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Tyler starts off this hour in Pennsylvania. Hi, Tyler. How are you?
Hello, Dave. It's an honor. I'm doing great. How about you?
Better than I deserve. What's up? That's good. Yeah, so I just had a quick question for you.
My wife and I have both been through FPU, and we're on the same page about paying off debt.
She worked real hard to pay off her smaller debts,
and the only thing that remains is a big old student loan for $64,000.
And our question is, what of our existing assets should we use to put towards that?
I was on baby step three prior to marriage, and my wife also had her emergency fund.
So we now have a collective emergency fund of $9,500.
Do you think we should put that towards the debt and just drop it down to $1,000?
Yep.
That's what we teach.
We're going to use everything that is non-retirement money
to throw at big old fat Sally Mae and kick her out of the house, give her her eviction notice.
What's your household income? I'm pulling in $40,000 and my wife $13,000, so a total of $53,000.
Okay. And you said, how much was the student loan debt? 64? Yes. Okay. And so if we
throw 8,000 at that, that gets us down into the 50s. And we should do that in a little over two
years. Plus or minus any other money you got. You got some other money? Yeah, that was a couple of
the other ones I was wondering. The big one is I had a mutual fund my grandparents started for me
when I was a kid.
And from what they started with plus the little bit I've added to, it's sitting at just over $23,000.
Great.
Throw it at it.
That's going to be a painful one, but that's what you suggest.
You married her.
I suspect she's worth it, brother.
Yeah. She came with a with a debt and that's okay it's no big deal we're just getting out of debt because here's the thing i think about your
grandpa and i think is he is he alive yes okay i think he'd be proud that you were getting out
of debt so that you could build wealth.
I think he would.
Yeah, I agree.
And so you're not dishonoring the gift by doing that.
So in that sense, it's not painful.
But it is something to give you pause and you're wise to think, you know, gosh, if I do this.
Here's the thing.
If you do this, you have to play through, meaning you've got to finish knocking it out,
and then you've got to turn around and build the wealth up, okay,
because you don't have this thing hanging over your head.
Otherwise, you're trying to drive along dragging a trailer with no wheels, you know,
and that's what you're doing when you've got $60,000 student loan debt making $55,000,
and you're trying to become wealthy. You're just dragging're just dragging stuff you're dragging a boat anchor behind you right and so we got to get got cut that thing loose so that we're free to drive with no
friction and to build wealth with no friction and that's what this is the borrower is slave
to the lender that means so many things there's so much depth to that one scripture that it's unbelievable.
The whole implications of slavery.
So have at it, dude.
That's what I would do.
And any other non-retirement assets you have, let's chunk them on that
and let's get rid of it as fast as we can.
I think you're out of debt in a year.
That's what it sounds like to me.
But you're on beans and rice, rice and beans that year. Chris is with us in Colorado Springs. Hi,
Chris. How are you? Hi, I'm good. Thank you. I am calling because I'm a recent widow.
My husband's been gone for one year. I'm sorry. And I have a 23-year-old.
Excuse me.
It still gets me when I talk about it.
But my husband left life insurance of $432,000,
and I'm trying to figure out.
I own my car, but I don't own the home.
And a friend of mine who follows you said he thought
it would be a good idea for me to try to pay the house off.
How much do you owe on your home?
So I, because I owe $213,000 on it, that would be the only $219,000 to invest.
And I'm thinking, is that enough for me to live on the rest of my life?
How old are you?
So I'm 67.
Okay.
And do you have any other income sources?
Just my Social Security.
Okay.
And what does that amount to?
It's $22.64 a month.
Let's see.
I wrote that down when it comes to.
Okay.
That's fine.
$27,000.
Yeah, $25,000, $26,000.
Yeah.
All right.
Yeah.
Okay.
And what are you living on now?
What's it cost you to live a month now?
Not counting the house payment.
About anywhere from $36,000 to $39,000.
Including the house payment or not?
$100,000, including.
Okay.
