The Jeff Cavins Show (Your Catholic Bible Study Podcast) - Feeling Alone at Church? God Works Through The Remnant
Episode Date: April 5, 2018Do you feel alone at church? Perhaps your parish does not offer faith formation programs and while you want to start one, no one else seems to be interested. Perhaps your feel like the only parishione...r who actively wants to deepen their faith. Today, Jeff offers you words of encouragement. God often works through the remnant (a small remaining quantity of something). He may be calling you to do something within your parish. God depends on the remnant to bring the gospel to the world. What can God do through you in your parish? Do you have comments or questions for Jeff? Use the comment box below, or email Jeff at thejeffcavinsshow@ascensionpress.com. You may hear your question or comment in an upcoming podcast episode!
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Episode 59, Feeling Alone at Church, God Works Through the Remnant.
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if you're on fire for the Lord, but find yourself in an atmosphere.
where others are not. God has always worked through the remnant. The Messiah came through a remnant
people, Israel, and you'll continue to work through people like you. And that's just a word of
encouragement that I put up today. And in less than a half an hour, already 44 people have said,
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the show a little bit easier. Well, today I want to talk about, are you feeling alone in your
parish? Are you? So many people will say to me, whether on the road or an email or a tweet,
they'll say, I'm feeling so alone. I'm feeling like a minority within my own parish. I want to
get Bible studies going. I want to get adult faith formation programs going. But I can't seem to
get anybody on board or more often what people are telling me is that there's not a program in
their church. They don't have a Bible study. They don't have an adult ed programmer or they don't
have anything for the teens, you know, those types of things. And they want to know, well,
what do I do? Well, what I want to share with you on this particular show is, number one,
don't be discouraged. And I'll tell you why. I'm going to go through the Bible in just a moment
and show you that God actually works through the remnant, the remnant.
And I looked up that definition.
The remnant is defined as a small remaining quantity of something.
And if you are feeling alone in your parish at St. So-and-so church in somewhere USA,
and you're feeling like there's just not a lot going on there.
Well, it might be because you are feeling like part of the quantity, this remaining quantity,
of something and that it's not getting the job done. But here's the second part of it. God may be
calling you to do something extraordinary, even as a minority, as a remnant in your parish. And I know
what that feels like. You know, I think a lot of people know what it feels like to be in a parish
where there's not a lot going on, but they get on Twitter, they get on Facebook, they get on the
web, and they, you know, they watch TV and listen to radio. And they hear about all kinds of wonderful
things that are happening around the country and parishes, and yet they feel like their own parish
is not on fire. And there's a number of reasons that people give, you know, for that lack of
zeal in their parish. It might be their pastor. It might be a deacon. It might be just a,
you know, a lack of parents getting involved, whatever it might mean. But I don't want you to be
discouraged. I want you to be encouraged because God can do amazing things through a remnant.
is one of the beautiful things about the kingdom of God is that the Lord is not dependent upon
numbers. He really isn't. He's not dependent upon numbers and he's not dependent upon movie stars
and rock stars and, you know, politicians and all that. I mean, yay, that's great that they're
with us and all that. But that's not what he's dependent upon. He is actually dependent upon the
remnant. He's dependent upon those who are weak that give their lives to him, and he depends upon them
to bring the gospel to the world, and they do. If you look at the lives of the saints in each of
their stories like Mother Teresa, St. Therese, or Teresa of Avala, or if you go back to some of
the earlier Saints, Athanasius, and others, I mean, these are not rock stars in their culture.
You know, in fact, they're the least of the least in many cases, and yet God use them to do very extraordinary things, and that is a lesson for all of us, that it isn't the talent, and it's not the ability that you exhibit that will be translated into a powerful parish. It is the talent that God has given you exercised by God, and it's not your ability, but your availability to be used.
in your parish. And the exciting thing, and I run into this all the time. The exciting thing that I
notice happening in parishes around the country is when people who feel like they're alone begin to do
things in their parish and they see the wonderful work of God in individuals' lives. And I want to
encourage you to start thinking about that. What can God do through you in your parish rather than waiting
around for God to send someone to feed you or bless you. You might be the person. In fact,
every time someone comes up to me and they say, I've got this idea. I got this idea in our parish,
you know, that we want to have this adult ed program where they meet with their teens once a
month and they do this and that and they come up with a, you kind of a plan. And I'll say,
great, that sounds fantastic. And who's going to do that? And they go, well, we don't have anybody.
