The One You Feed - How to Build a Meaningful Career in an Uncertain World | Benjamin Todd
Episode Date: August 7, 2026In this episode, Benjamin Todd explores how to build a meaningful career in an uncertain world. He and Eric discuss why the old advice to “follow your passion” can lead us astray, how AI is changi...ng the skills that may matter most, and what actually makes work fulfilling. Benjamin also explains how to think more intentionally about the impact of our work, why experimenting is often more useful than trying to think our way into the perfect career, and how to know when it might be time for a change. A Weekly Bite of Wisdom: Want to go deeper with the ideas we explore on The One You Feed? Every Wednesday, Eric shares a short, practical email that turns insights about mental health, relationships, purpose, habits, and personal growth into simple practices you can use right away. You’ll also receive our Weekend Podcast Playlist featuring a recap of the week’s episodes. It’s free, takes about a minute to read, and is enjoyed by thousands of readers each week. Sign up at oneyoufeed.net/newsletter. Key Takeaways: Why following your passion isn’t always the best career advice How AI is changing the way we should think about career planning Which skills may become more valuable as technology advances The five factors that make work satisfying and fulfilling Why meaningful work involves more than a job title or salary How to choose work that makes a meaningful difference Why asking “What could I become good at?” can open new possibilities How small career experiments can help you make better decisions Why we often stay in unsatisfying jobs longer than we should How to evaluate whether it’s really time for a career change Ways to make a difference even when changing careers isn’t possible For full show notes, click here! If you enjoyed this conversation with Benjamin Todd, check out these other episodes: Mind Over Grind: Practical Tips to Manage Work Stress and Enhance Your Well-Being with Guy Winch How to Create a Life Strategy for Meaningful Change with Seth Godin How to Craft a Meaningful Life with Emily Esfahani Smith This episode is sponsored by: Quince: Refresh your wardrobe with Quince by going to Quince.com/feed for free shipping and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too Talkiatry connects you with licensed psychiatrists for personalized, evidence-based mental health care, all online and covered by most major insurance plans. To get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes, visit Talkiatry.com/FEED. Pebl – an AI-powered platform that helps companies hire and manage global teams in 185+ countries. Get a free estimate at hipebl.ai ZocDoc - Taking care of your health just got easier – start here with Zocdoc Shopify – The commerce platform that helps you build, grow, and manage your business all in one place. Start your $1/month trial at shopify.com/feed. Tiny Health's at-home gut health test provides science-backed insights into your microbiome, along with personalized recommendations to help you improve your digestion, energy, and overall well-being. Get $50 off your first test kit at tinyhealth.com/FEED Monarch: Take control of your finances with Monarch, the all-in-one personal finance app that helps you budget, track spending, monitor investments, and work toward your financial goals. Get 50% off your first year of Monarch Core, go to https://www.monarch.com/ and enter Promo Code: FEED ButcherBox: Make dinnertime easier with ButcherBox, delivering high-quality 100% grass-fed beef, organic chicken, wild-caught seafood, and more, right to your door. Get $20 off your first box, plus your choice of free ground beef for life or free chicken thighs or top sirloins for a year, with free shipping always. Visit ButcherBox.com/FEED to claim your offer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Hi, Benjamin.
Welcome to the show.
Hey, thanks for having me.
I'm excited to have you on.
We're going to be discussing your book,
which is called 80,000 hours,
how to have a fulfilling career that does good.
But before we get into that,
we'll start like we always do with a parable.
And in the parable, there's a grandparent
who's talking with their grandchild.
And they say, in life,
there are two wolves in.
of us that are always at battle. One is a good wolf, which represents things like kindness and
bravery and love. And the other's a bad wolf, which represents things like greed and hatred and
fear. And the grandchild stops. They think about it for a second. They look up with their
grandparent and they say, well, which one wins? And the grandparent says, the one you feed. So I'd like to
start off by asking you what that parable means to you in your life and in the work that you do.
Yeah, one thing it reminds me of is in the first chapter of the book, I talk about people think, in order to find a filling career, they think they have to follow their passion.
And there's this kind of this idea that there's this one perfect career out there for you, almost like a kind of romantic match.
And it's just a matter of like finding that one perfect match and then you're sorted.
and I actually think it's much more a case of building something over time in building your skills,
putting yourself in the right context, and gradually finding something meaningful.
And that's what then passion comes from rather than something that is just out there.
And it's feeding those conditions for passion that is how I think about building a fulfilling career.
though I wanted to then, I think there's kind of another theme in the book, which is almost that
when you're in a situation where your two wolves are battling, you kind of want to avoid that
situation in the first place is another big theme in my mind. And one of the big points I'm trying
to make is if you can get a couple of big picture decisions right, that can really determine
a lot of your impact.
And by putting yourself in kind of the right circumstances,
you can then achieve a lot and kind of almost bypass these internal tensions
or these like more day-to-day concerns around character,
though I agree that are really important too.
And I spend like loads of time meditating and so on as well.
Yeah.
I mean, we'll get into sort of many of those things that make a career
feel worthwhile and fulfilling.
