The Ramsey Show - App - Get Out of Survival Mode So You Can Finally Move Forward

Starting point is 00:00:00 Normal is broken common sense is weird so we're here to help you transform your life from the Ramsey Network and the Fair Winds Credit Union Studio this is the Ramsey show. I'm Dave Ramsey, George Camel. Ramsey personality number one bestselling author is my co-host today. Thank you for joining us, America. We're so glad you're here. The phone number is AAA 825-5-225. The call is free, and some say the advice is worth exactly what you pay for it. So you jump in.

Starting point is 00:00:46 We'll help you out. It's what we're here for. Michael is in Jackson, Mississippi. Hey, Michael, how are you? I'm doing well. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up?

Starting point is 00:00:56 Yes, sir. So I'm in a sticky situation in my life, and I'm looking at a way to get out of it, to do better for myself and my family. Okay, good. How can we help? Yes, sir. So I'm 27, about the turn 28. I have guardianship of my 17-year-old brother after the past four years. I'm roughly $35,000 in debt with a lease, some credit card debt, and,

Starting point is 00:01:27 a few other charge off on my credit. I'm pretty behind on most of all my bills at this moment. I'm a door-to-door salesman, and I'm trying to find a way out, man. Okay. Are you married? No, sir, I'm not. Okay. All right.

Starting point is 00:01:48 And what are you making as a door-to-door salesman? I've been here for about three months now. My last month, I've made $3,500. dollars. It's the slow season at this moment. What do you sell? I sell roof, so I'm a door-door salesman in the roof industry. Yeah, not exactly a Christmas present, many people buy in December, huh?

Starting point is 00:02:12 No, sir. Not at all. Yeah, if they buy a roof right now, it's because they really need one. Yes, sir. All right. So you made $3,500 last month. What did you make the month before? roughly $3,000 just a good okay good did they have any base for you at all or is it straight

Starting point is 00:02:30 it's straight commission they do have a uh what's what's it called a um draw a draw yes sir they do have a draw um it's based off of work orders that you get signed for every work order is $500 but getting a work order sign is similar to getting a roof vault yes sir and to look at that as a contract. It's hard to get by it, but not impossible. What were you doing before that? What were you doing four months ago? Before that, I was a car salesman, a Toyota.

Starting point is 00:03:06 And you think you're going to make more at this than that? Obviously, or you wouldn't have done it? Yes, sir. Absolutely. All right, cool. All right. You said you're 27? Yes, sir.

Starting point is 00:03:19 Okay, good. Good. All right. So your first rule of thumb is take care of your household first, okay? And that means buy food, not eating out, food for the refrigerator, and food for cooking. And that means take care of utilities, lights and water, heat, gasoline for your car, okay? That means pay your rent or your mortgage. How much is your rent?

Starting point is 00:03:48 850 a month. Okay, you pay your rent. you don't get behind on your rent and you don't get behind on your food you start with those things you follow me yes sir okay and um that we call that building the four walls of your house once you've got survival which is food shelter clothing transportation and utilities once you've got survival done then we start working on clearing out the debt but not until you've eaten and kept the lights on okay And when you sit down and do a written budget before the month begins, do you know what you're going to get in December yet?

Starting point is 00:04:31 No, sir. I do not. Okay. All right. At minimum, I would pay $3,000. Okay. All right. So why don't we sit down when you get off the phone?

Starting point is 00:04:41 I'm going to hook you up with the every dollar app, the expanded version that we're going to pay for it. We're going to give it to you free, okay? And get you started. I want you to sit down tonight. and I want you to put $3,000 into that app. So you've got $3,000 coming in. What are you going to do with it? We're going to be very intentional.

Starting point is 00:04:59 And I just told you, food, lights and water, rent. We know we can do those. You've got enough to do all that, right? So now we don't have to worry about being homeless or hungry. And that sets your brain free to start working on. Okay, now the rest of it's a stinking monopoly game. Okay? Once you know you're survived.

Starting point is 00:05:18 So we get survival behind us. And now we can go play the monopoly game. And then I want you to list your debts, smallest to largest, and any extra money, you pay minimum payments on all of those. And if you have money after you paid minimum payments and covered your necessities, then you attack that smallest debt and pay it off as fast as you can. So like, let's say February, you have a huge $5,000 month. I want you knocking out some of these little debts and getting them out of your life.

Starting point is 00:05:45 And cut up the credit cards and you're living on a written plan before the month. begins and we're going to walk with you and show you how to do it okay i've been right where you are i've been scared and confused the bad news is you got some debt the good news is you're not afraid of hard work and you know how to make money and the good news is you're ready to learn and the good news is your debt's not that bad you can actually tear it apart but i want you to get pissed off and attack it like your life depends on it yes sir and when you do that you get wired up and fired up, man. You stick the stinking ball into the end zone. And if somebody's in your way, you run over them. You understand what I'm saying? Yes, so 100%. That's it. And so you can do

Starting point is 00:06:31 all this and we'll help you in the whole process. And are you doing door-to-door sales, you know, eight to five? Like when the sun goes down, are you done? As of right now, yes, sir. I did just today put in an application. I'm looking to pick up a second job. It's a warehouse job from seven at night until until finished, but I'm assuming about 12 p.m. or 12 a.m. Yeah, that's good. Yeah, like a UPS or a FedEx job during Christmas here,

Starting point is 00:06:59 you can make some stinking money doing that. And if you've got a place to stack that and you know where it's going, it makes that hard work easier. Hard work that you don't know where it's going is a pain in the butt. Absolutely. But when you know, hey, I work that hour, I knock that bill out. I work that hour, I knock that next bill out.

Starting point is 00:07:18 I'm going to get my freaking life back, man. I'm tired of living like this. When you get that thing going, that's when everything changes for you. And one year of that, man, you'll be celebrating your 29th birthday. Debt free. If you do it this way. I think you can because I think your sales are going to go up because here's the thing. A salesperson who knows where the money's going to go from the sale is an excited salesperson.

Starting point is 00:07:42 A salesperson who's scared and desperate and is afraid they're not going to eat. they smell bad and a consumer can smell it a mile away it's hard to make a sale but when you're on fire they want some of what you're burning with man and that changes everything so just your attitude of attack on this will affect what happens on your sales so i really do predict february maybe the best month of your entire life i think that's a very strong possibility if you're doing all these other things as a part of this program because now you've got a reason for doing it you pick up and put it down. You're picking it up and putting it down, man. And that personalized plan at every dollar, Michael, it's going to change everything. It's going to coach you just

Starting point is 00:08:23 like we're doing right here, but 24-7 in your pocket. We're going to walk with you so you don't get stuck ever again. Absolutely. Absolutely, dude. And you're a great guy, man. You take care of your little brother. Look at you, man. What a stud. Go get them, brother. We'll help you. If you need some more help, you call us back any time. Hold on. Christian's going to pick up. We'll get you signed up. it's that time of year in a few weeks we're going to be doing a special giving edition of the ramsie show and we want to hear some giving stories from you about how you've given generously this season or maybe a story where you've received to something but this is a show about generosity

Starting point is 00:09:06 to inspire generosity this particular show is one of the most popular ones we do of the year so we need some great generosity stories whether you were on the receiving end or the giving in go to ramsysolutions.com slash ask put giving in the subject line this show on uh giving is a christmas time tradition it comes up december the 18th so go ahead and send in your stuff now and we'll make you a part of the show jeff is with us in chicago hi jeff hi there thanks for taking my call sure what's up well i've got a good news bad news scenario i have a 21-year-old son who's a college junior and the good news is he's started to invest for the long long term, about six, nine months ago, start putting a little bit aside, has a portfolio,

Starting point is 00:09:52 diversified long-term portfolio. That's the good news. The bad news is he is also actively engaged in sports gambling, like so many of his friends, maybe all of his 21-year-old college friends, have sports gambling apps, and they take that frequently, definitely every week, sometimes every day. And my point with him is that if you're going to be involved in that kind of a risky speculative gambling, you know, app thing every day, that instead take that energy and apply it to learn more about short-term trading, like futures and options, I trade futures, I trade options, it's a skill, it's an art, it's something that's always challenging. But I've learned more about finance and probabilities as a result of it, not always a winner. But my point to him is

Starting point is 00:10:44 gambling on sports is gambling by every definition. It's good that you have a long-term portfolio, but as long as you're going to be, you're open to the risk of loss that you should be applying it to financial instruments and learning more about them instead of sports gambling. And the reason I can't communicate that is that the current conventional wisdom everywhere, like he's been reading Scott Galloway's book about long-term investing is that you just buy things and hold them forever and that that's the right thing to do and the only thing to do. And that's the point where we're in disagreement. So my question is, how do I convince him that he shouldn't be gambling on sports and if he's willing to risk money in that manner? I follow your logic. I follow

Starting point is 00:11:31 your logic, but it's like we're choosing between two things he shouldn't be doing. A call A college student shouldn't be playing short-term trading, and a college student shouldn't be sports gambling, period. So I don't really want to – I don't want him to take that energy and do anything with it except something completely that's good for him. Neither one of those things are something I want to train him to do long term. So I follow your logic. I get how you got there because you're playing in it, and that's okay. if that's what you choose to do. But I wouldn't, any college student or any, you know, someone in their 20s that call me and said,

Starting point is 00:12:13 you know, I'm sports betting, I would never tell them instead do short-term trading. I would just say, do neither. And so I'm going to fall more on the Galloway side of things, I guess, in your mind, than you are. But I think I would just, for a second, let's set the short-term trading decision. or discussion aside and say, hey, the fastest growing addiction that is destroying young men in their 20s in America faster than anything I've ever seen in 30 years of doing this is online sports gambling. Yes.

Starting point is 00:12:51 Fan duel is a portal to hell. Draft Kings ain't king and nothing except their own pocketbook. And they're screwing an entire generation of young men. because you don't win. That's why they can afford to buy ads on every stinking, every, I mean, they're back to back to back to back to back ads every time you turn on a sporting event. It's all I see is they're crap.

Starting point is 00:13:21 And no wonder, they're spending billions of dollars. You know where they're getting that's out of your kids freaking pocket because they're screwing an entire generation. This is evil stuff right here. And so I'd be talking to him like, this is cocaine, not like it's an alternative high risk investment. No, this is cocaine. You are screwing around with cocaine. You're screwing around with fentanyl. You're screwing around with crack.

