The Mel Robbins Podcast - Optimize Your Brain: 3 Important Habits for Productivity, Memory, and Longevity (Based on 200,000 Brain Scans)

Episode Date: August 7, 2023

In this episode, world-renowned brain specialist Dr. Daniel Amen reveals the secrets to a happier life, and it all starts with... (surprise!) your brain. Dr. Daniel Amen is a medical doctor with 40 years of experience as a psychiatrist, 12 New York Times bestselling books, and he’s conducted over 200,000 brain scans, all of which back up the simple, proven tactics he’s about to share with you. Dr. Amen shares the 3 most important habits you can start today to make your brain work better for you, based on decades of research.Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, addiction, or stress, the information in this episode will forever change the way you think about your brain. No boring and complicated science here. Learn simple, practical changes to improve your brain, like: What to say first thing in the morning to keep your brain strongThe 5 most important foods to eat for optimal brain healthThe 2 most important vitamins to take every dayHow to tell when your vital hormones are offWhy strength training is better than cardio for your health3 most important words to keep your brain sharpThe breathing technique Dr. Amen recommends for an anxious mind  This is your zero-cost guide to better brain health!  This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from me at the top of the episode. You keep asking about how to improve your mental health, and it starts with improving your brain health. In under an hour, you’ll learn everything you need to be sharper, smarter, and more successful—by maximizing the power of your brain!  Xo, Mel In this episode, you’ll learn:0:52: Today, you have an appointment with one of the world’s leading experts on brain health.05:28: The craziest brain scan Dr. Amen has ever seen07:17: Brain health 101: What you need to know about your brain today09:34: The simplest habit you can incorporate today to protect your brain10:53: The first thing you need to say every morning to keep your brain strong13:01: The 2 most important vitamins to take daily16:38: What do having a glass of wine and falling in love have in common?20:52: 3 easy ways to know if you have low dopamine levels29:02: The breathing technique Dr. Amen recommends for an anxious mind33:02: 2 proven ways to calm a very busy brain37:40: Whenever you get a negative thought, ask yourself this one question39:04: If you feel tired all the time, it’s time to look inward.42:47: How to improve your memory: it starts in your kitchen46:10: The greatest piece of advice on brain health you need to leave with  Disclaimer

Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast. I am so glad that you're here today because when I started the Mel Robbins podcast, I always had this vision that it would be like, you and I taking a walk twice a week and just doing life together. And then occasionally, when we felt like it, if they were cool enough, we would invite some of the world's leading experts and interesting people to go on that walk with us so that we could learn from them. Well, what if I told you that I was able to get you an appointment with the world's

leading expert on brain health? Somebody that has scanned 200,000 brains. Somebody with clinics around the world that see 4,000 people a month. Someone who has written 12 New York Times best-selling books on the brain and brain health. What would you say if I said, hey, I got us a free appointment with the world's leading expert on your brain health? Well, you know what I would say? If you said that to me, I would say, so I don't care.

Why do I care about my brain health? It's basically like three pounds of macaroni in between my ears and some days it gives me a headache. So what do I care? Here's why you should care. There are simple things that you can do to take better care of your brain. And when you take better care of your brain, you will be happier, healthier.

You can make a huge difference in symptoms of anxiety and depression and ADHD. It is literally the place that you need to start when it comes to a happier and healthier you. Our expert today that's joining us is Dr. Daniel Aiman. Dr. Daniel Aiman has been a psychiatrist for 40 years. He is one of the world's leading experts on brain health. He was on speed dial with the NFL during all of the concussion hearings because he understands that in order to improve your health, you have to improve the structure and functioning and blood flow in your brain. It makes sense, doesn't it?

You got to tune up the engine in your car. So of course, you've got to take better care of your brain. And he's not going to overwhelm you. One of the reasons why I love Dr. Daniel Aiman, is first of all, he's fun, he's hilarious, and he talks and take aways. So I am here with you. I got my pen.

I am ready to learn. I am ready to learn, okay, what supplements do I need to take? What do I need to know about how to be a happier me? What do I need to eat? What should I do that I'm not doing? How much sleep do I need? How much water do I need? What are the things that will help me? Mel Robbins, a woman without a PhD and not a lot of time. How can I make my brain better? And I got to be honest with you.

I have referred so many people to him because I believe that his advice works. Whether you're dealing with the impacts of concussions Whether you're dealing with the impacts of concussions, or you're dealing with the impact of anxiety, or you're dealing with a brain that has been impacted by past addiction, there will be information for you that is not only specific, but that's going to help absolutely everybody. So, you ready?