And you really do a great job of laying out
this idea of being really intentional, that the career you choose is one of the biggest decisions
you'll ever make. Sometimes it's less choosing a career because we don't know what exactly where
everything is going. It's choosing maybe the next best choice, but you certainly make a very
compelling case. We need to be looking at the long game. We need to be looking at work that feels
meaningful as in it solves real problems and it's a fit for us. And I want to get into all that,
I think the elephant in the room is AI, right?
The elephant in the room is that AI is here,
and there's all kinds of different estimates about how soon, how fast,
that it's coming for a lot of existing jobs.
I remember a moment a couple of years ago.
I was talking to my son.
He's 28, and he right now is what's called a hotshot crew,
wildland firefighter in the U.S.
And that's probably not a long-term job for a variety of different reasons.
And I found myself for the first time ever being like, I have no idea.
I have no idea what to say.
I mean, I feel like at any moment up till now, it's not that I would have known what was right for him.
It's not that I would have had an opinion on what he should do.
But I would have been like, well, I have a lot of experience and I've been through a lot of roles.
Right.
I can offer some ideas, some thoughts.
And I just found myself going like, I have no idea.
So talk to me about that.
Yeah, I mean, it's a big topic.
I do agree the next decade we could easily see more change to the job markets than we've seen an entire generation before.
And as the pace of change gets faster, your planning horizon should shorten and you should focus more on just putting yourself in a good position the next couple of years.
I use the example of even something like medical school, I think, is a much less compelling
bet than it was, say, even just 10 or 20 years ago, because you're then having to spend
the next eight years in training and we don't know what it's going to look like at the end.
So, yeah, in general, we're in a very weird situation with AI where it often feels like
it's all anyone's talking about in some ways.
It's like incredibly hyped.
But in many ways, I feel like we're actually not really.
taking it seriously, especially on a gut level. And I think things could actually change a lot more
than most people think. Yeah, I tend to agree. I think part of what makes it hard to think about
and spend a lot of time with is not having any precedent to try and understand what's happening
and to feel slightly also like things are going to happen and we don't know what's going to happen
and we don't have a lot of control over what's happening.
That leads to just don't think about it, right?
It's a perfect recipe for like, at least for me, like, all right, I can't control it.
I have no idea what it's going to be.
Eh, move on.
But that's not necessarily the best choice.
Yeah, and I think there are things that people can do.
I mean, this is another huge topic, but you still have some influence in who you vote for
and, like, calling a representative.
and spreading ideas on your podcast.
I mean, you can only influence things a little bit.
For sure.
So you've made some points about things that we can do.
When I'm looking at a career perspective,
whether I am 18 years old, 28 years old, 48 years old,
and I see this massive change coming,
how do I start to think about how to navigate it?
Yeah, that depends on what your goals are for this.
But, I mean, one framework I talk about is, like,
which skills to learn, which is a question a lot of people's minds.
And I mean, this is also going back to people feeling powerless.
So we could end up in a situation where pretty much every job has been automated,
but this requires what's called full artificial general intelligence.
It can do every cognitive task.
And you need robotics that's fully working.
And you need it to be fully deployed and like all the legal issues worked out and like people trust these systems.
And that is quite a major process.
before you get to that point,
we only have part of the jobs automated.
And what's actually happening is
the skills that are getting automated
are going down in value because AI can do them instead.
But all the other skills are actually
going up in value because they become the remaining
bottlenecks in getting anything done.
And people's ability to contribute to the world
and have an impact actually probably goes up
at least in the initial stages.
In the long term, it goes down because everything's automated.
But at least before we get to that point,
your impact is actually going up.
And one way to see this is we now meet these teams of like three or five,
sometimes very young people who are able to do what would have taken 20 people before.
Or they just wouldn't have been able to do it because they're like,
as an 18-year-old, you can't get expert legal advice.
But they're able to figure it out, like 80% of the way there,
by using AI well.
And that's actually very empowering for them.
And nonprofits that would have just been way too expensive to start in the past,
you can now start them with a much smaller budget
because you can get all this AI help to do some of the work
and automate some of the work.
So that is like a framework I would think about is, yeah,
which of these skills are going up in value
and how can you actually use these tools to have a greater impact
in the next couple of years?
And I think there are a lot of opportunities for this as well.
There's a lot of advice that centers on get better at using AI, which on one hand makes a lot of sense.
And on the other hand, I think is challenging.
And the reason I think it's challenging is, I'll just give an example.
Two years ago, you could have invested a huge amount of time and energy into becoming a prompt engineer.
The models have more or less swallowed that.
They are your prompt engineer.
I've seen people build software companies that were like this little thing that sits on top of AI.
And six months later, the model does all of that.
So OpenClaw, I think, is another example.
I know a lot of people spending a lot of time in OpenClaught, but it's not far off that the models just do that kind of out of the gate.
And so it seems like you learn a skill and then it just gets swallowed.
And you learn a skill and it gets swallowed.
So what are the AI skills that are worth trying to learn?
Yeah.
It's worth saying like all of these skills are a moving target.
There's no final answer.
And so you could then go one step further and say, well, the skill of learning skills rapidly
is one of the most useful skills.
And I think there is actually things you can do there to learn to learn more efficiently.
I do think the skill of learning to use AI is one of the most valuable skills, though I do
agree with the caveats you just said.
