The Jeff Cavins Show (Your Catholic Bible Study Podcast) - Meet My Friends: Michael Gormley and Dave VanVickle
Episode Date: May 3, 2019Jeff sits down with Mike “Gomer” Gormley and Dave VanVickle, hosts of Every Knee Shall Bow (https://media.ascensionpress.com/category/ascension-podcasts/everykneeshallbow/), a podcast about how Ca...tholics can evangelize and share the faith. Mike and Dave are both very active in evangelization at their parishes and in their personal lives. We talk about the assumptions we make about other Catholics, tracks (pamphlets that preach the gospel), and what to say to people who don’t consider evangelization their “gift”. Snippet from the Show The big focus is community. Jesus Christ is very keen on community because it reflects a trinitarian lifestyle.
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You're listening to The Jeff Kavens show, episode 115, Meet My Friends, Mike Gormley, Dave Van Vickle.
Hey, I'm Jeff Kavins. How do you simplify your life? How do you study the Bible?
All the way from motorcycle trips to raising kids, we're going to talk about the faith and life in general.
It's the Jeff Kaven show.
Hey, I want to welcome you to the show this week.
So good for you and me to get together like this.
And you get a chance to meet my friends.
And in the past, we've had an opportunity to meet some really great people like Dr. Ted
Sri, Father Josh Johnson, and the amazing chef, John Falsh, the king of cuisine in the South.
And it's good.
I like to introduce my friends to people so that you get a...
kind of a wider perspective on what's happening in the Catholic world today. And as you know,
evangelization is one of my all-time favorite topics. I love talking about discipleship, and I love
talking about topics like love, simplicity, suffering even. But part of being a modern day
disciple, or is what I call an activated disciple, is evangelization, learning how to share your faith
with others. And more so than ever, we are running into
a lot of young Catholics who are really becoming effective in sharing their faith, not only on
podcasting, radio and TV, and talking about how to do it, but actually doing it in their lives.
And I've got two people that I want to introduce to you, who are friends of mine, and they have
an amazing podcast called Every Knee Shall Bow, and that includes your knees.
And their name, Mike Gormley, and Dave Van Vickle.
Welcome to the show, guys.
Thanks. Thanks. This is awesome. Thank you for having us.
Yeah. I have had the chance to be on your show and really enjoyed it.
And I think that the more we can share our stories with one another, the more people get a fuller idea of what it means to be Catholic, to be a disciple, and to be an active evangelizer, if you will.
And I love your show, every knee shall bow. How long have you been, first of all, let me get to know you guys a little bit as far as an introduction.
Mike, you and I've known each other for a while.
Mike Gormley, tell us a little bit about what you're doing, where you're at,
and some of the things you're involved in.
Yeah, so I am at my home parish since I was a teenager.
I am doing adult faith formation and evangelization at St. Anthony O'Padoa in the Woodlands, Texas.
And I've studied your Bible timeline since I was in high school.
Hope that doesn't age you.
But my pastor has had the privilege to go on several of your pilgrimages to the Holy Land.
waiting on that phone call for me, whatever.
Hint, hint.
But yeah, so.
Note to producer.
But so what do I do?
I help adults grow in their faith through really trying to develop win programs for
people who don't have faith, don't know their faith, don't know if God knows and loves
them, and then send programs.
Programs to send Catholics out who are committed Catholics into becoming evangelists
and learning how to love their families through the lens of the gospel and reach out to
their neighbors and all that. And for me, the big focus is community. Jesus Christ is very keen on
community because it reflects this Trinitarian lifestyle. So my goal and I work with Ascension Press to build
this thing called radical communities where people can come together in their homes with their neighbors
and really explore the gospel in a friendly but still powerful way. And yeah, so that's what I'm doing
right now. I'm trying to gather as many young people as I can in my home for a meal.
and prayer and all that stuff in and through my parish work outside of my parish work.
So that's what I'm doing.
Yeah, and I'd like to talk a little bit more on that in just a little bit about radical communities
because that's something that I read up on that.
I looked at what you were doing.
And I got to tell you, it is innovative, creative, and it's new and fresh.
And I think that it really fits into the times that we're living in.
Let's open up, have my producer, Christina, open up the green room, bring Dave in here for a moment.
Oh, he's still snacking on the food in the green.