So if you didn't have the house payment, then you could get close to living on your Social Security if you had to.
Right.
Yeah, okay.
Well, I'm sorry.
How long were you guys married? 25 years. Wow, okay. Well, I'm sorry. How long were you guys married?
25 years.
Wow, good.
That rips your heart out.
I can't imagine.
It does.
I'm so sorry.
Yeah, it was.
Here's the thing.
It was unexpected.
Oh, no.
Yeah.
If you had a paid-for home, what's the home worth?
I had it appraised.
I was told it was going to be $310,000, but appraisal was $397,000.
Okay.
So you have a $400,000 house paid for, and you'd have $200,000 invested.
Okay.
If I woke up in your shoes is the way I answer these questions.
He's been gone a year, right?
Right.
So while it still hurts and it's very recent, it's still a year ago.
Because I tell people not to do, I tell people not to make big decisions in the first year
because it takes about a year to even breathe in a situation like you're in.
Okay.
So if I woke up in your shoes or you were my little sister i would
tell you to pay off your house okay today so let's let's talk about where that leaves you
then you're sitting in a paid for four hundred thousand dollar house you have two hundred
thousand dollars to invest the two hundred thousand dollars could create about uh fifteen
twenty thousand dollars a year in income easily
without touching the $200,000, just income it creates, okay?
That on top of your social, you should be okay.
Worst case scenario, if you're not okay, you sell the house and move down
into a nice little $200,000 condo.
Then you've got $400,000 to invest and a $40,000 income to go with your social security and
you would be okay.
But I don't think you're going to have to do that.
That's if you had to or you wanted to because the house became more to manage than you wanted
to manage.
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thank you for taking my call sure not going to help
i am we're on baby steps too we We've been on a program a month.
We have a third car because my husband just started a new job at the beginning of the year that he got a company car for.
And that car that he used to drive is upside down, extremely bad.
It is our largest debt at $34,000. We have an opportunity over the next three months to be able to pay $7,000 on it,
and my in-laws have offered to pay $10,000 so that we could trade or turn that car into CarMax.
And I just didn't know if that's the best opportunity to get that large debt off,
or do I stick with the snowball?
So the $10,000 that's coming from your in-laws is a gift?
No, it's a loan.
Not a chance.
We do not borrow money from relatives.
Okay.
No, absolutely not.
So you're $17,000 upside down in a $34,000 car?
$18,000 upside down.
So the car has 34 owed?
Yes.
How in the world did you get that far upside down?
You must have rolled negative from the other one into it.
It was, yeah.
It was at a stake on a car purchase,
but we were not told that it was a salvaged car,
and so we had to get rid of it, and it just snowballed from there.
It was a bad mistake.
So you took a bad mistake and made it worse?
Yep.
Okay.
All right.
Wow.
What's your household income?
My monthly income is $ right. Wow. What's your household income? My monthly income is $73,025.
Okay. So it's $100,000 a year income, roughly.
Or $120,000 a year income, roughly.
Yes, sir.
It would take a $650 payment off plus probably half of our insurance
and that we could be able to roll start rolling really into our debt is your credit back we've
owed our in-laws before and we've just i don't care there's no way i'm ever going to tell you
to borrow from in-laws ever okay the borrower is slave to the lender and you you just run all
there there is no upside to that, only downside.
Okay.
They can be the nicest people in the world.
A Thanksgiving dinner doesn't taste the same when you eat with your master.
Yeah.
So how much other debt have you guys got?
We've got about $105 total, including that car.
Including $34.
And what's the rest of it?
It's our largest.
It's bad decisions.
We were living too high for our income.
So what's the rest of it owed on?
One more car.
It's not an expensive car.
We just owe on it.
How much?
We bought it. How much? We bought it.
How much?
And then I would say just not credit cards but loan debt.
So you just have $60,000 and $50,000 in personal loans?
Yes.
Okay.
Okay.
So the other car is like $10,000 or something?
The other car is at, sorry, $14,000.
