The Ramsey Show - App - Personal Finance Isn’t a Feeling, It’s MATH! (Hour 3)
Episode Date: August 29, 2023...
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A Bloomberg survey of 1,000
of the top 10% of
U.S. earners turns heads
this week because a quarter
of respondents, all making $175,000
a year, identified as either very
poor or poor, or getting
by but things are tight over half
of those surveys dubbed the regular rich said they worry about money the objectively wealthy
grappling with being subjectively poor provides quite the snapshot of this moment in american
history it captures how the increased cost of everything from cars to tuition to groceries
makes it harder to build wealth how rising generations are failing to attain their parents' financial security
and how social media impacts perception, fueling lifestyle comparisons
while making the ultra-wealthy class more visible.
But even for the comfortable, the goalposts keep moving.
There are always the Joneses to keep up with.
Take the latest trend on super yachts, for instance.
Don't have your own submersible on board?
Well, you're practically a peasant.
This is gobbledygook.
This is nonsense.
The objective wealthy grappling has pointed out that the increased cost of everything is the problem.
There's no mention in here of rising credit card debt.
There's no mention of what the average car payment is. This is highlighting we have more and more people who
just aren't willing to be patient. I like to get behind the problem of the problem of the problem.
And this is just highlighting that people are griping about making $175,000 a year. Inflation
sucks, Dave. I got two teenage boys and yeah, my grocery bill's gone up to feed those guys.
They eat a lot of food.
But I have margin, and if I don't have margin, I can make margin.
This kind of stuff makes me so angry.
Dave-onomics inside my household trumps Bidenomics outside my household.
I like that I can control what's inside my walls
enough to where if Biden screws up the economy hint hint then I can still be okay hint hint
right yeah so no we're not going to increase the increased cost of everything did not make
$175,000 people feel poor. Yes.
You know, what made them poor was $1 trillion in credit card debt,
$1.3 trillion in car debt,
and $1.7 trillion in student loan debt. There it is.
All of those with a T, trillion.
Count that with me, boys and girls.
That's a lot.
So, yeah, they're so far in debt they can't breathe.
And then, yes, they're comparing themselves to people on social media.
And comparison is, Rachel Cruz says this is a great line in her book, Love Your Life, Not Theirs.
Comparison is the thief of joy.
That's right.
And that's what we're talking about here.
That's exactly right.
So social media made these rich, whiny brats who can't seem to manage the person in their mirror,
comparing themselves on Instagram to other rich, whiny brats best sizzle reel best of
picture is uh causing them to feel like they don't have any money yeah that's what it is oh yeah so
getting by on 175 000 a year it's a case study every day on the show you know i help people get
through that the book baby steps millionaires where we talk about all the people that became millionaires,
one of the things I had to point out in that book because we run into it so much,
I did an entire chapter on this, a million dollar net worth is not a billion.
No.
A million is not a billion. So let me help you with this. Billionaires have private jets millionaires do not billionaires have four houses
millionaires have one billionaires have seven cars including a lamborghini millionaires have
a used pickup yep that's correct so people think well when I get to a million dollars, I'm going to be flying private like somebody on an MTV thing, right?
Is MTV even still open?
That's a good question.
Is it?
Is it still on the air?
Apparently it's still on the air.
It's still on the air.
It's still on the air, but I doubt there's much music on it anymore.
There's four people on it now.
It's kind of gone the way of CMT.
It just buried itself.
Okay.
But anyway, they, yeah, so anyway, you know, when you see the rich and the glamorous and the famous, what you're
seeing are billionaires, not millionaires.
And so to compare yourself as a millionaire, which is wealthy, there's only about 14 million
millionaires in the United States.
That's all.
And to compare yourself with a billionaire as a
millionaire and thereby declare yourself feeling poor, well, it's, you know, of course. So that
comparison is the thief of joy. You're right, Ken. You're exactly right. I mean, the opening of this
article, and this is, we've got to pay attention to this, folks, because this kind of stuff right
here that, oh, I don't feel like I've got much money when I'm making $175,000.
The problem is your feelings.
You felt you needed a car that you can't afford.
You felt you needed to go to a college that you couldn't afford.
You felt a lot of things.
And let me tell you where this goes, Dave.
People told you your feeling mattered.
Right.
It doesn't matter.
And so here's where this goes.
