of the story impresses me more than any amount of mileage you've ran. Yeah, 100%. Because that is the hard part. That that was the hardest part. It was the one thing that was for sure holding me back from becoming the best version of myself. Yeah. Yeah. Wow, dude. You know, it's, it's what other thing that strikes me as pretty impressive is you've been here maybe five years, four years?
Starting point is 00:21:03 Four years, yeah. I would have never have guessed it. You have built such an amazing network, I mean, and a lot of mutual friends that I thought you've been here for much, much longer. Yeah. You know, and it just goes to show when you're present, you have the confidence and you lead with empathy, which I know you do. People gravitate to you.
Starting point is 00:21:23 And I can't believe you've only been here for four or five years. Yeah. Yeah. It feels like home. I mean, with some of our friends, like you said, the mutual friends, like, their family to me. And, you know, these are connections that I would have never had if I was the old version of me.
Starting point is 00:21:41 You know, I would have not been vulnerable enough. I wouldn't have been, you know, thinking the right things, saying the right things, loving the right way. I wouldn't have put myself in the right rooms. Well, I mean, I can see a big difference. And I'm sure you can too because we've been following each other for a long time. I see a big difference in your energy in how you come across
Starting point is 00:22:01 from social media then to even if you post something now. You can see the growth, right? And that's important. Like, that kind of stuff shows people where you're at. And that's what gravitates people to your platform. And again, you do... One of the things that I love most,
Starting point is 00:22:19 and we'll get to 50Ks in 50 states soon. But, like, I truly believe in life were meant to help the people that we once were. Amen. And that's the only way that will ever have any type of result. That's what the show's built on. You know? But like you have this program zero to 100.
Starting point is 00:22:42 Yeah. And I know a lot of people that do that. I know their amount of movement they had prior to. So walk the audience through zero to 100. Maybe they would want to join this to be a part of your running community and your exercise exercise community. So I think this is an important thing to touch on. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:59 It was a, you know, when I started, after I quit drinking, I did a 50-miler. I ended up winning that. And then I signed up for 100-miler. And it was like this, this, you know, message that I got of going zero to 100 and just going all in on the thing that you're doing, your goals, you know, your commitment, your family, all your priorities, all your, you know. And so that's where the term came from. It's just that's how I've always been, you know.
Starting point is 00:23:24 Yeah. And then we said, okay, well, that's. raise $100,000 for the charity. It's zero to 100, and we did that. And then I wanted to help people, you know, get into their body, get into their fitness, eat healthy, stop drinking in a way that I did, which was gamifying it through the 105 hard, but make it in a way that it's more realistic, that it's more of a lifestyle versus a challenge that you can only get through.
Starting point is 00:23:47 Because like 5% of the people actually finish 75 hard. So it's not overly hard. It's very hard. So we created the 0 to 100 day challenge. And we also have a 30-day version of it. So you could sign up. It's completely free at 0 to 100.com. And it's basically 45 minutes of exercise a day.
Starting point is 00:24:03 Eat healthy, eat clean, don't drink alcohol, and simply prepare for the next day. And you do this for 30 days. You'll likely lose a pile of weight. You do it for 100 days. You'll lose probably 25 to 30 pounds. I mean, it's consistent. But it changes lives in both like, you know, weight loss, confidence, courage, alcohol, hundreds of people, hundreds of people have quit alcohol because of this.
Starting point is 00:24:24 And it's just a free thing, right? I show up every Wednesday. We have an accountability huddle. And that's really what that's about. It's just a way to get back. It's like if I didn't have that opportunity, you know, placed in front of me, I'd never be here today. You know, it's funny because a lot of people talk about free. But I can honestly say for the audience listening and watching that, I did join that community.
Starting point is 00:24:49 And I already work out 45 minutes a day. I probably need to do a better job of running. because I do enjoy it. I do sleep better and I stop snoring and my wife really enjoys when I don't snore. But I've been in that thing probably for three, four months. Usually by month three or four, free communities, you're being pitched something.
Starting point is 00:25:09 Yeah. Zero. Yeah. Zero pitch. Zero pitch. Like I haven't even seen anything come across to promote the 50K. No, haven't. We haven't even said anything about it.
Starting point is 00:25:18 And so like I just think that's special about you, man. And I think that's why you've been able to build so many strong. rooted relationships early on, but it's also a reason why you've been so successful in what you're doing, right? I just, I wanted to give you those flowers. Yeah, I appreciate that. Yeah. Yeah, I think, you know, the more you give, the more you get. And it's like there's, I think, you know, a lot of us, you know, meet, you know, at God's doorstep and thank God we don't die. But like, then you, you change. You're like, hey, I need to give more back. And I have to do more to, you know, fulfill these other buckets. And I've always been a giver. And I, you know, I don't know where that really
Starting point is 00:25:54 came from because it wasn't like necessarily like my parents weren't like that but you know from a very young age i was you know um you know sponsoring children on you know and stuff like that since i was like 11 years old so you know this is just there's always got to be a component of that my life the fitness thing is it's just such an easy thing that any one of us can do and it'll change our life it like literally saves lives it changes generations like our friend derrick and his children and just watching this literally goes through from the dad to the the kids that are literally changing generations. And it's just simple.