Okay.
Do you have the ability to get a personal loan for the hole that you're in?
No, we tried because, yeah, we tried.
Who is the loan with on the car?
On that car, it is, you know, I don't know that one
because my husband pays that bill.
I don't know who it's with.
I'm sorry.
That's okay.
All right.
Yeah, you need to combine your finances from this point forward going on too
so that you both know what's going on with all that.
I just don't know who he pays, that's all. I know uh with all that i just don't know who he pays
that's all i know what it is i just don't know what he pays yeah he does the paying part and i
do the budget part so we both have a hint i mean we is it is it a is it a bank or do you don't
have any idea it is a bank okay is it a bank is it a local bank that they would work with you on the deficit?
No.
Unless you sign a note for the difference?
We have tried. I've tried.
With your existing lender?
Yes. We've tried everything.
This was our only option was to get the $10,000 from his parents.
That's not the only option. They just won't give us the full amount because they don't think we should sell it for that cheap.
They think we should try and sell it for what other people could sell it for, which is about $24,000.
I agree with that.
I agree with that.
There's no panic here.
There's just a lot of disgust.
Every time you look at it sitting in the driveway, you feel stupid.
But that's not a panic.
There's nothing to it.
I agree that you should sell the car for more,
and I do not agree you would ever have you borrow from them.
So what would I do?
Where was the $7,000 coming from?
That's our income.
Oh, no, no, no, no.
I thought you said there was $17,000 and they were going to loan you $10,000,
and where was the other $7,000 coming from?
Oh, we have, well, I get an extra paycheck this month,
so between this month and the next two months we can pay that towards it.
Oh, I see.
To get it to where we could just clean it up.
Yeah.
You know, CarMax would pay the $18 for it.
Do not sell it for CarMax.
Let's sell it for 22 instead of for 18
or 24 instead of for 18 slow sale but don't do that until you've got the money lined up
and it sounds like that the money is going to come from you saving up the money to do this
and if you want to do that before you start really attacking the debt snowball you can
but um you know it's not the end of the world either way. But, you know, I don't think I've talked you out of it,
but there's not a chance I'm borrowing the money from the –
you've got to quit borrowing your way out of these things.
And, you know, your in-laws at your age are loaning you money.
Oh, my gosh, you've got to stop this.
It's just a bad practice.
It's going to bite you one of these days.
There's so many control things and so many things that happen with that kind of stuff.
It's just a bad idea.
So, yeah, if you want to stop your debt snowball and just say,
we're going to get rid of this car and cover the difference in the next few months
and then officially start the debt snowball, you could do that.
If I were in your shoes, would I do that?
I might because you've got insurance issues
and you've got a $600 a month payment that's clearing up.
It might be worth it to get that out of the way.
And there's such a level of disgust around this particular purchase that was a bad purchase rolled into a bad purchase rolled into a bad purchase.
But don't give the car away for wholesale.
Don't panic.
I mean, you know, $5,000 is a lot of money in your world right now. And $5,000 more getting
for the market for that car rather than selling it to CarMax is helpful for the situation. And
it lowers the amount that you need to do this. So yeah, that's how I would look at it. Thanks for
joining us. Mike is in Houston, Texas.
Hey, Mike, how are you?
Hey, Dave.
Howdy from Houston.
How can I help?
Quick question for you.
Maybe not quick.
We'll see how it goes.
So I've got a son that's going to be turning 16 at the end of the year.
And this got me thinking about buying a car, a third car for the family.
And in the process of this, I came across a side business idea, and that's joining the peer-to-peer car rental business.
You know, buy a car, put it out there for rent, and I've already considered all of the liability issues with that.
But here's the thing.
I've got three options for this, and we're doing a debt snowball right now.
So let me throw these three options out there and get your opinion on them.
So, number one, I can just abandon this idea altogether and continue paying down the debt snowball.
Check.
Okay, number two and number three, you don't even need to hear them. You know what they are.