Well, you might be the one to do that. Seriously.
you might be the one. So if you're feeling alone at church, don't be discouraged. God works
through the remnant. And again, what's the remnant? A small remaining quantity of something.
And that's something in your church might be the faithful who love the church, love Christ,
love the blessed mother, love all of all that the church has to give us. But the temptation
is to be discouraged. So as I said in my tweet earlier this morning, do not be discouraged if you
are on fire for the Lord, but find yourself in an atmosphere where others are not. God has always
worked through the remnant. The Messiah came through a remnant people, Israel, and he will continue
to work through people like you. And my friend, that is the truth. That's the truth. And the
DNA, one of the things that I am always in marvel of is the DNA, the spiritual DNA of
apostolic ministries of people who exercise apostolic zeal. There's a DNA there that even though
they know they're in the minority, even though only a few people show up, they continue on
because they know that God does something phenomenal with mustard seeds that nobody else can do.
He can multiply.
And I see this particularly in the young, in teenagers and young adults who have this wonderful apostolic zeal to change the world.
I remember when I was, let's see, what was I?
I think I was 19, 19 years old in Bible College in Dallas.
Texas. And I can't tell you that the zeal that all of us had was so contagious, you know,
that God was going to do amazing things in our lives, even though we were so small, so little,
nobody knew who we were, but yet, man, we had that zeal. And I think that's part of the DNA,
the spiritual DNA of the young in the church. And if you ever get around somebody who has
that kind of zeal, don't ever squelch it. You know, encourage you. You know, encourage you. And
them. You can do it. God will use you. God will use you to turn the world upside down.
And I would say that more times in my 20s than my 30s or 40s or 50s, more times in my 20s
did I say, all things are possible through Christ who strengthens me. We can do anything through
Christ. We'll turn the world upside down. Everybody's going to hear about Jesus. We've got to get that
back. We've got to recapture that perspective on life in the face of what looks like a small,
small group of people because that's the way the Lord works. He started with 12 disciples and he turned
the world upside down. Now what I want to do, I'm going to take a break here and when I come back,
I'm going to go through some parts of the Bible with you. I want to show you how God works
through the remnant, through this remaining small, small remaining quantity of something,
which is you.
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We're talking about feeling alone at church.
Well, God works through the remnant.
Don't be discouraged.
And he delights in working through the remnant.
He delights in working through the minority and through the weak.
And in the week, he's strong.
And that's what Paul said.
You know, Paul said, when I'm weak, I am strong.
and you feel like you're not the wisest, fantastic, that's who he uses.
And so it's an upside down kingdom, and I love it.
So let's look at the Bible here for a moment, shall we, and see the pattern of God
working through the remnant.
You can go all the way back to the early parts of the book of Genesis, and you'll see
that the world was populated with people at this point, and that the majority of the people
were not quite on board with what God was doing, but Noah and his family were. And so God chose Noah
and his three sons, Shem, Ham, and Japheth, their wives, Noah's wife. And so you've got eight
all together there. And in the face of overwhelming odds with the wickedness of that generation,
God moved through the remnant. He moved through the small remaining quantity of something.
and that something was the faithful.
That was Noah.
And so you have the story of Noah and the flood going on the ark with two of every kind of animal,
40 days and 40 nights of rain.
And then afterwards there's the subsiding of the water.
And Noah and his family come out and God makes a covenant with Noah.
There you have one of the first examples of God working through the remnant.
He worked through the remnant.
Now, Noah could have sat back and said, you know what, this plan is so screwed up.
I mean, look at this.
There's eight of us, and look at how many wicked people perished in this flood.
But he didn't.
He kept going on.
And then you move on to Abraham.
Abraham and his wife, Sarah.
They lived over in modern-day Iraq, Ur of the Chaldeans, it was called back then.
