Live Like a Girl with Dr. Mindy Pelz - Small Menopausal Rituals from the Timeless Science of Ayurveda with Nidhi Pandya

Episode Date: May 26, 2025

Ready to explore a gentler journey through perimenopause and menopause? Join us as we welcome the wonderful Nidhi Pandya! Drawing from the timeless wisdom of Ayurveda, Nidhi unveils her Inner Climate ...Method, sharing simple yet powerful practices to help you navigate hormonal shifts with greater ease and harmony. Discover the magic of resonance breathing, the soothing touch of sesame oil for body oiling, and the calming influence of evening routines for deeper sleep and overall well-being. This episode is brimming with practical tips that are easy to weave into your daily life. As Nidhi beautifully reminds us, perhaps it's time to reconnect with the innate wisdom our bodies hold. Whether you're seeking relief from menopausal symptoms or simply craving a greater sense of well-being, this episode offers nurturing, cost-free, and accessible tools to honor your body's natural rhythms and cultivate lasting wellness.  To view full show notes, more information on our guests, resources mentioned in the episode, discount codes, transcripts, and more, visit https://drmindypelz.com/ep289 Nidhi Pandya is an Ayurvedic Doctor, international speaker, educator and the author of Your Body Already Knows. Nidhi's passion lies in empowering women to become self-aware and live intuitively, achieving Mind-Body Balance. She's gained popularity online and has become known for distilling complex ancient scriptures into practical advice for the modern day with features in Cosmopolitan, Elle, Vogue, and more. Her 'Inner Climate' method, taught globally, focuses on realigning the mind and body for optimal health, healing, and longevity. Check out our fasting membership at resetacademy.drmindypelz.com. Please note our medical disclaimer.

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Starting point is 00:00:02 on this episode of the Resetter podcast. I am bringing you Dr. Niti Panda. Now, this conversation is so fun and I'm really excited to bring it to all of you because you're going to be able to apply what Dr. Niti brings you today, like immediately. Like after I'm doing this intro, I'm actually heading to the store to go and grab the things she recommends to allow you to get a better night's sleep, to allow you to get a better night's sleep, to allow you to transition out of your daily routine. Like there's so many gems in here.
Starting point is 00:00:37 So let me tell you a little bit about who you're going to listen to here. And then let's talk about what kind of concepts we're bringing to you in this episode. So Dr. Nidi is an R-Uvetic doctor, a speaker, and she created something called the Inner Climate Method, which is a transformative approach that blends ancient Vedic wisdom with modern science. She just wrote a book that I highly recommend called Your Body, already knows. And what we talk about in here is really this hormonal transition, how we move from a place, and I loved it. She called it juicy, where we are like when we're recycling, everything is
Starting point is 00:01:17 moist, all of our mucosal membranes, our skin, our hair. She's like, we go from this juicy place to moving into menopause, which is we go more into a dry place. And she talks about how we can do some daily routines to allow that transition into our menopause and postmenopausal years to be smooth. And it's really interesting because I've spent a lot of time here talking to you all or if you've heard me on videos or read my books. I've been really struggling with the direction that the menopausal conversation has been going in because it's either gone in a direction of Medicaid and you'll be fine, or it's gone in a direction of here are all the have-toes. Both of those have their upsides and they have their downsides.
Starting point is 00:02:08 What Dr. Nidi is going to bring you here are some simple rituals. Rituals you'll be able to do right away, and they're free and they're easy. And when you hear why they work, I promise you, you are going to want to do what I'm about to do and run out and get a few of these tools, these either free or cheap tools that you can use to make your journey from your reproductive years into your non-reproductive years smooth because it should be it's a natural journey it should be smooth so dr needy i'm so excited to bring you this episode and those of you that are wanting to dive into her book you can get her book it is called your body already knows and the minute i hear that title i think
Starting point is 00:02:56 Yes, it does. Your body always knows. And that's the whole path to great health is honoring that your body already knows. So enjoy this conversation, Dr. Nidi. And then find me on socials and let me know if some of the techniques work for you. I'm really excited to bring this one to you. Enjoy. Welcome to the Resetter podcast. This podcast is all about empowering you to believe in yourself again. If you have a passion for learning, if you're looking to be in control of your health and take your power back, this is the podcast for you. Hey, so for starters, needy, let me just say welcome to the Resetter podcast. This is of all the places I go to talk about health, this might be my favorite.
Starting point is 00:03:54 So I'm really excited to have you here today. So let me just start off by saying, welcome. Thank you so much for having me. This is a conversation. I've been looking forward to for the last few months, so I'm glad we're finally here together. Amazing, amazing. So, you know, it's interesting when I think about the experience that women are having right now with perimenopause and menopause.
Starting point is 00:04:15 On one hand, I'm incredibly grateful that the conversation has opened up. And on the other hand, I'm incredibly concerned because we are now looking at menopause as a medical a condition in which a medicine is needed, a condition in which we can stop the suffering that women are going through, which we never want women to suffer, but we have looked at it through a more conventional medicine lens. And I see it in all the research I've done as a incredible transformative process that a woman goes through that should be honored. So when I first heard about your work and how you've taken Arrhevedic medicine and applied it to this journey, I was like, wow, this is exciting because we need to go back to the ancient principles. So with that in mind,
Starting point is 00:05:12 can you just, because I don't even know the all the depth of Arievetic medicine, but can you start off by telling us what is so powerful, what is Arirveda and what is so powerful about this approach to health? Yeah, absolutely. So, I'm going to start at the basic, like the basic definition of Ayurveda. So Ayurveda means literally the science of life. Wow. Ayurva means life. Veda means science.
Starting point is 00:05:40 It's also the sister science of yoga. They both come from the same Vedic tradition. But now being the science of life, it covers everything that has to do with life, which means, yes, treatment and prevention of diseases and conditions, but also lifestyle, nutrition, exercise, fertility, menopause, child care, social conduct. How do you choose a mate? If it has to do with human life, yep, yep. If it has to do with human life, Ayurveda has it covered.
Starting point is 00:06:10 And some of the current trends, many like intermittent fasting. I mean, you're the queen of fasting. So, you know, a lot of them have their roots like turmeric, ashergandha, oil, pulling, dry, scrubbing, tongue scraping. They all have their roots in Ayurveda. There were other traditions who may have offered similar practices. But Ayurveda also has strong beliefs and a strong foundation. It's laid for these practices in tremendous detail.
Starting point is 00:06:35 But, you know, what is Ayurveda to me and how is it that I practice it? It's the only, it's literally the only science that I've seen, Mindy, that understands the rhythms and the patterns, basically the energetics. What separates, what's animate from inanimate, right? Like, my VAC statue would be different for me. Simply because I have the vibration of the cell. I have the beating of a heart and my breath and a pulse and all of that, these energetic patterns, right? Even outside in the universe, the seasons, the rotation, the revolution, this is what really makes the universe happen. And Ayurabeda understands this science of seasons, of day, and all of this so precisely.