And then I would say I think there are some others.
So I've also written about social skills.
And one way of seeing this is so there.
there's actually over the last 20 years in the US economy,
many people don't realize that jobs involving STEM
have actually had lower wage growth than average,
whereas jobs involving social skills
have had higher wage growth than average.
And then jobs that have had the most wage growth
involve both STEM skills and social skills.
Yep.
And it's kind of like this ability to translate
between technical topics and skills and products and so on
to the messy world of working with other people.
I would guess in the next five years, that will remain an important skill set.
I mean, people are going to still really value real relationships.
So we're seeing this with content now where, as someone who's just published, like, a quite
practical book, how to nonfiction is collapsing.
It's not.
I just published a book in that category too.
And you're like, huh, you know, you're right.
This is interesting.
But, I mean, your point is that content is essentially becoming free and to learn how to do something
more and more is simply go ask the AI, how should I do this? And it knows about who you are
and knows about your history. And it gives you a customized plan, which is something a book can't do.
We could argue the benefits of books because I think they're out there. But the general trend is
inescapable. The content creator is a harder and harder business.
Yes, though I would say that in the how to space. Exactly. But there's a shift towards
more opinionated or more like story-based or relationship-based content, which people still
value. It's the very like more bland type how to content is the most. Unfortunately, what I
slightly specialized in, but. Yep, I feel your pain. So I want to back up for a second. So we've
talked about AI a little bit. And that's kind of what's on everybody's mind. The thing with AI is
sort of a little bit of the reframing in my mind of the question that was asked most often before,
which is like, what's going to make the most money? Now we're asking what's going to survive
AI. But you go back to a far more fundamental place of starting. So let's talk about in your mind
what makes for a good career. Yeah, I mean, I talk about five main drivers of job satisfaction
fulfillment. And the first, it almost sounds simple, but I think it is actually often
very overlooked. And it's just the engagement on an hour to hour basis. And this has been called by
researchers in psychology, he was trying to sum up the whole literature, and he was like,
these are the most empirically validated predictors of job satisfaction. And he broke it into four
factors. So it was how much feedback you have, how clear the tasks are, how much variety you
have, and whether you have autonomy. So you can decide how the work is done. And instead, people often,
when they think of a career, they think, well, I want to be a professor. And they kind of imagine,
like, someone sitting in an office with a tweet jackets and their students coming in. And they're
and they think about what my friends think of me if I was a professor and is it kind of like
what I think of is a cool life. But that's all kind of like looking at it from a very big picture
point of view. But what actually drives whether you're satisfied or not is how you're spending
that time hour to hour. And that's much more like, well, it's writing papers. It's writing grant
applications. It's doing university admin. Reading papers. Yeah. Yeah. And if you don't like those
things, you're probably going to have a bad time even if you find the kind of image of being a professor really
attractive. Yeah, I think that is such salient advice. Like, are the actual tasks of the thing,
things that you would want to be doing? And I think we can fall into that trap in all kinds of places.
I see people fall into that trap in the entrepreneurship world. They're like, I want to run my own
thing, which has lots of great values. But there are a whole bunch of tasks that go into that,
that have nothing to do with the thing you actually want to do. You know, taxes and bookkeeping. And
The list just kind of goes online.
And I'm not saying it's not worth doing.
It's what I've done.
But there's a realization that, like, there's stuff that comes with that that's sort of
inescapable.
Totally.
Yeah.
The second factor is then also really important because there's a lot of jobs that are very
engaging on those grounds.
But people don't say they're meaningful.
And when you might look back on your life, you might kind of have the sense of, like,
what was it all for?
So the second big ingredient is, like, work.
that helps other people, the work that makes a difference to other people's lives.
Yep. And then maybe more quickly, the third is, I think, just, I think competence is important.
That's very satisfying. But also, competence at your job is what enables you to get all the other
things that matter. You know, this is again why passion isn't sufficient because if you're
passionate but not very good at it, then you're going to end up with like no money and lots of other
working with people who are really frustrating. And these things can also be really important for
satisfaction. And then yeah, the fourth is like working with supportive colleagues. Again, I think
what's so interesting is, again, people think, they often think in terms of the job title,
is this satisfying or not? Is this what I want to do my dream job or not? But so many of these
conditions are actually about the context of the work. Yeah. It could be something that like seems
boring from the outside, like it's admin, but if you do it with people who are really fun and in
pursuit of a meaningful goal. And it's structured in an engaging way. It can actually get you into a lot
of flow and motivation, even if, like, you would have never thought from the outside. It's the kind of
thing you would have wanted to do. Yeah. And then the fifth and final point is you can call these
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like your pay is unfair. And those things can make you dissatisfied even if you have the other
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You've described two situations for me.
One is in my late teens, early 20s.
I thought I'm going to be a musician.
and I just wasn't even remotely good enough.
You know, through the fog of addiction and alcoholism,
it took me a couple of years to figure that out.
But also, I had a career before I did this in the software business
that in many ways, met many criteria you're talking about.
Like, it was challenging.
I lost myself in the work.
I liked the people I worked for.
The time flew by.
I got paid well.
It was really good.
