The Rest Is Politics: Leading - 41. Reid Hoffman: Bankrolling Biden to beat Trump, the "PayPal Mafia", and Musk's messiah complex
Episode Date: October 22, 2023How does life in Silicon Valley compare to the United Kingdom? What was it like working with Elon Musk and Peter Thiel starting PayPal? Is the future of AI as bleak as it seems? Rory and Alastair are ...joined by tech entrepreneur, author, and fellow podcaster Reid Hoffman to discuss everything from the dangers of AI during an election to the benefits of friendships. TRIP Plus: Become a member of The Rest Is Politics Plus to support the podcast, receive our exclusive newsletter, enjoy ad-free listening to both TRIP and Leading, benefit from discount book prices on titles mentioned on the pod, join our Discord chatroom, and receive early access to live show tickets and Question Time episodes. Just head to therestispolitics.com to sign up, or start a free trial today on Apple Podcasts: apple.co/therestispolitics. Instagram: @restispolitics Twitter: @RestIsPolitics Email: restispolitics@gmail.com Producers: Dom Johnson + Nicole Maslen Exec Producers: Tony Pastor + Jack Davenport Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Thanks for listening to The Restis Politics. Sign up to the Restis Politics Plus. To enjoy ad-free listening, receive a weekly newsletter, join our members chat room and gain early access to live show tickets. Just go to the restispolities.com. That's the restispolics.com. Welcome to the rest of this politics leading with me, Rory Stewart. And me, Anastair Campbell. And I am very, very pleased today that we have, for I think almost the first time, a genuine friend of mine on the podcast. There have been many grand individuals on before, but I don't think anybody who's as close a friend as Reid.
is. So, and we'll see how this goes, whether this affects the objectivity of my interviewing style.
Alistair has had some very close friends on the podcast already in the shape of Tony Blair and David
Miliband. So we'll see what this does to us. Reed is often described as the co-founder of LinkedIn,
which is one of the, I guess, the biggest companies he's associated with. He's also founded now one of
the leading AI companies. But he's been very much part of the whole story of Silicon Valley since the
since the late 90s. He's also somebody who is a serious public intellectual. He's serious about
philosophy. It's been thinking a lot about friendship. He cares deeply about politics, been very, very
active in the campaigns against Donald Trump, and is now right at the heart of the AI debate. So he's
put himself in the center of most of the biggest issues going on. So thank you, Reid, very, very much
for joining us. It is awesome to be here, and thank you for having me.
Broi mentioned the fact that you were at the heart of Silicon Valley.
You were born in the heart of Silicon Valley.
Is that right?
That's right.
I was born in Stanford Hospital, and it entertained my father to no end that when I was
attending Stanford as an undergraduate, it said birthplace unknown.
Oh, wow.
So, and your parents, what was it in your parents, do you think, that made you into the
person that you are?
In terms of where your life has gone, very different in a way from the background you
came from.
Yeah. Well, part of the thing that I think is great about California, and both my parents are children of California, is that you kind of have this individualism of you can invent yourself. It's obviously classically American in some ways, but it's the kind of the, you know, discover your own path. And I hadn't realized how California and I was in certain ways until I actually went and studied at Oxford. And then I was like, oh, I am pretty different here.
And, you know, I obviously intellectually kind of knew that. And I think that both of them were
seeing how to make their own path. They were both lawyers going in a high intellect professions,
you know, kind of making their way in the world by going out of kind of a, call it,
you know, a lower middle class background to do that. And I think that was all instrumental.
But I think it mostly was find your own path was, I think, probably the thing that kind of most,
I don't know, set me on the path that I've ended up finding myself on.
And, Reed, your parents mostly on the left?
I mean, I've been reading this book, The Founders, which describes this amazing moment in your life
when you were one of the founders of PayPal, where you end up with Elon Musk and Peter Thiel
and all these people who then go on to be very famous colleagues yours in Silicon Valley.
But in it, it describes you going into student politics and Stanford and being in seminars with
Peter Thiel.
And the impression it gives is that you were very much more on the same.
the left and he was more on the right. Was that something from your parents? Probably as a set
off, yes. My mom started the ecological law quarterly at the University of California
Berkeley Law School. My dad's first job after Stanford law was, you know, kind of working for
what is it known as public interest law, which is essentially working for, you know, low-income
people to help them get their rights. And all of that was kind of like we want to have a greater
society that cares about the broader set of people. And by, by the way, being raised in the San
Francisco Bay Area and Silicon Valley, Berkeley, you know, obviously I had a whole stack of,
my default views are, you know, American gun laws or nuts, you know, etc. You know, as kind of
things. So yes, you know, kind of raised, you know, lefty, although more in the discussion of
how do we make society the way that we would want it to be,
then kind of call it lefty, you know, genuine socialist,
not the use of the buzzword,
but the question of like we're trying to make a greater society.
Well, certainly by American standards,
I think I would be considered a bit of a lefty.
And the motto of our podcast read is disagreeably.
One of the things that Roy and I disagree about
is that I profoundly believe that,
private education is a very bad thing. I never blame the children because it's always the
parents that want them to go to private schools. But you had two parents who wanted you to go to
state schools and what you call public schools, but you wanted to travel aboard a private school.
So what the hell was going on there? I could tell already from the beginning of your question
where you were going. And, you know, my sense was trying to get the best possible education
I can because of elevating humanity. And I do obviously share the principle that we would like
that to be as broadly accessible and available to everyone as much as possible.
So were you, as a child, you were thinking of elevating humanity? Well, elevating at least
my own capabilities. Now, I did get to thinking about humanity very early, partially because
I read a lot of science fiction. And so,
thinking about that kind of space opera grand scope was one of the things that was.
But it didn't connect it to me until I got to Stanford.
So, like, I didn't have that kind of view of the much broader.
And, read, am I right in saying that many of the key voices around Silicon Valley also
like science fiction, that there's a connection between the kind of mindset of one and
the other?
And give us a sense of that.
I mean, other people that listeners will have heard of who were into science fiction,
How did an interest in science fiction help form their characters and their businesses?
Well, I think there's a couple of really great ways of looking at it.
So one is you think on the scale of humanity, because almost all of these things are, you know,
where does humanity go from anything from the next five years, next 300 years, or far into the future?
Two, is you think about what's possible in terms of like, well, how could things progress be very different?
You know, there's an inherent progressiveness, even though there's a number of science.
fiction writers who are conservative politically, progressiveness, because how could the world be
different in X years from now and what makes it so? What technological evolution makes it so? What
social evolution, you know, social systems, dune by Frank Herbert, et cetera. And I'd say more or less
90 plus percent, maybe even 95 percent of the technology inventors here in Silicon Valley,
you can trade discussions around science fiction and say, you know, when you were reading David Brin's
uplift series, what did you think about? Just for the listeners who've not been to California,
who don't know Silicon Valley, just give us a sense of what it is, what it's like to live there,
what it's like to be one of the kind of big movers and shakers there, and just kind of what people,
what sort of people you're kind of interacting with every day and how different are they to people like me and Rory?
Well, I think any folks who try to accomplish something large have some differences in eccentricities.
So I certainly wouldn't think of you and Rory as normal.
I can assure you, I don't know about Rory, but I take that as a compliment.
Thank you.
Yes.
It was not as a compliment.
And the same thing here, which is, you know, it's not surprising to be in a very broad range of conversation.
That's not just, of course, what are the new technology, what's going on with AI, what's going on in
quantum computing, what's going on with synthetic biology and all the rest of that stuff as kind of
ways that these things work. But also from, you know, okay, so what is the way that these technologies
are going to change society or evolve who it is to be human, sometimes fanciful conversations,
like are we living in a simulation, you know, kind of all these things. And part of the thing
that makes an entrepreneurial ecosystem like Silicon Valley work is it's intensely
immigration focused. You know, the vast majority of the players who
make huge things here. Certainly weren't born here, but almost all of them have moved here,
either from other places in the US or other places in the world. And that gives you a broader
kind of discussion values, intellectual landscape, although there is a shared religion on
the capabilities of technology to make a huge difference in the world, in society, in industry.