Starting point is 00:07:17 And this basic understanding that when we see a season, like when we see snowfall in spring, you and I both know that we'd be concerned. We're like, oh my God, what's going on? Yeah. But Ayurveda understands what allows you to stay in balance, what takes you out of balance. And it also understands the nature of everything that exists on the planet. And it has a certain framework that defines it. So it uses a framework.
Starting point is 00:07:45 It uses the patterns of these, you know, the understanding of these patterns. And then it says, how do we bring everything back into balance? So it sounds a little vague right now, but it's a very, very precise science. So the way I would look at that is if I'm looking at metabolic switching, part of the challenge we had with the metabolic crisis is everybody was just staying in their sugar burner system. But when we brought fasting to the world, then all of a sudden people were in that fat-burning metabolism. So now they're back into a natural rhythm that has them more imbalance. Would that be like an example of what Ariveta is trying to do is, yeah, okay.
Starting point is 00:08:24 Yes, yes. But, you know, like this is how Ayurada would talk about it, right? We were all overly building. You know, we were building, building, building, right? In our bodies, high fats, high carbs. You know, extreme carb and your body always had to deal with those sugary, refined foods all the time. And then what is the opposite of building? There are three cycles in nature and we can get into that.
Starting point is 00:08:46 Building transformation and decline, decay, you know. And everywhere, whether it's spring is building and summer is transformation because everything transforms into fruits and flowers and all of that. And then there's autumn, which is decline, right? So if you're building excessively, there's excessive building, then you have to give it the antidote, which is now you stop building, you let it go. So you can actually start cleansing.
Starting point is 00:09:09 And of course, after all, the refined foods and the sugar and all, everything goes out, then any excess tissue that you've had. So Irida starts looking at cycles as patterns and then antidotes accordingly. Oh, I love that. You know, one of the biggest things that I noticed when I started, started teaching fasting was when fasting first went out to the world, everybody got so excited, they got so many results. And then they started fasting all the time. And this is where Fastly Good Girl even came from. I was like, no, no, no, no. The goal wasn't to go from eating
Starting point is 00:09:38 all the time to fasting all the time. The goal was to create a rhythm that works with your body. And that's where the principles came from. What's intriguing to me about what you're bringing forward to the world is the idea that there's a rhythm that's happening. for us when we go into perimenopause and menopause. And I think this is really, like that idea is so important to bring forward. Because it, and I'm so curious your opinion on this, because there's a part of me that's like, are we meant to just go from hormones to no hormones? And now we're trying to add hormones back in exogenously.
Starting point is 00:10:21 like what is the rhythm that we're missing right now in that conversation that AreuVeda can bring forward? See, Medi, thank you for doing the work in terms of the fasting like a like a girl, you know, that we're not meant to do either, you know, you're yo-yo between these two extremes. But you're absolutely right. And can I can I start by addressing what you said, right, you know, right when we had this started this conversation? And you said, one of the things you said is that we're looking at menopause like it's disease. Right. And there's another half that's looking at menopause. like it's aging. The truth is, menopause is neither disease nor aging. I mean, can you imagine that women started thinking that we're aging in our 40s? We're spending half of our lives thinking
Starting point is 00:11:01 that we're aging. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Right. So it's neither. It's just a, it's a neuroendroenter transition. And unfortunately, we understand menarchie, right? Like, monarchy comes with its own, challenges. And menarchy, or even when young boys start moving into adolescence, there's a change of voice, there's sudden acne, and there's this discomfort, you know, getting comfortable in this new skin that they've developed. So yes, every transition, every neuroendocrine transition that a human being will experience will be uncomfortable. And some will be more challenging than others. But I'm going to put the Ayurvedic understanding and lens the way I see it on this. And Ayurveda looks at your life in seasons as well, right? Like your childhood is a spring of life.
Starting point is 00:11:45 And in that spring of life, in the spring of life, you're building, building, building. It's a moist phase. And which means your body is prepared. It's geared up to continuously build cytoplasm. New cells, you know, and building of cells, excessive cytoplasm, fluids, juices, all of that. Then you come to the second, the summer of your life. Now, this is really what will explain menopause is your monarchy when you start, right? After that building phase, when a young girl is 13.
Starting point is 00:12:15 14, hot hormones start to set in. The body heats up. We know the mind of the teenager, we suddenly have a reproductive function. The body is able to reproduce. Without heat, there's no transformation that happens. So there's sudden heat and the hormones bring heat. The way I like to define it is think of an oil lamp filled with oil. So the flame is beautiful and it's sharp and the oil is really, really full as well.
Starting point is 00:12:42 Now, throughout the period of our youth, we kind of. use up that fuel. And then when you arrive at this menopause and perimenopause, it is the depletion of that fuel. And you come to that point, right? So just think about it. Like it's drying. It's a process of drying. Our entire period of youth is a process of drying. And if you've ever, if I tell people this, if you've ever worked with an oil lamp, when you notice that the oil lap is at its tail end, the flame will become very volatile. And the oil starts to, to deplete and there's smoke. And that is exactly the experience that people have at menopause and perimenopause.
Starting point is 00:13:19 There's a dryness. There's an increased heat. There's a volatility. And then there is all, you know, smoke, fire. And that is really, it's like using up your fuel. And how are you drying? So there are ways that you can do to have this as a gentler journey. Because the truth is, menopause is so difficult, Mindy, because we're all drying sooner.
Starting point is 00:13:39 We are using our essential resources. We're all burning out quicker. And that's why we were burning out. quicker, burning out harsher, without replenishing our fuels in many, many different ways. And we can talk about what Ayurba that talks about how you replenish your fuels. But after that point, after you go to the other side of menopause, right, three years after that, something wonderful happens in the body that nobody talks about, right? There is this you-bend research that women in their 50s, right, like your amygdala's changes the way
Starting point is 00:14:08 it responds. So it responds very positively to positive experiences, but it doesn't respond strongly to negative experiences. The emotional control center changes the way it works in your brain. So women actually become happier in their 60s and 70s. They start to take things much more lightly. And it's the first time in your life, you're not dating, you're not mating in the same way. At least you're not dating and mating in the same way. You're not in your nesting phase. Most people are out of their nesting phase. Today things are a little bit different, but historically we're out of a nesting phase. And we have this tremendous opportunity, you know, where women can, for the first,
Starting point is 00:14:44 first time, like truly be free to exist and find themselves and make it's a second teenage. Honestly, that time three years after menopause is a second teenage. And of course, then on the physical level and the lifestyle level and nutrition level, there's a lot that can be done that can continue to support you because the rest of the journey is dry. It's autumn and winter. Yeah. You know, but you can have a beautiful autumn.
Starting point is 00:15:10 I mean, once you know, I mean, if you're a skier, you're sailing through that winter, you know, for example, right? So if you know how to care for yourself through these phases, and most importantly, even through your perimenopausal years, and even like I have two young daughters, Mindy, 17 and 13, and I'm teaching them how to care for them at this stage. Yeah, right. And that's what I was taught.
