The Mel Robbins Podcast - Look, Feel, & Stay Young Forever: #1 Orthopedic Surgeon’s Proven Protocol
Episode Date: March 6, 2025Today, you will learn why everything you thought about aging is wrong — and how to stay strong, energized, and mobile at any age. Dr. Vonda Wright, MD, joins Mel today to give you the wakeup call o...f a lifetime – one that will teach you how to look, feel, and stay young forever. Dr. Wright is a double board-certified orthopedic surgeon and one of the world’s leading experts on mobility, musculoskeletal aging, and longevity. Her pioneering research proves that aging doesn’t mean getting weaker — it means getting smarter about how you move. You’ll learn: Why everything you’ve been told about aging is a lie, and how you can be stronger, healthier, and more energized at any age.How to slow aging (and even reverse it) with mobility, muscle-building, and simple daily habits.The best exercises for overall health & longevity — and why Dr. Wright says most people focus on the wrong things.Why women are often misled about aging — and how to take control of your health before it’s too late.What doctors don’t tell you about joint pain, arthritis, and how to fix it.Dr. Wright will break down the exercise routine scientifically proven to change the way your body looks and feels, plus a powerful mindset shift that will completely change how you view aging. Whether you’re 25 or 65, this episode will give you a science-backed roadmap to staying strong, mobile, and independent for life. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you enjoyed this episode, listen to this one next: How to Find Your Purpose & Design the Life You WantConnect with Mel: Get Mel’s #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel’s personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ on Apple Podcasts to listen to ad-free new episodes Disclaimer
Transcript
Discussion (0)
Hey, it's your friend Mel and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast.
Today's episode is a profound wake-up call.
The expert you're about to meet is going to teach you things about your body that you
have never heard before.
For example, did you know that you don't have to get weaker as you get older?
You don't have to slow down.
In fact, her pioneering research shows the
exact opposite. Whether you're 20, 50, or even 80 years old, you are designed to be strong.
What you're going to learn today will surprise you. It may shock you, and it will certainly open
your eyes to a completely different possibility for how you experience your life and your future.
And even if you've let yourself go for years, you know, you could be in the worst shape experience your life and your future. And even if you've let yourself go for years,
you know, you could be in the worst shape
of your life right now,
or maybe you're in what you think
is the best shape of your life right now.
You still need to understand the specific things
your body needs in order to function properly
and work for you.
If you're not aware of the actual functional design
of your body and you're not doing some simple things
that our expert is gonna talk about today,
you will not live a strong, long and healthy life.
So get ready to have a whole new way to look at
the intelligent, miraculous design of your body
and leverage it for the rest of your life.
of your body and leverage it for the rest of your life.
Hey, it's your friend Mel Robbins. Welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast.
I am so thrilled that you're here.
You know, it's always an honor to spend time with you
and to be together.
And if you're a new listener,
I just want to take a moment and personally welcome you
to the Mel Robbins podcast family. And because you're a new listener, I just wanna take a moment and personally welcome you to the Mel Robbins Podcast family.
And because you made the time to hit play
and listen to this particular episode,
I know that you're the kind of person
who not only values your time,
you value your health and the quality of your life.
And you're going to love today's conversation
with the extraordinary Dr. Vonda Wright.
And I also wanna to say this.
If you chose to listen to this right now because someone in your life shared this with you,
I just think that's really cool that somebody sent this to you.
Because it means you have someone in your life that cares about you and they want you
to learn how to leverage the intelligent, miraculous design of your body and how to
feel stronger and more energized in your life.
And that's exactly what you're going to learn to do today as you and I spend time
together with Dr. Vonda Wright. Now Dr. Wright is a renowned, double board
certified orthopedic surgeon. She specializes in hip preservation,
musculoskeletal aging, and sports medicine. And she has treated over 100,000 patients in her career.
At the University of Pittsburgh,
she was the medical director of the UPMC Sports Complex
and the director of many of their biggest research groups,
including the Performance and Research Initiative
for Masters Athletes.
She's also an internationally recognized researcher,
and you're gonna hear about some of her fascinating studies today.
You're also going to learn about her pioneering work in mobility,
musculoskeletal aging, and how it's changing the way we view
and treat longevity, mobility, and the aging process.
She's also written five bestselling books, including
Fitness After 40, Younger in 8 Weeks, Guide to Thrive,
and the upcoming
book Unbreakable. Aren't you so excited to learn how to unlock all of the natural strength and
natural design of your body to make your life better? I know I sure am. So please help me
welcome Dr. Vonda Wright to the Mel Robbins Podcast. Dr. Vonda Wright, thank you, thank you,
thank you for hopping on a plane and coming all the way to our Boston studios. I am so thrilled that you're here.
It's my pleasure.
So I wanted to start by having you speak directly to the person who is listening and explain
what they might experience that's going to be different about their life or a person
that they love, who they share this with, if they take to heart everything that you're about to explain to us today?
By the end of the day, I hope that I have changed your whole perspective on aging to
realize that you do not have to be the victim of the passage of time and become frail by
the simple tools we're talking about today with mobility and all the other things that there
is no age, no matter where you find yourself today, there is no age and skill level where
it is too late, that your body will always respond to the positive stress you place on
it.
I love that.
I can feel the fire.
It's a very hopeful message.
Well, I think it's a very important one because you're going to talk to us today about your
experience as an orthopedic surgeon and how movement actually is medicine.
Yes.
And you are changing the conversation about aging in the world, you are getting women to think, in particular, very
differently about their health and the unbelievable design of the human body
and how you can leverage that in simple ways. And so I am so excited to
unpack all of this with you. And I think maybe where we should start is, what do
people get wrong
about aging? There is a pervasive myth in this country that aging is an inevitable decline from
the vitality of youth down some slippery slope to frailty where we spend the last 20 years of our
lives dying. But the fact of the matter is, we actually can be healthy, vital, active,
joyful. But people think that they have to go down this slippery slope and that there's
nothing they can do about it. But the fact of the matter is, there's so much we can do
to pre-plan our future.
I am so excited for this conversation because already what you just said makes me think
about getting older differently, and it makes me think about getting older differently,
and it makes me think about my aging parents differently.
Because I think we've all had that experience,
whether you see your grandparents or you see your parents
and you have that feeling where you're like,
oh my God, they look so old.
How did that happen?
How did that? They seem so frail.
So I love this quote of yours. We don't get old because we age. so cold. How did that happen? How did that? They seem so frail.
So I love this quote of yours. We don't get old because we age. We get old because we stop moving. What does that mean?
So, you know, if we step back and look at our bodies,
I think nature is very conservative.
If we were designed to sit still night and day,
we would not be designed with our strongest muscles below our belly buttons.
We would be sessile like a mushroom with this giant stalk and all the good stuff on top,
right?
But what does sessile mean?
So, you know, Jabba the Hutt had this, you remember from Star Wars, this guy in the bar?
Yes.
Had this giant blubberous appendage he kind of laid on.
Yes.
Mushrooms have this giant stalk which doesn't go anywhere, right?
So if we were meant to be immobile, we would have been designed like one of those two beings,
but we were not.
We were designed with the strongest muscles below our belly buttons.
We have two legs.
What is the first independent skill we ever learn?
Walking. It is human nature to move. So what is unnatural, Mel, is not continuing to move.
What is unnatural is not moving. So are you saying that one of the reasons why
Are you saying that one of the reasons why our parents and our grandparents and we start to age rapidly is because we're not moving?
I think that when you look at the statistics in our country and somewhat around the world,
that 50, 60, 70% of people do no intentional movement a day.
So we get up, we get dressed, we get in our car, we go sit at our desk for eight,
ten, twelve hours, get in our car, sit in traffic for two hours. Then if we're lucky,
we get eight hours of sleep. If you add it up, we are probably like a mushroom in one
place, twenty hours a day. That is not what we're designed to do. And so all of that sedentary living that we're doing, because by nature, our organs work
better when we're moving, when we're flexing our muscles, when our bones are being pounded.