Starting point is 00:13:45 And it's going to kill your little butt. You need to get away from this stuff. And if your friends are also stupid, they're doing it. Well, if all your friends jump off a cliff or you're going to jump off a cliff, that's the famous dad line, right? So I'm just going to drop that one. So anything I can do to get a young person or an old person to stay away from online sports gambling. It is the most addictive, freaking thing I've ever seen. The number of people coming into our financial counselors around America, sitting down with Ramsey counselors that their entire lives have been destroyed by this bull crap is unbelievable. It's the fastest growing addiction in America, faster than cocaine, faster than drugs of any kind,

Starting point is 00:14:25 faster even than porn, and porn is a really high, huge problem as well with this age group and with any age group, but this age group in particular. They're getting destroyed by their online access to this absolute bull crap. And George, you've got some actual numbers on this. Yeah, well, I covered it in my book Breaking Free from Broke because I saw it. It's under the investing traps chapter because I saw it as people trying to shortcut their way to make a little bit of money and enjoy the entertainment at the same time, which really worried me to take the addictive nature of gambling, the ease of mobile apps, the bookies that stack the odds against you with this socially acceptable form of entertainment, quote and quote. And so this is really

Starting point is 00:15:05 scary to what it's doing young men. And I don't know that this dad has the authority in the kid's life to tell him to delete the app. So what it takes is truthfully and sadly, he might need to lose a bunch of money and get burned before he actually turns a corner or he needs to find new friends. I'm seeing them lose marriages. I'm seeing them lose jobs. I'm seeing them bankrupted. I mean, I'm seeing them. We're seeing just so sad, sad, sad, sad stories. And nobody's talking about. Everybody's walking around and grinning like betting home football is a wonderful thing.

Starting point is 00:15:33 And it's a funny thing to joke about with your friends if you won money or lost money. Yeah, well, and it's like a stinking golfer fishing story. You lie. You know, you lose more than you win, but you tell all the only times you won. You know, I caught a fish, but 17 times I didn't catch a fish. Shut up. So it's not cute and it's not funny. And there's no, you know, I'm, you know, so,

Starting point is 00:15:54 Jeff, I'm on your side. If I could figure out a way to get your son to quit doing it, I would. But I got to tell you, it's he's creating habit patterns, neuro pathways in his brain that it may take him a decade to get out of. When your brain starts getting rewired to play this crap, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, this short-term feedback loop thing. And you get, you get your brain wired to do that. It is not conducive to building wealth. is not conducive to building a high-quality life. Yeah, what I would ask him is, hey, how much have you spent on these apps collectively?

Starting point is 00:16:30 Make him add it up. And then show him what it's actually costing him, both in past and future tenses. That might convince him. If he's into long-term investing, he might go, you know what? I could have turned that to $10,000 when I graduate college instead of being broke, or I could just have some fun, quote-unquote, and lose a bunch of money. Yeah, these guys, they have got the algorithm. You're at such a disadvantage when you open up one of the,

Starting point is 00:16:54 apps because they have spent a half a billion dollars building the visuals, building the feedback loops to where they know, once you stick your toe in there, they lure you back in with another offer, suck you in. Hey, here's a free bet on us. Come back in. They are the best in the world, and they're making billions of dollars at it. And at the cost of an entire generation being screwed over. So, yeah, can you tell them a little pissed off about it? Yeah, this is evil, straight up evil. It's greed and it's out of control. And if you work for Fanduil or you work for Draft Kings and you don't like me, well, I'll get over that. Guessing they're not going to be knocking on your door to be a sponsor, Dave.

Starting point is 00:17:35 Well, they have. And we said, you've got to be kidding. That's actually funny. They even know, well, that just shows how stupid they are that they don't, you know, they're just buying ads everywhere. Anybody, you know, like, no, we're not putting that on it. We're not going to have, have anybody on here selling gold either. Good God. How stupid. If you're watching this on YouTube, it probably got interrupted with a fan duel ad. That's how aggressive they are. They want to be everywhere in your face 24-7.

Starting point is 00:18:00 It's exhausting. Bad news, boys and girls. Bad news. Hope I wasn't unclear. I'm officially. I'm officially a boomer. I'm officially a walking dad joke. I do not understand the vernacular. It's Cyber Monday week. That just sounds oxymoronic to me. It's like birthday week. It's your birthday week.

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Starting point is 00:19:24 Elizabeth, in San Francisco. Hey, Elizabeth. How are you? Good, good. I appreciate you taking my call. Sure. What's up? So I'm relatively new to your program, and since I've been introduced to it,

Starting point is 00:19:36 I had a lot of appreciation because the burden of my loans has been heavy for a long time, so I'm excited to have a method to apply to them. And what I have right now is $300,000 in large. loans, there's four of them, mostly student loan. However, the third largest one is a, is not a student loan. It's from a certain program that my employer has with a, it's a no interest loans and with a very specific payoff date for adult payment on a home. So my approach up until being introduced to your program has been to put aside money every month for that. And so when that date approaches, which is four years from now, I will have that money.

Starting point is 00:20:25 And I was just curious. So your employer loans you money, interest-free, with a balloon payment for a down payment on a house? No balloon payment. So they gave me $85,000, and they said, you have to hand this back in 10 years. That's a balloon payment. Oh, okay. I misunderstood.

Starting point is 00:20:46 I assumed it would have. If it all comes due at once, that's called a balloon payment. Okay. And so you have three, you have how many years left before you have to hand them $85,000? Four. Four years. And how much do you have saved towards that? My total savings account is $60,000, but I have $25,000 of that and they're separate. I just kind of put it in a bucket every month I put some money in that bucket. Mm-hmm. Okay. So you have 60, but 25 of it's your mark just in the bucket.

Starting point is 00:21:20 Correct, yep. And do you have any investments that are non-retirement in money? No, non-retirement. So this is all your money, and what do you make? $370,000. Good Lord. That's excellent. Good for you.

Starting point is 00:21:35 What do you do? I'm a physician. Oh, okay, good. All right. Okay. How long have you been making that kind of money? About 10 years. And my student loan debt was $5.

Starting point is 00:21:50 500,000, it's down to, it's ridiculous to even say it's down to, but it's down to 250,000. Gotcha. Okay, cool. Okay, so 250, now. Now, actually, sorry, yeah, it's about, it's, whatever, 300 minus 85,000. So, 215, 215. So, 215. Okay, all right. And so, and you have 60, and 85 clears this mortgage problem. Correct. Okay. Okay. What's your, smallest debt currently? The 85? So actually, it's funny that actually I had, so the student loan is there in three different, and actually it's broken up. Because you said that's the third largest is this

Starting point is 00:22:32 down payment line. Yeah, exactly. I actually had more student loan debt than I listened to a couple of your programs and moved more money from savings over and squashed the smallest ones. Good. So you're heading the right direction. Yeah. All right. So let's just pretend this. Let's pretend that making $370,000 that you are 100% debt-free in 24 to 36 months. Yeah, it would be amazing.

Starting point is 00:22:59 Well, it's only, I mean, I don't know what it takes you to live, kiddo, but you should be able to do that. Well, I think what I, again, since learning your program, I'm going to stop my pause, I'd say, my retirement, I think, and then I'll be able to squash, I'll be able to squash, you know, a good... But if we put 150, if we put 150 out of your 370 on debt times two years, that would pay off 300, right?

Starting point is 00:23:32 Right, correct. Which means you only have $270,000 a year to live on. Wham? Gosh, when you put it that way, it really does sound like, where. So, I really want you to be done. I really want you to be done with this in two years. And we've got some money. We've even got a little more money we can throw at the thing.

Starting point is 00:23:52 Okay. So you're, you've been walking towards what we teach very steadily. And as you've learned more, you've gotten more comfortable. And so I'm going to lay out a budget that is, um, $25,000 a month going towards debt.

Starting point is 00:24:10 Oh, wow. Okay. No, no, I'm sorry. Let me, 12, 12, 5, 12, 12, 5. 12, 5.

Starting point is 00:24:15 Yeah. 12-5 going towards debt because that's two years in two years you'd be done okay all right and once I lay that out um what we normally tell people and you've been listening so you already know this is to have $1,000 in your savings which would put 59 towards these debts you've already done some of that but you didn't quite get enough belief yet to go all the way it might take you a couple months to get to there because this is all a little fresh for you a little new for you and I'm okay with that. But if you can really start to see, you know,

Starting point is 00:24:49 $10,000 to $15,000 a month going off these debts, you're not going to be as scared being without a big savings account. Right, right. And let me tell you something, that $85,000, because it's attached to your employer and it's attached to your home, even though it's interest-free is hovering around in the back of your head, like a hatchet. It's not stress-free or risk-free.

Starting point is 00:25:18 Yeah, that's why I appreciate you so much. I feel like there's so few people would say that, and I appreciate it because I feel it. Oh, you do feel it. I would feel it. Yeah. It kind of, my stomach's kind of getting knotted up and it's not mine, you know. So I can see how that, because there's so many different variables that touch points in your life that are very important, house, job, career, all that that are tied to this one thing. and yet, you know, oh, it's interest free.

Starting point is 00:25:44 I'll just, you know, no, no, no, no, no, to get rid of that thing. So list your debt's smallest to largest, start throwing $10,000 to $15,000 a month at them. And as soon as you get up the courage, take a whole bunch of that $60 and throw at them. Okay, yeah, okay. I'm excited. I never thought I'd say excited in debt in the same sentence. Well, I'm excited because the debt is leaving. That's why I would say it in the same sentence.

Starting point is 00:26:08 But, yeah. We're excited for you because the math is very hopeful here. Your income is incredible. So if you can stop living like a doctor for just like a year or two, you're going to be really living after that for the rest of your life. You have no payments and you make $3.70 and you're used to living like this? Oh, my gosh, girl, you'll be able to do anything you want to do. So what type of practice are you in?

Starting point is 00:26:28 Emergency. Wow. Good for you. I work for the money. You do work for the money. That's serious, serious trauma stress and everything else, yeah. Now it's time to treat this debt like an emergency. Yeah, there you go.

Starting point is 00:26:40 Hey, that, listen, you're going to get this. You're going to knock it out. I'm proud of you. And I'll give you one last prediction, Elizabeth, and that is, is that the more you get down into this, and the more you see it is working, the more you're going to turn up the intensity. And so I think you're going to be done even faster than two years. I think the income is going to go up and her expenses are going to go down. Yeah, I think she's just going to say, I'm getting such a high off a paying off debt that I'm going to do, I'm going to just, Crunch it and crunch it and punch it and punch it and, man, when you do that, it's just,

Starting point is 00:27:15 but you can't feel that today until you feel it. So once you get in there, though, and it starts moving. When it goes from 300 down to 200, then it's 99, oh my goodness, you're going to be run. I remember the first time I ran a half marathon, I remember turning the corner and there was a half mile to go out of the 13.2, but you could see the tape on the finish line. And I just run 12 miles. and yet I found somewhere down inside because you could see the end and I was able to sprint your body just your body and your brain go I was able to go you know kick it in for a half a mile

Starting point is 00:27:49 but you could see it you could see the end and then there's more in the tank than you than you believed you had Solomon is in Montana Hi, Solomon. How are you? I'm doing good, Dave. How are you? Better than I deserve, sir. How can I help? Um, currently I'm at a crossroads in my life where things can go a lot of different ways, and I'm just looking for guidance on what you would do in my situation.