Starting point is 00:15:31 Because if you do that and you don't dry out quickly, like I always say, drying is dying, you know. So you preserve your fields. And then when you're at that stage, it's not quite as harsh. I love that explanation, and especially the three years out, that was literally I just got done researching the whole neurochemical system for age like a girl. And very similar that I saw is that you have a whole system change, oxytocin system changes, the autonomic nervous system changes, and it changes for the better, which is a part of the menopause conversation we are not having.
Starting point is 00:16:09 It's like we went from a place where we didn't talk about it. it. Everybody suffered in silence to talking about it all the time and everybody's confused. But what is not being talked about enough is what an incredible process this could be. And where you're going in those postmenopausal years is someplace that you have never really experienced as a woman and a place that you are sitting in your most powerful part of your life. So I loved the way you explained that. I also like this idea of the drying. out. So then that leads me to question when we go into perimenopause, is there a lifestyle shift that needs to happen in order to adapt to the drying out?
Starting point is 00:16:58 Yes, absolutely. Right. So, Millie, I think we can all successfully agree that today's urban woman is burning out quickly. Oh, yeah. Right? Except for the fact that we only are so, the problem is that we associate burning out only with work. And that's not true. Right? Yes. Burning out is many, many things. I mean, in my book and in the way I explain it to people I work with, it's like we have very solar lifestyles. And I mean, all of the Vedic sciences, right, where yoga and Ayurada comes from, the macro and the micro are very connected. What's happening in the macro is happening in the micro. So global warming is not very different
Starting point is 00:17:31 from inflammation. Burning out is not, they all come under the same set of things. But the thing is, what are the things that we are doing, right? Besides, it's working, working too hard, working out too much. Excessive caffeine. I mean, we all know caffeine is dehydrating. What is dehydrating? Hot and dry. That's the meaning of dehydrating.
Starting point is 00:17:50 It's hot and it's dry. The sun is hot and dry. So it's like very solar. I call it very solar. So excessive caffeine. Excessive alcohol. Working, you know, I said working too much, working out too much, staying up too many nights, skimping on fat a little too much.
Starting point is 00:18:05 Intensity in our minds. this is all too solar for our own good. And just as there is global warming, there's no wonder inflammation starts much earlier. The inflammation was related only to aging. Today, inflammation is it can happen at any point in our lives. So we are overly solar. So the first thing that I say, right,
Starting point is 00:18:23 like we are so quick to bring in remedies. We're so quick to say, give me something to do. But the first treatment in Ayurveda is prevention of cause. Right. So we're like, what are you doing? What are you doing that it's leading? to this. So first let's let's dial down on all of those.
Starting point is 00:18:41 So dial down on how how much you work, how hard you work, how you organize your day, how you are, because there are certain times where, you know, neurochemically, we're designed to have better focus. So how I help people design their day, for example. How much are you working out? I mean, people are
Starting point is 00:18:57 burning themselves out, even with excessive working out, drying themselves, muscle injury, just, you know, all kinds of other hormonal issues. Also caffeine, right? I'm like, I tell everybody, don't give it up completely. But let's the idea of bullet coffee or adding milk or adding cardam or changing the time that you're consuming. Alcohol, what are you doing with that?
Starting point is 00:19:16 But also bringing in many, many tools, right? Like I tell you the two biggest tools, Mindy, and I can give you a whole range of tools and all the herbs and all of that. But the two biggest tools that I say, which are accessible and easy for everyone, is one is exhalations. And which means that we as human beings today are inhaling short inhales throughout our So if anybody is using a variable, right? And if you were wearing variables, we would realize that on an average, right now, you're not having a conversation, 12 to 20 breaths. Now, if I was stuck in traffic and I was racing, those 12 to 20 breaths would be 30 to 40,
Starting point is 00:19:55 could be 30 to 40, could be 25, way higher, shorter breaths. When we're super busy, we start and every inhale that our body takes, right, every time we go into an inhale, it's a sympathetic reaction. action. It's a fight or a flight. Every exhale is a parasympathetic. It's repair. It's rest and digest. If every inhale is action, every exhale is repair. If every inhale is doing, every exhale is being. And that's why at the end of the, at the end of a really busy day, most of us would sit down and be like, we would exhale, forcefully exhale, right? The body goes into a sigh because the body has had enough. But when we actively learn something called resonance breathing,
Starting point is 00:20:37 where you're actively learning, and you know, I do this sometimes at the middle of the conversation, like of a conversation, Indy, like you wouldn't even be able to tell. But if I'm, while I'm speaking and using my mouth, I'm just becoming conscious of having a longer exhale through my nose. And it's just by bringing awareness to it, you automatically go into a longer exhale. But that is very refueling to the body. When your body goes in parasympathetic, it releases the neurotransmitters and hormones that are required for the body to refuel. itself. And like we, that's why after a very stress period, we're all dry, right? Dry eyes, dry, throat, dry ears. But if you're just relaxing, you're in a tub, you're in a spa, you're having a
Starting point is 00:21:18 great day, almost as moisture on your skin. You know, your eyes are not as dry. There's a replenishment that has happened. So those exiles go a long, long way. And it's something that's available to us in perimenopause, in postmenopause. So that is one thing that I say, you know, must be of everybody's toolkit. Yeah, so I love this because it's free and it's easy. And I have a big, I'm a big fan of health care not costing everybody a ton of money. So I want to go back to this idea. Let's say I'm 40 years old, 41, and I'm come roaring into this, these perimenopausal experience. And my career is taking off. My kids are teenagers. And like this idea that I would need to slow down, otherwise I'm drying my, drying everything out, and I'm really creating more
Starting point is 00:22:08 menopausal symptoms. How, what would the breathing technique look like? Is it something you do in the morning? You talked about how you do it during the day. Is it like a tool that you just need to be aware of and do it as much as possible? And does it counterbalance this, this burnout life that so many of us live? Such a great way of putting that question in. So I would say, that it does require practice, right? So there's an app called the breathing app. My great friend Eddie Stern has created this app. And you can just, it's a free app. You can go and set up a timer for resonance breath. So it'll give you a gong that goes five seconds, inhale, seven seconds, exhale. And you can pick your times, you know, so you can be three seconds, four seconds, whatever you want.
Starting point is 00:22:54 But then you start practicing that. And I say, I tell everybody, you practice it in the morning, you practice it in the night. You can even set it for two minutes. You don't have, you can do it. You can be driving and say, while I'm driving, I'm going to be doing this. while I'm working, if you can do this five times a day. I mean, it's one or two minutes five times a day. Like, I'm like, do it like prayer. But you're reminding your body. If you can actually take a break, even while you're waking, when I say take a break, take a break from being in your sympathetic nervous system, from being in chronic stress. If you can break your chronic stress, even while you're driving. And you're training yourself to do this. Now, without the app that is accessible to
Starting point is 00:23:31 you within a few weeks, we'll realize, right? Many in my busiest periods, like normally I have a lot of rituals that I practice, but in my busiest periods, I have to say that this is what holds me together. And you could be in the shower, you could be just wiping your body with a towel, you could be opening a refrigerator, you could be doing whatever you want. But you just, you could be in the middle of a conversation and you go into that longer exhale. But yes, the caveat is it does require practice. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:57 And you want to start with the resonance breath and an ad. something on YouTube, whatever you find. Simple, free, and then you bring it. Also, I tell people that sometimes when your body, you know, Mindy, I used to be super rushed as a child. And I used to be very rushed and it's, and I wasn't efficient because I broke things along the way. You know, I forgot things along the way. But I realize that you don't have to slow your body down. You have to just slow your breath down. And your body actually becomes more efficient. Because you'll make better decisions. You'll have more clarity. You'll move faster. You'll be more agile. You'll be a little. You'll be less like all over the place. It's just one wonders. I feel like there's a lot that can get done.
