The Ramsey Show - App - No Matter Your Income, You Have To Know Where Your Money Is Going

Episode Date: August 21, 2025

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From the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey show, where we help people, build wealth, do work that they love, and create actual amazing relationships. Rachel Cruz, Ramsey personality, number one bestselling author, host of the Rachel Cruz show, and my daughter, is my co-host today. Phone number here is 3,8-825-5-2-2-25. April is in Michigan. Hi, April. How are you? I'm doing excellent. Thank you so much for taking my call.

Sure. What's up? We have an interesting situation. My mother-in-law is in the end stages of advanced Alzheimer's disease. She's 89 years old and continues to have a decline. she was amazing with money she's got a great mistake will well live beyond you know her money will live out with her by lots of years she has a huge coin collection um and we are trying to figure out how we can best get that appraised by somebody that's reliable she has Morgan silver dollars

Liberty heads she has gold coins from the 1800s some are uncirculated in a mint condition and others are, I mean, she has a literal bag of silver dollars that are probably just worth their weight. So the only places around us that would look at the coins are pawn shops, and I know that that's not a great place to start. So I'm just looking for advice on how we find a reliable appraiser. I don't know. All I did, I had a box of coins that an elderly family member had given us.

They probably weren't as good as what you've got. There were some in there that were valuable. I just, I, I called around to some jewelry stores and asked who was a coin dealer. I'm looking for a coin dealer, somebody that buys and sells coins. And, and I actually, you know, just, I said, okay, if you appraise these for me, would you be interested in some of them, maybe? And the guy did it, and it really was inexpensive. And I ended up with a huge bag of wheat pennies that we just took to the bank.

And then the other stuff, we just sold it to him. And there wasn't anything in there that was outstanding. I think a couple of these things you're describing might be outstanding. I don't know. But you're looking for a coin dealer, a local coin dealer. Local or even, I mean, the internet, I bet you could find somebody good. Yeah, the only problem is you don't, you got to really be able to, you're going to have to ship them to them. And that can be heavy and expensive.

And so if they're out of town. And so, again, I just, we're in that. the Nashville area, and we found a guy here in Nashville that was a coin dealer and, you know, start poking around. I can't remember. I think it was a jewelry store or a friend of mine that on a pawn shop that told me who the coin dealer was. I might have just found it on Google.

I don't remember. It was about, it was probably eight years ago or something like that that I did that. So that's how I did it. It really wasn't some kind of insightful thing. I just scratched around and found somebody, but you want somebody that's in the coin world, a coin collector, if you could find somebody that just is running a local social media page on coin collection even, and just start poking around on that, they would know someone to appraise it.

Or maybe you could just find somebody that's doing it as a hobby to appraise it and pay them for doing that, you know, and if you felt good about their knowledge base, and the thing we didn't want to do is we didn't want to just roll it all and send it to the bank. And then find out there was one of those stinking wheat pennies that was worth $10,000 or something. And so we had him go through them. And he said, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, no. I don't know what a wheat penny is. It's a penny that has wheat on it in the early 1900s.

Oh. And more valuable? No. Oh. Not much. It might be worth a penny and a half. Okay. But it's not worth screwing with.

But most of the time. I got you. I got you. The ones that we had weren't. And so, um, yeah. Anyway, that's how we did, hon. And I just check. out I'd run around and uh coin dealers coin collectors uh you know people that do any kind of

uh art appraising maybe it's someone that does art they may know someone in the coin world because all of these will fall in the collectibles category as far as uh a hobby or something goes same kind of thing so hey good question thanks for calling in mary is in new jersey hi mary how are you i'm doing well how are you better than i deserve what's up So I'm calling because I want to know if I should take on a new job, just to an additional job on top of the job I have, rather. I have a great job. My husband and I, we have student debt about, I think his is 95 minus 75.

We don't really have credit card debt. and we have a card that we're making payments on, but we're going to a tax that so that we don't have that anymore. I've been watching a lot of your shows, and it's really convicted me and my heart on how I needed to just be more supportive of my husband, as he's amazing and he's so wonderful. and I just want to be a better teammate with him to attack these debts. We're also fairly new parents, and this is the first time in my life where I don't have multiple jobs,

and I'm spending, you know, I work late, but I'm spending time with my daughter as much as I can. And I just, I want to be a team with my husband so we can do better. So is he already on board, Mary? oh yeah oh yeah okay so you're the one kind of catching up i guess in the sense yes okay yeah yeah and how long has have you guys been talking about this um i so he's been so he read one of the dave rancy books uh a long a long time ago and that's actually how we're out of credit card debt um i have anxiety and for the longest time like talking about the finances would kind of make me spend out. I'm in a better place now. I'm getting

help for it. Good for you. And like for the first time I was able to do the goal to like open this massive spreadsheet that he made and look at it without freaking out and say like, okay, babe, explain this to me how this works. That's huge. Well, and honestly, Mary, I mean, that's that's the way to be a great teammate. Do you know what I'm saying? And it's not that you have to go along with every single thing. If you have opinions too, I think it's healthy to say those and you guys work. work through it together as two adults, but I think getting to a place, which I think we all have in our lives and in our marriages where you look at your spouse and you're like, okay, what you've been doing is better than my plan. And there's a level of humility there to say, all right,

I'm on board. I want to, I want to do this with you. And just that attitude shifts, Mary, I mean, give yourself credit because I mean, that's huge. That's what a lot of people wish their spouse even came close to to be able to say, I want to be a team. And, I want to do this together. And then the way you guys tactically execute it is going to be up to you all. And so, yeah, if you think I may need an extra job, I need to maybe bring in some extra money, you guys map that out and just say, okay, what if you did take on an extra job? How long and how many hours would you have to work for you guys to be debt-free in X amount

of time? Or if you didn't take an extra job as a new mom and you just worked yours, but you know, you guys tightened up the budget otherwise. It would probably take you a little bit longer, but maybe y'all are okay with that for this season as new parents, right? So it gets down to a values conversation between the both of you at that point to decide how fast do we want to do this, how aggressive do we want to do it. And the faster you do it, Mary, the faster you're out.

And so you guys are going to have to pick kind of which route you want to take and you guys do that together. But I'm excited for you guys. I think it's awesome. And I'm sure your husband's jumping up and down inside that he got you on board. Helen's in New York. Hi, Helen. How are you?

Good. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up? So my husband wants to buy a seven-passenger family-type luxury car that will cost about $90,000. And I am fine with him buying the car. But when it comes down to actually purchasing it, each time he stops. and says, oh, there's better stuff we could do with our money, we shouldn't spend this on a car.

But we have no debt, our house is paid off, he makes over $400,000 a year. I don't want him to buy a cheaper car like a Chevy or a Ford and then not be happy and have the regret that I should have spent the money on the more expensive car that I really want. how old is he he is in the 60 62 okay and 400,000 year income no debt house is paid for included how much is in you guys nest egg what's your net worth over four million okay all right the way that my wife and I make these decisions Helen is um we ask ourselves if we take that amount of money, $90,000, and we burn it in the middle of the floor, does it affect our life? And the answer in your equation is, other than you would cry, it would not affect your life.

Correct. You could throw $90,000 out the window of the house and watch the neighbors scramble, and it would not affect your life. You wouldn't even know what happened because you have $4 million. plus a paid-for-house, plus a $400,000 income. This is a very reasonable purchase given your numbers. And I just add that that way I know I'm not being irresponsible. If you flinch when you do it, not from the emotions, but from the mathematics.

And I'll give you an example, okay? If you told me it was 400K, well, that's one year's income. That's 10% of your net worth. That's too much. okay and so that math math the math on that says i would feel it helen how did he grow up what was his upbringing so we both grew up with uh parents that probably struggled a little while we were growing up but then did better we have never had credit card debt we've never made like crazy car purchases this is not a crazy car purchases this is not a

We were out of college. We paid off our loan. Yeah. What car is it? Because to me, it's not a math problem. He knows math. He's a smart guy. He's making $400,000.

I mean, like, he's smart. It's not a math problem. This is all an emotional problem. There's fear driving this. Yeah. There's stress. There's a level of control. I mean, like, you know what they mean?

Like, all of that is what's causing it. As a desire to be responsible. And my point is, it's not irresponsible. I don't think it's a desire. I think he has been responsible. I know. I mean, that he's afraid he. He's being irresponsible.

Right, which comes out of fear. The motivator, yeah, is irrational. You know what I mean? What car is it? It's a BMW. And I just don't want him to buy a cheaper car. Well, I don't care about that. I do want him to buy a cheaper car if he can't afford it.

But in this case, he can afford the Beamer. Go get it. Yeah, I definitely would buy this car. You can tell him I said so. I don't want him in two years to say, oh, I should have bought. it. Well, you know what? And when we bought, we're getting rid of and we're buying it. Yeah, that's not the reason he should buy it. Yeah. I disagree. The reason he should buy it is the amount of money is irrelevant because you guys have done such a good job and you should enjoy

your life. Yeah. Because he could buy the Ford and then in two years regret it and go by the B-mer. Nothing would, I mean, like, that's fine, right? Like, that's not the thing. The issue I would have with him is what is going on within you. That's the fascinating thing about money is we always say, you know, take control of your money. Do a budget. You be the one to control your money and we do that because so many people they're not in control and it's like they have no clue where it's going and on one end we see that and then on the other end people take the extreme of take control and it's such control that it almost becomes an idol this level of like i don't want to let go and that stress and anxiety that's not freedom either right so you have to find that balance and it's

hard because we see we see this a lot i feel like of people that have worked the plan and paid off their house and they they don't want to go on vacation because they're so fearful oh god am i going to mess this up, is this okay? And that's in much bondage, right? I mean, from an emotional sense. Live like no one else so that later you can live and give like no one else. So make sure your generosity is where it should be, make sure your investing is where it should be, make sure if you're going to consume or blow some money on something, that it's an amount of money that does not affect your life. And it's a small enough ratio, small enough percentage of that. And so you don't have think about it and you're there you've worked your tail off you guys have worked your tails off for

40 years you've earned the right to do this not because of their hard work but because of the results of your hard work if you worked your whole life really if you work really hard and saved no money and had no money then you haven't earned the right to buy the beamer but you have the pile of money as a result of your hard work and so you should enjoy the fruits of your labor at this point that's how we ought to do it good question tyson's in boise idaho hey tyson what's up hey guys thanks for taking my call today sure first time uh first time calling in well we're honored um a couple things so i've always kind of lived my wife and i have uh lived dav dav davy adjacent is kind of like my my affectionate way of saying that means you were right part of the time

we have six months of savings uh like emergency fund um we have We put 18 to 19% of our annual income into retirement. That includes 401K and maxing out Ross for each of us each year. We have a small amount, about five grand each in our twins, the five years old twins college accounts. So we're doing some stuff. My one question is we have $19,000 worth of truck bet. The truck isn't upside down.