Should we invite Dr. Daniel Aiman, the brainiac, the best-selling author, the OG of Brain Health to the Mel Robbins podcast? I'd say so. Here we go. Dr. Daniel Aiman, my friend. I'm so happy that you were here on the Mel Robbins podcast. Well, I love being with you. So thank you for having me. Oh, you're the best. You know, one of the reasons why I love you is you have been an expert on the brain and a psychiatrist for 40 years and you do not focus on what's wrong with us. You literally teach us how to bring out more awesomeness through brain health. You call it elite brain training.

What is that? Well, a long time ago, I realized I hated the term mental illness. It changed people. It's stigmatizing. And it's wrong. They're brain health issues. And if I can teach you to get your brain healthy, well your mind is better. People often don't understand that. Your brain, physical functioning of your brain,

creates your mind. Everybody wants to be better. Nobody wants to be told they're mental. And so the mission I have on the planet, is to end the whole concept of mental illness and create this revolution in brain health, which is why I'm so grateful to hang out with you today. Oh, I wasn't planning on asking you this, but I just was struck by the fact that you distinguished between the brain and the mind.

What's the difference between your brain and your mind? Well, your brain, the physical functioning of your brain, creates your mind. And people get this mixed up all the time, but you just have to think of someone who has Alzheimer's disease. And if you saw the scans of people with Alzheimer's disease, you see that they're wildly damaged. And then that person is no longer fully that person because their brain That person, because their brain has been damaged, people really need to know if you want a healthy mind. The first thing to have is a healthy brain. And so, are you saying that absolutely anybody can improve the physical health of their brain? And that will have an impact on your happiness,

your performance, and your mental health. Everything. And it happens quickly. So for example, if you get better sleep tonight, your mind can be better tomorrow. If you get drunk tonight, your mind's gonna be worse tomorrow. And because those both have a direct impact on the physical functioning of your brain.

Wow. Like, you know, it's interesting because you're right. There is so much information and so many conversations out there about mental health, but you have this revolutionary approach of teaching all of us how to take better care of our brain and how to improve our brain itself and how that has a direct impact. So I wanna start at the very beginning

because you know, you've been doing this for 40 years. You are, in my opinion the world's leading expert on the brain. And can you give us just a 101 on the brain and what you want anybody and everybody to know about the brain? And I want you to speak directly Dr. Aiman to somebody who may be listening, who's never thought about this topic before. So your brain is involved in everything you do, how you think, how you feel, how you act,

how you get along with other people. It's the orbit of intelligence, character, and every single decision you make. And when your brain works right, you work right. And when your brain is troubled for whatever reason, your satir, sicker, poor, because your decisions aren't as good. Today I'm in Miami, but I usually live in Newport Beach where you have more plastic surgeons and almost anywhere in the world because people care more about their

faces, their breasts, their bellies, and their butts than they do their brain. And that's a second because it's your brain that makes you attractive. It's your brain that makes you happy. It's your brain that keeps you purposeful or it's your brain that is the organ of rage. And so getting your brain right is critical and it's these three steps. Brain envy got to care, avoid anything that hurts it, know the list. And quite frankly, most second graders would get a 90%.

If you gave them 100 things that hurt their brain. And then the third thing is regularly, do things that help it. And I worked with BJ Fog for six months. He runs a persuasive tech lab at Stanford on how people change. And we develop tiny habits. You know what's the smallest thing you can do today that will make the biggest difference. And the mother tiny habit is whenever you go to do something today, ask yourself, take three seconds, ask yourself, is this good for my brain or bad for it?

And if you can answer that with information and love, love of yourself, love of your family, love of your mission, you're going to just start making better decisions because you care about the organ that makes you you. Wow. All right. Let me unpack this. So number one, brain envy is this idea of actually caring about the health of your brain. And so do you recommend that you have somebody in mind that you envy, like clearly I envy you,

because you take incredible care of your brain, but is it just this concept that you just actually have to wake up and realize that what's in between your ears is the most important aspect of your health and wellness period? Is that what you're saying? Yes. And number two, you then said that there are these microhabits that you have developed. What are three microhabits that have the biggest impact on the health of your brain other than asking yourself, is this good or bad for my brain? So I start every day with today is going to be a great day because once you get the physical

functioning of your brain healthy, you then have to program it. So I start every day. So why does today it going to be a great day for you? Directing your mind, it puts your brain in a positive state. And then my favorite of all the habits I do is when I go to bed at night, I say a prayer and then I go, what went well today? And I go on a treasure hunt.