Dave, come on in here.
That would be awesome.
Where was the food?
I was supposed to listen.
Dave is good.
Good to have you on the show.
Dave Van Vickle.
Tell us a little bit about your background.
You are half of the great
Every Knee Shall Bow podcast.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm the better half, maybe.
Yeah, maybe.
That's what I would say.
Yeah, I'm in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.
I'm married and I have five children,
and I hope to overpopulate the earth with disciples.
But we're at five now, so we're working on it.
And that's the great commandment from the book of Genesis, Poo-U-U-Ravu, be fruitful and multiply. That's right.
So you're Poo-U-Ravooing. I hope to, yeah. The, yeah, I mean, I had a, you know, radical conversion to the Lord. I grew up Catholic, but conversion to the Lord at the age of 15 and kind of became obsessed with evangelization immediately after that. And now I'm extremely passionate about that. And I work professionally at a two.
large Catholic parishes, well, large by Pittsburgh standards, in the Diocese of Pittsburgh as
the director of evangelization. And I also do a lot of speaking on evangelization, but mostly actually
on spiritual warfare. So that's kind of what I speak on all around. So, yeah. Oh, that's great.
And are you both graduates of Franciscan University? And I didn't, I didn't know it until a few
weeks ago that, that you guys actually were with my daughter Carly over in Goming, Austria.
That's so crazy.
I wasn't in Gomming, but I knew Carly well.
Yeah, and I didn't know her well.
So when I walk into a room on the very first day of our study abroad program in Goming,
I see a picture of her standing next to you and some woman.
And I was like, hey, who is this?
Why are you standing with Jeff Kavis?
Who's this woman?
She's like, I'm Carly Kavins.
Jeff is my dad.
That's my mom.
And I was like, of course.
I'm going to leave right now.
I got to get out of here.
Now the two of you have this great show,
every knee shall bow. And I've got to say that that is a subject that I'm interested. It's primarily
on evangelization, right? And learning to share Christ with other people. Of all the topics in the
world that you could have centered your show on together, what brought you to evangelization?
Yeah. So, well, first of all, it's the one thing that Gomer and I have been passionate about, you know,
and we talk to each other about often and have, we already are having these in-depth conversations about
evangelization. Dave, can I break in for just a second?
Did you just call him Gomer?
Yeah, sorry.
I'm never going to call him Michael ever for the rest of my life.
Even if you...
30-second explanation.
Gomer was actually, that nickname is after what you think, the harlot from the Bible.
I don't know why people started calling him that.
Well, I would think with a name like Gomer, you'd have a pile of trouble.
Oh, boo.
Shazam, Shazam.
Has that one ever been used before?
No, no one.
Okay, Dave, back to you.
back to you since we brought you out of the green room right right so so when we you know we were talking
about doing a something to promote evangelization because um you know there's just not a lot
honestly there really isn't a lot and i think for gomer and i when we were younger i know when i was
evangelizing there were a few like protestant schools there were very few books that were catholic
there was almost no catholic resources on how to practically evangelize and you know it was kind
it was rough, you know, to get out there and to just be trying to share my faith without any
kind of guidance. So we thought, let's do this. We should do this. Yeah. I think, you know,
it works because we've made every mistake, you know. It works because we've made every mistake in the
book, right? So we can share a lot of wisdom from the mistakes that we've made, I'd say.
Mike, you're going to comment, or Gomer. Sorry. You know right. No. The idea behind the podcast for
me, I had taught Catholic evangelization 101, a program that I came up with, and I ran it as a weekly
thing every Monday, and then I ran it as an all-day Saturday kind of event. And I noticed that they
had two very distinct feels to it. And while I wouldn't say the day one, the in a day one was
like a bankrupt thing, there was power in giving people homework and taking it week by week. And
what we would do is we would check in as a class on Monday how their previous week went and you ended up seeing lives slowly and then dramatically changed the more they were investing in this relationship with their friends and bringing Christ into the middle and when we were talking about our show I said well I already have these topics kind of listed out and we can expand them into more but Dave like there's literally no one else I want to talk about this stuff with because you're he comes at it from such a
different way like that spiritual warfare mindset and the way that he did it and i came from it from
this nerdy kind of theoretical way which can be helpful and can be uh an excuse not to actually
talk with real people and so when we did this it was like it has to be weekly and it has to center
on practicals and the good folks at ascension uh shut down all of our initial episodes because i'm like
let's talk about theory and it's like no we need to be utterly practical to to true
equip the saints for the work of the mission.