And here's God choosing one man.
and one woman as a rock that will be a force to deal with, and they will start a movement
that today, you know, we consider Abraham our father in the faith, and yet he was a minority.
He was raised in a place where they worship the moon God, and he was faithful, and he sought God out.
and in the midst of a culture where they worshipped many, many gods, polytheistic culture,
God revealed himself to Abram and said to Abram, there's really, there's one God, and that's me,
and he ent challenged Abram to move from Erv the Chaldeans over to Heron, which is northwest,
and then down to the land of Canaan, to the land that he would show them and give them.
And so again, you see God moving through the remnant to do something, something special.
spectacular. Now, Abram could have said, hey, where is everybody else? Why am I the only one that
seems to be on board here? What about everybody else? I'm not going to get involved with this if there
isn't some quorum, you know, if there isn't some kind of majority that we can work from. That's
never been the way that God worked in history. And he's not going to work that way in your church either.
He's going to work through the remnant and something beautiful can happen and thousands of people's
lives can be changed. But if you're waiting for everybody to get on board before you throw your,
you know, your hand into the ring, so to speak, that's the wrong attitude. So you got Noah,
you got Abram. And then there's Moses. Moses was certainly in the minority in Pharaoh's court.
And it's really beautiful what God did with Moses is that he took Moses and literally felt, I'm sure,
he felt isolated.
You know, when he was a young man, he ended up killing another Egyptian who was hurting fellow
Hebrews, and as a result, he had to go into exile out into the desert.
For 40 years, he was out there.
You talk about feeling like a minority.
You feel like, feeling like you're a remnant.
All your people are back in Egypt, and here you are on the backside of the desert, and God speaks to you and says,
Moses, go to Pharaoh and say, let my people go.
And I imagine Moses felt like, oh, am I the only one?
But God used him in a powerful way.
And he used him, even in his name, Moshe, which means to draw out in a prophetic way.
He was named Moses.
He would draw his people out of bondage, but it wasn't from the perspective of strength.
in numbers. It was the lack of numbers and minority. And God used him in a powerful way. In fact,
he says, I love this as a result of Moses and the Hebrews coming out of Egypt. Then later we see
that we have the nation of Israel. And God reminds Israel in Deuteronomy 7. I'll put this in the
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Here's what Moses said in Deuteronomy 7, 7 through 9 about Israel.
This is so beautiful.
And maybe take it to heart.
Maybe you feel like this in your parish.
Quote, it was not because you were more in number than any other people that the Lord set his love upon you and chose you.
For you were the fewest of all peoples.
But it is because the Lord loves you and is keeping the oath which he swore to your fathers
that the Lord has brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you from the house of bondage,
from the hand of Pharaoh, king of Egypt.
Know, therefore, that the Lord your God is God, the faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast love
with those who love him and keep his commandments to a thousand generations.
unquote. Isn't that beautiful?
Ah, I love that. And that's a word from God for you today.
It's not because you were more in number.
It's not because you were more beautiful or you were more educated or that you're taller or
shorter or from the right side of the tracks or whatever that the Lord set his love upon you
and chose you because you were actually the fewest.
That's what he says to Israel.
You want to know the truth.
You were the fewest.
It wasn't you weren't the greatest.
And again, we see there that God works through the remnant.
He works through the small remaining quantity of something.
It's like the feeding of the 5,000 in the New Testament.
In the feeding of the 5,000, they got 5,000 men plus women and children.
And Jesus wants to feed them.
And he asks them, what do you have?
And they said, well, we've got five loaves and two fish.
And Jesus says, fine, give it to me.
And he blesses, Baruchata, Adonai, Elohino, melech haulam.
Hamotzi lecham, min ha'rits.
Blessed are you, Lord our God, king of the universe, who causes bread to come forth from the earth.
And he took that remnant, and he fed the 5,000 plus.
Do you get it?
That's how he works.
Don't be afraid of minority numbers.