We age due to lack of mobility.
What I'm really excited about is we have so many conversations on this podcast that, you know, I'm 56 and I'm constantly
sharing to the 20-year-olds in my life.
I think this is one where if you're in your 20s or your 30s and you're listening to this,
you're going to be sending this to your parents and to your aunts and your uncles as this
gigantic shift around how to think about aging.
And so Dr. Wright, that brings me to this other question
that I have, how does the way that you think about aging
shape the way that you age?
I love that question because I think that what we do
too often is, and I always look over my left shoulder
when I do this and say, oh my God, 25 was so amazing.
Okay, well, 25 was easy, right? But let's think about that. At
25, I don't know what you were doing, but I was still going to school. I had no money.
I was still going home in summers to live with my parents. And we're worshiping that
when I contend to anybody listening, and I may have come to this late, I admit.
How old are you?
I'm turning 58 on Saturday.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
So I may have come to this late, but now I would say from 48 on, I am the most authentic,
the most indefinable.
I get to choose, and that comes from the confidence of experience that I could not possibly have had at 25.
So I'm not saying anything against my, I have a 17-year-old, I have all the way up to 36-year-olds
and children in our blended family.
It's a wonderful thing to be young, but if we are so stuck on the past, we will never
be able to pivot, literally pivot our brain and our bodies towards the next
50 years because the reality is midlife for men is about 37. For women, it's about 40.
Hold on a second. Midlife.
Midlife.
For men is 37.
Yeah, the life expectancy for men in this country is 76.4. So half of that, you don't even think that you're
aging yet, right? But if you really pay attention, and how could life possibly be over at 37? How
could it possibly be over at 40? And yet if we don't pivot our mindsets, that's essentially
what we're saying. Well, and there's so much that you're about to share and shift in terms of the way that
we think about this because if I am reading between the lines, when you refer back to
being 25, when you don't have everything figured out, it's a very challenging decade, we as
a society obsess over youth.
And now the medical industry is obsessed with, for women anyway, anti-aging.
Yeah.
And what we're talking about today is how to use all of the research and your experience
as an orthopedic surgeon and as a doctor who has been seeing patients, you're in a clinical
practice, how to actually change
the way you think about aging so that it changes the way that you think about your health and
what's possible in your life.
And when should you start to think about this?
I want to backpedal for two seconds and pick up on something you just said.
For women in this country, it's all about anti-aging.
If I do nothing else in the next year or so, I want us to pivot that narrative
because it's part of mindset. When you think of in society, men growing older, we assign the word
longevity. It's like legendary. It's about legacy building. It's about reflecting on being
distinguished. For women, we have assigned this word, whether it is in literature, whether it's in our conversations,
whether it is in the products we smear all over, anti-aging.
As if, Mel, it's a problem.
Aging is not a problem to solve.
Aging is the most natural thing we do from the moment of conception to the very last
minute of our death. It is the most natural thing we do. It's how we age that matters.
And so, I think to circle back to your question, in my career, it has always been my goal to
change the way we age in this country. And we cannot do that if we don't believe it's possible. If I'm
going through life thinking, oh, when's the next shoe going to drop? I'm just getting
older every day. That is not a hopeful perspective. I believe there's never an age or skill level
when people cannot change the trajectory of their health.
Well, I think, you know, one of the reasons why I want to talk to you is because you're skill level when people cannot change the trajectory of their health.
Well, I think, you know, one of the reasons why I want to talk to you is because you're an orthopedic surgeon.
Yes.
And in 2022, only 7.4% of orthopedic surgeons were women.
Oh, that's so high. When I trained, it was only three. Can you imagine?
Why is that the case? I realize that there are bigger issues around sexism, but why is it that there are so few
women that are practicing as orthopedic surgeons?
So there began this culture that you had to be strong as an ox and twice as smart, which
is a joke to say that surgeons, orthopedic surgeons, are just big burly athletic men.
The fact of the matter is orthopedic surgeons is one of the most competitive disciplines
to get into.
So it stands to reason that women would want to get into it.
Yes.
So it has taken a long time for the culture to start accepting women into orthopedic surgery,
although we're doing a better job now obviously than we ever have, but it's going to take
us another 50 years to catch up. What made you want to become an orthopedic surgery, although we're doing a better job now obviously than we ever have, but it's going to take us another 50 years to catch up.
What made you want to become an orthopedic surgeon?
I decided to go into orthopedic surgery because we get to take care of people from the moment
of their births to the moment of their deaths, and it's aspirational because if I harness
the power of mobility, I can save you from the ravages of chronic disease.
So for me, I mean, I love the technical side of putting metal in bones, and I use, no,
I use needles now to do arthroscopy.
I don't even have to make incisions.
The technology is amazing, but that would never be enough for me because of just who
I am and my mindset around taking care of the whole person.
So the fact that I can help people aspire to healthy, vital, active, joyful, that is
good work.
Well, what I find interesting is that you're going to teach us about aging through the
lens of being an orthopedic surgeon. But I'm also curious because I know that prior
to becoming an orthopedic surgeon,
your first career was as a cancer nurse.
So what was it about being a nurse treating
and caring for cancer patients
that led you to wanna go into orthopedics?
And how does all of that inform
the way that you think about aging?
I'm a much better doctor,
and I have a deep empathy and perspective
on taking care of the whole person,
and not just treating you like an ACL,
or treating, and I'll give you examples of these,
because I was a cancer nurse.
So in the late 80s, early 90s when I was doing this, there
was a tremendous shortage of nurses.
And so you get out of college, they say, come train as a nurse.
And in three years, youthful vigor, in three years I got another bachelor's degree and
a master's degree and started working on 11-Kellogg, which is a cancer floor at Rush University
in Chicago.
You cannot be 23 years old, pushing chemo in the middle of the night to women mostly
in the struggle of their lives and not come out a changed person.
At the time, most cancer care was done in the hospital.
Now it's mostly outpatient.
And at that time, nursing was primary nursing, meaning, Mel,
if you're in the hospital every month for six months, I would have been your nurse,
just me and you. And so in the middle of the night, chemo is given at night. When I am
there with you, and you can imagine, you've seen hospitals, it's dark, there's a light
behind the bed, there's IVs dripping with this beeping thing thing and it's me and you there and our entire
goal was to give you this poison so that you could live another day, another years, right?
The gravity of that, the hope of that was not lost on me.
The view of, do you know what women and I would do all night?
I would come in and out and we would be shopping on the home shopping network.
I only reflected later like, what were we doing shopping on?
We were just trying to be normal women in the grips of the most abnormal situation you
could ever be.
But you can imagine, Mel, how could I be 23 years old, live through the most vulnerable
part of a woman's life in which she is fighting
for her life and not come out a different person.
I took that six years at the bedside of strong, brilliant, surviving women, and it's flavored
the rest of my life.
And there might not be a big correlation between pushing chemo and putting metal in bones,
but what it has done is provided for me a deep empathy to the human condition.
Well, it really strikes me that after six years of being bedside with women who are
fighting for their lives, battling cancer, that if I had had to guess, I would have thought
you would have gone into oncology.
I think it's fascinating that the experience of being with people who could lose their
life actually led you to a medical discipline that allowed you to prolong life and that has now led you to being a world-renowned
and respected voice about longevity and how you can age differently.
So have you thought about how those two things connect?
You know what, Mel?
I don't mean to cry in public, but I am still a practicing surgeon.
I have looked into the eyes of more than 100,000 people
in my lifetime as a doctor,
and I started as a cancer nurse, right?
But I see the future of people today,
every day when I take call, and this is what it is.
And I've got to solve for this.