It's a nice Toyota Tundra, just looking for some advice. Should we borrow from ourselves and our Roth? No. Or should we just continue down the path of paying this thing off in six to eight months? Well, don't you have money saved in an emergency fund? We do, and I don't, I guess there's preposition on should we pull the money out of our six-month fund just to pay that down. Yes. Seems like a dumb question. You should pay your truck off today, or you should sell it, one of the two.

Okay, one of the two. I pay it off today, and then I would take the six months and rebuild my emergency fund. But you get enough. And then we're working to pay off our house after that. So we're good there, man. We're super close. Exactly. Yeah, it's pretty simple.

And don't buy another truck, dude, unless you have the money and you write the check. No more debt. The key to building wealth is not having stupid truck payments. And I like, and I drove my truck today. I like a good truck. There's nothing wrong with that. They parked it kind of sideways. Well, that's because that way nobody can hit the door on the new Raptor.

Well, my Tesla is literally parked right next to you at the charger station. I thought his parking. You people that charge cars can hit other people's doors. I know about you people. So I park it where you can't get to my Raptor and mess it up. So don't mess up my truck. Well, you're the one picking on my parking style. But the, anyway, the.

James knows. It's intentional. It's not because I don't know how to park. Okay. So it's keep you people off my truck. But anyway, the, yeah, I want you to get a truck Tyson. I want your truck to get you. And truck payments are, when you, folks, when you sign a car pay.

agreement and you say I want a car payment right under that it says I am committed to being in the middle class the rest of my life car payments are the mantra the the motto of the middle class you're always going to have a car payment you might as well have a big one just get what you want life's too short got to have an airbag on the passenger side this not my mother-in-law. Everybody's got a saying about a car. They always, you know, it's not safe. My little babies, you're all going to die because the car is four years old.

Oh, shut up. Car payments are basically signing up and saying, yeah, I want to be in the middle class. What are you taking? From age 25 to 65, if you didn't have a $700 car payment every month, you just invested it. You'd have $4.4 million at 65. Hope you like the car. There you go. There's your $4 million car.

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What's up? Hey, I got a quick question for you. So I'm a junior in college, and I have about $85,000 in my $529 account. I was wondering if I should be using that just for tuition and material cost, or if I could be using it for my living expenses as well. I think you can use it for your living expenses as well, as far as the on-campus housing and that kind of thing. You'd need to check that because I'm not positive doing that off the top of my head.

Have you gotten any scholarship? Yes. So that, yes. So my scholarships cover about 50% of the cost. The only other cost I pay is about $3,000 and a half thousand dollars in tuition every semester. You can, you can remove the value of your scholarships from your 529 without penalty. Oh, okay, really? And then you could use that for living expenses for sure. Okay. Or anything you want to use it for, for that matter. But yeah, how much per semester are you getting in scholarships, Colin? Um, about $3,500. Okay.

I'm just thinking, because you have how much in the $529? 85 or 83. Yeah. So you've gotten $7,000 a year for two or three years, right? Yep, that's correct. Okay. So, I mean, you pull probably $25 out of it without any trouble at all. You've just got to be able, in the case of an audit, you've got to be able to document

the amount of the value of the scholarship. Okay. Okay. And, uh, so sometimes scholarships are, are not an actual dollar amount. a thing that they're giving you and you need to put a value on that thing if you get something like that like if you got free housing or something that kind of a thing so but yeah you can pull that much out so I know that can be done as far as the remaining money can it actually be used for living expenses I'm not 100% sure but I feel like there's something in that

I'm reading that you can use it for qualified room and board including on campus housing and off campus rent qualified okay qualified and Colin you can roll over 35 thousand of it when the account's been open for 15 years into your Roth IRA. Yes, I didn't know that. Okay, yeah, so that passed, which is great. So, yeah, so if you, which you'll be close to that, ish, with the 24,000. There's a bunch of stipulations on that. That's under Biden's Secure Act, and it's not great.

Oh, really? I've heard people starting to do it. Yeah, it's very difficult. You can do it. Well, I would do it. I would look into it and sit there. I'd clean it out. But he's not going to be able to clean it out.

He's got $83,000, 20-something in scholarships. It's $50,000. He's not going to live on $50,000 in two years. Probably not, yeah. So, I would look. The other thing you can do is you actually can hold it. It can be used for your kids someday. How great is that, though?

You can be used for... Would you keep it in or would you try to roll it to a rock? Once you realize how hard it is to roll, I might keep it for a while. And just wait for... Well, I mean, during the 15 years, you've got to wait anyway. Yeah, yeah, yeah. A lot of your life's going to happen, then you could decide. Sure, sure.

intelligently, but you don't have to decide that today. You have to leave it in there for that period of time, or be penalized. Unless his parents opened it when he was two, and it's 19, it's been open for, it could be open for 15 years. Correct? Isn't it when you start the 529? I don't know. Okay.

I don't know. I had it under the impression after you finished school that the 15 years started. And so you were up in your 30s before you could do it. I don't know. Some options, Colin. But at least use it for living expenses. main thing I would do is I'd get the scholarship money out and I'd use it for the living expenses and then let's see what's left.

What's left, hopefully, it'll be negligible and it won't matter. And that would be good. You've done a great job, by the way. That's awesome. That's awesome. Way to go, Colin. Yeah. All right.

Matt's in Greenville, South Carolina. Hey, Matt. Hey, how's it going? Better than I deserve. What's up? Well, Dave, I guess I'm just struggling with a career problem because I got married in 2014. And ever since then, I've only been making $40,000 a year and the different jobs I've had up through this point,

and I'm trying to figure out a way to grow in a career, and it just seems like all I'm doing is working and exhausting myself, coming home tired, and I'm just, and I feel just so spent. Like, I just don't know what to do anymore. What do you do? I'm a package delivery driver. Oh, okay. Yeah, that's hard work.

Yeah. So you're putting in 40 hours, and you're working for, like, ups, or are you working for Amazon or what? FedEx. FedEx, the other one, okay, left one else, sorry. Okay. So what are you making, like 60 or 70? No, I'm making 40.

Oh, you said 40. Really? I thought FedEx drivers did better than that. Okay. I wish. Okay. All right, well, it comes down to a couple of things. Obviously, what you've done is,

you took a job because you're a responsible person so that you could pay your bills to eat and feed your family, right? Yes, absolutely. That's your first big deal. Get people to do that sometimes is hard. And then the second, once you've got that covered, then the second thing to do is, okay, ask the question that you're asking. So you're doing all the things in the right order, and the question is, okay, now, how do I

move careers into something that I can make 140,000? what's that look like and then you start asking yourself okay what are those careers what are the things i'm good at what are my natural bents uh what might what training might i need to get that i haven't had to move into that area um you know but uh there's probably something you've dreamed about doing maybe opening your own business i mean i don't know but i i know guys running pressure washing companies that are making 100k okay hmm and obviously that's not right pocket science. Right, yeah.

You don't have to go back and get the pressure washing degree, right? So, you run down to Home Depot, buy one and knock on somebody's door, and here we go. And so, you know, but you've got to lean into it, and you've got to be aggressive and ambitious and all those kinds of things. And you have all of that because you're asking this question. That's what that tells me. If you weren't asking us questions where we'd really have a problem. Is there anything Matt in your head that you've always thought about or kind of dream

about an ideal career? I could do this and make $150,000 a year. What would it be? Well, honestly, to tell you the truth, I would love to, you know, teach people how to get out of debt because, I mean, my wife and I have been debt-free and we have an emergency fund.

We've been following you for the last 10 years, and we've just been struggling to save for our house. But, I mean, we, and the fact that we've only made this much money and we've been able to get this far, I mean, tells me that, you know, I can do this and I could teach other people how to do it. So helping people is a big thing. Yeah.

Well, Ken Coleman talks about find the work you're wired to do. And there's elements of people where there's like kind of this natural thing that comes out of them. Right. So for you, it's helping people. And it may be in the avenue of money. It could be something else that you realize. Oh my gosh. I'm really good at that.

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Head to Y-R-R-R-E-F-Y. Find out more. That's the letter Y-R-E-F-Y.com slash Ramsey, not in all states. Today's question comes from Cameron in Kansas. My wife and I are on Baby Steps 4, 5, and 6. We are both raised by hardcore Ramsey followers, except my dad, who became a little Ramsey-ish once he hit Baby Step 7. He opened up a credit card in my name when I went to college so I could easily buy a house one day.

The card lives in his basement and has only used once a month for the family television subscription bill, which is paid off every month. I've never seen the card. My wife and I don't care about having good credit. Should I ask my dad to cancel the card? so my credit score disappears or just leave it alone since it's not hurting anything. Oh, I would get rid of it. This is gross.