And I actually start from the very moment I woke up, looking for what was right about the day. And I've done this now seven or eight years, and even the night my dad died about two and a half years ago. And it was an awful, awful day. I did it because it was my habit, right? The brain is lazy. It does what you nudge it to do. And so it really helped me even in a really hard time.

But it's almost my favorite time of the day because like you, I'm busy and great things will happen and I'll just not really focus on it. Let's take a short pause to hear from our sponsors, and we'll be right back with Dr. Raymond. Okay, so Dr. Raymond, is there one supplement that you believe everybody should take for better brain health? Well, a couple of multiple vitamins, a really high quality multiple vitamin.

I make one called neurobioplus. Brand new study showed people with memory problems who are headed to darkness when they took a high-quality multiple vitamin within a matter of months their memory was better. What? Wait a minute, hold on a second. So you're saying that a high-quality multivitamin can not only improve your memory, but if you're sliding on a slippery slope toward memory loss, research shows that it can actually bring memory back. Yes, brand new research just came out.

They're actually comparing it to placebo and cocoa extract chocolate. And they were hoping the chocolate would do it. It wasn't the chocolate, it was the multiple vitamin. Now, I never make a disease claim with supplements. But if this level of B6 B12 and fully did that. Wow, I'm going to start popping it like candy is what I'm going to do. That's incredible. So a multivitamin has a huge impact. I hear a lot about fish oil too. Omega-3 fatty acids have been found to be good for your heart, good for your brain, good for your hair, good for your skin, good for your eyes.

Why is it good for the brain? 25% of the nerve cell membranes in your brain are made up of omega-3 fatty acid. So if your deficient, your brain is not gonna work as fast and efficiently as it could. And low levels have been associated with all sorts of bad things from depression to dementia to ADHD. I'm going to sprint out of this interview. Go get this, these supplements. I mean, I've been really,

I'm sort of embarrassed because we've got a brain that I clearly envy here in Dr. Aiman. And I feel like I am really dropping the ball here on my own brain. And so I'm going to report back the next time we have you on about how I feel really religiously taking a multivitamin and my fish oil. I promise Dr. Aiman. I want to go into some of the other, I guess, chemicals that you hear associated with the brain. And have you explained to us what they are and why they're important for happiness, for brain health? Let's talk about serotonin.

What is it and why is it important? Serotonin's hugely important. For many different functions in the brain, but for happiness, for flexibility, and respect, and respects ones that fools people. But when you are serotonin levels or low, So you more easily feel disrespected. And if you have a social fight or you feel diminished in some way, your serotonin levels drop. And when serotonin levels go low, people tend to worry. They get stuck on negative thoughts, negative behaviors, they tend to be argumentative and oppositional, and if things don't go their way, they get upset,

which on this surface can appear selfish, but it's really not selfish, it's rigid, and boosting not selfish, it's rigid. And boosting serotonin, it's like bright light therapy, which is why it's so important to get sunshine and while, you know, as we go into the holidays, time change happens. Just a long time, right, is we get less sunlight and it gets colder outside. We just, you know, then got a bomb dropped on us, like all the sun can lose an hour day of light and light itself. Let me back us up a second. So does your brain create serotonin?

Is that like, what is the function of serotonin in the brain? So your gut makes about 90% of the serotonin in your body, but it doesn't go directly into your brain. Your brain creates serotonin from the amino acid precursor called triptophan. And that's why often eating trip to fam rich foods. Like turkey. Can be helpful. You have to trip to fam rich foods with a carbohydrate. Cause you need an insulin response

to drive trip to fam into the brain. So turkey and sweet potatoes together is a great combination to boost your mood. So when you have high levels of serotonin, how does that impact you? We tend to be happy. You're a little bit less motivated. You sort of don't care that much.

I remember when ProZac first came on to the market. I would give it to some of my depressed patients. They would say they would be less depressed, but also less motivated. Because as trip to fan goes up, dopamine, another chemical we should talk about, goes down. They have this sort of counterbalancing effect, so a lot of people who take SSRIs, they go, I'm happier, but I don't really care that much.

