Live Like a Girl with Dr. Mindy Pelz - Using Breath and Mindfulness To Improve Your Health – With Sandy Abrams

Episode Date: November 15, 2021

For full show notes, resources mentioned, and transcripts go to: www.drmindypelz.com/ep96/ To enroll in Dr. Mindy's Fasting membership go to: resetacademy.drmindypelz.com This episode is about how ...breathwork and mindfulness can benefit your mind, body, and overall well-being. Sandy Abrams is a longtime entrepreneur now focused on Workplace Wellness and shares her 30 years of experience utilizing the power of breath & mindfulness for wellbeing and success. Her business sensibility about "breath as meditation at the speed of life" resonates with the fast pace of today's lifestyle. Sandy's book, Breathe to Succeed (2019) is endorsed by Arianna Huffington and executives from Google, Aetna, SAP, Sage software, and the U.S. Air Force. Sandy has led her unique & empowering BREATHE workshops at several Google offices, WW (formerly Weight Watchers) HQ, Universal Music, Facebook HQ, Canyon Ranch resorts, McKinsey & Co., Women Presidents Org., YPO, entrepreneurial groups, conferences and was slated to speak at SXSW 2020. Sandy is on a mission to empower people to create their optimal mindset & energy...one deep, mindful breath at a time. Please see our medical disclaimer. 

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Starting point is 00:00:00 When you begin to practice breath, you can immediately see the benefits. There are immediate benefits and there are long-term benefits. Our bodies are incredible resources for us, for wellness and for healing. I am a woman on a mission that is dedicated to teaching you just how powerful your body was built to be. I like to do that by bringing you the latest science, the greatest thought leaders, and applicable steps that help you tap into your own internal healing power. The purpose of this podcast is to give you the power back and help you believe in yourself again. My name is Dr. Mindy Pels, and I want to thank you for spending part of your day with me.
Starting point is 00:00:44 On this episode of The Resetter podcast, I bring you Sandy Abrams. Now, let me tell you a little bit about Sandy and what you're about to hear. I'm going to call Sandy a breathwork evangelist. So as you guys know, those of you that have been listening regularly, a lot of our guests have talked about the importance of breathwork in their life. And so I wanted to bring on a breath work specialist. And that's what Sandy is. She has a book called Breathe to Succeed. She teaches breath work to corporations so that they can use the tool of breath to not only enhance performance, but overcome stress to balance out the parasympathetic nervous system.
Starting point is 00:01:26 So in this conversation, we went through why breath is so important. And it reminds me so much of fasting. You will find that she is going to teach you how to get back to the way that your body was meant to be treated. And taking a normal breath, you'll hear what a normal breath is, is so powerful for your mental and physical health. And she'll explain why. So we talk about why you need to be breathing, different breathing style. So some people believe that you need to inhale quickly through your nose, exhale slowly out your mouth. We talk about that.
Starting point is 00:02:04 She dives into what the different lengths of breaths will mean. She talks about how to incorporate breath work into your daily habit. And more importantly, what I'm hoping this conversation will do is it will reconnect you to this primal part of your body that the modern world has most likely disconnected. you from. So breathwork has fascinated me. My guests of all different backgrounds are using it. And now I bring you a specialist like Sandy so that you can integrate it into your daily life as well. And as always, you guys, if you love this episode, please share it out into the world, leave a review, subscribe. These things make an impact in getting our message out that you are living in a miracle. And Sandy is going to show you just how miraculous your body was built to be
Starting point is 00:03:00 just by simply breathing. Enjoy. Start off with this idea. You and I talked when we first hopped on here about how breath work keeps creeping into conversations that I'm having. And I have to really be transparent and tell you that for the longest time, I thought breath work was just kind of woo-woo. And I didn't really understand what it did to our brain. And recently in the last six months, I'm starting to understand what it's doing to our brain. And much like fasting, I'm totally impressed. So I really want to dive into why breathwork is so powerful for us. But let's start with how did you even discover breathwork?
Starting point is 00:03:50 Like we're just breathing every day. Like how do we do we need to breathe differently? How did you come upon this information? First, Mindy, thank you for having me. I'm thrilled to be here. Awesome. Yes, how I came to breath was 30 years ago plus, 30 plus years ago. I began taking yoga classes.
Starting point is 00:04:10 And I became known as the girl who left yoga class right before Shavasana. Oh, no, you were one of those people? That was me. Oh, gosh. I had mean things to say about those people. That was me. I'm so sorry. And it's because I was ignorant to the fact that that stillness, that shavasana, those deep breaths that you took to embody the whole rigorous practice were the most, it was the most important pose in yoga.
Starting point is 00:04:40 So I became obsessed with yoga class. I would go once, sometimes twice a day. And my teachers began to ask me one by one. Sure enough, they would say, Sandy, why are you leaving class right before shavasana? And I would tell them the truth. Shavasana makes me anxious. I don't feel comfortable just lying still. I did the practice. I got things to do. Bye. And out of respect for my teachers who I adored and for this Eastern philosophy that has been around for thousands and thousands of years, I thought I better give it a try. And that's when three deep breaths changed my life. I was lying in Shavasana and I used to just stare at the ceiling fan, which sort of made my heart race. and I closed my eyes one day and I slowly took three deep breaths. And for the first time in my entire life, I felt that grounded, centered, empowered feeling
Starting point is 00:05:39 from just three deep breaths. And it was like that aha moment of this is what breath does. Wow, this is what being still does. I can now look back and realize I probably had ADD, I just, I wasn't wired to be still, but just the power of those three deep breaths made me curious. Well, what if I did this off the yoga mat outside in my business life and my entrepreneurial life as, you know, in any part of my life? And that's where I got curious and I never looked back. And it's been more than 30 years where I've, I've utilized the power of
Starting point is 00:06:20 breath to help me override my nervous system, to help me create my optimal mindset and energy in small moments with mindful breath. It's something I never really talked about until I felt like I needed to a few years ago when we were all living at the pace of Wi-Fi, basically. And I saw that breath could really help people. And so I decided to share my tools with people. And I wrote the book, Breathe to succeed. And now you're right. Thankfully, it's, it's, the world is ready for this conversation of breath. It's no longer woo-woo. You don't have to be sitting outside in a monastery, cross-legged, burning incense and chanting to breathe properly and to breathe well and to create your best mindset and best energy with breath. So that's how I came to it. Long story short, right? I love that.
Starting point is 00:07:20 love that. So here's what I find really interesting about that story. For starters, I love yoga. And I really resonate with your brain because I feel like my brain's a little bit the same way, with the exception of I would sit, I've sat in shavasana and suffered because I'm like, it's good for you, Mindy, you got to do it. And what I'm discovering as I understand the science behind things like meditation, even yoga, there's some interesting science behind yoga and breathwork, is that our brains really are primed to keep us alive. And when we perceive that there is a threat, the body and the brain will do everything it possibly can to run from the tiger.
