The School of Greatness - 803 What It Takes To Be a Champion

Episode Date: May 29, 2019

YOUR SUCCESS IS IN YOUR OWN HANDS. What does it take to be a champion? You have to love what you do. You have to care about the little details that other people let slide. And you have to have deep, u...nshakable confidence. A lot of what separates a player from a champion is mental. We can’t ignore the importance of keeping our mind away from the negative and focused on the end goal. On today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I’m sharing the most inspirational clips of interviews with the world’s greatest female athletes: Maria Sharapova, Katrin Tanja Davíðsdóttir, Michelle Waterson, Sasha Digiulian, Brooke Ence, The Bella twins, Emily Skye, and Danica Patrick. Maria Sharapova is one of the world’s greatest tennis players, Katrin Tanja Davíðsdóttir is a two-time champion of the CrossFit Games, Michelle Waterson is a mixed martial artist who competes in the UFC, Sasha Digiulian is a world champion climber, Brooke Ence is an elite CrossFit Champion, The Bella Twins are former WWE Wrestlers, Emily Skye is a top fitness model, and Danica Patrick is the most successful woman in the history of American open-wheel racing. We can all get distracted by self-doubt, comparing ourselves to others, and focusing on the wrong things. But we can train ourselves to have the mindset of a champion. It feels good to be great at what you do. Get ready to learn step into your greatness on Episode 803. Some Questions I Ask: Why are you so driven to be the best? (7:00) What does it mean to be respectful of your opponent? (16:30) How do you stay focused when you’re scared? (18:57) What are some tools you use when you start comparing yourself? (30:00) In This Episode You Will Learn: The difference between “showing up” and “playing” (6:00) The reason you need to focus on the things you can control (12:00) Why not doing your best is doing a disservice to your opponent (18:00) How trust can heal anxiety (20:00) How to not let negative comments affect you (27:00) Follow me on: Instagram @LewisHowes Twitter @LewisHowes Facebook @LewisHowes

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is episode number 803 with what it takes to be a champion. Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today. Now let the class begin. Mia Hamm said,
Starting point is 00:00:34 True champions aren't always the ones that win, but those with the most guts. Today we have an incredible episode with the greatest female athletes and champions to share their wisdom on how to be a champion in your life or anything that you're working towards. And you've heard of these women before. People like Maria Sharapova, who's a world-class tennis player, five-time Grand Slam champion. She's a medalist in women's singles at the 2012 Summer Olympics in London, model, author, entrepreneur, and a powerhouse. We've got Katrin, David's daughter,
Starting point is 00:01:16 who's a legend in the fitness and CrossFit world, a CrossFit champion, aest woman on the earth in 2015 And 2016 Inspiration to so many people Michelle Watterson an MMA fighter In the UFC Ranks in the top of the UFC Anthem weight And one of the best fighters in the world Sasha DeJulian
Starting point is 00:01:40 Is a champion rock climber Who has won the world championships For female overall Plays silver who has won the world championships for female overall, placed silver in bouldering world championships, brawn in the duel, and is a three-time U.S. national champion. Such a powerhouse. We've got Brooke Entz, who's an elite CrossFit athlete as well, entrepreneur, social media fitness icon.
Starting point is 00:02:01 The Bella Twins, Nikki and Brie Bella. Icon, the Bella Twins, Nikki and Brie Bella, WWE superstars and former diva champions having debuted as a wrestling tag team in 2007, massive social media following, brand, reality show, and so much more. Emily Skye, who is a health and fitness expert with over 14 million women worldwide having helped transform their lives with her signature workouts, meal plans, and 24-7 support. And Danica Patrick is the most successful woman in the history of American open wheel racing. She's broken barriers and set records in her victory in 2008 Indy Japan 300. Is the only win ever by a woman in the IndyCar Series race.
