The Ramsey Show - App - How Do I Use Leftover Scholarship Money? (Hour 3)
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Alice is with us in Houston, Texas.
Hi, Alice, how are you?
All right, how are you doing?
Better than I deserve. What's up?
Well, I work and I drive for a ride share.
And right now, I'm renting a vehicle to do it.
People have been telling me I need to buy my own ride.
So I did Baby Step 1.
I haven't did Baby Step 2.
So do you think I should buy a ride or should I keep renting a ride?
Well, here's the thing, Alice.
With the ride share programs, I do know for an example,
I won't say the name of the companies,
but you've got to have at least a car 10 year old,
no more than 10 years old.
So it sounds like you're not in a position to do that financially right now.
Okay.
Now is this ride sharing program,
is this the only source of income you have right now coming in?
Or is this a side gig and you have another full time job?
No,
I do this full time.
Yeah.
So what are you making?
Anywhere from $80 on up
a week. $800 a week?
Oh, okay.
Well, $800 plus.
Yeah. And what's the rental
costing you?
I think like
maybe
$7 a month.
So you're working for free?
No, so $700 a month.
Oh, $700 a month, not a week.
Oh, okay. I'm sorry.
Yeah.
Yeah, $700 a month.
So you're like renting from a rent-a-car
company? Yes.
Yeah. Very interesting. Well, here's the thing, the month and so you're like renting from a renter car company yes yeah very interesting
well here's the thing alice you can honestly um and grab me from rome dave on this one because
i'm gonna say i don't have a problem with you renting if you're stacking up money to go buy
cash so for an example we're in 2020 going to 2021. That means you can get a 2011 car, okay, as long as it's 2011 or newer.
You can buy something around.
No, it has to be a 2015, sorry.
It has to be a 2015.
2015 or higher.
So, yeah, so that's going to run you about in between $7,000 and $10,000.
How old are you?
50.
What was your last job um my last job was uh auction
was what working for auction auction okay what were you making there
that was just very that was just like a little part-time or like
okay what you're describing uh scares me because i'm afraid there's some costs involved here
or some lack of insurance that's involved here that might be setting you up for
all kinds of problems i certainly wouldn't sign you up for a $700 car payment or a car payment at all in order
to do ride share.
But if we're going to move away from this whole thing, then we have to have a replacement
for it.
You've got to eat.
Yes.
And you've been using this to eat.
I get that.
I like your ingenuity.
You came up with some cool ideas and you scratched around, figured out a way to make a dadgum living good for you uh i'm a little bit afraid whoever you're running the car
from might not uh be okay under the contract you've signed with you using it for ride sharing
and i'm a little bit afraid that the ride sharing people might not be okay with the with the type of
insurance and the fact that you're driving a rental car
to do.
I don't know.
There's a lot of stuff in here that's bothering me.
$700 a month is bothering me a lot, too.
It's obviously bothering you.
She has to get a car, Dave.
Yeah, but a 2015 to drive for that company, maybe you drive for a different one.
Yeah.
But, I mean, I don't know what the guidelines are with the different cars.
I know one of them, it has to be 10 years or newer.
Okay.
Like an Uber?
Yes.
I didn't want to say it on the show.
Well, that's okay.
Say whatever.
I don't care.
Yeah, Uber will allow you to do that.
I don't know what Lyft, if Lyft has a lesser or whatever, but a lot of drivers that I know drive for both.
And it's usually a side gig, too.
Yes.
So I would start saving aggressively
and buy a car very very quickly yeah like and i'd be working like 24 7 i'd be working all the time
to get out of this because i'm afraid you're in a trap but would i go buy a car on payments
i've never told one in 30 years of doing told anyone in 30 years of doing this show
to go borrow money and i'm not going to start today so i wouldn't but if i woke up in your
shoes i would work like a maniac and pile up enough cash in about a month to go do this
um and you know you're coming into the holidays you probably can get really busy uh in houston
texas because you know that that's what I'm going to do.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Let's solve this in 30 days or 45 days and go buy a car.
And even if you bought a lesser car and you couldn't drive for that same company for a period of time, then you move up.
Do the same thing again, then move up in car later.
Yeah.
But do it with cash and stay out of the payment business.