Starting point is 00:08:13 And something like breathwork, and I want to dive into like technique around breathwork, what I'm gathering, and correct me if I'm wrong, this is why I'm sort of throwing this out at you. What I'm gathering is when we breathe, we are telling our brains, like, it's time to relax. You don't have to run from the tiger. You can chill out. And that, to me, makes the most sense. My question to you is, am I accurate in how I'm approaching this? and is there more to the game of breath and what it does on the brain that would be helpful
Starting point is 00:08:52 for people to know? Because this is what I found about fasting is once you know why it works, it's much easier to stay committed to it. Absolutely. It's a great question. So, yes, breath, when you begin to practice breath, you can immediately see the benefits. So there are immediate benefits and there are long-term benefits. And there are preventative tools and there are also healing tools.
Starting point is 00:09:19 So like you do talk about there's so many parallels with breath that our bodies are incredible resources for us for wellness and for healing. And so the breath is, yes, I do want to touch on what you talked about, that breath is for chilling out. And I sort of want to bust that myth that it's not just for chilling out. That is one thing that it does, but that's sort of the myth that it's been with that woo-woo sense. It's just like, oh, I want to breathe and chill out. But you can breathe in different ways that will balance your nervous system, calm your nervous system, or energize
Starting point is 00:10:01 your nervous system. So it goes way beyond just chilling out because, and that's what's wonderful is that for the past 15, 18 months now, whatever it's been for pandemic, we've been living in this state of where we feel like we've been in that fight or flight that you mentioned. And so what that does is it keeps us breathing up here from our chest, just the shallow autopilot automatic breath. And what that's done to all of us is it's left us in a low grade state of chronic stress. So yes, it is super important right now, probably for most people to focus on those tools that do help you relax and chill out. But also some people have been devastated by a lot of the circumstances and situations of the past year and a half. They need help sort of energizing. So there are
Starting point is 00:11:01 also ways to help you boost your energy, which then helps you boost your mindset. And and get back out into the world with this new stronger foundation of inner strength. So there's, yeah, and there is a ton of science, up to the minute, fascinating science, where I share just scratching the surface of the science behind it. And it's a shame that more doctors and more people don't know about the power of breath. And I heard Patrick McEwen, who has been sort of a mentor to me in sharing the science of breath. He has a book called Oxygen Advantage. And my new, I feel like I'm getting my PhD in breathing with his breathing cure, which just came out.
Starting point is 00:11:51 It's like 600 pages of basically science and practical application. But the science behind it is fascinating. And it's this superhuman power that we. have to create exactly what you need in that moment. So as we're on this roller coaster ride, which really pandemic or not, we all have life. And so as we ride the roller coaster of life, and you practice breath, what happens is you become more self-aware of your mindset and the signals that you're giving your brain because your body will believe whatever you tell it. So just as you mentioned, if we feel like, oh, my gosh, I'm stressed. Oh, my gosh. This is, you know, and we're telling our body how stressed we are and how terrible that our circumstances are. Your body begins to take that feeling on and take that energy on. Your posture as well. So I'm hunching my shoulders right now and we're always attached to our devices. So if we open our posture and we breathe better, there are so many other little tools that we can pair breath with, mind.
Starting point is 00:13:01 mindfulness tools, fasting, food. There's just, it's, it's an endless resource that's sustainable and it's free and it's zero calories and it's paleo and it's key to and it's like. It checks all the boxes. I love it. I love it. So I love this idea that it's not just for chilling out. I think that you really help me see a bigger vision there.
Starting point is 00:13:27 And I remember one of the, have you ever been to a Tony Robbins seminar? Oh, I love Tony Robbins. Right? So his UPW, he has you do this thing where, yeah, you like breathe out your nose and you say mantras and you get kind of really like amped up. And he recommends you do it before you go out and you give a big speech. So it's really interesting the different styles of breathing and what you just said, that some will amp you up.
Starting point is 00:13:55 And I know my yoga instructor, she has all kinds of different breathing techniques we do before and after a yoga session. So let's dive into like the how to breathe and how to use different breath, forms of breathing to calm or to amplify. I know you talk about nine different types of breathing. Is that right in your book? Yes, I just really scratched the surface of several breath tools. But let's unpack a few here.
Starting point is 00:14:23 And yes, Tony Robbins, he definitely gets you pumped up with the mindset. Tony Robbins, when I first started my business back in 1993, I bought all these business books. And then I ended up, so I have a broadcasting journalism degree. And I bought these books to start my first business. And I didn't understand any of them. They were written by MBAs and I didn't understand the lingo. I returned the books and I bought Tony Robbins books. And I was like, I can teach myself to get into the mindset, to believe in myself that I could be an entrepreneur.
Starting point is 00:14:56 And so that's what I learned from Tony Robbins and still always recommend his books. But since we don't have an on-off switch for feeling insecure or fearful or scared about things, what we have, breath is the closest thing we have to that on-off switch to get into that Tony Robbins mindset. So first of all, I want to talk about breathing through your nose and the importance of that today. because I think that's what generated so much buzz during pandemic. James Nestor, a journalist, went out and did a deep dive. And one of his key golden nuggets from his book is that nasal breathing changes the game for well-being.
Starting point is 00:15:43 And it also is a really important part of sleep, which is something that we all need a bit more these days or a better quality of sleep. So one of the things I want to leave people with today is the importance of noticing, are you breathing through your nose most of the time? If you're doing certain breath tools, like I'll show you a couple, we do use the mouth for some of them. And that's fine for certain breath tools or certain athletic events. But most of the time, you want to be aware that you're inhaling and exhaling through your nose. Why?
Starting point is 00:16:21 Why? Because when you inhale through your nose, let's all just take a deep breath through the nose. What we just did there is, first of all, we got 20% more oxygen into our body by inhaling through the nose versus the mouth. That's a lot of air. That's a lot of oxygen. Yeah. And also that oxygen was better quality than inhaling through your mouth. Why? Because in your nasal cavity, it filters all of the junk from your air.
Starting point is 00:16:58 so you're getting better quality air through your nose. So also there's there's so many issues about the damage that mouth breathing causes. That's a whole long other topic. But just be aware and just notice because some of your issues with sleep, fatigue and things like that could be coming from the fact that your mouth breathing. And there's a big percentage of people that are mainly breathing through their mouth. Yeah. Have you heard of, I have a couple of friends that specialize in.
Starting point is 00:17:28 holistic dental care. And they're recommending mouth tape so that it trains. It sounds scarier. Scary as I'll get out to tape your mouth and then try to sleep. But would that be a good thing to really look into to start to train you to be a nasal breather? Absolutely. And that's another thing that Patrick McEwen, he's specialized in asthma and sleep apnea for
Starting point is 00:17:51 decades because of what it did for him. He grew up with asthma. He had some surgery in his nose. but then he went back to mouth breathing. And it wasn't until he was 26 years old that he realized he needed to be breathing through his nose. So yes, he sells also like some sort of tape that's also great for children. Just a small piece of medical tape also can work.
