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Starting off this hour is Doug in Georgia.
Hi, Doug.
Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show.
Thank you, Dave.
Nice to talk to you.
You too, sir.
How can I help?
Go ahead.
I'm sorry.
I said, how can I help?
Well, me and my wife, first, I'm a little nervous, so if I stutter, I apologize.
That's okay. We've never lost a patient. You'll be fine.
Me and my wife are on baby step six,
and we have several variable life insurance policies that we could cash out and pay off the house.
But my wife was diagnosed with cancer back when she was like 18,
and she's afraid that she can't get any more life insurance if we need it.
So we're trying to weigh that out to see what our best bet is. Gotcha.
How old are you guys?
I'm 56.
She's 54.
How long has it been since she's had cancer?
18?
She was 18.
Okay.
So she's very insurable, but you would never drop life insurance policies regardless of
your background until you have new ones in place.
Okay.
If you needed new ones. Now, what life insurance is for is if she dies, can you make it?
Are you getting kids left at home?
We do have kids left at home, but they're both working.
How old are they?
20 and 24.
Okay.
All right.
So if she died, could you finish raising them on your income
yes my income is 95 percent uh pensions oh okay all right and so you're you're living on a pension
now largely and um if so she passed away without any life insurance with the savings you all have in
your retirement with your pensions and um with a paid off house which is what we're talking about
here if she left you zero life insurance you would be okay that's the equation you want to look at
i think so okay you don't have to decide the day but if the answer is that I would need some insurance from her death in order to make it okay,
then you would buy some term life insurance on her before you dropped the other policies.
And I think she's very insurable.
She's in her 50s.
It's been 40 years.
Right.
We have two SEPs that we've been contributing to also.
How much is in those?
$130 in one and $150 in the other.
You've done a great job.
You've done a great job.
And you've got these huge pensions coming into
yeah okay now then let's reverse this question and say if you died the pensions are probably
gone unless you got have you got spousal survival on them or not i do not and we discussed that
and instead of doing spousal uh you'd rather have insurance, we did a term policy on me.
Good.
Okay, so the variable is on her.
Yes.
Oh, good.
And the one you would cash out is?
Actually, two of them are on her and two are on me.
Okay, how much term life is on you?
I've got term, five hundred thousand all right so she would have a paid off
house in our scenario she would have uh two hundred and something thousand dollars in your
seps and she would have five hundred thousand dollars yes okay so not counting the house, she's got about $800,000 if you die, and a paid-for house.
Can she make it on that?
So if the $800,000 produced 10% a year, that'd be $80,000 a year income without touching the principal.
Now, that's probably not going to do that.
That's probably not what you're going to look at. But I'm just kind of giving an example.
Can she make it if you die with no variable life in place?
And so we're reversing the question on both of you.
You don't have to decide this today.
It sounds to me like that you probably are what we would call self-insured.
The way you become self-insured is zero debt and a big pile of money.
Oh, and the kids are grown and gone. That's the other thing that helps you be self-insured,
right? Those two are close. Yeah, and so you just about got rid of them. Well, I mean,
not permanently, but out of the house anyway, off the payroll. So the point is, is she going to be
okay if you die with $800,000 and a paid-for house? Probably. Are you going to be
okay with your pensions and $300,000 and a paid-for house if she dies with no life insurance?
Probably. So you're probably okay to just do this, but if you want to have the comfort of a little
bit more, you can pick up another $500, you, another $500 on her in term life.
It's not going to be super expensive unless you're currently unhealthy.
Right.
I'm paying about $145 a month for my policy.
Yeah, your term policy.
Right.
Yeah.
Right.
Yeah. Right. Yeah. I mean, you could go to ZanderInsurance.com and shop this, but my point is that really this is just some extra gravy on the biscuit.
Okay.
You got a pretty good biscuit here.
If you want to put some term on it as some extra gravy on it, that's okay. I've also got a deferred comp account.
A pretty good bit of money in it, too.
Roughly how much?
About $550.
Oh, my gosh.
And that survives both of you as well.
Yes.
So you're millionaires.
Yes.
Way to go.
Way to go.
That's pretty cool. The only thing we owe is the house so
okay so the answer to your question just changed then okay you're self-insured you do not need
these variable life policies do you understand uh i do she would have she would have 500 000
plus 200 000 in the steps plus,000 in deferred comp.
So she's got like $1.3 million in cash to invest and no bills and no debt on her house if you die.
Okay?
If she dies, you've got $800,000 counting deferred comp and a paid-for house and your pensions.
You don't need insurance on her.
You're okay, dude.
You've done it.
Touchdown.
You scored.
Thank you.
Does this make sense?
