The Livy Method Podcast - Maintenance & Mindfulness: Maintenance Mindset Mondays - March 17, 2025
Episode Date: March 17, 2025Maintenance Mindset Mondays is all about cracking open the conversation about what REAL maintenance looks like – beyond the scale and deep into personal transformation. Join Gina and Odette as they ...dive into the week’s focus, share insights on all things maintenance, and answer your questions. Whether you’re new or experienced, there’s something for everyone!This episode is all about solidifying—pulling together everything you've learned and taking it to a whole new level of being in tune with your body. We’re going beyond just food and talking about the mind-body connection, how maintenance is an extension of weight loss, and why Back On Track is about so much more than just what you eat. Struggling with old habits creeping back in? Gina and Odette cover what your routine might be missing and how to find the balance you need to support the life you want to live. Plus, quick tips for finding the Lives, an update on the upcoming Maintenance app and book, and how Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) aligns with The Livy Method.You can find the full video hosted at:https://www.facebook.com/groups/ginalivymaintenanceandmindfulness Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Welcome to Maintenance Mindset Mondays. Here we are rolling into week 10 of the maintenance program,
focusing on solidifying the mind-body connection.
Really just pulling everything all together.
Yeah. Right? At this point?
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. You know, when we talk about that mind-body connection,
we've talked so much about the connection to your hunger levels and the connection
to feeling satisfied and it's been food focused a little bit,
like eating focused.
And now I think when we talk about leveling up
like they're doing in the weight loss group
and solidifying like we're doing here,
we're taking it to that next level, really.
We're taking it beyond food.
Like it's really being connected to the energy
that you bring, the energy that you bring,
the thoughts that you bring, the feelings that you bring and being connected to that,
not just being connected to how food makes you feel and what you should eat and when,
which is a massive part of it, of course.
But we've worked so hard on that already.
Let's think of the next step, this bigger picture of being connected.
Yeah, I mean, this one, as you know, so anyone listening or coming across the podcast randomly,
I'm talking to Odette, who's the manager of the maintenance program. And so we started
this maintenance program a couple of years ago out of members really feeling like they
needed more. They were being taught what they needed to be taught in the weight loss program,
but they felt like they needed more structure, more support when it came to maintenance.
And so out of that, and Ruth Kane,
who's been studying the Libby method,
she knows that, we know that it works for weight loss,
and now she's recently been spending her time
researching people who've been successful
at maintaining their weight.
And she has realized, or her research has determined
that it is what you are learning while you are losing weight that helps you be able to solidify and maintain and sustain your weight but i think more than that where does that where does the maintenance part.
Come in is there's a weight loss mindset and now there's a maintenance mindset and then you're gonna have to also then move on to a live your wife mindsets. And you know, so
so what you are learning the skills that you are learning in
maintenance, or solidify the sport you're learning and weight
loss is solidifying maintenance, what you are learning in
maintenance is solidifying that next, live your life, put your
weight journey behind you. We're always thinking big picture,
always thinking big picture.
Yeah, it's an extension really the MAIDAS program
is an extension of what you've already learned.
So, as you're going through the weight loss program,
your focus is weight loss.
It's getting that scale to move.
And we talk about you're learning the skills,
you're learning the tools, but you might not, and I'm not
saying this is for everybody, but they might not appreciate what they're actually learning and picking up because it's
that it can be a physical process, especially if you're losing weight quickly, and you hit your goal quickly. You know, we
can say you're gaining the tools, you're putting things into practice that you need, but you might not have quite an appreciation where now you get to maintenance and you're not trying to get to
your lowest low. So this is where you can put those skills and tools into practice. This is where you
can have a bigger appreciation or more of an appreciation for what you need to learn and then
putting it into practice. Yeah, it's not just going through the motions again. Like time is really
important. You need to give your body time at the motions again. Like time is really important.
You need to give your body time at your new weight.
So your new weight becomes your new set point,
but what you are,
that doesn't mean that you can't level up even more,
get even more in tune to your body's needs
and really bringing awareness to like,
from the minute you wake up
and you open your eyes in the morning,
how am I feeling?
Where am I at?
What do I need?
What's going on in my life?
And talk about coping mechanisms, right? Like falling back into, oh, I know you want to talk
back on track today. So we were talking earlier, people saying, well, I need to get back on track
because I'm, you know, I'm back to eating chips in bed and I'm doing this and I'm doing that. Well,
why are you doing those things? You have learned that those things don't serve you nor support the
life that you want to live. So why are you doing those?