You and I have got to solve for this. When your Aunt Mary breaks her hip and I'm called to
the hospital bed to see her, she is laying there in excruciating pain, balled up at the
bottom of the bed with that horrible blue gown on that we put people in and she doesn't
want to be moved up because it hurts too much,
right? From bones that she never even paid attention to, never knew she had because we
ignored it and now they're screaming. That's number one. Number two, what's happened to
her is she's laying there in a pile of her own urine because she was not treated for
the gyneco-urinary syndrome and menopause, her pelvic floor got weak. So many women do
not talk about the fact that they become incontinent in late in life and have urinary tract infection.
So she's painful. She is incontinent, which if she even realizes it, she feels ashamed
about that. I need to do a 45-minute surgery on her where because she's broken her hip,
I need to put a rod down that, the size of my thumb actually.
I cannot do that if her heart is not healthy enough to withstand anesthesia and many times
her heart is so unhealthy because she's taking care of everybody else in the world except
herself that the hospitalist have a hard time clearing her heart.
And do you know what else?
She either has a touch of dementia or she has full-blown Alzheimer's. That is the state of women that I see every time I go to fix
a hip on call. And do you know in her lucid moments what she is saying to me? She is standing
there with her daughter. It's usually the eldest daughter at the bedside. She's looking
at me, she's looking at her daughter, and time after
time again, she'll say something like, I've not always been like this. I don't know how I got here.
Don't ever let this happen to you. Don't get old. Well, I am not blaming her at all. I see the future
of women, Mel. I can't not not cry. If we know we have within our hands to change this trajectory of our
future and if we choose to not be the victims of the passage of time, we don't have to end
up like all those women I take care of, 30% of whom after they break a hip will die. We
can choose another path, but it takes conscious effort and a
belief that we are worth it.
Dr. Wright, I am so happy that you went to the most important and profound reason why
this conversation today matters. And you have this concept about health span versus lifespan that I think really encapsulates
the fact that while we are all going to get older, we do not have to be frail.
There is a completely different future that's available to us as we age.
What is the difference between health span and lifespan?
So when we think about living longer, we quantify that as how many years we're going
to live, the lifespan.
And in the United States, for women, it's about 81, for men, it's 76.4.
But what we know from our research is that life expectancy does not equal health span.
Those years in our lives when we are healthy, active, vital, joyful, what we see is people
spend the last 20 years of their life going to a doctor's office three times a week in
a steady decline.
But listen, that is not the way it has to be.
And so what I spend every day doing now, not only treating people for bones and longevity, but I am teaching them to build
this unbreakable lifestyle so that they are not the victims of the passage of time, which
we can all succumb to if we're not intentional.
I would love to just stay right there because I think that is an extraordinarily powerful
idea that as you imagine yourself getting older, you do not have
to imagine yourself becoming breakable and frail. That there is this what you
call the medicine of mobility that you're going to talk about today that is
important for all of us to understand and embrace. I don't care how old or young
you are and that there is a different way to age that creates a completely different
life and that you do have control here.
Well, when I say things like mobility is medicine, movement is medicine, it's because there is
this phenomenon, and I wish I had made this up, called Sedentary Death Syndrome.
It is the 33 chronic diseases that kill us in this country.
It's everything you've thought of, heart disease, brain disease, stroke, it is diabetes. All of those 33 chronic diseases that people die
of are directly treated by moving. Because if you have high blood pressure, you'll take
a pill for that. If you have cardiac disease, you'll take a pill for that. If you have dementia,
you could take a pill for that. One pill moving
your body is the medicine that positively affects them all. So if we want to cure sedentary
death syndrome, it involves the medicine of mobility.
Now let's just take two steps back so that we acknowledge that we don't control everything in the future.
There are legitimately these time bombs of aging that just happen at a cellular level.
But the thing is, our lifestyle can control our mitochondria, the energy of our cells.
They can control how many bad cells circulate around.
They're called senescent cells or zombie cells.
We can control that by the lifestyle we live. We can control inflammation in our body to a certain extent with the lifestyle
we live. And so all these time bombs that age us faster, we are not the victims of the passage of
time. If you want to feel better now, then that is an action step. It is not reading more about what could happen to you and putting the book back on the shelf.
It is learning how to take action to change the trajectory of the future, or else you
are a victim of the passage of time.
Well, one thing that I will say is that if you are somebody that listens to this podcast
and you normally listen to it while you're sitting at work
or you're sitting in your car,
like one change you could make is listen to this
while you're walking.
Absolutely.
And that way you're combining the advice
with your interest in listening to something
that's helping you improve your life.
Let's take a quick break
and hear a word from our incredible sponsors.
And I want to give you a chance to also share this episode with people in your
life who you know are going to love learning from Dr. Wright.
And don't go anywhere.
There are so many more strategies and tools that you're going to want to hear
when we return. Stay with me.
Welcome back. It's your buddy Mel Robbins. I am so glad you're still here with me.
You and I are spending time today with Dr. Vonda Wright, and we're learning all about
how mobility is medicine.
So Dr. Wright, you've said that our understanding of aging is completely skewed because all of the studies that have
been done on folks that are older are studies done on people who don't move much. Can you
unpack this for us?
Absolutely. So when we look at aging studies, you will often find things like, oh, we slow
down when we age, we lose our muscle. And some of that is true, right? It is true. I'll
concede that.
But in big population studies, like there's a study that was going on when I was at the
University of Pittsburgh called the Health ABC. They took a cohort, a group of 70-year-olds
and just followed them to see what happens. They all slowed down, they developed a lot
of body fat, all the things you think about in aging.
Well, when you look at the US population, and it's not that different around the world,
70% of us don't do any form of mobility or exercise a day.
It's like this thing I described to you, 20 hours sitting down, right?
So what do we know from those population studies?
We know how
we age if we don't move. So my group and I, I formed this group early in my career called
PRIMA, the Performance and Research Initiative for Masters Athletes. Masters just means people
over 35 or 40.
Got you. That doesn't sound that old. That's a, they call them master, okay.
It's a category, right? Yeah, it's a category. So all of my academic research has been investigating what happens if we take sedentary living
out of the equation in terms of our aging.
And so I was the principal investigator on a number of studies that looked at bone health,
muscle health, brain health, our stem cells with aging, all looking at when do we slow
down if we continue to be active our entire lives?
And we started studying people, active people, they were not professional athletes, asking
the question, what are we capable of if we take the variable of sedentary living out
of the equation? can we maintain our muscle
mass?
Can we maintain our bone density?
Can we maintain our brain function?
When do we really slow down?
And we found that in our active people, 35, 40 and up, all the way, I think my oldest
in these studies were 103, that yes,
indeed, you can maintain your bone density. Yes, indeed, you can maintain your muscle
mass. Yes, indeed, you can retain the cognitive function in the front of your brain. Yes,
indeed, we can stimulate the production of longevity proteins all with something as simple as moving our legs, walking around,
competing in a little sports, because remember we are designed to move.
You have with you these MRI results, and we're going to put them up on the screen for you
if you're watching on YouTube, but I would love to have you walk
us through what we're looking at here.
And if you could just keep in mind that there's a person listening so we describe it for them.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, you know, the study that you're describing has been published since 2011, and it was
one of the first, really, to answer the question, can we maintain our lean muscle mass with
simple daily activity?
So this series of three pictures has become iconic on the internet.
I should have named it because it is everywhere.
Gym people put it up in their gyms, but what it shows is this.
The study was looking at masters age recreational athletes.
Nobody was a pro athlete in this. They were
mere mortals like you and me.
So we're basically saying if you do a 5K and you're over 40, you're considered a master
athlete.
Yeah. Masters just means that you're out of the Olympic pipeline. You're just…
You're a normal human being.
You're a normal human being. So my patients were all normal human beings. So in the study
that we're looking at, there are three pictures. I did this study
using an MRI, which if you've ever had an MRI, you know, you just lay really still,
you go into a tube, and it's really loud in there. And all that clanging and banging is
we're taking pictures of your body with a magnet.
Okay.
