The School of Greatness - 870 Fight for Fearlessness

Episode Date: November 1, 2019

DO YOUR JOB. If you want to be a leader, you must learn how to master your feelings. That is what life requires from leaders in any field. If you do not currently possess these characteristics, there are ways to acquire them. First, be honest with yourself. You need to take it one step at a time. You must be consistent and practice habits that will improve your confidence. Little by little, your self-confidence will grow, and your fear will take a back seat. Soon you will be able to handle any situation confidently and courageously. For this Five Minute Friday, I revisited a conversation with Captain Dale Dye, where he shared strategies to help eliminate fear and build leadership skills. Captain Dale Dye served in the US Marines for 22 years, he received 3 Purple Hearts for his injuries sustained while in Vietnam, and he dedicated a second career to bringing realistic depictions of war to Hollywood screens. Captain Dale Dye says that you need to conquer your emotions if you want to be successful. Learn how to face your fears and be a better leader in Episode 870. In This Episode You Will Learn: How to maintain your bearing and conquer fear. (2:30) How to stop thinking about yourself. (3:13) What you can do to get the job done. (4:05) The power of displaying confidence in any situation. (4:35) If you enjoyed this episode, check out the video, show notes and more at lewishowes.com/870 and follow at instagram.com/870

This is 5-Minute Friday! Welcome everyone to the School of Greatness. Super pumped and excited about our guest today. His name is Captain Dale Dye. And he is a U.S. Marine who served in Vietnam receiving three Purple Hearts. He also spent 22 years in the military before heading to Hollywood. And now he's an actor who has dedicated his career to accurately portraying military roles on screen. He's best known for his roles in Saving Private Ryan, Band of Brothers, and Natural Born Killers, to name a few.

Ryan, Band of Brothers, and Natural Born Killers, to name a few. He's also created a company, Warriors Inc., to teach actors how to appeal realistic in war scenes on films. There's a certain bearing that you've got to have as a leader and as a human being, and you have to maintain that bearing now that's something that's learned that's something you have to practice but when you've got it uh it goes a long way toward conquering fear it's if if someone asks me were you afraid the answer is yes oh hell yes i was afraid um but i managed not to let it stall me not to not to let it stall me, not to let it conquer me. Hesitate.

Yeah. And I think that's what you have to do. How does someone do that? How does someone manage it to that level where they don't show it? Well, the first thing you do is stop thinking about yourself. Look, you have a job to do. And that job can be as simple as existing as a human being, as a male human being from day to day. You've got a job to do. And you've got to stop thinking about how do I feel. Oh my, I have to get up early this morning. I think I'll cry the poor ass.

That's nonsense. You've got things to do. You have to face life. Life is not easy. War is face life. Life is not easy. War is not easy. Business is not easy. Doing what we're doing right now is not easy. But you have to make it that way.

You have to make the other person, the other people around you feel that it's easy. If you can do that and forget about yourself, I think you go a long way. You take a big step. And the longer you do it, and the more you see it as effective, the more you're training yourself. You're training yourself. It's a muscle.

That's right. Yeah. Okay. What are some things that people could do, you think, on a daily basis or a weekly basis to embrace that and start optimizing that part of their life of fear not running them when they go to a job interview or to give a speech or presentation or whatever it is so it doesn't rule them back off and see the big picture the big picture is that this job interview may be extremely important to you and i understand that and you may desperately need that job but desperation is not what you need when you go in confidence is what you need when you go in. Confidence is what you need when you go in. And you have to back off a bit from how you feel and the fact that you've got a pile of bills over here that have to get paid and they won't unless you get this job.

Yeah. That's pressure. It is. I mean, that's got you in a vice here. But you have to back away from it and say, okay, I could go in and fall on my knees and start sobbing and say how badly I need this job. But is that who the guy wants? No, he doesn't want that sobbing mess of goo on his floor there. He wants a guy who stands up and says, look, I've got problems. I need to solve them. And I'm asking you to give me a hand so that I can solve them

and more importantly so that I can help you solve your problems once again it's not thinking so much about yourself and it's hard to do we're brought up in a society where it's all me, me, me the sun rises and sets on your posterior well no it doesn't

and you have to back off I think a bit and see that and understand that. And it gives you a different perspective. And I think that perspective is what you carry into those tense situations. Hey guys, if you enjoyed this inspirational clip from a past episode of the show, then you'll love the free book I'm giving away right now. It's called The Millionaire Morning. It includes some of my best tips for starting off your day with a millionaire mindset. Get your free copy at themillionairemorning.com and just pay shipping. Again, check it out right now.