I would get rid of it, Cameron. I mean, I'm not worried about the credit thing. It's your violation of your boundaries. You're like an adult and stuff. My card lives in my dad's basement. That's whacked. Yeah. How about you chop up the card and close the account like a grown man and your dad doesn't interfere

in a grown man's life. If he wants to do something with his life, he can go do something with his life, but he shouldn't be doing this with his grown son. I would no more do something like that to one of my children than fly out of the moon, even if I was right, you know? And in this case, he's both things, a boundary violator and not right. And you're wrong. So, yeah, no, you should definitely call him and go, dude, we're not doing this anymore. Chop, chop, chop, close, close, close.

You pay for your... Yeah, that's a good point. With all this stuff, it's like, whatever, but it's, it is the boundary violation that your dad has a financial string attached to you, basically, that he's kind of in charge of. It's weird, weird. Yeah, it's way out of control. All right, in Virginia, it is, is it LARF? Is that right? Yes, sir.

Hi, Dave. Hey, what's up? Hey, thanks for taking my call today. Sure. My wife and I are both 26 years old. We're completely out of debt, and we're currently on baby step number four. Good. My question for you is we're trying to figure out how aggressive we need to be with purchasing our first home.

So we currently rent here in northern Virginia, just outside of D.C., and our rent is pretty expensive, but we have good jobs out here, so we stick around. But I know that you say during steps, baby step one, two, and three, you need to be like a gazelle with some fire underneath you. And we've definitely done that. But now that we're on baby step number four, we're not quite sure how much of our income to put towards our first home. Well, obviously, the more you put towards it, the more the down payment is and the smaller the debt is. So as much as we can do and still accomplish some of these other things. we call this baby step 3b you may have heard us talk about that when you're between baby step three where you finish your get out of debt plan except your house you're say now saving for a house

and you've got your emergency fund in place so that's after baby step three in other words but before we start baby step four some people put everything they can scrape together towards a down payment to build up a big one very quick and delay starting baby step four 15 percent of your income going into retirement for two or three years to pile up a big old pile of cash for a down payment. That's the one end of the extreme. The other end of the extreme is to put all 15% away into retirement and do as much down payment as you can do above that. Anywhere in between is okay.

Sometimes people do 10% for retirement and then load their down payment fund as quick as they can. Anywhere in there's all we want to do. I do not want to delay starting retirement more than about three. maybe four years. And the lowest amount of a down payment we recommend is 5%. But if you can do more, obviously, that's better. So what's your household income?

So our household income gross is about $160,000 a year. Good. Very good. Okay. So we currently are putting about $1,000 a month into a high-yield savings account to save up for our down payment. And ideally, we would like about $100,000 so we can do about 20% on our first home is what our goal is. You're not going to get there in $1,000 a month.

Right, which is, you know, we're trying to figure out, you know, should we cut out certain things in our life to help us get there sooner? Have you started the retirement savings? We are. We have about 15% of our income is going towards retirement. How much is that per month? Do you know what that would be cash-wise if you put it back in your paycheck? Um, I'm not sure. I would imagine, um, it's, it's somewhere around two to two and a half thousand.

Yeah. I'm, I, I would look at stopping my retirement temporarily and throwing all of that in the down payment because that starts to be $36,000 a year. That puts you in a house in three years at your $100,000 goal. And then you start your retirement. Okay. You're not going to get there at $12,000 a year. And you guys are 24.

Is that what you said? 26. So you'll be 29 and buying a house with $100,000 down. Start your retirement then. You'll be multimillionaires. That sounds lovely. Yeah. But I just don't think the 12 is, that sounds like a 10-year plan.

That's not a plan, right? Yeah, I mean, that's kind of where we're ahead of that, too, and we really looked at it. We're not sure how long it's going to take us to get there, especially with housing only going up. Exactly. Exactly. So yeah, I think 36 months of saving and delaying your retirement, I just said, three to four years and doing 100% of your game plan on that snowball, I mean on the down payment fund instead of be funding retirement temporarily is what I would do because I'd be wanting to get into a house. And I think you are too. So, yeah, that makes a lot of sense with the math in your situation. Now, sometimes folks can do both and still get there, you know, and get to their good, strong down

payment. And that's a 20% down is what he's aiming at. And that, by the way, if you put down 20% on a Fannie Mae, a standard conventional mortgage, which is the least expensive mortgage of the conforming mortgages, and if you put down 20%, you avoid PMI private mortgage insurance, which is about $75 a month per $100,000 borrowed. And so it's, you know, it's 300 bucks a month for a $400,000 mortgage if you don't put down 20%. That's a lot. Again, that's $3,600 a year. That starts to be almost 1% of your mortgage amount that you're paying out an insurance. And all private mortgage insurance is, folks, it's insurance that the mortgage company requires you to buy for them.

In the event they have to foreclose on you and they lose money on the house because you didn't put it down a big payment, down payment, then this insurance covers the difference. and they don't require that if you put down 20% because they've got the margin. They know with that loan to value ratio that they're safe and if they did have to foreclose, they're not going to lose money. But when you're north of 80% on the loan to value, if you don't put down at least 20%,

then they're going to require that. And it's expensive and it's useless. It's basically foreclosure insurance for the mortgage company, but you have to pay for it. That's why it's aggravating. and so yeah I love to see people put down 20% because of that but again first time homebuyers Rachel's right

we don't yell at you for putting down 5% but you're paying a premium when you do that right well and I mean it's kind of that like tension of the market's not going down right and so if you have to wait another three four five years to save the 20% could you get in earlier from a cheaper standpoint it's kind of a little bit of that that game you kind of have to play

By the way, just as a side note, if you did take out a mortgage that has MIP, mortgage insurance premium on FHA or PMI, when you do get it paid down to that ratio, you can request they stop it. You have the right to stop paying for the insurance once it gets down to there. If you're doing it based on the fact that the value has gone up and now I've got 20% equity, not just paid it down to 80%, you may have to pay for an appraisal, but a $400 or $500 appraisal is nothing compared to the cost of PMI. That's a good point.

And so, you know, that's not a big deal. Now, don't just go get any appraisal. You've got to get one that's approved by your mortgage company because they're the ones have to accept it in order to drop the PMI. So you can get out of this. It's not forever, but you just kind of got to be thoughtful about how you're doing it and not just assume you're going to have it forever because you don't want it forever. It's too stinking expensive.

From the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, it's the Ramsey show welcome back rachel cruz ramsey personality is my co-host today number one bestselling author and my daughter joe is with us in north carolina hi joe how are you good how are you guys doing better than i deserve what's up so i'm looking to transition from my full-time job to doing my side business full-time and i'm just wondering how to set myself up financially when I'm ready to make that move. Well, the best way to do it is to raise the income of the side business to where it's within reach of your day job.

Okay. In other words, we always say pull the boat up really close to the dock before you, so you can step into the boat instead of having to leap and hope you hit the boat. So, meaning, so what is your income on your side business now? right now it's only about a thousand a month okay working weekends working weekends only yeah it's basically just saturdays what do you do uh mobile mechanic oh good okay cool and um so you got the truck and the tools and so forth yes okay that's neat um and what do you make on your day job um around 93 a year depending on overtime before everything okay so jumping from

93 to 12 is not a plan that's too scary um and there's two reasons it's too scary number one um if you had a big old savings account you'd burn through it to cover the difference number two you don't have proof that this business will scale um All you've got is $1,000 a month worth of proof, and I want more proof than that before I bet the farm on it, so to speak. So what can we do to add more hours and more income to the mobile business to get it to, gosh, let's get it to $60,000 from $12,000? Yeah, it would basically be a time issue.

Yeah. Because, like, I've had work coming in, but I can't even get to it all because I just don't have the time for, you know? Why? just because they only want to do it during work hours a lot of the times but i don't have time during the week after my full-time job and so like that's why i push on saturday um just because my schedule for the day you know i'm out of house early and then home later and so you're working more than 40 at your day job a lot of the times yeah because if you're working 40 you do have time Can you pull back on your main job at them and start supplementing some of those hours?

Maybe like twice, like two nights a week? Yeah, I might be able to. It's just, it's not predictable. So getting everything scheduled, like if I had a job scheduled, then that day at work, something happens and I'm unable to make it, you know? For your full-time job, you mean. What do you do during the day? I'm a diesel mechanic.

So why would you have to stay after? What was that? What do you mean if something happens during the day? Well, what happened during the day? Like if I'm on a job and it doesn't go as planned, you know, and then it ends up turning into a later, it takes longer than it should, you know what I mean? And you have to stay there and finish that job. You can't just like go.

You can't roll it until the next morning. No, and then there's also emergencies, emergency callouts as well that happened. How much of that job going over what is supposed to an emergency do you really have? um it depends i know but how much do you really have for time

no how often does that really happen or how often are you just electing to stay late no no i don't elect like i i would like uh 40 hours is fine for me like i don't that's the other that's why i'm trying to do the side business because I don't need all the, you know, money's good, but it's not like I don't need all the hours and stuff like that. Like, we're in a pretty good spot where we don't need all that extra income. I want to say, you know, it's bad, but.

So how much mobile business are you turning away? It probably ends up being one or two jobs a week just because I tell them I'm out a couple weeks. Which is how much, how much is a job worth on average? Uh, it'd be like 3 to 500, depending, some or more, but yeah, roughly around there. So a thousand bucks a week, possibly you're turning away. So close to $4,000 is what you could be doing on a minimum. Yeah, yeah, because I kind of did the math.

Well, that's good. I want you to start taking those jobs and booking them, even if you're, and just tell them if something blows up at work, I may have to push you a day, but I'm going to other, if I'm going to be there Tuesday, but if I get blown up Tuesday, I'm going to move it to Wednesday and we'll get to you. Okay, I want you to pick up some stuff. A couple of those jobs a night, a couple of those during the weeknights, and get this up to $3,000 anyway.

Have you got any savings? Yeah, I have, me and my wife have about 120 in 401Ks, and then we got about another 20 just in regular savings. You haven't got enough to do this, okay. That's what I was wondering. I was wondering if I should open another savings account and kind of put a bunch of money in there. Yeah.