Do you see how I did that?
It helps me to hear somebody else say it.
Well, but, I mean, you work the math through, and you say,
honey, if something happens to me, you invest this money.
You sit down with our investment professional.
And if you don't have one, go to one of our smart investor pros.
But I don't think you need any life insurance.
It doesn't sound like it.
And I just did a two-minute analysis of your entire freaking life.
So you probably ought to do a further analysis on your life, right?
You've done a great job.
You can trust your instincts.
You have good instincts.
They made you a millionaire.
Wow.
Way to go.
Touchdown, baby.
Touchdown.
And he was nervous to call.
How fun is that?
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Carrie's in Indiana.
Hi, Carrie. Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show. Hi. Thank you for the opportunity to speak with you. 888-227-3223. Carrie's in Indiana.
Hi, Carrie.
Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show.
Hi.
Thank you for the opportunity to speak to you.
Sure.
How can I help?
Our youngest two children have come into an inheritance.
That's a substantial amount of money.
And we were trying to find the best way to handle it,
whether to leave it in a savings or to invest it some way.
We had considered investing in a piece of property maybe for them.
How old are the children?
They are 13 and 5.
Okay. And how much money did they inherit?
Right now we know they have a life insurance policy that's $35,000 each for them, and then there's a 401K that he'd invested in for at least 20 years.
We're not sure how much that one is yet.
Okay.
All right.
What I would do is simply put the money into some mutual funds.
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But, no, I would not buy property with it.
This is going to be used for their future, be used for their college,
maybe helping them with their first car.
And if there's enough money to survive both of those things, then maybe even their first
home.
And so that's your first step is just do some good quality, solid, basic investing.
And that's what I would do if these were my children.
So sit down with someone that has the heart of a teacher, you and your husband.
You might even take the 13-year-old with you. Maybe not this trip, but another trip later when you
sit down with your broker later, because this is an advisor that's going to be with you for the
next five or 10 years. Right. Yeah. I just wanted to make sure we were doing what was best for them.
I mean, it's easy to put it in a savings account. I would not put it in a savings account.
At least it's it, but Right. Because the inflation rate is
four and a half percent right now, and the savings account is paying one. So you're losing three and
a half percent of purchasing power every year when you have a savings account. Right. You've got to
outperform that, number one. And if you're saving for college, the inflation rate of tuition is
about seven and a5% a year.
So you've got to do better than 7.5% to even keep up with the cost of college.
So some good mutual funds should accomplish both of those goals, should be able to keep that going.
So if you made 10% or 11% instead of 1%, that's a big deal.
Right.
But take your time.
Understand how mutual funds work. You're doing this for your children. Understand how mutual funds work.
You're doing this for your children.
You want to be responsible.
And as they grow, you're going to want to teach them about this money.
Don't surprise them with it when they're 21 and go, hey, by the way, you got $150,000.
The 13-year-old already knows about it.
Okay, that's good.
And it has to go.
We had to go through a court to get guardianship over it, so it'll be monitored.
Yeah.
Also, because the way...
The court may dictate what you do with the money.
Right.
It's possible.
That's why I wanted to have something prepared to take, too.
Yeah.
Some conservative mutual fund investments, sometimes you can talk the court into doing.
Okay.
Sometimes the court is stupid, because they're afraid you're going to
screw something up as parents and they're trying to protect the kids and they make you put it into
a CD. And so you're going to lose your butt if they do that. So I would argue with the judge
if that was the case, but I'd have a professional investment advisor with a solid plan and you can
present that to the court. And usually you can get the court to hear you on that.
Most judges are sophisticated enough now that they know what a mutual fund is.
Twenty years ago, they would make you put it in a CD,
and you were just getting screwed just because they were scared
you were going to mess the kid up.
Right.
But most of the time now, most judges are sophisticated enough.
Not all of them.
Some of them are dumber than a rock on this stuff.
But that's the court.
You know, that's who the court is.
It's a person.
So you've just got to go in there and hope you get a judge with some wisdom and some actual marketplace knowledge of investing.
But you're not suggesting they're not going to let you buy property with it
if it's in a conservatorship like this.
Okay.
And so that's just not an option.
The good news is that 401k of his
may already be in mutual funds and this may become an inherited IRA. And so it might make it really
easy for that to stay in mutual funds from the court's perspective. That's the other thing to
look at. So once we've done all of that, then the next job you've got is to begin age appropriately teaching them about money.
We're not trying to overwhelm them with responsibility or overwhelm them with,
I think they've got enough money to buy all the candy in the store.
That's not what we're trying to do here.