Starting point is 00:24:38 Interesting. So you can slow time down is what I heard. It's like putting you out of that sympathetic state, which also with that brings that high beta brainwave where you're like thinking, thinking, thinking, thinking, thinking, what I just heard is this simple tool done five times a day. And I assume we only have to do it a couple of rounds could really prime the parasympathetic and get you out of that out of the sympathetic response? I would say you want to do it for a couple of minutes when you're starting out of a yeast. People do it for up to 10 minutes. I mean, I tell people, you know, like I worked with these really busy journalists in New York, like a ton of them. And I said to all of them that
Starting point is 00:25:16 you just play it while you're working. So then you're conditioning. I mean, like at the end of the day, you're all Pavlov's dogs, you know? Right. You play it when you're working. And then you don't, before you know it, you are, you've trained yourself to breathe like that. Yeah, amazing, amazing. So it's so easy. Yeah, a friend of mine, this is a new tool that I've been really thinking about this year because of, you know, the evacuations from the fires and things like that. And I started getting a lot of anxiety. And a friend of mine, who's a performance coach, really helped me understand some meditation techniques, some moving energy techniques. And she's like, you have to do them ahead of the anxiety attack. And it's like you're preparing yourself for how to handle
Starting point is 00:26:00 the anxiety tech. And what I just heard and what you just said is that if you, like, if at 40, every woman knew this and then we just went into, okay, now I'm 40. I need to start practicing this breathing technique so I can be ahead of the irritability and the anxiety and the depression. Is that a good way to look at it? Yes, Mindy. In fact, you know, I'm a, like before people start working with me, I'm such a stickler for creating what I call the toolkit. So it's exactly what you define. I give them an alacart list of, first is preventative tools. Things you do every day before you get on the battlefield of life. So I tell people you pick your preventative, you know, two, three, four, whatever you want. And then you practice them before life happens to you. And the
Starting point is 00:26:44 reason is how your body learns how to feel safe. And then they're battlefield tools when you're in the moment and things begin to pick heat. And the tools in the battlefield would actually look very different from the preventative tools sometimes. And they could be drastically different at times. And they could be drastically different at times. But like you're in the middle of a conversation. Things are beginning to get intense. What tools are you going to bring? But your body knows how to feel safe, even though it's gotten there through a different route. But the minute it knows how to feel safe, it's so easier to access that place. But then you also have a third set of tools, which is repair tools because we all need to heal from the day. And we need to heal from crisis periods. So you
Starting point is 00:27:17 definitely want to have in your toolkit tools that can help, I mean, alcoholics are made at night. Food addicts, sex addicts, TV addicts are all made at night, right? Because we all need to get from the day. That is so well said, by the way. It's really true that. It's like that transition out of day and tonight is really, but that was so powerfully said. Yeah, and that is so intense for the body. Because, I mean, you're studying this.
Starting point is 00:27:41 So all the excitatory mediators become the inhibitory mediator, and it's so difficult for the body. So yeah, yeah. And so it's exactly what you said. But, you know, you want to start thinking about your tools like that. And you want to have enough of all tools so that you know what to pull out of your toolkit at any given point. Right. You know, it's interesting. I was just having this conversation with a couple
Starting point is 00:28:01 other authors that write books on women's health. And I was saying how I think a lot of times what happens to women is that we're in such a patriarchal pace. We're like so like go, go, go all the time that at the end of the day, we don't actually balance ourselves out. We just go neutral. So we're in this high state of performance and then we sit on the couch with a glass of wine and watch our favorite Netflix series. But what we don't realize is that we haven't balanced out the doing with any technique. We just go neutral and we're sitting on the couch and just numbing ourselves. So what I just heard in what you just said is this is a way of not just going neutral. You're not just chilling out. You're actually repairing yourself from the frenzy of the day. And it's free and it's breath.
Starting point is 00:28:50 And that's super cool. Mindy, you're so perceptive. I just. just love it. And the way you summarize everything is just delightful. And you know, the one thing I, I, I, like, one of the other ways that really sticks for people is this, right? Women are juicy. Like, that's the truth. Yes, we are. We have breast milk. We have amniotic fluid. We have a menstrual cycle. I mean, we like, when you think of a lunar goddess, you can totally imagine this like woman with this like completely feminine energy walking through, right? And in fact, you know, Medi can I just say when I was growing up and I grew up in a really large, you know, joint family. And there was arranged marriage at that point when I was a young girl, right? And when they would look for like potential matches for my elder cousins, like boys, like the boys in the family, I would hear the elders say that, oh, does she have moisture in her eyes? Like, oh, yeah, she's, she's great, she has such moisture in her eyes. And that she has a fluid face. And I'm like, what does that even mean? Right. And they're all, like, this is a sign of fertility, right? Because, oh, yeah, We looked at me. Yeah. It's a sign of fertility, right? So it used to be a sign of fertility,
Starting point is 00:29:58 and that's how from generation to generation, you learn how to evaluate maids, you know, because at the end of the day, we're primal beings. And so, of course, it makes sense then that when we're going to our perimenopause and menopause years, and our eggs have gone down, right? Like in our early 30s, the amount of eggs we have got out to 10%, which most people don't know. In our 40s, it's gone down to about 3%. And then we're dealing, you know, we're living with that 3% of eggs and such low estrogen. for like good seven, eight, ten years, which is estrogen progesterine, doing its own madness. And it's natural because the body is moving towards that dryness, right?
Starting point is 00:30:32 But you don't want to dry more than it is meant to dry. Right. So, you know, for example, breath was one practice. But, Mindy, I should say the second practice. Yeah, I was going to say, give me another one. Yeah, yeah, please. Yeah, this distance. But like, yeah, but the second one that I'd really like is that, you know, like the microbiome changes in the gut, right?
Starting point is 00:30:50 Because, again, the same thing happens. It's not so juicy. The mucosal lining, again. all the juice is dry. So the mucosal lining starts to dry up a little bit. And the environment changes. The colonies of bacteria change. So you cannot consume, like, I can't tell you, go and eat a lot of fat.
Starting point is 00:31:03 Like, I can't say that because you're, you cannot break it down. So skin is another channel of consumption. Okay. And Ayurveda really values the channel of consumption. So we use body oiling. Have you heard of the practice of body oiling, Mindy? I have years ago. Yeah, tell me more.