I would not do what you're doing uh for a for a
long-term plan because i think there's holes in it and i'm afraid you're going to get i'll get
caught in a mess uh i'm making this up i'm not sure it just make it just feels wrong the possibility
of the mess is dave because i tried uber you know just to test it out for myself you have to provide
a registration and proof of insurance so i don't know how she's doing that because she doesn't have proof of insurance she
well you can get insurance through the rental car company but she doesn't have registration
exactly she doesn't own the car and the insurance is not her insurance it's the rental car insurance
company i know so i don't i don't you got me yeah it just just sounds like somebody. Yeah. It's tricky. It's tricky.
All righty.
All right.
That's what we're going to do.
The second idea, other than just pile up some cash really quick and then keep doing this, is ask yourself, okay, I'm 50 years old.
What do I want to be doing when I'm 65?
Probably not Uber.
No.
Probably want a career field.
You probably want to start setting some longer goals and saying
okay what have i got to do to get out of this car what have i got to do to move into something else
that's why i was asking about your previous career what are you trained in what can you do
um and so okay i'm going to start taking some once we get this solved let's start taking some classes
let's do whatever we've got to do to move into the career field that you really want to do and hang on i'll give you a copy of ken coleman's book and help you
move that direction it's called the proximity principle and um yeah i think that's going to
be your longer term better answer yeah that's the is the way this feels to me so uh i know what
you're doing is not going to be sustainable uh and i know even if you get into
your own car that you can use and you make the same kind of money or more money and you won't
have a 700 payment you'll be making pretty decent money at that point but you're working your butt
off yeah and what is the long-term aspects of that probably not your plan so we need a long-term plan
and a short-term plan and uh you're a really, really hardworking lady, really smart.
You're coming up with ideas.
You're scrappy to get out there and scratch around and find some money.
I'm proud of you.
Do that.
But let's get this situation fixed.
And it's not a car payment to fix it.
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We're dealing with the suckiest year in my lifetime.
2020.
The year where you learned that maybe you weren't essential.
Can you imagine?
How damaging is that?
Mike Rowe was talking about that when he was here.
Yeah, you know, there's just this occasional line somebody drops
and it just wormholes in my brain.
And when Mike Rowe was here a few weeks
ago, he mentioned
that he just told 300
million people in the United States, you know what?
Y'all just stay home. You're not essential.
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person in me just, it was just a
neon sign.
It was a big bell that I couldn't unhear.
We don't need you.
We don't need you.
You have no value.
Just stay home. You're not essential.
We'll call you.
Man, we are made to work, but more importantly, we are purpose-driven beings.
That's just what we do.
And when somebody just looks you in the eye, when your government looks you in the eye.
Let me just tell you.
Says you're not important.
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And some of you are a little crazy, I'll just tell you.
I get some emails.
Some of y'all are awesome.
Some of them are beat little crazy all the way up to big crazy.
But most people are just good old folk, man.
Everybody's got dignity and worth.
You're essential.
Yes.
Yes.
You're essential. Yes. Yes. You're essential. So I did figure out, though, as an employer and our people working from home or our people sheltering at home or our people, whatever,
in talking to some of our government officials, they said, well, we thought you guys were essential.
And after talking around a little bit, I kind of figured out what the essential industries were.
It's a fairly easy idea.
What is that?
You just decide you are.
Because nobody had a real definition.
That works in our individual lives, right?
When it comes to dignity.
I'm essential.
Screw it.
I am worth being respected in this relationship.
I am worth dignity at my job.
No, I mean, honestly, they don't have a definition.
Wow.
They didn't have one.
Huh.
I mean, so, you know, what is essential?
I decided I am.
So everyone, it's you.
You're all essential, right?
You just decide you are.
Decide you're essential.
Or decide you're not and stay home if you want, but that's okay.
There's always a place for people who want to wear their bathing suits and eat Cheetos
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You know what I mean?
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visits daveramsey.com to ask, My boyfriend and I are looking into getting married
in the next year or so.
He has two children, ages four and seven,
from a previous marriage and split custody
with no child support or alimony.
We both have debt and healthy savings.
What are the benefits of getting married?
Would you suggest a prenup so that I protect myself
prior to getting married?
We would like to have a child of our own, God willing.
I love his children but feel that I should not be financially responsible for them.
Whoo, Jamie, there's a lot here.
A lot of this might be better in a more long-form call.
I'd love to ask some follow-up questions here.
Dave, what do you think?
Oh, this is your – I'll jump in.
Believe me, I have an opinion, but you go ahead.
I do too.
I don't think y'all are ready to get married.
I think you're having some, this idea that I love his children, but I'm not going to
be financially responsible for them.
When you join somebody in marriage and they already have kids, you are joining a family
and you are joining those kids.