It's such cool technology. So in the first picture, we have slices as if you were
slicing up a ham, if you see this picture or if you're imagining it, think of the Christmas
ham. There's a bone in the middle. There's a layer of muscle on top. There's a layer
of muscle on bottom and there's a very, very thin rind of fat around the outside.
Yeah. It looks like almost like a filet.
Like if you order a filet, and I'm looking at this beautiful,
almost like a solid piece of meat,
on a 40 year old athlete.
It looks exactly the same on the 70 year old,
who is, who's active.
But talk to me about the one in the middle,
which is the 74 yearyear-old who does nothing
and sits around because that looks like a bowl of cottage cheese.
That does not look healthy.
So if you look at the 40-year-old slice, I call that exactly what you said, the flank
steak.
Yep.
Very lean, no marbling, very thin fat that you don't have to do anything with.
And when we tested the strength of these athletes, they were strong.
Then if you sit around for 35 or 40 years, this is what happens.
The cottage cheese picture I call Kobe beef.
Kobe beef?
I don't even know what that is.
That is that Japanese cow that they massage and all the meat has all this fat in it.
So if we sit around for
30 years, we lose all of our muscle architecture, we become very weak. And you're right, it
looks very disorganized. And so this person in the middle picture can't get up from a
chair.
And what you are saying to us today is that you're going to teach us that aging is inevitable,
but how you age is within your control. And so, you know, for somebody that's listening
in their 20s to 40s, this message about, look, you have got to incorporate movement because
it creates a roadmap for a long, amazing life. And I think the message to anybody that's listening
that's 40, 50, 60, 70 is, it's not too late.
Exactly.
So what are we doing in those last 20 years
if we don't pre-plan that?
If we don't get in front of this,
I call 35 to 45 the critical decade.
Why is 35 to 45 the critical decade?
Because if I say, oh, 25 was easy, by 35, most of us have figured out a little bit what
to do in our careers, unless you're a surgeon like me and you're still training, but figured
out some things about life.
Sometimes by that point, people have made relationship commitments.
Sometimes they've made raising other little people commitments. But you are still young enough with youthful
vigor with youngish stem cells to course correct. So if 35 to 45 is the time to develop the
habits of mobility, to develop the habits of lifting weights, to look at what you're
eating, your body is not a garbage can that we just shove whatever in, right?
Yeah.
I mean, you can burn anything for fuel, but should you be burning the noxious, right?
Because what happens at 45 for women, and even to some extent for men, is we start going
through perimenopause.
And it's not a continuation of the game for women.
It is a different game.
So if we can, in the critical decade, get these habits established, it will not be such
a shock as those people
who come to my office at 65 and say,
oh my God, what do I do now?
Well, let's start there,
because I want to hear you explain
what are the critical habits for that decade of 35 to 45.
But I want to just tell the person
that's with us right now,
who's either taking us on a walk,
or you're listening at home, or we're in the car with you,
because you're probably thinking,
oh my God, I blew that decade, now I'm screwed.
And so we're gonna get to you.
And Dr. Wright has very good news
because, well, I'm just gonna ask that right now,
what if you're over 45 like me,
or your parents are over 45 and you're listening right now, and you
feel like, is it too late for me to course correct?
Is it too late for me to build strong muscle?
Why the hell do I need strong muscle in order to have a better health span?
What about the person who's listening or who got this forwarded to them?
Who's over 45.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Aren't we all over for all the cool kids are.
Listen, the short answer is no.
There is never an age or skill level when the strategic stress you put on your body
in the form of all the mobility, the strength training, the smart nutrition will not dramatically
change the trajectory of your health.
There is not an age.
I just want to make sure the person hears us.
Yeah. So, Dr. Wright, you're sitting here as an expert in longevity and helping us age
in a way that creates a better life. Yes.
There is never an age where if you're listening to Dr. Wright right now and you're 92 years old,
you can still improve your health span.
You can still change the way you age.
You can still take steps to feel better every day.
Even if you're sick and you don't feel great every day, you can pick up the phone and talk
to somebody in your life.
You know, I'm thinking to myself, maybe the only person I still know is the barista.
If I'm 97, the only person I know is the barista at a coffee shop, then go say hi to that person
every day.
It's not rocket science, but the basic thing is people don't invest every day in their
health and mobility.
So critical decade, let's get our proverbial expletive together.
I don't know if I can cuss on your show.
You can say whatever you want.
Yeah, let's get our shit together, people.
Can we please stop taking every day for granted because it's easy and you're young?
And can we please take a minute to notice ourselves, try to figure out what your body's
saying to you?
Because I'm going to tell you for sure, your body speaks to you every day, whether you're
listening or not.
Can we please stop abusing ourselves with quite so much alcohol because
we can metabolize it when we're young? And so what if you've been sitting around for
30 years and you're like, is it too late for me? Am I the guy with the, in the middle picture
of that, with the fat rind all over my leg? Listen, remember your primary skill is walking.
So if you're doing nothing else right now,
you put on your headphones, you get up
and you take Melanie with you and you walk around the block
because I am not telling you that the first day out the door
you have to do five miles to be successful.
You just need to get up from your seated position
and invest in yourself.
You should think of this as an investment in yourself.
Well, what I also love about what you said from the very beginning
is reminding us of the obvious.
Our bodies are designed to move.
Yes, yes.
Like, you're, as an orthopedic surgeon,
been repairing people's bodies and joints and bones.
But your body is designed to move.
And one of the things to think about when you think about wellness and you think about
your health span and you think about aging in a very different way is that we expect
to get frail because we expect to slow down and stop moving.
And if you actually flip it on its head and you say, well, actually, I don't expect to
stop moving.
I certainly don't. I want to be hiking like the week I die.
Yes.
I want to be taking five-mile walks every day when I'm retired.
I want to be swimming in the ocean. I want to be going to yoga class.
Yes.
I want to be out and about. And when you realize, wait a minute, my body's actually designed in a certain way.
That's right. If I just work with it,
it will work with and for me. That is absolutely the truth. And if you Google,
you can find all kinds of examples of people that are seeming anomalies, like mistakes,
that they're 92 lifting weights for the first time. Oh, somebody's mother started lifting at
70 and now she's a bodybuilder. That is our true capacity to build muscle, to take more steps, to develop relationships.
That is our capacity. Our capacity and our design is not sedentary living.
Well, this is like a really important point because I don't think I truly thought about the possibility of it looking
completely different when you get old. I want you to really embrace what Dr. Wright is saying.
Imagine a world where the 80 or 90-year-old who has muscles and is going to the gym is not defying the odds.
It's normal.
They're actually the norm.
And that's what you're saying. I want you to embrace the idea that we've all bought into this
lie that getting old means you have to be frail. And what you're here to say is, no, actually,
the research is very clear on this. Your body is designed to build muscle, to grow and to move.
And if that's what you do, whether you're starting for the first time at the age of 70,
or you're listening right now and you're 25 and you're like, oh, this makes a lot of sense.
I need to do this so that I can live a vibrant life.
Like this is just a part of what I need to be doing.
It's what I am. It's my lifestyle. It's not a diet. It is not a six-week exercise program.
It is my lifestyle because I think people can get overwhelmed with all the information
that's out there. What frequency do I have to get on the vibrating plate? How many pounds
in my weighted vest? I mean, can I jump? Can I jump on a trampoline? Listen, people, we get so
caught up in the 99% of minutiae when we are not even taking the first step. If we focused
on the 1% that we know is true, these things that I keep saying and will detail for you,
if we focus on that, when that is your lifestyle, then you can layer on the complicated stuff. But I really feel Mel, that we get so caught up
in the data overload that we get so paralyzed.
We do nothing.
Yes, and you're basically saying
if you literally just get up out of the chair
and you move the legs that you have,
or you wheel yourself in your wheelchair,
you are doing what your body is designed to
do and your body will thank you by building muscle.
Even if you're in pain, listen.