Yeah, because you're not going to be able to get, I'd like for somebody making 94 to get their income to 60 to 70 before they make the leap. And you're not going to be able to do that in the situation you're in. But maybe we can get you up, maybe we can get you up to, you know, 36 or 40 or something and have a good healthy savings account. Those would be the two things I would do. I would not make this leap with any amount of savings in the bank when I only have a $1,000 income. Yeah, exactly. Because you have not proven the business idea is scalable. You think it is, but you have not proven it.

And you're counting, their family's counting on you to prove it. For what, six months consistently that it's coming in and then make the jump. Yeah, I mean, if you can get another $2,000 a week, that gets you to $36,000 by beefing up your Saturday a little bit tighter, working more hours. You're going to burn some candle oil here. Okay, you're going to burn the candle at both ends in order to get this thing going. That's the price you're going to pay to do this. Otherwise, you're going to take a leap of faith, which is called stupidity. Well, and again, it's this, the whole working to and trying to get this going.

Again, it's for six months. So you think about that. I mean, by February, you should be, yeah, for six months and do it. And then make it a leap. Your kids are whining, your wife's whining because they never see you. And, honey, that's the price we pay to get this other business up. and running enough that we can trust it for me to walk out of this other one. Yeah.

And I think you can do it. I think what you're doing is marketable in a world. Oh, my gosh. Convenience and luxury items. Convenience items and luxury items, and you're both, are at a premium. And they're the types of businesses that are doing the best. And so I think you're in the right place. The mobile grooming of dogs.

the mechanics that come to your house. I mean, all of it. I know exactly. That's what I'm saying. I'm like, the convenience world out there is just growing and growing. And people are willing to pay for it. But I am not betting your family's future on that when you've only made $12,000 a year.

I would not do that. That's bad business acumen. So we want more social proof, more proof in the marketplace that we can actually turn this into money. And if you could get it up to $36,000 and hold it there for six months and be about to collapse because all you do is, work all the time i'd be ready to i'd be ready to try if you especially if you had some savings and if your wife hasn't in good income we've failed to ask about that denise is with us in memphis hi denise how are you being okay good how can we help um i'm trying to figure out is there ever a point where you're actually saving too much no well the bible may have

I'm messing with you. I'm messing with you. That's fun. Okay, so why do you think you're saving too much? Well, we have seven kids, and it just seems like things are super tight, and my husband's very anxious about money. Okay. Well, are the kids eating?

Yes. Okay. What is super tight? It's just sometimes we dip down. into the savings and then we dip back out and it's just in order to do what in order to just do general living what's general living like well insurance groceries so you're saving so much that you're not budgeting properly for groceries well no we're we're budgeting for groceries I'm just saying that it seems like there's if you're budgeting

properly you would never dip into savings for groceries unless you were overspending on groceries yeah it just it just we don't have any it feels like we don't have any breathing room any margin in your budget yeah it feels like how much how much do you guys make a year 150,000 okay well that's enough to feed seven kids yeah okay so you shouldn't have a problem where do you think the overspending is occurring um well we're doing like 10 and and a half percent into the 401k, $3,500, and the HSA, and then we're doing an additional $15K in the Roth. I honestly think that insurance and groceries is just eating our lunch lately. How much are you spending on groceries?

So it's, okay, groceries plus what we pay to the school, I would say, about $1,500 a month. Are they in private paid to the school? No, no, no, no. Just like, it just costs us $100 every week for all five kids to eat at school. For lunch? Yes. Okay. All right.

And that would be, but that's not killing you on $100. So, okay, do you have a house debt? No. And you don't owe anything on your home? No, sir. And you don't owe any other debt? No. Okay.

And we have a lot in savings. We kind of did everything opposite of everyone. We paid everything off first, and then we had kids. And so we have a sizable retirement fund, and it just feels very strange to still be in a situation where my husband is getting upset about money when we're supposed to be doing that well on paper. That makes sense.

Yeah. Are you guys funding, you're giving out dollar amounts for your savings, is that what percentage-wise is that coming out she said 10 and a half plus 15,000 or 15 percent yeah for the rock no 15 thousand for the Roth plus the 3,500 for the HSA a year a year yeah that'd be right okay that's 18,000 dollars out of 150 yeah that's not that's not causing you a problem you know what you know what you guys are not doing a detailed every dollar budget that the two of you sit down and agree to before the month begins. You're throwing money and savings and hoping you can live with what's left over,

and when chaos hits, you dip back into the savings. Yeah, and usually by the next month, where savings is pretty much where it was before, but it's just my husband's just very stressed. Yeah, I heard that three times. You know why he's stressed? Because he doesn't have a plan. not because of the money. So if you will start the month before the month begins, get the every dollar budget, download it,

we'll give you the premium upgrade for free, and the two of you, both of you sit down and go, okay, here's what insurance costs. That comes out of this. Here's what lights cost. Here's what water costs. Here's what the school lunches cost. Here's what the grocery store costs. And then we save money.

I think you're going to find you have enough to do all of it. Because you guys are bringing home what? What's hitting your account in these every month? 9,000-ish. 8,641. Something's wrong. What is coming out of that check? That's only $100,000.

There's a little bit of savings for a trip that him and my daughter want to do. He, you know, obviously. Coming out of his check? No, no, no, afterwards. His check, just insurance cost and then the 10.5% for Roth in the $3,500 for the HSA. That's $18,000. We're $50, down. Yeah, it's like $120,000 after taxes.

So, yeah, I mean, it should be around $10. No, like $100,000 after taxes. Yeah. And so, yeah, you got something coming out of your check that's screwing up, too. Are you guys getting a large tax refund? we do and I throw that into the emergency fund or into the yeah but that's not what no we don't need a tax refund that's a savings account with the IRS that pays no interest and they give it to you once a year

Santa Claus does not live in Washington DC you know to adjust your W-2s and get the proper amount coming home so that there's no tax refund that will help your cash flow because you're not bringing home enough there's something wrong with your home coming home I honestly feel like if we weren't, if we like took home the amount that we get in the tax refund every year, I feel like it would be pretty much spot on. You have a feeling, but you don't know because y'all don't live on a budget. You guys have got to do a written, detailed plan. You're chaotic, and he's saving money on one side, and you're over here trying to keep

the family held together with duct tape and bailing wire on the other side because you don't have a freaking plan. You need a plan. Before the month begins, every dollar needs to be addressed. And I want to know why I make $150,000 and I'm only getting home with $100 because the numbers you're giving me don't add up to that. So you guys got to get into this stuff and learn where your freaking money's going, then make the proper amount come home and quit hoping that an IRS tax refund bails you out of your lack of organization and planning skills. So you have to manage this like it matters. If you don't make these dollars behave, they are not going to behave, and your husband is

going to remain stressed out, and you're going to remain feeling like, well, we should be able to do this, but it's all that savings, and it's not all that savings. The savings is not the math problem. You've given us the numbers. It's not there. So I know where the money is going. It's going to chaos and disorganization. That's where it's going.

if you guys will give every dollar an assignment every month for the rest of your life like your life depended on it and the two of you agree to it you're going to have all of this angst removed from your position the anxiety you're feeling and the anxiety he's feeling but you're not going to get rid of it by just tossing these numbers up in the air and trying to juggle them you're throwing them around like you're a circus act and you've got to set them down make them everyone behave I can hear I've done this for 30 years. I can hear it in the process you're using even discussing it with me. So you can do this. You have the money to be okay. But you, and I've given you the antidote. Now the only question is whether you're going to do it or not. So go to every dollar.

We're going to give you the every dollar. Help them download that Kelly and get it the premium version and we'll pay for it. Give it to her as a gift because you can do this. It's very doable. It's very doable. And please don't ever say we can't be responsible because we have a large family. because we have a large family. I don't think she did.

She didn't. She didn't. I was going to say I don't think she didn't. But I get that all the time. I hear Dave, you can't do the Dave Ramsey plant if you have a large family. And then we have people of eight kids stand up here and do a debt-free screen. So they do it all time.

It's a matter of fact, it's the only way you can be responsible with a large family is to be responsible and work a plan. It's the only, you don't have an option. It's like when you have seven kids, you don't have an option of one of them being a brat. They have to behave. So large families, the kids, they don't have, none of them are confused that they're the center of the world.

But if you got one or two, one of them can get confused about that. So, you know, it goes with the territory. It's a wonderful part of having a large family, but you have to be organized. You know the other thing large families can do? They can take pictures quickly. They're organized. They're organized. They line up, boop, boop, bo, bo, bo, bo, they line up, and little ducks, and then we take a picture real quick.

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okay, well, how do I do this or that? And yeah, so it's very helpful. How's that function? Yeah. Okay, cool. All right, Adam is whether it's in Springfield. Hi, Adam. Welcome to the Ramsey Show.

Hi, Dave, thanks for taking my call. Sure. I have a couple of questions. I grew up in a landscape family. I was family owned. I took over part of my dad's business, and my family grew. I sold it, and now I'm starting from scratch. And so we're about $5,000 of monthly income.

Good. We take home. Good. My wife and I, we, when I was young, my father helped me buy a farm, and my wife and I sold it to buy a home and incurred a lot of capital gains tax. Our company was running a lot of old trucks to get around the taxi to 179 and bought a new work truck to replace those before we sold the business. Now we're $61,000 in debt for that truck, and I know it's stupid.