Starting point is 00:28:31 Okay. Yes. What's your situation? So I'm currently ending my football career. I spent eight years in college on scholarship, seven at USC, and then one over here at the University of Montana. And along that time, I got my undergraduate degree and my master's degree, and I got married and had two sons. But I'm stuck on deciding whether or not to stay here in Montana where I love it. and we found a good church, but I have a lot less connections out here compared to Utah,

Starting point is 00:29:09 where a lot of my family is and where I have a lot of connections. I'm close to the church out there that we were attending to for a little bit. Okay. Are you in a metro area in Montana? Yeah, so I'm in Missoula right now. Okay. It's about like 100,000 people. So it's a big enough.

Starting point is 00:29:35 What are you wanting to do? What's your career goal? So I'd like to make use of my education, and I have my undergraduate degree in business administration and my project, or master's degrees in project management. And I'd want to do something with that in construction. And I've been trying to look for jobs in both Utah and Montana, but, man, it's hard to get a job right here, especially with no experience, you know. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

Starting point is 00:30:04 Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Have you talked to anyone in those fields or even in the project management field? Yeah. I've been networking a lot, and I have a strong connection to one of the biggest construction companies in Salt Lake through one of my uncles who's married in. Mm-hmm.

Starting point is 00:30:24 But, yeah, I mean, I just don't make. It's a hub. It's huge. It's mean. And out here in Montana, it's harder to make connections, but the connections you do make are a lot stronger. So I've been trying to network out here, but it seems a lot harder to be.

Starting point is 00:30:48 How are you making a living today, sure? no in scholarship they usually give you a monthly stipend and you're breaking up on us yeah I didn't get the last part I heard stipend and then that's all we heard are you still there yeah I'm still here okay so normally we get a monthly stipend and that's all I've been living off of the past eight years is your wife working outside the home no she stay at home full time we have a 22 month old and a six-month-old.

Starting point is 00:31:21 Oh, wow. What's the stipend every month? How much are you guys living on? About 1,500. Ooh, you're living off of 1,500 a month? Yeah, plus some EBT food stamps. Okay, so here's the thing. You obviously want to stay in Montana.

Starting point is 00:31:41 All of your verbiage and your sentence structures are saying that, but you also know that it's probably not going to happen because you're probably not going to land a good job there with the limited connections and the smaller area. So it may be that to start your career out after college, your first job after college, which is what we're talking about, that you end up in a major metro area like your Salt Lake gig. You go take that for a few years, and then you make connections across the construction industry.

Starting point is 00:32:11 You get some experience under your belt, and you may or may not move back to Montana. someday. But for now, probably to take advantage of the education that you've got and actually make a good living for your family, because we just don't want EBT to be in your future, man. That's just silly. Yeah, I wouldn't stay on the poverty line because I like my church. Yeah, or because I like Montana, either one. So, no, I think you go get a job right now as soon as possible and take that. and there's nothing evil about either one of these are things. If you can get a good job there in Montana, take it.

Starting point is 00:32:54 But if you can't, take Salt Lake City and get your butt in a car and go. And you can, you know, you got the rest of your life to do stuff. There's no rule that says you have to stay just because you went there. You can go over there and it's an adventure and, you know, we're going to give this two or three years. You just put a number on the calendar. We're going to give it three years. We go over and work our tail off for three years, make some money for the first time my life, build up my tool belt of experience, and then I can decide where I want to live.

Starting point is 00:33:23 And I can decide how, maybe you want to open up your own thing someday. I don't know. And then you can start doing that. But for today, it's time to, for the sake of your family and your sanity and your pocketbook, it's time to go make some money as a result of this. And that's not greed. It's you, you've poured your whole life into football and into getting this advanced education. and now, for God's sakes, go use it.

Starting point is 00:33:48 You know, go do something with it and get the most out of it. Squeeze it, squeeze it to every drop of juice comes out of it. And that's a good thing for you. It's a good start to life for you. So, yeah, I'm taking, if you can't, you know, you got two weeks. You don't land something in Montana. I want you to land something in Salt Lake and be gone. You got two weeks.

Starting point is 00:34:10 That might be an entry-level project management job that's not in construction right now, But you need some experience in order to make that final move. Yeah. And that's going to be, you might have to swallow your pride a little bit and go, I have a master's project management. I deserve this. But you've never done anything yet. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:34:26 So yeah, go get her done. That's what I would do. Austin is in New Orleans. Hi, Austin. How are you? I'm doing great today, guys. How about yourself? Better than I deserve.

Starting point is 00:34:36 How can we help? Well, guys, I was hoping to get some strategy advice from you all on a debt paydown. So just to kind of give you a 30,000-foot view, my wife and I currently have a net worth of approximately $650,000. And we currently have debts of $198,000, which is spread across four rental property mortgages. So your personal residence is paid for? Yes, we're in the fortunate situation where we have a home that's held in trust that we will inherit whenever my parents pass away. And that's where you're living. That house is, correct.

Starting point is 00:35:15 And that house is free and clear. Okay, cool. That's cool. All right. And what's your household income? Approximately 165K gross. Okay. So the only debt you have are these three rents or four rentals?

Starting point is 00:35:29 Correct. So we have four rentals. One of them is paid for. And then we have mortgages on the remaining three. Okay. That's your only debt, 200 grand. Correct. Okay.

Starting point is 00:35:40 Cool. All right. I guess you've got two options, right? I mean, it's a baby step six affair. So you need to be getting, you need to have three to six months set aside of expenses, be putting 15% of your income away towards retirement, and money that you find above that is baby step six, you begin to pay off real estate.

Starting point is 00:35:58 It's usually the home we're talking about, but in this case it's real estate. I'm going to list them smallest to largest and pay them off. How quickly can you pay off $200,000 making $165? I don't know. done the math on that yet, but that 165 does not include rental income that we're bringing in from them. So currently we bring in 4750 a month in rent, and then to cover our PITI for those properties,

Starting point is 00:36:30 we're looking at about 25 to 2,600 a month. So we've got about an extra two-rent. By the time you have, by the time your vacancy and expenses, you're not making any money, yeah. Okay. We end up clearing about 1,500 a month after we set us money for maintenance, capex, et cetera. Yeah, it's not, yeah, still not, you're not, that's not moving the needle towards,

Starting point is 00:36:49 that's 18 grand a year, you owe 200, that's not okay. So I'm probably looking at those four properties and going, which one do I like the least? Selling it and dumping all of its equity and getting rid of its debt, if it's one of them that has debt, and dumping all of it to accelerate this, because I would rather you have a program that you're going to get out of debt faster than you are with this program. You don't have enough money to throw at 200 to get out of debt fast enough to suit me. I would want to be out of debt in three to five years if I'm you. 50 grand a year, you're done in four years.

Starting point is 00:37:24 And if you sell one, it's done even faster. Yeah. Yeah, I think that's the plan. You've got to be at that. That's a good point. You know, 50 grand a year is four years. That's the way to do it. You can't do that.

Starting point is 00:37:33 I think selling one is a good move. Yeah, agree. That's a perfect move. Welcome back to the Ramsey Show in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio. I'm Dave Ramsey, George Camel, Ramsey Personality, number one bestselling author, is my co-host today. Catherine is in Reno. Hi, Catherine. How are you?

Starting point is 00:37:57 Hi. Thank you so much for taking my call. I'm great. Thank you. Good. How can we help? Well, my husband and I retired in 22, and we were going to build our house from the ground up. the first year we lived in a trailer as we were putting in the well and bringing in electricity

Starting point is 00:38:15 and laying the foundation. And it's now three and a half years, almost four years later, and we still can't get in the house because he's afraid to take money out of the 401K to hire people to help him. So you're still in the trailer? No, we are not still in the trailer. We were able to do that for one year. and then my husband said, no more. We're renting an apartment in Rano.

Starting point is 00:38:42 Okay. And what's going to cost to finish this project? I figure it's going to cost between 1 and 150 to finish the house. How much is in your 401K? Yeah. How much is in your 401K? 700,000. Okay.

Starting point is 00:38:58 And how old are you guys? He is 71. I am 69. Yes, you should pull out 150 and finish it immediately. Thank you. I just want to sit on my front porch and have coffee with him in the morning. It's time. Yeah.

Starting point is 00:39:14 Well, I mean, this was a bad plan. Yeah, it sounded good, and we were, you know, it didn't sound good. It didn't sound good because you didn't have a plan to get the house done in a reasonable period of time. It's not, it's hard on a house to not get finished. Yeah. If it's not, you know, you got to get the thing in the dryer, it starts rotting down on you. Yeah. I mean, you guys have been dragged button along for three years on this.

Starting point is 00:39:42 Yeah. Yeah, this was a bad plan from the start. And so, but now we're where we are, for God's sake, let's get it finished. It's a small percentage of your overall life, and you're not losing the money. You're just investing it in real estate instead of 401K. Right. Now, it's not going to create an income there in the house, but it's also going to get rid of the rent. Yes. Oh, yes. That's huge.

Starting point is 00:40:10 How have you guys been living so far? On what income? He has a pension and social security. And so you haven't even touched the 401K since you've been retired? Yes, that's correct. Yeah. So if you continue down that path, even the money that's left in the 401k would double after about seven years. Yeah, that would be awesome. So you're 76 and you're sitting there with, you know, a million dollars. If you leave 500 in there and it doubles.

Starting point is 00:40:38 Yeah. That's a pretty good life. I feel so much better now. Thank you, you guys. I hope he's convinced. That's the big question. Is he going to go along with this? Yeah.

Starting point is 00:40:47 I think he will. I think he's getting tired of it, too. So it just, you know, it just took him getting tired of it all for me to, you know, want to ask. Yeah. Well, he had this picture in his mind of being able to build this house with his own hands, and he didn't understand how hard it was going to be and how long it was going to take. That's very true. and now that so we're kind of giving up that little macho dream there yeah yeah and just finish it so mama's got a place to drink her coffee for god's sakes he's tired i haven't been doing this but about four or five minutes i'm tired

Starting point is 00:41:21 yeah i'm half his age and i don't have the energy for this so i'm impressed to even attempted it hillary's in vermont hi hilary how are you hi hilary how are you better than i deserve how can we help well so i'm in the process of trying to pay off loans and between like my federal loans there's about but there's 21 to start with how much but now there's 18 there are 21 loans yeah 21 loans how much do you owe Hillary 326000 say that again 320 26000 so are you a doctor or a lawyer a pharmacist a pharmacist. Yeah. Wow.