Okay, talk to me about that.
Let's talk about some pain because I am an orthopedic surgeon and people come to me in
pain.
I get it.
You don't want to get hurt by trying something new.
I get that a lot.
But walking is not something new.
That's true.
Let's be honest.
Or it hurts when I walk.
Or, I don't have the time.
Or, listen, I've been doing this so long, I often say to people, you cannot out-excuse
me.
I have heard it all.
If your knees hurt when you walk on dry land, well then let's go to the local Y, which has
a hot pool and a budget program, and let's get in that water and walk, right? Even if
we have to walk around our kitchen table until we can walk outside, or we have to get up
and down from a chair until we can go to a gym, you just have to make the effort because
what happens if we don't?
You will end up frail and old. You will be the statistic of somebody who breaks their
bone and who
dies an early death. That's what's coming for you.
You're right. And that is what I'm saying.
What you're sharing, and I think more importantly, how you're sharing it, it's game changing.
And so I'm so grateful that you're here. And I'm also grateful that you're here and you're
spending the time learning with me as we listen
to Dr. Vonda Wright.
Now I want to take a quick pause so we can hear a word from our sponsors and I want to
give you a chance to share this episode with people that you care about.
Don't go anywhere because when we come back there is so much more that you and I are going
to learn from Dr. Vonda Wright.
So stay with us. Hey, it's your buddy Mel Robbins.
Welcome back.
I'm so thrilled that you're here with me today.
And I'm also thrilled that you and I get to learn from the extraordinary Dr. Vanda Wright.
And we're learning all about mobility and how movement is medicine and how to unlock
the natural intelligence, strength and design of your body so that you can be happier and We're learning all about mobility and how movement is medicine and how to unlock the
natural intelligence, strength, and design of your body so that you can be happier and
healthier.
Dr. Wright, here's where I want to go next.
Since you're an orthopedic surgeon, I would love to have you educate us about joints and
bones.
Yeah.
What is a joint?
Joints are the mobile parts of our body. They're comprised of at least two bones,
sometimes multiple bones, surrounded by a capsule,
which is like an inside skin.
Muscles attach around the joint to move it, right?
So if we step back and think of the musculoskeletal system,
what is that?
That is muscles, bones,
tendons, ligaments, fat, actually, muscle stem cells. All of those tissues that we can't sometimes
put in little boxes, they belong in their own houses, are actually cousins. They are all derived
from the same type of cell in the beginning. So they all speak a similar language. Bone we think
of, okay, there's on either side of a joint, we think of it as just the skeleton at Halloween,
right?
Yep.
Just these structural things, they're hanging out, that's all they do is structure. They're
like the strong silent type, you never know whether they're there until they say something profound.
In bones case, it's a fracture.
The truth of the matter is bone is your body's master communicator.
And think about it if we think about how we're formed.
There is bone from the top of our head to the bottom of our pinky toe.
Why wouldn't we be designed that bone is not just structural? It is releasing proteins,
hormones, osteocalcin is one of them, that communicate everywhere. So when bones release
their hormones, I'll give you one example, osteocalcin, it goes to the brain and it stimulates
the release of something in the brain called a
brain-derived neurotrophic factor, long word and acronym, which means we build neurons after
stimulation from the bone. We know that people with osteoporosis, which means bad bone, weak bone,
have more dementia. There is a communication pathway going, right? It's like mind-blowing.
There is a communication pathway going, right? It's like mind blowing.
Bone sends out osteocalcin to muscle.
It speaks back to muscle and helps it with metabolizing glucose.
Bone sends out osteocalcin to our pancreas, which is where our insulin comes from.
So between talking to our muscle and talking to our pancreas, that is glucose equilibrium, right?
It helps us not be diabetic.
If you're a man, osteocalcin goes to your testes and helps you make testosterone.
So this inner communication of muscle and bone gives a whole new perspective on just
this skeleton in the closet that just makes muscle structural.
Well, what's interesting about,
and it's so exciting to hear how passionate
you are about this, because we're obviously talking
about changing the way that you think about aging
and understanding that getting older is inevitable.
Feeling older is actually a choice.
And it is a choice that you're making every day
based on how you take care of your muscles,
how you take care of your body.
And what I love about the way that you're explaining
all this is because I don't really think much about my bones.
Yeah, who does?
I don't think about my joints unless they hurt.
And so in addition to thinking about how you age is within your control and getting frail
is not inevitable, you actually have an option to live your life in a very different way,
but there's also immediate benefit because of the way the brains and bones respond and
how it improves your life now.
However, I also recognize despite the fact people you can't out excuse me, I've heard
them all. I realize that it is very difficult for people to invest in a future they can't
see. And so I learned this concept from the banking industry called temporal disconnect.
The bankers in this country are trying to get us to save 10 cents a day so that we have
some money to retire on, and that is difficult for them.
I find the same trouble trying to motivate people or have people motivate themselves
to invest every day in their mobility because everything we've talked about, if
you're 40, you can't imagine what you're going to be like when you're 80.
And so why do you care?
True.
Because today you're doing your thing.
So how about feeling amazing today?
I can tell you for sure, Mel, that when I hop off a treadmill where I have done sprint
intervals and not fallen off the back of the treadmill,
or I have added five more pounds to my deadlift.
Oh my God, I am such a badass when I do that.
It's not only for my body, it rejuvenates my brain and makes me have hope for the future
because I'm going to be that cranky 90-year-old lifting my own suitcase to
the top of the thing. And if my old friends can't keep up with me, then I'm going to travel with
some young whippersnappers who can keep up with me. But if I want to be like that then,
I want to feel great today. So where do you start? So like you just mentioned deadlifting, you mentioned running on a treadmill. Neither
are things that I do. So does Pilates or yoga count? Does a HIIT class count? Like if you're
somebody like me where I work out at home, if I walk into the hotel gym, I don't know
what to do. Like I'll start that little circuit of machines. I'm not quite sure how to position the machine. Like, where do you recommend you start if you're thinking, you
know, she's right. I do need to move more. Walking, I got it. But I keep hearing about
strength training and the importance of muscle mass. How do you make this simple in a world
where it's easy to get overwhelmed?
So I have an acronym that I use to help form the ideas of exercise for midlife people.
It works for everybody, critical decade.
But I call it Facing Your Future.
Here are the four components we need to work into our life.
Facing Your Future.
F-A-C-E, Face Your Future.
Number one, flexibility and mobility.
Meaning, if we do not move our joints through their full range of motion
like an old car sitting in a junkyard, we will become stiff.
Because the natural history, meaning what happens in time with our tendons and ligaments,
is they become tighter and tighter and tighter.
That is a natural, that is the way nature happens if we don't invest in making it not
so. Pilates
and yoga are amazing for maintaining flexibility, mobility of the joints. It's also great for
core, a solid core. So that's number one. Number two, aerobic. We must invest in a healthy
cardiovascular engine. So how do we do that? Well, we grew up in a time where we were high intensity all the time.
We know now, and my philosophy on this has changed over the years because I'm a curious,
evolving person, that I want to work at the two extremes, meaning most high intensity
interval training, and I can name several brands of gyms that do this, work
you out in a mid-range where it's not light enough that you're not going to get hurt,
and it's not intense enough that it's going to stimulate real change in your body.
So these HIIT classes where you're working in the middle zones of your heart range are
a good way to get injured
and see me in my office on Mondays.
So when I prescribe aerobic exercise to people, I say walk or slow biking or low heart rate,
any apparatus works.
I say walk, but hear me, any apparatus works or the ground.
Do that and then we're going to sprint our guts out a couple times a week. Sprinting
does not mean you're Usain Bolt on a track. Sprinting is a heart rate
phenomenon. So we're gonna work as hard as we can go so that we're almost so
working hard we're gonna throw up. That sounds horrible. But no. That sounds absolutely horrible.
No, but Mal, this is what happens. You're going as fast as you can. Your
fast is probably faster than my fast.