This is the kind of garbage. These
articles are popping up more and more. This is where universal income starts to get a hold.
Pay attention to this stuff. Just watch for it, folks. Because when I can't take care of my bills,
then I need someone to come rescue me. And you got a bunch of people going,
I can't afford my bills. Bail me out. Bail me out. Bail me out. And this stuff is insidious
for younger generations. That's
the thing we got to keep our eyes out for. I'm telling you right now, we're seeing it tested.
Several mayors in very left-leaning cities are testing universal income right now. And it's all
because people don't want to have to deal with their own feelings and the mess they made for
themselves. So they just go, take care of it for me let me tell you watch for it personal finance is not a feeling it's a math thing that's correct and so here's a
here's a feeling for you if you don't have the money don't buy it see that's not a feeling
that's a principle yeah it's maturity and i but i want it that's a feeling but i'm gonna throw a fit like a
spoiled three-year-old on the cereal aisle that's a child it's a child and i deserve it you don't
deserve anything you haven't earned the money to pay for it come on you know don't tell me you
deserve something you don't deserve anything shut up call the wambul ambulance. Seriously. If you deserved
it, you could work and save up the money and pay
for it. Then we could say you deserve it.
So people say, Dave,
you need to quit saying better than I deserve.
Better than I deserve is not a statement of
contentment. That's a spiritual statement.
I deserve hell and I'm not going because of Jesus.
That's better than I deserve.
Better than I deserve is a statement
of spiritual grace. It's not that I deserve. Better than I deserve is a statement of spiritual grace.
It's not that I don't deserve the success.
I deserve the success.
I've worked my butt off for 40 years at this.
And now I'm an overnight success.
Operating word, work.
And don't even have to for the last two decades.
But did it anyway.
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Catherine is in Washington, D.C.
Hi, Catherine.
How are you?
I'm doing well. How are you? I'm doing well.
How are you guys doing?
Better than we deserve.
What's up?
I'm calling in today to just get your advice on our student loan situation.
So my fiance and I, we have about, I'd say, $55,000 in student loan debt.
And we paid that down significantly. We had over $100,000 in student loan debt. And we paid that down significantly. We had over a hundred thousand,
but we just purchased a house and we had been saving, you know, towards that goal.
And we're just kind of reframing things. Now we can save enough to put 20% down and get ourselves
sort of in better position, you know, with no PMI. But we bought at just the wrong time.
It was right when the interest rates went from like 5% to 7%. And so we're paying about $400
more than we had planned to a month on our mortgage. So we do have savings left over
from what we had sort of been saving up. And it's just sort of a question of like, do we dump that money straight into the student loans
or do we do have some work that needs to be done on the house?
And we're just trying to figure out like,
what's the best course of action moving forward?
When are you getting married?
Well, we kind of put everything on hold
because of saving for the house
and didn't want to put money for that.
Just like the plan for the wedding.
Okay.
Because there's not a we until you're married.
We don't have a student loan.
You've got a student loan.
He's got a student loan.
You have a partnership on a house with no partnership agreement,
which is really unbelievably dangerous.
You've gotten yourself into some real scary territory here.
So you've combined everything and you have no method for managing it because you're not legally combined.
Does that make sense?
It does.
If he dies, you're screwed.
We didn't really have the right to get married for a while.
My partner's a woman.
So, you know, we've been together 17 years, and I feel pretty comfortable with that.
But, you know, I hear you.
Okay.
It's just you need a detailed, if you're not going to get married,
you need a detailed partnership agreement.
Yeah, we do have some in place, which is great.
Okay, because I don't want one of you dying and the other one being left in a mess.
Yeah, yeah, no, I hear you.
I hear you.
Okay, so how much is in savings?
How much is in savings?
So we have $25,000 in savings.
And you have $55,000 in student loan debt.
Yeah.
And what's your household income
um about 120 okay so if we throw 25 at the student loan debt that leaves us
30 in student loan debt how quickly does it go away making 130 yeah it goes it goes a little
bit more quickly um we're no i'm asking you literally how fast do you pay it off
making 130 you only owe 30 000 is that your only debt other than the house that is our only debt
yep yep we don't have any car payments we don't have you know we've we tried to make some smart
decisions there if you guys will commit to leaning into this and knocking off that other 30 really
fast i'd throw the 25 at it today yeah i guess i just was nervous because we
you know our mortgage is just more than we had initially intended just because of the interest
rate so we are if your mortgage is so much that you have to use savings to supplement it you need
to sell the house we don't we okay then use the savings and get your student loan debt okay you
don't need the nerves are if you need to use your savings to cover your mortgage,
you need to sell the house if the nerves are that bad.