It's crazy. I didn't, no excuses. We're selling that home and buying another property, borrowing $295,000. We have $180,000 that we have coming back to us from that home we're selling. And I don't know what steps we should do because. okay what price range truck do you need to operate the business it's not the one you have I don't I don't know exactly so I we ran all cash trucks for our first couple of years yeah they're like five to ten thousand dollar truck yeah and we still have a couple of

those old trucks sitting around oh and they were posted but I've started listening to your stuff just in the past week and my father used to listen to you years ago when I was a kid, but I started listening to you recently, and I started thinking, I wonder if I should sell that new truck and just pay their repair fees on these old trucks and use them. Yep. Yep. So in business, whatever equipment we need, whether it's me with a microphone or you with a weed eater,

whatever equipment we need to operate the business is a valid investment to cause the business to run. And the valid investment is I need the minimum reasonable amount to do the job. And I'll give you an example. We do a lot of stuff with technology where you're doing stuff with trucks, trailers, and mowers, right? But with technology, there's always something that's 10 times more expensive that's fancy. Kind of like a truck. Okay. And so we have a saying around Ramsey, we're always looking for MF minimal functional. What's the minimal thing we can buy that's functional and gets the job done? Because the only reason to buy a computer is if it makes me more than it costs,

not because somebody's going to think I have a fancy computer. The only reason for you to buy a truck is that the truck gets the work done. What's the cheapest truck that will get the work done? because anything past that is a luxury item and you ought to take your luxury items home. You shouldn't have those at work. Yes, sir. So, yes, I would definitely sell this truck. I'd beef those two old ones up, get them going.

And then you're probably going to need to buy a little bit better truck later on for cash to get rid of one of those junkers because they're going to start to be unreliable, which means they're not getting the job done. You can't miss a job because of stupid breakdown. Yeah, that's what happened. We had three trucks, and we had like one and a half them in the shop at a time. We spent $30,000 on repairs last year, and that's where I thought, oh, a new truck will make sense with a five-year warrant, $100,000. Yeah, no, it doesn't. But moving up out of a $5,000 truck into a $15,000 might make sense because of reliability issues only.

But again, all we're trying to do here, we're not trying to impress anybody. We're not trying to have a nice truck. All we're trying to do is get the job done. and so when the old ones are too junky to get the job done then they're too old to get the job done when the new ones like six times too fancy to get the job done then it was ridiculous and you've already determined that and so really you're kind of you it's almost like you need to sell all of them and buy two $15,000 ones uh all i'm trying to do is run the business and keep my overhead down yeah i understand that there's nothing

else motivating me here. How many trucks do you need, Adam, for where you guys are right now? If they're all running. So right now, right now, only one. Um, you only need one. You know what? I would take, you said you had three junkers? Two jumps. Yeah. Okay. And they'll bring five or six grand apiece, right, if they're repaired. Oh, they're pretty old. I think one's probably 4500. The other one's going to be like $3,000. Okay. All right. So you get $8,000 there. You see. sell the truck you're in, put a little money with it from the sale of the house and get about a $15,000 truck and let's go get our work done.

But systematically look at that thing and before it wears out, start saving up the money to buy its replacement or before you buy the number two truck because the business is growing, save up and buy a used truck. But you don't, we're not trying to make a luxury statement. We're not trying to impress anybody with our truck. I don't even know what my landscaper drives. I couldn't care less. All the one knows the yard get cut.

You know, I mean, come on. So, you know, that's all that matters is did you do the job? And now, if you didn't show up, then I start carrying what you drive because something broke, I guess. But anyway, minimal functional, minimal functional that'll get the job done. And that's how you run business. Everything else is just those of us that are entrepreneurs overspending and using our business as an excuse. And so that's a really, really. good question, especially from a new listener, Adam. Thank you very much. And I think you

kind of got a good plan here. And it sounds like you're going to do very well. You've got your head dialed in and you had good training from your dad on the business side of things it sounds like. And so, yeah, that's good. I think you're going to go in a great direction there. Judson's in Michigan. Hey, Judson, what's up? Hey, Dave. It's great to talk with you. I've actually kind of, I feel like I've grown up on your stuff. My parents have been longtime listeners out of Southern California. We moved to Michigan in 98. I am actually in the midst of selling my home and moving to the Great State of Tennessee where you reside. So, that being said, I don't actually have a place for me to move my family to. My wife's a horse trainer,

so I am stuck in a situation where I'm trying to figure out land value. You have a place to move your family to, you don't have a place to move the horses to. Yes, both. Right. Well, I mean, I can end up in a rental situation. No, you could end up in a family home, and the horses are somewhere else. Yes. Yeah, but horse trainers get confused about what family is.

Horses aren't family. They're a business. That's true. You and George Campbell. You and George Campbell with the horses. I didn't say sell the horses. I just said, go ahead. I'm sorry.

Right quick, what's your question? If I want to stay married, I will keep the horses. Yeah, I didn't say get rid of them. I just don't know if you have to own the land that they're sitting on. I'd like to. Yeah, I know you'd like to. We're managers of a decent-sized property right now. We're looking to move to Tennessee, and I'm not seeing prices.

match value, so it puts me in the situation where my dad is willing to co-sign with me on a... Yeah, that part where you're a long-time listener, are you and your dad, and you want to co-sign. Not a chance, dude. Not a chance. You're buying something you can't afford because you're trying to do something you shouldn't be doing. You guys have got to think through this a little more clearly.

Michael's in Raleigh. Hey, Michael, how are you? I'm doing well, Dave. How are you? Better than I deserve. What's up? So, me and my wife are on, Baby Step 2. We started out with around $101,000 in debt, and we are down to about 50.

Way to go. Yeah. How long did that take? We had about $49,000 cash savings that we dumped at half of it. Oh, so it took 10 minutes. Okay. Yeah, so, but it was actually a little less than 49, probably about $40,000. like 46 or so.

What is the remaining debt on? So the remaining debt is $46,000 in student loans and then we have $4,000 on a personal loan. Okay. Good. All right. And what's your household income, sir? It's about $150,000.

Good, good, excellent. Okay. Nice. And that's part of my question because I work full time. My wife stays at home with our kids. I'm in engineering. I started a side business to help assist with the debt. The problem with that is in working as much as I'm around 120 without the side business.

And I'm able to throw most of the money from the side business at the debt to try to pay it off quicker. But the problem with that is there's days where I don't even hardly get to see my son. And it's like an emotional thing for me. and I'm wondering how to navigate that, the sacrifice and I'm not seeing him, you know. How old is he? He's five, so he just started school, so, you know, a lot of times when I get off work, I go straight, and I just cut grass. I just cut grass like crazy.

Yeah. Just keep paying on the, how much are you making on that, on the side hustle? 30. You said 120 and 30, right? Yeah. Yeah, 30. The 150 is the total. Oh, it's total.

I'm sorry. I got you. I got you. Yeah. So the, but how long have you been doing this? This is our first year doing it. It just kind of skyrocketed. No, I mean, how long have you?

Because what you told me a while ago was you just pulled the money out of savings and threw it at the debt. And you really haven't paid off any debt much except that. Yeah, well, I've been doing this about three weeks, but it's been, because this is new because our son just started school. I was at home with him, but now that he's in school, I don't even hardly see him due to working in the evenings as well, basically. So I was home with him during the day.

Yeah, well, you have $40,000, you have $50,000 in debt. You're making $30,000 a year extra to throw at it, right? Yeah. Okay. What do you owe in your car? Nothing. We have no car payments. Student loans and personal loan.

I know, but I'm just checking. What are they worth? Uh, about 50,000 in cars. We own a Jeep Wrangler and a Tundra, but they're paid for. Okay. And the Tundra's for work. We paid the Jeep off with the lump sum. Yeah, what's the Tundra worth?

Probably about $12,000. So the other car, the Jeep is worth $38,000. No, yeah, I'm sorry. I got the math wrong. It's worth about Kelly Blue Book, like 25 to 28, somewhere around there. All right. Well, what I'm fishing for is, is there a way to short circuit and do this sooner than a year? Number one, you know, Raleigh, North Carolina, you can live on a lot less than $120,000 a year.

So your budget's not tightened down enough yet. And you quit eating out, quit going on vacation, live on nothing. Beans and rice, rice and beans. You've only been doing this three whole weeks, so it's not like you've really stretched out there yet, okay? So, yeah, but I think you crank your budget on down, tight, tight, tight, tight, because the more you crank it down, the faster you get out of debt, agreed. So I'd love to see a situation where you could see your way to being done in a year without selling the cars. If I can't, I'm probably selling her car so I can be done in a year, so I can see my son, because I want to be done in a year. You could do anything for a year.

Yeah, I was going to say, Michael, I feel like you guys could throw three to four thousand at this, get it 40, and then all your stuff on top of it. You guys could do this in a year. Yeah. That's what I'm projecting, and I'm still going hard at it. It's just, I'm not still doing anything. You've been doing it a whole three weeks. Yeah. You know, it's not like you've been doing this for two years, okay?

I mean, you've been, it's a whole three weeks. Now, the thing is, anytime you're going to win at something, you're going to pay a price to winning at it. What you are doing is you are investing some time now so that you have the rest of your whole life to have all the time in the world. You know, so today what I do with my kids or my grandkids is anything I want, anywhere in the world I want, because I can both afford the time and the money. Because decades ago, I paid a price. I was five when you were five

when you were five I was probably gone your mother was about a single mom yeah yeah and you lived through it and you had something to tell your counselor later but um but the abandonment was not one of the issues yeah it's good I mean when I'm home I'm home too by the way I turn off stupid television yeah okay don't tell me I'm spending quality time with a family

and Netflix is on that's that's not the that's the definition of not quality time with the family. So anyway, it's three whole weeks. You're going to be fine. I think it's worth the price you're paying. And I think when you look back on it at the end of a decade, at the end of two decades, at the end of three decades, you're going to say it's the best year of investment I ever made in my son was for me to get my family back to square where we could eat again and get away from this garbage and this mess so we can breathe. And now we're able to do anything. We're living like no one else so that later we can live like no one else. We work like no one

else so that later we can work like no one else. We drive a piece of crap so that later on I can drive anything I want to drive. Yeah, because Michael, if you had called us three weeks ago before you guys paid off the car, I'd probably tell you just to sell the car. Yeah, I think I might still. And put the extra money towards this debt. So I would, yeah, drive a crappy car so that you can be home. I would let you, I'd keep the trunderer. You're using it to pull the lawnmowers. I'd let her drive a crappy car right now. And then you guys save after that and you guys can upgrade in car, but it's kind of... But I'm going to take everything out of this budget.