I guess one of the things that listeners will be fascinated in, particularly in Europe, is the
question of what it takes to create this kind of ecosystem. What would it take for Paris to become
a Silicon Valley or London to become a Silicon Valley? Is it even possible to imagine? Could we get
there partially what's holding us back? What could we learn if we wanted to try to replicate even a
small way that's success in Silicon Valley? Well, it's one of the things that I invest a bunch of my time in.
I've done this, Silicon Valley comes to the UK with Sherry Kutu. I've invested an entrepreneur first,
you know, kind of in London and other places. You know, I make efforts in Paris and other places,
you know, on the continent. And I do think it's totally doable. You do have to have a kind of
immigration-oriented culture that brings people in who are willing to, because, you know,
the really hard-charging entrepreneurs are willing to move to wherever they can be most successful.
And they're not looking for work-life balance. They're working for how do you make something
really work. You have to have a kind of a, kind of a,
a bit more of a culture of ask for forgiveness versus ask for permission so that you can be bold
and try things and you can correct them afterwards, but that sort of thing. And you have to be
willing to allow, you know, kind of, well, you don't know what the outcome is when you start
it and you have to like turn over some cards or go down the path some and see and then correct.
And if it's like bad for society, someone else, then correct it. But allow some experimentation
for doing it. And you need to have that in a network ecosystem where people are learning intensely
from each other, and that's the kind of thing you need to set up. Rory said in his introduction,
read described it was a public intellectual. It's a phrase that he's very, very fond of.
Wait a second. Hold on a second. What do you, I mean, I'm sure if you were interviewing him for your
podcast, that's how he would like to be introduced as well. But what's your definition of a
public intellectual? Do you feel that that's what you are, as well as an entrepreneur? And because
you mentioned Oxford in the UK, I'd just be interesting your take on the difference between
having been educated at Stanford and then spending some time at Oxford as well. And what
that told you about the difference between California slash the states and Britain?
Well, there's long answers to each of those. I would think of Rory as a public intellectual.
So I would give him that. And that's a little bit of how Rory and I met because of interest
in that. And I would say I personally aspire to that. I try to contribute in that way.
When I was at Oxford, that was what I thought I would grow up to be when I grew up and I, you know,
later realize you never want to grow up. But the question is, you know, kind of of a public
intellectuals kind of engaging in discourse with the broader society, sometimes with other public
intellectuals, but kind of be broader than that, about who we are as individuals in society and
who we should be. And why is that? You know, where does social patterns and where does government
and where does culture and where does technology and where all these things come in and how you blend
those to this is the path we're on as human beings, the path we're on, the path we're on
as societies, path we're on as humanity. These are the choices we make. This is how we should
walk that path. This is how we should do things. And I think that's what being a public intellectual is.
And then for the last part in terms of Oxford, there was a bunch of things that were really useful.
One, a different educational pedagogy, which had me kind of learned differently. So, you know,
for example, in Stanford, it was always, well, here's where you are and here's how you can do a
little better. And Oxford was, here's the standard and here's why you're so far below it.
as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a as a a kind of a default engagement pattern what do you
what does that say about our two national psyches do you think that's a very interesting
observation well I think you know it's kind of a little bit of the the classic British well
I can't complain um or you know that sort of thing and it was by the way very interesting
culturally and I was glad to have both I didn't think the oxford thing was better I thought
it was different and powerful but but but having first gone to Stanford then Oxford I think really
helped shape my thinking in all fronts as a public intellectual, as a philosopher, as a thinker
generally.
Do, Roy, just before you come in, just to ask you that, you've experienced both Oxford and
also Yale.
So is Reid right about the kind of, what he seems to me to be saying is that Britain is kind of,
you know, mind your place where America is go where you can.
Well, I think there's a lot of that.
I also think that these universities are changing a lot.
I mean, when you were at Cambridge or when I was at Oxford or when I was at Oxford or when
Reed was at Oxford, these places were much more aggressive. And I think that they're probably
now, British universities are becoming more enabling. We're becoming more like an American
universities. But you're definitely right. I mean, in teaching at Yale or teaching at Harvard,
you very much felt the ethos was about supporting people, encouraging people. So, Reid,
what would your complaints about Britain? What would you say, I mean, you're obviously,
you're being very polite and charming, but if you were being cheeky about Britain, what would you say
you noticed at Oxford, which was less appealing? Why are you not living here?
you're not living in that.
Too many privately educated people.
Yeah.
Too many publicly educated people.
Just for the fun, you know, hip check.
I fundamentally have discovered myself to be transatlantic.
The things that I love about Britain and the Europe that I would wish the U.S. to evolve more
and the things that I wish Britain and Europe would evolve more towards the U.S. side.
And so to answer your question, it's kind of the question as the belief that individuals
can make entirely of themselves.
so less hierarchy, even though it is not as bad as, you know, say France, right, or other places,
there is still kind of a hierarchy class system.
Another one is while the British are spectacular users of language, I would always find myself
having to try to decipher, especially English versus British, you know, the, oh, that's a nice
suit, which means that suit sucks, you know, as kind of, you know, the kind of the pattern of this
kind of language. And then also, you know, in kind of a parallel, I was wondering if it was island
cultures with Japan was kind of this notion of trying to avoid shame and not thinking, look,
be bold and ventrism and possibly encounter something that could be embarrassing, right? And
embarrassment's fine, you know, if you're learning and you're engaging authentically with other
human beings. And that's probably the most American thing I've said on this podcast so far.
When did you decide that actually you didn't really want to go down the kind of academic route, but you saw yourself as an entrepreneur?
And when did you alight upon what we broadly call the tech world as the space that you'd end up in?
Well, this is one of the great gifts of having gone to Stanford was because I hadn't really thought about, like I'm much more of a humanist, that are technologists.
I hadn't really thought about the technology side, except that I'd seen a whole bunch of people with Silicon Valley and Stanford kind of think about how you could change their way.
world with it. And then when I went to Oxford thinking I was going to be a public intellectual, I had the
deep honor and privilege of spending some time of Bernard Williams there. And, you know, it's kind of
classic, you know, public intellectuals and kind of discussion, truth in society and classics and
all the rest of this. And I basically kind of went, wait, the academic path, especially, you know,
in humanities, especially in philosophy, is going to be an intense amount of scholarly work of a very
narrow frame. And what I care about is kind of where we're going as a society.
And it doesn't say that there isn't some stuff that comes out of that.
But that is not my path.
And that is not a path that I think really hit scale.
I think it tends to get out in the eddies of little, you know, kind of, and I'll be a little harsh here, scholastic debates on things.
And it wasn't for me.
And I said, what should I do?
And I was like, well, actually, in fact, this software entrepreneurship, if you think about, you know, kind of who we are as individuals in society, who we should be, this software entrepreneurship can create the medium by which we connect with each other, by which we evolve.
and I want to go work on that software medium.
And I hadn't thought about being an entrepreneur.
It was just like that could evolve our worldviews, our communication, our sense of ourselves,
our sense of our place in the world through a different medium.
And did you always want to be wealthy?
Was making money a big part of what you set out to do?
Well, initially what I wanted was I wanted to be free of needing a salary.
And I got that as a strategy very early.
So that is wealthy.
If you don't need a salary, you have a fair amount of money.
But it was just that as a goal.
It wasn't money for its own sake.
It was for enabling me.
And then after PayPal, where I got into that objective, I then realized that having more money to spend and doing projects was going to be really useful.