But we do want them to learn about money because a big pile of money is as big a curse as it is a blessing
if you're not ready to handle it right and so i openly discuss finances with my kids not like
what our bills are but you know is it a need a necessity yeah and you know how do we do we live
on a budget do we stay away from debt um you know are we going to put the whole thing into a car
which goes down in value no we're going to put the whole thing into a car which goes down in value
no we're going to put money into an education that's valuable as long as it's a valuable
education that's usable yeah and so like they should pay for part of their own education
like i want them to have help with it but i want them to earn some of it too that's fine too i got
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It was a number one bestseller.
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Rachel did a good job with it, and I did a decent job.
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Thank you for joining us, America. This is the Dave Ramsey Show. Tony is in California. Hi, Tony. This is the Dave Ramsey Show.
Tony is in California.
Hi, Tony.
Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show.
Hey, Dave.
How are you doing today?
I appreciate all you do.
Thank you, sir.
How can I help?
I have a question relating to an investment that I'd like to make at this time in my life.
I'm looking at buying a triplex.
Potentially, I'm in the real estate business.
And based on my current situation,
buying in Southern California is not always the easiest.
But I have an opportunity, I believe,
to make a difference for the long term
and wanted to get your feedback on it.
Okay, you're going to live in one of the units?
No. I have a wife and a one- your feedback on it. Okay. You're going to live in one of the units? No.
I have a wife and a one-year-old son, and we already own a house, and we're not going
to be living in there.
We're set in our house probably for the next 20 years.
Good.
Good.
Cool.
What city are you in?
We're in San Diego, a suburb, Rancho Bernardo.
Yeah.
Nice, expensive market Bernardo. Yeah. Nice expensive market.
Okay, good.
Yeah, average house price about $450 now in San Diego.
Where in America it's about $220.
Yeah.
And $450 doesn't buy much.
So, okay, what's the triplex cost?
I think I can probably get it around $8,000 to $850,000.
Okay.
Are you out of debt?
Are you out of debt?
Well, I will be.
We sold our first condo, and with the gains from that, we're going to be able to pay off our two cars, and that's all the debt we had.
You don't owe money on your home?
Oh, we do. Sorry, except the house. I that's all the debt we had. You don't owe money on your home? Oh, we do.
Sorry, except the house.
I wasn't considering the home.
Okay.
Yeah, we owe $640 on that.
It's on a 30-year fix.
We're paying it at a 15-year, and we just refinanced that at the end of the year.
Okay.
All right.
Well, you're in the real estate business.
I grew up in the real estate business.
I got my license in 1978 when I was 18 years old.
And so I've been in and around the real estate business and real estate people my whole life.
If you don't know my story, I started buying real estate when I was 23 years old.
By the time I was 26, I had about $4 million worth.
And I did the buy everything in sight routine, right?
And I was buying stuff at good deals.
I was buying at 70% of value or less.
I was buying a lot of foreclosures and doing a lot of rehabs and that kind of stuff, and
I was pretty good at it, but I just had a lot of borrowed money, obviously.
And what I discovered, the reason I'm telling you all that is I went broke doing it because
the bank called our notes, and so that's how I discovered this whole idea of getting out of debt and staying out of debt.
Today I own several hundred million dollars in real estate, but it's all paid for.
I pay cash for it when I buy it always.
And I'm not bragging.
I'm just trying to share with you my perspective, okay?
That happened 30 years ago when I went broke um and i 40 years ago
almost i got the opportunity to start again but um so the uh um
the the thing is that real estate people and you're real estate people i'm real estate people
so i can talk about us our risk meter is damaged or broken.
We don't measure risk well.
In other words, we don't associate the $700,000 or $800,000 mortgage on this triplex with risk.
And it is risk.
It's a lot of risk.
Debt equals risk.
In business and publicly traded companies that have a big set of bonds, they're in debt.
We discount their stocks because they're so leveraged.
If they have a lot of puts and calls, they have a lot of problems with warrants with their banks.
Large companies that are in debt, we devalue their stock, meaning we don't think they're worth as much because of risk.
We don't do that in the real estate business.
We just go, buy it all.
You know, that's our world because we just don't associate mortgages with risk.
I do because I've been broke and because I've also been wealthy without any debt.
And so I really understand there's no risk, which is really kind of cool.
Like in 2008, when everybody was crying and jumping off buildings and stuff, I was buying property.
Yeah.
Because I didn't have any debt and I had a pile of cash.
I got some of the best buys of my life.
So all of that speech to tell you, I'm going to tell you something you're probably not likely to do
because I know who you are now that we've talked a little bit,
but it's still the advice that I would tell you to do, and it's what I have done,
and that's get your home paid off and then save up and pay cash for your investment properties.