Why do you need to get back on track from that?
Why is it happening in the first place?
And so, you know, really just bringing awareness to where you are at and everything that you need to support the life that you want to live.
And that's the freedom and that's the space that you now have.
And that's really where you want to focus and really putting
your weight loss journey behind you and really being present in your maintenance journey
so that you're going to be able to get to a place where you know your past weight loss,
past maintenance and again just you're living your best life.
Yeah, I think you know back when we talk about back on track, again, it's it can often be a food focus, you know,
and this is I think back on track and this week of solidifying your mind body connection are they
just go so well together. I mean, our members in maintenance, if they've done the Libby method
to lose their weight, which 99% of the members here in the maintenance group have done,
they're familiar with back on track. They know that it's there.
They know it's a tool that they can rely on.
Even though we say, when you're here solidifying,
we want you to keep everything as consistent as possible.
Back On Track shouldn't be used just because it's there.
You know, you wanna minimize it.
Yeah.
Those members, it's familiar to them.
They know it's there.
But it can often just be like I just said, a food focus, like, oh, I just have to go
back to the basic food plan and I'll be fine.
But the basic food plan is not going to, like you said, help you figure out why do you need
it so often?
Or, you know, is back on track?
Are you using it almost like an excuse to go off the rails?
Like, oh, I can just, I can do this because I have back on track, or I can act this way and make these choices
because I have it back on track,
versus keeping it in your back pocket
for it not to be the norm.
It really is only to be pulled out when you really need it.
And you don't want that to be your norm.
So I think when we talk about solidifying
that mind-body connection,
it's also solidifying the connection as to you know
Why you're using back on track? I think you can use it, you know when you need it
but if you're using it like an excuse or like
Like a loophole. I think that's where we have to figure out why you have to use it
Yeah, no that makes a lot of sense
It's good to have it in your back pocket
But again, and this is not just going through the
motions. And then so why are you why are you needing it? What's
going on that you need it in the first place? Again, we want it
to be there in those times. But deeper than that, this is where
you spend the time being like, well, how did I get to where I'm
so off track? And am I happy with the choices that I made
unless it's like, Yeah, I went away on vacation. And I just
like was like, fuck it. I ate all the things I happy with the choices that I made? Unless it's like, yeah, I went away on vacation and I just like was like, fuck it.
I ate all the things, I drank all the things.
I had the time of my life.
I do not care that I feel like garbage right now.
I'm just gonna get back on track and off I will go.
I love that mentality.
But even if, but if you are in maintenance
and you are doing that and it's like, oh, why did I do that?
And I feel so awful.
There's still work for
you to do there. Like if you are regretting the things that you did, which is why you
need Back On Track, then there is still more work for you to do.
Yeah. There was a comment from a member that I saw just this morning actually, and it was
from Shelly. And she said, we were talking about Back On Track in the group and the check-in
this morning. And she said, I needed to about back on track in the group in the check in this morning. And she said, I needed
to hear this is I will be using back on track model this week,
indulging in a daily cookie and popcorn in the evenings is
showing up. So this is more of a like your habits coming back in.
Yeah. So when you're talking back on track, and like, I would have loved to talk to Shelley
one and wanted to say, you know, when you're talking back on
track here, are you talking back on track in terms of the food
plan? Or are you really looking at I need to get back on track
with my routines, I need to find the balance again, I think the
way we use that term and use those words is really a key factor
here too.
Yeah, to me having a cookie and having popcorn at night is if
you're still doing all the other things and I don't know where
she's at in her maintenance because she could just be in the
living her life maintenance and then she's just realized that
you know, and if you're doing this structure of following the
91 day program, you don't need back on track because you're having a cookie 91 day program, you don't need back on
track because you're having a cookie and popcorn every day.
You don't need back on track.
You need to figure out why am I having the cookie and the popcorn every day and then
keep doing the things that you need to do and keep moving forward.
But as you know, we have members who've been in maintenance, you know, she could have been
in maintenance for a year and far beyond, you know, solidifying her weight.
And she's just noticing now that this is coming back.
But you're right, I don't know that you need
back on track for that, right?
What you need to be is like, why am I doing that?
And how is that serving me and how am I feeling?
Yeah.
Yeah, what got me here?
What got me back to this place?
Is it just, do I need more time?
Do I need more time on mindfulness?
Do I need more time here in the, do I need more time on mindfulness? Do I need more time, you know, here in the maintenance group
and in the maintenance program?