And I had this lucky position that I knew how to do investing in entrepreneurship to make a huge amount of money in order to do that.
And so then I followed that path to where I currently am.
Let's take us back a little bit to PayPal.
So I think the first thing that's striking is that you came into Silicon Valley, I guess, in the sort of 94, which didn't feel like the sort of big sexy time.
Steve Jobs had sort of stepped back.
It was before the really crazy booms.
And obviously it was before the second sort of great social media booms.
And presumably you were, that's actually part of the trick, isn't it?
That a lot of you got in there slightly before everybody else had realized it was trendy.
Tell us a little bit about PayPal and the characters at PayPal.
And is that book right that PayPal is quite a good way of understanding the evolution of Silicon Valley.
And it's very generous to you, I noticed that book.
Do you feel it's too generous to you are the bits of you that it's missing in its descriptions?
Well, there is your Englishness to my Americanism.
Is it too generous to you?
And I hope not.
But we'll see.
That's for other people to judge.
Let's see.
So, you know, one, I do think that the PayPal book is very,
good. It is a lens into the kind of modern network version of Silicon Valley.
And for listeners, just to just to fill people in. So essentially the story is a story of something
that feels as though it's going to collapse at any moment. I mean, it feels as though you're all
working unbelievable hours. You know, engineers are calling their families to say they're not
going to be back that night. You're going through three COs in two years, these massive credit card
companies, and everyone's Visa or MasterCard is basically out to kill you. You've got huge legislative
challenges. I mean, it's a story where it almost feels as though every couple of months, any
objective viewer would be like, well, read, you've done a good job, but it's time to give it in
because this is obviously going to prove impossible. And that must have developed for you
and Elon Musk and Peter Thiel and all these other people who went through that. An extraordinary
sort of belief in your own capacities, because the odds seem to be stacked so hard against you.
Yeah, I think the question says it well, which is you can be facing what seems like, you know, you're in a plane and you're accelerating towards the ground and you can pull it out.
And so that belief that you can do very big things.
And I think, you know, you mentioned Elon.
You mentioned Peter.
I also think that, you know, Max Levchen, who was a co-founder of PayPal, also deserves a mention here.
And I think that that ability to say, yes, we can go build very big things.
are comedian levers that can change the world.
And we can do so even when multiple times,
it seems like we're all going to be in one big mushroom cloud
that's just going to be a complete failure.
Can you give us a sense of the relationship between you
and some of these other names that will be well known to a lot of our listeners?
And also how the politics of this works.
I mean, Roy and I are both from kind of political backgrounds.
Because if I think of what I know of you,
I see somebody who strikes me as being on the progressive side of politics,
We'll talk later about your kind of massive political donations that you made to the Biden campaign, for example.
I look at Peter Thiel and, correct me if I'm wrong, I see somebody who to me is very much on what I would define as the right of politics and has a view of politics and politicians that is probably, you know, can we just get these people out of the way?
And then I look at Elon Musk and particularly at the moment with what seems to me to be a pretty narcissistic approach to the world and the way that he expresses himself.
So, listen, you actually know these people.
So tell us a bit about them, about your relationship with them and about where you think they
are on the political spectrum.
Well, you know, your chart is reasonably good.
I've obviously have enormous respect for both Peter and Elon and have learned a ton from
them in various ways.
Peter and I met at Stanford because he had been hearing about this person who is, you know,
in his language, a socialist, you know, kind of, you know, the kind of a far left person.
And I'd been hearing about this person who my friends were telling me was right wing of Attila the Hun.
And so when we when we bumped into each other in a philosophy class, I've heard of you.
We need to talk.
Right.
And immediately started arguing.
And part of the basis of our friendship at Stanford was that exploration of learning that there was an intense amount of intelligence and kind of structured position to what each of us thought was the other person was a crazy position.
So, you know, in the classic argument form of reductio ad absurdum, we both thought, aha, you have to change your view now because I've gotten you to the absurd conclusion.
We're like, yes, that's what I believe. And so that was that. And then Elon, you know, Elon is, you know, obviously one of the most amazing entrepreneurs of our time.
SpaceX, Tesla, you know, huge contributions to humanity through, you know, sheer force of will and belief that the limits of what's capable is only what's physically possible.
But as such, he has kind of a, you know, I am the builder to save humanity.
And I think part of the politics things, he just thinks that other people in their consideration
should get out of his way in terms of what he's, in terms of what he's doing.
And he does care deeply about humanity, but he thinks, you know, that he's on a heroic quest
and that, you know, should be given the space to do that.
Is there a bit of a messiah complex going on?
A hundred percent.
one of the things that I think in these things, like if you will go to the AI stuff, one of the things I ask everybody that I talk to in AI is if you don't build, say AGI, artificial general intelligence, that kind of a machine that's as intelligent as we are, although people may think the three of us aren't that smart, are kind of like that creation. If you don't create it, who else would you want to create it? And if you don't have an answer to that, you have a Messiah complex. Wow. So, and Peter, so it sounds to me like Peter,
is the one for whom you have perhaps more enduring respect in terms of values. Is that right?
Well, I would say that I have enduring respect for both of them as people who I've learned a
great deal from and accomplish a bunch of stuff in the world. You know, Peter and I have had
some more difficult waters around the Trump side because, you know, he's obviously been a fairly
strong supporter of Trump. And even though he kind of claims that he is, or at least there's indirect
claims that he is kind of sitting this out now. I don't know how true any of that is. I hope it's
true. That would be awesome. But the notion that he thinks of Trump as a more moral candidate than
many of the other people is kind of very difficult for me to comprehend.
Reid, one of the things that you sometimes say over the years provocatively is more important than
almost any other philanthropic contribution you can make is just making sure Donald Trump
doesn't take over in the White House. Do you want to explain to us why you feel that so
powerfully when you came to feel that, when you realize this, how this is played out,
and why you feel this is so existential? So I knew this even back to, you know, kind of 2016,
2017, because, you know, Donald Trump is a person who has lived his life in public.
There isn't actually, in fact, a real surprise here. I mean, here's a person who
never pays his bills to the people he engages in contracts unless he has to. So, you know, all the
contractors, you know, know that their last bill will never be paid. You know, here's a person who
postures himself as great, even though he only, maybe he cares about Ivankatou, but like basically
only cares about himself, which makes him kind of an odd figure of a leader of a populist grievance
movement because it's kind of like, you guys understand this person. And also doesn't think law
applies to him and is, you know, I believe deeply corrupt in a variety of ways. And it's part of,
you know, the reason why I've kind of helped with a couple of the lawsuits, including the E. Gene
Carol one and others. And, you know, that kind of like, he doesn't care about anything other than
himself is terrible for leading society. He says, oh, I feel your grievance and I will go clear out
those, the drain the swamp of the White House. And it's like, actually, in fact, I'm going to go
make it much more swampy and I'm going to go do this entirely for myself and don't care about you
at all.
You know, like for example, if he were to become the Republican candidate and win, you know,
he'll pull out of the Ukraine war the next day.
He'll threaten to pull out of NATO.
You know, it doesn't care about, you know, the children who are dying and suffering,
plus all the other people in the Ukraine as part of doing this, you know, is a fan of dictators
around the world.
like his comment on meeting Kim Jong-un is,
I wish everyone had to stand up and salute me that way.
Like, okay, maybe you should go move to Korea and be there.
But what does he say that you, so you talk about something like Peter Thiel,
you know, very, very successful entrepreneur, founded PayPal,
associated with lots of the big successes in your world.
And yet, as you say, regardless of what he might think now,
knowing all that stuff, he not only supported it in terms of putting a,
his vote for Trump. He supported him hugely financially as well in a system that you know as well
as anybody because you're a massive contributor to political campaigns on the Democrat side.