And I couldn't answer the message.
meaning question.
Then I tried to answer the meaning question by like, I'm going to start a solar energy
company.
But what I realized after a little while, in addition to Ohio being a terrible political
climate to even attempt such a thing, is that that's not actually would have played
to my actual best skills.
And then when I stumbled into this podcasting and coaching people and writing, when I stumbled
into that, I was like, oh, I have finally put all the different pieces together in a
way that makes sense for me. And so I just relate a lot with what you're saying about, you know,
trying to get as many of those factors as you can. And you may not get all of them or they may
be weighted differently. But the more of it that your job fulfills, obviously the higher level
of satisfaction you're likely to have. Yeah. And it's the software engineer example. I actually
use that one in the book because people do report it's engaging, but they actually do report
lower than average meaning. So that's actually a common result in surveys. Yeah, I was an engineer.
I did everything around software, product development, project management, leading development teams,
all of that. But I ended my career at the Gap. Gap was a wonderful company in so many ways.
They do so many good things in the world. It's an amazing place to work. They make good clothes.
And I was sort of in a software role where we were focused on the fulfillment of getting the stuff to people.
And I ultimately was like, I just can't find myself deeply caring about whether the genes get there in one day or two days.
Yeah.
Like everybody finds the thing for themselves and the world isn't always ideal.
And I feel like I am very fortunate, incredibly fortunate to have found what I have.
But, yeah, it was a process of adding together those elements till I found the thing that feels, at least for now, most right.
Yeah, and it's great to find that thing.
And this is actually something I've struggled with the last, I don't know, five plus years is getting to that place of alignment where you feel like these different goals are kind of enough incoherence that you don't have the tensions between the different parts.
And I did have that in the past when I was founding 80,000 hours for the first time.
And then I've kind of realized over time, like, actually, it's very lucky to have that type of period.
in your life and a lot of people don't find it yeah i'm actually a believer that no matter what
you do the tensions don't get resolved we are motivational complex creatures we want lots of different
things the world gives us different things i think there is tension in there but minimizing it
and realizing which tensions can you live with is kind of the game yeah exactly it's not not
having the tensions it's kind of like being at peace with them or having it be part of a creative process
or something like that.
So I want to change direction just a little bit into making a difference.
And that's a key part of the entire book, is, you know, all the things we talked about are
important, but what you do mattering.
And you really go into a lot of data about, like, what matters most.
And by most, I mean, if my goal is impact.
So describe how you measure impact.
I don't want to get too fixed on the idea of quantified measurements.
So, you know, all these things are super unknowable.
But the thing I really want to leave people with is you can still come up with rules of thumb
to help you find more impacts for less impactful things.
And it's more about using those rules of thumb than kind of making like some type of spreadsheet model.
It's exactly like 10 units of impact at the end.
Right.
If you pick the one that has the most impact, but it doesn't fit you in many ways,
you're in a different problem.
Exactly. So personal fit is one of the big rules of thumb that we really talk about a lot in the book.
But then another one that I think from determining your impact is maybe the most important of all is which problem you choose to work on.
And we encourage people to try and look for problems that are big, problems that are neglected, and problems where there's a route to progress.
So it's solvable or tractable.
and trying to find something that does well on the balance of those three criteria,
that I would actually say is the thing that most has the biggest effect on your long-term impact.
But again, it's like totally different to the normal, normally it's just, you know,
well, should I work on climate change or health or education or AI risks?
And people are just like, just choose what you're passionate about again.
But I think actually being really intentional about that choice and then figuring out which of those issues are going to
allocate your effort to, whether that's donating or spreading ideas or political advocacy or
working directly on a cause, however you're going to contribute, choosing the issue in the first
place has a huge effect on how much impact you'll have. Let's throw out four huge issues. We've got,
you know, this is where it gets a bit more spicy, yeah. I want to just kind of talk to this. I'm not
trying to like be challenging in any way, but let's throw out, you know, AI risk. That's an
existential problem.
Climate change, you know, could be considered an existential problem.
Hunger.
Way too many people don't eat.
Preventable death, malaria and other things.
You make the point that pandemic planning, right, like knowing what we're going to do in a pandemic
could be one of the most impactful things that anybody could do.
So I've got these things that are all pretty important.
They're at least big.
And are they neglected?
I mean, I think almost any good cause in the world is.
somewhat neglected, right? Because most people aren't paying attention or doing anything about it.
And so if I don't use what pulls at my heart the most, what else might I use to make that choice?
All those problems you just listed are ones that are kind of relatively high on our list.
Of course. That's why I chose them, right? I mean, I guess I should say, like, your book highlighted those mainly.
And I think they're the ones that, you know, if people step back and really look at the big problems, we would see those as pretty foundation.
A huge amount of, say, philanthropy in the U.S. is basically people donating back to their universities, which is essentially subsidizing some of the richest students in the world.
I find that bizarre. I guess I never went to college, so the concept doesn't make sense to me. But yes.
Yeah, I would say getting down to that list is actually already quite a minority of what people are focusing on.
But then, yeah, within that, this is a bit where I think it is actually quite important to get a little bit quantitative.
So climate change and AI risk are both big risks.
But the other factor I mentioned was neglectedness.