Or do I just, you know, where is that learn,
where is that blip in the learning?
Or where is that blip in the connection?
So I think that's where, you know, when we talk about this
back on track, figuring out why you're here,
why is, why are you indulging in that daily cookie?
You know, if you're enjoying it, and it's not making you feel
any way either way, then that's, you know, maybe what your regular routine is. But if you, like you said, having these thoughts about it, like, oh, I'm having this daily cookie. Oh, I'm having
these popcorn in the evenings again. What's going on there with you to make that come back?
You can have a cookie and have some popcorn at night and totally easily be able to maintain
maintain your weight. Now, if there is some afterthoughts mentally then yeah you want to
get to a place where you're able to enjoy that and not berate yourself or have any thoughts about it
but also why are you having it? Are you craving sugar again? Do you need to bump up your water
intake? Right? Did you just come back from flying and you're dehydrated so you're looking for
something sweet? Pick me up what's going on in the evenings without popcorn? Are you craving something salty? Are you extra
stressed? You got something going on? You know, staying up a
little bit later, like what's happening there. And so those
are those habits. Are these the habits that are going to support
the lifestyle you want to make, especially if the popcorn,
which is no big deal, is messing with your sleep. When you mess
with your sleep, and you're tired, you're more likely to
crave carbs and sugar. So it could just be and your sleep is probably off. with your sleep and you're tired, you're more likely to crave carbs and sugar.
So it could just be, and your sleep is probably off.
So maybe you're having a stressful period,
your sleep is now off, the popcorn
and is not helping with your sleep.
And then therefore also causing you
to crave more carbs and sugar.
So that's not a need to get back on track.
Back on track is in a way of controlling things.
It is the technique of implementing back on track
is that your body that is familiar with that routine.
That routine is great for getting any rid
of any backlog of foods.
It's getting you back to feeling your best.
Back on track is also beyond just the food plan.
It's back to managing your stress,
trying to get better sleep, moving your body.
It's doing all those other things, right?
It's not just what you're doing with the food plan. So in this case, it's doing all those other things, right? It's not just the it's not just what you're doing
with the food plan. So if this case, it's your sleep, you want
to get better sleep, you know that eating at night is not
helpful for that. Right? So it's sort of like what what do you
what being mindful with what do you need physically your body?
And what do you need mentally, your mind? That's what this
week is really all about.
I like Grace here this week, this week letting go of the daily tracking and being aware of things
like my mouth is dry and I need water. Yeah, like the extra like a whole new level of being into.
Yeah and I think when you when you talk about you know is it your stress is it your sleep it's also
making that connection that when you're not sleeping
well, when you are feeling stressed out, that's going to have an impact on the choices that you're
making too. So maybe your back on track is, okay, I need to get my sleep back in balance. I need to
get my stress back in balance because in turn that's going to help me with the choices that I'm making
when it does come to food, when it does come to cravings. So maybe back on track is at this stage or in this moment,
that's where your back on track needs to be.
Your routines and habits, the imbalance versus the food,
if you're 99% feeling great about your food choices,
how do these other areas impact the decisions that you make?
And that's maybe where the back on track needs to go.
Yeah, the differentiation. Back on track needs to go. Yeah. The differentiation.
Back on track, to me, is a technique
for when you really go off the rails.
Eat your face off, drink all the things, you physically feel it,
you mentally feel it, like you know when you need it.
Falling back into old habits, that's
not a need for back on track.
That's a need for having a conversation with yourself
and being like, are these choices
supporting my lifestyle that I want to live? Right? And so that's not a your body doesn't
necessarily need, you know, back on track to recover from some cookies and some popcorn.
Back on track isn't needed when you just stopped exercising back on track isn't needed necessarily
when you are standing out late and watching, you know, watching Netflix or whatever,
that is sort of more a day to day, how am I feeling? Am I not feeling great? Why am I not feeling
great? And what can I do to get, you know, back to feeling my best? So yeah, interesting. Interesting.
But it's like back in the tracks taking on a whole other meaning now. Yeah, I think there's just a
there's like a branch of it. I think when we think of back on track, it is that it is like you said, it's that familiar calm place when you have indulged, we
don't want we don't members to, you know, think of muddied waters here. It is that technique where we,
you know, are in this calm, familiar place, letting the body settle, letting you settle too.