Don't be afraid of the fact that nobody else.
is participating. If you know the truth, then get involved because he'll work through you
in a powerful way. You weren't the greatest. The Lord loves you and he's keeping the oath which
he swore to your fathers that the Lord has brought you out with a mighty hand. You can go on after
that and you see the book of judges. You see Gideon. Gideon was called on by God to fight the Midianites.
guess what Gideon's excuse was. My parish is too small, and I'm not even on a committee.
That's my modern translation. Take that up with the theologians.
Gideon was the least of his tribe, and his tribe was the least. It says this in judges,
pray, Lord, how can I deliver Israel? This is what Gideon says to the Lord. How can I deliver
Israel. Behold, my clan is the weakest in Manassah, and I'm the least in my family. And the Lord said to
him, but I will be with you, and you shall smite the Midianites as one man. Now, let's take that
apart for a second there, because that's actually very, very powerful, isn't it? And what we see
there is that God calls Gideon to deliver Israel from the Midianites.
and Gideon is just full of excuses.
Do you know people like that?
Maybe you're like that.
Maybe I've been like that.
I'm sure I have from time to time.
We're filled with excuses and the excuse goes something like this.
Well, I don't come from real great background, you know?
I mean, I'm not really skilled and talented at this or that.
And in fact, I'm the least of my family.
And that's the excuse that Gideon comes from.
but listen to what the Lord says and this is the key right here this is the good news for you this
and that is this god says to gideon who's filled with excuses god says but i will be with you
lord i don't have enough money but i will be with you lord i'm not real talented at speaking
but i will be with you lord i don't have an education in this area but i will be with you but the
people don't know me very well. But I will be with you. But I wasn't raised on the right side of the
but I will be with you. But it's a new pastor. He doesn't know, but I will be with you.
No matter what we throw at the Lord in terms of excuses as to why he can't do a great work in our
parish, he will always come back with yet I will be with you. I will be with you. I will be with you.
and that is a beautiful, beautiful thing.
King David, you can move on in salvation history.
King David was what?
He was the youngest of his brothers.
He was the little kid that showed up
when his oldest brother was going to fight the Philistine giant.
Remember him?
Goliath?
And this little twerp, David comes from Bethlehem,
and he's listening in and he says,
what's the reward for the guy that kills the Philistine?
Well, he gets the daughter of Saul, Michael, is her name.
And his brothers were bothered because the remnant, the little dude, was coming up to the battle line.
And they said, well, you're just showing off, you know, you want to make a name for yourself.
And King David's, no, no, no, no, the Lord can do this.
And it was the remnant.
It was the, what did I say earlier at the beginning?
It was the small remaining quantity of something that's King David.
it. And you know the story. In Hebrew, it says he beat the snot out of them. It's a little more severe
than that in Hebrew, but he defeated Goliath. That's right. The small remaining something
defeated the giant. And then, of course, you come to the New Testament. You've got the disciples
and the disciples were chosen by Jesus. But remember, if you've heard my podcast in the past on
and how to become a disciple of a great rabbi,
you'll know that the fact that they were all fishing
when they were chosen means they were not chosen
by some great rabbi.
They were told to do their father's work,
fishermen, carpenter,
you know, a shoemaker, whatever it might be.
They were out there making a living
when Jesus called them,
which means that they were not chosen.
And again, we see in the choosing of the 12 that those who were not chosen were chosen to change the world.
It's the remnant.
It's all through the Bible.
It's all through Scripture.
And if you're feeling like that that's happening in your church, then rejoice because God can use you in a powerful way.
I love it.
You know, I'm really reminded of also the hidden riches of God.
that we don't see in our parish.
It's true that you might feel like the only one that is there and you're the only one that
is quote unquote orthodox, not that we use these terms, you know, liberal and conservative
and so forth.
It's faithful and unfaithful, actually.
But we oftentimes will think we're the only one and God will sneak in sometimes and say,
hey, hey, I got a lot more here that you don't even know about.
If you start networking with other people in your church, you're going to find other people who feel like you.
You're going to find other people that feel like they're part of the remnant and they want something to happen in the parish.
You can lock arms with them, lock visions with them, and make things happen in your parish.
I'm reminded of Elijah, the prophet.
Remember when he took on the prophets of bail and afterwards it says, and there he came to a cave and lodged there?