Starting point is 00:26:28 So I mean, that's just a, you know, there's lots of ways to help. And that was just one of the ways that. One thing I want to ask you because, I mean, you know, you did, you did state that, you know, you looked at your children. Like if I don't stop, then they're gonna be past this problem along. But after you've rectified it and we're years later,
Starting point is 00:26:48 and you've helped over, you know, over 100, you know, people, you know, to stop drinking or, and focus on their health and wellness, how has that changed you as a father and a husband, like specifically? Because I think there's a big difference between, I mean, I'm not saying people that drink aren't good parents.
Starting point is 00:27:08 Like people can socially drink and be good parents. But there's also different things that happen in the mind once you stop that to help you see things more clearly, to communicate more effectively to your children. What are some of the things that you saw in your parents? parenting style and being a husband that that astronomically changed. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:29 The biggest one. And this was one of the things that moved me to decide to drink was, was I just realized when the girls got, especially the older one, got to that her age, which was at that point like seven or eight, I realized they don't do what we say. They do what we do. Yeah. Like they just like copy. They catch lessons, man.
Starting point is 00:27:46 Everything. That's all they do. They don't listen to us. They do what we do. And I'm just like, that was the thing that really moved the needle. And then so once I realized that, I just took that to the extreme. And so now I don't really, you know, I might not be the best communicator to them where I give them these gold nuggets and stuff verbally. But it'd be challenging to beat me, you know, by showing them.
Starting point is 00:28:12 Yeah. And so that's really what I've been focusing on is like, you know, showing them what it looks like to go to church and to have hard conversations with people sometimes. and but loving conversations and to try to and then and put in the work to set big goals and put in the work and take them to like the Moab 240 and let them see what it looks like to be in such a hard position but never quit and it's just like so we we have there's you know we a lot of people just talk right and they have these you know intentions and what what they say and do don't realistically align with, or sorry, what they say and think don't realistically align with what they do.
Starting point is 00:28:55 You know, and I think that's where we really need to, you know, how do our actions align with what I'm actually thinking? Because, I mean, that's really what it comes down to who, what we do is actually defines us. It's a pretty simple formula. Yeah. It's difficult to execute. I was very hard to execute.
Starting point is 00:29:13 I mean, for years, I was, you know, I had a show based on determination and discipline. Mm. But I was 31% body fat. Yeah. What part of determination and discipline am I actually displaying? The moment I changed that and started displaying that, it caught fire. Yeah. I mean, it was good before, but there was incongruence.
Starting point is 00:29:36 Yeah. And people can see it. Yeah. They can feel it, dude. They can feel it. I think that's probably the best way is the vibes. Yeah. You know, like how you walk in the room, you know, people can feel it.
Starting point is 00:29:46 They can sense it. And I think, like, it is a very simple formula. And it, but it seems complicated. But I think just get rid of stop talking, stop saying. Unless you're going to use it as strategy to do something, you know, like publicly saying on social media, I think is a great strategy to say, hey, I'm going to do the 75 hard and use it as social accountability. But you've got to do the work. I used to post the story of completion every day. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:10 Because if I, one night I took, or a couple nights, it was later, like around 10. Yeah. because people catch on. They're used to seeing the completion around 8 p.m. I'll get a messing around. Hey, dude, are you good? I'm like, yeah, bro, I'm fine. I'm just, but it's like, you haven't posted it yet.
Starting point is 00:30:29 Yeah. And so it was really cool. It's like, oh, man, people are really falling along with this. Like, this is brand building as well at its best because they're trying to, they're watching what you do. Yeah, every, that's all people. And I love that. It's so good. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:42 Like the public, the public accountability portion is very important, right? I think that that's why. I, if I say something on the show or I say something in a clip, like, I have to do it. You got to do it. I have to do it now. Yeah. Because if one person hurt and I don't do it, then they think I'm full of shit. Forever.
Starting point is 00:30:57 Forever. Yeah. And I think like, yeah, that's just like a, we're big kids. This is what I learned through this process is like, we are just big children. We need to be tricked. We need to trick herself. Yeah. Into all of the, all of the good habits and then out of the bad habits.
Starting point is 00:31:13 And it, because it's not easy. None of this is easy. It's not complicated, but it's not easy. Right. You know, and so it's like, how can you, you know, it's really like the atomic habits book. That's a good book. All the basic stuff on how to make the easy habits, easy, the hard habits, hard. Like, all this stuff matters.
Starting point is 00:31:30 And it's like, it seems like, oh, it's just personal development. No, it's not. Like, this is, you get this stuff mastered and it will change, like, everything about your results. But you have to commit to it. You have to read it. You have to take notes on it. You have to execute it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:46 Otherwise, you're just wasting your time. on that pages. Yeah. You know. So there was something interesting and we always talk about adversity and how we come back from that. I don't know how long ago it was. I feel like it was six months ago.