Starting point is 00:42:11 So you're making $120? I make about $150. Good. Okay. Are you single? I am. I'm a single mom of two, yeah. How old are you?

Starting point is 00:42:27 I'm 31. Are you married? No, you said you're a single mom. You're not married. You told me that. Yeah. All right. Wow.

Starting point is 00:42:36 So has the balance grown because of interest? What's it? what's going on here? You've just been making minimum payments? So I graduated in 2020, and I paid off through the, I had like two separate loans. So I have paid off all my previous private loans, which was $70,000. And then I have my federal ones, which I've been on forbearance and are still in the middle of forbearance, but I've been paying on them since, well, I've been paying on them since, like, the other one got paid off. But now the interest, and I've,

Starting point is 00:43:08 tried to pay off as much as I could before the interest started, but now the interest is starting, and I can't seem to figure paying off. Okay. So let's pretend that you lived on $100,000 and you put $50,000 towards this. You've not been doing anywhere near that. What? This past year I put, like, this past year I was trying to put towards my retirement and, like, plan for my retirement because I don't want to like to work forever.

Starting point is 00:43:37 You either want to get out of debt or invest. You can't do both at once and make progress. Yeah. So if you stop retirement and you stop everything and you live on beans and rice and you attack these student loans like your life depended on it, could you put 100 towards them? Probably not 100 with like my kids are 7 and 3, so I have daycare. But once they're no longer in like full-time daycare, my little less isn't in full-time

Starting point is 00:44:07 daycare than I can so like I could definitely put like at least a 23,000 plus other amount that I'd been so I could probably put around 40 to maybe 50,000 yeah I want you to okay let's go let's get it to 75 which is a four-year plan oh within that though I was trying to pay off like I mentioned there they're separated between 21 different loans yeah you list them smallest to largest list them smallest to largest pay minimum pay on everything but the little one, but I want you putting $75,000 a year towards debt. And if you're putting $75,000 towards debt, nothing towards retirement. Nothing towards retirement.

Starting point is 00:44:49 You're broke. You have got to do something different. You've got to attack these student loans and get rid of them. They're not a pet, and they're an ugly zoo animal. Yeah. You got, I mean, you got completely screwed on your education. you paid like five times more than you should have to become a pharmacist. Mm-hmm.

Starting point is 00:45:12 You know that, right? Yeah, I'm not sure why I ended up being so much, but yes, I know. Yeah. I'm not sure either because it shouldn't have been anywhere near, you know, $400,000-thousand-thousand-dollar to become a freaking pharmacist. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. All right, now, anyway, where we are, if you do 75 times four, that's 300. four years so eventually

Starting point is 00:45:38 the goal here is to make more payments than the interest is accruing so the balance goes down that's the goal and right now you haven't been putting enough toward it in order to make that happen so we're telling you pause investing pause everything through all of your energy towards that smallest debt so that you can begin to make traction 75,000 dollars a year six thousand dollars a month plus 6,500 a month month okay and that that's lay out your budget to do that hold on we'll get you signed up on every dollar and it'll help you walk through this but you're going to have to tighten the screws down and knock it out otherwise this is going to just keep staying a death cycle on you

Starting point is 00:46:17 you can't change the past but you can't change the past but you can change your next move. Y-R-R-E-FI helps people with defaulted private student loans refinanced to a payment that fits their budget. Visit Y-R-R-R-E-F-Y. That's the letter Y-R-E-F-Y dot com slash Ramsey, not in all states. Our question today comes in by voicemails. So, Kelly, give it a play.

Starting point is 00:46:56 Hi, I have a question about jumping into investing at this time when stocks of trading so high. We have about $100,000 that I'm looking to invest. But I'm wondering if everything is so high, if this is a bad time to jump in. Am I just going to lose money? I'm a little bit paralyzed with regard to what to do with this money. It is all I have. I have no debt. I don't have a ton of property or anything.

Starting point is 00:47:21 So this is my retirement savings at $65. Thank you. Wow. Okay. Well, it's a good question. Thank you for calling in with that. We would tell you to sit down with a good Ramsey SmartVestor Pro. someone that we recommend in the investing world and have a good talk with them and start to

Starting point is 00:47:39 understand your options. But I can pan back a little bit and we can talk about the question in general. In general, is it a good time to invest because the market's high? That's Sue's question, right? And so if you take $100,000 and you're afraid to put it in now because the market's high, you could lose money, that makes that what you're saying is, If you really believe that, what you're saying is, is that the stock market is never going to go up past where it is. And there's absolutely no data to indicate that. The data that indicates that the stock market has always gone up past where it is. Like always.

Starting point is 00:48:28 Sometimes it dips down, but then it goes back up past where it was. a hundred percent of the time it has done that so far okay we've had some dips but it always has returned and gone past where it was before and so the only way that your fear comes true is if it goes down and stays down which is the first time it would have ever happened in history and what you're saying then is is that the best and brightest companies in america that are publicly traded names like home depot or dell or apple or mcdonalds or coca cola names like that are not going to make more money in the next few years. They're going to make less money than they've ever made in history as a group.

Starting point is 00:49:13 See, this is very unlikely. So I am 65. If I had $100,000 extra to put into something right now, I would not hesitate to put it all in the stock market in good growth stock mutual funds that have long track records today. I'd do it by nightfall, and I wouldn't even blink. Wouldn't bother me a bit, even if it was my last $100,000. Now, I'm not saying, Sue, you should do that because you have some fears, and those fears need to, the way those fears go away is with a little bit of basic history and knowledge of the stock market.

Starting point is 00:49:51 That's why you need to meet with a good advisor. Yeah, there's a few questions here. Number one, should I invest when the stock market's high? Yes. Can you retire off of $100,000? No. I don't think so. And so I hope you have other income outside of that.

Starting point is 00:50:05 But if you just pull up Google S&P 500, 10 year, you'll see it go up and to the right and you'll see some scary dips. But if you go back to, you know, 2022, you'll see an all-time high of $4,700. Well, right now, it's trading it over $6,800. $6,800 points. Yeah, $1,600 points. And so what you'll see is there is an all-time high every few years. And so you're actually buying it on sale today because if you look at 20-29, it's probably, going to be trading higher than it is in 2025.

Starting point is 00:50:34 Yeah. So that'll give you some hope if you pan back like Dave's talking about and get that perspective. And a smart vester pro can help with that. Yeah. You can look at it and see how the market moves. The S&P 500 is an index that is the top 500 stocks on the stock market. And that basically is the New York Stock Exchange.

Starting point is 00:50:54 Okay. So it basically is the stock market. And so if you follow that, you can tell what the stock market is done. The news often reports the Dow Jones Industrial Average, which is also an index, but it's just a handful of 30 or 35 stocks. It's not got anything. This has got the 500, the 500 largest companies. So it is the baseline of what we call the stock market, the S&P 500. So if you look at that and you can say, okay, what is the stock market trading?

Starting point is 00:51:22 Is it a bubble? Is it an illusion? There's no indication that it is because every time there has been. dip that someone calls a bubble or something the market has returned because what we're saying here it's not some this is not a fairy tale it's not some kind of guy behind the curtain like the wizard of Oz or something right this is actual companies Home Depot does Home Depot make money McDonald's do they make money do they make a profit Dell computers Apple computers do they make a profit and that's the stock you're investing in you a stock is a share of ownership so if

Starting point is 00:52:05 you're one of the owners of a company that's making a profit your ownership share goes up in value that's a share of stock it goes up in value and so when you're buying a mutual fund it's got 90 to 200 home depot dell and apples in it Exxon is Exxon making a profit you can better believe it up your car lately have you saying you bet these people are making a profit you can bet some are some of them losing money yeah a couple of them are but the biggest these companies as a group represent the you know a big chunk of the american economy and so in general are these companies going up to the in value because they're making a profit and growing and in general yes and in general they always have as a matter of fact for 70 80 years the s np 500 is

Starting point is 00:52:58 averaged about 11.8% rate of return per year. That's the average, which also means some years it was less, some years it was more. That's where we get averages from. You all remember the sixth grade, right? And that's where we learned how to average out something. And so that's, you can pull these things up, look at it on the internet real quick, but sit down with someone that can walk you through and you get comfortable. You don't do it because a couple of dudes on a podcast said do it.

Starting point is 00:53:28 You sit down and you use your brain to understand something you never understood before, and then you go, wow, okay. So, George, here's an interesting thing. I never understood this, but there's something maybe psychological about it. I don't know. The stock market feels far away, sophisticated, and I can't get my emotions around the technology. of it to feel whether it's going to go up or not. But you buy a home and you have absolutely zero guarantee that it's going to go up in value.

Starting point is 00:54:15 And people don't think a heartbeat. They don't even think a heart. They don't sit and go, I don't know. If I bought a $400,000 home, would it go up in value? People don't think that. that does not even enter people's minds. They go, of course it's going to go up in value. Because for that $400,000 house, I remember 20 minutes ago, it was $300,000.

Starting point is 00:54:36 And I remember 45 minutes ago, it was $100,000, you know. And so I remember it. I guess because we walk around in the midst of the brick and mortar, and we watch this, you know, if you're like 30 years old, you've had 10 years as an adult watching real estate go up. If you're 65 years old, for God's sakes, you had dinosaurs in your backyard, you know. So, you know, you've been watching real estate go up, and so you have this historical data just kind of stored in your head, although you don't have the actual math, but you feel very safe with real estate. It's physical. You can see it and touch it, and the stock market is just charts, graphs. It's like, it's green and red on the news. That's all I know.

Starting point is 00:55:19 Yeah. Talking heads are saying it went up, talking heads are saying it went down, and so it doesn't feel as real. and I don't feel as connected to the stock market like I do my own home, as it should be, but I still invest in the stock market. The interesting thing is they're both, you're buying both based on historical data. Has it gone up in value in history? Am I going to lose my butt based on what it did in history? You're buying both of them based on the data, but people are just so much more comfortable with a home. And I'm glad. I'm glad they're buying homes. In the lobby of Ramsey Solutions on the debt-free stage,

Starting point is 00:56:05 Mason and Katie are with us. Hey, guys, how are you? What's up, Dave? We are hype. I love it. Welcome. Good to have you. Where do you guys live?

Starting point is 00:56:14 Parker, Colorado. It's about 30 minutes south of Denver. Got it. Cool. Welcome to Nashville. Thank you. Good to have you. And here to do a debt-free scream.