You will build your portfolio slower, but you will never have to start over.
Yeah.
And if you have your house paid for,
it changes the way your productivity happens in your business.
Yeah.
You're a straight commission guy out there selling houses.
Well, I'm in property management.
I'm in property management too
and that's kind of the trick is i've uh yeah i i own the company and i manage a lot of properties
and and so okay well then you see that and you know let's take that eight hundred thousand dollar
triplex for an example this is good for everybody to listen in on us talking that's how this show
works but let's just take that property for for example. With a couple hundred down, you've got a $600,000 mortgage on the thing.
Let's say that's one of your customers, okay?
If they fill that triplex up, when they take vacancy out, when they take repairs out,
they take the occasional filing of a Chapter 13 by a tenant or a Chapter 11 or even a 7 by a tenant
where it takes forever to get them out of the property, and yet they get to stay in there for free.
When you take that out, real-world operations of a piece of real estate, in other words,
and then you pay the payment with a 20% down on an $800,000 property, you don't even cash flow.
No, you don't.
That's called risk yeah this becomes a problem rather than a blessing and you haven't you have unique insight of that because you're an actual
property manager because you know what most people say about real estate they go oh well my payment
is four thousand dollars a month and i'm collecting six thousand dollars in rent
translation they're probably losing money a lot yeah well and and i i definitely understand that and i i love what you
talk about you know and and the idea of investing in other areas and out of state where the margins
are better and you can get better cap rates and you can buy cash you know i can take this cash
and invest it elsewhere but my thought was i, and now based on what you're saying is save up.
If I want to buy local so I can manage it, buy something that's manageable
and keep my eye on it for the rest of time.
And just pile it.
And here's the thing.
Every time you get another one that's paid for, your cash flow is like awesome.
A paid-for property cash flow is like a bandit.
Yeah, yeah.
No, that's awesome.
Yeah.
And so you get the snowball rolling.
How old are you?
32.
What's your household income?
About $257.
Man, you're killing it.
You're doing great.
Yeah.
You're doing great income.
Thank you.
Yeah.
So you're not – how much is your house mortgage?
What's your balance on your house?
$640.
Oh, yeah.
And the payment's about $37, and we're going to put, we're putting $1,500 extra a month
on that to knock it out in 15 years.
But you're right, I have that cash there.
You could knock it out sooner.
I mean, yeah.
I mean, what if you were sitting there making $250 with no house payment?
How quick can we buy the first property cash flowed?
Pretty quick.
Yeah.
You got a big shovel, dude.
You got a big shovel.
You can do this.
But what it's going to do is it's going to require this itch that you've got,
because you're a real estate guy, doesn't get scratched for a little while.
Yeah.
And that's going to be hard for you.
It's going to be really hard for you.
Just put it off.
Yeah, just put it off.
Okay. That's my pitch, dude. That's going to be hard for you. It's going to be really hard for you. Just put it off. Yeah, just put it off. Okay.
That's my pitch, dude.
That's my pitch.
It's how I live my life, by the way.
I don't ask you to do something I didn't do.
And I got to tell you, man, it's been hard for me to,
when I see a piece of real estate that's a deal and I don't have the money,
it's hard for me because I love a deal.
And I love dirt and bricks and mortar and rent,
and I just love real estate.
I'm just a real estate guy.
Mom and Daddy were in the business when I was growing up.
I mean, I've been in it my whole life.
I love it.
But when you do it wrong, it's the biggest curse in your life,
and people rationalize and justify it because they don't count risk in the equation.
So it was a good discussion.
Thank you for letting me have it with you.
And it gives you something to chew on, a different way of looking at things.
I'm probably the only guy you'll run into this week that had that opinion.
Everybody else will tell you, oh, yeah, just buy rental property.
Yeah, as if there's no tomorrow.
Amen.
Thanks for the call.
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was written for our instruction,
that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures,
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Colin Powell said,
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It takes sweat, determination, and hard work.
Amen.
See, you do want to be a dreamer, but you don't want to stop there.
Isn't it funny?
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You need to have a dream.
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and you binge watch the same series on Netflix that they do.
But if you start running around with a bunch of people who are unbelievably generous,
they are careful with their money so that they can be unbelievably generous.
They get out of debt and stay out of debt, which makes them in our culture weird.
And you start running around with people that are doing that,
you're much more likely to do it.
That's why we put you in accountability groups in Financial Peace University.
It's called positive peer pressure.
It helps behavior modification.
It's basic stuff, y'all.
That's how it works.