Starting point is 00:31:58 There was a race that you did and you had a very hard time. Was it breathing? Yeah. Walk us through that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:06 So this was a hundred mile or Zion National Park. So it's, there was like 14 or 15,000 feet of, you know, climbing up mountains and down mountains and through desert. And I was crushing it. I mean, I was like probably mile 70. I was in like 23rd place instead of 300 or something like that or 260. Miles 70. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:28 You know, so it. And by then I'd started like the, you know, like I was like the breathing became laborous. And but we were cruising. Like I mean, I was still running 10 minute miles like through the mountains at 70 miles in. Like I'd never felt so good. That's insane. And then, and then it got cold and we started going up this mountain. It was dark.
Starting point is 00:32:46 It was in the middle of the night. and I just started coughing up all this green stuff. And so it was probably like maybe about 2 o'clock in the morning at this point. So it's, and it's freezing cold. And I'm just like, I started coughing and like just spitting out all this green phlegm. And I just like,
Starting point is 00:33:01 like something doesn't feel good about this. Like this is kind of scary. And I've had lung issues before. Like I did some of the world's longest Ironman races like all three day Ultraman races and some other stuff. And I was getting exercise induced as exercise induced pulmonary. edema where my lungs would fill up with fluid. Wow. Yeah. And like, you know, and like, you know, and that'll kill you too.
Starting point is 00:33:24 Oh, I have 1,000 person. So I was like, I went and talked to this doctor and he's like, man, like we're going to be running in the middle of nowhere. If anything goes bad, we can't know. They're not getting you out in time, bro. Yeah, you're done. And I'm like, you know, this is a tough decision. Because again, I'm in like 23rd place and I only have 20 miles to go. This is a mile 80. And I decided to pull the pin. Yeah. I said, you know what? This is it. That's fine. And but I got in the vehicle. I had my crew there picked me up and I got in the vehicle. And the very first thing, I was reminded that I said this was I need to get back, see a specialist and get this thing solved.
Starting point is 00:33:56 So immediately switched to, you know, not because these are, these can destroy your mindsets. Like just, you just feel bad about yourself. You're a failure. You know, you gave up too early. Should I have given up?
Starting point is 00:34:06 You'd second guess everything. But I immediately went to fix it. And, but then, you know, those doubts, those doubts and those thoughts did creep in for a few days. you know, and I got home like two days later and I went to the pulmonologist here and they
Starting point is 00:34:22 diagnosed me with the exercise induced asthma. Wow. So I've been running this whole time for the last few years. Within 10 minutes, I get it. And so, you know, so I got an inhaler. I like, I'm like, all right, well, you know, I've signed up for Moab 240, which is in April. This was in October.
Starting point is 00:34:42 And I'm like, well, I can't wait till see if this fixes the problem until moment. web. Right. I need to get back on the horse too. Plus, I didn't, I didn't want the failure, the DNF to define me. Right. And that's what I think a lot of us need to just keep in, like, keep in mind like failure is needed to grow. Real quick. Yeah. Sorry. D&F did not finish, right? DNF. Okay. So I just wanted the context for the audience. Okay, sorry, continue, because I want them to start correlating to this to a perceived failure that they've had and how to come out of it. Yeah, that's exactly it. Like, you know, we all, like, failure is just part of growth. And the fact is, and I've realized this, like, the sooner you can fail and the more often you
Starting point is 00:35:24 can fail forward and you can fix the problem, you take action, you continue. Like, that's how we create a lot of momentum. But we also create that durability, that mindset to be able to endure the failure or to the, you know, the hurdle. Right. Right. And so the, I was like, you know, at this moment, I'm like, I'm kind of defined by this. if I don't do something about it. So I was like, I need to sign up for another 100-mileer as fast as possible.
Starting point is 00:35:50 And so this was like 10 days after the race. Right. And the only 100-mileer that I could find was actually 125-miler. And it was 10 days after that. So it was about 20- 20 days from the onset of that DNF to- Yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:04 To, it was about three weeks. And then I went and ran. I signed up to do 125-mile in Sedona. And so this is 25% further. but it wasn't 25% harder. It was like the most, the hardest thing I've ever done in my life by far. You know,
Starting point is 00:36:21 I was 70 miles into that and just how slow it was in how hot. And I was like, there's no way I'm going to be able to finish this thing. Like I'm like, how is it even possible? Like, you know, I've only ever gone 31 hours.
Starting point is 00:36:34 I'm starting to doubt my, you know, my way out of, into DNFing again. Again. Yeah. Right? And I get to mile 100.
Starting point is 00:36:43 and thank God that I was starting to pay attention to my faith and like starting to lean into it a little bit. And I was just like curious about it. And I had some really good people around me. I had, you know, Derek called me and John Huffman called me. My friend Seema called me. But I'm like in this aid station, my wife and my daughter are there and they're like giving me all the things. And I'm like, I don't think I can do it. I don't think I've got it in me.
Starting point is 00:37:08 You know, and I've got 25 miles left to go. You know, and I'm basically telling me, convince trying to convince myself. But this is the biggest lesson was you have to, when you're doing something hard or when life gets hard, you need to make sure that you have the people in your corner that will tell you the advice that you need to get you to your goal, not the advice that you need to make yourself comfortable. I love that.