Starting point is 00:02:46 She's Time Magazine's 100 Most Influential People list. She's got her own clothing line, entrepreneur, and inspiration. In this interview, we talk about the difference between being good enough and great enough. Powerful advice from all these superstar athletes and coaches. The lessons behind respecting your opponent and losing. Why negativity won't get you anywhere. Stepping into your greatness by being okay with being yourself. Why learning the hard way is sometimes the best way.
Starting point is 00:03:20 I know that too much. Top tools on getting over insecurities. How to condition your mind against extreme pressure, and so much more. I am so excited about this, guys. Make sure to share this with your friends. Tag me. Tag the ladies in this episode as well on your Instagram stories
Starting point is 00:03:36 or on Twitter or on social media. Text a friend, lewishouse.com slash 803, on what it takes to be a champion and lessons from some of the world's greatest athletes. Without further ado, let's dive into this episode on what it takes to be a champion. It's funny. A lot of people ask me where, um, because one of my greatest strengths is that I come
Starting point is 00:04:02 on the court and I feel that I have a mental edge against my opponents. You do? I do. Why do you think that? I just do. And what does the mental edge mean? That you're mentally tougher, smarter, more determined? I don't want to use the word smarter.
Starting point is 00:04:19 I think there are a lot of – in order to be a professional athlete and to be at the top of a game, you have to be pretty smart. You have to be talented. You have to be a hard worker. Everyone is. Everyone is all those things. There's no one that doesn't work harder. They want to be there, yeah. What's the edge there?
Starting point is 00:04:36 I just really want it. I really – I think I – You want to win. I want to win and I hate to lose and I don't like giving up. But so do a lot of the top ten people are probably all – Well, I think there's – I'm not sure. You just think you want it more. I think there's a difference between showing up and playing to – because we have – you have a lot of different tournaments.
Starting point is 00:05:01 You have Grand Slams, which is obviously the biggest tournament. And then you have tournaments that are somewhere in Europe or in the middle of Asia that are smaller tournaments. But you can't just show up. You have to show up and compete. I don't believe a lot of people say that just by showing up, that's something. I'm not quite sure. That mantra has never worked for me. I'd rather not show up. It would almost be a waste of time in many ways, especially in my profession.
Starting point is 00:05:32 Just by showing up doesn't get me anything. I mean, how are you so driven and why to win and strive to be the best still? Like, why? Because I love the sport. I love the sport. I love the feeling. Why? Because I love the sport.
Starting point is 00:05:43 I love the sport. I love the feeling. I think also selfishly as a woman, it's a really good feeling to feel good at what you do. To feel strong and powerful and just good at it. And know that by working on it that you can be better. That's just, there's nothing else where I feel that. I love doing other things, but when I'm on the court and I, even when I'm rusty or even when I don't get to a ball, which is a lot of times, it's like, oh, that chocolate I ate last night.
Starting point is 00:06:22 Thanks, Chikapuma. Exactly. You know I eat a lot. So um you know i eat a lot so i eat a lot so yeah i just i love the feeling of getting better um i love that challenge and there's nothing winning i mean winning is a in tennis is a spur of the moment. It's like that final point and that emotion that you don't get with anything else. It's not like, I guess, your success is in your own hands. It's not in the hands of anyone else. You have a team that you build and that helps you get to walk to center court and then you walk out there. But then it's you. And if you lose you know or you win it's on you yeah and that's i love that i love that pressure
Starting point is 00:07:13 you can't get anywhere else no not i haven't found it yet yeah so i hear you. Do you have any regrets for your career of like starting too soon or not going to school or relationships or anything like that? Is there any regrets along the way? I don't want to use the word regrets. It's a pretty strong word. The one thing I do regret is not learning more languages when I was young. How many do you know now? Two, Russian and English. But I wish that I would have learned more languages. You pick them up so well when you're young. And I think especially in today's growing society and world, it would be really great to know more languages. That's one thing. As far as other things in my career,
Starting point is 00:08:04 I don't know. Relationships. I think when you talk about career and relationships and regret, you talk about balance a lot, like that kind of strive for balance. How do you do that? I don't because there's no balance. It's full on for your – Well, I don't think there's – I don't think balance exists. I don't think there's ever 50-50. Right. I think if you're 50-50, then you're just 50% at one thing and 50% at another thing. And is that good enough?