Starting point is 00:56:24 I love. it how much of you guys paid off uh it's uh five and a half million dollars in the last three years oh my god that might be a record for me personally from what i've heard wow okay there's a story here so what is your range of income prey tale during that time yeah well before i i'll answer i want to thank you this is a bigger deal than we can ever express i'm actually almost in tears Oh, yeah. 20 years ago, I didn't expect to cry. It's crazy. 20 years ago, I was introduced to you. I had a buddy. He was getting married, and the FPU was at our church, and we were stuck in the proverbial three-hour ski traffic coming home. And he popped in the CDs. And I'm like, live on lesson you make and save and pay off debt. This guy's a freaking genius.

Starting point is 00:57:11 And so I started just inundating myself with it for two to three months. I was single at the time. and God just absolutely gripped my heart. I've since become a financial advisor. And the long story short is because of everything that you guys have done for years. And I met my now wife three years after that. I've been a financial advisor ever since. I was an ELP for almost five years in the Denver area. So this is more than just a moment to us.

Starting point is 00:57:37 We've been leading it at our churches for 15, 16 years after you. Thank you. We got four baby girls. Love it. So, I mean, I'm hyper emotional. we're hyper-emotional but the deepest of thank you's you literally change a trajectory of my life which then turned into our lives our our faith community everybody our team we got team 10 people that work at our company now i mean it's it's rippling because of what god did through you so

Starting point is 00:58:03 that's why i'm choked up and that's why we're super hype i'm trying to tamper it down but i'm over the moon we're over the moon so that's wow thank you very much and thank you for leading the class all those years and all the people you've helped that's absolutely incredible. So, well, it was $5.5 million. Yeah, so the other long story short is when we got married, came back with $63 in our bank account from our honeymoon. So we were broke as a joke.

Starting point is 00:58:29 I was working two and three jobs, and I started the path of, I gave myself one year to be a financial advisor. She was working her full-time job making 40, 45 at the time. We finished paying off our debts when you were, I think it was the Fox Business Show. So 15 something years ago, we were on there. Our consumer debt. Our consumer debt. Yeah, her paid off her last student loan.

Starting point is 00:58:49 Never had consumer debt since then. And buying a house and then another house and then our third house. So everything grew over that time just above and beyond anything. I could have ever imagined with what God did in our business were the sole owners. But then in the last three years, the business revenue has been between two and a half and four and a half million dollars. And at any given time, it's 15 to 25 percent of that is going to staff and rent and all the things. And then we always had our mortgage at about that total

Starting point is 00:59:21 number is about half and half with our mortgage. And then the other half was were two retiring advisors sold their book to me. Oh, okay. So it's not consumer debt. We didn't go take out more debt. And so it's kind of like working for free. So that was on a five-year note. We paid it off two weeks ago in three years. The house we put on a tenure, we paid it off two weeks ago in three years. So that's the long story short. So what's the house worth? About $4 million now. I love it. Congratulations, you guys. I'm so proud of y'all. Thank you. You have absolutely killed it. Yeah. Very cool. Okay, tell me about the sweatshirt. I like it. God over money. That's right. I wear these types of things all the time. It's a Christian group. It's just one of their

Starting point is 01:00:03 mottos. Got over money. And so I'm always wearing stuff like this. It felt fitting for what our life's are all about and the faith principles and what the Bible teaches. So, so it's right. It fits in around here. You're right. You're right. No question about it. And to find a financial advisor who decided to pay off his mortgage. That's rare in its own right. It is shocking. And the words of sweatshirt saying got over money. Yeah. That's good. That's good. These are two good things right here. So excellent job. So now the books of business are clear. The house is clear. All these years you've been teaching this. Did it feel different than you thought it was going to?

Starting point is 01:00:41 Yes and no, because I've had so many clients that have paid it off, and I've kind of, like, live vicariously through that, and I've listened to this show, you know, we countless times led the class, but also when it hits, like today. Yeah, but when it happened to you, today is our first day that we were supposed to have our mortgage payment zapped today. And so it's also fitting that we're here because it didn't get zapped out today. So it's going to sink in this month and next month. And so, yeah, it's somewhat as expected, and it's also sinking in as we speak, because I'm like, wait, It's not coming out of our account today.

Starting point is 01:01:11 I will say I thought that when we went to the bank and we were all excited and we had our big check and we thought they were going to maybe have confetti cannons and throw us a party, but it's pretty somber. The bank is not happy. I was like, wait, you're not happy that you're not in debt. You got to bring your own soundtrack and confetti. We made it fun by ourselves, yeah. Oh, that's incredible. Well, this is a real celebration.

Starting point is 01:01:34 That's right. That's right. You guys get it. You know this is good. The bank didn't get it. No, they're not going to get it. Wow. So what's next for you guys?

Starting point is 01:01:40 You're still so young. You've got your whole life ahead of you. What do you do now? Outrageous giving, even more than we've been doing baby step seven to the fullest. And, you know, I mean, that's the short answer. It's that simple. And just we teach and, you know, we basically, Dave Ramsey people's lives, as we kind of jokingly say, professionally. So it's going to keep serving and pouring in like we've always done.

Starting point is 01:02:03 Yeah. And I just have to say to God be all the glory. and you guys are so amazing and ultimately you're just teaching biblical principles. So our goal as a couple is to just try to model that and encourage the people that we know to do the same and to experience that kind of freedom that you guys have just exceeded into our lives. I only went to Financial Peace University when we were dating to impress him. I didn't really care. But now I'm just eternally grateful for the trajectory that it set us on.

Starting point is 01:02:33 And we actually debated doing this because we didn't. want it to seem, I don't know, showy or anything like that. But then we ultimately were like, this is about inspiring other people to just get rid of the chains, you know, and experience, to experience freedom. And so we plan to just give as generously as possible to continue doing that, to make that part of our legacy to instill that in our four daughters and share the wealth. Amen. Well done.

Starting point is 01:03:00 Yeah. So tell me you're going to do something fun. I mean, this is the start. This is the surprise. I mean, I mean something fun. What are you all doing? Oh, man, we, we love trips and quality time with our family, so we'll do more. So we'll do it and we'll do a good trip.

Starting point is 01:03:16 Yeah, we'll do a good trip. This is the trip. This is, all joking aside, this is our moment. Yeah, sure. But we'll keep doing, you know, but we love doing trips with others and blessing them to get some investing in memories. And so maybe get myself a hot pink car. That's right. That's right.

Starting point is 01:03:34 Now we're going. Now we're going. girls. We've got a lot of hot pink. That's our thing. How old are the girls? They're 9, 11, 13, and 15. Wow. They're old enough where this is a memory for them, watching mom and dad sacrifice and hustle to give them the most incredible life. Yeah. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:03:53 And I just have to give him a little shout out, too, that in those early days, when this change was made, this was side gig after side gig, umpiring, Etsy jobs, anything we can do, eating peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for years. years in order to establish getting to that point where we could just snowball to this point now where we can actually pay off our mortgage. So he just worked so hard and has run his business through your entre leadership principles and the culture has formed within that. And God's just been so good and bless that. And I know it's just because it's been so honoring of God throughout the whole process. So yeah. That's sweet. That's very good. It's faith and tenacity and character. It's all

Starting point is 01:04:35 woven in there. And it's why you guys are here. You guys are rock stars, man. You're very cool. We're so grateful. What a great, what a great visit. Thank you for coming here. You built an amazing thing each and every person in here. This is special. It's literally life-changing. Change our lives in every sense of the word. God is good. Thank you guys. Thank you, Dave for day one. We appreciate it. You're all, you guys are amazing. I'm so proud of you. Thank you. Mason and Katie, Denver, Colorado, five and a half million paid off in three years. Count it down. Let's hear a debt-free scream. Three, two, one.

Starting point is 01:05:11 We're debt free! Let's go! I'm scared of that guy. I'm thinking this might be the best financial planner I've ever seen. I might hire him out. Spencer's in Idaho. Hey, Spencer, how are you? Good. Thanks, Dave, for taking my call today.

Starting point is 01:05:48 Sure. What's up? Yeah, so I'm 22 years old. I'm close to my associate's degree in business management, and I've been working for an excavation company for two years. Earlier this spring, my boss offered to sell me his company for $750,000. It's got about $1.5 million worth of equipment, and we do right around $2 million of revenue a year. I'm calling to ask if this is a good financial decision at a young age like me or if I'm in too much over my head. What is your position with the company? um so i'm right now i'm just an operator um that's what i've done for the last couple years i'm new

Starting point is 01:06:39 to the industry so i've just been learning as much as i can i have kind of become uh more of a lead like a crew leader manager over the last six months but that's where i've been did he approach you specifically with this deal uh yes so one of my co-workers um was the one that initially brought up and then he likes the idea he's 74 years old and so he's looking to get out of the business and I was interested in getting in so that's kind of how the conversation started yeah okay well I mean the analysis is this you've never run a business and now yeah and now we're talking about running a business that has two million dollar gross revenue and you've never run it you've never even been in operations

Starting point is 01:07:31 The only thing you've operated is a bulldozer. And so that's the downside, right? I mean, you don't know what you're doing. Yes, that's true. And so it's not because of your age. If you were 52 and you'd never run a business, you've never run a business. And running a business is a series of skills like running a dozer is a series of skills. It's just different ones.

Starting point is 01:07:54 So it's not that you can't learn it, but that's your big leap right there. and I'm a little bit not understanding why he's selling a business that has a top line of two million, but it has book value of one and a half million dollars worth of equipment for only 750,000. So you could sell off half the equipment and be clear of the first year, right? Yeah, that's true. That's weird. Why doesn't he just sell off the equipment and make twice the money? Um, I feel like a lot of it's because the equipment's really old.

Starting point is 01:08:34 Well, is it worth a million and a half or not? Yeah, it is. And you can't do with how old it is. If you bought the business and turned around sold off the equipment, let's just play pretend for a second. Okay, here's how dumb this is. You buy it for $750,000. A month later, you sell off the equipment for a million and a half and close the business and put $700,000 in your pocket. that's weird

Starting point is 01:09:01 okay that that's you see what I'm saying that that doesn't ring that doesn't ring something just off about this there's something wrong why how did he get to this valuation of 750 was it just a wet finger in the air well we only do I mean we're only working nine or ten months out of the year where the profit margins are pretty low there's seven or eight percent and he is financing it through him himself to me and so he feels like to be able to pay the bills and make that payment

Starting point is 01:09:35 that's that's where it needs to be to make it work um okay um this is this is this well okay um so what kind of you're making a seven or eight percent margin so you're making like a hundred fifty thousand dollars a year off a two million Correct. Profit. Profit. Yes. Yes.

Starting point is 01:10:04 Net taxable income. Yes. Okay. Based on that, it's not worth $750. Okay. It's worth $400. Three to $400. Okay.