Starting point is 00:37:32 It's like I think of that moment when you're sitting there with the A, you know, all the A's and your family and your, it's thing. I don't have what it takes to finish. That's where 99% of the people quit. Amen. And everybody talks about like only 1% of people are this successful. They can only attain this. Well,
Starting point is 00:37:47 that's because they didn't stop. What did you learn about yourself in that moment? Well, I'm just, God, that I thankful that I have surrounded myself with the right people. This is not a me thing.
Starting point is 00:37:57 This is how important it is to be surrounded by the right people. If I wasn't careful on who I brought around me and the conversation, you know, and gave John and Derek and Seema the permission to, to be part of my virtual curriculum. then I would have never got the advice that I needed to keep going forward. You know, like if you let toxic people or people that just don't, you know, cheer you on
Starting point is 00:38:22 in your corner and they give you the wrong advice. Could you imagine how that derails your life? Oh, man. Yeah, we've all experienced that, right? We have to be so careful on who we're around. Dude, energy is important, bro. So important. I mean, no matter what you're doing, running 100 miles, doing a show, being a teacher, a doctor.
Starting point is 00:38:41 like you have a job to do. Yeah. And other people are counting on you. 100%. And if you aren't in a good space and you don't have a good support system, you're probably going to be torched. 100%. And you're going to live exhausted.
Starting point is 00:38:53 Yeah. And so I left that aid station and I prayed for the very first time my life. No way. For the very first time. And I left that and it was the most wild thing, but it was also the best I'd felt, you know, for the last, like since mild. 30. Wow. And I was over 100 miles and I've never gone this far before. And I ended up finishing
Starting point is 00:39:17 that like seriously like I was just like is this is this impossible 20 days after. Yeah. That's pretty impressive. It was 41 hours straight. So what the hell? Yeah. Like why? Yeah. Why is it really? Why? But you know, this kind of does the reason why. And to be honest, I don't think you can say it any better than David Goggins did it. We interviewed him. I didn't interview him because I was still running on the law. I'll get to that if you want. But he said like the growth that occurs in those two or four days or five days,
Starting point is 00:39:52 however long the run is, it takes 10 years to do that in life. And it's true. Like the amount of ups and downs where you have to convince yourself to keep going, the mental battles, the, you know, all the things that go through your head. That changes you. Well, it's hard at that point because you also have the mental. battles, but you have the physical battles too. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:13 Because that's hard on your body. It's, yeah. I mean, it's rough, dude. Yeah. But I get that, man, because it's, you know, if you can simulate a ton of growth in one event, I mean, you're pushing your mind and your body to places that you've never gone before. You complete that, everything else in your day to day looks like a cake walk.
Starting point is 00:40:33 100%. Yeah. And that's, that's really like, that was the pattern with what I saw when I did the 75 hard. It's like, oh, I can do hard things. You just create this belief system, right? And to believe certain things, you know, often is way more, it's way easier to see them, right? So faith is hard because you can't see it all. Right.
Starting point is 00:40:51 But when you create this, you know, do something hard, you see yourself, push yourself through it, you believe it. And you do something harder. And then you do something harder and you do something harder. And it's like, hey, I can do anything, baby. And that translates perfectly into business, into relationships and having hard conversations. It's practice. It's really like I don't know a better way to practice doing hard things in regular life like when life gets hard and unintentionally than to do hard things through fitness.
Starting point is 00:41:18 So true, man. And the other thing that that happens is you show your your two girls that they can do hard things. Yeah. And as a father of two girls myself, I have a son too. But and I don't know if you know this, but my wife told me and I don't know what study she saw. But I'm going to believe her because she doesn't tell me anything that she hasn't already vetted out. Yeah. that daughters get their confidence from their fathers.
Starting point is 00:41:40 Cool. I didn't know that. It's heavy, isn't it? Yeah, that's, that's, it's on you, bro. Yeah. Like, it's a responsibility. It is. We're a beautiful one though, right?
Starting point is 00:41:50 I'll take it. So it's like when we're doing hard things and our daughters see at. Yeah. I had a conversation with my daughters this morning. This is, I want to share this with you. Please. I told my wife about it. Mondays are usually very hard.
Starting point is 00:42:02 Like, very hard car rides. Girls are bickering. My son's triggering him in the backseat, you know. I'm like, damn it, can you guys just get along? Just don't speak for the rest of the car. Quietness. But today, you know, my wife calls me and she goes, how did it go this morning? I was like, it was a great morning.
Starting point is 00:42:21 She goes, really? I go, yeah. She goes, they were tired. I'm like, I know. The conversations in the vehicle were this. My two daughters, my, my oldest daughter, she's nine. And my youngest, my youngest daughter is six. they were planning their futures.
Starting point is 00:42:40 This is wild. So my oldest daughter goes, how old will Mia be when I'm in this grade? I'm like, well, look, you're three grades above her. So just work that. I go, why? She goes, well, because we're going to live in Paris and we're going to be fashion designers.
Starting point is 00:42:59 And so I need to know when I need to go over there to set everything up and then come back and get her so she can come over and run this business with me. Yeah. And the whole time was like, well, what college do I go to? Do I go to college in Paris or do I go to college here? It's like, well, I think you have to go to a fashion, you know, design college here. Well, what's the best one?