And if you try and add up all the number of people in the world who are doing climate jobs,
I think it's probably more around a million people worldwide.
Ideally, we would have many more people working on climate change than we do.
I agree, in a kind of very absolute sense, it is still too neglected.
But if you do the same exercise for people working to reduce like AI, loss of
control risks, that's probably under 3,000 people.
So that's a thousand times difference in the neglectedness of those two issues.
This will be even more controversial, but then I would actually argue that the AI risks have a
higher, like true existential risk in the sense of could actually permanently disempower
humanity for the rest of history, than climate change, where climate change is very likely
to kill millions of people.
But, you know, if you read the IPCC report, which is supposed to represent the scientific
consensus on climate change. It doesn't say it's going to literally end civilization. So there's still
huge differences. There's like extremely bad risks and like extremely extremely bad risks and there's
actually still a big difference between those. Yep. But given that, let's just play with this idea
a little bit. So we got climate and we got AI safety. I would argue that part of the problem with
AI safety is that there probably aren't a lot of jobs in AI safety yet at this point. Right. And it seems to be
something that all the AI players nod at, but don't really meaningfully care about.
So the work isn't there, although part of what we're talking about, you forge and you create
your path, but if I really care about forests, I just love forests, and I really just don't
even like thinking about computers and AI, would I not be better going where I felt pulled to?
Well, this then gets down to a deep trade-off because I do think it is really important to do something that you're truly intrinsically motivated to do.
And you will have more impact and you will also get, we talk about career capital.
So you'll also be in a better position in the future, which will give you lots of other opportunities, which could also be impactful in unpredictable ways.
Whereas on the other hand, if you're just kind of doing something that intellectually seems really impactful, but you burn out or you can,
kind of do it reluctantly, that's probably not going to go that well. So there is a trade-off
and you're trying to find the best balance of the two. And to some level, it's something, again,
I struggle with where, for instance, I feel like roles involving more like management
and organization building could be higher impact, but I personally prefer to do things that are more
like writing or research or kind of like thinking type work. I feel that trade-off myself where I'm kind of like,
well, I could do more, but like, would I be intrinsically motivated? And you just have to
play this, this conflict out between yourself and come to some kind of resolution. But yeah,
I think the point, maybe the point I would make is, in some ways, I'm kind of saying the tradeoff
is actually worse than people realize because there's bigger differences between areas than
people realize. And we have worked with a lot of people who were just like, okay, well, I studied philosophy
at university and I'm like super interested in philosophy and that's what I spend all my time thinking
about. So I should probably work as a philosopher. But would I should do with graduate studies
and that kind of standard academic path? But they were worried like would I actually have any impact.
So I use the example like just Whittlestone in the book. And then she just took this time to actually
explore different paths. And she kind of found that she could get interested in lots of other things
and eventually ended up actually being head of AI policy. This is like 10 years later, it was head
of AI policy, like the UK's top AI think tank, AI risk think tank. And we've seen just many
cases of this are people just developing new interests. And that comes from the work being, it's the
things we talked about earlier, the work being engaging, finding it meaningful. So I would say, like,
give it a chance. Yeah, try some things out. If you've done that and you're still like, well,
this is the only thing I'm motivated by, then, yeah, there's another conversation to them be had, though,
about can you contribute indirectly? So, you know, I talk about, you know, I talk about,
the power of donating 10%, you know, the traditional practice of tithing from a lot of spiritual
traditions. And if you focus that on the right charities, that can actually have a huge impact.
And that's a way in which you can work on anything that you can be a ballerina, you can
start a restaurant, like any job, and then you can still contribute to the most pressing
problems in the world indirectly. So I think that's also worth considering as an option for many
people. So I've referenced effective altruism before, but it occurs to me now many people may not know
what that is. Describe to me what effective altruism is and its connection to your work at 80,000
hours. Yeah, so effective altruism is the project of trying to use reason and evidence to find the best
ways of helping other people, the ways of helping that do the most to help others. And so partly it's a
kind of specific social scene of people who are interested in these ideas and try and put them
into practice. And then partly it's just this question of trying to find out what actually
is the answer to that and everyone could have different answers. But what unites them is the
search in the first place and trying to actually not just accept the kind of common sense answers,
but be willing to consider more unconventional answers based on like where we think reasons
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Some of this is the simple practice of looking at like, okay, if I spend a dollar here or a dollar there,
you know, how much more impact does that dollar have, right?
A dollar on mosquito nets for people with malaria
may have a much higher impact than a dollar spent on my local food bank.
Right.
And I think these things can be measured lots of different ways,
but the point is to be thinking about that question.
Right.
Exactly.
I would argue as soon as you start debating that question,
you're doing effective altruism,
whereas, you know, people associate effects altruism
with the list of specific answers that,
people like to say like malaria acts is a common thing that people promote but you could arrive at
totally different answers but still be doing effects altruism right i mean my approach to it has been
to look at that like where does it seem to show that a dollar that i give is going to do the most good
and then within that sort of broader spectrum what matters to me more within there it's a way of sort
of triaging to get both, right? Most impact, not absolutely maximize the impact. Like, I choose
the one that has absolutely the highest impact. Because again, all this stuff is measured and measurements
are often incorrect and we often don't know what we're measuring in some cases. But I think the data's
worth paying attention to and having some trust in. And then from there, like, what moves me within that?