Starting point is 00:18:15 So you don't need to like, you know, do anything more than a small piece of medical tape. And also for parents out there, notice how your children are breathing. This is something that he talks about that if his. parents had noticed, wow, he would have really improved his sleep when he was younger. So, yeah, that's really one important tool, is breathing as much as possible through your nose. Let me ask you, before we move on to, like, the next technique, I'm thinking as you're talking,
Starting point is 00:18:49 especially when you brought it up around children, one of the things we've noticed with fasting is that we've beat, I don't know another way to say this, but we've beat. the intuitive sense of when to eat out of our children. Like we have trained them. You get up. You eat breakfast. You eat lunch. Eat dinner.
Starting point is 00:19:07 Like nobody sits with their kids and says, let's find your natural eating rhythm. I finally ended up doing this with my son when he was in high school and it was a game changer. Do you think we're doing the same thing with breathing? Like there's so many of these primal mechanisms that the human body was designed to do that the modern world is really changing. And our health is suffering because of it.
Starting point is 00:19:32 If you're a parent listening to this or a grandparent, like just having a conversation with your child, helping them come back to their normal breathing pattern, can it be that simple as just observation? Yes. And thank you for diving a little bit deeper into this. I think it is really, really important for parents to notice and observe their children's breathing. And then also use fun breath tools, not only for the kids, but for ourselves to show that and empower your children, that they can control their nervous system with breath.
Starting point is 00:20:05 Yes. There's a fun tool called Lion's Breath. I taught it to my boys who are now 23 and 25. I taught it to them when they were little. And it's just a great tool. I'm going to show it to you now. It's like an immediate exorcism of negative or stagnant energy. And so sometimes kids don't even know why.
Starting point is 00:20:24 they're feeling negative or why they feel angry. And teaching them this fun breath just helps them to understand that whenever I feel that way, that yucky way or that negative way, I'm going to do this breath and make myself feel better. So what lion's breath is, and by the way, I still do this every single morning. I love to start my day with three lion's breath because it just clears that negative or stagnant energy. And it also, every single time I do this at a corporate workshop or an in-person event, it makes people laugh. So laughter is breath too, as you well know. So what lion's breath looks like is you can be standing, you could be sitting, you can be sitting up in your bed, you close your eyes, fix your posture so that you're making room for a good,
Starting point is 00:21:14 deep breath and beginning down at the belly through your nose, you take a long, slow, deep inhale and on the exhale, it looks like this. Ah, yes, we've done this in yoga. You hold up in your eyes, you stick out your tongue, and you exhale through your mouth, and you let everything go. And the great thing about breath is that you can customize all of these tools. So maybe you feel like shaking out your hands when you do it. Maybe you feel like shaking out your body.
Starting point is 00:21:48 You do whatever feels good to you so that you want to keep coming back to it over and over and over. But that is one tool where you do exhale through your mouth. It's also another tool that's fun to do with your kids. And they will carry that as an example of knowing that breath can really transform your energy in small moments. That's another nugget. I want to leave everybody with that you don't have to reserve chunks of time in your day. I'm not asking you to take up this new habit. Breath is meditation at the speed of life.
Starting point is 00:22:23 You can do it that quickly as a lion's breath, even. Or one breath. I'm thinking a great tool way to use that would be like, you know, when you're in a negative situation, like you've come in contact with somebody who stressed you out. One of the things that I've learned over the years working with patients is that we, When we're stressed, we tend to go and like breathe in. Like you meet anybody who's been in a car accident or had a tragedy, like that breath gets sucked in and then they're there stuck with that shallow breathing. So could it be a cleansing way to get rid of a negative situation or something as simple as you turn on the news and you're like, oh, God.
Starting point is 00:23:02 And then you see you three lion's breasts. Can we like visualize like the negativity coming out of our mouth and getting it out of our body? Exactly. Exactly. And what a great example. And also then pairing it with that mindfulness of visualizing the negative, whatever it is situation. I love that. I'm thinking like dark, you know, I was just doing a meditation this morning and they kept saying it was a guided meditation and the person kept saying give it a color of what you're, I'm thinking, yeah, maybe you just visualize like black coming out of your mouth because it is that negative, those negative thoughts that build disease. And people, I mean, Bruce Lipton, I had him on the. podcast and, you know, he was the guy that proved that scientifically. So I really loved lion's breath as a tool right now, especially. Yes. And you mentioned it just right then also that when you're when you're in a traumatic situation and you do, you breathe in and you're holding your breath. Yeah. It's on the exhale where relaxation comes. So everybody, as they're
Starting point is 00:24:06 beginning to experiment with slowing the breath down and taking deep breath. and let's go over what just one deep breath is. Let's practice that next. But I just, in the meantime, focusing on the exhale is really important for stress relief. Because immediately, like, let's right now take an inhale to account of four through the nose and slowly exhaling through the nose to a count of six or eight. So anybody listening right now as I begin to explain this, maybe take a few more rounds, inhaling slowly through your nose to a count of four, exhaling to six or eight.
Starting point is 00:24:55 It's so relaxing, right? Because it's science. This is what happened. Your heart rate just slowed down. And you moved from here's what I see. You talking a lot about this, right? Yep. Switching.
Starting point is 00:25:14 I'm doing the Mindy positions, moving out of fat burning. Hand talker. Well, I'll use this as an example of that's what you want to move in and out of parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous system. That's what we just did. When you make your exhale one and a half to twice the length of your inhale, you have then switched from sympathetic to parasympathetic nervous system. So you have sent that message to your body.
Starting point is 00:25:43 And I am calm. I'm relaxed. I'm okay. And that's also. what you just talked about, maybe say that to yourself either aloud or silently, depending on where you are and what you're doing. But as you take those long, slow exhales, say to yourself, whatever you need to hear. Nobody knows better than you, what you need to hear in any given moment.
Starting point is 00:26:08 So tell yourself, I am calm. I'm okay. This is fine. Instead of the F word repeating in your head over and over and over, because then you're raising your heart rate again. And it's incredible. So I, I, years ago, Dr. Andrew Weil came out with a blog post that happened to go through my Facebook on 478 breathing. And at the time, my kids were teenagers. And as you know, as a parent, you know, two teenagers in your house is an extreme sport. And I remember driving in the driveway and feeling tense before I even got into the house,
Starting point is 00:26:46 because I didn't know what was going to await me once I got in there. So I started doing this 478 breathing, which was very much like what you just did. And I felt like when I got in the house, I was calmer. I could handle any stress that was put my way, any snarky comments. I was able, I was better prepared and I didn't jump on the roller coaster ride with my teenagers. Is there something, the 478 breathing was very much what you just took us through. So it was four and through your nose. It was hold for seven, exhale through your mouth for eight.