Starting point is 00:43:17 Is NYU good? I'm like, Alina, I, let's, we'll dive into this. But the thing that really, in the, what I'm trying to convey to you in the audience is, it was so special to see them thinking big. Yeah. And envisioning their life and how they wanted it. Yeah. to a point we're like, oh, hey, that bank right there by Chick-Fleye,
Starting point is 00:43:38 we're going to buy that. We're in high school. I'm like, what are you going to do that for? Yeah. Can't buy a bank. Why do you want to buy a bank? Well, because then we have the whole of money. I'm like, well, that's not how it works.
Starting point is 00:43:47 But it's great because, and I don't think that's possible without those two girls seeing their dad do hard things. 100%. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Doing things that he never thought that he could do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:01 It was a beautiful moment. That's amazing. I said to him, I was like, you know what guys? I was like, I told them, I was like, I'm really proud of you guys. Yeah. Like what? I'm like, you guys are talking about your future. You know, you're talking about how to get there, what it's going to look like.
Starting point is 00:44:13 Yeah. To a point where my oldest daughter, Alina, she's like, oh, me, it's got to be by the Eiffel Tower. Yeah. It's got to be facing it. Because at night, then we can look out our window and see that beautiful Eiffel Tower. I'm like, these kids understand. Yeah. They understand how to achieve what they want.
Starting point is 00:44:33 Now, hopefully throughout life. they don't become jaded and stop visualizing or creating their own movie screen of their mind. But it was just a beautiful moment, man. Yeah, I love that. And it's just that, like, that's the proof. You know, you don't get those signs all the time. No. Right?
Starting point is 00:44:49 But, you know, you just got to keep you a patient. And that's the, but that's the proof. It's working. It's beautiful, man. Talking about big goals. And this is a be completely, you know, those dreams with the kids. I ask Kylie, you know, what's your biggest dream? Like, what do you want to do?
Starting point is 00:45:03 And she's like, well, last. my head was the boogeyman under my bed. I'm like, really? Come on, kid. Like, seriously? That's what a 10 year old told. So it goes both ways. But I'm hoping that she'll get to. I mean, she's a swimmer.
Starting point is 00:45:17 She's an avid swimmer. Yeah, she kicks butt and swimming. She does. She loves the relays, right? Yeah. We had a little conversation. She's a hustler. That's great.
Starting point is 00:45:24 Yeah, they do hard things. And I mean, they just, you know, like they, because we've normalized it. And you have to. Yeah. You have to. Like, we always, teach this lesson in the house.
Starting point is 00:45:38 Do the hard, go the hard road. Yeah. If it seems really hard, go there. Yeah. Because if you take the easy route, you're going to create a really, really tough life. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:45:47 And that's a cliche everybody talks about. You want to have an easy life, do the hard things. But I think it's important to parent like that. You know, like even when it comes down to homework, well, I want to do English first because it's easier than math. I'm like, no, no, no, we're going to do the math. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:01 We're going to use all our brain power for this. We'll do the hard thing first. And we're going to get that out of the way so you feel good. And then we'll execute what's easier for you. Yeah. I just think that that is a main component of parenting, but also living a very, very productive adult life. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:18 Like you got to go the hard thing, man. Yeah, you got to seek it almost. Like, I find like if you, you got to try not to avoid it. But I think even one step further is just actually seek the hard thing. Yeah. And expect it. And like kind of almost like call it. on because when it when it does come, it's not nearly as hard when you've got that mindset.
Starting point is 00:46:40 It's just it's it's when you expect it to eventually get hard. We've all been in life where, you know, things are just like, okay, it's going too good. It's too good to be true. Which is fine. But expect it to like, you know, something just to rock your world next. And when you expect it, it's here. You're like, ah, you're here. And then I knew it's coming.
Starting point is 00:46:57 Let's go. Now I'm ready for it. Yes. You can't. And that's the other thing too. I think a lot of people live in this. I believe in positivity, but not toxic positivity. Like, if I sit there and say, this is going to be hard, I'm not going to over positive those feelings away.
Starting point is 00:47:11 I'm going to be like, this is going to suck. Yeah. I'm going to suffer here. And I think there's a healthy, we just talked about it a little bit ago on a different episode. It was like, suffering is mandatory. Yeah. You suffer in your run. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:25 Oh, 100%. It's, yeah, you choose to suffer. You have to have some type of suffering when we're doing something because that builds the resilience. Yeah. And, you know, the whole thought of the thing. failure. I always laugh at failure, right? I used to be so afraid of it. But then I realized it's like, wait a second, if you're going to build any type of muscle in the gym, you have to tear that muscle apart. Right. Right. You have to go to failure. And then it has to re, it has to come back together
Starting point is 00:47:51 and it comes back stronger. So like everything, you should be seeking that failure aspect. And if you're reaching points where you failed, don't look it at as a defining moment for you. Look at it as like, what can I learn from this? Yeah. How do you're going to be able to be able to, how to did I approach it? What was my mindset? How did I practice for this? That I get it of everything. And then if it was like, okay, maybe I just wasn't good enough on that day. Yeah. But if you work it backwards and you go, I miss a step here. Yeah. That's an important tool. Yeah, really good book that I read on this was called mindset. And it talks about a fixed mindset versus a growth mindset. Yep. Yep. And like, and that is honestly very easy read, but like exactly what you're what you're talking about.