Starting point is 00:31:20 It is, I mean, in Ayurveda, so firstly, the word for oil. is in Sanskrit is Sneha. Sneha is also the word for love. It is the same word. Oil and love, same word. Sneha. And it is such a self-loving practice. And I cannot even tell you the benefits go.
Starting point is 00:31:38 So from just replenishing the microbiome on your skin. This is where it starts, right? It is not where it ends. Because healthy microbiome are lipophilic, which means they thrive on fat. They eat your own fat to live. So it replenish the microbiome. but it also has the ability to detox your pores.
Starting point is 00:31:56 This oil goes inside, nourishes, and brings the grind back to the surface. But it also has the ability to lubricate your joints, right? Joins are such a big problem. Plus, the oil that is used is sesame oil. And sesame is known by there no studies done in terms of the practice of oiling, but sesame is known to be a balancer for both estrogen as well as progester. So the oil that we use are always sesame-based. I mean, this is not a coincidence, right?
Starting point is 00:32:23 But this, again, you know, it's great for lymphatic drainage, the health of your joints, for the synthesis of vitamin D because vitamin D is a fat soluble vitamin. It protects you from all kinds of radiation. And it's just, it is such a calming practice for the nervous system. And it goes such a long way to replenish juices in your body. So this simple practice of oiling your body before you go, ideally before you exercise, I know it sounds crazy, but we can talk more about that. But if not before you exercise and before you go to shower, not after, before you go into the shower.
Starting point is 00:32:59 Oh! You oil your body. You rub, you know, it takes five to seven minutes, not too long. And then you go in your shower and you realize that the shower doesn't, you know, water is very drying, right? Mindy, if you went into the water, it's so drying for the skin. Yeah. And this, like, it protects the skin barrier. Your skin is glowing more and you feel better.
Starting point is 00:33:20 you said such a game changer. Amazing. And we also we also use oil in every orifice. I should give you this disclaimer, right? Eyes, nose,
Starting point is 00:33:28 is nose, nasia drops, mouth oil pulling, years, navel, vagina, anus, I mean,
Starting point is 00:33:37 there's like, their oil therapies for every part of your body. Are you, so then would you, like, have a bottle of sesame oil next to your shower,
Starting point is 00:33:46 you rub it all over your body, would you want to put it in the different orifice? and then take a shower? Like, and how long does it need to stay on you? Because that seems like it could be a really easy, like, I shower at night. So I'm thinking how easy this could be just to do all of that and then shower and
Starting point is 00:34:06 it's another way to support the system. Yeah. So the orifices, they all need to be learned. So you want to learn how to do your oil pulling. You want to learn how to use the nasal nascent drops. And that's a separate oil for that. God. Okay.
Starting point is 00:34:20 You can be used for oil pulling. So the two things that are very easy is using, is oil pulling and applying it on your body. Now, the practice can take any time from five minutes to you can, you can do it for 15 minutes. You can do it for as long as you want. But I would say, you know, at least start at five. And most days, that's what I do, right? And you would do it like you would do moisturizer. It also eliminates the need for moisturizing excessively.
Starting point is 00:34:43 And you just, the only thing that I tell people is treat it like a ritual, not like a routine. Like you're kind of, you're caressing. How much do we get touched in our 40s and 50s and 60s? Yeah. You want to think about like this is your time to caress yourself, to touch yourself. You play your favorite music and light a candle and just make it sexy, you know. And this is your practice. This is giving back to yourself and the benefits go a long way.
Starting point is 00:35:09 So five to seven minutes does so much for, and people notice it right away. Mindy, in my entire practice, I've never seen somebody who's tried up, and then given up Abhyanga. It's called Abhyanga, but body oiling is another word as well. Yeah. I'm wondering if it would help menopuzzle women sleep too, because that's a really big challenge. And again, if we look at it through the lens
Starting point is 00:35:32 of what we've been talking about today, which is you go into these high states of performance, and then all we do is crash on the couch and watch our series and drink wine. We're only going neutral. We're not in so, gosh, you can breathe throughout the day, you can oil before you go, and you're just balancing the extreme performative state that so many of us find ourselves in.
Starting point is 00:35:53 And what I love is it's not like you're saying, don't be in those performative states. It's very much like why I fell in love with fasting, which is I found it was really difficult to get people to change their behaviors around the quality of the food, but I could get them to change their behaviors around the timing of the food. So the two things you just gave so easy to do. And although I think you and I would both agree, slowing down would be good, but so many women can't do that. Yes, absolutely, Mindy. And you know, like I tell, I think people, you talked about sleep right now, right?
Starting point is 00:36:31 And I think we've got it wrong a little bit. There's so much importance to morning routine that people forget about evening. I tell everybody, like instead of saying that, oh, I couldn't wake up early because I slept late, I said we want to say that I couldn't sleep late because I woke up early. And you want to have a night routine. I tell women you want to first start your nightly routine. If you have no routine, let's have, how do you unwind at night? What do you do?
Starting point is 00:36:56 How do you slow down? And this oil practice can be used, especially in the bottom of your feet. You know, there's like a Kansah wand. Like there's a wand called the Kansa wand. It's like a, you know, there's guasha and there's a wand for the face. It's like an alloy, copper and tin. And that's used. But even without that, you can just use.
Starting point is 00:37:12 plain sesame oil, massage your feet. You want to wear socks or wipe it down so you don't slip in the bathroom in the night. And then you want to have like, you know, so slowing down at night changes how you wake up in the morning. And how you wake up in the morning changes how your day goes. And how your day goes, again, changes how your evening goes. But I think we need to really give a lot of importance to how we slow down towards the end of the day.
Starting point is 00:37:31 That's more important than how do we wake up because that's going to happen anyways. So give me an example of a nighttime routine that you either use or you've used with your patients. Yeah, absolutely. So I think, you know, universally, everybody talks about, like, dimming the lights, keeping those blue screen space. I'm not going to do too much. I'm not going to go too much on that.
Starting point is 00:37:50 But I think one of the most important things is not eating after 6-630. Oh, yeah. I came from a family tradition where nobody ever eats, but also like till even about 100 years ago when we didn't have electricity in our homes, we were not eating big dinners. So, and then the first thing that I offer is you want to finish food by 6, 6, 630, nothing big and solid. Yeah. And dinner is always for. health, lunch you can indulge a little bit. So I think that really starts to set the tune.
Starting point is 00:38:18 Yeah, I like that. And again, I'm going to keep it super easy, right, Mindy. I mean, of course, I can say all these complex things and make people curious, but the truth is it's fairly easy. What I really like to engage in is something called evening raga's, R-A-G-A-S. And Raghaz are these musical compositions. And these beautiful ragas are created, you know, in the ancient times in India, beautiful music compositions, classical music. They were created for the evening because they understood, those scientists understood that our body is going through this transition. This, again, neurochemical transition, and it's difficult, right?
Starting point is 00:38:53 As they change hands, serotonin upgrades to melaton and all of that happens, the body goes through a difficult period. And most people start feeling anxious, right? At dusk time, they feel anxious. Right. So you just play that music. Like every evening, you want to start playing that music. Oh my God, I love this.