I think definitely when it comes to choosing career, that's the approach I recommend, like come up with
a short list of plausibly good things and then choose between that based on what you're
most motivated to do, what you have the best personal fit for. So you also asked what's the
connection between Effect of Altruism and 80,000 hours? And I mean, the quick version would be
we were like around at the start of Effective Altruism in Oxford in 2011. And I would say
we were inspired by these ideas. But like there's a lot of people who use the advice
but, you know, aren't participating in effect of altruism.
Right. You took some of the core ideas of, like, I can think about what has the most impact.
We can quantify that to some degree, and that can be something that helps make my, not just my
donation choices, but my actual career choice, which is arguably the biggest place to have
impact that we possibly can.
Yeah. I mean, that's the original idea of the name, 80,000 hours, which I guess we didn't
actually explain at the start, but yeah, it's just...
your career is this huge amount of time, and for many people, that's their biggest opportunity
to make a difference in the world. Which, again, maybe sounds kind of obvious, but I think is often
not really how we think about things. We think, like, it's more about what you consume. It's, like,
whether you cycle to work or turn off the lights or recycle. This is often what, like, ethical
living is associated with, but I would actually kind of argue those things are relatively small
amount of your impacts compared to just what you're actually spending most of your time on. It
I mean, the Buddhists did kind of figure this out because they had right livelihood as one of the key things.
Yeah, they did.
So, yeah, I really agree with that.
Yeah.
Yeah, I think I struggle with that because I think intellectually, you're right.
I mean, whether I take a longer shower or not probably isn't the place that I can make the most impact in the world.
And yet, it seems like, you know, I should do what I can.
But I think you're right.
I think there's a lot of factors that go into how people select the work that they do.
And what's the most meaningful and what can have the most impact maybe in there, but it's often lower down.
There's another point you make that I really like.
And you say that one thing that people, when they're trying to figure out a career, ask is what am I good at?
And you suggest asking, what could I become good at?
Talk more about that.
Yeah, I mean, this is really.
interesting research actually about people's productivity over their lifespans.
And although it's true that, say, for lyrical poets and pure mathematicians, they actually peak
relatively early, kind of like in their early 20s in terms of like if you look at like number
of papers published or something like that. But for most people, most jobs, it's more in your 40s
or 50s. And that kind of suggests that in some way we're building skills for these 20 years.
and so choosing a career is much more a case of which skills am I going to learn over this time
like what you're already good at and people often narrow down too early because they just
haven't tried something or you know they never even considered a certain like learning a certain
skill but they would actually fit it really well if they did and think about what is worth doing
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I'm going to talk about two different types of people,
which is the people that are early on and have more ability to make different choices
and then people who may be a little further on where it's a lot harder, right?
If you are now, you have a family of three children and a mortgage, you can always choose to do anything.
You can be like, I quit tomorrow.
However, most people won't make that choice, whereas a 22-year-old has a lot more flexibility and options.
So I want to talk first about that latter category.
The people were young enough to explore this more.
And you talk about a way of running experiments in essence to, you know,
Learn a little bit more about whether this direction is right for you.
Talk to me about what some of those experiments might look like.
Yeah, and this is another way in which I would say a lot of career's advice.
It's very like inwards and therapy focused.
It's very like, let's really introspect and kind of get down to what my like true desires are and find the career that matches them.
And there is some place for that.
But I would say just a lot of this is so unpredictable.
like we just don't really know who's going to end up good at different jobs.
And there's so many famous examples of like Oprah being told she's like unfit for TV.
And then of course, like the top of that profession.
And then, you know, there's actually a bunch of literature about this, like what actually
predicts who's going to be good at different jobs.
And, you know, one approach that is among the worst ways to do that is an unstructured
interview.
So it's just like you talk to the person.
you kind of vibe and then like choose based on that, which is how a lot of job selection works.
Meaning I ask somebody who's a doctor, I'd spend an hour saying, what's it like to be a doctor?
And then I get that information.
This is for people who are hiring other people.
Okay, okay.
This is where the research is from.
But then, yeah, we could think that's a bit more like a kind of intuition-led approach.
But from the perspective of the person hiring, there is a lot of research on when is our intuition
actually good at predicting things and when it is not.
And it's really good in the case of saying, like, there's a fireman who, like, feels like
something is off in the room and suddenly the building collapses, but they got out just in time.
And that's because they've seen hundreds of fires and they've developed this intuition.
But your career is really not like that because most people are only making a couple of big career
decisions in their life.
And the job market is changing constantly.
So you don't get a chance to kind of, like, build up this intuition for what's going to work in the future.
you do get intuitions for things like this person is untrustworthy.
So if you're getting bad vibes about a job, then yeah, that could be pointing at something really important.
But you can't just simply like go with your heart and expect that to like lead you to the thing you're going to succeed at the most.
Whereas, yeah, if you look at like hiring practices that are very predictive, it's often things like work tests, which again sounds kind of obvious.