Otherwise, you need to not have the nerves and let's get this done.
Right, right.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
That's what I would do.
I would throw the $25,000 at it or I'd sell the house, one of the two,
but I don't think you're going to sell the house.
So let's throw the $25,000 at it and let's take the $30,000 and get it knocked out in
under a year.
Put $3,000 a month on it and be done in 10 months.
That's the way we look at things around here.
Hope that helps you.
Thanks for calling in.
William's with us in Ontario, Canada.
Hi, William.
How are you?
Great.
How are you doing?
Better than I deserve.
What's up?
Good to hear.
My wife and I are 27, and we'd really like to do more farming.
Access to land is obviously a huge hurdle.
So my mom is set to inherit 100 acres in, it probably could be 10 or 20 years.
We don't know.
But since my dad passed away last year she's been
kind of just crop sharing it with neighbor or with my uncles and we're wondering if it makes
sense for us to um kind of do a renting situation from her um that's what your uncles are doing
they're renting it on a crop share basis right, but we want to do a different type of farming
where we would be putting a lot more fencing in,
planting trees and ponds and that kind of thing.
And we would want to live on site to do that.
So there's a farmhouse there.
So my mom's open to doing that,
but we're worried that we wouldn't have any ownership.
Yeah, I would be too.
Yeah. You don't go greatly improve the property when you're the tenant. Right. doing that but we're worried that we wouldn't have any ownership yeah i would be too yeah you
don't go greatly improve the property when you're the tenant right so like it's access to land is
so hard so it seems like there's all this land that we could use but it's so far away in terms of
in terms of what we could inherit it like after okay what's this hundred acres worth
try again you broke up about two million or so okay let me help you with this when you're 27
years old and you're broke you don't get to buy a two million million business? No. We were thinking of just buying a smaller parcel somewhere else
that wouldn't be attached to my mom's at all
and wondering if that's a better way to do it.
How many brothers and sisters have you got?
One brother.
Okay.
Why don't we go ahead and work out the estate plan,
and your mom deeds you part of this.
Already?
Okay. Doesn't she this. Already? Okay.
Doesn't she own it now?
No.
No, so my grandmother still owns it, so my mom won't inherit it for another 10 or 15.
Oh, yeah.
So, okay.
So this property is just, this property is not, it's off limits.
Yeah.
For now.
Unless your grandmother wants to give it to you.
But your uncles are farming it, so she's not going to give it to you but your uncles are farming it so she's not
going to give it to you she's going to give wait a minute it's 100 acres and your uncles and your
mom so why is your mom getting all of it in 20 years or 100 is just her portion yeah there's 400
total oh okay okay that makes sense all right Okay, that's not going to solve your equation.
Okay, that's off limits.
Waiting 20 years to do something and fencing and putting ponds on property that's not yours is insanity.
Too many things can go wrong with this.
No.
So if you want to go farm, what are you going to do?
You're going to go lease some land somewhere and farm.
Okay. That's what you're going to do? You're going to go lease some land somewhere and farm. Okay.
That's what you're going to do what your uncles are doing.
Yeah, and we're worried about that as well in terms of improving the land
while it's only a lease.
That's why we're just thinking, so you'd recommend we just keep saving up
until we can buy our own land that we can improve ourselves.
Yeah, don't improve anything. But if you want to be in the farming business right now, So you'd recommend we just keep saving up until we can buy our own land that we can improve ourselves?
Yeah, don't improve anything. But if you want to be in the farming business right now, you can be in the non-improving someone else's land farming business.
Okay.
Until you can get to where you can buy some land and then you improve your own land.
But there's not a model that we can recommend that you go spend $500,000 in five years of your life and lots of calluses and sweat to improve someone else's property.
And then they end up with all that.
No, that's not a good plan.
And there's not a mechanism that protects you from that just because you have the love and the romanticism about farming.
Farming is an incredible career.