So is serotonin sort of the happiness one and dopamine is the motivation and drive one? Is that their relationship? The happiness, one, and dopamine is the motivation and drive one. Is that their relationship? Dopamine is the molecule of more. It's when you get dopamine, you go, oh, I like that. And the problem is, the more you get, the more you want. And then it turns into trouble. We are wearing our dopamine centers in the brain and our society with our phones and social media

and the non-stop video games and texting. We're being thrilled to death, which ultimately wears out the pleasure centers in the brain. So you have to be very careful. I often talk to people about drip dopamine, don't dump it. What does that mean? Drip dopamine, don't dump it. So you want a little tiny piece, you know, a little tiny burst of dopamine, not a big splash. So, for example, cocaine, big splash of dopamine and you go, whoa, but the problem is you have none left and then you get depressed, which then start using.

Alcohol is the same way, alcohol, dumps, dopamine, nicotine, vaping, dumps, dopamine, scary movies, dump dopamine, falling in love. Dump's dopamine. You want to drip it. So, would an example of dripping dopamine include the two microhabits you talked about, one being waking up in the morning and saying, I'm going to make it a great day. How am I going to do that? And also at the end of the day, going on that treasure hunt for what went right? Yes.

Excellent. How can you tell if you have low dopamine? If you're tired, if you're sad, and you just don't have the motivation to get done what you want again, done. But the good news is even if you've been bound to your brain by doing the right things your brain, you know, we call it neuroplastic. It can be better even in a matter of months. Wow. We've talked about supplements, we've talked about some microhabits.

What are simple ways to increase dopamine? Cold showers will do it. So I just finished a shower before I did it. And I always finished with like two minutes, I turned all the way cold because cold therapy has been shown to Chris spoke, nor an effron, another neurotransmitter, and dopamine. Any like certain times of day where your dopamine is higher or lower just naturally? In the morning. And is the same true as serotonin?

In the evening. Okay, so to explain that to us, and then how we can use something natural to boost it. Everybody's circadian rhythm or the rhythm of their energy is different. There are morning, lunch and night owls, and you sort of have to know what you are, a lot of my ADD patients are night owls. And society is sort of biased against them, you know, because school starts early, work starts early for a lot of people. But you just have to know your rhythm. And if your dopamine is high in the morning, that's when you want to focus and get work done. If it tends to be higher later in the day, know your rhythm.

I'm like slightly overwhelmed. I don't even know where to start in terms of like how to boost my serotonin naturally, how to boost my dopamine naturally. So are there certain things you should do first thing in the morning to keep your dopamine levels high, to stay focused, to promote your brain health? So one thing I really like is morning bright light. Okay. Morning bright light therapy. And you can actually get these therapy lamps, 10,000 locks. So it's bright. Okay. Put it, don't look at it. Put it like an arms length away from you for 20 to 30 minutes in the morning.

Super simple can significantly improve dopamine, your energy, mood, and cognitive function. Exercise. Whether you want to increase serotonin or endopaminate does both walk like you're light for 45 minutes, four or five times a week, super simple, bright light, exercise, just incredibly helpful. I mean, just turned 68 this year.

And it's very clear to me that the stronger you are as you age, the less likely you are to get Alzheimer's disease. But it's really for older people, it's frailty that kills them almost more than anything else. So, life, exercise, simple supplements and now you can eat in certain ways to boost the neurotransmitters in your brain. So when you say frailty and strength,

are you also recommending in addition to the 30 to 40 minutes of walking as if you're late three or four times a week that you also add in strength training? You bet. I think it's absolutely critical for men and for women. Your muscles are your protein reserve. You probably, you know, seeing, you know, one person gets into a car accident and they come out of it just fine. Another one's permanently damaged. Same accident. Why? Because it's the level of brain health or brain reserve. They brought into the accident that often determines the outcome. So every single day of your life, from my perspective, every single day of your life, you should be boosted your brain reserve.

Well, that's what I find to be so inspiring and empowering about your work, your research, your message, Dr. Aiman, and all the content that goes crazy viral on TikTok, you are very clear that there are simple things that we can do to train our brains, to make our brains healthier, and that has an enormous impact on the quality of our lives. And so it's not too late for anybody listening to improve their brain health doing these simple things. Can we talk quickly about cortisol, like what it is, why it matters to kind of understand what it is when it comes to your brain health? So cortisol is critical, it's made by your adrenal glands, and it helps us manage stress and deal with inflammation.