You become who you hang around with. You know this because you don't
let your children run around with people who are misbehaving. If little Johnny down the street
smoking weed, you don't want your little kid running around with little Johnny because your
kid will be a weed head. You know? You know this. You know that they're going to become who they
hang around with. You ever send your kids off when they're eight years old to play at the neighbor's
and they come back using words we don't use at our house?
That was not accidental.
That means that kid or those parents are using those words at that house.
What do you mean you're dropping the F-bomb at eight years old in my house?
What, do you want to live?
I mean, I can make another one just like you.
I'll take you out.
You know, you're not going to do that here.
I mean, you know, have you ever had that experience with your kids?
That's because of who they were running around with.
It's simple.
You're going to become who you hang around with.
Do you know your income will be approximately within 10% to 15% of the average
of your closest 10 friends over a 10-year period of time if you run around with people that say the little man can't get
ahead you're running around with losers if you run around with people to say well you know people
like us can't win i had a friend of mine that's very wealthy and he grew up in the hood that's
what he calls it
And he said you know Dave
Getting out of the hood was a lot easier
Than getting the hood out of me
The tapes that are played from your childhood
The tapes that are played from the people
That supposedly do love you
But that are misguided
In your head
That say things like people like us can't
get ahead.
Don't you understand?
Don't you understand that people from the South are all treated like they're ignorant
and live in double wads and walk around with no shoes by a bunch of you Yankees?
Don't you understand that people in the South think all you people in New York are rude? And I'm actually friends with all of you, so I'm okay. I actually love New Yorkers
because they do speak their mind and they get straight to the point. And they never say,
bless your heart, which in the South can mean anything.
You know, so I mean, you become who you hang around with y'all getting this down
you become who you i mean if you believe if all you hang around with are people that talk
politics from your side of the aisle it's the only talking point you know and you've not had
an original thought in years and develop your critical thinking skills and get past the idea
that barack obama or or Donald Trump are the savior.
Because neither one are.
And by the way, none of them have ever sent me any money.
Everything good that's happened in my life, none of it came out of Washington, D.C.
None of it.
So, I mean, who are you running around with?
You got your around people waiting
on washington to fix their life are you running around with people that say education's a bad
idea are you running around with people that say oh yeah student loan debt no matter what you pay
for it is worth it are you running around with people that fill in the blank you're going to
become just like them a dream does not become a reality through magic colin Powell said. It takes sweat, determination, and hard work.
Michelle is in Ohio.
Hi, Michelle.
Welcome to the Dave Ramsey Show.
Hi, Dave.
Thanks for taking my call.
Sure.
What's up?
So I am just getting started.
Just kind of read through the Money Makeover book, and I'm getting started.
And I'm almost through Baby Step 1.
So I was trying to look at my um starting to like set up my debt snowball um and I most of my debt is student
loan debt I wish I would have known a little bit more before I went to school but long story short
I have about 72 grand in debt um it's all in federal federal loans what's your career this month um i'm working as a early childhood educator
um kind of currently in in daycare looking to move up from that okay um i mean i make decent
money for for that profession but um so long story short i have 18 or 19 student loans um
just all through the department of education um they all range from like $300 is the lowest to like $11,000 or $12,000 is the highest.
So I didn't know.
I know you say the only debt you consider consolidating would be student loan debt.
I didn't know if it would be beneficial to consolidate
or just attack it small or large in my debt.
So I didn't know.
It doesn't hurt either way.
The only benefit of consolidation is if you get a lower overall rate,
a lower aggregate rate, and or you get rid of some variable rates
if you got that many loans.
So it's possible that you could lower your overall rate.
That doesn't hurt anything.
And one of our sponsors is Splash Financial.
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and they don't have any closing costs or any refinance costs or anything,
and there's no prepayment penalty when you do it.
You can only consolidate federal student loans one time.
Right.
And that's why I was like, I don't want to do it if it's not, you know.
Yeah.
And I didn't know, like.
But what are your interest rates?
Four to six.
I haven't looked at it, honestly.
Okay, you need to add them all up, and basically if all the little ones are six and all the big ones are four,
but you got a five rate, you wouldn't want to do that, right?
Right, right.
But if all your big ones are six and you could get a five rate,
you might want to do it.
Okay.
But see, here's the thing.
$70,000, if you save 1%, which it sounds like is about what you're going to do,
you might save two, but 1% on $70,000 is $700.
Yeah.
$700 does not solve a $70,000 is $700. Yeah. $700 does not solve a $70,000
problem. Yeah.
So it's okay to consolidate it, but
99% of your
solution is you. You're
the secret sauce. The consolidation
is only 1% of the solution.
Check SplashFinancial.com
SplashFinancial.com
and they'll help you with this.
But again, you're your secret sauce
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