I'm not sure I could sit down and have a civil conversation with him knowing that he played
such a prominent role in that. Look, I think it's, as I said, it was challenging and has been very
challenging for, you know, kind of Peters and my interactions because, you know, Peter's like,
well, we've got to stop talking about Trump because it's interfering with how we interact.
And I was like, look, I can't talk to you about anything but Trump until I stop you
supporting.
Well, until at least I understand this.
I mean, if I were to imagine, this is not what Peter said to me, but if I were to imagine
a position like Peters that I would try to argue if I was in his shoes to say, look, the American
society is so sclerotic that we need a wrecking ball to kind of reset it.
And it's unfortunate that wrecking ball has all of the grossness of Donald Trump in terms of corruption and narcissism and lack of care and regard for literally almost everybody else in terms of what's happening.
And no theory of governance.
I have a great health care plan.
I'm just never going to tell you ever, right, as to what it is.
You know, and you say, okay, but that's a wrecking ball we need.
I disagree with that, but at least I can argue with it.
But the other, but everything else, I don't know what the, I just don't know what the coherent moral.
and ethical justification is for supporting somebody who's erosive to democracy in the rule of law.
And do you find, I mean, you've just been in Italy, where I think you saw Georgia Maloney,
you know a lot of the European politicians.
And Alastair and I talk about this a lot.
I mean, we're in a very, very disturbing moment in European history,
where the far-right parties are now up at 20, 25% in Germany,
they're doing very one of the Nordic countries.
Marine Le Pen is in poll position, potentially to take over as an ex-president of France.
We're talking to you in the middle of a conservative conference where the British Conservative Party
has gone full Trumpian. I mean, the Home Secretary Suella Bravaman is now talking about, you know,
millions of immigrants swarming into the country and they're getting into the classic
culture wars around pretty much everything you can imagine. What on earth is going on?
What's your sense of what's happening? And do you see, how do you see Boris Johnson compared to Trump?
How do you view all this stuff from across the Atlantic?
Well, you know, I thought there was a bunch of things where Boris was a version of Trump, you know, pro-rogging parliament, you know, kind of a similar, like the rules don't apply to me.
COVID lockdown for everyone else and I'm going to have a party in the backyard.
You know, like, you know, all that kind of stuff struck me as, as at least birds of a feather.
Obviously living with the Trump stuff, I thought that Trump was much worse.
but, you know, when I talk to various British friends, no, no, Boris is just as bad.
And it's like, well, okay, you know, I could believe it if I was, you know, more local and paying attention.
That was in dispute.
And I do think that we are definitely in a crisis time for the world, a crisis time for democracy.
Now, people frequently will then go, it's the worst ever.
And you're like, well, I take the U.S. as a concert.
Like, we're not in the Civil War.
There are definitely worse periods in kind of U.S.
U.S. history, maybe we'll get there. It's definitely a down cycle. We hope we don't. That would be a
really, like, just massively terrible thing. And it's part of the reason why, for example,
being so urgent on the rule of law, so urgent on democracy, so urgent on the stuff is really
important. And that applies in the Europe context, too, because, you know, part of the,
obviously, the echoes that thoughtful people worry about is they worry about, like, you know,
the 30s. And they say, well, are we on another path of the 30s? Does it lead to a
similarly bad thing, how do we make a better society without resorting the fascism as an angle
for doing this? And I'm hopeful that we won't get anywhere close to any of the bloody lines,
but I think it requires work to do so. And I think everybody has to say, how do I help contribute
to making society better? This is a little bit the public intellectual comment, because I think
we are in troubled times. Do you think it's possible to make the case that without social media
and I think artificial intelligence, its impact upon democratic politics could be even more extreme and more difficult, that without that Trump would never have been elected, Brexit would never have happened, some of these right-wing populist movements would never have got the traction that they've managed to get.
You know, I definitely think that because the concept of social media is so broadly libertarian that it allows itself to be, or at least the leaders of Twitter,
and to a lesser extent, Facebook, kind of allow that that it can be hacked by crazy populist groups.
It can be hacked by Russians.
It can be hacked by.
And I think that has a negative, a serious negative contributor.
I don't think it's inherently bad.
I think it's kind of a question of just as we figure out what is the balance of, like, you know,
in the U.S., this kind of freedom of speech stuff.
What is the balance between the thing I can say, the moon is made out of green cheese?
And I think aliens and Martians are running the White House.
and I'm allowed to do that, but I don't have the amplification of it.
I don't have the Q&on or the Pizza Gate or other kinds of things.
And sorting through that is I think one of the things that's very important.
And broadly, I think it can be shaped in a way that it's actually much more of a positive contributor, the negative.
But that's not undercutting what the negative contributions have been.
But by the way, people tend to want to hang that on just the social media.
And like when I look at this, I go, well, which of these two has a more negative impact?
Fox News or, you know, kind of Twitter.
And I tend to think, like, what gets amplified through Twitter is all of the essentially
pure garbage on Fox News.
And you can tell because, like, the Dominion lawsuit kind of...
Tell us about the Dominion.
Remind us about the Dominion lawsuit, because some listeners won't be familiar.
So Dominion is an electronic voting system.
One of the things that, to try to support the fraudulent criminal and narcissistic claim
by Donald Trump that the 2020 election was stolen,
was making a whole bunch of like, and this electronic voting system by Dominion Systems was
corrupt.
And so they sued them because here's a place where it's not political thing.
It's an economic thing and it's a basis on fact.
And Fox had to pay a lot of money because it was all rampant lies that they knew were rampant lies,
but also then revealed the text between these people like Tucker Carlson and Sean Hannity saying,
yeah, the people who believe us on this stolen stuff are totally bonkers, but we have to say it
because that's what they want to hear, you know, da-da-da-da. And you have it as a part of a public record.
And it's like, understand that these people are lying to you because they think it's the way that they get in front of you as exciting you as the mob.
But they're still watching. But they're still watching. Why are they still watching? Why do people want it to be lied to?
Well, because, you know, kind of a classic human thing is they want to be validated in their emotional belief that the way the world is working that they don't like is because there's these evil liberals who are stealing.
it from them and corrupting their children. And being told that versus being told anything else
helps them, you know, kind of validate their point of view. And so that's part of what goes on here.
Well, thank you. And let's just take a quick break.
Hi, everybody. It's Dominic Samark here from The Rest is History. Now, some of you may have heard
me on your show, The Rest is Politics when Rory was away and I was filling in and enjoying
Alistair Campbell's tremendous banter. And I'm back to tell you about our new series,
on the rest is history, which is all about Britain in the 1970s, a period with a lot of uncanny
resemblances to our own. So right now we're living through a moment when oil shocks generated
by war in the Middle East are rippling through the world economy, when Britain feels like
it's sunk in a bit of a malaise, people are arguing about Europe, the government has got a few
issues with the trade unions, and we have a kind of, I suppose you'd say governing elite,
kind of political class that is really struggling to come to terms with all of these issues
and people are asking if Britain is governable at all. So there are a lot of parallels between
that Britain that I'm describing, which is our Britain and the Britain of the mid-1970s.