When it's high because of chronic stress, chronic negativity that it actually puts fat on your belly and shrinks your hippocampus, the major memory center in your brain. Dr. Raymond, hold that thought. We're going to take a short break. And when we come back, we're going to dig right back into it. OK, so Dr. Raymond, what are three things

you can do to start to bring down those cortisol levels? Meditation, incredibly helpful, prayer for people who do that, hypnosis, a huge fan, I've done it with my patients for the last 40 years, having a regular relaxation process. And then ask yourself, is this worth killing brain cells for me? You know, whenever I listen to people arguing or really focused on, you know, whatever the latest conspiracy theory is, I'm like, is this worth killing brain cells for me? No, it's not. I know you have a specific breathing pattern that is associated with a comor mind. Can you teach it to us? I love it so much. It's the

15-second breath. So if you're having a panic attack, this is going to fix it in two minutes or less. And what researchers discovered is you take twice as long to breathe out. As you breathe in, it produces an automatic relaxation response in your body. So the pattern is that's in and it's four seconds in. Okay. Hold it for a second and a half. Eight seconds out. Hold it for a second and a half. Will you walk us through it?

So four seconds in. Hold it. Eight seconds out. Hold it out. And then repeat. So let the energy of breathing go lower in your body. And if you just practice this on a regular basis, cortisol will go down. And you're just going to get flooded with a feeling of calmness and relaxation. Now you got to practice. You have to create a pathway in your brain of relaxation. Why does this 15-second breath work?

Because it stimulates, encourages your brain to go into a parasympathetic state. So there's a difference between stress, what science has called sympathetic state, has nothing to do with sympathy. It's a bad word, but a sympathetic state is where I was on the beach of Crona Del Marne, walking my dog, and I saw two pit bulls running toward me.

Oh my God. Oh my God, right? So my heart went fast. I mean, it was pack and ended up turning out okay. But what happened? Now I'm on the edge of my seat. Did you pick up your dog? Did they just jump up and creep?

No, he was a big white shepherd. Oh. I got bit. He ended up in the ocean. Yeah, it was sort of a disaster. I still get triggered sometimes. It was critical to eliminate trauma because I love walking on that beach so much. I actually did a session of EMDR. I don't know if you've I talked about EMDR. It's specific psychological treatment for trauma. It's actually really cool. You're right. It is really cool. So I have been doing EMDR for the past two years as part of my work with my therapist on a whole host

of issues. And in particular EMDRDR you guys, it is super helpful, at least it has been, for addressing childhood drama. And so what it is, because it's a big long name that I can't even remember what EMDR stands for, but here's what you basically do. You're with a therapist, and you revisit something from your past, it's super triggering. And as you do that, you then stare at this ball

moving back and forth on the computer screen. And I have no clue why this actually works. But I do know it has helped me a lot. And it's so powerful and super cool that I want you to know more about it. And so we're just going to do another episode on it. That's what we're going to do. But in the meantime, Dr. Aiman, I have another question, and it's this, how do you come a really busy brain? So the first simple thing to do is the diaphragmatic breathing, the breathing pattern that we just talked about. The second thing that we haven't talked about, but so important is to direct your thoughts. I was 28 years old before I'd learned I didn't have to believe every stupid thing I thought. I'll be class

when I was the psychiatric resident at the Walter Reed Army Medical Center. And I heard my professor say that, and I'm like, no way. Because my mind would torture me. You know, I'm one of seven children, I was pretty much irrelevant. I have five sisters, there's a lot of chaos in my family. And my mind would torture me.

And if you start writing down your negative thoughts, and just ask yourself whether or not they're true. And there's a whole process I teach by patients. I need to be the director of my mind, rather than my ancestors directed, or the voices of my mind rather than my ancestors directed, or the voices of my parents directed, or the news, or the gossip at work, I need to be the director.

I want to be happy, connected, purposeful. I often go, well, this is fuck shit. Maybe, happy, connected, and purposeful. And, you know, Mal, just because you have a thought has nothing to do with whether or not it's true or whether or not it's helpful, you know, everybody has crazy thoughts. Jerry Seinfeldman said the brand is a sneaky organ. All of us have weird, crazy, stupid, sexual, violent thoughts that nobody should ever hear. And just because you have a thought, it doesn't say one thing about it.