But don't do it in a stupid way because like any
career done stupid, it's not fun. This is the Ramsey Show. Ken Coleman, Ramsey personality,
is my co-host. Marie is with us on the debt-free stage right here in the lobby of Ramsey Solutions.
Hi, Marie. How are you?
I'm good. How are you?
Better than I deserve. Where do you live?
Ottawa, Canada.
Whoa! All the way from Canada to Nashville to do a debt-free scream.
Well, congratulations. How much have you paid off?
$132,627.42.
Excellent. How long did that take?
46 months.
Wow. Good for you. And your range
of income during that four years? It started at $59,063. And last year it was $54,550.
And this year is going to be less, unfortunately. Okay. Why is your income going down?
I had started with income replacement replacement um with veterans affairs and when
that ended i was still sick with covid um and so i got a part-time job and i was just laid off last
month so oh wow okay all right cool so right now you're unemployed yes and you paid off 133 000
making basically 55 60 000 a year yeah60,000 a year. Yeah.
What kind of debt was the $133,000?
It was cell phone therapy, overdraft, personal loan, school government loan, credit cards,
retirement loan for school, which is allowed in Canada, and a student line of credit.
Wow.
I also cash flowed windows, electricity and fertility treatments during that time.
You were kind of normal.
I mean, you got dead on everything.
Yeah.
So what happened to you four years ago that got you started on all this Ramsey stuff?
So I had, my mom had sold our childhood home and moved to Ottawa with me
because I was going to be a midwife and on call 24-7.
And she said that I could live rent-free as long as I was paying off my debt.
And then after we moved, we were doing renos and we had a whole bunch of chaos.
So May 2019 is when I really got serious about it.
Okay.
So your mom inspired this? Sort of got serious about it. Okay. So your mom inspired this?
Sort of, yeah.
Yeah, okay.
And then how did you get connected to Ramsey?
I'd actually read your book, Total Money Makeover, in 2008.
And the only piece that I took was Baby Step 2.
So this is my second time through, but this one's going to stick.
Ah, good.
But now you're done.
I mean, you're out of debt.
You're done with that part anyway.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So you get to move forward and you're not going back in debt again.
No.
And I listen to the podcast every day.
Ah, well, thank you.
We're honored to have you.
What was the toughest part of this journey for you?
I think just getting control of my budget.
I am a spender with a surplus mindset. So
not spending is extremely difficult. And as a single person with a daughter and taking care
of my mother, it's, you know, there's always things that you want and think you need.
So that was the hardest part. And when I started the process, I was in school.
And when I finished the process, I was back in school. So. What are you studying? I just finished
cabinet making and furniture technician on August 18th. Okay. So you're ready to go to work doing
that, huh? Yes. Very good. Proud of you. Very very cool sounds like you've been through a lot of transformation yes but i've been a wild four years yeah yeah wow well good for you congratulations
thank you how's it feel to be completely free it is amazing how old are you uh 44 have you ever
been debt free in your adult life um yeah i I actually, when I transferred to the full-time military,
I was debt-free.
I had been working for 10, 15 years,
and then my income almost tripled,
and I went, woo-hoo.
There are no limits.
I'm a spender.
Okay, I got you.
Okay, so that's the fall off the wagon part you don't want to do again
no never gotcha okay i'm with you well well done okay four years 46 months you pay off 133 000
making 55 000 to 60 right that's pretty impressive uh what do you tell people the key to getting out
of debt is um the biggest thing I think is never giving up.
I mean, no matter how slowly you're moving forward,
you're moving forward.
And no matter how long it took me,
I knew that it was going to end.
Yeah.
Way to go.
I'm proud of you.
Thank you.
Good work.
I bet your mom's proud of you.
Yes. Yeah. This is something she likes for you she's happy for you yeah that's good good for you well played well
played well played excellent excellent work all right and you brought your daughter with you right
yes and how old is she she is seven oh okay and what is her name cecilia oh very good all right
we've got a copy of the baby steps
millionaires book because you are on your way to do that and of course a total money makeover book
as well and a financial peace uh university uh membership for you to sign up all of that is the
live and give bundle you'll live some of it you'll give some of it we're so proud of you guys well
done thank you very very well done all right it. It's Marie and Cecilia from Canada.
$133,000 paid off in 46 months, making 59 to 54.
Count it down.
Let's hear a debt-free scream.
Three, two, one.
I'm debt-free!
Yeah!
Woo-hoo-hoo-hoo!