And then, you know, there's this other area of it of what's going on with me, where's that connection
and what do we have to maybe maybe it's not back on track there, maybe it's realigning there,
realigning those routines, realigning those habits, realigning what and understanding
what's going on with you so that in combination of dealing with those issues and letting your
body be calm with back on track and the food plan, then that's like the perfect, you know, the perfect scenario.
I love this though, the realigning or the back to,
back to my best, like back on track is like,
do you know what I mean?
You're, you need to help your body get back
to feeling better.
Back on track, but this is more,
this is more like back to feeling your best,
that realignments, that realignments.
I love that.
Yeah.
I wrote a few things down too, it's like, you know, back to balance or then you think
about like balance is not always the straight line.
It's an up and down, right?
Like it's like you're teetering one way, you teeter the other way, but you don't go too
far from the middle.
So you know, you're coming back to that balance.
So you're not so tipped.
So yeah, back to balance, back to your best back to being realigned. I think it's, you know, it's coming back to that balance. So you're not so tipped. So yeah, back to balance back to your best back to being realigned. I think it's all I'm saying that way.
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Yeah, I just want to stop for a second.
Irene says, I always have a hard time finding these lives.
Any ideas here now?
So once you are in Facebook, you want to go directly to the group.
And so you can save your group.
So that's how I go in.
So I go into, for example, I will go into Facebook right now and there's a little, there's
a little group icon at the bottom.
I click on groups and I can see the other the weight loss program or the
maintenance group and I click on the maintenance group. And soon as I go in, it's the first post
airing at the very top. Or if you want to go into the group, you can also find the photo section and
it'll also be airing in the photo section as well. So you have to be in the Facebook support group
in order to find it the quickest
way. Otherwise, if you're just waiting for it to pop up on your feed on Facebook in general,
like if I just go to Facebook, and I open the app, it'll come up on your feed, but usually,
like, well after it started. So you want to you want to have that quick access and have
that group button again, so that I don't know where it is on your laptop. It's right at
the bottom.
You click group takes you to your groups and you just click in and it's so super
fast.
Yeah.
Oftentimes on a laptop, there's like a little on the top.
I think it's the top left top right hand corner.
It's like there's like a block of dots like nine dots.
Yeah.
When you click on that you can go to groups if you're just on your feed.
But yeah, that's an important point. You've got to be in the actual group because otherwise it doesn't like I just opened my Facebook and it's not this live is not even on my feed.
And so you have to go into the group. So go into the group like you said, first one posted in the videos and this Monday Monday specifically, Monday's is always pinned
and featured as well.
So it's always pinned at the top.
As soon as we go live, the team is really great
at getting it pinned right away.
So you can find it easily.
But we are working on that app version for you.
Probably not gonna have that ready for spring,
but definitely for the fall.
So we're gonna have an app version.
So you'll be able to follow along
with the maintenance program in the actual app,
which I think will be really cool. Odette has been working hard on getting a maintenance book ready to go
for the spring though, so that you can have at least all the posts and all the information in a
book form. It's going to be our first edition, so we're working on that and then we're also working
on a journal or a workbook for our members and maintenance too. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So we're excited to get all those resources out.
I think, you know, the, the more that members can access the information, um,
in whatever their style of learning is as well, we always say maintenance is such
a learning, um, an area of learning.
There's so many opportunities to learn here.
So any way that we can make that easier for them and have it be more
accessible, I think it's going to help them be more successful too. Yes, anything else you wanted to talk about today? Yeah, so I wanted
to talk about you had a live in the Facebook, the, sorry, excuse me, the weight loss Facebook
support group this morning about your experience at the obesity summit this weekend in Montreal,
and you were there with Ruth. Ruth and some really,
I don't even know what the word is, like just these experts in this field of weight loss
and obesity and just like the most amazing minds
came together.
And one of the things you said in your live,
which I mean, if anybody wants to listen to it,
it's on the Living Method podcast from this morning,
you had said something that these experts were saying
that they're
talking about CBT and cognitive behavioral therapy and how there really isn't a model
for that for weight loss and sustaining weight. And I thought I had this when you said it,
even before you said, what are you talking about? I said, what are you talking about?
This is exactly what we are trying to,
not even what we're trying, what we are doing here.
We are helping those members through starting
with weight loss, continuing here in the maintenance journey.
This is what we're doing.
We are doing this model.
We are putting this together.
I mean, we're not experts in this field.
We're not psychologists.
I mean, we have them on our team and we're learning from them. But when you look at what the cognitive
behavioral therapy model is, you're in a situation, you know, you're faced with a situation.