Starting point is 00:48:31 And because we can be caught in both like a fixed mindset. And like a fixed mindset. And like, and like, mindset is somebody's like, um, that's good if, if they're going to put everything they can into a test and if they get 90%, well, that was the best I could do. That's it. Yep. Where the growth mindset is like, oh, I got 78% perfect. Let me know where I went wrong so I can get 90 next time. Yep. Yeah. Right. And so and I think like when we're looking about talking about just even our own mindset, but our children, how can we make failure okay? It's fine. It's part of this. Yeah. It's part of the process. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:49:05 Right. But like, again, like what, what you said? What can we do to fix this and make it better? That is probably one of the best lessons you can teach your kids.
Starting point is 00:49:13 Yeah. You fail out something. Congratulations. Yeah. What did you learn? Yeah. Like, you got,
Starting point is 00:49:18 it is not a bad thing. I mean, people make that, that specific F word, like worse than the other F word. It's like, because it's all about ego. If I fail,
Starting point is 00:49:28 people are going to laugh at me. Well, yeah, the ones that aren't doing something themselves. Right. They're finding the enjoyment. the enjoyment of your failure because it makes them feel better
Starting point is 00:49:36 for not doing anything. Right, 100%. Big difference, right? Big difference, yeah. Dude, let's talk about the 50K and 50 states. Yeah. Because that's a big thing. You got to go on with the Make-A-Wist Foundation.
Starting point is 00:49:46 Walk the audience through that and how they can support you and follow along. Yeah, I appreciate that. Yes, this is, so it was, it actually started before the Moab. And it was like, they got to the point where, okay,
Starting point is 00:49:57 Moab was just a stepping stone. And because when I, before the Moab, God told, me use your legs to help people, right? Like getting, you know, running 240 miles in one shot is great. It serves the ego. It's a big distance. It sounds great. But like, who does that help? Nobody. Yeah. And so I had, I started this idea about four months ago and I'm going to run 50K in all 50 states to give at least 50 wishes to 50 brave children that have critical illnesses. So it's, like you said, it's done through all make a wish. So the goal is to raise a million dollars. And so we're going to be
Starting point is 00:50:30 literally hitting a big city in every single state in the United States in 2026. Most of it's going to be done from August till December. And we're going to be, I'll be, you know, posting the route and the dates on the website in the next probably a few weeks or the dates at least. So people could come out and we're going to post the route. So you could come out and you could run, walk, stroll, any distance. And then we're going to be finishing. This is the best part.
Starting point is 00:50:54 So people can come along with you. Yes. Yeah. We're going to make this. The thing is this could be huge. and it's completely free, right? This is, and it's going to be huge. So we're going to be gifting the children,
Starting point is 00:51:05 their wishes live at every single location. So the people that come out and they're, you know, they're shooting their Facebook stories or Instagram stories and they're sharing it and they're donating or they can, so you could donate, you know, money if you want directly to me
Starting point is 00:51:20 or to somebody else, but you could also fundraise your own amount, right? And then collect your own money. And we're going to actually teach people how to do this and feel good about it. Yeah, of course. Because there's strategy around this. And then they can come out and join it and share it.
Starting point is 00:51:33 And the goal here is to create a lot of momentum and a lot of awareness. So that way we can raise a million, probably $2 million, $3 million. Wow. Like we're going to create a social movement and really want to give the goals so big that we want other people to find purpose within it. I want to show how giving can be easy. It can be fun. It can like change its purpose.
Starting point is 00:51:56 You know? And we get so caught up. in achieving our own personal goals of making more money or buying the bigger house or the cars or the promotion. And thinking that that's going to give us peace and satisfaction. And what I've learned is it doesn't. I mean, I've had all the things. And it never is fulfilling.
Starting point is 00:52:17 And it, but helping somebody else is very fulfilling. And I'll remember that forever. It's so funny you say that because I remember when I bought my TRX. It's my dream car. It's a bad truck, bro. And I was fulfilled for like a week. Yeah. And then after that, I was like, okay.
Starting point is 00:52:36 Yeah. But when I get messages from somebody that I don't know that thinks I'm never going to read that message. And they always start off with, you probably will never read this. Yeah. But I have to tell you this on how a certain episode helped them, that's worth more to me than anything I could ever buy. Yeah, so good. So good. And people just don't know that, like, how that feels sometimes.
Starting point is 00:53:00 because maybe they don't know how to give or like what charity does sponsor, you know, what charity to donate to, how much to donate? Like people don't know, a lot of people don't know all these things. They're also scared because a lot of like some of them,
Starting point is 00:53:16 the actual cause doesn't get most of the money. Mm-hmm. Yeah. And so it's hard to vet that out. Yeah. Right. Yeah. And so we're working very closely with,
Starting point is 00:53:25 um, make a wish Florida. They've been amazing. So this is a true sponsorship. And, um, You know, I know how much money is going to be going to it because we'll be raising it. That's amazing.