Well, that is something that, you know, I feel passionate about myself as well, and that
is that, you know, when you look at any topic within Catholicism, whether it's the Blessed
Virgin Mary, the sacraments, church history, the papacy, mass, you know, there's really a lot
of really good material out there. And there's a lot of good books and recordings and things
like that. But sooner or later, we've, you know, we've got to find
a way of bringing this to the masses and learning how to communicate all of this beautiful
stuff to people other than ourselves constantly. And I think that's what you guys are all about
is bringing it to the world. In fact, Dave, I know you used to even write your own tracks.
Explain what a track is because there are people who don't even know what a track is. Tell us about
that. Right. So, yeah, I mean, I remember being passionate about evangelization and thinking,
okay, I'm just going to, I don't know what to do.
I'm just going to go walk out, you know, and hand out something that would kind of, you know,
explain the gospel and attract is exactly that.
It's like a small pamphlet or something that kind of like preaches the basic gospel message
or maybe a specific aspect of, you know, what you're trying to get across or something.
And I remember, you know, in the days when, I mean, you know, this is aging us even,
but like even when like computer ink was like at a premium, you know, like printing out my own tracks
on my dad's computer and going to, you know, into Dallas and passing them out, like at gas
stations or, or, you know, just on the sidewalk and things like that. And I, I would love to find
one because I'm sure it's just horrendous. But, but, yeah, that's what I used to do.
Well, back in, back in my Protestant days, I was a pastor for 12 years. We did some interesting
things. Of course, that was in the day of the Protestant tracks called Chick-Tracks.
Right. And Chick-Tracks were actually anti-Catholic. You know, they had actual
tracks. They were just the worst.
When I do prison ministry, they
still have them. And so a lot of
they're making a resurgence now. That's a big
resurgence. They are. Are they really?
Oh yeah. Oh yeah.
Well, you know, I would try to be
creative and you guys can certainly
steal this little ideas from me.
But I guess you can't because
times have changed. Back when I was
in my 20s and really excited about
evangelization, which I am still,
they had what they would call
pay phones. I don't have time to explain it, Google it. But they had they had pay phones where you
would you get change back. If it was a 20 cents to call, you put a quarter and you get a nickel
back. Well, I used to make little pieces of paper that said looking for change and it gave our church
name and address and put in, I know it's cheesy. No, that's awesome. We actually had people
who called us and said, I found this piece of paper in the, you know, in the, in the coin return on the
pay phone. And so I'd try to find creative ways of getting the message out. So that's interesting
that you created your own tracks and you had passed them out to people. I want to take a
break. And when we come back, I want to go deeper, Mike, into what you're doing in your parish
as well as the show, of course. But I think what you're doing there is great in terms of
evangelization. And Dave, a little bit more about what you're doing and how this show is really addressing
the idea of evangelization. I'm talking with Mike Gormley and Dave Van Vickle. They are the hosts
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Welcome back.
We're talking today about my friends,
and that's Mike Gormley and Dave Van Vickle.
They're the hosts of Every Knee Shall Bow.
That's one of Ascension Press's a great podcast.
and they do some other work, too, in podcasting.
And they're both involved in Pittsburgh and Houston in their own ministry at their own parish
and just doing a great job.
Welcome back, guys.
Thanks.
Yeah, thank you.
Good to be back.
I noticed that during the break, you guys were in the green room, and there's nothing
left in there.
It's a green room.
It is the only podcast that does have a green room that I know of, where our guys are.
actually do get treated well, you know, during the breaks. Anyway, hey, we're talking with
Mike Gormley and Dave Van Vickle. Mike, you and down in Houston, Texas, you have a really
unusual way of evangelizing that I'd like our listeners to hear about. Well, just at the parish,
one of the things that we realized early on is that there is a profound hunger and thirst for
solid Catholic content that many adults
never received. So within
our children's programs and our youth
ministry programs, they were so strong and vital, but there was nothing
for adults. So a bunch of people who were excited about their face
started launching all of these different adult faith formation
Bible studies. We do pretty much every single thing
Ascension Press has ever produced, ever. But one of the things that I
started to notice was there was a profound
I like to use focus as a model of win, build, send.