I'm not doing peer-to-peer.
I'm not putting a car out there,
someone else driving a car that is in my name.
There's so
many downsides to this that
don't offset the little bit of money that you get coming
in.
I mean, peer number
two that rents the car, gets drunk, and hits
somebody head-on in a car you own.
You've got a mess on your hands, dude.
I don't care how much liability insurance you've got.
You're not Hertz.
And I think this is a really, really dangerous practice.
The chances of me doing that are zero.
So, hey, thanks for the call.
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In the lobby of Ramsey Solutions, Spencer and Emily are with us.
Hey, guys, how are you?
We're doing great, David.
Welcome.
Where do you guys live?
We live in Elizabeth, Indiana, which is just across the river from Louisville, Kentucky.
Ah, gotcha.
Okay.
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Live like no one else with gazelles on them.
Thank you, sir.
I love it.
How much debt have you paid off?
We paid off $70,000.
$70K.
How long did that take?
23 months.
Good for you.
And your range of income during that time?
We started about $51,000, and we went up to $101,000.
Whoa!
How did you double your income in 23 months?
Well, Emily started going to work full-time and a couple job changes.
My parents opened up a small business,
and we kind of started working there on the weekends and stuff to kind of make a little extra income.
Okay, so lots of extra work that wasn't there the year before.
Gotcha, okay.
Money everywhere, though.
Good for you.
What do you guys do for a living?
What are your careers?
So we work at the same company.
We work at Rinaldo Designer Jewelry.
Okay, doing what?
I work in sales, and he's Jewelry. Okay. Doing what?
I work in sales, and he's a shipping manager.
Okay.
Great.
Very good.
Good for you guys.
And what kind of debt was the $70,000?
It was all our mortgage.
You paid off your house?
Yes, sir. I am looking at weird people.
I love it.
How old are you two?
We're 24.
Oh, my gosh.
You're really weird. I mean, you're not just weird 24. Oh, my gosh. You're really weird.
I mean, you're not just weird.
You're like really big time weird.
Yeah.
24 with a paid for house.
Yes, sir.
What's this house worth?
Right around 100.
You have $100,000 paid for house.
You're 20.
Yeah, this is unbelievable.
Nobody does this.
Way to go.
Thank you.
Way to go, you guys.
Absolutely incredible. There's got to be a story here. So tell me, how does this way to go thank you way to go you guys absolutely incredible there's got to be a story
here so tell me how does this happen 23 months so you start this you're 22 yes sir this is yeah
tell me what what in the tell me how this happened um so i um grew up kind of knowing about you my
dad kind of talks about you through our house we didn't really live by it but we kind of knew about you and your principles. Um, and so I was like, I'm going to
go to college and I'm going to graduate debt-free payoff semester, you know, at a time. And so I did
that for the first two years. And then I met Spencer and I kind of told him my plan and he was
like, okay, we're doing this. So then we did the rest of the rest of my school, um, cashflowed it.
Wow. Then we got married, cashflowed that, and then we bought a house
and we were like,
okay, we're paying this off
as quickly as possible.
So we kind of made the goal
for ourselves two years
and we did it in 23 months.
So did somebody tell you
you should do this?
I mean, not really.
My aunt and uncle
gave us the book
Complete Guide to Money
for our wedding
and we kind of read through it.
We're not very good at reading, just sitting down and reading,
so we kind of would just read it in the car.
She'd read it while I was driving, or I'd read it while she was driving.
So we kind of went through.
So once we decided to buy the house, we followed your principles,
put it on a 15-year fixed rate,
and made sure the payment wasn't more than a quarter of our take-home pay,
and we just said, we're going to kill it.
Just get on it.
You look up, and when you bought it, did you think you would pay it off in two years?
Maybe not quite that fast, but once we started throwing down some chunks of money,
we looked at it, and we were like, you know what?
Let's set our goal at 24 months, and we should do it.