Starting point is 00:08:36 I don't think so. It's not in my opinion. Right. So how do you manage it? It can be good enough. Right. Which is – I know a lot of people that do it, and that's their good enough. That's their great.
Starting point is 00:08:50 Yeah, it's what they want. It's what they want, and that's what, and it just has never worked for me. I don't feel fulfilled. I don't feel that I'm getting the most out of myself when I'm just 50-50. What do you think it takes to be the best in the world? Everything you got. If you're not giving it everything that you have, I always think this.
Starting point is 00:09:11 I remember everyone likes balance, like talking about balance. So you need this and you need that and you have this in your life. And I always felt very conflicted because that's not what I wanted. And I remember Ben was having a presentation once and it's the first
Starting point is 00:09:26 time I ever heard anyone say champions don't have balance. And I was like, he's right. If it's not right or wrong, for most people, it's probably the right thing to have balance. But if you want to be the best in the world at something, you just can't. Because if you're spending your time on something other than your craft or something that's not going to make you better, someone else is spending their time on getting better. And I always think that someone else is going to be spending their time, so I better be doing it too. Wow. And there's a time and place for everything, like hanging out with your friends and getting your nails done. But that has to be the right time.
Starting point is 00:10:11 And when you've already put in all, when you've slept enough and when you've eaten the right things and when you've done your training and then sometimes it's good to get that little bit of a break, but that has to be the right time. Yeah, I hear you. So, yeah, it takes everything you you got and a lot of hard work. The top three things. The top three.
Starting point is 00:10:28 To coach someone. It's focusing on the right things. You know, it's probably the you can't control others or the outcome, but you can control your sleep. Make sure you get enough sleep. That's, like, my number one recovery thing is sleep. If for nothing else, just, like, get your eight, hopefully ten hours of sleep. Make sure you get enough. That's like my number one recovery thing is sleep. If for nothing else, just like get your eight, hopefully 10 hours of sleep every night. And it's your diet. It's the effort that you put into what you're doing with whatever your craft is. It's focusing on
Starting point is 00:10:59 the right things. And I feel like when you do that and you focus on the things that you actually can control, I feel like your mind is like, it's like a windshield wiper. You just see things clearer and you're not constantly like fussing about little things or getting aggravated. Like if you can change it, just change it. And if you can't, then move on, you know, and you're not, I don't know, it at least gets my mind so much clearer. I think number two is probably focusing on details. I think there are so many little things that you think are little things, you know, like that little accessory thing at the end of your day
Starting point is 00:11:34 that you could just skip or, you know, just having that one cookie. You can just have that one cookie or, you know, watching one more. I like those cookies. Yeah, don't we all? And then, you know, watching one more episode at night because it's only one more, but you're losing that hour of sleep. It's washing your hands so that you don't get sick
Starting point is 00:11:56 because a sick day can set you back a couple days. It's taking care of all the little details that seem so little in the time and they're like oh it's just one percent or one percent but they're really quick one percent's add up really fast it's something that's really big yeah and the third thing is relationships it's developing great relationships around you and i see that with the way that he treats his family and his friends and who he coaches. It's like you create a great life with the relationships that you create around you. I think you have to have a really strong, genuine, deep confidence.
Starting point is 00:12:43 Like it has to be like deep in your core. it has to be, like, deep in your core. It has to be unshakable. So you can't doubt yourself at all. You can't doubt yourself at all, and you have to be two steps ahead of everybody else. What does that mean? Because there's so many, like, different things that go into fighting.
Starting point is 00:13:01 You know, it's not just physical. Of course it is, obviously. You have to be physically ready. But once you surpass that, once you guys are all on the same level physically, then it becomes a mental game. Are you mentally sharp? Can you deal with the media? Can you deal with all the outside noise? Can you deal with all the inside noise in your head? Can you deal with all of the other circumstances surrounding you as you are training for this fight? It's just so many different elements that go into it and everything has to fall into place for you to win that one night. Yeah. One moment. One moment. You change everything. What do you do to silence the conversation that holds you back when it comes up?