And I know that those two kids have a mom, but they are also getting you, right?
So you're going to be a step-parent.
You're going to be involved in the raising of these young kids.
You're going to be involved in the paying for them to get clothes and food.
That's what marriage is, is the joining of incomes, the joining of homes, the joining of values, the joining of home raising.
So I might suggest that he get a prenup
to protect his kids.
But again, that takes deeper questions
about finances and money
and where people are at.
But the benefits of getting married
is you get to do life with a partner.
You get to do life anchored in.
I know that come what may,
they're going to be there.
And so there's just some red flags in this question that make me think you're not there yet.
The old book of common prayer says, in sickness and in health, for rich or for poor, unto thee all my worldly goods I pledge.
Unless you have extreme wealth and you don't, no prenup.
If you love your little life and your little money and your little
independence more than you love him don't get married if you're not willing to take his kids
on as if they're yours don't get married you're not ready for marriage you're not ready because
you still value your stuff more than the relationship and until you're ready to put
the relationship with him the kids his, his mother, his father,
his crazy uncle, and his broke-down car all on your shoulders and carry them, then you're
not ready for marriage.
Right.
And especially if you feel like you're going to come into this house and the kids aren't
going to have access to your money, just that language in and of itself, you're not ready to get married yeah exactly you got to be all in all in all in and by the way
it's not test driving the car to shack up because you're not all in and it's not going to fix these
exact issues and so you date and you maintain a separate household and you have quality relationships and
you grow in the relationship to the point that being with him and being married is more important
than any other single goal you have and they all become subordinate to that man or woman
you if you do not make your other goals subordinate to meaning that we're going to agree
on doing these things together and the only possible way that the man you love more than
life itself is going to have a good life as his kids do and so you you're you're taking them on
i i think this is worth pointing out i i love where you're headed with this his responsibility
will be to those two kids.
And for somebody to try to wedge their way between somebody.
You come alongside and help them.
That's exactly right.
Not become an additional problem.
Right.
Or an additional burden or an additional responsibility.
Because these kids are already going through enough.
They are already going to go through guilt.
They're going to go through loyalty issues.
They're going to go through what did I do to make mom and dad split up.
This vacuum of joy and attention in that house, they're going to take that on.
That's what four and seven-year-olds do.
And for somebody else to show up and say, hey, I love you guys.
This is mine.
But not so much.
Not so much.
Come on, man.
I love you, but not so much.
You're not there yet.
You're not there yet.
You can be.
You can be, can be but you
need a heart change i make 46 000 a year and i need a prenup no you don't no you don't you don't
have anything to prenup when when do you recommend a prenup dave where there's extreme wealth on one
side and not on the other okay so let's say that um you're marrying someone that has 10 million
dollars and you have $40,000.
Okay.
I would put a prenup in place because, not necessarily because of the couple.
I do really in-depth, detailed pre-marriage counseling because you're going to face some unusual challenges.
There will be some different tensions in that relationship.
Number one.
But the reason for the prenup is it's not the couple that I've run into
as a financial coach that's been the problem.
It's the extended family.
Right.
And I like them only for wealth and kids, right, to protect children.
The extended family is, no, I mean, it's like his mother is a nutcase.
And you cannot keep her out of the discussion unless there's a prenup.
And so what it does, it just backs everybody off.
And your crazy cousin thinks you just got rich because you married the guy with $10 million.
That's right.
And that kind of stuff.
So crazy Eddie shows up with his dadgum RV out front.
You know, Cousin Eddie, right?
Cousin Eddie, that's right.
And that's, you know, hey, you married a $10 millionaire, I'm here.
I'm getting my part, you know?
That's right.
And so, you know, that's the stuff that happens.
But when you've got a prenup, you go, I don't know.
It just backs off the crazy. And it's really the stuff that happens. But when you've got a prenup, it backs off the crazy.
And it's really helpful with that.
And it's very, very important that you take the time.
But folks have fairly even, typical finances.
You don't need a prenup.
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my co-host today on the dave ramsey show ramsey personality ken coleman dina is with us in utah
hi dina welcome to the show. Hi.
Thanks for having me.
My pleasure.
How can we help?
So we're on baby step two, and we have $10,000 left to pay off,
and we were on track to pay it off in July.
But a month ago, my husband got in a car accident, and our cars totaled,
and he was in the hospital hospital and now he's on short
term disability well immediately i stopped paying and i started banking the money so i have enough
to i haven't by july i'll still have enough to pay it off um he is on short term disability but
i'm wondering if i should keep paying it or should i just save the money and wait for the medical
bills to start rolling in and pay those that That's where I'm kind of confused.