And then December of last year, we were like, like hey we can finish it this month let's do it
as a christmas present let's kill it month early yep yeah there you go so emily you were just
coming out of school that's what you getting the job is is that what that was yeah i didn't work i
was um going to school for education so the last semester i couldn't work at all and so that's why
we were only at that 51 000 right i got you okay so then you come out and out of school, take the full-time job,
and then both of you work an extra and everything else, all kinds of different jobs, everything
just going crazy for a period of time. So Spencer, was your family doing this? I mean,
did you grow up? No. I mean, I never really had even heard of you until I started hanging out
with Emily and her dad, you know, had some of your videos and a couple books and stuff and so I was like this guy seems like he knows
what he's talking about so both of you just kind of it's your nature to have avoided dad I mean
you just it was a natural thing for you yeah and that that probably somewhat attracted you to each
other then too wow amazing way to. Way to go, you two.
I mean, did you have people?
I mean, were there cheerleaders in the offing somewhere?
I mean, people telling you to go on, you can do this?
Or are most people telling you you're crazy?
Yeah, most people were cheering us on, especially her parents and stuff.
Every time we'd go throw down a couple grand or a few grand down on the house,
we'd tell them about it, and they'd be like, that's's awesome just keep plugging away at it and keep going and keep going and uh we're actually
uh fpu coordinators that were just started our second class this past wednesday and uh having
that community it is really important in uh just your accountability and stuff like that yeah the
community is encouraging because everybody's on fire everybody's gazelle intense living like
nobody else and then when you're leading it you have to do it i mean it's on fire. Everybody's gazelle intense living like nobody else. And then when you're leading it, you have to do it. I mean, it's like, you know, it's,
it's not like a rule, but I mean, it's like, you'd feel weird. You'd feel like a hypocrite
if you weren't into it, you know? So, and you, this is your second class. So most of the time
you've been doing this, you've, you know, been through a couple of classes during the 24 months
in. Wow. Well, thanks for leading a class. Got gotta be pretty inspiring to have your coordinator walk
in and go i'm 24 my house is paid for shut up yeah really i think they can go you know
can't really argue with that this is this stuff works wow way to go you guys what do you tell
people the key to getting out of debt is i think the key is to just do it i'm not trying to make
this a nike commercial or nothing but it's uh it is it's just do it. I'm not trying to make this a Nike commercial or nothing, but it is.
It's just do it.
Like we were sitting there and we were like, could have decided to be like everybody else
and just, you know, spend, you know, 20, 30 years with a mortgage.
But we decided we were going to do this.
And so literally just not being that victim mentality, having life just happen to you.
We were going to happen to life and we were going to do it now, to start right now.
Well, you've got an early start.
You're going to be so wealthy, it's going to be unbelievable if you keep your eye on the ball
and keep the thing between the ditches, man.
I mean, the math on where you are is incredible, absolutely incredible.
Emily, what do you tell people the key is?
Pretty much the same thing.
Just go ahead and start doing it, and then it's just going to get easier from there.
Not easier.
I mean, it is definitely hard, but just start it, and then you're going to learn it and get an accountability partner.
We were both kind of on board from the start, so it was really easy for us to keep each other accountable.
But if you don't have an accountability partner or your spouse isn't on board, if you can't get them on board, just find someone who's going to
stay with you and help you through it. Just walk you through it. Wow. You make it sound so simple.
What was the hardest part for y'all? Tell me, tell me something was hard, please.
Honestly, for me, it was vacations and not even like extravagant long vacations.
My grandpa owns a house on a lake in Michigan, and that place has always kind of been home to me.
It's kind of where I grew up, going up there with my dad and stuff.
And we didn't get to go up there as much as we wanted to because we were making a decision that we weren't going to spend that extra money on that.
And then last year we skipped out on a family cruise in order to be able to throw some money on the house.
Ouch.
Yeah.
So what are you going to do to celebrate now that everything's paid for?
I want to buy a nice guitar.
Oh, good for you.
But what?
You make $100,000 a year, you don't even have a house payment.