Starting point is 00:13:51 I take a deep breath and I tell myself confidence. And it just calms me. it just calms me. I feel like we all have that voice in our head, that inner critic that will, in my mind, it's my mom. What are you doing? My mom is just super critical. Really?
Starting point is 00:14:18 I think it's just culturally, that's how they raise their kids. It's kind of like that negative motivation, put the chip on your shoulder. But I've been working a lot with a sports psychologist, and he explains it to me in a way that like the same emotions you get when you're fearful are the same emotions you get when you're excited. We just perceive them differently. So anytime I do get nervous or afraid or anxious, I just take a deep breath and I tell myself confidence.
Starting point is 00:14:55 And it reminds me to use that energy, that nervous energy, and transform it into good energy, energy that's going to feel me, energy that's going to build confidence within me, and energy that's going to allow me to use it towards my benefit. In your opinion, what does it mean to respect your opponent? And how can you be respectful to your opponent when you're fighting them and pounding their face on the ground? That's a hard one.
Starting point is 00:15:23 That is a hard one because, like I said, I'm a people pleaser. I'm not a trash talker. I'm not good at it. It's a fine line, and I think it depends on the person, really. There have been fights where I have given my opponent too much respect and maybe subconsciously felt like they deserved the win over me. Really? Yeah. Why? And maybe subconsciously felt like they deserved the win over me. Really?
Starting point is 00:15:45 Yeah. Why? Because of their status. Because of their rankings. Because I knew them personally. And that's hard. You have to shelf that. You have to shelf that.
Starting point is 00:16:00 You have to say, I respect you. But at the end of the day, you and I are both getting in here to take each other's heads off and if I don't get into the cage to do that then I'm doing you a disservice you're doing her a disservice yeah because I'm not giving her my 100% you know I'm not giving her my my true warriors yeah like when you're like playing with your little sister little brother and they tell you no punching so so you kind of scale it back. You're doing your opponent a disservice when you do that, and that's how I've had to look at it. I've had to look at it. I've had to take my opponent out of the equation.
Starting point is 00:16:37 Your feelings for them, your care for them. I had to go into the octagon and tell myself that I deserve to win. Because I've put in all the time, I've put in all the work. And whatever happens after that happens. How do you stay focused when it's like, okay, I'm about to climb this next step, but it's a scary moment? Yeah. I don't know, there's uneven footing or there's nothing.
Starting point is 00:17:17 Have there ever been a place where you're a thousand feet up and there's nowhere to grab? Yeah, I mean, sometimes you encounter parts of a climb that you don't think are physically possible for you. And a lot goes into kind of whittling down all the little pieces and trying out different ways that you can find a solution. Because you'll try it and you'll fall a bunch. Yeah. A few feet or whatever.
Starting point is 00:17:39 Yeah, exactly. And you keep pulling back on. No way. Trying something else, fall, pull back on, try and find like a little credit card size, like protrusion in the rock to like dangle off of. And then if that doesn't work, then you either like just keep banging your head on it
Starting point is 00:17:55 or like train harder and return. What happens if it doesn't work? Do you just go back down? Yeah, sometimes. Shut up. It's going to be a thousand feet in the air. Yeah, you could be like could be like i can't do this right now there's 50 feet to go yeah you can literally be stopped if you're like on like a 3 000 foot climb you can be stopped by six feet because like if something doesn't go if you can't physically do it a move then that can be like the
Starting point is 00:18:21 end all but i think a lot of what climbing taught me is like there's often a solution. You just have to kind of like open your mind up to different possibilities. And a lot of climbing, what's so intriguing about the sport physically to me is that it can be the smallest difference in body positioning that makes all the difference. So it's like a very upper body hand strength oriented sport. But you're really using your entire body, like your core, your hips, and normally the driving force. You have ideally like using your footwork really well because you have to balance on like tiny little nubbins and shift your weight and allocate so that you can exert enough force to move up the wall.