It's your thoughts, it's your feelings, it's the behaviors that come from those thoughts and
feelings. And it's how do you break that cycle
so that you're not repeating the same thoughts
and patterns and behaviors over and over again.
And on the other side, how do you reinforce the behaviors
that you are doing that support the thoughts and feelings
and situation and outcome that you want?
And I just wanted to say that in terms of a CBT model, I think that that's exactly what our members are getting. I
think this is what they're learning. They're learning to reprogram how they react to situations. They're learning to
understand their thoughts and feelings, not just ignore them or push them down or, you know, think that they need to be
fixed or they're wrong because they have these thoughts and feelings
they're learning to accept them, not be afraid of them
and to learn from them.
So I thought that I really wanted to say that,
there's no CBT model for sustained weight loss.
I mean, how can we say that?
Well, yeah, and you're reprogramming
how your body has come to function. So you're reprogramming
your body and first of all, you're rewiring it when you are doing the weight loss program
and you're reprogramming it when you are doing the maintenance program, which is just
I walked away again, having so much mad respect for the Libby method and it feels weird because
I'm the creator of the Lib method, but I was saying today
the living method is just, it's way bigger than me now.
It's way bigger than me now.
And it's the systematic nature that we're approaching that helps people be their own
experts because they know themselves best.
If you do this, your body responds like that, right?
And there are certain, the weeks are designed
that certain things are brought up,
like downsizing food scarcity, food waste issues,
anything that you picked up through the diet industry,
like it's designed that way.
And this why I love it, so complex, the Libby Method,
yet essentially decently easy to follow.
And that CBT part was really interesting. And I was like, I
want to write a book with Dr. Beverly. I want to write a book with all of our strategists.
I mean, experts. I was thinking about Dr. Dina too, because even her. But this cognitive
behavioral therapy piece is really interesting because you and I, you say we're not the psychologists
and I'm not about to say, well, we very well could be,
but we are experts in knowing what people need
to lose weight, and we are also experts
in knowing what people need to maintain and sustain our weight.
And our members have helped us become experts in this.
Nobody is studying maintenance.
People are still stuck on how do you lose weight,
and they think that they don't understand it's what you're
learning and weight loss that helps that goes into maintenance.
But once you're once you're done losing the way the job it gets,
it's even more work to do. It's more work to do. Yeah, I just
and I really think we could there's so much more we could
also talk on in terms of maintenance, you know, having
Dr. Beverly David, for example, come in here and talk to us now that we've lost weight, I think was equally important.
But yeah, we not not only does it exist, but this is what we're doing. It's it's actually quite fast. It's just incredible.
Yeah, and it's rewiring reprogramming. It's neuroplasticity. That's exactly what it is. It's neuroplasticity.
That for someone who's not a part of the living method.
So let's take someone who's,
imagine someone who's just trying to lose weight.
They're eating less, exercising more,
they're doing all their diets.
It's not working.
They don't know the living method exists.
So they go to their doctor.
And then your doctor says,
okay, well, let's go on this weight loss medication
or let's go on, you know,
and do some surgery of some sort.
Right? Like that's your options, because there is no well, why don't we set you up with a psychologist? This might have to
do with your issues and associations tied into food,
really, or your beliefs or past traumas, that's psychology. And
yet there's like a 16 month psychology waitlist, right?
Chronic pain, you've got some chronic issues happening. But you know, you can't find a physiotherapist to deal with, right?
You've got inflammation, your hormones are a mess. So you see an endocrinologist that sees you for 10 minutes, and then you don't see them again for months and months and months, and then you see them again.
How's it going, right? To get into the complexities of hormones and all of that. And we know your blood tests can come back normal.
That doesn't mean that you don't have issues
that you can work on, right?
And then there's sleep.
So let's say your sleep is a mess,
but you don't have access to a sleep expert
or a sleep study.
And so you go there once,
then maybe they determine something,
you try to figure out what's going on.
But meanwhile, it's the fact that you're stressed
and that's keeping you up.
And the fact that you stress and you cope with food.
So then that messes with your sleep, right.
And then because you're not getting sleep, that's messing with your cortisol levels.
But you're also in menopause. Right.
And then so it's just like it's a it's a big fucking complicated mess.
And so how do you put together a team?
And so say this person has got to try to figure it out with bits and pieces of conversations they're having here and there with different experts and for a minimal
amount of time and so how would someone even figure this out how and then doctors who stay in
their lane you have the psychologist but doesn't have the the the the hormone piece, right? Like it's just, it's the T or the learning strategist.