So in this series that's coming out on the rest is history, we'll be looking at these and other
issues. We'll be talking about the rise of Margaret Thatcher, obviously a colossal figure in our
political life even now, whether you love her or loathe her. And we'll be talking about the very
first Brexit referendum of 1975, a subject that I'm sure Rory and Alastair will have strong
opinions about. We'll be talking about the fall of the Labour Prime Minister Harold Wilson,
and we'll be talking about one of the grimmest moments in Britain's economic history,
the moment in 1976 when we had to go cap in hand, as people said at the time, to the International
Monetary Fund, the IMF, for a then-record bailout. Now, if that sounds good to you, how could
it not sound good to you? Of course it sounds good to you. We have a clip for you to listen to at the
end of this episode. And if you want to hear more, just search for The Rest is History wherever
you get your podcasts. One of the things I was talking to Yuval No Harari about last week is
he's very interested in the way in which AI could make these kind of QAnon conspiracies in a
much more powerful and convincing way. Just to remind this, as the Q&ONON conspiracies are obviously
very, very powerful among certain factions of far-right voters which make allegations about child sex
rings in the Clinton White House and goodness knows what else. I mean, this is sort of pseudo-religious
conspiracy fantasies. Do you feel that that is something that we really need to concentrate on
before the next election? And the reason I feel this is that when I was running, to be mayor of
London, I had a couple of companies come and pitch me who said that they were, you know,
former Israeli intelligence and special forces people, and they offered to win elections for me
using a whole series of different social media tools and said they'd done it in 52 countries and all
this kind of stuff. And I imagine those same people will now be pitching their services on the
basis of their ability to use AI. Could you talk to us a little bit about AI in the next election?
So it's definitely a concern because it is an amazing human amplifier, you know, part of the book
impromptu that you know that I wrote about how AI is amplification intelligence.
Which, incidentally, for listeners, Reed actually wrote with ChatGBTG-BT-4.
It's a great book impromptu you, and it's definitely worth reading if you're interested in AI,
but it's a book written actually as a dialogue between him and AI.
First book on AI, co-written with AI, is a kind of a slogan tagline.
Is Chad GBT4 a public intellectual?
It certainly can be.
Go interact with it.
You can have public intellectual conversations with it.
It doesn't really have as much of a point of view, which you generally expect a public,
Like you can say broadly argue for this, argue against this.
But it's clever.
But it is, it can be very clever.
I highly recommend it.
I think I threw Rory into the deep end on it.
And he's now like, oh, this is more interesting than I thought it was.
Yeah, he's morally obsessed, I'd say.
Yeah.
And so there is a real issue there.
But that issue obscures the thing that, you know, the Q&on theory happened just fine with a whole
bunch of human beings doing it.
You know, you've got the Russians and Putin hiring Nigerians to write a whole bunch of stuff
and spread it within social media.
not just within the US, but within Europe as kind of ways of doing this. And so it's not necessarily
totally new. And presumably, to push a little bit further, there could be a scale of amplification
where the change in quantity is almost the change in quality. I mean, if the application becomes
unbelievably powerful, sophisticated and the QAnon conspiracy or the new conspiracy can almost be
micro-adjusted to every different listener and evolve very, very quickly, you can imagine something
having a very, very powerful cultural emotional effect before an election.
Yeah, and that's exactly where I was going. So you kind of elaborated the point that I was heading along. And I think there's ways to use AI to be on the other side of it. But it's one of the reasons why when the companies got together at the White House, one of the things they said, we will all kind of voluntarily commit to doing is essentially watermarking AI content to try to prevent some of this flood of misinformation. Now, the problem, of course, is there's open source models. And these open source models are,
provided by a variety of companies in the U.S., UK, and France,
and those open source models can produce a whole bunch of this content in volume
without watermark. So it's a legitimate attempt to be positive by,
you know, Microsoft, Google, inflection, Anthropics, and so forth.
But it's, you know, we're going to have to go much further to try to allay the problems
that will be front and center in 2024.
Just back on the political front, we have, as you may know,
we have limits on spending on our political campaigns.
I just wondered, first of all, have you any idea how much money you have actually made in political
donations during your life?
And secondly, whether you think on balance, American politics would be better if it were
possible to have the kind of spending limits that we have.
So, yes, I am, because I'm a business person, I keep accurate ledgers.
I don't report the number because it's a very large number.
And I do think that campaign financing limits are actually a very good thing.
And the primary reason, of course, I do this is because you say, well, if there's going to be a whole bunch of money trying to turn the U.S. into a theocracy or a divided kind of cultural war kind of place, I will try to put in some money to kind of shift away from that, you know, kind of as a way of doing it.
And it's part of what I think is my moral responsibility as a child of the country who's been fortunate enough to make a bunch of money.
so to try to contribute positively.
Does it make it very, very difficult?
When we talk about billion-dollar elections,
that's kind of mind-blowing for a British mindset.
And yeah, it would seem to me that whether it's Trump against Biden,
Trump against Hillary, when Obama first won,
without that sort of level of funding.
Do you think it's literally impossible to win an election now
without those sorts of sums of money flowing in?
On the big national elections, fundamentally,
it's almost impossible without it,
because it's the question of, you know, how do you pay for all the stuff like advertising and how do you, you know, even pay for it?
Even if you have a total grassroots movement, how do you support and coordinate all of the grassroots?
How do you use an understanding of where the electorate is to know which doors to knock on and all the rest?
All of which is kind of an economic expense here.
So, Reed, you've set up one of the biggest AI companies in the world with Mustafa Suleiman, who we interviewed a few weeks ago.
And he often at the moment sounds more on the pessimistic robots, succumbing end of the AI debate.
And you seem to be more on the optimistic side.
I guess that's a very coarse characterization.
You'd be more nuanced than that.
But give us the optimistic case.
Give us reasons not to see AI purely in sort of negative, fearful terms.
So the thing is, human beings always, when they encounter something broadly new in technology,
always think that it's going to be there.
When the printing press was created, it was going to be.
a corruption of human cognitive capabilities because you no longer need to remember and a spreader
of misinformation. And so, you know, the fact that we author books and use the printing press show
that there is a certain negative that. AI is the exact same and we can go through everything.
We can go through phonographs, electricity, steam engine, a bunch of other things, those ways
of doing it. And all of these technologies, I think we can shape them to be much, much better.
And part of the reason, of course, I wrote impromptu and kind of, you know, twisted your arm to read it,
was to essentially, you know, kind of say, look, here is how it could be really amazing as human
amplification. You know, we can have a tutor on every smartphone that works from anything from a
two-year-old to an 80-year-old on every subject that's infinitely patient to help you in anything in your
life. Obviously, part of what Mustafa and I are trying to do with Pai, the personal intelligence.
You could have a medical assistant available on every smartphone for everyone who has
access to a smartphone, anyone in the world. Think about the alleviation of you.
human suffering that you can do when you do that because of the 8 billion people in the world,
substantially less than a billion have, you know, real access to doctors. And so, and by the way,
even when you have access to a doctor, you know, say you had a medical assistance as you have
access to doctors, yes, okay, I'm not a doctor. You should see your doctor, but let's talk about it a
little bit and say, oh, here's what you should tell your doctor when you're seeing them, right?
You know, as a as a help and as an amplifier. And, you know, like for example, in Britain,
you have rationing in the NHS.
Well, think about if you could pre-do your visit each time before you go in to see a doctor
with a medical assistant and be much more efficient than the doctors can actually help
a bunch more people in good ways.
That's all of the things that are line of sight today for this technology.
And that's the reason why go use it and understand how you can use it to be helpful to your
humanity, to the society at large.
And I am unresolvedly optimistic across all of them, democracy, jobs.
quality of life, quality of work. I think all of this stuff is doable in a very positive way.