Starting point is 00:19:03 I really do believe in listening to the universe. And I think that if you open yourself up to what the universe is trying to say to you, then there's this timing and process to life that makes sense. If you let it, it makes sense. So everything in my life, I mean, I feel like when I look back, I'm like, oh, that makes sense. The timing or the situation that that negative experience led me to a positive experience. It's kind of interesting. Like, I think that makes me less anxious if I just trust the process. Even right now, I have this air boot on because I have a fractured fibula.
Starting point is 00:19:46 And it's like, when I did that, it was after, I mean, I was training for the New York City Marathon and I was on a climbing trip through Europe and then Jordan and then back to Europe. And so I had this pain in my leg and I was like, I don't know why my leg is so painful, but I'm just going to keep charging on. And I was like hiking with a heavy pack and climbing and- And training for running?
Starting point is 00:20:07 Yeah, training for the marathon. Like not listening to my body. But then I got to Germany and I got an MRI and I learned that I had a stress fracture. So I was like, oh, good thing that my pain tolerance isn't negligible at least. But then with, I was given this air boot and I arrived to this series of like conference in Miami with the International Women's Forum. And I had all of these kind of like blossoming business ideas that I needed to be in one place to actually like take advantage of and organize, I think just like give my life a little room to breathe and be home and get grounded again. So then I saw this air boot as like life's way of saying slow down and listen to your body and just be still.
Starting point is 00:20:55 And I think now I'm in a much healthier mindset than I was when I was like not stopping traveling because I was like on the road for like about four months straight up to this point of like, okay, on the road for, like, about four months straight. Up to this point of, like, okay, now you're going to, like... Chill. Yeah. One place. Come inward and get your life.
Starting point is 00:21:13 Just, like, let it chill a little. Be home. I was at a place where I needed to... If I wanted to be better, if I wanted to be better than I ever could have been, I needed to work through this stuff. Like I needed to tear the walls down. I think to a certain point, the walls I had built or the things I had, the lies I had told myself so I could like get through a day without thinking negative thoughts about myself probably really helped me get to a certain point but to become anything more or better or bigger than that I had to deal with them and that's kind of what happened how'd you deal with them well I read a book one talking to people that I really trusted the thoughts that I have instead of just keeping them inside because I'm embarrassed about them saying them out loud to someone that I trusted
Starting point is 00:22:03 so they could one when you tell them to a friend and they look at you, they're like, you know how ridiculous that sounds, right? But then also too, sometimes you say them out loud to yourself and you're like, oh, that sounds way dumb. So a lot more of that. And then I read a book from Brene Brown, Daring Greatly. Yeah. Literally promote that book to like everyone. She's amazing. Yeah. that book to like everyone. Yeah. And that was probably the book that really helped me decide how I could start sort of mending things moving forward and realizing that we have like all of these moments that you can always just make a change. Like I'm feeling all these things and I've been affected by what people have said about me and I knew that I wanted to feel better and change and move on and move forward and grow from the experience.
Starting point is 00:22:55 But for some reason, it was almost like I was waiting for this moment where it was like, well, now you can. Right. But in reality, it's like you have a million moments. Yeah. Every moment we get to decide. And you just get to make a choice. And that's the challenge. I meet with a lot of people who don't believe in themselves or they don't think they're ready or they don't think they should be in the position they're at or they have this imposter syndrome. And every moment,
Starting point is 00:23:19 like you said, we have an opportunity to decide if we want to continue to tell ourselves negative things or say something positive that we do belong or we are good enough or we're here exactly where we need to be at the right time. And a lot of people, I think, struggle with accepting their greatness or accepting the success they're getting. And it always frustrates me why we struggle with that, because we should be stepping into it more and more to inspire other people. And when we constantly say negative things to ourselves, it just holds us back and holds other people back. But like you said, when we start to talk about it with friends, that's when we realize how stupid or ridiculous it may be. And so sharing these things more with people and not just holding it in is what's going to help us move forward. So I'm glad you started doing that.