How's he doing?
Oh, he's on a wound rack, and his leg exploded.
It got so swollen.
So what's the schedule on him being back to work is what I'm asking.
So he'll be back.
Well, it was mid-July, and they just pushed it through to August now.
Okay.
All right.
And what is the short-term disability payment?
How much?
It's only his base pay.
He's a manager, and he gets bonuses.
How much is his base pay?
It's $3,000 a month.
And how much is his bonuses?
He usually gets about, over time he gets usually double that.
Okay.
So he's getting half pay right now until he goes back to work.
All right.
And are you working outside the home?
And I'm a bus driver.
Okay. No, I'm a school bus driver, so I'm off right now.
But I have submitted some applications out, so I am looking for something.
Gotcha.
Okay.
Good.
And how much debt do you have left?
$10,000.
$10,000.
You said that.
And how much money do you have piled up?
I have $7,500, and that doesn't count my $1,000.
Gotcha.
Good.
Okay.
Good.
All right.
So here's our two options then mathematically.
One is we continue to pause and wait and pile up cash
until September when he's back to work.
Okay. That costs you 60 days.
Big deal. Right. No big deal. No big deal at all.
Or you can go ahead and go hardcore right now, and you're trying to do it with less income than you usually have.
Because both of you aren't working.
Right.
Yeah.
So I'm pausing this because you're in the middle of a storm and piling up cash until the storm comes by.
You get back to work.
He gets back to work.
We push play, and we're game on again.
Okay.
Does that make sense?
It's not like a lifetime decision.
And then the medical bills, I mean, you've got insurance, right?
Yes.
And insurance is covering this, right?
Yeah, and it'll pop out, I think, at $6,000 max.
Out of pocket.
Yeah, out of pocket.
And then they start paying 100% after that. Okay. So you need $6,000 max is what we'll owe. Okay. Yeah, out of pocket. And then they start paying 100% after that.
Okay.
So you need $6,000 to do that.
You need $10,000 to pay off debt.
That's $16,000.
And you've got $7,500.
And you're going to have a little more by September.
And then you'll have your income.
So let's say you've got $10,000, $11,000 by September.
And you throw that at the $16,000 in whatever order.
I mean, you can just pay off the medical bills and then reach back and start to get snowballed again right yes you see what you see what i'm doing so bills will
probably be like zero percent right for a while oh no they're they're not they're due they're due
when you send them they don't charge you they don't you know they don't if they put you on a
payment plan it's because you're broke but you're not broke right because you've been smart i'm so
proud of you yeah you've managed you've managed
through covid and through a totaling of a car and your husband's leg and all this other stuff and
you're still sitting there with seven thousand freaking dollars way to go and our house is paid
off dave ding ding yeah okay wow so here so here's what christmas sounds. Let's go to Christmas. Are you ready?
Okay.
You're debt-free.
Yeah, I'm ready.
You're debt-free.
Excellent.
Well, think about it.
I mean, you've got your income, both of you making an income.
He makes $6,000 a month when he's working, and you're back working.
And so we've got $8,000 or $10,000 a month coming in,
and you've got $7,000 by then, $10,000 towards your $16,000.
You've only got $6,000 to pay off by Christmas.
You've got this.
Okay.
That's where the math says.
Yeah, I was just confused.
I got confused for a minute.
Yeah, you're doing good.
I'm with you.
I would just pause it, and then when the medical bills come,
just write a check, pay them off,
and then kick back in on the rest of it and get going.
You're doing so good.
Fascinating that they have no debt on their home.
And $10,000 worth of debt.
And it's kind of an interesting way of doing it.
But you're right.
It's going to be a great Christmas in that house.
Well, there's more to the story.
Of course.
Behind the scenes.
They got them to that point.
Yeah.
They're in great shape.
Yeah.
But here's what happens.
When you hit a crisis, either uh you either run into it
or it runs over you isn't that the truth you know and she ran into it she ran into the storm
and i remember you telling the story in the message of hope about the buffaloes they run
into the storm yep and they get through the storm faster because as they're heading towards it it's
heading towards them it goes over cows run the other way and they can stay in the storm longer
yep and so you know
you got to do your buffalo or cow that's it and so when it comes to this kind of stuff i won't be
the buffalo yeah although they're really not very smart animals but still but well you know
it's a great metaphor there it is all right nicole is with us nicole is in california hi nicole how
are you hello dave how are you than I deserve. How can we help?