Okay. And if you woke up and you didn't have your usual sort of positive read,
Hoffman outlook on life and you were a bit more Mustafa in your thinking, what might you see
as the potential downsides? And what I guess what I'm about? What should we maybe worry about a little
bit, even if the big picture can be positive? Well, part of my criticism of the critics,
because most of the people who say, oh, you know, like AI, the robots are coming for us,
you know, science fiction and other kinds of stuff, is that the real issue is that AI is a human
amplifier. And so a human amplifier in bad human hands, whether it's terrorists, criminals,
rogue states, et cetera, and you get distracted by, and the robots will be a new level of sentience
that will remake the world. And we need to be obsessed by that. And it's like, well, I'm actually
much more obsessed by AI in the hands of Putin, AI in the hands of Kim Jong-un.
they in the hands of, you know, a terrorist, a criminal, and how do we navigate that? And that's
our first order. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't pay any attention whatsoever to like what's
happening as potential science fiction. And I pay attention to, could these machines be
self-improving and so forth? And by the way, Mustafa and my positions are not so far apart other than
he thinks that there will be big changes in society coming and we need to pay attention to them on a
society basis. He's also actually a technological optimist relative to, you know, he's building pie. And he, he knows
what he can make for humanity. And so he's actually more on the, we can really steer to very
positive things. He's just more highlighting. And by the way, we really need to make sure we avoid
that landmine. So we're primarily a politics podcast. And I guess the big question in this is
regulation. What do you think smart politicians should be doing and thinking about AI? What should
they be regulating and when? So I don't know of any instances where you take a forming technology,
but is yet unformed and you have pre-dictated it and regulated it in a good way that isn't just
really slowing down innovation.
So I tend to think that a lot of the regulation stuff is to say pay attention and then move
rapidly to change the things that are potentially bad and focus on the really bad things,
not the things that can be easily fixed in one, two or three years.
We'll say, well, you know, AI is hallucinate.
You're like, well, we're fixing that every month in terms of bad outcomes.
And it's just, by the way, Google search hallucinates too.
You're just getting it down to a certain kind of area.
And so that's, I think, one thing.
And then the really extreme cases, like the use of terrorism, the use in criminality,
like how can we restrict that in various ways?
How do we be careful about the spread of AI within global conflict, the bad state actors?
Those kinds of things, I think, are the right things for government folks to focus on it,
the things to do.
And then you obviously iterate and you pay attention to, well, could this create a racial bias that
could be a really problem?
Yes, let's pay attention to that.
And as it starts out, let's fix it.
Because we can fix it.
But if you look at the way the social media has developed,
is it not the case that by the time the politicians kind of caught up with the impact that it was having
or that they thought it might have in relation, say, to child abuse,
some of the terrorism that you mentioned,
some of the political implications that we've talked about,
that it was too late.
And is there not a danger of that with artificial intelligence?
There's certainly a risk of it.
a danger of it. And by the way, there will certainly be some bad things that happen that we wish
we could have forestalled in advance. But this is part of, like, you know, back to this kind of
how is technology created and how do you learn is you create it, you deploy it, you learn from it,
you iterate. The hope, let me call it the Brussels hope, that you can dictate kind of the pattern
of innovation and do intense risk studies and that's actually not the way that these things work.
and it's part of the reason why when you look at it, you say, well, it's the internet, it's cloud, it's mobile, all of that's created in the US where Europe hasn't done anything.
AI could be another one of those or AI could be something that you potentially participate in.
I'd love you to give a sense of what you feel your proudest achievement in your life so far has been.
What are the things that you look back on and you think that was genuinely worthwhile?
Well, you know, this may be the most American thing now that I said on the podcast, which is my family.
No, no, I hope that it's still in front of me.
Oh, there we are.
We didn't even think of that.
You're saying we haven't even thought about the future.
The best is yet to come.
Yes.
Right.
So, you know, maybe it's inflection in pie.
Maybe it's other things.
You know, so far, I'd say, you know, obviously LinkedIn has hundreds of millions of people.
I think the public number is something north of 850 million people trying to create economic
opportunity.
It's most focused on every individual and as kind of a use of technology for doing that and for
how, for example, social networks can elevate people as individuals.
and as groups and as companies and societies and kind of further make economic attention.
That's obviously one, you know, kind of helping a number of entrepreneurs, you know, create stuff,
whether it's Airbnb, you know, other kinds of projects for, you know, also helping elevate humanity.
But like I said, the most American thing, I hope the best is still to come.
Well, maybe my final question then is this.
Perhaps the best that is yet to come is that you play a central role in stopping Donald Trump.
become president again. But I want to ask you a question that Rory and I asked a British business audience
when we saw them recently. We asked them this question. Who do you think will be the President of
America in 2025? A, Joe Biden, B, Donald Trump, or C, somebody else. So what's your answer to that?
Joe Biden, who I think is a very decent centrist and exactly where we'd want to be. And, you know,
I don't think it's a foregone conclusion. I think it's going to be a difficult
race because making that case to the American people and having people hear it, I think is very
important. But that we care about decency and we care about kind of like helping everyday people
move forward. I think that's the Biden message. Love it. Now, Reed, you've been very generous to
the time, but I wanted to get a couple of questions in. Tell us a little bit about how you became
interest in friendship and what your fundamental theory of friendship is. And then two days later,
they finished this conversation.
And basically, you know, perhaps like many folks, you know, I kind of go through high school and I kind of, you know, was like, wow, this is a really strange thing.
And I don't find many people that I really connect with.
And the world is this kind of chaotic, strange place.
And I got to Stanford.
And I started building some amazing deep friendships where suddenly I felt more like on path to the person that I could be, that I wanted to be, that I should be.
And, you know, like, for example, a discoverer on the public intellectual stuff.
was through discussions with friends, through discussions about like, you know, who are we and who
should we be and how do we challenge each other and how do we grow to being the best possible
versions of ourselves? Oh my God, this friendship thing, this is the really important thing in the
meaning of life that is literally not talked about nearly enough. Like if you go into a bookstore,
there's just oodles of books on like relationships and, you know, how to, you know, like the,
and very few on friendships is one kind of thing. And it's everything from philosophical depth.
Like when you look at the history of it, you go,
well, there's this little treatise from Cicero, there's this essay from Montaigne, there's this
Nicomukian ethics thing, but there's very, very little. Yet it is so critical. And like from the
historical and philosophical and deeply intellectual to the, what does it mean? Like, for example,
there's a whole bunch of questions you can ask about friendship. What are the duties of friendship?
What are the obligations? Where should friendship be challenging? When should friendships end?
You know, all of these things, most people go, huh, hadn't really thought about that.
And so that was the, if you asked me when I was an undergraduate, what was the first book
I was going to write, it was going to be on friendship. I still hope to do so. As you know,
Rory, and I keep getting distracted by doing things like, oh gosh, you know, if Trump gets elected,
we're going to move to massive world disorder that's going to cause suffering all over the world,
including in the U.S. Let's try to avoid that. How many close friends have you got then?
I don't count. I do have a number. I don't think there's a rule. Like one can only have three or one can only have five.
But it's that level of not, is that kind of area? Close, close, close, close, close, close friends.
You know, probably, although it's probably more like 10 or 15.
And the thing about it is, like, again, a little bit of subtle corruption as friendship is you think, well, just one and you're hung up on the number versus when you're interacting with your friends, whether it's a friend that you maybe have just made on a plane or has wandered up to you in a conference and started talking to you as a gesture in Roy's direction.
We mess at a conference.
Yes.
and to be as genuine and present on that path as possible.
And that's the focus point, not the, well, I already have enough close friends.
I have three, you know, it's the how do you take all of your own actions and be as real and present on that path as possible.
I don't think there's any magic numbers.
Can I just come in on this?
Because, Alistair, you, I think, do have a sort of genius for friendships.
I notice that when I see Dave Miliband pop around a little present around the door,
or I see the loyalty that you showed at the team that you worked with,
Give us a little bit of a sense of friendship in your life.
You don't talk much about it?
But I'm right, aren't I, that you do have actually quite deep loyal friendships.
Yeah, but I don't think I have that many.
I think we often say to people, I often say to you, Roy, we talk about somebody to get on the podcast.
I'll say, yeah, he's a really good friend of mine.
But then if I were to say, if one of my kids was in real difficulty, or if something was happening to me health-wise,
how many people would I really, really, really feel that I needed to tell?
To me, that's a true friend.
and I would like them to think that I was the same version for them.
I've had quite a few friends who've died, some very close friends who've died.