Probably not.
I'm a short person.
Unless somebody's chasing me, I'm not running these days.
Well, there is that.
But the concept is low heart rate most of the week.
So I'm asking you to walk every day.
And then twice a week after you've done your walk, I'm asking you just to go as fast as
you can, whether it's on a rower, an alpine, a treadmill.
But here's the kicker, it's only 30 seconds. You can do anything for 30 seconds. So I'm
going as fast, I choose to do it on a treadmill. So I'm just going to give your audience an
example. For my walking, I'm at an incline of four to five, okay, and a speed of about
four. So I'm just going along, I'm listening to your podcast, I'm doing my, I'm at an incline of four to five and a speed of about four.
So I'm just going along, I'm listening to your podcast, I'm doing my, I'm learning,
I use it as a multitask learning time.
When I'm done with that for 45 minutes, I take off all the apparatus because I need
my brain to concentrate and I hit 11 on the treadmill, whatever, I don't even know how
many miles, it's fast as my legs can go. And I go for 30 seconds and then I totally turn it off and I fully recover.
30 seconds with full recovery, four times.
This is what happens.
It sounds daunting.
It is not.
It's only 30 seconds.
That is going to stimulate more connections between our brain and our muscles to contract better together.
That is going to build a big cardiac muscle, right?
So let's stop wasting our time in the middle.
We can take classes because they're fun, but unless you get these two things in on the
ends, in midlife, we're not stimulating ourselves enough.
So that's F, flexibility, A, aerobic. C, carry a load.
Notice I didn't call it weightlifting, although it is weightlifting, but you can do it in
your house. You can pick up the five gallon bucket and farmers carry across the front
yard. We need to lift weights. We need to lift heavy in midlife because for women in particular,
around 45, we enter perimenopause where our regular cyclic hormones go up, go down, go
up, go down, become total chaos as our ovaries retire such that by the time we're 50 and
our ovaries have completely retired, we do
not have the stimulus of estrogen on our muscles anymore to stimulate our muscles to grow so
that we do not become the one in three women who ends up frail in a nursing home or with
a broken hip, which I'm happy to give you the dire statistics on that.
We must build muscle mass.
I am all for Pilates for balance and flexibility. I
am not for anything except learning to lift heavy to build muscle. So what if you've never
done it? There are great online programs. We are not without resources these days. This
might be the time to invest in yourself by investing in an expert.
You take your car to an expert, take yourself to an expert, and have someone teach you the
proper techniques so that you don't get hurt, walk you around the gym so that you have a
friendly face taking you around.
You don't need years and years of personal training or strength conditioning coaching to learn.
You need a few lessons and then you can build on that. And so once you're starting to lift weights,
we want to progressively load to lifting heavy. No mamby pamby pink weights for midlife women.
We can put down the little weights in the attractive pastel colors that I know I'm
being so patronizing that we lift 30 times.
No, I freaking love it because there's actually a really important reason around muscle mass.
Can you break down why building muscle mass is actually important for your health?
Well, if we think about this from a purely structural standpoint, muscle is what will
help us get up and down from a chair, right?
Want to live alone or have the opportunity to live alone?
You have to get up and down from a chair.
You have to be able to transport yourself to the bathroom.
You have to be able to lift a dish into the microwave.
But if you want to enjoy your life, you need to be able to be strong enough to get out
of your house, right?
So from a very practical standpoint.
But muscle, like bone, are not just structures.
They are metabolic organs that talk to each other in a community.
So when a muscle contracts, skeletal muscle, like your biceps, contract, it sends out all
these communication factors. One is called irisin.
It talks to the bone and helps you lay down more bone. It is critical for glucose metabolism,
which is our ability to process our food, right? It is critical for the brain. It goes to the brain.
But that's not all. Muscle releases a protein when you contract it called clotho.
Clotho was the goddess of the threat of life, right?
And it was first described in a journal called Nature about 30 years ago.
The simple act of contracting skeletal muscle causes our muscle to make this protein clotho,
which is the longevity protein, and goes to all of our organs and
keeps them functioning in a healthy, more youthful way.
And we know from animal studies that mice that can't make Clotho die old, very young.
So do your muscles behave this way, no matter how old you are or what shape you're in when
you start?
They have the potential to behave this way.
Let me tell you about another study we did with this protein Clotho.
So if I say to you, contract your skeletal muscle, it's going to keep you younger, and
you're like, right.
Well, we did this study where we measured circulating levels of this protein Clotho
in three groups of people. Clotho in three groups of people.
Clotho, the longevity protein.
I measured it in active people over 70, and I measured it in sedentary people about 35.
Well, not surprising, people in midlife who were active had the highest level of longevity
protein, but you would think 35 trumps all.
It does not.
The active people over 70 produced more Clotho, longevity protein, than 35-year-old sedentary
people.
Wow.
So there is not an age or a skill level when the positive stress that we do with our bodies
can't change our health.
And this is one simple example through a protein called Clotho. So Dr. Wright, you've talked about flexibility aerobics,
you've talked about carrying, which was what is-
Weightlifting.
Weightlifting.
Carrying a load is weightlifting.
Carrying a load, what's E?
Oh, E.
E is equilibrium and foot speed.
I'm so glad you brought us back to that.
Equilibrium means can we balance?
Every year from about 20, the neuromuscular pathways that connect our brain to our muscles
can degrade, and that's why you reach over for something and fall over, right?
Or trip and can't catch yourself.
So in every exercise program I prescribe, we not only have flexibility and mobility,
aerobic, carrying a load, but I teach people foot speed.
Meaning we're in our offices of a giant performance center and we're teaching people to rapidly
move their feet because this is what I do.
I come into my office, I throw my work bag next to my desk, and if I'm not thinking when
I get up from my desk, I get up too soon and I will catch my foot on my bag.
Well, if I didn't have the foot speed to hop over my bag, I would land flat on my face,
fallen.
We break when we fall.
So in my book, we can build all the muscle we want, but if we have no balance and can't
stay upright, we can still break.
And so I teach people that. And you know, something simple to regain balance
that I ask people to do is brush their teeth on one foot,
like in tree pose.
Because that's one foot,
it's usually on a carpet or a bath mat.
You're moving your body.
So if you alternate legs every day,
you will regain the core strength,
the muscle strength
to stay upright with a little bit of imbalance.
So, Dr. Wright, you just mentioned that you have this exercise routine that you prescribe.
Yeah.
What is it?
So, on a weekly basis.
We need to be spending at least three hours a week walking, broken up into 45-minute sessions.
So put on your favorite podcast, go learn all week, right?
So that's four, go for a walk four times.
At least four times a week, right?
At a brisk pace, not so fast that you're out of breath, but not so slow that you can solve
world peace in your conversation.
A minimum of twice a week, minimum of twice a week, we must learn to lift heavy.
And listen.
How heavy?
Yeah, I know. I don't expect you to power lift right out the door, but what I do expect
you to do is learn to lift your own body weight. Every woman should be able to do 11 push-ups,
regular push-ups.
On the knees, okay?
No.
Oh my God.
But listen, you can build up to that. I used to teach classes at Pittsburgh called START, and I did it for nine years.
My starters started out with 51% body fat.
They could not hold a plank and literally couldn't walk around the track.
Over a three-month period, we met with them twice a week.
We did a variety of weight-bearing exercises.
They not only completed a 3.2-mile walk run, they could hold a plank for two minutes.
Wow.
I know.
So…
Eleven push-ups.
Eleven push-ups.
I got it.
Start on our knees, but we got to be able to get to 11 push-ups.
We have to be able to get up.
Okay.
Upper body strength is critical for women.
Got it.
So we've got walking four times a week at a brisk pace.
We have 11 push-ups.
You've got to be able to lift your body weight.
We have to start by learning to lift our body weight and progress until we can lift heavy.
And what lift heavy is defined as, that is the weight in an upper body push-pull.