I am having a hard time looking at your face on the computer and talking to you
because your face isn't doing the same thing your voice is doing.
That would be that technological delay. How can we help?
It's the machine. I'm still getting used to it.
So I want to start with, I believe in a lot of the things
that you guys have said so far about God providing. I believe in mana, mana from the sky. And I also
too, being an artist, believe that I am made in God's image as a creator of whatever my universe
is. So let's start with that. So mana from the sky. Unemployment. I've been receiving unemployment since the COVID apocalypse has started.
And since then, I have been able to save $10,000.
Okay.
I have like Amazon bills, phone bills, rent.
So you lost your job in COVID.
Yes.
What were you doing?
Late off.
I work with children with autism.
Okay.
Your job coming back?
So I have clients.
Yes, yes.
When?
I have certain, there's masks and certain different things involved.
You don't work one-on-one with them now.
When's it coming back?
When does your income come back?
Kind of when I go back come back when i go back
when do you go back are they letting you now i don't think well that's kind of the thing there's
um a lot has changed in the field so like because of covid there's masks and certain things that
makes work a little different so you kind of like have a little bit of room to roam.
I've been a nanny on the side as well, and that allowed me to save.
And now I'm no longer doing that and going back to my actual work.
What's your question?
How can we help you? Well, my question is, with unemployment, you can work a certain amount of hours and still
be able to receive the unemployment.
I have a major dilemma.
I bought the car in November, I mean, August last year.
The car since has $13,000, $14,000.
I took a loan out.
And since then, I've had an engine replaced, blah, blah, blah,
and I'm paying for a warranty.
Okay, so now the car has gone from $250 to $400 basically a month
because the warranty is $150.
I want to be – I don't necessarily want to be rid of the car.
I bought the car because I wanted the car.
Nicole, Nicole, I'm running out of time.
What's your question?
Okay.
My question is, how do I get rid of the car or how do I pay off the car?
Do I use the money that I've saved?
Do I keep saving for more and more?
Gotcha.
Okay.
It sounds like you're unemployed. Yeah. I'd start with going back to work. Gotcha. Okay. It sounds like you're unemployed.
Yeah.
I'd start with going back to work.
Yeah.
Making more money to add to the $10,000, get the car paid off, and keep moving forward.
Either get it paid off and get rid of the extended warranty and keep it, or get it sold.
Sell it and get something else.
But either one's going to be based on your income.
Yeah.
And you need to get your income rolling again.
There's nothing keeping her from going back to work.
She needs to go back to work. Yeah. And you need to get your income rolling again, kiddo. There's nothing keeping her from going back to work. She needs to go back to work.
Yeah.
It's time.
It's time.
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tennessee hi david welcome to the
david ramsey show hey gentlemen how you doing great how can we help okay um i'm 19 years old
i'm starting my second year college and i'm getting three thousand uh six hundred dollars
back from the school from excess scholarships and i I'm on baby step three, and I'm not sure.
Actually, this finishes baby step three for me,
and I'm not sure what to do with the extra money from that.
And my girlfriend's wanting to start a small business on the Internet,
and I'm kind of with her on that, making T-shirts and candles.
And I'm not sure if I should do that, invest it,
or just
keep stockpiling money i would pile up money then make sure you graduate from school you're just
starting don't touch this money leave it in a big pile i don't care if you got thirty six thousand
dollars yeah what are you studying david um i'm studying chemistry right now for my bachelor's
degree but i'm wanting to do orthopedic surgery.
Okay.
So you've got a lot of college expense ahead of you.
Yeah, you do, buddy.
That $3,000 won't even spit at.
Yeah.
So just pile up money.
Pile up money. Any money you can get your hands on other than loans, pile up money.
And listen, moving forward, David, you know, I appreciate it.
I love business more than anyone else.
We teach and help people open and run and improve businesses.
This is not the time for you to try to start anything with a girlfriend.
So this money is now saved.
Let her know that that's the decision you're making so there's no more discussion with it.
Because I can see her and others having ideas for you and this money.
Nah, you got to plan for this.
We're going to stockpile it, and you're going to keep growing you and going to school.
Yeah, the 29-year-old you doesn't want to be telling stories to his friends about the time that he had $3,000 and gave it to his girlfriend for candles.
That's not a story you want to tell.
Boy, you made that story fast.
You connected that really quick, dude. That's, you story you want to tell. Boy, you made that story fast. You connected that really quick, dude.