Like there's just, how would someone on their own
try to figure all this out?
It would be next to near impossible.
I asked the experts and I said to them, three of them,
they're amazing.
I was so excited to have the opportunity to talk to them.
And I said, okay, so we know it's not eat less,
exercise more, all those components are important.
So then in knowing how complex weight loss is,
how do you explain it to people?
And each and every one of them had this big, long response.
And I was like, okay, but give me the elevator pitch
because if you're having a hard time explaining it,
how are we supposed to understand it? So yeah, I mean, I just love the living method and everything that we're doing here. And it's our members who are experts. That's the thing that everyone watching or listening right now you are an at what time you get to this point in maintenance, you are an expert. This is where you need to step up. You're that missing piece.
That's what I was talking about in the live today.
Odette and I are sharing our information.
We're bringing guest experts, sharing their information.
We have a team of people here to support you,
help answer questions, but what is your part in this?
You are the expert.
You know what you need.
You know what you're doing, not doing.
You know where the line is drawn
in terms of your comfort zone.
You know the things that you are not doing that you probably should be doing, right? So it's just, yeah.
And I like I'm gonna go back about two minutes when you just said, you know, you were talking to these experts, and then and they didn't know how to, or they had these big long explanations. And then so how are we supposed to understand it? But not only how are we supposed to understand it, how are we supposed to unlearn or forget the understanding that we had before?
Or all of those messages or everything that we knew or we or worked for us before, we have to
unlearn that so we can even start to understand how this works. You know, because I think that we
have a lot, we still see that with our members in maintenance where they're trying to be open,
they're trying to learn, they're trying to be like, yes, I'm going to get this. But if I just eat less,
can I, will it work as well?? They can't let go of that piece.
They have to be able to let go of that piece first and unlearn that piece to be able to
understand this piece.
Well, as you know, I'm back on track and someone asked today, so many people do, well, why
can't I just do the basic food plan?
Why can't I just do that?
I'm like, his big picture is you're never going to be able to maintain and sustain your
weight doing that for the rest of your life.
You've done this tiny part of it. And there's like, I'm just thinking what's like
all everything that you learn after the basic food plan. And I'm just like, ah, man, you're
you're never going to do it. Knowing this much part this this tiny piece of it, you
need to pull it all together. It's a ruse says it's it's the wraparound. It's all the
things that you are doing that lead into you're not just losing, but being able to maintain and sustain. And
when you just want to do the tiny easy part of it, there's, there's just, there's just
no way you're not going to, you're not going to get the benefits and the results that you're
going to get by doing all of it, all of it.
Yeah. I want to dive into that maybe a little bit more on Wednesday too, because we had
a member who was saying that
she feels like she has to redo the program every year because it's the basic food plan. Like she is avoiding foods and then going back on track and then she feels like she has to do the
food plan. So I put the question out to her, you know, else is going on like what else is it?
It's not just the basic food plan. It's not you know it's not just being doing the program every year.
What else is going on that that you need to think about and what's you know what's there?
So maybe dive into that on Wednesday a bit more.
Yeah let's do that please because for everyone who's currently following the maintenance program
doing week 10 right now that's the message in it for you. You don't want to keep doing that every
year. This is not coasting. This is not just doing the minimum. This is not going through
the motions. This is the work. This is the work that you're not done yet because you
don't want to have to keep revisiting every year and need a refresher and a reminder.
You want to live it. You want to be it. You want to feel it. That is a refresher and a reminder. You wanna live it, you wanna be it, you wanna feel it.
That is you.
You are a person.
This is where the maintenance mindset
is all about no longer owning the identity
of a person losing weight.
You need to own the identity of a person
who's actively maintaining their weight,
learning everything that you need to learn so then that you can adopt the identity of a person living their life, not losing,
not maintaining, just living with the understanding of knowing what you need to feel your best
and weight doesn't even enter the equation ever. That's, that's where we're going.
Yeah, that'll be that'll be our conversation, our motivation to get going for the rest of the week.
Just that. We'll just uncover all of that. Yeah, I really loved your comment.
I knew it was going to take time. So I want to talk about it.
Let's talk about that Wednesday. Yeah.
All right, everyone. Thanks for joining us today. Thanks, Odette. I already look I can't about that Wednesday. Yeah. I love that. All right, everyone. Thanks for joining us today.
Thanks, Odette.
I already look.
I can't wait till Wednesday.
Yeah, it'll be great.
Nope.
Have a great day, everyone.
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