Starting point is 01:10:17 But the other problem is there's another way to value a business, and that's book value, which is if you close it and sell off all the assets, what would you get? And in this case, you'd get a million and a half. so um you know if you didn't have if you didn't have the high book value then this thing would be worth nowhere near what he's asking based on its profitability so he's correct in that he's trying to set you up to where you can at least stay open uh and pay him the 750 but uh uh how many pieces of equipment So he's got six excavators, four loaders, greater, a bunch of attachments for it.

Starting point is 01:11:08 Then he's got semis. He's got a transportation side with trailers. He's got a lot of equipment. But there is no land. This $1.5 million is just an equipment. Yeah, I got that. Okay. So I'm just trying to, gosh, if I were advising him, I would advise him to close

Starting point is 01:11:27 the business and sell the stuff he'll make twice as much okay if I'm advising you I don't well number one I got a real concern that you've never operated a business and that you know you might not make any money because you don't know the operations side of getting the clients getting the contract signed running the payables run the payroll that you know doing the marketing there's there's a lot of things are operating a business and I would love for you to have been mentored as his vice president of operations for two years before you call me and ask this and then it would have been an easier answer you see what I'm saying yeah yeah he does want to

Starting point is 01:12:12 mentor me for a couple of years but he's wanting out pretty soon yeah it's kind of like tossing the kids tossing a 13 year old or or are tossing me I've never operated a bulldozer you toss me the keys the bulldozer and go hey have fun. I got a feeling I'm going to knock the neighbor's house down, okay? So, because I don't know what the flip I'm doing with, with no instruction. But if he's going to come alongside you and instruct you for two years, then that helps a bunch. And then you said he's doing the financing to you with some seller financing deal. So how would that work out? So he wants to finance it over 10 years and I'll basically pay him $75,000 a year. And he wants it in quarterly payment.

Starting point is 01:12:57 Yeah. But you could sell off two, three pieces of equipment and pay him off almost immediately. Yeah, that's correct. If that was the plan and you got two years of mentoring on operations and your plan is not to pay him off over 10 years, it's to pay him off over 10 months because you're going to liquidate enough equipment to pay him off, then I would be okay. You're going to have a debt-free business with $750,000 worth of equipment that you know how to operate. And you overpaid for it, but you didn't overpay for it because you got assets with it. So it's a weird calculation. You follow on all this gyration I'm doing?

Starting point is 01:13:47 Yeah, I follow you. Okay. And hang on. I'm going to have Christian hook you up with one of our entree leadership coaches and give you a little bit more assistance. than just a podcast radio show answer and let one of our we've got we coach 10,000 small businesses so one of those coaches could actually help you walk through some of this but I think if you know how to operate it and it's debt free I don't care if you're 22 you're sharp talking to you I think you can give you wiggle room to figure it out and then you could you could

Starting point is 01:14:18 but if you've had somebody mentor you for two years on operations and you turn around sell off enough of the equipment to pay him off in the first year and you operate a smaller business but a higher margin business because there's no debt on it then i think you got a good foothold to go make some serious money and um okay the excavation business there's really good these margins are too low everybody i know in that business makes money it's a it's a money maker if it's operated right and i think he's just kind of let things go because he's tired So I got a feeling you can get your margins up 10, 15%, and start making some serious bank on this. You could make more money with less equipment and no debt later on.

Starting point is 01:15:03 That's where it could be your future. Interesting. Interesting calls. What a riddle that was. Yeah, really. Welcome back to the Ramsey Show in the Fair Wins Credit Union Studio. I'm Dave Ramsey, your host. George Camel, Ramsey Personality, number one bestselling author, is my co-host today.

Starting point is 01:15:42 The phone number here is AAA 825-5-225. Virginia is in Austin, Texas. Hi, Virginia. How are you? I'm good. Hi, Dave. Hi, George. How are you guys doing?

Starting point is 01:15:52 Better than we. deserve. What's up? Awesome. Thank you so much for having me on. So my husband and I are currently working through the baby steps. We are on step two. We have about $118,249 in debt that we have to work through. We had a lot of stupid tax in our 20s. Basically, we grew up, me specifically, I grew up very poor without anything. My birth mother relied on a lot of government agency assistance and we barely had food to make it through. So right now, while we're working through the baby steps, I'm having a really hard time letting go of the what-if moments.

Starting point is 01:16:31 So whenever we do have the margin during that month to pay off a good chunk of debt, it's just getting really hard for me to not put it towards the debt and just keep it in saving. So my question is, like, how do I work through that, like, fight or flight mode that I've been in my entire life without, like, I just want to build generational wealth for our two kids and um you're amazing i really appreciate you you're amazing that's a great your self-awareness and your the forming of your question is just excellent just very well thank you very well done so um what do you do for a living um so i actually work from home um i'm a retail

Starting point is 01:17:11 support operations specialist and my husband is a diesel mechanic what's your household income um so household we make um after-tax about $112,710 each year. Okay. So he's doing really well as an diesel mechanic then, and he should be. That's a great field. Yes. Okay.

Starting point is 01:17:33 And your degree is in what? We actually both dropped out of college. We both have associates. He has an associate business, and I have an associate of art. So we're actually just have an associate. Okay. So I'm going to send you a copy of Rachel's book, Know Yourself, Know Your Money, and she talks a lot about in that book the things you were talking about here,

Starting point is 01:18:00 which is like Family of Origin and how that affects, you know, how you handle money in your marriage and how you, the feelings you have about money that you so clearly articulated and all of those things. And I have a friend that never really got healed from what you're talking about. And he was worth several hundred million dollars, and he worked, you know, like 12 hours a day. Yeah. But he said, I grew up dirt poor. And for those of you that don't know what that means, that means literally the floor of the house was dirt.

Starting point is 01:18:38 That's what dirt poor means in East Tennessee, okay, or in the hills of Appalachia. And so he grew up in a dirt floor house. They called that dirt poor. I've heard it my whole life. And so, but he never got over his childhood, the trauma that his childhood represented on the subject of money. And so he just, he could never make enough. He could never save enough because he never got healed from that. Absolutely.

Starting point is 01:19:04 And that's the beauty of your question as you're the opposite end of that. You're seeking healing. And so Dr. John Deloney gave us a great. saying he I first heard him set cover it back during COVID um but he's done a lot of trauma work and for purposes of this discussion we're going to declare your childhood traumatic that's yeah that's very fair at a minimum it was dramatic but we might call it traumatic and he said when you've had when you're in the middle of trauma it a it has a signature in your body and so you physically feel like you did when you were a child when you write these checks because it brings back all those fears

Starting point is 01:19:51 and your body tenses up in exactly the same places it did when you were 12 yes 100% and that's how trauma works he's explained that to me I didn't know that but he's a he's got a Ph.D. in this stuff so he's taught a lot of us around here stuff like this so he says when you're dealing with this and you your body starts to remember and act like your still broke like you're 12 years old and you don't have enough to eat your body starts remembering that but that's not the facts he says the way to work through that is facts are your friends and you stop for a second and go okay what are the facts the facts are i'm not my mom my facts are our kids are not in the same situation my kids are the facts are we make over

Starting point is 01:20:40 a hundred freaking thousand dollars a year and my husband has one of the most employed careers on the planet right now. The chances of him going without work is really close to zero. That's good to know. He actually just got promoted to diesel tech, so I'm very excited about that for him. I'm telling you, he's never going to be without work as long as he physically can do the work. That's good. Because there's a shortage, and it's the trades, and the trades are booming right now.

Starting point is 01:21:06 He's in a really sweet spot. That's a fact. So the fact is you're so far away mathematically from, your childhood, that these feelings then are illogical. And you can begin to tell yourself that. Yes, yeah. And I do. I'm actually kind of the nerd of our marriage, and I have a paper.

Starting point is 01:21:28 I do it old school. I have every dollar, but just the free version. So I do an old school, like, monthly budget, and I do it every two weeks just to see kind of where we're landing to just show me, hey, you do make over $100,000 a year. You're insane. Stop acting like that. It's not insane. It's not insane.

Starting point is 01:21:45 It's the result of bad things happening. If something bad happens, your body remembers that. Yeah. And you literally physiologically relive that fear. You know, your shoulders tighten up. You know, your shoulders raise up. You know, you're in, like you said, you're in fight or flight mode. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:22:07 And your lizard brain is kicking in instead of your high thinking, high functioning brain, because that's what happens when danger comes. and so we all face this we all face this and so for different reasons different things activate that whether it's childhood or something else and so um you know i i think you just practice stopping when you start having that feeling and tell your body that it's wrong okay yeah i can do that deep breaths this is you're you're wrong we are not there that's where we were when i was 12 but I'm not 12 I'm not my mom and we're not in that situation and no blame or shame it's just where we are the fact is you're not in any danger and it just takes a little while for your

Starting point is 01:23:00 body and you're for you to retrain your your brain to go to observe where you are does that make sense it does it absolutely does and I agree with you 100% I mean to your point the math is there It's plain on paper that we're not drowning. We just need to work a little bit hard to get out of the hold of our family tree. You didn't say the math wasn't there. You just said, I can't get the emotions to stop. Right. How much do you have in savings?

Starting point is 01:23:29 Right now we're, I mean, we have our baby step one, so we have $1,000, and then we're slowly chunking away. I actually just paid off one of our credit cards. I mean, it was only $500, but I actually just, you know, pulled the trigger and. and paid it off. Way to go. Okay. We're going to upgrade your every dollar to the advanced version. We're going to pay for it for you.

Starting point is 01:23:50 I think you're amazing. I'm so proud of you guys. Keep it up. You know your numbers, and that tells me you're going to get out of this. You're going to be okay. You know, our last call are talking about the feelings and the emotions around money reminded me at Jade Warshall's new book, what no one tells you about money, the real key to getting unstuck from someone who's been there.

Starting point is 01:24:41 This is the true thing here. where the emotions, Jade gets into the emotions in this book like no one else. It's really good because she dealt with so much emotion fighting through her and Sam paying off $465,000 of debt. So this is a great new book by Jade Wash, one of our Ramsey Solutions Publishing Endeavors. And you can pre-order it right now for $24.99, get over $100 in free bonus items, enhanced audio book, early access to the e-book, instant access to the exclusive video, your financial checkup with Jade Warshall.

Starting point is 01:25:19 And here's what's cool. They're going to do exclusive three-week online book club for those that pre-order that includes a live Q&A with Jade for three weeks. That's cool. That's going to be neat. And so, and I promise you, this lady can walk you right straight through whatever you're on, moving you right to where you want to go. And that's the thing.