So something like a bench press, something like a pull-up, lower body push-pull, something
like a squat, something like a pull-up, lower body push-pull, something like a squat, something
like a deadlift.
Heavy means what you can lift four to six times.
To keep it simple for my people, I'm like, four times, which we want to lift to fatigue.
Listen, you don't get there overnight.
If we're starting at just body weight, it may take you six months, maybe nine, to learn
the technique and to work up, but it
is so worth it.
And listen, I have plenty of examples of women starting in their 60s.
There's no age limit on this.
So heavy is an individual thing, and it just is something we work towards.
So walking, lifting at least twice a week.
Twice a week when you're comfortable with walking, I want you to get your heart rate
up really high.
And you had a very simple way of doing that.
Thirty seconds, complete recovery.
It takes me, my example is I can get my heart rate up to about 186 and then two or three
minutes I completely recover.
It's down to 130, 140.
And four times you do that.
Four times and then that's it.
And then I work on balance every day when I brush my teeth and foot speed.
You can jump around, you can skip rope, but that's something else.
Bones require impact.
You know, I've heard a lot of people say that running's bad for your joints, that weight
lifting's bad for your joints.
As an orthopedic surgeon, what's your opinion about this? Like, it's bad for your joints. What does that mean?
Well, that comes from the knowledge that on the end of every bone, like for instance,
I don't know if we can see this on the end of this bone.
Yeah, you're holding, why do you, what do you expect?
Explain what the hell you're holding.
I brought you my-
It's like a dinosaur bone.
It kind of is, except it's a femur. It's the longest bone in your body.
It goes from your hip to your knee.
Okay.
Right?
And so when people break their hip, this is what we're breaking.
So if your Aunt Mary fell down and broke her hip, this is the bone that she's breaking.
Okay.
But if we're talking about this question you ask about why people think that running and exercising and lifting is bad for
your joints. It comes from the knowledge that, you know, when I had a stem cell lab and we wanted
to damage cartilage, which is the smoother than ice glistening end of a bone, all we really had
to do is drop a marble on it, as it's very pressure sensitive. That being said, our joints themselves require mobility to be healthy because the way we
feed our joints is through the pressure of the fluid in the joints.
So it's almost like a rubber band.
If you've ever seen an old rubber band that gets brittle.
That's like a tendon that gets brittle, right?
So like stretching the rubber band actually keeps it healthy?
It does.
Moving muscle, moving joints, lubricating cartilage with mobility keeps everything healthy.
One thing that I want to just reflect on, because I think it's a very empowering thing to consider,
that we have gotten to a point in evolution or in history where so many of us are not taking care of ourselves
because we're optimizing for working more or being at school more or being online more
that we're not spending time doing the things that our bodies are designed to do.
And when I listen to you talk about the medicine of mobility or that movement is medicine.
And then I hear you as an orthopedic surgeon and a renowned expert in longevity and in
aging in a way that is vital and joyful and powerful and strong and that that's an option
for all of us. What I also am hearing is that so many of us buy into the lie that getting frail and
slowing down is inevitable.
And then you'll take a pill and then the pill is meant to address symptoms that you feel.
And what I think is very exciting is putting the power back in our hands.
And as you're listening to Dr. Wright,
she's basically saying your body is actually designed
in this extraordinary, glorious way to work for you,
to make you feel better, to build muscle,
to help you live a full and amazing life.
And if you really just consider all the science
that you're sharing and the common
sense that we'd be built like a mushroom if we were meant to sit. And that your biggest muscles
are from the belly button down and you've got legs to move them or if you're in a wheelchair
and you can't move, like you've got arms to roll yourself. Absolutely. That when you work with
Absolutely. That when you work with the intelligent design, the intelligent design works with you.
Oh my gosh, I couldn't have said it better.
And so to me, that's a very inspiring thing to be told.
You're not broken.
You're just not using your body the way it was designed.
And if everything aches and you feel like, okay, I've got all this pain, that this is something
you can overcome.
So if the person listening is thinking, okay, I get this, like this is exciting, and I do
have a lot of joint pain.
Yeah.
I do have arthritis.
Yes.
What do I do?
Where do I start?
Let's talk about arthritis.
And I'm going to give you an example from yesterday of a girlfriend of mine
in like Nona who was a professional tennis player, but it could be anybody. It doesn't
have to be a professional. But through the pounding that she did over her life,
she did wear out her cartilage. And so I see this vibrant woman at the peak of her career
in what exactly what you're saying.
She has knee pain and arthritis, and she's not even as old as us.
So I could have taken a purely medical route with her.
I could have said, okay, I'm going to shoot you up with steroids every few weeks, which
I don't do, but I choose not to treat my patients with that remedy only.
I could have said, okay, when you're ready for a total joint, let me know.
But knowing that the body will respond with strength to the positive stimuli, we cut out
all the inflammatory foods in her life because pain is an inflammatory process. And if we
want to be in less pain, then we have to quit junkifying our diet, primary
of which is the added sugar that the American food system has to the tune of 16 pounds,
if I remember correctly, of added sugar a month that we don't even know.
Can I ask a question about that though?
Because I know I'm going to get a lot of questions.
What does that mean?
Does that mean you don't put sugar in your coffee?
I don't.
No, no, no.
But what does it mean when you say I cut out sugar? Because I'm like, what the hell does that even mean?
Does it mean…
So, I'm not anti-carb.
I'm not saying everybody only has to eat protein.
I'm saying when you eat carbs, your body responds in a least inflammatory way by eating
fiber and complex carbs.
So this morning here in this studio, I had eggs, which is protein, and some of the most
gorgeous complex carb multi-grain sprouted this and that bread that just came from your
local place, which is so much slower digesting, full of fiber than a piece of white bread
or an English muffin that's going to spike my sugar and it's going to make me inflamed
all day long. Got it. So as a doctor, when you hear somebody talking about joint pain,
arthritis, chronic pain, you go inflammation. Obviously there are those
conditions that are bone related from pounding the bones over years and that kind of stuff.
Yeah, you can get arthritis at any age.
But simply changing the way that you eat can go a big change. So, and when
I say just to clarify that question, added sugar, turn over any label on a packaged food,
it's going to say six grams of added sugar, 10, 15 grams. What? Why? So anyway, so number
one, let's anti-inflamm our diet. And that's what I told her to do. We really focused on feeding the muscle I was going to ask her to build with protein and fiber, right? So that was number one.
Number two, people are always interested when they come into me with arthritis. Sometimes
we are in pain in our joints because our joints are pounding together, because we don't have
enough muscle surrounding our joints to act as shock absorbers. So every step is a pounding loud motion instead of engaging
our butt, core, and hips, our muscles on the front and back of our legs to shock
absorb every step. So the second thing I did for her was to get her back to
lifting. Well that's counterintuitive because if you have joint pain, the last thing you think
you should do is actually go to the gym or build muscle.
But it makes a lot of sense because so many women in particular are so focused on being
thin that oftentimes that means you're trying to be thin or slender at the expense of building muscle, and that
then makes you weaker.
So do you know, I think women want to be slim so they look good in their clothes, right?
Yes.
I do.
I know.
I know.
Me too.
But I don't want to be slim.
I want to be lean.
Do you know what nature's spanks is?
No.
Muscle. So if you have your same size four, size six, whatever your people are wearing.
Eight, ten, twelve, whatever.
Whatever.
Right?
I don't care what the number is.
And we're thin.
We can be 40% fat and thin and you still got this bulgy stuff coming out the side of your
bra.
But if you are lean, you are spanked up without having
to put on all that elastic. So anyway, this is just my funny way of saying muscle is more
than, you know, it can be cosmetic, sure. So for this woman, we're talking about her
arthritis. We anti-inflamed her diet. We fed her muscle with protein. We got her lifting
again so her joints aren't pounding. I put her in a pool,
we're in Florida, but everywhere in the country there's indoor, not that expensive pool. And she
does her mobility in a pool shift several days a week. She's just there moving all her joints.