Starting point is 00:27:24 Does it matter if you breathe in through your nose, exhale through your mouth? Does it matter how long you hold it? Like, are these all signs for our neurology? Because I'm like the type A person that doesn't want to get breathing wrong. Well, let's go. Just be transparent. I can tell. And I love that about you.
Starting point is 00:27:42 So we will go through technique. And so yes, Andrew Weil, Dr. Andrew Weil, came up with that 4, 7, 8 breathing. And you're exactly right. It's 4 and 8. So your exhale is twice as long as the inhale. So that is a relaxation tool. The middle part of that, the retention part, the holding the breath for seven, what that does for a lot of people, well, there's two schools of thought on this is that
Starting point is 00:28:09 holding your breath for some people makes them anxious, just like being still used to make me anxious. So he designed that tool to help people calm down and also people use it to help them get back to sleep in the middle of the night. However, if you're somebody that is anxious holding your breath, you don't have to do that part. You can get comfortable with the four, eight. But when you're holding your breath for just seven, or maybe you hold it for just four or five, that's good too. but what it does is it helps you to be present in the moment, helps you to refocus on your breath, and it helps you to really be inward.
Starting point is 00:28:52 So these days we are so externally focused. Yeah. That going inward, right? Going inward is like a coveted destination these days because closing your eyes and doing these relaxation breaths reconnects you to yourself. So yes, I love force. but I have come across several people in my workshops where it's not something to begin with.
Starting point is 00:29:18 It's get used to the four, eight, and then play around with retention. Breath retention is like an extreme sport these days. Oh, yeah. Right? I have questions on that, too. It is an extreme, but go ahead. Yes, I love it. And what I love about breath also is there are as many different modalities of breath work
Starting point is 00:29:39 as there are different foods, right? So as I talk about breath, when people say, I don't breathe, I don't, you know, it's like saying you don't eat or you don't sleep. Like, what do you mean? There is a tool for everyone. And so nowadays, like Wim Hof is as, you know, obviously leading the way. And he has led it scientifically as well and proven that his style of like the hyperventilating and holding your breath for long periods of time. But I love that. I have to say it took me a few times to get used to it.
Starting point is 00:30:15 And I went to a class a couple years ago with a yoga teacher friend of mine. And I left and was like, that is not for me. And I said, you know what? Give it three times. And I thought, just like my experience with yoga, with yoga, you're right. I'm going to give it three times. Well, by the third time, like, I love it. I do it probably every other day, do a morning session of Wimhoff breath.
Starting point is 00:30:37 So, yes. So getting back to the beginning about the technique, can we talk about the difference of chest breathing and then? Yeah. Please. Can I ask you one question about Wimhoff? Because my brain is curious on this. So when I started doing Wimhoff, he really has you exhale all the way out and then hold on the exhale, which is fascinating. I actually took a pulse oxymeter and put it on my hand to see what my oxygen was doing.
Starting point is 00:31:07 And that was kind of fun. But once I got into it, it was such a high. I was like, why would anybody need a drug? Like, this is amazing. So is there, are there some safety measures we have to have? Like he has you hold it for like three to four minutes. And I told my husband one day, I was like, I can hold my breath for four minutes. And he's, he looked at me and he goes, I don't know if that's safe.
Starting point is 00:31:32 I'm like, I'm here talking to you. So it must be safe. But is there a boundary when we're working on some of these holding of the breath that we need to be aware of? Absolutely. And I'm glad you brought that up. I don't teach that technique in my workshops because it does require a disclaimer. And it does require that you are not, you know, in a bathtub or by water or anything like that. So, yes, it's, there are definitely safety precautions that you can't be pregnant while you're doing that.
Starting point is 00:32:05 You know, there's lots of other medical. contraindications to that style of breath. So people do need to do their research before doing that. Also, I have never, I think two minutes is the longest hold I've done, but normally I also have adjusted his, I follow his format. But most of the time I do my inhales and exhales both through my nose. And the holding, the long hold that is at the bottom of the exhale does indeed, takes I'm getting used to because we're not used to holding our breath that way. And then he has you after that, you hold on the inhale at the top of the inhale for just 15 seconds and then you start those sessions again.
Starting point is 00:32:51 So again, I do feel that Wimhoff method is customizable. So I don't feel comfortable doing the in and out through my mouth in like that hyperventilation speed. So I've sort of slowed it down to be good for me. But yeah, there's that's, it's, you got to be careful and know what you're doing before you experiment with that. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:33:14 Awesome. Okay. I just was curious because we do have a lot of our listeners that just, you know, are getting into Wim Hof or doing things like that. And I just, it's like fasting. There always has to be a boundary of safety. So, so yeah, talk about chest breathing versus belly breathing because this is another tool that I have found difficult.
Starting point is 00:33:34 This idea that when you. you're breathing from your belly, you're inhaling and your belly is expanding. When I inhale, my belly wants to contract. And I'm like, wait a second, this has to be some pattern of sympathetic nervous system activation from years ago or something because that took me some time to train out of me. But so talk about chest and belly because that's key for people to know. Yes, it is really key. And it's, it's a shame that it feels, it feels.
Starting point is 00:34:06 unnatural for us now because we actually all started out. Like if you look at a baby when they're inhaling, you know how their belly goes up. It expands out. That's the way we want to get back to breathing. But these days, we're all always sort of holding in our gut. And so that's why we're breathing just shallow autopilot breath up here in our chest. And that's also, as I said before, contributing to our low grade state of chronic stress. So give yourself a breath upgrade. But by just trying to begin your breath down at the belly again, because what that does is, as you mentioned, it activates the diaphragm. And when your diaphragm is activated, what happens is, first of all, you're getting so much
Starting point is 00:34:52 more oxygen into your body because we're doing these long, slow, deep inhales from the belly all the way up. And because it's going through your nose, you are getting that much more oxygen in. And then what happens is your body can better absorb all of that oxygen. The gases exchange better. Your organs absorb the oxygen better. And everything is run. It's like a well-oiled machine.
Starting point is 00:35:19 And it's so much more efficient. Yes, it might take a bit of getting used to the belly breath again. And honestly, I wasn't doing belly breath for years until I read something about it. I was maybe starting it like almost down there. But taking a deep breath really means, first of all, starting down at the belly. And we'll do, I'll explain that. And then it also means taking that inhale to five or six seconds and also taking the exhale to five or six seconds. That is considered a deep breath.
Starting point is 00:35:56 And that's where, again, you're doing that shifting from sympathetic to parasympathetic. So put everybody can put their hands. on their low belly, like just below the last rib there. And as we begin this first deep breath, if anybody is sitting in a chair, just first adjust your posture, making room for air. And then as you begin your inhale, expand your belly out towards your hands. and then you begin to bring the breath up through your lungs, through the intercostal muscles,
Starting point is 00:36:38 and finally into your chest. Your shoulders do not participate in this exercise. I used to bring my shoulders up to my ears. That just causes stress to stay in your shoulders. And then slowly exhale, and your belly actually moves back towards your spine. And you can gently push with your hands. So let's do another round of that.