Starting point is 01:25:39 This will get you unstuck if you're on that journey. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. It's pretty cool. The book is what no one tells you about money. So be sure and get it pre-ordered right now at ramsysolutions.com slash store. Page is with us in Chicago. Hi, Paige. How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you guys? Better than we deserve. What's up? So I just had a question about saving for my son. I am 24. My son's 18 months. I'm a stay-at-home mom. And my husband and I, I find it, well, he also does too, we're really looking into saving for our son for big things, a school down payment on a home when he gets older,

Starting point is 01:26:27 just big things that will help him later in life get a step ahead. And I was just looking for advice on maybe like how, um maybe like investment accounts or saving accounts compoundable accounts like things like that right now we're just putting uh 80 dollars away a month for him into what and um it's just into a municipal fund it's not anything crazy or special okay well there's not anything crazy or special and uh it sounds like you're very excited about having a new baby and that's awesome and your good mommy and good daddy you want your kid to do better than you've done that's awesome proud of you for all of that i personally would tell you not to use special accounts that are earmarked just for him i simply would

Starting point is 01:27:17 build wealth you and your husband build some wealth and then as he gets older you can reach over and pay for college or as he gets older you can reach over and buy a house and give it to him if you want those two things would cause him to leapfrog ahead a paid for education in a free house you know if he if he gets some knowledge with that and some wisdom to go with that he could go be a millionaire in 20 seconds if he did if he had those two things alone but you could do that just out of your personal mutual fund account you don't have to have a special earmarked for him he could be your motivation for building that and that's a wonderful motivation changing your family tree right oh yeah for sure yeah so the key is it's it's in your name you have control

Starting point is 01:28:02 because here's the issue. If he turns 18 and there's $200,000 in there, you have to hope he wants to buy a house and do something wise with it. But you remember when we were 18, our brain was not thinking quite logically. And so that's the danger of just handing over six figures to an 18-year-old. So 529 plan is great for college savings. And then outside of that, if you want to open just a mutual fund account, a brokerage account like Dave mentioned, you can invest for him there in your name. Yeah, I would just have you be building wealth. Yes, I would be saving for college. 529 when you get to that baby step 5 wherever you are in the baby steps but but um you know uh so here's let me give you an example okay we saved up for our kids college our three kids that are now not kids that are now grown humans okay and uh and in those days there wasn't a 529 so we just saved what was called an utma uniform transfer to minors act which simply means we opened an account in their name in good mutual funds and we were the custodian it was their money okay and it grew at their tax rate and you can do that and that you can do that or you can do a 529 either one 529 grows tax free which is the benefit of that so and and here's what happened though when they got to

Starting point is 01:29:21 college we had started doing so well that I just wrote the checks out of the checking account pay for college cash flow it I just cash flowed it So that ended up with each kid having a nice big nest egg in the mutual funds. And when they graduated from college, I signed that over to them. And that gave them a pretty good chunk, like the amount of college, right, to get started with. That was pretty sweet. And so stuff like that is easy to do. But there's no, I would not bifurcate something for an 18-month-old, set it aside in his name,

Starting point is 01:29:58 create some double backflip trust crap or something and then hope that all works out. Instead, I think you raise the kid and you raise a big pile of money and you'll be able to combine the two if they both work. That's the big thing. If both turn out, the big pile of money turns out and the kid turns out, then we can combine them. That's called winning as a parent. Yeah, but I mean, you don't want to give up 18-year-old heroin addict $200,000.

Starting point is 01:30:22 You'll kill them because they'll go overdose and a heartbeat. and so that that's the problem and I'm not suggesting that your little guy's going to end up that at all but I have in 35 years of doing this heard some really sad stories so I just keep it in your name build a big old pile of wealth get yourself out of debt you know be investing in your 401ks and have some mutual fund investing to the side and then you look over and there's some money and he gets married and you want to buy him a house and pay cash for it tell him never get into debt and he's a great young man he's a citizen he graduated from college he's making a good money standing on his own two feet, he's not living in his mommy's basement, sucking his thumb

Starting point is 01:31:00 at 24 years old, and this is a great kid. Yeah, write a check, buy him a house. I would definitely do that, definitely. Open phones at AAA 825-5-225. Katie is in Des Moines. Hi, Katie. How are you? Hi, Dave.

Starting point is 01:31:18 Thanks for taking my call. Sure, what's up? So, just a little bit of background for you. I am just about to turn 40 here at the end of the month. and my husband and I have been married for six years. We bought a home five years ago, and we were in pretty good shape. We both worked full-time, and then I got sick and had to drastically reduce my income because of that. And we went through Financial Peace University right before that happened, so we were on baby step number one still.

Starting point is 01:31:52 and we've gotten ourselves into quite a bit of credit card debt at this point and because of all the health challenges and medical and just so many things. You don't have health insurance to cover most of that? Oh, we do, yeah. So I've been type 1 diabetic since I was 10, so I've been dealing with that for 30 years, so that just adds extra finances on top of I'm dealing with some type of autoimmune issue. that we haven't been able to figure out, been going to lots of doctors.

Starting point is 01:32:25 Some doctors, like holistic functional, not-court bankers. So how much student, I mean, I'm sorry, how much credit card debt do you have? 18,000 right now, and I have four different credit cards. Okay, and have you found a diagnosis? I think we're on the brink of it. I'm going to see a rheumatologist here next week. I just turned out to have some type of autoimmune thyroid issue going on on top of everything else. So you've got no energy?

Starting point is 01:33:00 Yeah. Yeah, okay. I'm sorry. I can barely. You can barely what? I can barely work. I understand. I'm so sorry.

Starting point is 01:33:11 And you said you're 40? Yeah. Okay. Yep, I will be. And what's your husband's income? My husband, growth income or net? gross gross is 60,000 and how much is your house payment

Starting point is 01:33:26 house payment is $1,241 listen I think you guys have had the crud beat out of you with this medical thing and the emotions that go with that I think you've done amazingly well considering everything that's coming at you I think you really really have done good job

Starting point is 01:33:47 so keep doing a good job and get the other side of this and then you can figure out what you're doing. The house is not causing you a problem. And 18,000 is not causing you a problem. You can clean that up as soon as you get your health returned. 14 months ago, my wife, Sharon and I went on a 13 months ago, My wife Sharon and I went on a 13-day journey through the country of Turkey visiting each of the churches of Revelation with an incredible Bible teacher who has become a close friend, Brad Gray. Brad is joining us because Brad's working on a project that he got to tell me about while we were in Turkey.

Starting point is 01:34:37 And we've been kind of teamed up a little bit. I've been part of his background vocals while he's been working on this thing. And we've had a couple of events and things raising some money for this because this, This project is absolutely stunning and incredible, and I want to be able to tell you about it, so I brought Brad on. He has a full-length feature film called The Lord's Prayer, one hour and 22 minutes. Sharon and I watched it the other night. It is the visuals and the photography is world-class.

Starting point is 01:35:10 It will blow your mind, and he spends that hour and 22 minutes unpacking the Lord's Prayer. You've got to watch it. We're going to provide it for you. He's going to provide it for you for free through Angel. It's with Angel Studios. So angel.com slash Ramsey. You can watch it for free. Welcome, my friend.

Starting point is 01:35:27 Hey, it's great to be here. Thank you. Good to have you. So how, I know you're working on this, and I know the answer because I've heard you tell this, but I want to throw the underhand pitch. You've been working on the whole sacred thread concept all through scripture and teaching scripture in a way that translates to the big screen or translates to your television screen to where we can learn it at a different rate and a different way,

Starting point is 01:35:50 because when you see the locations, it shifts the learning. But you started with the Lord's Prayer. Now you've got an entire book. The book is out, Bringing Heaven Here, which is a book on the Lord's Prayer and 122 minutes on the Lord's Prayer, which we all just recite like, and we're done. Yeah, but when you unpack it the way you do, it's pretty incredible. Yeah, I appreciate it.

Starting point is 01:36:13 So what inspires you to write an entire book and do this feature film on the Lord's Prayer? Yeah. Well, it actually began seven years ago without any thought of a book or a film or a television series, but I was actually just sitting down and reading the sermon on the mountain. When Jesus gets to the Lord's Prayer, he prefaces it with, and this then is how you should pray. And I just had a moment where I was like, oh, like, I think he actually meant it. And which was almost embarrassing for me. I've been leading the study trip since 2010. I was a pastor for more than a decade. I've been in church world my entire life, and yet the Lord's Prayer wasn't something that was part of my daily regimen. And I just realized at that moment that I needed to do a very deep dive from my own soul. And as a result of going through it and seeing what was there, it was much deeper, much wider, more compelling than I ever knew. And because it started to transform my life, my faith, my prayers, my thoughts, and just how I went about life every day,

Starting point is 01:37:16 when we started to work on this idea to create the highest quality documentary series that's ever been done on the Bible. It was like, then let's start with the Lord's Prayer. Everything is contained in that. Yeah. It's all there. Yeah. And then, but then we can go deeper and wider even from that. But let this be the jumping off point.

Starting point is 01:37:34 And as I said, what gave you guys the idea to go to the location? Because you're standing next to the pyramid. You're standing next to the Nile. You're standing, you know, in all these different locations where. Some of the singular words in the prayer were originated, like Father is the opening thing. Right. Our Father. And then you do 10 minutes on Father.

Starting point is 01:37:55 Yep. And, you know, what made you come up with the idea to do that? So my first study trip to the Middle East happened in 2006. And it completely revolutionized my faith because you hear all these stories growing up. And then you actually go to the locations and everything fits and you're just like, oh, this thing is real. and just being there and walking it changes the way that you engage and experience the story. And so when we wanted to put this documentary series together, most people would think, oh, Jesus is giving the Lord's Prayer in Israel, you're going to be in Israel.

Starting point is 01:38:29 We're actually in six different countries for this opening film and season. Because all of these pieces are connecting around the Roman Empire, they're connecting back to Egypt, for the Exodus story for Jesus. And so we just knew that 99.9% of people, even just professing Christians, will never set foot in the Holy Lands. And we wanted to bring that, not just to people in America, but all over the world, to be able to see these locations and allow them to make some additional connections to connecting the dots of Scripture. That's incredible. Well, you call this prayer a framework for transformation. And I'm reminded by our mission here at Ramsey. We're in the transformation business for your money, your work, your life, your

Starting point is 01:39:10 relationships. In what way is this relevant today to help transform people's lives? Why should people care about the Lord's Prayer in 2026? Yeah. Well, the greatest thing about the Lord's Prayer that was kind of really revealed to me was this is actually the most distilled place in Scripture for helping people to understand who God is, why Jesus came, and what's our purpose here on Earth? You know, and that's one of the things that you guys do such a great job with is helping people to be very clear and focused on what's important and doing the right things in order to live life the best way that you can. And the Lord's Prayer is a blueprint for living. It wasn't just a prayer Jesus taught people to pray. It was the very prayer that he was living out in his own life. And I've come

Starting point is 01:39:58 to learn that over the last seven years in particular of praying this prayer every day, it's the singular most important thing I do every day to recalibrate to what is the most important aspects of life and how do we live life well as a result of it. Wow. Was it N.T. right that you were interviewing that said he'd prayed it every morning? Yes. He's in the documentary. Yeah, he's in the documentary. Yeah. He said he starts his prayer or ends his prayer time. Every time with the Lord's prayer because it's a framework. Because it is a framework. Because it resets. It's a settling point. Yeah, exactly. Very cool. Very cool. Again, you got to go watch this. It's completely free boys and girls. Angel.com slash Ramsey.