Yeah, it's the sort of, you know, like the weather. It's not the thoughts you have that make you suffer. It's the thoughts you attach to that make you suffer. I want to ask you a question because I want to I want you to talk to the person that has never considered that they could direct their thoughts, or that the things that they think aren't necessarily true. If there's a person hearing this, just like you were 28 years old, sitting in a class when it first entered your mind. Other than taking out a notebook and just start to write down the things that are popping in your mind, is there some other way to help someone kick the door open? Because this is a revolutionary and life-changing concept when somebody first entertains the notion, Dr. Aiman, that you can direct what you're thinking about and you can dismiss some of the

crap that you torture yourself with as untrue. How do you begin this mental training and reprogramming? So I don't have any tattoos, but if I got one, one of the first tattoos I would get is it true. It's just start carrying that question around in your head. And so when you get a thought, my wife never listens to me. I've had that thought. If you have that question, then you don't automatically have to attach to it.

You can talk back to it. You don't have to believe the nonsense that's going on in our head to sort of begin to think about it like the weather and then go, does this thought serve me? Does it help me? Is it even true? And it's so often the lies we tell ourselves that keep us overweight, depressed, and people minded. Yeah, I can give everybody an example for my own life when I was super sick.

I started to tell myself this story that my husband, Chris, was mad at me, that he was annoyed, that he was taking care of me. I was telling myself this story that people were mad, that I had to cancel things, and all of those thoughts made me feel terrible, and none of them were true. And so you're right. I didn't interrupt them last week. I just sort of marinated in them, but I'm realizing sitting here listening to you, that I allowed those negative thoughts that were not even true to make me feel bad.

What advice do you have for people who are chronically tired, Dr. Aiman? Well, the first thing is get your thyroid checked. Get your thyroid checked, okay? Chronic tiredness can go with low thyroid. It can go with you being a Neiman, can go with you having low iron. So, you know, I always think of people

in four big circles, biological, psychological, social, and spiritual. And so, I'm always going to, so what's the biology of tiredness? You know, got an infection. How's your gut health? What's going on in your hormones? You can also be chronically tired because you're filled with automatic negative thoughts,

so that negativity can drive higher cortisol production than you just feel wiped out. You also might not be sleeping well, and getting checked for sleep apnea is critical because that goes with chronic tiredness. So if you start loudly, if you stop breathing at night, you're chronically tired during the day, you should get sleep apnea checked. If you're in a conflict with a loved one that so drains your energy or if you're holding on to hurt some huge fan and forgiveness. You know, not holding on to hurts where you're drinking the poison and hoping someone else is going to die. And then tiredness and spirituality, I think of purpose. The more purposeful someone is, the more it opened me. They have.

And so really focusing in on, you know, why you're on the plan, I think is a critical piece of energy as well. I want to come back to some tips and some tools that people can use to start boosting brain health. What are the five best foods that you can eat for brain health? Salmon, especially wild salmon for the omega-3 fatty acids, berries, blueberries, often called them brain berries. So people take blueberry extract, access, and shown to improve memory. Okay. Nuts and seeds.

People who eat nuts and seeds on a regular. Have a lower incidence of depression and dementia. Leafy greens for the fiber and the magnesium, but my favorite one is raw cacao or, you know, the manning ingredient in chocolate. Wow. I want you to try this. I make brain healthy hot chocolate virtually every day. How do you make it? And so I get raw cacao. So for each serving, you know, say the servings like 12 ounces, a heaping teaspoon of raw cacao, unsweetened organic almond milk. And you could do with other nut milks, but I organic almond milk. And you could do it with other nut milks, but I like almond milk.

And there's a company called Sweetleaf that makes liquid chocolate stevia. And so I heat up the milk, I mix in the rock cacao, I put a couple of dropper, full of chocolate stevia and put it in a blender to taste amazing. See, I love that there was an ambulance driving by in the background as you, as my and our

brain doctor were telling us to make hot chocolate. That was just a beautiful thing. I think that was the universe telling us all. We need to have our brain healthy, cacao with the stevia chocolate sweetener. I'm actually gonna make one when we are done with this. What can I do to improve our memory, Dr. Aiman? Think about this, Mel. 50% of people 85 and older will be diagnosed with dementia.