Starting point is 00:36:59 On the inhale, starting down at your belly, belly, filling your belly so that your hands move out, slowly bringing the breath in and up, finally into your chest last, and then slowly exhaling, pushing the belly back towards the spine. And one more round of that. See, that alone is, I have to focus on that. Yep. And my body does not want to push the belly out. It wants to contract every, every each time, inhaling that exhale.
Starting point is 00:37:44 That's so true. Is that common? Yes, it's very common because, as I said, we've been sort of sucking in our gut for years. And this is a really important. Once you try this several times, though, again, just like breath or just like fasting, it becomes second nature because you see and feel how great it is for your mind and your body. So I would just have people, ask people to focus on this for the next few times that they begin to do a deep breath. And you can also lie flat on the floor and put a book or a pillow on your belly and watch it go up on the inhale and watch it go down on the exhale.
Starting point is 00:38:28 And then you just start to begin to take deeper breaths. But it's, again, it's the diaphragm. And when it's activated, it connects to the Vegas nerve, which I feel like I'm getting my PhD. And everybody should focus on this new Vegas, not Las Vegas. This is the new Vegas baby. Yeah, it needs to be, I love that. It needs to be the new Vegas, especially in 2021. The new Vegas needs to be breath.
Starting point is 00:38:56 Oh, my gosh. And, yeah, so the Vegas nerve is the most important nerve in our body that taps into that parasympathetic relaxation tool and it doesn't work when we're doing shallow autopilot breath and especially doesn't work through your mouth. So. Interesting. Yeah. So first of all, the balancing breath of just one deep breath, making that inhale and exhale to five to six seconds, when you're new to that tool, that can be a relaxation breath.
Starting point is 00:39:30 Once you become used to deeper breaths, I use just one deep breath as a balancing tool to just get back into feeling balanced. So our noses use the left nostril and the right nostril. They alternate automatically. That's part of our autonomic nervous system. However, there is a breath tool, and I talk about this in the book, alternate nostril breathing, where we can sort of use it in a more strategic way. and do it mindfully by plugging one nostril on the inhale and then exhaling on the other side. Or the secret is also using just one side of your nose.
Starting point is 00:40:14 So, for example, when you plug your right nostril and you inhale and exhale only through your left, that's the parasympathetic. That's the relaxation side. If you plug your left nostril and you do some breathing through the right nostril, only, that'll give you a boost of energy, a boost of adrenaline. And so when you do the alternate nostril breathing, that balances out the left and right side of the brain. And the left side of the brain is that logical analytical side that we have. The right side is the more creative side. I tend to live in my right side of the brain a little bit more. And I love alternate nostril breathing because it does
Starting point is 00:40:56 give you that balance. Okay. Oh, my God. I got so many. That was. was good. I've got so many thoughts on that. The first is, are you telling me when I'm breathing right now, I'm not breathing in through both nostrils evenly? My nervous system will alternate. Like, that's just how we're meant to be. Yep. It's crazy. I've been breathing for 50, almost 52 years. And I've never noticed that it goes different. It goes in one nostril different than the other. I've never noticed either until I started doing the research and the science. And it automatically switches and it's part of homeostasis. Yeah, we're so much.
Starting point is 00:41:35 We're amazing. We are amazing. And so the fact that we can override our nervous system by simply plugging when you want to chill out and you plug that right nostril and just do the inhales and the exhale slowly through the left and you will feel more relaxed. And so, yeah, again, it's just. So if you. If you're going into a tense situation, you could just cover your right nostril, breathe in through your left a couple of times.
Starting point is 00:42:10 And now you're activating parasympathetic. If you're not, if you don't have enough energy or like you're maybe about to go do a presentation or go to a speech or something, you would do the opposite. Cover the left and breathe in through the right to get your sympathetic up. It depends. I've done so many corporate workshops over the past couple of years. And you know what? Some people need calming energy before they go out on stage. They have enough of that.
Starting point is 00:42:35 It depends on what you need. So, yeah. So that's what's great about breath. You use what you need in that small moment. I got to know Janelle McCauley. She's a retired pilot in the U.S. Air Force. And she taught battalions of hundreds and hundreds and thousands of young, mostly men, age 22 to 24. She would teach them the power of even just one deep breath while they were piloting.
Starting point is 00:43:07 So that's when you have, you have to focus. And so she would teach them to do a deep breath. And that's where you tap into your sympathetic, but also your focus and you can make decisions from that place of clarity and focus. And so, yeah, so there are so many ways to breathe for exactly what you need. And Patrick McEwen lately was, when I spoke with him, told me he was working with snipers and police forces and he would tell them not to pull the trigger until the bottom of an exhale. So there are like minuscule parts of breath nuances that are fascinating. But in the meantime, for people who are beginning, begin with just one deep breath, then maybe three deep breaths. and then focus on beginning from the belly and breathing it up.
Starting point is 00:44:01 And that's almost enough to spark the curiosity after maybe a year, maybe three, five years. And then someone might say, okay, I'm ready for more and different breath tools. But I just want to encourage listeners that you don't have to get fancy. You know, changing just from shallow autopilot breath to getting to know the feeling of some deep breaths will both will feel good for both. balancing, calming, and energizing. Love it. I'm laughing to myself because I fly a lot and I don't really love to fly, but I'm thinking the next time the captain's door is open, I'd be like, hey, I just want to make sure I arrive
Starting point is 00:44:43 there safely. So can I show you a couple breathing techniques to calm your nervous system so you can guide us? Have you ever tried that? I love it. That is so important. And I feel like it should be taught to pilots. It should be taught to doctors. it should be taught to kids.
Starting point is 00:44:58 I just spoke at this new conference called Ending Physicians Burnout Conference. And, you know, burnout is a major, it's a dire situation right now for our caregivers. And so teaching them, some breath felt kind of awkward to me because I am not a doctor and I don't have that science background. But the doctor who started this conference, Dr. Jonathan Fisher, is a cardiologist who suffered from burnout. And he's young. and he came to mindfulness and breath practice.