Starting point is 00:53:35 Yeah. And so we're building a machine. Like we're running this like a company. We're having L10 meetings like you would, you know, in, you know, I've got 28 staff. I'm running this project like I run that company. That's amazing. And we're going to be looking for sponsors across the entire country. So if you have a business, you want to sponsor the location in the run at that location
Starting point is 00:53:54 and the live giftings. We'd love to hear from you. And we're looking for influencers in all the cities to come out and share it and promote it. and to get people out there, we want this to create, like just to be an amazing experience, both for the families that are going to benefit, but for the rest of us that can create the change.
Starting point is 00:54:11 Yeah. Because that's where the trickle effect happens. We're going to do some great. We're going to help at least 100 kids. I know that. But the big impact is if we can teach and show people how they can do this in their own little world,
Starting point is 00:54:24 in their own world, right? In their own communities, we're going to move the world a little bit. What I'm super excited to see is where you start with how many people are following you and running. Yeah. To state 20. Yeah. Bro, you're going to have a massive movement.
Starting point is 00:54:41 I hope so. And that's going to be really freaking cool, dude. Yeah. We'll have to do this again after you're done with that. Yeah. So I want to talk about your experience and how it filled you up. But this is starting when now? You're going to start doing this.
Starting point is 00:54:53 So we're doing a Florida tour in March. Okay. So March 14th in Fort Myers, 15th in Tampa. and then two weeks later, we're doing Orlando and Miami. And so I'll be running 50K in each one of those cities. We'll be gifting, we'll be giving live wishes to these children
Starting point is 00:55:07 at each one of these locations. Wow. So you want to come and see it, experience it, feel it. Like, I'm going to come to the Fort Myers one. You know that. You got to be there. I have no excuse. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:18 That'd be kind of bad if I didn't. Yeah. Right here locally. Yeah. Maybe we'll do something there. Yeah, we should definitely do something there. Yeah. That's really exciting, man.
Starting point is 00:55:25 I just, it's really nice to see everything that you're doing. you're using your gift, right? You're utilizing your legs to help people. But I think that what I want the audience to realize, and I'd love to hear your opinion on this and give them some thoughts is, I truly believe that every human wants to help somebody, but we just don't know how.
Starting point is 00:55:46 And we kind of talked about that, but every one of you has a gift. And you may not see it as something that you can help people with, but it's just because you haven't dove in enough. Like, you get to really dive in to what your gift is. like for me, it was my voice.
Starting point is 00:56:00 Yeah. My ability to communicate. I'm like, well, what the heck can I do with that? Yeah. Well, eventually you find a way.
Starting point is 00:56:05 Yeah. Right? So what are your thoughts on that? Yeah. I think, you know, discovering what you're, what,
Starting point is 00:56:10 how you can help. You know, I think when we were at church the other day, that, you know, there's, there's something that are really good at administration for an example.
Starting point is 00:56:17 Like, I mean, that could be your gift or, or, you know, like counseling people. That could be your gift. There's a way to help somebody with that. You know,
Starting point is 00:56:26 for me, you know of course I'm going to be using my running to do it but I mean my gift also is just like the ability to never quit and like I have a business you know mine so I can turn I'm turning this thing that I could just run a you know make it a nonchalant 50k and do this half you know half willy or I can run it like a business and raise millions of millions of dollars it doesn't both take effort one uses my gift one you know it's just so yeah I think I think it's important I think and it doesn't have to be, you know, your gift is not my gift. You know, like I couldn't do what you're doing, Sean. And likewise, you probably not going to do what I'm going to do. No. But together,
Starting point is 00:57:06 yeah, we can create a lot of massive impact, you know, and just as an example, like I've, you know, as I've been talking about, I've been recruiting a lot of support from other CEOs. Like, hey, when you come here, I can help you with this little part or this little part or, hey, you know, let's, I'll sit on the meetings and sit on the board with you, like, or just other people on social media like hey, DM me when you're coming to this city, I know these three people. Like it could be, you know,
Starting point is 00:57:30 seemingly small to the giver, but create massive amounts of impact for the people that it actually hits. One introduction from you, from someone to another person could change their whole complexion of what they have going on. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:57:43 And it's something small for you. It's like, hey, guys, connect. Yeah. That's it. Right. And I think that when people try to dissect their gifts, they judge them,
Starting point is 00:57:52 not impactful enough, not big enough. Yeah. And they go, and they look at other people like, well, I want to do it like that person. What would you tell those individuals that are thinking like that?
Starting point is 00:58:00 Well, all you need to do is just help. That's it. It doesn't have to be, you know, like, it takes a bazillion grains of sand that make a beach. Right? And I think just, you know, if it, if you do it out of love,
Starting point is 00:58:18 and it can be small, it can be big, just do it. Just help. Yeah. You know, don't judge it. Just try. I love the. sand analogy or the beach analogy. I never,
Starting point is 00:58:26 never thought of that, though. It's a collective effort. Yeah, it's a collective effort. It's compound. I mean, there's no one person is going to go and raise all this money and do help all these kids. It's not the Brady show. Yeah. You know, there's going to be probably a thousand people that make this possible. Dude, that's going to be so cool to watch, bro.