In the name of every time I take a dollar out, it's a dollar sooner. I get to not be doing this. Think about how much you make an hour, and if you can save that, that's one less hour you have to work, right? And you kind of multiply that in your head. That'll make you cut lifestyle. I'm cutting this. I'm cutting that.

I'm cutting this. I'm cutting that. And I don't really care what other people think. but um you're you're um you know yes you're a good dad you love your kid you want to see your kid that's a good thing you should that means you're a good daddy and we need good daddies in america today there's not enough of them so thank you for being that guy but you you know for a short period of time you can turn the heat up for the good of your family's long play and you that's how to deal with the emotions that's how dealt with the emotions when we

started Ramsey. I came into work at 7 a.m. I got home at 11. I never saw a kid for two years. I mean, I was there on birthdays. I was there on some weekends and all Sundays. I did take Sundays off. But I worked like a maniac to get this thing up and running. And today, this thing allows our whole family generationally to do whatever we want to do. And I'm not a child psychologist, too, but I'm like, you don't really remember five years old. You know what I mean? I think it's harder to be away when you have kids. Well, it's harder on him than is a kid. That's right. That's true. That's true. Yeah. So I relate to his feelings. I'm glad you have those feelings. I mean, you're a good man. But don't treat it like it's, don't let the drama of those feelings override the

actual facts of the situation, which are that as a great man, a great husband, a great dad, you are pouring on the coals to get your family on a solid foundation. So you don't have to deal with it ever again. And if your wife is able to do something, too, to bring in some income, right? I mean, like all of you guys as a team together, how can we pay this off as fast as possible? How that he started school? Maybe there's something she can do. That's not a bad plan at all. Anything we can do like this, to shorten the time of the pain, and then the pain becomes more and more and more worth it, because then you never have to do it again, as long as you stay on these principles and don't go take out another truck payment or something. Welcome back to the Ramsey Show.

Rachel Cruz, Ramsey Personality, number one bestselling author. My daughter is my co-host today. Brady is in Mobile. Hi, Brady. How are you? Good. How are you guys doing? Better than I deserve.

What's up? Awesome. Thank you all for taking the call. I'm a huge fan and have been for a few years. Thank you. So I have a two-part question, but if we can, I'll ask the first part, and then if you feel we have time, maybe we can get to the second part. Okay.

So I'll sit the stage. So my wife and I, when we got married, we started traveling in the oil field working and started out making $20 an hour or whatever and, you know, have moved to this job, moved to that job all over the country about eight times. We're 27 now, when we started when we were about 19. And in that, you know, comes moving and keeping, and we have kids. We have two children. So we've been keeping them away from, you know, other family as well, not on purpose, but just the nature of the job, traveling with work. Um, so I have in-laws that are sometimes seem a little bitter about that. Um, but the first overall question, I guess, is at what point, because I can stay home and make 50, 60, maybe 70,000 a year doing what I do. But if I travel, like I am now, um, I'm making about 200,000 right now. So, you know, obviously a significant difference. And the question is, where is that fine line with, with greed? Of just chasing money to chase money.

Just make more money to make more money. Is that what you're saying? Yes, ma'am. And I'm wondering where that switches, because, you know, like the caller before, I have, you know, I feel like I'm as good as father as any or I definitely try to be. And right now I'm going from home about four days a week, and they're actually, we just took home last year. And so they're staying at home, and I'm traveling back and forth, you know, every three or four days. Yeah, that's a hard lifestyle to sustain for a long period of time with a family, in general, right? How old are the kiddos?

uh four and six months okay and um your wife is at home and you are traveling and that affects the in-laws how so and i apologize i got a little confusing there so for up until december of last year we were traveling and we were on the road and we just moved back home uh oh nine months ago okay so for the last nine months the in-laws if they want to see the kids just get up and come over there correct yes sir okay so they've been able to do that i hope they have okay cool and if you were traveling you were in another city you were there for weeks on end where you're not before before december uh yes sir correct so if you're in x y z city for with the family yeah if you're in x y c city for four or five weeks with the family the in-laws

could come there right i agree yeah so i think the in-laws are the they have their own issues yeah yeah they have their own issues i don't think his question was about the in-laws Well, they have accused him of being greedy. I think that's between the lines. Oh, is that what it is? Not verbally, but, you know, it's one of those things you can't pinpoint. Yeah. We don't get to, it's not convenient for us to come see the kids when we want to

the way we want to because of the way you work, so we're going to run down the way you work. Yeah. Exactly. Yes, sir. That's what I heard. Oh, I was reading between the lines. Okay. Okay.

The, yeah, so the thing you've got to go back to is. this. There is, um, Rachel and I did a book on parenting and one of the things we said were to teach kids is contentment because godliness with contentment is great gain. And a lot of people get really confused about the subject of contentment. They think ambition and contentment are on the same line and ambition is on one end and contentment is on the other. Um, I beg to differ. I'm highly ambitious, and I'm very content. They're not on the same spectrum. They're not one end of the line or the other end.

They're different lines. And so you can be a good dad, you can be a great dad, and be working your tail end off. As a matter of fact, generally great dads do that. And so, you know, greed is not an amount of money. it is not it is a state of your heart and why you're chasing the money if you're saying for a couple of years I'm going to burn the oil so that I don't have to the rest of my life burn the oil that's a good metaphor for you but I'm going to I'm going to turn up the heat no we don't want to do that either over there but whatever it is we're going to work really hard

for a couple of years so that we can make different choices later that's paying a price to win. That's going in the weight room and lifting weights so during the football game I can actually knock someone over. Okay. I'm paying a price here to win. There's a amount of work that has to be done to lay a foundation to go somewhere. If that's what you're doing, that's ambition that is not greed. Greed is unbridled ambition for the wrong reasons where you think more money is going to make you happy. You think more money is the end all. You think money is a God that you're worshiping. Instead, you can say, I want some more money, not because I want more money, but because of

what it does for me and my family. I want to change my family tree. I don't want these kids to have to worry about food or shoes. Or college. Or college, or the first car or whatever it is. I mean, we're going to get in a position that we can make choices and money don't cause us to. I used to work for a guy.

He said, I want to make enough money that I can read the menu left to right instead of starting with the price, right? On the right side. Most people read them in you from the price over and then decide what they're going to get. He goes, I'm going to read what I want to read and then order, and then I'll figure out what it costs, but because it's not going to make a deal. So that's what you're, you know, that's what you're all about there, Brady. And, you know, the other thing I found in coaching people all these years, people that ask a question like you asked about greed are never greedy people. greedy people would never ask the question because it doesn't occur to them that their that their worldview is skewed and screwed up instead you're actually weighing out my values i'm spending a lot of time i'm gone four days i got littles and this is bothering me well a guy that asks that question does not is not a greedy person by definition okay yes sir and so greed is not going to be your issue now do you want to

to adjust some of your goals and your values and say, okay, I'm going to work on my career to where in the next 18, 24 months, I can be home and make 100 instead of being on the road and making 200 or instead of coming home and making 50. I don't know what that looks like or how you do that, but I'm going to start to have that goal where I can come home and make. Yeah, I was going to say being gone three to four days a week, that's hard with little ones. And so unless you see an end to it very quickly, you say, I'm going to do it for one more year and then I'm going to take and then I'm by then I'm going to have a landing pad or I can come

back home and I'm going to cut my income in half but I'm going to be home yeah and you guys are still so young Brady that there's all there's an off ramp like maybe you guys take a season and you're off the road and then the kids hit middle school and you're like you know what I'm I'm going to shift back on and turn it back up and do this new thing for two to three years and then you're done like do you know I mean like sometimes we make decisions that feels like forever and it's not it's not at all I mean I've done that with my career I pulled back some after the third kid and you don't mean like you can make adjustments um as life as life comes and uh i don't know there's a level of that flexibility that i don't want you to feel like you're

stuck and you make a decision you're not stuck yeah and so if and you're not greedy no a hundred percent chance you're not greedy okay so um just because somebody's a travel agent for guilt trips that doesn't mean you're greedy okay so uh you're but i would have a plan yeah have a plan about it. That's right. Where it starts to bother you and bother me is if it's in perpetuation, if it's forever and ever. Let's have a plan where we're not doing this a whole life. We're doing this for a period of time to never have to do it again, that kind of thing. Buying or selling a home in the middle of all the drama that is the real estate market right

now requires that you don't participate in the drama, but instead you understand that facts are your friends. So the facts are that we are sitting at a 5.8% interest rate for a 15-year fixed. That's a fact. It's down a little. It's a fact that house prices have stayed almost identical for the last three months. The median household. The median house price in America today is about 440,000. And that's what it has been for that period of times, not move much at all. That's a fact. The fact is that we have over a million houses on the market right now, the largest inventory since 2019 in the last few months, and yet demand is still higher than inventory, which is causing prices to hold and

continue to go up in many areas. John is in California. Hey, John, how are you? I'm great, Dave. How are you guys doing? Better than we deserve. How can we help? well i give you a little background my wife and i are both retired and we're struggling and

trying to decide what we would like to do with what we've accumulated over our lifetime and specifically your viewpoint in regards to IRA conversions to Roth just to give you a few numbers we got about half a million dollars in literature mutual funds and bank account, and we've got about $4 million in IRA accounts. One million of that is already in a Roth, and $3 million is in a traditional IRA. And I've been looking at a bunch of numbers and reading a bunch of things, and what I'm trying to decide on is, is it better for us to try to do some conversions between now, and when we reach R&D at age 73, which is about seven years from now,

or just let our traditional IRA grow, and my concern is that if I just let it grow during our lifetime, you know, the R&Ds are going to be six-digit numbers. This is not money we need to live on. We live with in our means on just fixed income and have been able to, you know, accumulate a lot and not spend anything. And so now I just don't want to make a mistake with what we've been blessed to accumulate. So I'm curious what your viewpoints are about paying, you know, what I calculated to be

about $1.2 or $3 million over the next five or six years doing step conversions to Roth or just letting, you know, our three adult children inherit multi-milliones. traditional IRA someday. Honestly, the answer to your question, I stumbled into backwards. I did not, I was not smart enough to do it on purpose, but I accidentally did a brilliant thing to be very clear. And the brilliant thing was that early on, I converted everything to Roth. You and I are the same age.