Why can't you buy a guitar?
Of course you can buy a guitar.
I'm sure I will.
Yeah.
Emily, what do you want to do to
celebrate um i'm going to get lasik and that's about five thousand dollars so we're just going
to save up for another you know a few months and get lasik and then we're looking at buying our
you know bigger forever home um with cash down the line so kind of just start saving for that
start moving towards something a couple hundred grand yeah wow you guys are impressive you're amazing
i'm 24 years old wow wow wow wow we got a copy of chris hogan's retire inspired book for you that
is the next chapter in your story you will be millionaires quickly before you're 30 easy oh my
gosh amazing amazing so congratulations you two sp Spencer and Emily from Louisville, Kentucky.
$70,000 paid off in 23 months, making $51,000 to $101,000.
That includes they paid off their house.
Wow.
Count it down.
Let's hear a debt-free scream.
Three, two, one.
We're debt-free!
We're dead free!
Man, oh man, oh man.
You see why I'm a fan of millennials?
You find a couple of them like that, you'll become a fan of millennials.
Because there's a whole bunch of them that fall in that category too wow that's so impressive they get on something they get on it man now if they're not on anything they're enthusiastically ignorant too but the ones
that are on it man these that like that couple they got it dialed in man that's just dadgum
impressive very very very well done.
This is the Dave Ramsey Show. Thank you for joining us.
What if you never had another debt payment?
What if you never had another credit card bill? You got rid of that student
loan that's been around so long you think it's a pet? What if you never had another car payment?
What if you never had to worry about money again? What would you be willing to do to get there?
Well, you'd have to change a lot of stuff for sure. I mean, you'd have to take some of the
stupid stuff you've been doing off your list of things to do, right? I did.
I used to do stupid with zeros on the end.
I know exactly what it looks like.
I looked in the mirror, and there he was, stupid.
You know, you've got to change, right?
You can't keep doing the same thing over and over again and expect a different result.
That's the definition of insanity.
How do you change?
Well, the only way I've ever figured out that people change is you give them new information that they didn't have.
You put them in a community that walks with them and holds them accountable and encourages them.
And you show a very clear path for transformation.
You don't want to be normal.
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You know, I started talking about this several years ago.
When I very first started teaching this stuff 30 years ago, I started pulling up statistics.
The Wall Street Journal says 70% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck.
That means 7 out of 10 houses on your street have too much month left at the end of the money.
Normal is a car payment, a student loan, a MasterCard, a Discover card, an American Express card.
Normal is if I go on vacation, I pay for it for the next year after I go on vacation.
Normal is Christmas is a crisis.
Normal is the brakes go out on my car, the tires go out on my car, it's a crisis. Normal is I have no freaking idea how my kid is going to go to college and I feel like a dog because I've not done a good job prepping for my own kid.
Normal is I don't know how I'm going to retire and I'm really sure that social insecurity is a stupid plan, but I've not done anything about it.
These are all normal things.
Normal is the number one thing couples fight about in their marriage is money.
I think it's pretty
safe to say normal sucks.
I don't want to be normal.
I don't want to be normal
at anything for that matter.
Normal is not okay.
And I love
that scripture in Romans that says
be not conformed
to this world.
Don't be normal.
Find out what people are doing that are not winning, and don't do that.
Hello.
Is that what we're saying?
Don't be conformed to this world.
Don't do what people that are losing are doing and expect to win.
I don't know why that's rocket science, but it seems to be.
And in that scripture continues, it says, but be transformed.
How are you transformed?
When were you ever transformed?
I've been transformed in different areas of my life.
Sharon, I've been married 37 different areas of my life.
Sharon, I've been married 37 years.
It's a really good thing for Sharon.
She's not married the same guy that married her 37 years ago because he was a twerp.
I'm a lot better person than I was 37 years ago.
Oh, I've not arrived yet.
Believe me, she'll tell you that straight up too, okay? Just don't get her started.