There was a profound amount of investment in build.
And you can understand why, right?
These are the people who are there and they're demanding, right?
They want to know more.
They're the ones who are already invested.
And so when I was hired, it was already in the midst of all these wonderful programs
that were going on.
And what I began to realize was there was a total lack of win and send, right?
The people who are committed Christians who were mature in their faith in Christ,
they weren't stepping out of the classroom
and that made me very nervous
and then at the same time
we weren't getting people on the parish
we were getting them through relationships
but there was nothing kind of formal
or built into our parish structure
that really welcomed
people who were searching and seeking
and that's a universal problem
isn't it? Absolutely
I mean I run into parishes
that not only they have no way of bringing outsiders in
but the people inside don't know how
to get in through RCAA or anything else.
They really don't, you know, they don't know.
It comes, Easter vigil shows up, and they have 1,800 families in the church,
and three people are coming in, and the rest of the people don't even know how they came in,
really.
And that's a problem.
Yeah, so we try to look at it from a broad range approach.
So one of the things that I began doing at my parish was I offered a series called the Start
Here series, and the kind of underlying premise was, we presume no knowledge.
and this was to reach
to me what I'm most passionate
about is a once a month to once a year
Catholic people who come
to anything once a month to once
a year I lose sleep over these people
right so I flower children
right and so my whole hope is
all right I know that they are
people who have never studied the Bible
I've discovered don't want to do a Bible study
because they don't want to be exposed
in their ignorance to their peers
so we do these series where it's like
presume no knowledge of the Bible
literally day one is get a bible bring it to class and we'll talk about the cover and the spine and the table of contents and that's it and you had people bring their home bibles they had the big family bible with their name you know that they got a you know like that they got of their marriage or whatever with their gold embossed you know name on there you had people bringing children's bibles most of them brought protestant bibles they had no idea and so we just spend that time so no one felt like oh i'm ignorant i'm going to look like an idiot or whatever
And so I realized when that was successful, we needed to replicate this for prayer, for morality, for all the big areas, you know.
Don't assume a lot.
Yeah.
And most people assume that the people in the pews know and they want to be there.
When, in fact, the assumption every priest should make is those hearing my homily, many are seeking, many are searching, but most are ignorant.
And a lot of them are apathetic.
So we try to do what we can.
So we have a lot of programs to nourish a developed faith.
and so we're starting to build those things so we started another program called inclusion
which separated disciples who are Protestant who are baptized in their Protestant faith but who would
consider literally on the handout what they kind of like try to understand it's like do you consider
yourself a follower of Jesus a born again you know disciple of our Lord and you think following
Christ might lead you into the Catholic Church then come to this if you're not a practicing Protestant
but you were baptized when you were nine or 10 inclusion is not right for you so inclusion is like
an in-depth study of the differences between Catholics and Protestants, right?
And so doing these things, you're enabling onboarding in a really exciting way.
Well, what you're saying is so true, you know, just to pause on that thought for a moment,
when you talk about, we assume so much of what people know, and Catholicism is highly
saturated with meta-language.
and from an outsider's perspective, they don't know even what we're talking about.
I remember teaching in Minnesota a few years ago, and we had a good group of people there,
and I was talking about the Magisterium, and I gave a little talk, you know, on the Magisterium.
It was part of my talk, I think it was an hour long, and later that night, when I got home,
I got a phone call from someone, and they said, I loved your talk, I got a lot out of it,
but can you tell me, what is a Magisterium?
and I said, well, mom, and I began to explain.
And I remember back at Steubenville when Scott Hahn and I had a holy hour every morning
for about a year, and we would pray together in the chapel there at Steubenville at Franciscan
University.
And one morning he mentioned something about a monstrance, and I had been pretty new
coming back to the church, and he mentioned a monstrance, and the only thing I could
equate it to was Monstrance Inc or something, you know.
And I didn't know what he was talking about.
And I was afraid that he was going to ask me.
And that's a fear a lot of people have.
No, you're going to ask me to open up to Jose.
I don't know what to do.
And I don't want to look like a fool.
So I went home after our prayer hour, our prayer, holy hour, all kinds of names for it.