I'm getting ready to be 65, okay? And everything is in Roth. And the reason that ends up, I did it just because I wanted the tax-free growth. that's the only reason I did it and so I started converting stuff many years ago and anytime anything popped up that was not that was traditional I immediately made it into Roth now the result is exactly what you're facing

and you've analyzed this very well you've done a good job you have two problems with the traditional that are mammoth problem number one is the RMDs the required minimum distribution is what that stands for for those of you that don't know John does and that means at 73 they require you to begin to distribute traditional because they are bent

on getting their taxes and so they make you take that that has never have been taxed yet and that is not tax free and begin to distribute it and as you said with three million dollars it's going to be over $100,000 and so that $100,000 comes out it's 100% taxable and so it's going to be reduced by 37% or whatever whatever the number is 30, 30,000. percent, whatever it ends up being, depending on what your other incomes are. But the, yeah, that's problem number one, is you're forced into RMDs. You do not have RMDs, as John knows, on Roth. And so I don't have any required minimum distributions facing me when I hit 73.

The second problem is that the traditional IRA or traditional 401K, when it becomes an inherited IRA, naming your child as the beneficiary, It goes to them or your wife and then later your child is a secondary beneficiary, however that works out. When they get that money under the Biden Secure Act, they are now required to liquidate that fund and pay taxes on all of it over a 10-year period of time. So 300,000 a year on $3 million. Oh, by the way, it's not going to be $3 million. It's going to be $9 million because you're going to $1 million. live a while okay and you're not touching it I'm on that thing page yeah so those are the those are the two problems and so that makes me it's pay me now pay me a lot more later is the

equation and so I'm going to start working out of this pretty quickly I'm going to use a substantial part of that 500k in mutual funds and after tax investments over there and I'm going to use that and move as much of the $3 million as I can this year. Right. And then I'm going to, as much as I, you know, and then I'm going to use the $3 million. What's left, I'm going to pay taxes out of it as I do it each year. And it's going to be a lesser amount when the smoke clears because of the stinking taxes. And then it's going to grow completely tax-free from then on, not be subject to RMDs.

You're back in control of your nesting. the stinking government's not got their meat hooks in you, and they don't get to hook your kid in the next generation when you leave it to them. So you leave a Roth IRA, tax free. They can cash it out the day the day you die, and they pay no

taxes on it. And so, because here's the thing, you're sitting on $4 million, there's $3 million in this thing, and if it's in good mutual funds, and by the time you hit RMDs, it's going to be $6 million, it will have doubled. And seven years later, when you're 80, and if you're in good health, your probability of living to 80 from 65 is very

high statistically, okay? So, then that $6 million is going to be $12 million. And if it's all sitting there hasn't paid taxes on it yet, except for the RMD portion, it's going to be substantial taxes. So, yeah, in terms of dollars. So it sucks right now, but it's going to triple suck later. I would do it. Yeah, you're telling me what I was hoping you were going to tell me. My wife isn't on the same page because she doesn't get excited about paying, you know. Well, you know, you want to pay taxes on $12 million or $3?

Yeah, it's a good way of putting it. You know, it's just a matter when you're going to do it. Somebody's going to do it someday. And if you guys don't use this money and it's invested at an average of 10 percent, it's going to double every seven years. and so you're going to get hammered like the last caller changing the family tree and the next generation you already have changed your family tree by the way you guys have done great i assume you started with nothing yeah we're everyday millionaire long time listeners first time caller for you but my wife's

a retired teacher and i'm a retired CPA so love it we've been been doing this for a long long time five categories of people who become millionaires, teachers and accountants of the top five. hear anything. Yeah, you did it. You did it. You guys are incredible. You've done a good analysis on it, John. You did have your facts straight. You know what you're talking about. You're just trying to think it through. And if I woke up in your shoes, I would use the majority of that 500 today. And that would move about two million of the three out. And then the other million that's laying there. I'm going to chunk it out over about three years and just take the hit, take the pain, and then be done with it. Is there a, is there a limits for how much you can convert per year? You just got to, you can do it all, but the taxes are all due. And he's got so much, he's going to have bracket creep anyway. He's going to max it out every year anyway. So there's no way to avoid his bracket creeps. There's no way to stage it, actually.

It makes sense. So I'm just going to rip the Band-Aid off. And it sucks. But welcome to tax law. In the lobby of Ramsey Solutions, you can watch this show be broadcast every day. We're on the glass from 1 to 4 Central. also in the lobby is the debt-free stage Brian is on it hey Brian how are you I'm good Dave how are you better than I deserve sir where do you live I live in Martinsburg West

Virginia cool welcome to Nashville and how much debt have you paid off sir about 44,000 cool how long did that take two years good for you and your range of income during that two years it went from 80,000 to approximately 139,000 wow what do you do for living I am a program analyst as a federal contractor assisting DHS. Wow. Okay, cool. In Martinsburg, West Virginia. Yeah, it's about an hour and a half west of D.C.

So, yeah. Nice. Okay, got you. All right. Very cool. It's a pretty area, too. It's very nice. Love it.

Very cool. So what kind of debt was the 44K? About 30,000 with student loans, and then about 14,000 was credit cards. Good for you. How old are you? I am going to be 37 on Saturday. Good for you. birthday thank you all right neat neat neat well way to go man thank you so what gets you started

on this whole ramsie thing uh two years ago well um about three years ago i closed on a house um i basically drained my savings account um kind of wanted to keep up with the joneses was not up with the ramsie stuff at that point um and that really acted as a forcing function because as soon as I closed on the house, I was renting it out to someone. They ended up not paying the rent. Being laid on the rent very consistently. So when they finally moved out after a couple months, it was the real deal. It was do or die.

I didn't have any margin for error. So I needed a solution. I knew that you were the guy when it came to personal finance. So I started Googling you and I just started breathing Ramsey, waking up, listening to it, hitting the shower, listening to the Ramsey show. doing laundry, listening to Ramsey, you know, in the car, just living it and just making that a cornerstone of my life. Very cool.

Very cool. That's neat. So you got everything you needed to know just off of YouTube binging. Well, Spotify binging, but yes. Essentially. Okay. Excuse me. Wrong hat.

Same thing. Yeah. Binging, nevertheless. So no book or no FPU class. Just straight up Spotify. Just straight up Spotify. I like it. for you. That's awesome. Okay, what was the biggest thing that helped you through that journey,

would you say? That you did, that you were like, if you went out of debt, this is what you got to do. Right. Well, really, it was just about finding a plan and limiting the extraneous expenses. Like, you know, maybe you got to stay in from the restaurant more nights per week. You know, maybe you got to go with a beater, beater car. Like, I got like a 20-year-old Hyundai Laundra that I still roll with. You know, it's got 139,000 miles on it. And, you know, and it's got a hundred thirty-three-nine thousand miles on it but i have no intent to trade it in because it still works for me you know um so just like being mindful of just the day to day those small decisions and just limiting those you know pennies that you're you're throwing into the ether um if you're not aware of it and thinking about it

so yeah it's amazing how much that all adds up absolutely yeah i mean it adds up to 44000 in two years. I mean, yeah, absolutely. And, you know, I mean, the student loans, I probably started out with 35,000 student loans when I graduated college. I only paid off maybe like 5,000 of that before I hit the Ramsey plan. So like when I got gazelle intense, like there was nothing that was going to stop me. I was throwing like 2,000 a month at, you know, my credit cards and my student loans. And that was just like what I did. That was like the biggest thing in my life going on at that moment. And I'm so glad it's all behind me because it was so worth it just buckling down like that you had an oh crap moment and you went all in exactly how long how many months were you in before you kind of

started going okay i'm no longer afraid i'm now getting excited this is going to work yeah um i would say it was probably like after that year mark after i was a year into it and i saw you know, I saw my student loans probably hit, because, you know, two years ago, it was probably at like $30,000. When I saw them hit like $14,000, maybe like a year ago, I was like, okay, I can see the end in sight and like, this is actually going to work, you know, and I'm going to be free. Yeah. The math was telling you before that, but the emotions kicked in when you hit about the halfway

point. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, that makes sense. So great. What was the hardest part of the two years for you? Hmm. The hardest part of those two years. I would just say like just resisting the temptation to live like, you know, everyone else. Yeah. Just like, you know, friends want to pull you out like, hey, come on out with us or, you know, hey, you want to go on this vacation or, you know, just different things or, you know, different, you know, there's always like ads online that are tempting you to buy stuff. You don't need. Subscriptions you don't need. So just saying no to all that. and saying no to like some of the flashy stuff in 21st century America was, you know,

it was just tough to like, you know, stay the course and stay tough. But it got easier over time, you know, as you get that practice under your belt. You know, it just becomes like momentum. Yeah, more normal. Yeah. You're used to it. Yeah. Exactly.

It's almost now when somebody looks at it and rolls their eyes or looks at you and smirks, you kind of smirk to yourself and go, you have no idea. Right. I got this. Exactly. I got this. I'm done. Yep.

You truly had an I've had at moment. You really did. Absolutely. And it started out fair-based and it ended joy-based. That's cool. Absolutely. I couldn't be more thankful. I mean, you guys have changed my life seriously.

You changed your life. We just walked you. Proud of you, man. Proud of you. Congratulations. Thank you. Were there people in your life cheering you on during it? Did people know what you were doing?