But she also, in a moment of weakness, will tell you that straight up too okay just don't get her started but she also
in a moment of weakness will tell you the truth and that is that thank god her husband's not who
she married 37 years ago have you ever been transformed i've been transformed
i'm a better daddy i'm a better grandpa than i was daddy
yeah papa dave man i don't know how great grandkids were going to be,
I'd have been nicer to their parents.
Are you badder than you used to be at something?
I hope so.
I hope you're getting badder.
Were you ever transformed?
Be not conformed to this world, but be transformed.
Transformation.
Be transformed.
How?
It says, by the renewing of your mind,
you have new information in your brain
that you didn't have.
That's why a lot of you listen to this show.
You listen for new information
and for the inspiration that comes from
people that call in and you go,
wow, that lady just inspired me.
That guy just inspired me.
That debt-free scream just inspired me.
You do not listen for the fact that this show has absolutely new content every day
because it's basically the same content every day.
For 25 years, I say the same thing over and over.
My preacher told me the day he goes, you say the same thing over and over.
And I said, so do you.
You got one story, dude. You tell it every Sunday.
The gospel, right? I mean, come on. I got one. I'm a one trick pony. I help people transform
their lives and believe that they can take the steps to not only get away from the edge of the
cliff financially, but then also become wealthy. And I'll show you exactly how to
become a millionaire, exactly how to become a multimillionaire. And it's not theory. It's
proven now. Tens of millions of people last year in the last several years have done this.
Last year alone, the debt-free screams were over $50 million on this show. That's the ones that
were on the air doing their screaming,
and it's a six-week wait list to get on the air here. And we don't let everybody on. If you're
still using your stupid credit cards, we're not going to let you do a debt-free scream. You don't
qualify. You ain't figured it out yet. And not everybody gets on that wants to get on that
qualifies. So there. It's not a privilege. It's not a right. It's something we do to inspire the listener.
It's not for you.
It's for the listener.
Be not conformed to this world, but be transformed.
New information in your brain.
New inspiration in your brain.
The renewing of your mind.
The renewing of my mind.
Yeah, my pastor does tell the same stories, essentially,
that in 37 years I've been going to church, you know,
35 years I've been going to church,
and still hearing the same stories, but you know what?
Every Sunday they're different, aren't they?
Every Sunday's another experience with God, isn't it?
That's why you go to church, I hope. I hope you don't go because of some obligation or something.
You go for the renewing of your mind. It transforms you. It transforms you. And that's
what we're doing here. And that's what you need to embrace, because I got to tell you,
you don't get transformed by osmosis. You get transformed by you get your mind renewed and then you change your habits.
You change your decisions.
You change your beliefs first.
You change your attitude second.
And then that causes you to change your following your activities.
And so you change your beliefs about that and you change your attitude towards that.
And then the action is you get out of that.
And that's when you get out the credit cards and actually cut them up.
That's when you look over and go, I have $22,000 in my savings account,
and I have a $12,000 debt.
Why am I still in debt?
Just because you haven't written a check is the only reason.
You need to be out of debt, like right now, at this moment.
But see, if you haven't done that yet, that means your belief system has not changed you've not yet been transformed so i still have work to do because
that's what we do here we're all about making you believe that if you plant corn corn will grow
so plant some corn that you're going to reap what you sow
if you'll take these steps if you submit yourself to a different
process than you've ever used before, you're going to get a different result than you've
ever gotten before. If you want to get something you've never gotten before, you've got to
do something you've never done before. In your marriage, your parenting, your career,
and your money.
Some of you need to just repurpose yourselves at work and say,
I'm actually going to work while I'm at work.
Whoa! There'll be a breakthrough.
That's transformational, isn't it?
It's transformational.
Your belief system has to change that something good's going to happen if you do that,
because otherwise you're just a slave to the man,
and you whine and carry on the little man can't get ahead.
Blame everybody else for your crap because you're making stupid decisions.
It's time to not be normal.
Normal sucks.
Transform.
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