And I looked up in the dictionary, monstrance, went, oh, my gosh, is, okay, to demonstrate.
It's, all right.
But that kind of illustrates what you're talking about, and that is that we've got a hefty
message for people and a great message for people, but it is laden, heavily laden with
meta-language. It is. That's why I think the number one thing any Catholic needs to do at a
parish is rebrand R-C-I-A. Do not call it R-C-I-A. Most people can't remember those four
initials. They can't even remember. They can't even remember. Is it CIR? What was it? Dave, have you
run into that yourself? Oh yeah. We run into it all the time. We run a similar format at our parish
has like kind of like focus windbiddle and send we call it charygma catechesis and conquer and we're
we're like obsessed with the transitions so like we we want to make sure that there's bridges you know
from people like responding to the corigma responding to the corigma responding to the corigma responding
to the carigma and then like kind of graduating in a sense into catechesis and bopping around
in curriculum and catechises and during those times we literally like run class like how to be a
Catholic, you know, like that kind of thing, where we go over terminology. So like, you know,
at our parish, we'll have every single month there will be some kind of class on how to begin a
prayer life, what it means to be a Catholic, or how to be a Catholic, and there'll be a class
on how to share your faith. So that, and we continually offer that so that everyone in the parish
eventually would have a chance. That is so good. That is so good. So refreshing and needed. What kind
response are you getting? Yeah, so I'm actually new to these two parishes, and it's already going really
well, so those classes are always pretty full. But at the parish I was at for seven years before this,
you know, we had, I always brag about, we had 400 people who had been trained to give their
five-minute testimony, their five-minute witness. And so we created like a culture of
corigma, we call it, and every single meeting, every single thing that, you know, we did
started out with someone's testimony or a preaching of the corigma.
And it usually was from a peer group.
Well, you know, you guys are familiar, and we've talked past.
In fact, I was on your show a while ago talking about the activated disciple and the
corigma.
And I'm a firm believer in that there's seven points to the corigma, obviously.
You know, God loves you as a plan for your life and so forth.
But I'm, and you know my cheesy phrase.
Go ahead, tell me.
What's my cheesy phrase?
You got a.
Brew some curig ma.
Exactly.
Brew your own.
Brew your own cup of curigma.
That's exactly right.
But it's really true, isn't it?
That we all don't share the faith the same as everybody else.
We do have the same message, but we do have to brew our own in a sense of how am I going to convey this incredible story and this plan that God has for people's lives and introduce them to the fact that, hey, sin is real.
and it's really messed up our lives, and there's a solution to this.
Comment on that for just a moment.
I'm curious because your show is focused on evangelization,
and this whole idea of ordinary, everyday Catholics learning to share their faith.
Is this something that you're seeing more of?
Yeah, the desire.
The desire is definitely there.
I think there's still a lot of fear in stepping out and initiating those conversations on an airplane
or in the coffee shop or whatever.
But the kind of method behind it is a three-story evangelization, right?
I want to get to know your story.
I'm going to ask you questions about you.
I'm going to share my story so that you can get to know how Christ changed my life.
And in sharing my story, I'm going to tell you God's story.
So it's like the message is always the same of who God is.
My story is my own.
This is my story, my way, the path that I discovered Christ.
And you have your own story and your own path and your own way to the capital T,
capital W, the way. And so it is beautiful in training people how to do something that's so
individual, so personal, but also at the same time has that universal content, which is the ever
ancient, ever new gospel, right? Yeah. Dave? Yeah, well, one of the activities I always like to
lead people through is, you know, we have the corigma in five steps and trying to put your
testimony in five steps and lining it up with the corigma. I think it can be really powerful.
to do that because, you know, I mean, a lot of times evangelization takes like the form of just like
throwing up on a person, right? And you definitely don't want to do that. Right. Like you want to,
I know. It's kind of like, I think my opinion is the hardest part about evangelization is patience
and like relying on the fact that it's okay if you're just sharing one part of your story with the
corigma because God is going to work out, you know, a lot of times he's just looking for somebody to step in and get
hit and then he's going to pull you back out so you don't mess it up right and so yeah i love that
i love that point where you're saying david is that you're not responsible for the entire thing
you know you're part of a team and that team uh that that other team member who's going to
witness to uh the person you're talking to might come tomorrow at a ball game you know and you don't
know that this is a this is a marvelous tapestry that god is bringing together because he's more
concerned about that soul than any of us on this on this show right now you know and he has a plan
for their for their life and he's looking for our cooperation but let me ask you guys this
because this is one of the the the pushbacks that I hear when it comes to evangelizing which by
the way years ago if I said in Catholic circles evangelizing they'd say oh you're Protestant
it's van evangelization you know and so we kind of lost all those
silly little arguments. Now we can say whatever we want. It's evangelizing, evangelization,
is that when we evangelize, oftentimes we'll ask people to also evangelize or share their faith
or witness, whatever you want to call it, but we'll hear this from people. That's not my gift.