But I think friendship, I wouldn't ever think that somebody I met on a plane was a friend
until I got to know them for several years thereafter.
I'm a bit of a slow burner on the friendship front.
Not that you and I aren't going to be really good friends read forever.
I mean, you know, this has been a great first meeting.
Where I completely agree with you is I don't think we think about it and value it nearly as much as we should.
So in the first couple months that I was in Oxford, as I'll put England versus Britain on this,
I was talking about how much more approachable Americans were than English.
And I was talking to a person who was like, oh, no, of course, approachable.
And I said, okay.
So how long do you have to be seeing someone in the supermarket that you're going to, that you see them in the same supermarket before you introduce your
and talk to them. And the answer then was three years. And I was like, okay, in the U.S.,
it's like second or third time. No, no, the other thing is, I disagree with that. I would say that
in Britain, there comes a point where you've seen them so often you feel it's no longer possible
to ask them their name. Fair enough. And I actually think that part of the thing that is the
the mysterious delight around friendship is it's a state of becoming.
It's a path that you're walking with someone.
And that's part of the reason why it's not a category mistake and mistake that you go,
say you sat next to somebody on a plane flight and you had just this amazing conversation.
You talked about your family and your friends and what you were doing.
Maybe you revealed some points of vulnerability in each other and you talked about it.
And you go, well, are we friends now or not?
It's like, well, we're on, we've started the path.
right? Obviously, the depth of trust of who you might leave your children to if you were passing,
you know, that kind of stuff, that's still to come, but you're on the friendship path. And I think
that's the thing that is so often one of the mistakes that people think about this is they don't
think about it as, look, it's a dynamic path. And there's different values. Like some people have
told me there is, you know, kind of like, well, your friend is the person who you can call at 3am
in the airport and will come pick you up. It's like, well, that's one kind of
friendship and it's a valuable thing. And there's these kind of multiple dimensions on friendship
that are deeply valuable. And that's one, but it's kind of like what are the things that are
valuable to who you are and who you are in the process, the path of becoming. And those are to some
degree your closer friends. I think one of the things, read, that I notice with you is that
you are very good at a combination of patience and nudging. So the example of us that I had with
him recently is that he was giving me advice on transitioning out of a job.
and Reid spent a lot of time talking on the phone,
talking me through it, talking through the options,
and I failed to update him.
And he sent me a very sweet,
not a kind of chippy, hurt message saying,
what's going on?
Where did you get with this conversation?
Could you please update me?
And I thought that was a really lovely thing,
because I think there are two things
that people could have done there.
They could have been really offended,
understandably, wait a second,
I spent all this time giving this guy's advice
and he's gone completely silent on me
and not spoken to me at all.
Or they could have been super polite about it,
I thought that was nice. Do you think friendship benefits from nudging occasionally?
Yes. And actually, one of the things you have to decide, like, for example, my fundamental
favorite friendship is two people decide to try to help each other be the best possible
versions of themselves. And if you agree with that as a theory, one of the things that needs
to be is that you should be thinking, what is the nudge or the thing this person needs to hear
that maybe they haven't heard and haven't heard from another source? And how do I help provide
that. That doesn't necessarily mean sitting down saying, I think you're out of your mind because of
topic X, right? Or you're doing something categorically wrong because of activity Y. Like, that may not be
the friendship way of engaging, right, in this particular thing. But you might say, well, actually,
in fact, look, this person needs to think about this. This person needs to think about, like, is this
really them? You know, it's kind of like, well, look, when you talk to so and so, you know, you kind of
adopted the wrong pattern of doing it, right? And by the way, so I gave a commencement speech
at Vanderbilt last year on friendship in part and was kind of three examples of how friends had
kind of come and pushed me, a friend of mine, Kandarren, who would push me in understanding,
you know, kind of how women talk to women in, you know, kind of my generation and what are the
things there and different than how men talk to women, men talk to men, and that was enormously
illustrative. Another one was kind of showing vulnerability and being able to be open to being
helped and it was not just the fact that it was very honored to be that person, but also,
oh, that's how one should be as friends. I should do that too. Those are all kinds of things where
you should be intentional about how you're helping people, your friends, become the better
version of themselves, because that's the delight for them and the delight for you and the delight
for the world. I think this is back to your, the difference between you and Mustafa and you, Oxford and
Stanford. I think it's an American-British thing. Alex Ferguson, you may have heard of as a very famous
football manager. And I always say this is the best definition of friendship that I ever heard,
but you'll, I think you might disagree. He said the, the friend is the person who walks through
the door as everyone else is putting on their coat to leave. Now, I guess you would say that's a very, that's like
my definition of friendship is about when you're in crisis, it's about when things are going
wrong, who you're going to turn to. But you're saying friendship is about who's making your
life kind of better, more fulfilling, more enjoyable, not least by you helping them at any
stage in your life is not about bad stuff. Look, I think it's fundamentally very important to
also have, because like how do you grow to being the person you have? You navigate crisis. You
navigate the things that could crush you. So it's very important to have friends who help you
with the, oh God, you know, my world is collapsing.
And they come and say, well, we're going to help you survive your world collapsing and get
to the next thing.
It's a critical thing.
I didn't mean to undercut that at all.
Friends are the allies who, when the artillery starts running down necessarily, the only
friends are not the ones who just run and jump in the foxhole.
They're the ones you might just go and have a nice time with.
Well, but more than a nice time who help you become you.
Like if you said, the only skill set that I need in friends is when I'm in crisis, they're
there for me.
And you're like, it's a very, very valuable skill set.
If you had to pick one, maybe that's the one you would pick.
Right.
But it's not the only one, right?
That's the point.
Now, I think we're coming towards the end read, but I wanted to finish with a question
that I asked your friend Mustafa, which is, what is the one question these interviews don't ask you, but should ask you?
Well, there's probably a lot.
You know, and we've covered a bunch of really good ones.
I love the fact that we've covered friendship.
I love the fact that we, you know, are kind of talking about human beings as, you know, embedded in social and political context and how do we navigate that?
Maybe it's per podcast.
So like, for example, for this one, it might be with the insanity and craziness of U.S. politics, what could, you know, British politics learn from U.S. culture or something?
Because, by the way, I certainly think the opposite is true, too.
There's a whole bunch of stuff that I would wish the U.S. would learn from the British.
Give us a bit of a snap at that, because that's a hell of an interesting question.
Then I'll hand to Alastair to finish itself off.
I think a little bit of it is usually the easy British reaction to Americans is, oh, look at these simpletons who are kind of nuts and crazy guns, uneducated, unsophisticated, crazy on religion.
There's a whole stack of things that are very legitimate criticisms.
But then say, well, but what could we learn from the Americans?
And that was part of what I kind of learned, you know, being a student in Oxford,
which is actually, in fact, we want to encourage individuals of all places in the British class system and so forth to be able to accomplish things such that they could become leaders of society.
We're going to allow boldness and risk on that.
And we're going to celebrate it as it's happening.
And that little bit of disruption in our social thing, which will come with some price and cost, some risks, some mistakes, is something that we could learn from and will help us make a much better society for ourselves.
That would be at least one that I would start with.
Okay.
My final question, I guess, is this.
On friendships, if you go to Peter Thiel, the major donor to Donald Trump and said, are we still friends?
What does he say?
I don't know.
We haven't talked in a few years.
I don't know what he would say.
I would hope that he would say is, I hope that we can be.
Right.
Okay.
Well, listen, it's been great talking to you.
I didn't think we'd end up talking about philosophy and friendship,
but I think you should write the book.
Maybe that's the great thing that you haven't done yet.
That's one of the ones that's in the possibility set.
Okay.
Well, listen, thank you for giving us so much of your time, and thanks for talking to us.
Thank you, Reed.
Really, really appreciate it.
Speak soon.