So it's like, well, actually like spending some time doing the work and seeing how it is maybe not surprising.
actually quite a good way of figuring out who's going to be good at a job. I encourage people to
get out of the armchair and think, how can I actually get close to doing the work itself?
Another exercise I really like is if you're really uncertain between a couple of options,
try to just actually write down what are you uncertain about between them? Like, why can't you
decide what information would actually change your ranking of options? And then just go and get that
information. And you often find that it, you know, it involves just very practical things like
just going and talking to more people in the profession is often the most useful thing you can do,
like on a per hour basis, rather than thinking about it more yourself. And so then, yeah,
we talk about like making a ladder of tests where you start with the cheapest, quickest ways
to learn more about a job first, which might just be, I mean, these days it might just be
asking an AI about it, but then it might be then talking to real people in the job. And then you
could think, well, could I try this for a few days or a week or something.
like that, and you can gradually escalate from there. And that type of kind of more empirical approach,
that's what I find is ultimately most helpful for most people in figuring out which option is best
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I was fortunate to go to a high school that devoted the second half of your senior year
into two, like they called them walkabouts and you went out and did something.
And so one I did was I went and I volunteered at a children's hospital in the play therapy area.
And I very quickly discovered it's too much for me, right?
I don't have the personality makeup that can really handle that.
The other was I thought it was going to be a writer.
And so I went and I found somebody who donated, donated.
She let me use a cabin she had kind of out in the middle of nowhere.
And my job was to show up each day and write.
And I also realized then that I had no, I either.
I won't say I had no aptitude for it.
I had no ability to sit down and manage myself in that way to produce writing.
Now, all these years later, it's a different story.
But then nothing got done.
I learned in that case a couple of things that were valuable for me by ruling certain things out.
I mean, that's pretty cool.
Your high school did that.
Like, I think that is a good approach.
Yeah.
But I allowed you to get, I don't know, what's half of a,
semester, whatever that is in weeks, real experience doing things.
All right.
So we've talked about people who have time to make small bets, to try small experiments,
do all of that.
Now let's fast forward to where more of my audience is going to be,
which is people, let's just say, in their 40s who have a career that is doing okay,
but they may not feel fully satisfied.
And so there's an allure to just jump ship.
Let's talk about that because I think a lot of people are feeling that.
Like take me in my software career, right?
Paid well, I enjoyed it.
I loved the people I worked with.
I had autonomy.
I had all those things.
I was just missing the meaning question.
And I got lucky in a way that I just sort of stumbled in at the right time
into the right thing that answered the meaning question and all of those others.
But becoming a podcaster is not a role that is going to work.
I mean, lots of people seem to be trying it, but not a role that's going to work for everyone.
So if someone's in a career and they're thinking, well, maybe I should move, maybe I should change, how do you think through that?
Yeah, there's several steps to go through here.
And I mean, one thing, this also just applies to young people as well.
But I do want to just re-emphasize.
I do think it's really worth spending some time
thinking about which problems are most pressing in the world.
Okay.
And having some type of shortlist for that.
And then, you know, if you're a young person with a lot of flexibility,
you can then think, okay, well, what might actually
I be able to do to help with these problems?
And then you can do these little experiments
to figure out which path is the best fit for you.
If you're older, then one thing I might say is,
I mean, there's this really interesting study in the book
where there was around 20,000 people
who had to make some kind of major life decision.
They had to choose whether to leave their marriage or quit their job.
And they were very uncertain and they'd thought about it a lot and still were on the fence.
And then the study, so it was by the guy who wrote for economics, he just got them to flip a coin.
And if it was one way, they had to quit.
And if it was, you know, they had to stay.
And, okay, not everyone actually followed it.
But they, you know, they took the people who did actually quit.
And followed up, I think it was three months and maybe 12 months.
months later and the people who changed were much happier. It was a really big effect.
It was, I think it was for the big life decisions, I think it was two points of life satisfaction
on a scale of 10, which is about the same shift of like leaving an episode of depression or getting
married. I'm curious about the bias there, the short-term bias in that. I mean, that's a fascinating
study. I'm a big coin flipper, listeners. I just had a lot of things by flipping a coin. I think
there's a bias in that that if you follow up six months or 12 months later, there's a
recency effect of like, I'm doing something new. It's exciting, right? Whereas three years from
now, it's like, well, what was new is now you've habituated to. But I think it's still interesting,
it's still worthwhile data. And it's such a big effect, I would say, it's like, you know, that's
still a big deal even if it only lasts for a few years. And I mean, the message, in a way,
it's just backing up a very intuitive idea, which is that we tend to stick with the thing we're
already doing too long. And there's many biases that could explain that, like, some cost bias and
status quo bias and like loss aversion. And I would say, if you're in a job now and you're like
feeling like, I feel like I should quit. I'm unsure. I've thought about it for a while. I'm on the
fence. Then I think that is a good sign that it probably is time to make a change. If you're
earlier than that stage, then I would say, you know, there's a lot of people kind of like, well,
maybe I should make a change. Like one day, I feel like that I'm missing something, but they're not
yet on the fence about it, they're just kind of like as a nagging doubt. If you're in that
position, then I would say, just make it concrete. Like, spend some time to develop specific
alternatives to your current job. And then once you have those on the table, do a side by side.