What do you guys say about that? My big thing is you might not feel gifted in sharing,
because there is a gift or a charism of evangelism.
But I tell people, but it is your duty.
It is your responsibility.
And God has called you to it, and he's equipped you for it, right?
You might not have a powerful charism to go stand and fill stadiums.
That's not what God has called you to.
But to remain silent about Jesus Christ, you don't want to follow.
You don't want to have what Jesus Christ said will happen.
If you don't preach men, if you don't preach me before men, if you don't witness me in front of others,
I'm not going to witness you in front of my father on your judgment day, right?
Like, it's this notion of this is a call that God has equipped us for, but it's a duty rooted in our baptism and confirmation, right?
It's, and if you truly believe, why wouldn't you want to share this message with others?
I think, what do you think, Dave?
I think a lot of, a lot of times that response comes from a deep-seated idea of what they think evangelization is.
And I think, I think a big problem is that, you know, you have to remember, we have to really, really remember.
And I think this is a big problem for, like, well-known professional Catholics,
is that are we preaching the gospel, am I preaching the gospel of Dave Am Vickle,
or am I preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ?
And if I'm preaching the gospel of David Mvichol, then I can say to you,
I don't know.
I don't think I'm called to do that because I don't have very much confidence in the gospel
of David Vichol.
But if we can say to people, we're calling you to do anything like that.
We're calling you to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ.
That's a requirement.
I think you get a better response in that.
sense, and it doesn't matter if you're gifted in it, because all you're doing is telling a story,
a great story, and doing a lot of listening. I guess that's, that's, you know, usually my
take on it. And when we share the Lord with people, whether it's at a coffee shop, a ballgame,
Walmart, or a family reunion, or a neighborhood picnic, whatever it might be. Bathroom. Yeah,
exactly. I've got some stories there, too. But wherever we share it, I think, you know, you bring
up a good point, and that is that we are, our assumption of what it means to share Christ
is usually highly theological. It is verses, it is Latin, it is biblical concepts, and so
forth, and let's face it, the average Catholic out there is not equipped then to share that,
but if it's a relationship of one person sharing the good relationship they have with the Lord
and what the Lord has done for them, then anybody can do it.
So most of my sharing with people in the area of evangelization is actually not scriptural.
It's not in the sense of, you know, Romans chapter 3 and verse, you know, says this,
but it is telling them that during my times of uncertainty,
if I'm meeting somebody who's really struggling and to say that in my times of uncertainty,
I can tell you that my relationship with Jesus Christ has meant all the difference in the world.
that's a witness right there because, you know, Peter said, always be ready to give an answer
for the hope that is within you, and that answer is Jesus Christ, and that is witnessing,
and yeah, we have time to get down into verses, and maybe even if you have a question about
doctrines in the Catholic Church, whatever it might be, but the initial witness is he's changed
my life, and that brings me to a point that Monsignor Pope, who I think is an excellent teacher
on the carigma brings out. And he says that, you know,
biblically speaking, when the charismatic message
was given in the New Testament, it was on the heels
of a sign, a wonder, a miracle. And so
right away, people are going to say, well, man, I don't have a sign, a wonder,
or a miracle. And he brings out the point that your changed
life is the miracle. Your relationship with the Lord is the
miracle, which in response, people will say, well, I've never left the church like you, Jeff. I've
never been on drugs. I've never been an alcoholic, you know, I've, I've never done this or that.
Now's the time to start. Now's the time to start. Yeah. Well, let's say, I've never, I've never had a
story like that. In other words, they equate that with, I don't have anything to share. But I do in
that I actually am experiencing what the world is looking for, which is,
purpose,
direction,
peace to my life.