Well done, well done.
Oh, man.
That was excellent.
Great job, kiddo.
Very cool.
Margo is in New Hampshire.
Hey, Margo, welcome to the Ramsey Show.
Thank you very, very much for taking my call.
Sure.
What's up?
Well, my husband and I have term life policies for our life insurance, and we are 12 years in.
We've been paying $182 a month, and our situation from when we entered into this to now is very different.
So we're just wondering if we should stop paying to pay out now.
Well, term life insurance is to replace his income to make sure you're okay if he dies.
Yes, so he is retiring within a year.
But are you okay if he dies?
Emotionally, no.
No, I'm not talking about that.
Financially, yes.
So what's your net worth?
Well, all in with our house, our retirement, probably about $1.6 million.
Okay.
And house is paid for? Yes. Kids are grown and gone? No million. Okay. And house is paid for?
Yes.
Kids are grown and gone?
No kids.
Okay.
So if he dies, you've got $1.6 million, you've got to figure this out, and you're how old?
I am 53.
Okay.
I think you'll be fine, don't you?
I think I'll be fine.
I think we're both healthy, and we try to live a healthy lifestyle.
Same thing in reverse, right?
If you die financially after he quits crying, he'll be okay, right?
Yes.
Yes, he'll be better off quicker than I will.
Okay.
But, I mean, he's got $1.6 million too, right?
Yes.
Yes.
And the house is worth how much?
The house is about at least $650,000.
Okay.
So if you've got a million dollars and if it generates 10%, that's $100,000 a year.
If it generates 8% or if it generates 12 and you left four in there for inflation,
then that would be a – you know, you pulled off eight as
an example, that'd be 80,000. So you can live on 60, 70, $80,000 a year, right? Yes, we can. We
have no debt. I do have two horses, which is very expensive, but one of them is 25. So unfortunately,
I'll have one at some point. Yeah. Can you live on 60 to 80 to 90 000 a year
absolutely okay then you're self-insured and you don't need life insurance unless you just want it
okay so basically it's okay to not pay the rest of the 18 years and just take the payout now
well there's not a payout on term life insurance.
Well, maybe it's not term then because they say that we do get a payout.
Well, then I definitely would cancel that crap.
Okay.
Yeah, it's garbage insurance.
Then you've got whole life life insurance.
You don't have term.
Okay.
Yeah.
It sounded expensive, so i'm not surprised
i don't know what the coverage amount is but yeah i think we got your answer you're self-insured
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Max is in Missouri.
Hi, Max.
Welcome to the Ramsey Show.
Hey, how's it going, guys?
Better than we deserve.
Brother, what's up?
Hey, so my wife and I are currently in baby step number two,
and I am a self-employed flooring installer.
So we kind of just need some advice on maybe the emergency fund or what can we
save for during wintertime when my work gets kind of slow and January, February, slow months and
income is lower. What can we do or what advice do you have so that when those months come we can still be paying off debt okay you're
you're installing floors in on the interior of construction right correct like carpet hardwood
laminate so why does that stop in the winter it usually just slow. Like I'll have a week or two when every other day, you know, I won't have a job.
And kind of we're just nervous on, you know, this coming next season
what we can do to be prepared for that.
Okay.
Have you got only one supplier of jobs?
I mean, one vendor you work for?
Mainly, yes. I work for one shop, but I also have a couple builders that, you know, keep me busy also.
But yeah, mainly I work through one shop.
Yeah. This is not a, I need more savings problem. This is a business problem.
You need more business
so you don't have dead spots.
I want you to be covered
up and backlogged and people
waiting in line to get you to install their
floors.
So you don't have these gaps.
They shouldn't be gaps. You should be covered
up all the time, except when you don't want
to work because it's Christmas or something.
Yeah.
Yeah, you need more sources.
And if you can't figure out the sources, which you should be able to,
you should be working like a dog right now to get that income on an average across.
You have a couple of ways to do this, but more options is the answer here.