Or did you kind of keep it on the down low? I was kind of selective about who I told, you know, I would tell people at church, you know, they were cheering me on, you know, big Ramsey fans. my family, my immediate family, mom and dad. They were definitely cheering me on and stuff. You know, not a whole lot of skepticism out there from the people that I knew. But, you know, I did recognize that this was my kind of deal. This was my thing to focus on. So I wasn't really that chatty about who I shared it with. I just kind of buckled down and it was just kind of like full steam ahead. Like this has to be my focus because I was just so sick and tired of doing things the

way. Like, you know, the quality of life that I have right now, just, what, two months after paying off all my debt, like, it's immeasurably better than it was before I paid off all my debt. Amen. You know? So good. Because financially and would you say emotionally, do you feel like you've shifted feeling like, oh my gosh, I don't owe anyone anything? It's a huge weight off my back. I mean, I feel like I can, I mean, I don't want to say do anything, but like the options in

my life are so much greater. Like, you know, I was working, let's see, I was working like, two side hustles, and I was renting out a room in my tiny townhouse while I was paying down this debt. Now I just live with my new cat, kind of bought him as a gift after I got out of this debt. The debt free cat. Yeah, roommate exchange. Yeah, exactly. I was able to drop one of my freelance clients. I do some writing on the side. You know, so now I've got like just the one freelance client, live with my cat, you know, just live by my house, by myself in my little townhouse. And like, it's all worked out. So awesome. Yeah. It's great. It's great. it's just like so much less stress so much less to worry about and you know the ramsie way just

like really help me focus on like what's important and how to live a more fulfilling life so praise god man i'm proud of you yeah awesome very very well done very well done and i'm sure your parents are proud of you since they were cheering you on and watched you do this whole thing very cool definitely my dad's an accountant so he's definitely proud sure yeah he got it dialed in immediately yeah i like it yes sir brian from West Virginia, $44,000 paid off in two years, making 80 all the way up to 139, busting it to get out. Count it down.

Let's hear a debt-free scream. Three, two, one, I'm debt-free! Yeah! Yeah! You know, Rachel, when a young single guy like that does this stuff, it is, in a sense, it's harder for them because there's no one to hold them accountable. In another sense, it's easier for them because they don't have to talk somebody else into it. They just go do it.

That's right. That's right. Yeah, yeah. And so you got a little bit of advantage, a little bit of disadvantage when you're going at it. But he dialed it in, went for it, went straight down the line, boom, boom, boom. Well, it's just no crap. He's just like, just going to do it. Two years, be done.

Just matter of fact. Just do it. Just matter of fact. That's how it works. So great. Well done, sir. Well done. Our scripture of the day, James 1, 2, and 3.

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Benjamin Franklin said the Constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself. Ethan is in Texas. Hey, Ethan, what's up? How you doing, Dave? Better than I deserve.

How can I help? So I'm 23, and I'm working as a security officer in the oil field, making about 874 a week after tax. And I just, I struggle with a few things, primarily saving money, because I'm just not used to it. This is the most I've ever made, and it's more than I could make in town. I actually work pretty far outside of town, I have to drive. And, you know, most I can make back there is 15, 16 an hour. but I'm not really content with the, where I'm at. You know, I've gone pretty much as high as I can.

They want me to be a supervisor now, but it comes with a $10 an hour pay cut. Well, that's a great promotion. Jeez. Yeah, our site supervisors, they make the same as everybody else, and it's different for every site. So while I'm at, I get paid $8.74, but if I go to be a supervisor, they cut it dramatically.

but I'm making pretty good money for some of my age I think and I just struggle with saving it you know I have some debt from when I was 18 I didn't know about interest rates got some credit cards with 30% interest and I've been paying those I follow in your snowball much how much is your car payment my car I actually own my car it's old Lincoln my grandfather gave me but I have to make a lot of repairs on it, you know, just this month I've probably spent $2,000 buying parts.

Did you say you had housing furnished? Yes, my uncle has been gracious enough to let me come up here and live with him, so I have pretty much zero bills besides gas, car insurance, and my phone. Okay. All right, so the problem is you're not telling your money where to go, instead you're wondering where it went. Yeah, pretty much. yeah so being able to control because it's probably what around three grandish a month

yeah just about 3,000 is what you're bringing home before yeah after tax after taxes yes after tax and after I pay everything it's 3,096 okay after I pay everything I have to okay when you say pay everything you have to meaning your phone insurance all of that yeah if you're everything that I need to okay you know exist yeah so yeah so the remaining Ethan is, again, you just need a pretty detailed budget to know exactly where that money's going to go and what it's going to do. How much credit card debt do you have left to pay off? That's another issue is I've paid it off everything I can find, but a lot of it's been sold off to collection agencies and I end up not finding out about it until they finally send me a court

order suing me because I never get any calls or letters or anything about it. So I think it's around 4,000 total. I have three left I know of, but there's a lot that I just don't know who holds the debt. Have you pulled your credit report? Do you know what's outstanding? No, I haven't.

Okay, so I would do that. That'll give you some insight in who currently owns it and how to get in touch with them and begin to get balances on those things and settle them. You could probably settle them for what you originally owed real easily. Yeah, I've done that several times

with the ones I've had. Good. I think I sold one of those three times. $1,000 down to, I think, $800. So that's working out for me. Yeah, so you know how to do that. That's good. Okay, so basically, unless you're giving a lot of money away,

you're spending a lot of money on food, I mean, on fun. Yeah, I have a habit to buy and sell guitars. You know, I buy them a lot, you know, $1,000 here. Usually I make a profit, but sometimes I sit around for months at a time, and I end up letting them go for a loss. Some I make profit on, some I don't. And then, yeah, food as well. I think we found the hole in the bucket.

Yeah. How many guitars do you currently have right now that you're wanting to sell? Right now that I'm selling, I have six. Okay. So that'll help. Did you say guitars or cars? Guitars. Oh.

Music. Yeah, I'm a player. So I buy, sell, fix them up, and flip them. It's just they're hard to get rid of sometimes. Yeah. That's the hole in the bucket. Okay, because you're losing more money and you're making on that, and that's eating up what would have been savings.

Because you're not paying attention to it. You're paying attention to the guitar, but not the business of flipping. So if you're going to, if you're going to buy and sell more than one a year, you're going to start treating it like it's a business and being very detailed about what you pay for it versus what you spend on it versus what you sell it for. And you need to make a profit every time. Okay. Otherwise, you've got to quit screwing with this because it's just become an expensive hobby.

And, you know, guitars are fine. There's nothing wrong with them. Not evil, but they're not an investment. So it's just a small business idea as it is right now. You're with me? Are you there? Yes, I am. Okay.

Yeah, I mean, you've identified where the money's going, because you've got $3,000 a month you can't account for, and we just found it. I think it's leaning against the wall. Yeah, it's definitely been. issue that I've noticed. So I think we put you on every dollar, get you on the budget, we'll give it to you, and you start spending every dollar on the app before the month begins. Here's how much I'm going to have for gasoline.

Here's what my phone costs. Here's what I'm going to have for food. Here's what I'm going to have for fun and entertainment. Here's what I'm going to spend on guitars. Here's what I'm going to put in savings. And then execute that. And then the more you pull out of that budget to throw out this debt to get it paid off when you see it, when you finally pull your credit report, no.

That extra margin goes for the debt. It doesn't go to guitars. It goes and sell those guitars. That'll bring in some cash. I'll be paid off some of this debt too. You probably got $4,000 worth of guitars laying there to sell. So, yeah, yeah. Keep something cool.

Keep one or two that's cool to play. I'm good with that. I don't get an issue with that. That's not killing you, but this exercise of not being intentional and treating it like a business and paying close attention to every dollar, that's what's eating your lunch.

Eric is with us in Chicago. Hi, Eric. How are you? Hi, Dave. Thanks for having me on. Sure. What's up? So my father passed away this year and he left my mother and I with a substantial amount of money.

So we left us with $12 million. I received $4.1 million in cash and the rest went to my mother. Wow. Currently, currently my money, $4.1 million is sitting in a money market. count, which is making 4.59% interest. So I'm making about 14 to 16k a month off of interest with that. And my question is, I want to buy a house and I don't know how much I should spend on a house. What do you make here? Well, right now I'm not working. Why? I have a hard time with work. It's hard for me to keep a job. I have ADHD. So, and I felt like I haven't found

my calling either, so it's just hard for me. I'm still trying to figure that out. How old are you? I'm 38. Okay. Yeah, so I have that. So right now, you know, it's just the income I'm getting is just from the money market. And then, you know, so I want to buy that house, and I don't know how to... If this money allows you to not deal with your ADHD, and your career issues as a result, this money has become a curse, not a blessing. You have got to deal with those things for your own sake and for your own dignity.

Becoming a trust fund, baby, and saying this because I couldn't work because of ADHD is not going to be good for your mental health long term. Yeah. So I would prefer you pretend like this money doesn't exist and go earn a living, sir, for your sake.

I think you'll have to be. feel better about you. I want to know how I shouldn't, the thing is I also want to know how I should invest this money because this money was made me, you just drove right past that, didn't you? You don't have any intention of doing what I just said, do you? No, I do. I just want to invest it as well so I can make money off of it also, you know? I think that's good.

I think that part's good, and I think buying a house is good and paying cash for a house. So you're in Chicago. I would spend less than a million dollars. probably spend $700,000 on a property and move in cash and move in it. And I would sit down with a smart vester pro and I would invest the rest in some good mutual funds and I wouldn't touch it. And I would go see a therapist and a doctor if you need some medication. If you're depending on what's going on with your ADHD, I don't know. But get yourself to where you can work and hold a job and build a career.

You will like you better. You'll be more fun. that puts this hour of the ramsay show in the books we'll be back with you before you know it in the meantime remember there's ultimately only one way to financial peace and that's to walk daily with the prince of peace you need a budget start budgeting for free today with the every dollar app the easiest way to budget track your expenses and reach your goals faster go to every dollar dot com today