Starting point is 01:40:42 Angel has made it free for you guys. And you can watch it there and stream it and just pop it up on your screen. Sharon and I watched it the other night. The premiere was done here at the Ramsey Events Center a few weeks ago. I was out of town missed that, but I heard it went real well. It was awesome. And a lot of people were, I was getting texts from all my friends that were friends of yours that were in the audience watching it going, hey, Brad, got the thing out.

Starting point is 01:41:03 It's going. So in the last couple minutes that we've got, talk about daily bread. Yeah. Give us this day. are daily bread. Yeah, I love this part of the prayer because actually you mentioned N.T. Wright, you know, he wrote a book a number of years ago where he said the problem with asking for daily bread is that we get there too soon. And that so oftentimes when we open up prayer, we have kind of a laundry list of all the things that we want to ask for, that we need. And what's

Starting point is 01:41:33 great about daily bread is it actually comes much further down in the prayer where the rest of it kind of sets the frame for what are we called to do? How are we supposed to partner with God in the world? And Daily Bread really becomes about asking God for what is essential for the task at hand. Like when we're called to do something, what's essential? And the thing that's so great about the daily bread piece is that it also reminds us that the whole prayer is in the plural, give us this day our daily bread. And when you dig into just what daily bread meant and what Jesus was inviting his community into, it's not just asking God for the things that you need. It's also supposed to cause you to pause and ask the question, how am I being generous

Starting point is 01:42:21 so that when other people are praying, give us this day or daily bread, can I play a part in being the fulfillment of their request? So it's actually part of the prayer that really inspires a sense of generosity. And too often, we get so caught up, in asking for things or pursuing things that don't actually matter. I mean, the number of calls you guys get in, people are making bad decisions because they're pursuing the wrong things. And they're pursuing the wrong things in the wrong way. This is a part of the prayer where we're going,

Starting point is 01:42:54 okay, God, what is essential? What do I really need? And how can I be generous with what you've given to me so that when somebody else is praying, give us this day or daily bread, I might actually be that answer. Yeah, good reminder. Brad Gray is the president?

Starting point is 01:43:08 and CEO of Walking the Text where he literally walks you through the text in different locations. That's what Sharon and I were doing with Revelation churches in Turkey with a group there and with him. It was absolutely incredible time. The new film, it's a full-length one-hour-and-22-minute feature film. You get to watch it free. Angel.com slash Ramsey. It's called the Lord's Prayer, recommended heavily. And, of course, bringing heaven here is the companion piece book.

Starting point is 01:43:36 You can get it anywhere where great books are sold. I assume Amazon. Yes. Yes, Amazon for sure. Okay, be sure and check it out. So bringing heaven here and the Lord's Prayer. My friend, I'm proud of you. This is really good work.

Starting point is 01:43:47 Thanks for stopping in. Yeah, thanks for having me. Appreciate it. Brad Gray, ladies and gentlemen. Our scripture of the day, Psalm 128, 2, you will eat the fruit of your labor, blessings and prosperity will be yours. Steve Jobs said the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking, don't settle.

Starting point is 01:44:17 One of our favorite things here is finding out that people share their stories of how they're winning. We just heard this from Claire and Winston. This is me and my husband's third month budgeting with the Every Dollar App, and I'm amazed at how much money we found. We went from feeling like we were living paycheck to paycheck to finding $3,500. extra margin each month to put towards our debt. We had four credit cards and I've been able to pay them all off in less than three months,

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Starting point is 01:45:04 Budgeting is just in the background. We're going to walk you through the. Ramsey plan and show you exactly how to do this stuff. Go get every dollar and get it right now. Amy's in Grand Rapids. Hi, Amy. How are you? Hi.

Starting point is 01:45:17 Thanks so much, Dave and George, for taking my call. Sure. I'm calling because my husband and I would like you guys to help settle a difference of opinion we have on how to invest our 15%. So one of us would like to invest that in, you know, ETS mutual funds in our Roth IRAs, Roth 401K. The other would like to invest in a unique real estate situation we have on our paid for property on Lake Michigan. A paid for, is it a rental property? No, it's actually where we live. So we have, our home is paid for. Fixing up your home is not investing. It's

Starting point is 01:45:56 fixing up your home. Well, we have like a second home, a cabin, one of those like a frame Sears kit things, and we were hoping to renovate that and then bring it up and rent it out. Oh, okay. So it's not in rental condition now. Right. What will it take to fix it? Well, it's also on the edge of the bluff, so we'd have to move it back, which would be about $30,000. And then to bring it up to rental grade would be about another $70,000.

Starting point is 01:46:30 So we're looking at like $100,000 and all. How much do you guys have saved right now? Not really much. So we actually had a repair on our house set us back to Baby Step 3. So we're rebuilding that right now. And we're trying to figure out when we hit play which way to go on this. Because we've had some property managers that have been like you can get, you know, $1,500 to $2,000 a week because it's really unique.

Starting point is 01:46:58 As like an Airbnb? Yeah, exactly. Well, I don't see this in the category of Babysept 4. Baby Step 4 is invest 15% in retirement, and this is not retirement. This is real estate investment. Just separate it. Just doing 15% retirement, and above that, save up this chunk and cash flow the renovation. What's your household income?

Starting point is 01:47:19 Okay. About $225,000. Okay. Okay. You said Lake Michigan, didn't you? Yes. Okay. So you don't have a 12-month season.

Starting point is 01:47:37 Right. That is true. Okay. So 1,500 is for just a short period of time. Although we do have a lot of folks that come in recreational for, like, fishing and that sort of thing. Not 1,500 a week. No, but you're right. You're right.

Starting point is 01:47:55 You're looking for the people who want to make an Instagram post out of this, not your local. Yeah, but that's just, you've got a three-month season here. You don't have a 12-month season. So it sounds like you're cherry-picking the numbers to make this sound more appealing than it is. I'm not sure it's a great investment period because 100 grand in with the rental you're going to get back out. And running an Airbnb is running a hotel. It's a pain in the butt. It's a lot of work.

Starting point is 01:48:25 You're changing dirty sheets and hauling off garbage. Someone is. Yeah, we were thinking you would get proper. operating management of this but you know but then then your 1,500 a month starts to evaporate in your Airbnb fees well sorry per week yeah I'm sorry 1500 a week but yeah but but that's only for a short period of time but so yeah I I think you need to run a realistic pro forma on this instead of throwing the 1,500 a week around and acting like that's a 12-month role it's not and when you do that I don't know if you're going to see a great return on 100k so even if we

Starting point is 01:49:01 didn't put it in baby step four and we said okay baby step six you start or seven you you save up and fix this up as an investment property later on you drop 100k in it are you going to get your money back out in cash flow i don't know if you're you might you might it might it might it might work out for you but um the thing i know about real estate is and i own a bunch of it is net is different than gross you have gross rents and everybody walks around talking about their gross rents, but you have property taxes, you have insurance, you have expenses, you have maintenance, you have vacancy, you have legal trouble, you have everything else that comes out of that, and then you have net. And so, you know, people walk, act like that,

Starting point is 01:49:46 especially inexperienced real estate investors, act like that they're, you know, it's 1500. And it's not. It's not because somebody's got to take out the garbage and clean the sheets. And somebody's got deal with the stuff and the heat and air is going to go out and then some bozo throws a beer bottle through the window and welcome to Airbnb and so uh it's it's a thing man so i no it's not a baby step four joe's right george is right i don't know who joe is but george is right and my bizarro arch nemesis and so uh yeah the the uh now i would be putting baby step four 15 percent into retirement and good growth stock mutual funds that's what i'd be doing there this investment would be later on or with a different set of money than that it is not investing for retirement.

Starting point is 01:50:35 No, I would not do that. And I'm not saying, don't do it. I'm just saying it doesn't qualify for that the way we teach. And I wouldn't do it until you've got some extra money later. Right now, you're just above broke. You're just now getting that past baby step three. And now you're starting to move into investing. And now you're dropping $100 grand into a real estate deal.

Starting point is 01:50:55 No, no, not right now. not right now hope that helps hope i solve the argument i think i came down on her side i think the husband's not happy but that's okay we'll live you'll live to tell the tale yeah ben is in phoenix hey ben how are you i'm great how are you guys doing better than we deserve what's up so i uh recently was going through uh my house um i knew i had this but i me discovered um some gold coins that my dad has been buying for me for christmas since i was a kid um and i did the math and It's about $22,000 worth of gold that I have. Yeah, so recently my fiancé was laid off in August.

Starting point is 01:51:36 So, you know, we lost a chunk of our income, but we're still living within our means. We're in pretty good shape, all things considered still. We do have our $1,000 emergency fund for Baby Step 1. And the only debt that both of us have is the house that I bought when I was 24 and our cars. What do you owe on your car? I owe about $20,000 and she's at about $15,000. You're not married. You're not paying off somebody's car you're not married to.

Starting point is 01:52:07 Correct. Yes. So there's not a wee. There's not a wee. You have a roommate. Okay. You have $22,000 worth of gold and you need to put it on your stuff until you're married. When's the marriage?

Starting point is 01:52:20 In October. And the wedding is going to be covered from both of our parents' savings for it, fortunately. What did you say you owed on your car? About $20,000. Oh, perfect. Sell the golden pay off your car. Okay. I've been wondering.

Starting point is 01:52:33 My dad is a little bit of a panicker, and he says, never sell it. And I've always been wondering, well, what's it for if I'm never supposed to sell it? Well, I never have a car payment either. And never go get another car payment after this. Yeah. It's your last time ever. Yeah. But here's a good way to think about it.

Starting point is 01:52:47 If I gave you $22,000 right now, you wouldn't go buy gold with it, would you? We put it like that That's the simplest way I can think about it And I go let's sell the gold And turn it into money And now it's the best of you this money Is getting rid of our consumer debt That's going to really free you up

Starting point is 01:53:05 Boom just like that And you guys quit combining finances until October You're not married It's very dangerous Stop it Stop it, stop it, stop it That puts this hour of the Ramsey show In the books

Starting point is 01:53:19 We'll be back with you before you know it In the meantime, remember, there's ultimately only one way to financial peace, and that's to walk daily with the Prince of Peace, Christ Jesus.

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