Starting point is 00:24:05 Yeah. I mean, it really started to make a difference in one, it's like in relationships, in my training. And it really was just me realizing that the only person that was holding me back was myself and really helped me realize that like, I don't have to give power. Not only I do not have to give power to my negative thoughts, but I don't have to give power to strangers thoughts. Like people say dumb stuff all the time. And if you don't like the way I look or you don't like the way I dress, it still doesn't affect the fact that I'm still going to
Starting point is 00:24:44 go and be successful. And I'm still going gonna go and be the person that I'm supposed to be even if you don't like me. No matter what it is you do, people are gonna love you and people are gonna hate you. Yeah. And like you have to be okay with that. They're gonna spin things away they want it to be for good TV. Right. And how the world will perceive you. Like, I don't like how she lives. Or I don't like how she talks.
Starting point is 00:25:09 Or I don't like how she walks. Or how she dresses. Or I don't like how she eats her food. Or I don't like how her and her sister are. Or you have the opposite. I love how they are. Oh, my gosh, I could relate to them. And so you just know that no matter, I could act like Mother Teresa all I want.
Starting point is 00:25:24 It doesn't matter. You could save every tree in the world. Yes. Like, Bree, and it doesn't matter. I could act like Mother Teresa all I want. It doesn't matter. You could save every tree in the world. Yes. Like Bree, and it doesn't matter. And they're like, she's so annoying. Like, she saves so many trees. Right. But, you know, so that was, I think, the scariest part was just the feeling of like, okay, I'm going to be judged constantly.
Starting point is 00:25:39 How have you guys handled that? In the beginning, it kind of rocks your world a little bit. You're just kind of like. Because social media, you could see everything. Every tweet, everything. Yeah, and you think to yourself, like, don't take it personal, but it's hard not to. So hard. And, like, it affects you, and you're like, you can't let this affect you.
Starting point is 00:25:56 The person might have had a really bad day. It's so hard to think that way. But now it doesn't at all. Now it's like kind of we let everything roll off us, but at the end of the day we're like the whole world is not going to love you. Half of it's going to hate you, half of it's going to love you, and that's okay. And I think everyone goes through this, and I think because of social media, and I think it's important to go through it, is you're going to go through that tough time of like it's okay to be upset
Starting point is 00:26:21 about seeing hate about you and stuff that you feel is like not true. And I think I had to go through that period of time of where I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm totally getting bullied online. This is crazy. And having those feelings of being so down, because then it made me be like, wait, why am I letting these people affect me? One, I don't even know these people, but why am I letting them affect me? Like, this is crazy. Like I'm proud of who I am. And you know what? If these people don't like am I letting them affect me? Like, this is crazy. Like, I'm proud of who I am, and you know what? If these people don't like it, then bye. It's crazy how much I'm learning as a business owner.
Starting point is 00:26:50 Well, you probably weren't trained in the last 15 years or 20 years on how to do this. Right. So you have to learn on the job. Yes. Essentially. Oh, yeah. I've learned the hard way many times because I wasn't trained this way either. You're just like, I have this passion, this idea.
Starting point is 00:27:03 I want to bring it to life. Right. But I sometimes feel like, I don't know if you feel this way, that it's sometimes good to learn the hard way. Absolutely. Because I feel like that gives you success over time. Like that long term success. If it works from the beginning, that's not good. I think you want to struggle a little bit or at least have some adversity. So you say, oh man, that's a good lesson. I don't want to do that again. I think we need some of that.
