The People, Process, & Progress Podcast - Hearts Aren’t Always Red | FF37

Episode Date: September 30, 2021

Welcome to Foundations Friday, episode 37. Hearts aren't always red, they're black and blue. This is a song from I've Got You by the White Buffalo. And if you want to hear some soulful, no-nonsense music, man, look up the White Buffalo on Spotify or whatever platform and listen to his songs. This one, Wish It Were True, that he sang on Jocko Podcast. Beautiful songs, they'll reach into your heart but i thought that statement went along well with the episode that my wife and i shared

our notes on what do we think 10 things are that got us to 20 years or we know that we did and our hearts not being read but back in black and blue if you're going to get through relationship for any amount of time is so true but that that's like life, right? You got to be willing to take some lumps, give some lumps, realize, man, that's just part of it. It makes us tougher, stronger. Our compromise gets better. We get smarter as a couple, as a team. And it's just the reality of it. You can't expect that things are going to be perfect and if that's your expectation it's not realistic so for those of you out there that just getting married it's not going to be perfect that's fine that's life right that's marriage that's two people

committing to them each other forever bringing others into the world if you choose to realizing yeah we're gonna argue and then when you have kids they'll get to a point where they see you argue maybe and you're like yeah sometimes they don't get along just like you and your brother don't get along or just like you and so and so don't get along that's fine so i hope though that you work through the black and blue parts of your relationship just like my wife and I have for 20 years, and hopefully we'll continue to do so for another 20, 30, 40, however long. And I thank you again for coming by here,

for listening to this show, for going to the website, all the things you do. I just updated the site. Got Jocko Fuel stuff, energy drinks, supplements I take for my joints. I'm 47. I do jitsu, lift weights, et cetera.

Hard on the joints. Check it out. You'll see it-jitsu, lift weights, etc. Heart on the joints. Check it out. You'll see it's Jocko Fuel on the website, pupilprocessprogress.com. Follow Pupil Process Progress on Instagram, Facebook, etc., etc. But just remember, hearts are not meant to be perfect. This world's not perfect. There's hardship.

It makes us stronger. It makes us stronger individually and as a couple. But go back, listen to episode 88. Listen to the 10 tips, if you will, that really I believe in that can help you. Thanks for helping me. Stay safe out there. Wash those hands and Godspeed.