Starting point is 00:45:30 And now he wants to share it with all these other caregivers. And he developed this conference that was something he wished he had had even during medical school. They don't teach about the power of breath and how to use it as a tool for well-being and for calm and for mindfulness. And I mean, do you want to go into surgery under a doctor's care who's just not focused and not calm? and not mindfully connected to you as a patient. So he's really, right? He's on this mission to help caregivers care more mindfully,
Starting point is 00:46:06 but also while helping them heal from this, the trauma of pandemic. But the situation for burnout with physicians is not new. Yeah, that's been around even before the pandemic. I've, yeah. You would know that. Yeah, you know, the other thing that I find fascinating about the description of breathwork the way that you're teaching us is that we don't have a true sense
Starting point is 00:46:32 of how well equipped our body and our brain can be. We have been taught what I call outside in living where if you have a problem, you got to go outside yourself. You got to go, especially mental health. You got to go and get a therapist. You got to go and get a drug to change the inside physiology. And what I'm hearing from you is, something as basic as breathing, we haven't been taught how to do. Do you feel like that's what, I mean, a big part of anxiety, depression. I mean, the way that people are handling this craziness in the world could really be solved if we just got back to teaching people how to breathe? Yes, yes, yes. And that's what I am on a mission to do is to help people get to know the power
Starting point is 00:47:21 of their breath so that they can see the difference of, and they can move through life easier. It's better when you can make decisions based on responding versus reacting. I mean, I am so grateful that I got to know the power of my breath as an entrepreneur when I was young, because I was able to constantly recalibrate my mindset and energy. I mean, you get thrown problems all the time as an entrepreneur, right? that you don't know, I didn't even know that existed. Now I have to solve that problem. Amen, sister.
Starting point is 00:47:57 Yep. So that's what breath does. It brings you back to the internal connecting with yourself so that you're more self-aware of your thoughts and your energy. And then you can respond versus react. Not only does it, did it help me in business? It helped me in parenting. It helped me as a spouse, as a daughter, as a friend, as a son.
Starting point is 00:48:19 citizen. It made me more mindful. It made me more clear on my priorities and intention. I mean, breath has so many trickled down effects that it's incredible, just like fasting. And so that is my mission. Yes, there isn't enough conversation or awareness about it. I feel like I am breath's publicist. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love it. You know, I recently saw that there's a book coming out. I don't, I'm going to have to go find the author and bring them on the podcast. But the title of the book caught my eye on Instagram. It's called Why Woo-W-W-W-Works. And I was thinking, when I saw that title, I was thinking about all this stuff around ancient healing strategies like fasting and breathing and yoga, even light therapy, things that we have dismissed over the years as being Woo-W-W. Science is now proving why they work. And you've got
Starting point is 00:49:17 people, medical doctors, you've got researchers that are really bringing this to the surface. So I love that you're a breath publicist and trying to get that out because it seems to me as crucial as somebody learning to fast. So I just appreciate that. If you're listening to this and you're like, okay, I get the breath is important. Now where do I start? Can we give people some steps to go from just breathing like a modern human to becoming a breath, you know, advocate? Yes. So one of my favorite quotes is from BK.S. I Angar, you know, you're nodding your head.
Starting point is 00:50:01 It's that the mind is the king of the senses, but the breath is the king of the mind. So when people understand that, first of all, I know you talk about the importance of a why. behind fasting. Well, I talk about the importance of finding your why with breath. And it goes back to that quote, that the mind is the king of the senses and the breath is the king of the mind. You can help control your mind with breath. So getting back to the basics of what do you do? How do you integrate it into your busy schedule is a great question. And I would suggest that people begin by habit stacking. I think Ariana Huffington, maybe she coined. that word. And what it means is stacking it onto habits that are already part of your daily
Starting point is 00:50:49 routine. So I do a morning workshop with a lot of corporate offices. I've become known as the breath barista because I serve up morning coffee with breath. So you can attach breath. Most people have a love affair with their morning coffee or tea, right? So you can now utilize that time while you're brewing your water, steeping your tea, sipping your coffee, just begin to move from the autopilot, shallow breath to some deeper breaths. Just spending maybe one, two, three minutes on inhaling through your nose, exhaling through your nose, lengthening the inhales and the exhales, beginning that breath down in your belly. And then maybe attaching it to every single time you fill your water bottle, take one deep breath. Love that.
Starting point is 00:51:44 Deep breath, right? I mean, you're doing that anyway. So while you're refilling your water, focus on some deeper, slower, nourishing breaths. Maybe every time you shower, you're taking some more breaths. Maybe every time you walk from your car into your home, breath is also an incredibly wonderful transitional tool. If you're moving from Zoom to Zoom sessions, Zoom meetings, online meetings, maybe every time you come from your office back into your home and you want to decompress and you want to move from business mode to family mode. So just attach it to things that you are otherwise normally doing. And that way it doesn't become an extra thing.
Starting point is 00:52:29 You have to add to your schedule. And that's when it becomes second nature. And I promise if people do these tools in those small moments, you will soon. sooner than you think, become addicted to that feeling of the more nourishing, deep, slow breaths. I love that. You know, years ago, I heard Wayne Dyer say that when you're learning to meditate, don't necessarily take on like 20 minutes in the morning, but just meditate at stoplights. And then he went on to say, the personal behind you will let you know when the light turns green.
Starting point is 00:53:06 And growing up in L.A. I'm in L.A. I was like, oh, yeah, they'll let you know. Oh, yeah, that is so funny. And yes, in your car, in L.A., of course, it's like, we are stuck so often on the freeway. That is the best place to just begin to also while you're sitting there. What else are you doing? Listening to a Dr. Mindy podcast and breathing. And it's, yeah, the car is a wonderful. Sometimes for moms that I've met, the car is a sanctuary these days. And sometimes, right, after you drop, a kid off somewhere, they definitely use that time to then do some breathing and also do it with the kids in the car. Yeah. Yeah, I love that. And again, I think it's important for people to see that this doesn't
Starting point is 00:53:54 have to be a time-consuming event. And that's why I like the habit stacking. I also love that you're taking it into corporations because what I've found, at least in teaching people how to fast, is that until you understand the power of it in your life, it's easy to dismiss it. And I had a really interesting conversation a couple of years ago with Todd White, who founded Dry Farm Wines. And I asked him, he was at the, I sat next to him actually at a dinner party. And I asked him, gosh, you know, I heard your business is doing incredible. Like, what's the number one secret to having this this fast growing business? And he just, he stopped. He looked at me straight in the eye and he goes, meditation. And I'm like, what do you mean, meditation to grow a business? I mean, this was my more
Starting point is 00:54:43 naive version a few years back. And he said, before we start our day as a team, we meditate so that we are in the right space to grow a business, serve humanity, and get this incredible, you know, dry farms is a non-toxic wine, get this out to the world. And that really shifted how I looked at some ancient healing practices like breathwork and meditation for those of you that are achievement oriented, that are type A's. Tell us a little bit about what you're seeing in the corporate world when people are using a regular practice of breathwork. As far as results go, are they seeing more productivity? I mean, how can we measure this? Yes, it is being measured. SAP was one of the corporations that, and Google, that led the way for mindfulness.
Starting point is 00:55:35 in business. It is something that uber successful people do. Breath and meditation. And what that means basically is going inward and getting clear on their intentions and focus. And there are so many business applications for breath. And it is wonderful to see many corporations now bringing this in. They have chief well-being officers
Starting point is 00:56:00 at several companies. Crazy. That's amazing. They name it that. cheap well-being office. It's a full-time gig for some companies, and it is incredibly wonderful. And now, post-pandemic, people are looking to their leadership in big corporate brands for well-being benefits and for these companies to prioritize the well-being of their employees. And if they don't, and if they're not changing the ecosystem of remote work right now to include some benefits for people to have downtime. People are leaving those companies to work for other companies where their wellness is being prioritized. Amen. That is amazing. It's about time. It is about time.