Starting point is 00:39:08 Yeah, yeah. And then I highly recommend that if you have an argument, save it for the daytime. Like you actually say, okay, I want to talk to you about something, but I'm going to talk to you about it in the morning. You know, my husband and I, when I went through perimenopause into menopause, I finally had to say, after 6 o'clock, don't talk to me about anything that is not going to put a smile on my face. Like, because I will. So smart. Mindy, you are the OG of this. Like, you know how to do this. I just was like, I'm not. I otherwise it means I won't sleep first. like ever so I love that I also you know something intuitively I started doing this year from just the
Starting point is 00:39:47 trauma that I went through it with the fires is I started playing chanting music at night and I found that that that was that was going to be my next thing bad news finished because I want to hear your story okay and I actually have one song it was put and I don't know the name of the song but it was by j utal who I you know I've listened to his music in yoga classes forever and it's it's because of the repetition, I knew that primed your vagal tone, but what it's done now is that I went traveling and when I got in the airport and I could feel myself stressed, I just put his song on because I'd already used it as a way to condition my nervous system at the end of the day. Basically, Mindy, so, so brilliant, right? And listen, we as, you know, growing up in India,
Starting point is 00:40:33 we were given these chance. I was just telling my mom on the phone last night. I said, mom, you know, I just go into what I call knock our mantra, a certain chance. and I'm like, something happens, I just go into it, like, in my mind. I just like always, as a trial, all the time. And it is so powerful. And it's such a great practice at night, right? Because it's like, and, you know, even it's a very simple science, right? When your nervous system is exposed to the same vibration for a period of time,
Starting point is 00:40:55 whether it's white noise or it's a chant. Now, the chant is a little bit more significant because, you know, it has Sanskrit is a very vibrational language. And a lot of these Sanskrit chants, they kind of, like, they play music with your, with your endocrine glands, right? your chakras. And it's not a joke, it's not a coincidence that there's seven chakras, seven primary endocrine glands that are being studied, and there's seven notes, the seven musical notes. Oh, that's interesting. And there's a whole, there's a, there's a whole science of this music, you know,
Starting point is 00:41:23 Raga Chicka-Chicitsa, like healing through this classical compositions. But like simply, go at Spotify, go to YouTube, play evening ragas and then, you know, chanting. Like, like in my family, what I'm doing more and more is I just do an evening smudge. And it takes, it takes a, it's, takes a moment. I take an incensed stick. I like go around the house and I set an intention. We chant together, me and my girls. But you're all setting for the evening. And I think so what is very important is for anyone evening, you want to have an evening freshening. You know, whether you're taking a shower in the evening or getting into your pajamas, you want to take that time, you know, to like wash your face, get a change of clothes. You know how? Because that sets the mood. Again,
Starting point is 00:42:04 it creates a whole different mood. And then a couple of practices before sleeping. You can have a warm beverage if you're infuring to milk, like a warm cup of milk with a cardamine powder, can, you know, feel like a tranquilizer very naturally without medication. And keep putting your legs up against the wall in this yoga post called wiparit karni. So laying in your bed, you know, with your legs up against the wall. And that really helps to lower blood pressure. Again, brings your body into the parasympathetic state. It's for free. You can play music while you're doing it. And then if you want to do the foot massage, foot massage, cooler rule, heavier blanket. I mean, like, Ayurabra has this exact specific recommendations that today's sleep experts are going to.
Starting point is 00:42:41 Oh, amazing. I have a weighted blanket. I really like it. So you're saying do it. You do a way. Oh, a cooler room. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. That's like, that's the key to great sleep. But let's go back. So just so I'm clear, Raga, you can just go to Spotify and it's Raja. Is that how you spell it? Yeah. Yeah. And evening Raghas. So they're evening ragas. These are specifically designed when you're, you know, all the daytime, juices are becoming nighttime juices. So they're designed for that specific transition. Okay. So you want to do evening ragas and they're morning ragas and there's seven dawn ragas and dusk ragas and all kinds of ragas. But evening ragas is what you want to stick to for the evening. So let's run the scenario that you've been working all day and you're now, maybe you're going to go lean into season three of White Lotus and you're going to enjoy maybe some time sitting and
Starting point is 00:43:32 watching a show with your husband. Would you do this ritual? where you're listening to the Rhagas, your legs up the wall, putting the oil on. Is that best done like in the transition out of the day into the evening? Or is it best done when you're really ready to transition your mind and your body and your nervous system to actually go to sleep? Yeah. So to be honest with you, my honest answer is do it whenever feasible for you. Yeah, there you go.
Starting point is 00:44:04 Yeah. But when you have the luxury, But when you have the luxury, you want to do it to transition out of any kind of mental activation. So after your white lotus. Or maybe you can start with a foot massage while you're watching your TV show. Or maybe you can start with a certain practice and then you gradually want to, like, you want to be yawning when you're watching the TV. You want to be like, I'm so relaxed and I'm ready to turn this off, you know? Perfect.
Starting point is 00:44:29 And you don't want to sit on like one of those slouchy couches, you know. I mean, it'll look five days. People, anybody who's going to try. going to hate me for five days. And then I promise you'll love me because then you're not, because the minute you're like in those slouchy couches, you're not getting up from that place. Like you're not. You know, it's going to be second and third and fourth episode or whatever you're watching. So that happens, right? So you want to inspire yourself. And like, I also like to have something. What am I inspiring myself to do next? You want to be inspired with what you're
Starting point is 00:44:57 doing next. And also the timing of the sleep is important. Mindy. So even though I don't say it, people know that sleeping at 10, 10 p.m. is ideal. You can't do 10. you do 10.30. You can't do 10.30 to 11. And whatever you're doing, you just move back 10 minutes. Why is 10 idea? Yeah. So, I mean, of course, depending on the seasons and place, but 10 is just an easy number to say out there, but around there, around there, because between 10 and 2, melatonin surges at its highest, the body goes into this deep, beautiful metabolic repair,
Starting point is 00:45:27 that glymphatic system comes alive, which is cleaning all the debris from all the nonsense we're thinking as human beings. We're the only species that have this ability to think and create debris as a result in our nervous system. So that happens when you tend and don't. And many, like so many people at 2 o'clock, they wake up for a bathroom break. They wake up in a sweat. They wake up suddenly hot. That's like signaling the end of this metabolic repair, like internal metabolic, like the daytime repair from the day, everything that's pending. So the body is signaling, you know, that, okay, this is done. And then that second phase begins from 2 to 430, which is when the body goes into like now creating regeneration of new tissue,
Starting point is 00:46:04 right? Like you grow with hormone surges and pro-lactin surges. And you want to give yourself the whole window as many days as you can from the 10 to 430 and then, you know, some more if you can. But those are really important hours of sleep. And once in a while and sometimes we can miss it. But just having this consciousness allows us to be, to want to sleep a little bit more. Yeah. Okay. So that was beautiful. So we have breath and then we have oil and then we have an evening routine. What else would you recommend to be able to transition into this depletion of hormones. Yeah. I will say, right, so I'm going to go into a little bit of supplements and herbs and a little
Starting point is 00:46:41 bit more on like, you know, food. And a lot of the food also does align with modern nutrition and what it has to say. I will say that one of the first things, I'm going to go in nutrition first because we started there. So one of the first things you want to do is start eating. We already talked about a 630 dinner, but you want to start eating lighter dinner. You know, in fact, it is a time. I mean, you are the queen of fasting.