I'll have it to know it's First Kings 19.
And behold, the word of the Lord came to him, and he said to him,
What are you doing here, Elijah, in this cave?
And he said, I have been very jealous for the Lord, the God of hosts, for the people of Israel,
have forsaken thy covenant, thrown down thy altars, and slain thy prophets with the sword.
And I, even I only, am left.
And they seek my life to take it away.
Unquote.
Bring on the violins.
It's all over.
that's the way Elijah felt and God comes back and says I have so many more that you don't even know about
who are faithful to me and oftentimes that's the way it is and perishes when we feel so alone
and God says you know what you're not really alone not only am I with you which is number one
yay but there are other people too and so I want to encourage you this week if you feel like this
to know that, number one, you're not alone.
God is with you.
And there may be, number two, there may be more people than you think.
And number three, God works through the remnant.
He delights in showing forth his power in weakness.
He loves to do it.
And if you feel weak and you feel dumb and you feel inadequate,
quit. You are ripe for being used by God. Just give yourself to them this week. Give your gifts and
talents, your vision, and your apostolic zeal to Jesus and watch what he does with it. Don't be
afraid of the numbers. You know, when I first put the Bible timeline out there, if you're not
familiar with it, it's a series that I teach it, which takes people all through the Bible from
Genesis to Revelation. You can find it on ascensionpress.com.
come. When I first went to publishers with the idea of teaching Catholics the entire Bible in 24
weeks, you know what I was told? They'll never do it. It's too long. It's too deep. Catholics don't
read the Bible. They're sacramentally oriented and they're not going to go that way. You know what
I said to them? It's not true. It's God's Word. And I felt so alone and so small in the face of publishing
companies. But there was one, a good friend Matt Pinto in Ascension Press that said, let's do it.
Let's do it. And today, some would argue it's the largest Bible study in America now.
And that's due to the fine work of Ascension Press and all of the people that work there and
the great work they're doing. Yeah, we've all felt like a minority. We have. But look what God
is doing. And perhaps he's doing that with other ministries as well that I'm not. I'm not.
not even aware of, and I'm sure of it. And that's the way he is. So be encouraged.
Hey, by the way, if you are, as I said at the beginning of the show, if you're interested in going
a little bit about my schedule, I go to Israel every January and I lead pilgrimages there,
they tend to fill up quickly. If you're interested in going to Israel with me next January,
go to my website, jeffcavens.com. Up at the top, there's a tab for pilgrimages, and you can get
your space locked in on that trip.
This one's proving to be a very popular one.
We're going to have a good trip, good people.
Coming up in April, I'm going to be going to Ireland.
And in May, Father Mike Schmitz and I are going to Israel.
I'm not sure when that's going to happen again,
but every few years or so, the two of us will lock arms and fly on over
and lead people on wonderful pilgrimages.
but if you're interested go there and and oh by the way ascension press is also this year
releasing the great adventure for kids stay tuned for that i'll have a show on that it's going to be
really good might even bring my wife emily on the show and let her talk to you a little bit
about how these ladies have been working hard at bringing the great adventure to um to kids
so having a good time serving the lord every morning my wife
wife and I will get up and we'll pray together and read the Bible and have some tea. And I hope you
have a routine in your own life as well. That routine of meeting with Jesus every day faithfully
will also contribute to this sense of inadequacy that we have when we feel like a remnant
in our parish. My friend, God is going to do great things through you. Give your life to him
and allow him to use the foolishness of this world to confound the wise and the weak to astound
the strong. That's you. That's me. Shall we pray? In the name of the Father and the Son and the
Holy Spirit, Jesus, we rejoice in you today and thank you for allowing us to walk with you. It is so
fun. It is so life transforming to walk with you on a daily basis and to see what you do. We give you
our lives, Lord, and help us not to be afraid of being remnant, a remnant in our parish, but help us to
have vision and to do your work even in the face of overwhelming odds. We thank you for this in
Jesus' name. Amen. Name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. My friend,
go back to your parish, be the remnant and be successful and give God the glory. Amen. We'll see you
next week.
Thank you.