And that's what we've got to get
into our heads
is that if you're a Christian
and you have been changed by Christ,
that's the starting point
that he has changed my life.
And nobody can take that away from you.
Nobody can take it away.
And don't you think, I mean, like,
this idea is,
this is frustrating to me, right?
This is, what more drama
could you add to the idea
that the God of the universe,
the uncaused cause, the unmoved mover is deeply head over heels in love with you.
It doesn't add much to the story to say that you were like an international drug lord or
something like that. Just being a normal person and knowing that the God of the universe
loves you is a dramatic story. We don't have to add much to it. It's beautiful. But that's what
happens when people think they're sharing the gospel of so-and-so instead of Jesus, right?
like I have to be I have to have the sensational in order to draw their attention it's like well he
already did the sensational thing right he already did it yeah it would be like me saying you know
i've got a story to i used to be a packer fan but then the lord got a hold of me you know no you
don't i'm kidding all my friends in wisconsin you know i love you that was cheesy i know but
the we the story you have is your own story nobody can take it away i can say to someone
Jesus has changed my life, he's given me a peace in my life that I've never known before,
and I'm learning how to live in a way I never knew before, and someone can, they're not going
to say, oh, that's not true. It's not true. It's my story. It's what Jesus has done in my life.
And then they can get around to, well, what is he done? Tell me what your relationship is like with
him. And that's when you begin to weave in, you know, doctrine and theology and so forth,
if you can at your level. But that, that's the reason I tell people,
to start brewing their own cup, you know, get used to sharing your story, your elevator pitch
as to what Christ has meant in your life. We're almost out of time, but I want to know where can
people get a hold of you, and we'll be certain to put it in the show notes if they want to get
a hold of you. And again, the names of your podcast so that they can listen and enjoy the good
things you guys are doing. Yeah, so you can find me at layevangelist.com. That's my main, like,
kind of speaking and
website. I also have
links to different audio stuff that I
do. My other podcast
is called Catching Foxes, but the one
that I think your audience would appreciate the
most is, of course, every knee
shall bow. I also do a parish podcast,
it's just for our parishioners called Beyond the Bulletin.
It's good fun if you want to steal ideas.
Overachieve much. I know. I want to
be a podcaster. That's all I want to do.
It's like David's, one of
David's mighty men, his hand has
clung to the microphone.
Yeah, and you can see my schedule for speaking at the sinners guide.com, the sinners guide.com. This is my only podcast, is every knee shall bow. I'm completely and utterly devoted to that one single podcast. I'm like Michael. I was a man of many hearts.
But please, yeah, come out and see me. I'd love to see you at some events.
Well, I appreciate you guys coming on the show today. And my friends, these are my friends. And I introduce them to you today.
Mike Gormley and Dave Van Vickle.
They are the hosts of Every Knee Shall Bow,
and I recommend the show to you,
and you're going to learn more about evangelization.
Hey, I really do appreciate the email you send me.
And my email address, once again,
is The Jeff Kaven Show at ascensionpress.com.
We read all the email,
we take it into consideration for show ideas
and things that we need to address.
love to be friends with you on Instagram.
Again, I'm just Jeff Kavens on Instagram.
You know what's so funny about that?
I've got to tell you is that when social media first started,
I started with Facebook and Twitter and things rose real quickly,
and I didn't even know about Instagram.
And when it finally came about, it was just for pictures.
And I have just got on board, I'm of shame to say recently,
but I am doing more and more work on Instagram, so I'll see you there.
And again, thank you,
so much for joining us. I want you to know I love you, and I pray for you every day, and I know
I'm with you in the car a lot and maybe in the backyard with some iced tea, but know that you're on
my mind, and I'm thinking about you and praying for you, and I appreciate your prayers for me.
And I'd like to conclude this show by praying for you once again, in the name of the Father and
the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Lord, I lift up my friend to you right now, and we've been together
many of us for many, many episodes and some just joining, but I lift up my friend to you right now
and ask you to bless their life, give them wisdom and direction, and bring them close to you
and reveal yourself to them in your word, in the beauty of the church. And I pray, Lord,
for their safety, and I pray, Lord, for their discretion and prudence as they live and become
activated disciples. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen. Name of the
Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen. Look forward to seeing you again.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.