Starting point is 00:47:02 If you want to fast, this is the time to do it and do not eat much of a dinner. And in the Ayurvedic books, they talk about barley soup and mung lentil soup, if at all. Okay. You know? For dinner? Or people can do broths.
Starting point is 00:47:17 Yeah, like a rice broth or a bone broth or a barley barley broth or a mung lentil broth, you know? Those are great dinners to go. So you want to go. Because, of course, like your visceral fat percentage goes from 7% to 30% for most women, right? And your body, your microbiome is changing. Your body cannot break down large amounts of foods.
Starting point is 00:47:38 And it's not in its building phase. You know, it's in its preservation. You know, it's like, we want to just let the body be in preservation and in that steady place. So that dinner, so you want to go down and dinner. So you want to go easy on dinner. But in terms of food choices, again, yes, not maybe really becoming conscious about all the fats, which are not of the greatest quality. that you're consuming and dialing down on those, like excessive cheese, excessive, you know,
Starting point is 00:48:06 ice cream or X, like making sure you know, do. Yeah. Oh, through, okay. Yeah. Oh, okay. Yeah. Like, like basically, you know, I see, Mindy, I've had clients who are like, oh, because he is so great, I'm having oodles and oodles of ghee.
Starting point is 00:48:19 But it doesn't work after a certain age because your body cannot break down fat the same way. And then it kind of becomes, your body is anyways waiting to grilled cholesterol at that phase. You know, for a few years, your body is like, you give me something, I make it into cholesterol because I'm not building any more tissue during this transition. Just during the transition. A lot of people come out of it. Right. So you want to just evaluate all the fat that you're consuming and seeing if your body is able to break it down. If it is not able to break it down, olive oil is a really good fats. Eating foods which have the good fats like avocados, great, keep them all. But anything that's
Starting point is 00:48:52 of especially poor quality, like a lot of cream cheese, a lot of cheese, a lot of ice cream, excessive dairy. You just want to dial down a little bit on that. You don't want to go too crazy, but olive oil is great to bring in at this point again. So I tell people, go 50, 50 in olive oil and ghee, don't do oil ghee. Okay. So you're watching your fats throughout the day. And where my fasting brain is interpreting what you're saying is that you would eat your bigger meal in the middle of the day or one or two o'clock and then you can broth it up or soup it up at night, which makes so much sense, especially if you do bone broth, because you can really start to actually open up your fasting window maybe at 6 o'clock. And then you actually, it's a different way of
Starting point is 00:49:38 fasting if that main meal is the middle of the day, which I can tell you as a postmenopausal woman is definitely my preferred meal situation. Have the largest meal at lunch or a late lunch. And then I usually innately was having a cup of tea or something. warming at night and then like my fasting window was already starting at like four or five in the afternoon. And it is an alignment with what you're saying. Beautiful. I love that. Yeah. And now there's so much like, you know, Mindy, just like, there's so much research into like what really happens in the afternoon. Your insulin sensitivity is the highest. Your gastrin is the highest. Your ghrelin is risen to a good amount of point that where you eat, you eat, you enjoy the
Starting point is 00:50:20 food and you break it down. Versus at night you eat, your ghrelin asks for starchy foods. And then you can't break it down. Like, they're all kind of insulin resistance, mildly diabetic at night. So, yeah, this is, this is brilliant. But the foods that you can add is, and people go a little crazy about how they do protein. It is important to be mindful of protein. What I'm not happy about is that, especially here in the West, people forgot about protein for like the first 40 years of their life.
Starting point is 00:50:46 And suddenly they're waking up to protein, right? And the body's like, what is this new foreigner substance that you've given us? Versus in a lot of traditional cultures, we continue, we say protein since kids, right? I had a bowl of lentils every single day of my life, right? I had some dairy, some lentils, lots of almonds. You want to train yourself to eat, you know, small amount of healthy proteins, ideally cooked in a traditional way. Like, I'm big on that because your body protein is too heavy.
Starting point is 00:51:14 And there's a reason why protein was either always cooked, spice, because spices help to break down, even the toxic metabolic waste from the cooking and the breaking down. It leaves leave so many free radicals because protein is so heavy. So spice, water down, right? Lentils are always water down. Lental soups, lentil. Or they're fermented, you know, tofu.
Starting point is 00:51:36 Even we have a ton of, even an Indian and Ayurada cuisine, we have a ton of fermented lentil preparations. So, and like even cheese as a protein is fermented. And we have paneer that is fermented, you know? So you want to eat it traditionally, how it was eaten. How did your ancestors eat it? Yeah. And what, yeah, how the ancestors ate it is really important.
Starting point is 00:51:55 question. What spices help you? I really love that idea. My son is a chef and so we geek out on food all the time. Yeah. Amazing. And so I'm like I'm thinking about we've had so many spice discussions, but more from a flavor profile. But what you just said is that certain spices actually help you break down protein. Are there, do all spices do that or are there certain ones? So, Mindy firstly, like when you have, when you see my book, I have like two pages. I have charts, which give you all the, like, which break it down even further. But I will tell you. So basically what the proteins help you, like what spices help you to do?
Starting point is 00:52:31 Like spices are hot in what we call inherent potency in Ayurveda, right? Spices, like the word spice by itself, like brings heat to your mind. And what spices help you do, that because of the heat, right, just how cooking is a hot process. Because electricity is a hot thing. That's what it can charge your foam. As long as it's warm, it can transform. And spices are very warming in nature. and it'll help to
Starting point is 00:52:53 propel that breakdown to the next level. But not only that, most spices are antioxidants and they help to neutralize free radicals. When things are metabolized, there's toxic metabolic waste. The heavier the food, the more the toxic metabolic waste. And right here, when you're cooking it with an antioxidant, it's right, it's like, you're going to create the waste, I'm going to clean the waste.
Starting point is 00:53:16 And that's why all traditions, ancient cultures, cooked in these spices. So yes, not only there's a spice, like asafatida. It's very pungent and strong, but it helps to break down proteins really well. So I wouldn't dare dream of eating a protein without acid fatida, a little bit of it, right? Small pitchers need it. It's very, very strong. It's a resin from a tree. But also other things like caram seeds, very flavorful, delicious. And they're like little celery seeds looking kind of little seeds, very easily available in a lot of spice stores. And I think the U.S., like the West
Starting point is 00:53:50 still waiting to discover its flavor. And once it does, it's going to be, it's going to be like a big super food. But like caram seeds are, these two are really, really great for breaking down. Karam! Oh, good. I don't know this seed. I need to go find it. You're going to love it. Mindy, I'm telling you. Like, just you try very little. And then, you know, Mindy, I actually, like, even in my book, I guide people into how do you start? How do you build this relationship with spices? Like, you don't, like, how do you go on a date with yourself in that spice store? Like, how do you go, how do you date these? How do you woo these spices?