Starting point is 00:58:42 What are you doing from now to prepare for this? What are you doing from now until March when you actually, March 14th where you're running in Fort Myers? Yeah, so I'm in strength mode right now, so I'll be doing strength up until the end of December and then I'll start running. I'll start a running block. I'll probably like ramp up to you know like 32 miles at a session maybe like 70 mile weeks. Kind of treated like a hundred
Starting point is 00:59:06 miler training block. You know by the time I'm at my peak for that I'll probably end up training for like maybe like 18 hours a week. And then once I start, then I probably will just be doing the runs and then recover. Runs and recover. What do you do to recover? What do you do to recover? nutrition, sleep is really important. Peptides, hydration. It just depends. Like if the body is, if I have like tight IT bands or pulse,
Starting point is 00:59:36 like they all do electrical pulse therapy and some electrical pulse padding and stuff like that or rolling. But other than that, it's just rest. I mean, from these big efforts, a couple weeks. Yeah. Exosomes really helps. Oh, how yeah.
Starting point is 00:59:53 speed it up a lot. So good. So good. So good, bro. Oh my God. The amount of growth factors that are in exosomes is tremendous, dude. It fixes you right up. Well, after the 240, it was like two weeks, two weeks and I had a torn quad.
Starting point is 01:00:11 And I talked to Jeff and I'm like, should I go see the doctor? He's like, let's just see what happens. Just, you know, give it a couple weeks. And then we'll talk about it. I was back to squatting in two weeks. That's insane. Yeah. And I couldn't, I could barely walk finishing that race.
Starting point is 01:00:26 You know? That's. So they work. That's some witchcraft, bro. It's just crazy. Well, look, dude, I appreciate you, man. Thanks for coming on. Yeah, thanks a lot for having your story and, you know, giving the audience a good feel
Starting point is 01:00:39 of who you are as an individual, what you've overcome and how you're helping the community right now, which I think is the most important part. And who can forget the kids, man. Yeah. The, you know, the mission you're on with the Make a Wish Foundation, that's massive. I have a, someone very close to me, he's very young, is going through brain cancer right now. I coached him in Little League and it's been very, very heavy. They found another mass and the original mass started to bleed last week.
Starting point is 01:01:09 So they went and he was airlifted to Miami. And they actually, I think two days ago, they took the second mass out. They got it all out. but this first one is just, so the fact that you're doing that, you know. Yeah, it hits home.
Starting point is 01:01:26 Yeah, it does. Yeah. I mean, you just got to think like, unfortunately you have that experience to lean on. And I mean, most of us, you might not,
Starting point is 01:01:34 you might know a child that's gone through some critically ill issues, but like, just think about if your kid was like that. Dude. You know, it's heart wrench. How do you?
Starting point is 01:01:44 It's terrifying. I, in the parents. Yeah. Megan and Eric, there, They're just, I don't know where they're from. I don't know what planet they're from.
Starting point is 01:01:54 But the amount of faith in positivity that they have. Like I called dad the other day. I'm like, he has a vote. He's like, Mr. Bridge, what's up? I'm like, well, hold on a second here. What's up with you? Like, how are you? Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:08 Right. And so I look at that and I'm like, you know, I can't even imagine. I don't even like when my kids have a cold. Yeah. Because I feel bad for them. Yeah. Oh, man. You know, they're sick.
Starting point is 01:02:18 you know, I want to help. I can't imagine that on the flip side. I can't fathom what the parents are going through. No. I just, I don't ever want to know. I'm here for them. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:35 I never, I don't want that experience. Yeah. But it's just amazing to me how they've stayed steadfast in their faith. Yeah. And that's positive. And it just, they're, they're superheroes, bro, because. they're in the fight of their lives right now.
Starting point is 01:02:51 Yeah, no doubt. It's just sad to see you, dude. Yeah, I'll pray for them. That's wild. Yeah. You don't make it. Yeah. He's going to make it.
Starting point is 01:02:58 You know, he better. Isaac, you better. Yeah. You know, I mean, I can't think of any other outcome than that. But dude, how can the audience find you, man? Yeah, I mean, Instagram, Facebook, all the places, Brady. Dot McDonald, 84. And then wishmaker 50.com is that base.
Starting point is 01:03:16 Wishmaker 50. com. Wishmaker 50. We'll be coming into us. near you and we'll be gifting live gifts to these children. So the impact that we're talking about, you can actually do it. That's awesome, dude.
Starting point is 01:03:28 Look, man, I appreciate you. It's been fun and a long time coming. Yeah, absolutely. Thanks. Thanks for me, Sean. Absolutely, brother. All right, guys. I need you guys to share this show with someone you know, love and trust.
Starting point is 01:03:39 Make a Wish50.com. See how you can get involved. Also check out 0 to100.com and see if that's something you're interested in. And start moving your bodies a little. bit, start giving people gifts based on what your gift is. Any way you can help utilize your gift and don't judge it because any amount of assistance you can give is enough. So until next time, guys, stay determined.

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