Starting point is 00:56:49 And also, I admire those leaders who will start a meeting by saying, let's close our eyes. First of all, what I've seen at a lot of my corporate workshops is nobody closes their eyes from the minute you wake up until the time you go to bed and close. Closing your eyes before you breathe is an incredibly powerful tool that sets that boundary from external noise, stimulation, upset, anger, news bites, to going inward. So before you breathe, when you can, close your eyes. And then if everybody takes three deep breaths together, do you know how much more creativity, collaboration and productivity you're going to get from that group of people?
Starting point is 00:57:34 Not only that, when they do it then on their own, there is data. There is analytics about the benefit of breath and mindfulness tools for us all, whether you are an employee, whether you are an entrepreneur, whether you are a stay-at-home mom. whatever it is, whatever you're doing, there are practical applications that come from breath that will help you on so many different levels from, yeah, creativity, connection, collaboration, compassion, kindness first to yourself and then to other people as well. And it just, there's so many ripple effects to breath as self-care, as a healing tool, as a preventative tool. And it's really important in the workplace, even if everybody in your workplace sees it as woo-woo, if you can be that one person. That's how it changed the culture at all of these brands and businesses and is from one person
Starting point is 00:58:42 standing up and saying, you know what? I've been doing meditation. I want to share one breath with you or share 90 seconds with you. And then people realize, and now because breath is more acceptable, it's not woo-woo. it's science-based. The big corporate brands are getting behind it because it works. Oh, my God. I love it.
Starting point is 00:59:02 I love it. I want to go in. I have a rapid fire five questions for you. But talk before you do that, talk a little bit about your book because hopefully those of you that are listening to this, you see that there's more to breathing than just breathing. That there's a lot of levels to it. And if you're like me and you want to know the why behind it and have a little more structure
Starting point is 00:59:23 with it, is that what your book, a good, good? go to is your book, Breathe to Succeed? Thank you. Yeah, it's sort of just my holistic view of how I came into practicing breath and how it has changed the way I move through life. And so I do talk about finding clarity and finding purpose and starting each day with it. And what a game changer, even one deep breath in the morning can be where you go inward and decide, what are my priorities today. What are my intentions for the day? Who am I meeting with? When you know, when you set everything up in your mind in the morning, it makes such a difference. So I cover a lot of different topics from morning ritual to the mindset, pairing breath with mindfulness tools, going back to that
Starting point is 01:00:13 Tony Robbins type of thing, sharing how breath makes you more self-aware of your thoughts and your body. So you become more, you have a better, a keen sense of self-awareness about, for example, fasting or what you're going to nourish your body with the quality of your food. The quality of your breath directly and immediately affects the quality of your experience in any given moment. You know, I just had this thought. So in some of the breath work that I've been doing in my morning ritual, not to get too personal, but the minute I start doing breathwork, I have to go to the bathroom. And I thought, like, oh, my gosh, this is a cure for constipation.
Starting point is 01:01:01 If anybody had constipation, because I'm sure it's stimulating the vagus nerve. And then all of a sudden, you know, boom, you're off. Like, I have to sometimes interrupt my breathwork because of that. And is that, you know, that's what I'm hearing and what you're saying around the morning routine. That's, I don't know. I left to ask Patrick McEwen or somebody in the science community about that. I don't know as it attaches to a bowel movement in the morning. I don't know, but I'm super curious about that.
Starting point is 01:01:32 Let me know. I will let you know. I will get back to you on that. We get a lot of fasters that get constipation. And like a month ago, I was like, I got to tell them to do breathwork because it would make sense that if you're stimulating the vagus nerve, the vagus nerve is going to relax your gastrointestinal system. So that in my neuroscience brain, it would make sense.
Starting point is 01:01:55 But I was curious if you'd ever heard of that. Definitely makes sense. I am going to get back to you on that. But one other thing is that stress causes inflammation in the body, right? Yep. And inflammation is the beginning of every illness or disease. And so breath does help with the inflammation. And it's amazing on how many levels, like for sleep and autoimmune disorders.
Starting point is 01:02:18 and HRV and all of that. So maybe, I don't know, it's making me think that maybe that connection is through, like, you know, getting out the inflammation that might be, I don't know, I'm going to get back to you on that. Yeah, let me know, let me know, because it's my own end of one. I just noticed it. But we've had so many of our resetter fasting community that have asked us about constipation.
Starting point is 01:02:40 And, you know, there's different like magnesium and things like that that can help. But I'm seeing it consistently with breathwork. And it might be that I do it in routine, you know, the body is, you know, does it in a, once you set up the routine of morning rituals, the body gets used to everything in a routine. So it's true. And also just quickly, your book, the menopause reset has been amazing. Oh, thank you. Those tools paired with breath. I do talk to many people my age about that. What a powerful pairing the two are. Yeah. Well, so the part of the constipation, again, not to
Starting point is 01:03:17 get too personal. But with menopause, estrogen goes down. And when estrogen goes down, it slows down digestion. So what I'm finding is that you need more tools outside of just eating leafy green vegetables. You need more tools for consistent bowel habits as you move through menopause. And that's where I found breathwork to be one of those tools that's working for me. Yeah, it's, it totally makes sense. And also because somebody had said, when you're eating a delicious kale salad, do you still get all the nutrients if you're feeling stressed? No. And the answer is no.
Starting point is 01:03:53 There is some science behind that, right? Yes. So I would beg to differ with anybody that says that those two aren't connected. So I'm going to find out exactly how, but it is fascinating. Okay, here are my five questions. If you've been listening to my podcast, I probably know some of them, but I have a few new ones. Okay, we're starting a book club. So at the end of each year, we're going to put out all of our guests' favorite.