Starting point is 00:54:21 How do you explore spices and then bring some to your home? Which are the starter spices and which are like next level spices? You know, you want to do it. You want to have a relationship with these spices. And they tell you a lot. Like, you know, you learn a lot about the tradition where it came from just through having this relationship with your spices. So spices are one way.
Starting point is 00:54:40 So you want to have your proteins eaten like it was traditionally. You want to have, you know, you want to moderate your fats but include good fats. you want to start eating early, but you also want to include fiber. It is a very important time to include cooked fiber. And most people find it very uncomfortable to eat cruciferous vegetables. And once again, having, you know, cooking your cruciferous vegetables in good fats with spices drastically lowers the bloat that they cause. Even fennel seeds, just fennel seeds for cruciferous vegetables. They enhance their taste flavor, just fennel. That's it. And you'll see, and fennel goes with everything. It goes with cauliflower. It goes with cabbage. It goes with Brussels sprouts.
Starting point is 00:55:18 You do it all the time. And you'll see you're suddenly not as bloated. Also, you want to push that to lunchtime if you can. The fiber, again, you're pushing almost all foods to lunchtime. And I would say most people can do well. If you're doing this, you're oiling, you're listening to your Raghas, you know, they're making sure exhaling. You have your girlfriends, lots of them. Like I look at these boisterous women where I go to swim, Mindy. I go here to swim at asphalt green. and like 70, 80, 90-year-old women naked in the locker rooms and they're like boisterous
Starting point is 00:55:48 and they're like young teenagers talking to each other. They're like, look at my hair, I got this new product. Oh, my husband's snoring so much at night. Oh, my goodness. They are so cute. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:59 And you have the chance to like not care about anything else in the world. I enjoy this time. It's so great. I love the way you described the post-menopausal women in the locker room. So I, you know, I'm so in alignment with everything you're teaching because I really feel like we already have all the answers, the primal answers, ancient tools that were given to us years ago
Starting point is 00:56:23 that was to help us through this process. And we lost our way. So I'm so excited about what you're bringing forward. Where can people find your book and what can they expect in the book? Like, I'm excited to go take that Spices chapter and I'm going to go unpack that with my son and see what we can come up with. Yes, Minnie. And I'd still say, right? Like, it's very tempting for people to go into the later parts of the book. And I'll tell you what the book is called and why it was written.
Starting point is 00:56:50 So the book is called Your Body Already Knows. Okay. And, yeah. And so I want to tell you just to take a moment to think about that, that your body already knows. Yes, it does. We're the only species on this planet. We're the only species, Mindy, the most intelligent species who doesn't know how to live, right? Dear know, dear know when to wake up.
Starting point is 00:57:09 They're not complaining about grazing on. on the same land every day. And tigers don't get carried away by, tigers don't get carried away because there was a new study about high frequency brainwave patterns in the morning and nocturn, and they're nursing mammals
Starting point is 00:57:22 that will say no to certain foods because they're nursing and they say yes to galactagolds. And I've seen bears in Alaska before their hibernation, like right before hibernation, devouring big cabbage heads so they can have that bowel movement.
Starting point is 00:57:38 Animals. So just as all other speakers, she's on the planet no. They rely less on information, more on instinct and wisdom. And we've gone so much into information that we've lost our wisdom. So this book, your body already knows, gives you a clear framework. How do get away from the overwhelm of information? And how do you keep coming back to your wisdom using a framework? Because otherwise, if I say, hey, listen to your intuition, you'll say, I mean, my body just wants to have three bags of chips tonight. No, that's not intuition, right?
Starting point is 00:58:10 So I give you the framework. Yeah. Yeah. So I give you the framework. And so as long as you use the framework, you know, you know what the answer is where. So you make choices. It makes your wellness easy. It's a very loving and gentle approach.
Starting point is 00:58:24 My idea is nothing. You cannot heal anything. If it's not love and it's not kind, it's not ease. And it's not ease. It's going to be disease. So it's a very loving approach to bringing you back. It gives people a 21 day. So I just really quickly, part one is the most important part.
Starting point is 00:58:40 because it gives you the framework. Right. Part three takes you on a 21-day journey that one by one-by-one, you bring it into your life. One change a day, one shift a day. Micro-shifts, these are micro-microshifts, have massive impact, and worked with hundreds and hundreds of women doing this. And the spice is one of the days. One of the days, how do you bring in spices?
Starting point is 00:59:01 So I tell people, don't jump into part three. You're very tempted. People just want to go into action quickly. Of course. I said, don't jump into part three. Part one is the most important. Because, you know, it's like this, right? you were driving, Mindy, from L.A. to San Francisco, you wanted to make that trip, you would first
Starting point is 00:59:15 put it at your GPS. You would like look at the way. You'd see where you're going to take a break. How are you going to navigate it? Once you've mapped it out, you can drive, part one and to allow you to map it out. So it's called your body already knows, and that's where people can find it. Oh, my gosh. As an author, I will tell you that it's not easy to put a book like that together. So let me just say thank you for everything you've done. I really find, and my audience knows this, I find books to be the best way to really embody a message or a teaching. Because as an author, you spend a lot of time really looking at how you put the information together if the sentences structure is exactly what you would say.
Starting point is 00:59:55 Whereas when we're like in a conversation like this, we're sort of speaking from a lot of pieces of information. And when you're reading, you actually can put that information down in a way that is incredibly clear and focused and action-oriented. So thank you for doing that. I'm excited for everybody to get this. Thank you. And thank you for doing everything that you do, Mindy. And thank you for such a thoughtful interview. Thank you. I loved it. I'm going to go grab the book and take the pieces and I'm going to go to Spotify and find some Raga. I'll do it. I'm going to do the evening thing tonight. So you have to let me know how it goes. I will. You've totally inspired me. So this
Starting point is 01:00:37 phenomenal. Where can people find your book? I know it just came out. Yeah. So Amazon, Barnes and nobles, I think all the top retail stores, I just find it easier to order off Amazon. But you can find it anywhere. I can go on Kindle on Audible. So all of that is available to you. People can find me on my website. It's my first name, last name.com, nidhipandia.com. Amazing. Amazing. Well, Niti, this was incredible. You've fired me up. And I can't wait to go to sleep tonight. So it's I'm going to go and get some sesame oil and we're going to start the routine tonight. So, and please, those of you listening, like, give us feedback and let us know how it works for you. So thank you, Needy, so much.
Starting point is 01:01:20 This was a great conversation. I appreciate you. Thank you so, so much. Thank you so much for joining me in today's episode. I love bringing thoughtful discussions about all things health to you. If you enjoyed it, we'd love to know about it. so please leave us a review, share it with your friends, and let me know what your biggest takeaway is.

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