That's, you know.
No.
Or you may be telling the story where she goes and makes $20 million and you wish you had,
but I don't think that'll be the one.
Yeah, no, no.
I wouldn't do that.
I would just pile up the cash.
You are, as a surgeon, as a chemistry major, you are the best investment you can make.
Matter of fact, it's the best investment almost anybody can make.
That's true.
Because you're investing in education that is going to pay off.
So just make sure the money's there for that.
Just pile up cash, pile up cash, pile up cash.
This is all about you completing your degree.
Cesar's in Chicago.
Hi, Cesar.
How are you?
Hey, how you doing, Dave?
Great.
How can we help?
Okay, a little nervous here.
Sorry.
First-time caller, first-time listener.
I discovered you last summer, started listening to you.
Didn't think in until probably about a month ago.
I'm roughly $130,000 in debt, which is $94,000 in hopefully IRS.
I'm trying to do what I can to figure out what's the best way to tackle this.
Most of the other stuff is car loans and credit card debt.
I just went to CarMax this weekend and sold a vehicle, which I had some positive equity of $6,500.
I don't know what to do with this money at this point.
What in the world?
How do you owe the IRS $94,000?
It's a mess.
I mean, in 2015 and 2016, we had a business.
I started a business with my wife.
I pretty much tried to manage the business myself, try to do everything myself.
I kind of screwed things up and it didn't help that I had a bad accountant.
I contacted the IRS and there seems to be an issue.
I guess we have to file a 1040X form to try to amend those taxes.
But while this is in process, I still have to start making some kind of payment
because I'm getting some letters on the mail as far as...
Okay, wait, wait, wait. Stop, stop, stop, stop.
So you're saying that the returns were filed improperly
and you may not actually owe this money when you file amended returns?
Exactly.
Okay.
You have some money.
You said you had $6,000 from sale of your car?
Yes.
$6,500.
I am currently on baby step 2,
so I got my $1,000.
You're going to spend some money right now
on a tax attorney
or a tax professional
that is a stud of some
kind,
and if it costs you $6,000, it won't,
but if it costs you $2,000, this is job one right now.
Yeah.
You can take your $130,000 and wipe out 94 or a big portion of 94
with some simple proper filing.
You don't do that yourself.
That's how you got here.
You go get a tax pro.
Check DaveRamsey.com and click on our tax ELPs.
If there's not one in your area, start shopping around.
Talk to some business guys that are competent business people in your area.
Ask them for advice on who a good tax attorney or a tax pro is and let them dig in.
You don't need to do anything.
You don't worry about baby steps.
No, this is job one.
IRS.
Yes, job one.
That's what you're doing.
And, Cesar, make the area focus.
Don't come up with excuses.
Pick up the phone, call, set up a time to go sit down.
Gather up.
Find out all the documents you're going to need.
Because you're going to have to do legwork here.
But trust me, it's worth it because it's dealing with the IRS.
Yeah, a good tax professional can tell you if you need to get on an installment plan
and what level you need to do to get the barking dogs off your heel
while you get this stuff filed.
But, dude, you don't wait 30 seconds.
You get this stuff filed now.
This is an overdue term paper.
And this is killing you.
And these people have unlimited freaking power.
It is unbelievable what they can do to your life if they choose to.
So I really, really, really want them to go away.
Yes.
I want you to get the paperwork done, and you don't have anything that's more important in your life for the next two weeks
other than get all of this filed as soon as possible.
Don't drag it out three months.
Don't drag it out two months.
File the stuff.
Get with somebody.
Get the work done.
You know, get you a cup of
coffee and work into the work into the wee hours of the morning get this done baby whatever they
tell you to do because here's the reality is some tweaking and the proper filings again has the
ability to wipe some of this out this is a this is a huge opportunity sounds like a good portion
of it can be wiped out it really like they've impugned it on him because he didn't do proper filing, and they guessed.
That's right.
And the IRS never guesses low.
Low.
It's a rule of theirs.
It's written somewhere in a book, I'm sure.
I've dealt with them.
Oh, God.
Oh, me too.
If you have an interest in the penalties on this stuff, and it all goes away with properly amended filing, or a large portion of it does, then that's the stuff you should have been working on all these years.
A long time ago, yes.
And then, once that's out of the way, you're down to just $40,000 worth of debt.
Now you've got to attack your debt.
That's right.
Chris Hogan, good work today.
Thank you, sir. It's a pleasure to be with you.
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