My pleasure.
All right, so what did you think?
I thought he was great.
And when I was just downstairs chatting to Fiona, I said, I've got to do this podcast,
and she said, who you're doing it with?
I said, Reed Hoffman.
She said, well, who's here?
I said, well, he's sort of big tech pro founded LinkedIn.
And she said, why are you doing people on the podcast that your listeners
weren't have heard of?
I said, I don't know, but Rory says he's amazing.
So that's why I'm doing it.
So, and I think, you know, given that Rory so rarely brings in guests, I think, you know,
I can't say that.
No, I thought he was, I could have gone on talking to him all day.
I thought he was absolutely terrific.
Oh, thank you.
He is actually unbelievably famous outside the circle of you and Fiona.
Because he's one of the, I mean, one of the, I mean, one of the,
since he's very famous is that he's one of the very wealthiest people in the world. So he set up
LinkedIn. He's on the main board of Microsoft. He's now launched this massive AI company with Mr.
Suleiman. He was one of the earliest investors in Facebook, one of the earliest investors in Airbnb.
And he's very, I think, particularly famous in the United States because he's seen as somebody
who Silicon Valley looks to. I mean, he's seen as an interesting person. He took a very, very strong
line, as you were saying, on Trump and Biden. But a lot of the interviews, I was really,
really pleased that because a lot of the interviews you get with him are about entrepreneurship. I mean,
obviously, there's a huge following for him from people who want to set up businesses and want to
work out how to be a billionaire. And so I think a lot of what he does is he's asked about strategy.
He's asked about hiring. He's asked about firing. He's asked about how to select CEOs. So I thought
it was nice to take him in directions. He doesn't usually go. Also, I didn't, you know, I asked him
about the role of money in his life. And maybe this is what they all say. They're kind of not
motivating by money. They just happened to end up very, very well.
But I didn't get the feeling of somebody who was at all ostentatious.
I mean, what's your sense of his kind of how he lives?
I mean, presumably he does sort of fly around in private jets and all that sort of stuff.
But is he kind of, he didn't strike me as being sort of loudly ostentatiously wealthy.
That's based on, you know, 80 minute conversation.
I have to be careful because I'm a friend of his and spend a lot of time with him.
But no, he lives pretty modestly.
I mean, he's not, I haven't really asked him too much about this,
but he's not somebody who seems to be very interested in.
in fancy cars or fancy houses.
He's got a very strong relationship with his wife,
who is incredibly down to earth.
They live in Washington State
in a pretty cold, rainy part of the United States.
It's very, very beautiful,
but it's not a sort of lavish kind of Hollywood lifestyle.
And I think he's genuinely honest about the fact
I don't think he feels he really needs money.
What he's doing increasingly is earning money
to put it into causes that he believes in.
One of the things he said to me,
he didn't say it on this podcast,
but help me understand him a bit is he said that he realized quite early on in life that
one of the things he was good at was making money and that one of the ways he could probably
make most of a change in the world is by making money and then giving it to lots of other people.
So he once said to me that rather than him trying to be an academic and just another philosopher,
he could make money and maybe support 100 philosophers who were smarter than him.
Yeah.
I mean, he didn't want to say how much he'd given to political campaigns,
but we're talking sums of money that kind of dwarf anything that we hear about in the UK context.
Yeah.
And I read that when he was fundraising for Obama, he got all his kind of mates together on a Zoom call with Obama.
And the entry price just to have the Zoom call was $250,000.
But he's kind of into the tens, hundreds of millions in terms of giving away wealth.
I mean, again, I don't think it's sharing.
He's close to Obama.
They clearly like each other and respect.
each other. It's difficult to actually interviewing somebody that you're close to. I know,
how easy did you find it when you were interviewing Tony Blair to kind of reflect on his lifestyle
and his friendships and things? You sort of stay off. Yeah, maybe. I think there are some things
probably that you know about people that you don't necessarily want to get into. So, for example,
you know, I will have talked to Tony or to David Miliband, you know, if there were stuff going on at
home that they were worried about and so forth. And I think it's unfair to kind of sort of bring that up
as an interview, but in an interview. But no, I thought you did well there. I thought that,
you know, it was, it was just very interesting. It's like, I mean, I obviously know his name,
but I know nothing about him. And it's just very, it's quite interesting to speak to somebody
that you don't know much about, but you know that they're quite influential in their own way.
So how did you, how did you first get to know? So we first met this grisly thing called the
Bilderberg conference. Oh my God, here we go. Let's get the conspiracy theories all fired up.
That's right. That's it. Were you talking about 15-minute cities and taxes on leave?
Exactly, all of that kind of stuff. I don't know what I told you. One of the things that I discovered
coming out of that conference, it was meant to be sort of secrets I'd attended. And then someone called a
parliamentary debate, which I had to attend on why Rory Stewart attended the Bilderberg conference,
which poor Ken Clark at the dispatch box had to go, roar, right, roe, blah, and try to say to
Anyway, one of the things I discovered from the whole thing is, you know, there's a big theory that the thing is run by lizard kings, alien lizard kings, where alien lizard kings, what I couldn't quite work out was whether I... Who is it run by? Who is Mr. Bilderberg?
Well, I don't know very much about it.
Is it all the Freemasons? How did you get invited?
you get you get you get tapped on the shoulder and invited to go along and of course in my case what you end up with is a very grumpy bitter government whip who's really angry that they didn't get invited saying no you can't possibly go you've got to vote on the you know sunday trading bill on and are you told when you arrive that you can't possibly talk about who else is there you can't divulge any of the details details the conference yeah but anyway what i still haven't worked out though is whether i was an alien lizard king before i went or whether by going i've now kind of grown a tale and become an alien lizard king i
I think probably I was one before I went.
Did you go to Bill the Berkowitz?
You're very quiet about this.
Not a liberty to say.
I mean, I can't, I can't know.
I'm not.
I find that I don't get tapped on the shoulder for these kinds of things.
I think despite my now being officially a pensioner,
I think I still am seen by some of these things as a bit of a sort of rogue possibility.
I think people know that I don't like being a member of sort of exclusive clubs.
Yeah, I can imagine that.
You might cause a bit of trouble.
Yeah.
Bit of trouble.
Is there anything you wish you'd ask him that we didn't ask him if you wouldn't do this again?
No, there isn't because I think as a kind of as a pairing with Mustafa Sullivan, I think what was, I think I learned quite a lot from Mustafa Solomon about that world and how it works and who's in it and what sort of people they are.
But I actually found with, found with Reid Hoffman, I just found kind of from the off almost a very interesting.
character and personality that there was lots to explore him, which is why it went off in all sorts of
weird and wonderful directions, like the philosophy of friendship. I'm very interested in friendship,
but I think it's a really interesting area of life. We talk about friends without really thinking
what we mean most of the time. And as I say, I think it's something you're probably quite good at.
I'm very good at everything, Roy, really. No, you're not good at everything, not good at everything.
Do you think so? No, not good at everything. Don't you think I'd be very good as a Bilderberg?
You'd definitely be rubbish at that. I definitely, I wasn't much good at that either.
I generally remember.
Did you hear any really interesting ideas?
At Bilderberg.
No, I'm not a liberty to.
No, I didn't.
I don't really say what they are, but did you hear it?
No, I didn't.
I didn't, no.
Nothing at all?
No, it's pretty dull.
Really dull.
Is the food nice?
Food's nice, but the conversation's pretty dull.
Are there any women there?
Yes, I'm sorry, we're not going to keep getting dragged down this part.
Do you wear a tie?
I'm wearing one now.
You're impressed.
Do you have to wear a tie at Bilderberg?
Yeah, I think I did.
Yeah, I did.
Jolly good.
All right.
Thank you very much doing that.
And let's talk soon.
Yeah.
See you soon.