It's not about savings. And I also say,
I'll bet you have some other trade skill that you could bring to the table if for some reason,
and again, I don't think this is the case, but if for some reason you weren't able to get more
flooring jobs, there's some other skill sets that you have where in the trades you should be busier
than you could possibly be. Yeah mean uh uh now i mean grass cutting
yeah slows down in the winter but installing carpet inside in you know where things are like
warm and stuff it doesn't it you know building business doesn't stop in november december
january i'll tell you an idea max that i've got i got a good friend who is running a business in
the atlanta area dave he just got into it. And it's these remediation companies, you know, when there's a
flood or something has happened, frozen pipes. So they come in and they do all the cleanup of
the water. But they've got relationships with contractors to come in and actually do the
fixing work. He needs to be making friends with people that are in that business saying, hey, you
need a good flooring contractor?
I'm your guy.
Yeah, one of those frozen pipes in the winter.
That's what I'm saying.
That could be your backfill.
Okay, I'll go with that one.
He's as busy as he can be right now.
Yeah, I'll go with that.
And he's looking for good contractors that he can rely on.
He's griping at me on the golf course.
I can't find good contractors that will come out and fix floors.
So I'm just throwing that out there to Max.
That's where we go get more opportunity. Daryl is in Phoenix. Hi, Daryl. I can't find good contractors that will come out and fix floors. So I'm just throwing that out there to Max.
That's where we go get more opportunity.
Daryl is in Phoenix.
Hi, Daryl.
Welcome to the Ramsey Show.
Actually, sir, my name is Darnell.
Oh, I misread it.
I apologize.
Austin actually typed it in correct. I screwed up.
Sorry, Darnell.
What's up?
That's okay, sir.
That's very common.
So, well, first of of all thank you for having
me uh mr ramsey uh and uh uh you know i actually met dr john deloney down in dallas actually uh
our uh i reaped of uh tobacco and uh alcohol when i met him but uh he was at a book signing in the
at barnes and nobles in dallas but let me get to my question. So I'm trying to figure out a way to help my sister.
My sister, her car went out.
She has a car note on it.
She owes $12,000 on that car.
She also has student loan debt of $20,000.
And her income is $3,200 a month.
Now her living expenses, she lives, she lives with her mother.
Uh, we have different moms, but she lives with her mother.
Um, uh, her living expenses, you know, you know, housing and utilities at 600 a month,
food, 400 clothing, personal care, $100.
Uh, right now she doesn't have transportation.
She was sharing her mom's car, but her mom's car also went out now.
What's wrong with the $12,000 car?
The engine seized up.
She blew the engine.
Yes, sir.
At least that's what it sounds like.
Oh, wait a minute.
It sounds like.
So she's not taking it to a mechanic?
No, she did.
She told me the mechanic told her that the engine seized up.
The thing is, she lives in Alabama.
I live in Arizona.
She lives in Alabama.
Okay, I mean, I need to know what seized up means,
because you mean she blew the engine is what it sounds like.
Okay.
So it's a major repair, repair you think yes sir uh she told me she gave me a quote of uh it's going to cost her about eight nine thousand dollars yeah now i came up with i came up with
three options uh i got a i got a truck i can loan her uh i ain't gonna lie i'm gonna have to put
some money into it but you know i can loan her the truck the only thing is the truck got about 300 000 miles on it it's old now it runs
though yes as opposed to her car which doesn't run okay what's the second option uh second option
um it's gonna take me and what it's gonna me like, I want to say about six months, but you know, I can give her the money to, uh, um, put a new engine in, in, in her car.
Third option.
Um, third option is she pauses, uh, she's on baby step number two right now.
Uh, she could pause the baby steps and, you know, save money for a car.
Okay.
Cause right now she option pressure fourth option
is you loan her your truck you guys all scratch some money together and you buy a used engine
from a junkyard and you have a friend down at the church do the engine installation or an
inexpensive mechanic do the engine installation and we fix this car for $3,000 to $4,000, not $8,000.
$8,000 is either a brand-new engine or a rebuilt engine.
She can't afford that in a $12,000 car.
Yes, sir.
You don't spend $8,000 on a $12,000 car.
Yes, sir.
So loan her my truck.
Scratch together the money, put an engine in her car, then take your truck back money put an engine in her car then take your truck back
a used engine in her car an engine with 30,000 miles on it in a car that was totaled it's sitting
in the junkyard and it'll be a tenth the car not a tenth but it'll be 25 of the cost and that
because you just don't put a brand new engine in a 12,000 mile car or $12,000 car. That's not, doesn't make sense at all.
Hey man, thanks for the call.
Ken Coleman, good show today.
Thank you, sir.
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