Determined Society with Shawn French | Adversity & Mindset - LiFe Is NoT G RaTeD

Episode Date: June 18, 2021

Shawn French is sick and tired of people throwing shade at public figures for the type of language they use. In this episode he discusses multiple public figures and how they are shamed for their choice of language. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/shawn-french/message Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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I decided just to kill the music in the beginning. Because you know what? I realized it was playing the whole damn song. I just wanted a little bit. So I got to figure that out. Anyway, man, I want to talk about something today. It's really kind of got me fired up. I'm pretty passionate about this, but I've been seeing a lot of it.

So here's the thing, guys. Every time I see David Goggins or Andy Fasela post something, actually Andy doesn't post anymore, he's been doing more of the story stuff, but it's been rumored that he's going to start posting again for some cool content for cars. people who like cars. So that would be awesome. Love what he puts out. But anyway, it's mostly Goggins and I'll see stuff on Andy Foreslla's Facebook page. And it'll be like, you know, it would be awesome if you would stop with the F-bom so I could show this to my kid. Or it'd be really cool if your content was cleaner so I could share it with my seven-year-old. Okay, wait a second. First of all, I have a 7-4 and a 2.

And it is not Annie Fricela's or David Goggin's job to provide content for my kids so they could go and be super successful, et cetera. Yeah, I know Andy's got his books out. But listen, parents, don't put that shit on them. Life is not G-rated. It is not something that they're going to go into the world and people are going to handle them with the proverbial kid gloves and be like, okay, Johnny, this is it.

It's going to be really, really hard, and I want you to stay focused. No, life's going to hit them in the face. So what our jobs as parents is to do is to listen to these big influencers like Annie Fricela, David Goggins, all these other guys and gals that are out there doing entrepreneurial things, personal growth. So that way we can live by those principles and work our butts off day. day after day using those guided principles they're giving us so that way our children see it in actionable steps in us on a consistent basis so that way our kids go holy shit look at mom

look at dad the freaking badasses i want to be like them so then they start modeling that that behavior you're modeling they start following they start doing then when they're older they can listen to to the people that are dropping the F-bombs on the podcast or the video cast or on a Facebook page or an Instagram page. Why is it society's right to get on someone's page like, you know, you probably shouldn't curse in your content. Dude, who the hell are you to tell them not to be their authentic selves? All of a sudden, cursing offends people?

like dude this isn't church this is social media it is what it is and if you're so simple-minded that you can't look past the language content to what's really going on and what they're saying the message then you know dude you need to listen like over and over and over again yeah this one's got me fired up guys like i'm always going to be real it's not going to be always like like, you know, butterflies and rainbows in my world. And if I have something to say, I'm going to get it out. And this baby, this may be too much for some people for me coming out here like this. But you know what? That's fine. You don't have to listen to me. Like, you can change a channel anytime you want. Like, it doesn't matter. Like, I want you here. Like, totally do. But, but guys, we have to quit looking at people that are putting stuff out there that are super, super super

and attack them because of language content. Like, dude, listen, listen to the stuff yourself. Apply the principles. You be the parent. Like, not once did I sit there and think, like, man, I should really, I wish I can have my son listen to Andy's episode. No. No.

That's not what I do. I'll buy them the books. Charlie and notice, 1,000%. They're on their way, actually. but for me to sit there and say like okay i'm gonna i'm gonna take all the focus off of what i say and put it on somebody else oh nope can't do that because they said fuck no no no no no you learn things from people in your life life is like a puzzle you see pieces you try to fit it in if it doesn't fit that's fine no harm no foul get rid of it find a piece that does fit

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There's some major golden nuggets that everybody can pick up and use in their day-to-day lives to help them become more successful and more productive. More productive on a day-to-day basis. And your kids, your kids are going to see that. That's what's going to impress them. not not what a public figure says these kids are tiny they're babies they don't want to see mom they want to see dad they want to see you absolutely taking the bull by the horns in life doing your deal a little fired up huh anyway that's all i got today guys i'm going to figure out the music but just really really really really think about that.

And if this pisses you off, ask yourself why. Why does this upset you? Why does this trigger you? It's my opinion. I'm not asking you to agree with it. I would never do that. I don't force my opinions on anybody. But I will tell you this.

There's a lot of lessons to learn out there. And these lessons come in many different forms. Some have curse words in it. Some don't. Remember, it's like a puzzle, man. You pick the pieces, you put them in. If it doesn't work, you throw them out. But don't get on someone's social media account and completely throw shade because you have an issue with how they get their message across the people.

Just tell them they can't be themselves. If they weren't being themselves, then it wouldn't be as impactful. Think about that for a second. They gotta drop an F bomb. They drop an F bomb. So what? Like I said, life is not G rated. Period.

End of story. All right, guys, listen. Working on some things. Hope you guys have a great, great weekend. Sorry I had to get fired up today, but you know what? Sometimes y'all need to hear it. Sometimes I need to say it. Sometimes it's for you.

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