She was describing to me she's lunging, she's high kneeing. But doing that, getting the mobility in
every joint in her body is without
pounding. And you know, she was in the hall yesterday showing me how she's like, Vaughn,
I haven't been able to lift my knee up to my chest in years. And there she was balancing
on one. So listen, that is the whole person approach to arthritis. Not just I'm going
to stick some cortisone in you and hope for the best. When we do-
Does cortisone work?
Oh, you know what-
Because like tons of people just go get their cortisone shot.
I'm not saying that in a judgy way, I'm just saying-
No, it's a pretty standard thing and it works for a couple weeks, but it solves no problem.
It is not good at the root cause.
It decreases inflammation in the moment, but it doesn't make you strong.
It doesn't anti-inflame you.
Research shows cortisone lasts about three weeks.
That is not enough because you can't give it
every three weeks.
I mean, I don't not medicalize arthritis and joint pain.
I give people their own biology back.
I use something miraculous called platelet-rich plasma,
which takes blood out of your own arm.
It's your blood. It's
you. We spin off 10 billion of the platelets. Blood separates in a centrifuge spinning by
weight and I pull off the platelet portion. We have great research in multiple studies
that show you can profoundly decrease inflammation by giving you back your own platelets because
they're not just little sacacks that make you stop bleeding,
but they are sacks of your own growth factors.
And so when I want to treat someone in a natural whole way,
I give them back what their body is already making
to heal themselves.
And I would imagine those platelets are better
if you're following some of the advice
they've been telling us all day.
Yeah, if you're following some of the advice they've been telling us all day.
Yeah, if you're healthy. Absolutely. Absolutely.
Could you speak directly to the person who's been listening to you, Dr. Wright, and thinking,
I haven't taken care of myself my entire life. I mean, is it too late for me? I would love
for you to just talk directly to them.
You know what? I think sometimes when enough time has passed, you can end up feeling pretty
hopeless. I mean, maybe you don't even know how the extra 50 pounds creeped up because
no one sets out as a goal in life to be immobile and to feel terrible and to be in pain all
the time or have to have three closets of different size, that is nobody's
goal. But I completely understand how time and circumstances can creep up on you, especially,
listen, I'm a midlife woman. I went through menopause. I gained the 30 pounds that I then
had to get control of and reverse and do all the hard things it took to get back to feeling like myself again.
Listen, nothing is free. But if you believe anything I've said today is that, you know,
just believe me on blind faith that your body will respond just right now. Get up, put on
your headphones and go for a walk, even if it's around your kitchen table.
If you're feeling like that, like it's just too late for me, I'm whatever age old, it's
just too late, take the first step and do that today and tomorrow.
And if you're worried about the work you have to do at home, listen, there is no such thing
as dishes police.
If you get done with your dinner and you push
back and you're like, I'm going to go invest in myself, I promise nobody's going to come
to your house and arrest you for leaving the dishes on the table. You are more important
than the menial tasks that you prioritize over your own health. So if you're just starting
out and you're like, yeah, I want to do something, just start by going back to your basic skill and taking a walk every day for seven days.
I don't care how long it is.
Once you've done something for seven days, it's a streak.
And you don't want to break your streak.
You've done it for seven days, right?
What if you're traveling?
Well, you know you're going to sit there for two hours, walk around these giant terminals
in the airport,
just push that suitcase, that counts.
Well, you've done an incredible job, Dr. Wright,
like really connecting the dots
from this being a directive to lose weight
or to look better to a just treasure
that's inside your body that is waiting
for you to activate it.
And I think, you know, particularly for so many people that listen to this show and are at stages in their life where
they're either consumed by school, or they're consumed by caregiving, or they are going through
a major change in their life or their career or, you know, what's happening in their family,
that it is so easy to find yourself in these phases of your life that can last years where
you just let yourself go. And simply being reminded that your body is designed,
no matter how young or old you are, no matter how out of shape or far gone you
are or how much pain you may be in, your body is actually designed to move.
It is designed to respond to everything that you're prescribing to your patients and explaining
to us, and that it's something that even just adding a walk-in every day right now will make a big difference.
So if the person listening takes just one action today, Dr. Wright, based on absolutely everything that you have taught us,
what is the most important thing to do?
So you know what, Mel? If there are 300 million people in this this country and we know that 51% of them are women, if we share this with 31 million women and they share this with five
of their best friends, we will save the lives of 50% of people in this whole country and
everybody they love.
I absolutely agree with you. And so as you're listening to this, I want you to take the
time and think of five women
in your life. I don't care how old they are. I don't care how young they are. Share doctor
rights information with them. Share this conversation with them. It is something that you can do
that could absolutely change the trajectory of their life. What are your parting words?
I think we've had a lot of instructions today and a lot of things people can take little
steps up, but here's what's not going to happen if what I'm going to say next doesn't occur.
You can read anything you want.
You can listen to me talk all day and give you instructions, but until you believe that
you are worth the daily investment in your health, then nothing else
matters.
You will not take care of yourself until you believe that you are worth it.
And so if I could change one thing from people like you who are experts at helping people
believe in themselves, I want people to believe in love of themselves because self-care is
really loving yourself
to take care of yourself.
So if nothing else, please know that you are worth the daily investment in your health.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, Dr. Wright.
I love how you framed all this.
I love how many people are going to share this.
I appreciate the heart and what I deeply appreciate about you and the work that you're
doing and what you did today for me and the person listening is that you actually gave
us a achievable roadmap to follow so that aging is inevitable, but being frail and broken
and weak and putting yourself last
isn't.
Correct.
And so thank you, thank you, thank you for everything.
Oh, it's my pleasure.
Oh my gosh.
And I also want to thank you.
Thank you for taking the time to listen to something that will change your life for the
better.
Thank you for taking the time to share this with everybody in your life that you're worried about or that you would wish that they would take better
care of themselves. I think this is life changing information. And in case no one
else tells you, I wanted to be sure to tell you that I love you. I believe in
you. I believe in your ability to take Dr. Wright's advice and get moving. I
believe in your ability to follow the things that she
suggested today even if it's just take me on a walk start listening to this
podcast on a walk get moving again and I think you will be startled by how your
body is actually designed. That muscle and movement are medicine. It is designed
to feel better and when you feel better, you're going to do better.
Alrighty, I will see you in a few days.
I'll be waiting to welcome you in to the very next episode,
the second you hit play.
I'll see you there.
You guys good to go?
Yeah, we're great.
Awesome. Thanks, boss.
What a nice crew you have.
Thank you.
So everybody knows their thing. It's just really cool to not only be able to do
creative work and to be able to do something
where you're learning new things,
but that you also know that it's making a difference
for people.
I think it's work worth doing, right?
Yes.
It's worth getting up for.
Yes, I really cannot, I pinch myself every day.
What a good job you have.
I know, right?
Look at us.
Look at us.
I know, I know, it's so fun.
All right, well, are you ready, Kev?
Fabulous.
Trace, you ready?
Yes.
Awesome.
Oh my gosh, I am so excited.
Okay, so I'm going to welcome you in.
Okay, you ready?
I love that.
I can feel the fire.
It's a very hopeful message.
Boom, we got it.
Yay.
This is going to explode.
I appreciate this so much.
Fantastic.
Good.
Thank you so much.
Thank you.
Yeah.
We're like truffle pigs here, just rooting around until we find it, right?
All right, everybody.
Dr. Wright.
Woo! Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Woo!
Oh, and one more thing.
And no, this is not a blooper.
This is the legal language.
You know what the lawyers write
and what I need to read to you.
This podcast is presented solely
for educational and entertainment purposes.
I'm just your friend.
I am not a licensed therapist.
And this podcast is not intended as a substitute
for the advice of a physician, professional coach,
psychotherapist,
or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I'll see you in the next episode.
Stitcher