Like those are odds I am not okay with. And if you want to keep your brain healthy or rest your way, you have to prevent or treat the 11 major risk factors that steal your mind. And I know we don't have time to go in it. But the namanika have his bright mind. So for example, maybe the most important thing, B is for blood flow. Every single dude to increase blood flow to your brain, you're going to be happier,

your memory is going to be better, and you're going to be more sexual. So is that the brisk walking? So you want to avoid things that steal blood flow, caffeine, nicotine, beam sedentary, having any form of heart disease, and then you want to do things that enhance blood flow. So walking, brought to cow, beats the supplement, ginkgo. These things all increase blood flow cinnamon or reganon. Cinnamon, oregano. Wow, this is starting to sound like a cooking show, but don't worry everybody.

We're gonna put Dr. Amin's information, including the information on bright minds in the show notes because there are 11 of them. And I don't know about you, but I definitely cannot keep track of 11 things right now. So, Dr. Aiman, you've been a psychiatrist for 40 years. What are five things that you would never do because it's bad for your mental health and your brain health? I would never say everything. I think some people come to me and say, oh, Dr. Aiman, I'm brutally honest. And I'm like, well, that's usually not helpful.

I would never purposefully stay up late and scrub my sleep. I would never aid everything I want. And I would never take medicine just based on symptom clusters. I always want to look at the brain and then target whatever treatment I need to how somebody's brains function. Yeah, the one thing I forgot to ask you, this time of year, when it gets darker earlier and it's colder, I notice my mood drops and I feel sad. What do you do whether it's because of the time of year or because of chronic stress?

You feel this sort of languishing or heaviness set in. What are three things that you would recommend that somebody do to boost their mood. So morning bright light, exercise, don't overdue that caffeine. And it's real important. I haven't talked about this yet. Turn off blue light when the sun goes down. What is blue light constantly flooded with blue light? And in the morning, it's fine.

But after dark it's not, because it decreases the production of melatonin. So you get it from your laptop, you get it from your phone, or you get it from whatever gadgets you might be looking at. And so after dark, either put blue light blockers on your gadgets or just turn them off and don't read a book.

If you could leave everyone with just one thing to start doing today, to create better brain health, what would it be? Whenever you come to a decision point in your day, just ask yourself, and what I'm doing good for my brain or bad for it. And if you can answer them within formation and love, I'm serious about this love of yourself, love of your family, love the reason you're on earth. You're going to start making good decisions for your brain and then everything in your life will be better. Dr. Raymond, you're so awesome. Thank you for giving us very tactical and

doable strategies based on research that help us improve not only the physical and functioning aspect of our brains, but also tools and strategies to help us to start to reprogram the brain and the thinking patterns in it. Dr. Aiman, you are a gift. We so appreciate you. I love you. Thank you for spending the time with us. Thanks, Dr. Aiman.

Thank you, my friend. What a joy. What a joy is right. And there is so much to Dr. Aiman through it us today in terms of resources and things to do. And there's a particular resource that he has for free that I want to make sure you know about. He has a website called brainHealthAssessment.com.

I want you to check it out, and here's why. There are 16 different brain types, and based on 200,000 brain scans, Dr. Raymond has a free assessment that you can take online, that based on these 200,000 brain scans, that measure blood flow and activity in the brain, he literally can help predict what your brain might look like if it was scanned in one of his clinics based on the most common symptoms that you experience. So, in less than five minutes, you can discover a comprehensive approach to optimal brain health

based on your brain. You can know your brain's risk factors. Why? So that you can actually address it starting today. And so I want you to go to brainhealthassessment.com if you want to learn more, if you want to know what specifically you should do for free. And you will get a personalized email report. And I believe so much in this obviously, because Dr. Amin's work has helped my husband. It has helped me and I know it will help you. We'll put this all in the show notes. You can peruse it at your leisure, your desire,

whenever the heck you want, but it's there for you because as you know, the Mel Robbins podcast, we're not just here to listen, we're here to do something about it. And one final thing, in case nobody else tells you, I want to be the one to tell you that I love you, I believe in you, I believe in your ability to create a better life. And what we both learn today is it does begin with you starting to take better care of your brain. That bowl of macaroni that's between your two ears, you and I, we need to start to really pay attention to it.

And I hope that you now feel better equipped. I know I do, to be able to do that. All right, I'll see you in a few days. [♪ OUTRO MUSIC PLAYING [♪ So, are you ready, Jesse? Okay, great. Here we go. [♪ OUTRO MUSIC PLAYING [♪ Sorry, I'm eating Indian food that I made

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for educational and entertainment purposes. I'm just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist and this podcast is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I'll see you in the next episode. I'll see you in the next episode. [♪ OUTRO MUSIC PLAYING [♪ Stitcher.