Starting point is 01:04:17 favorite books. So what's one book that or two that you feel like are must reads that everybody should dive into? I knew you were going to ask this. And I'm glad you just said or two, because I do have to. I know, no, I know. Authors, most authors are like, I can't tell you one, because we write books because we love books. Exactly. So my first one is an oldie, but a goody. It's called The Artist's Way by Julian. I read that in college. Yes. It's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, She has a new version. Maybe the new version came out just five years ago or maybe 10 years ago. But I love it because when we tap into our creativity and that's what this book is about,
Starting point is 01:04:59 the artist's way, what happens is you can get creative in your life. You can create opportunities for yourself in life. That's what I've done. My whole adult life as an entrepreneur is create opportunities. So I've gone back to her book every few years as an exercise of getting my creative juices flowing. So I highly recommend the artist's way by Julia Cameron. And then the other book that I love is Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert. It came out a few years ago, maybe several years ago now. She's the author that wrote Eat, Pray, Love. I was going to say, Eat, Pray, Love. I always get
Starting point is 01:05:36 her and the Happiness Project Woman mixed up. Oh, Gretchen Rubin. Yeah. So Eat Pray Love. Yeah, okay. Big Magic. It's so good. You will love it. And she's also, it's all about creativity and tapping into your creativity. And when you have ideas, she has such an amazing philosophy about ideas and how when you have an idea for something, if you don't actually act upon it, that idea is now live in the universe and someone else is going to go with it. And so there are so many other stories and advice and insights in that book. But that one thing, that one little nugget stuck with me for a long time, because there are, I meet so many entrepreneurs that have good ideas, but they don't act on them. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 01:06:17 So, yeah, those two books. I love it. Okay. Second question is, what's the craziest thing you've ever done for your health? It's the fact that you've done yoga and breath work. Like, is there something totally crazy that most people wouldn't do for their health that you do? That's a great question. I would say I've experimented with the breath tools over the past few years that are like the holotropic breath and that kind of stuff.
Starting point is 01:06:44 That is like even leave someone like me who's done. on yoga for 30 years in that like, whoa, that was like next level. Like, you're in a class and people are laughing while they're crying and someone else is moaning and someone's lost control of their limbs or, you know, like, when I left those few classes that I've experimented with recently, it's kind of like, well, I would put that under the crazy category. But otherwise, fasting for me, I would also have put in the crazy category because I, like you've talked about was one of those people that was always like a Jewish mother,
Starting point is 01:07:21 nervous that I wouldn't have enough food with me all the time. And so always packing the snacks for my car or my at my desk or and when I'm exhausting, isn't it? It's exhausting and travel too. Like now I fast while I travel and I don't have to worry about using the restroom in the plane. And there's enough other worries with flying these days. Right. So yeah, I would think fasting was also would be on. What's the longest fast you've done? I only recently did a 36 hour. Good job.
Starting point is 01:07:50 Thanks to you, probably a month ago. Otherwise, I just started, you know, pushing back breakfast an hour, two hour, three hours. Now my go-to is, I mean, every day I really only have like a 68-hour eating window. Again, it's parallel with breath because it's like how you say, just begin by pushing breakfast back one hour. That's so simple. And my advice would be like, just start by getting to know the power of one deep breath. And then three. And then you continue.
Starting point is 01:08:25 And so I love the way that you eased me into that. And honestly, at 36 hours, because I wasn't doing, I wasn't checking my numbers or anything at that point, I stopped just because I felt like, okay, I'm going to check the 36 hour box. And now I'm going to ease back into eating. But I felt so good, so clear. No brain fog. I was energetic. Like I said, I didn't even really want to stop, but I did. So goals for me, 72 hours now, but I'm not ready.
Starting point is 01:08:55 You'll know when you're ready. The last one I did, I literally woke up on one morning and I was like, I'm going to fast for three days. That feels right. It was like an intuitive thing. So you'll know it. Your body will tell you. Yeah. Okay.
Starting point is 01:09:07 If you could go back to your 20-year-old self and you could give her some advice, what would you tell her? To go inward more. more to not be so externally focused and to spend more time in here. This is where the magic happens. I remember like the Marie Condo phenomenon, right, where we were all decluttering our desks and our cars and our kitchen counter. That does feel darn good. It feels amazing. Right. But this is where it's more important to declutter inward. Decluttering your energy, decluttering negative thoughts and negative dialogue. That's what I'm I would tell my younger self and tell any young people that I know, start now. Empower yourself by knowing that you can control your mindset and your energy and your thoughts
Starting point is 01:09:57 and the way that you feel. And it's the energy in here. Once you declutter, maybe people can't see that. But trust me, they can. They can. Yeah. Your energy, right? They can feel it in the way that you move through life, more compassionate, more slowly, more
Starting point is 01:10:14 kind. And it's, for me, it is a daily practice. I am wired type A fast. And if you ask anybody who knows me, most people will say, oh, yeah, she's so calm and she's, you know, really cool and calm. And like, it's something I work on daily. Right. And so, yeah, so you can change and you can create your best mindset and energy with breath. I love that. Okay, what was one of the greatest gifts of 2020? We got a repattern 2020. What's a personal gift that 2020 gave you? More time in nature. Just being able to, we live at the beach. And so being able to, I was thinking the other day, I've probably done well over five million steps in the sand over pandemic. Oh, that's so powerful too. So powerful. Yeah. And as I walk by the ocean every day, I like to say the only negativity
Starting point is 01:11:07 I want in my life these days is negative ions from the ocean. That's great. I love it. The ocean gives that. That's amazing. Exactly. So I just encourage people to put your bare feet into, whether it is the sand or the ocean or dirt or grass or mountains, get out into nature. It is the best tool for breathing and going inward. And again, the science around what's called earthing or forest bathing is fascinating. You immediately change the chemistry in your body when your bare feet hit the ground of nature. Yeah, whenever I'm in nature or I'm at the beach, I always think, oh my gosh, look at all the, like, there's so many great microbes here that I'm not getting in the city. And I'm like, let me breathe. Let me take my shoes off. Like, let me get in the water because, and it's not more of a recreational thing. It's more of a microbe. I want to get the microbes that are that the earth is providing me. So I love, I'm going to add negative ions to that as well. So last question. What, if you had one message for the world that you could get into every.
Starting point is 01:12:12 everybody's brain. What would that be? The struggle is that it's hard to boil it down into one. But the message I would people is that breath transforms energy and that now is the time to get to know the power of your breath for well-being and success. Breath equalizes well-being because it is accessible to everyone. It's free. It's available 24-7, 365. And so that's what I want to leave everybody with. Just tap into that. Everything you need is right here within. Hey, resetters. I just want to start off by saying thank you so much for all your wonderful reviews and those of you that have left me comments on iTunes. I just greatly appreciate your thoughtfulness and how much you guys are enjoying these episodes. And it seems like you're enjoying them as much as I am enjoying doing them.
Starting point is 01:13:10 One of the things that I've learned in just interacting with so many people is that we've really lost the art of deep conversations. And for me, the Resetter podcast stands for having meaningful conversations with people who are thinking about health, about life, about mindset in a way that we may not be getting on social media or in mainstream media. And so I just want to say, give you guys a shout out and just say thank you for participating in this process with me. Because as much as I absolutely love delivering the information to you,
Starting point is 01:13:46 I love even more knowing that it's impacting your life. So please let us know if there's anything we can do to make this podcast more customized to you, to make it better. We are now officially in season two, and we are working to bring you the best conversations that health influencers have, that mindset changers can give, and to really deliver you something that you're not able to get anywhere else. So from the bottom of my heart, as I always say my YouTube, from the bottom of my heart, I am deeply appreciative of you.
Starting point is 01:14:20 I am deeply grateful to be on this journey with you, and let's get healthy together.

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