So try to get it down to the level of like, well, okay, I could carry on or I could do A or B or C.
And then side by side. And then if you found a new option that seems maybe significantly better,
that then you could change.
And if you don't, then it probably means you should keep doing what you're doing.
And you can be more at peace with that because you've actually thought about it.
And then you've addressed the nagging doubts.
So that's a big thing I would encourage people to do.
And then there's a question, okay, so like what actually are the options that you should take?
And yeah, the later you are in the career, the more the question becomes like,
how can I use my existing skills?
Or we talk about career capital.
So it's like broader than just your skills.
It's also your connections and your reputation.
and your character and these things,
like give you abilities
to make a difference in the world.
And then how could I best use that
to have an impact on one of these pressing problems?
And normally the best way to figure that out
is to go and speak to people who work in the issue
and say, okay, for someone, you know,
I'm a lawyer or I build companies
or I'm a software engineer or whatever it is.
Like what opportunities could there be?
Which places could I work with this skill set?
And then, yeah, like actually doing a round of applications to them
and we definitely find people who make pretty dramatic career changes.
It definitely takes some time.
It's not easy.
But, you know, given a year part time, it's possible to make some pretty radical changes.
And yeah, I would say just like don't, don't rule it out too early.
And then, okay, this is like overly long answer.
But then, okay, then there's the risk piece, right?
You're probably going to be giving something up.
Like, you're probably going to be taking lower salary.
And it's definitely going to take a bunch of time to do this.
like this is going to be a major project on the side of your job or if you know if you leave your
job for a while to try and search for a new thing that's even riskier but then yeah what i would say is
you know actually make a list of what things could go wrong like make the risks concrete
you often realize that they're not as bad as you thought like once you've been like well okay
this is this is a realistic worst case scenario this is what could happen and then also think what
would I do if that happened? How would I mitigate the risk? And often you realize it's,
you would actually be okay in that in that circumstance. If you realize you wouldn't be okay and like,
you know, you've got dependence and you need, you know, or like someone's sick in your family and
you need to take care of them, something like that, then like don't, don't do it. Like you,
if you, if the risks are unacceptable to you, then you need to focus on getting into a position where
you're more resilient to those risks in the first place and then come back to this in the future,
come back to the career change. I think that seasonality of life thing is really important. Like
what I did leaving my job and coming and doing what I do now, I couldn't have really probably
done it a decade before, given responsibilities and different things. Now, I didn't up and quit.
I mean, I did this podcast for five years and I'm not trying to make this entire conversation about
me. I'm just trying to make it illustrative. But, you know, I did the podcast along with my software
career for five years. And I made a choice to make less income, and that has undoubtedly been
the case. If you were to measure it strictly on financial impact, you go, that wasn't your best
decision, but everything else mattered a lot more. So I do think, you know, as you're saying,
it is more possible than we often think. But again, it was after my son was off to college,
that felt more possible. Right? Before that felt less possible for a
variety of different reasons. And so, yeah, some of this is like we recognize we're in a season
of life. You know, you've got a four-year-old. Life is pretty demanding. When it's 14, that changes.
I suddenly had a lot more time to put into side projects when my kids were teenagers and they
were out and about all the time. They didn't have the demands of a four-year-old that needed my,
you know, 18-hour-a-day attention. Totally. One other topic that I didn't get onto is,
Maybe it's not right to change career right now, but like we already touched on earlier,
you can still contribute indirectly in many ways.
And we talked about donating is one option that can have a big impact.
And in the book, I use the example of Fred Mulder, who he was like, well, I could become a social worker, but I just like, I can't handle this.
I'm not a good fit for this.
And through kind of like a very coincidental discovery of a bunch of Picasso prints in a shop in Paris that he managed to like take back to the UK and resell, he became an art dealer.
and then has donated enough to maybe fund like 10 or 20 people to work in the social sector,
which he thinks had a much bigger impact.
That's donating, but then if you're already skilled in a profession, you could do consulting
in the sense of, you know, if you're a software engineer, you could advise impactful organizations
on their software projects or you could mentor people.
And there's often still things like that.
I mean, we also talked about getting involved with politics or, you know, I do actually just think
when we talk about spreading awareness, often that just means, well,
I'm like posting on social media to my tribe about things my tribe already agrees with,
which doesn't like particularly helpful.
But if you're actually bringing up an issue that people aren't talking about and is
genuinely neglected, that can make a big difference.
So you can still look at these other ways of contributing, yeah, building community around
causes as well.
So there's a whole chapter about this in the book.
And then while you're doing that, you could also be investing in making it easier to make
bigger changes in the future.
Because, yeah, it might just not be the right time for you.
but often there's things you can do to improve your ability to take risks and make changes in the future.
And investing in that might be your top priority right now.
Yeah, I love that as a place for us to wrap up because it's pointing to you can always do something that matters.
You know, whether it's in your career, whether it's in the world, it may not be the way you want it to be,
but there's always a way to do something that matters.
And I think that's the really empowering point that I got from a lot of your writing.
Yeah, like ultimately, you just have your options and your job is to choose the best one.
And that's the best anyone can do.
Well, Benjamin, thank you so much for coming on.
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