Starting point is 00:27:26 Totally. I mean, we've had, what, two to three times where we thought maybe we shut down Birdie Bee. Really? Yeah. Well, you know what's funny? You've got to be fully invested. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:27:35 You've got to be fully invested. You do. The last three years, because we hit some rock bottom points and Nicole and I looked at each other like, how do we, like our first time, we were just kind of led the wrong way and we put all our apples into one person and all sudden their vision was way different and tried to execute it and we were like no no no no no and then all of a sudden it was like birdie beat went away I knew that I'd do something good
Starting point is 00:28:07 and I wanted to do something that would help other people. I didn't know what it was going to be, but I knew that I would have some sort of following. I don't want to say fame, but like some sort of people looking to me for something, which I thought was ironic because I was so insecure and so shy. But you knew that's something you wanted. I knew it.
Starting point is 00:28:24 I knew that it would, yeah. Or it was going to happen. And it was weird because over here I've got this, like the ultimate of what I want to be and what I want to do. Didn't, wasn't sure that what it was at that stage. And I'm down here and I thought, how can I be that though? I'm supposed to be there, but I'm here now. And it just, it was a weird feeling. And then I knew that I had to start working on myself and I did reach a point where I did. It was probably early to mid-20s, so I guess fairly late. And I started working towards making myself the best I could be by getting healthy and fit and being more positive and having some self-belief, surrounding myself with more positive people and realising what actually made me happy in life, which was fitness, obviously, and health and helping people. So that's when I started doing what I'm doing now and sort of building that.
Starting point is 00:29:09 What are some of the tools that you use when you're looking to overcome that, you know, insecurity or fear or comparison? Because I think this will be helpful for a lot of people who are constantly comparing. Yeah. To see someone like you with a massive audience, great body, great image, great everything on how you do that. I think you've got to work out what makes you happy in life and what's most important to you. Is it really trying to be perfect and worrying about what everyone else thinks of you, especially on social media?
Starting point is 00:29:37 If you put up a photo and people say, oh, you look great here, does that really make you happy temporarily? Yeah, you feel good, your ego is getting fed, but long term, I don't think it really does. And I think you need to get to a point where you do know what makes you happy and you're aware of that and you don't rely on that to keep feeding the happiness. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:57 But when I feel down, and I've talked about this before with my followers, but when I get in my sort of down moments, and I haven't had one for a while, which is a good thing. That's great. But last year I had a bit of a time. I think I'd been traveling a lot and I just got really run down and everything just went to shit pretty much. It's hard to keep your body healthy. And then your mind goes and I was feeling crappy. I wasn't training, which is a big thing. Getting moving is incredible. It does incredible things for you. The endorphins that you get from it really, it's a real thing. It's a real thing.
Starting point is 00:30:26 Yeah, and I hadn't been doing it for a while and I just, I didn't want to. I wasn't motivated. And I thought, how can I get myself? To move, to work out. Yeah, how can I get myself back there? I know that that's what changed my life. And yet here I am stuck feeling shitty again.
Starting point is 00:30:40 I thought, okay, well, I don't want to go to the gym because I'm not motivated to do that. How can I get myself there? So I put music on and dance around the house and I started learning hip hop. I was putting tutorials on the big screen on YouTube and dancing around the lounge room like an idiot. I was no good at it, but it's not the point.
Starting point is 00:30:56 That's right. I felt good. I felt happy and the music lifted my mood and I started getting outdoors outside in the sun and fresh air and just finding that balance again and I guess grounding myself in a way so I could start to feel like, okay, what is it? What is it that makes me happy again? What is it that gives me life, that makes me jump out of bed every day?
Starting point is 00:31:16 So I got back there and then I'm back on track again. So you've got to find what it is that does it for you. Maybe it's reading a book. Maybe it's walking, I don't know, ice skating, rock climbing, whatever. Do something that makes you feel good again, but you've got to find your creative. And my creative for me is training and getting outdoors and talking to people and helping people.
Starting point is 00:31:34 Yeah, it's probably not sticking on your phone, looking on Instagram all day. No. That's probably not going to do it. That can be quite poisonous. I know. Yeah, and you've got to set boundaries for yourself and restrictions. There you have it, my friends. I hope you enjoyed this interview series with some of the greatest athletes in the world on what it takes to be a champion. Again, a big thank you to all the ladies
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