The School of Greatness - 923 Get Uncomfortable, Build Your Relationships and Thrive with Dave Sparks

Episode Date: March 4, 2020

“It’s okay to love people more than you might have been taught was okay.”What hard things do you do daily to seek pain? (3:05)What is the biggest fear you have yet to conquer? (13:35)How have yo...u stay focused on your wife and family as your fame and success has grown? (16:28)What is something you don’t want people to know about you? (39:45)What do you need to let go of in order to step into your fullest potential? (42:19)How to overcome the fear of anything (8:21)How Dave learned how to get back up when he gets knocked down (20:48)How to teach kids to appreciate what they have (24:35)The best thing Dave learned from his Mormon mission (31:15)Why you should make deals with God or the universe (36:50)What happens when you focus in on one key skill (45:10)What Dave thinks about the new Tesla truck (49:00)How the auto industry is evolving into electric and hydrogen power (56:30)If you enjoyed this episode, show notes and more at http://www.lewishowes.com/923 and follow at instagram.com/lewishowes

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is episode number 923 with Dave Sparks. Welcome to the School of Greatness. My name is Lewis Howes, a former pro athlete turned lifestyle entrepreneur. And each week we bring you an inspiring person or message to help you discover how to unlock your inner greatness. Thanks for spending some time with me today. Now let the class begin. Paulo Coelho said,
Starting point is 00:00:35 When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too. Bruce Lee said, The successful warrior is the average man with laser-like focus. And Mark Twain said continuous improvement is better than delayed perfection. We've got a new friend of mine, Dave Sparks, who is in the house. I met Dave at Monster Jam. I watched him doing backflips on this massive truck in an arena of like 25,000, 30,000 people with monster truck. They're all driving and jumping and doing these crazy flips and stuff. And it was crazy.
Starting point is 00:01:15 And he's the star of a show on Discovery Channel called Diesel Brothers. And he's just got an incredible story. And I'm super excited for you to meet this individual. He's an entrepreneur, custom vehicle builder, massive social media personality from Salt Lake City, Utah and he goes by the name of Heavy D and since he was little Dave has been fascinated with anything with an engine or wheels and in 2009 he met a girl of his dreams at church, married her one year later and he's got a couple of amazing kids. He picked up his dealer license, opened up a small used car lot, and started working to build his dream company.
Starting point is 00:01:53 And his business and his family continues to grow with his creativity, his expression, and his ability to really create magical things for people. It's really cool what this guy does. And in this interview, we talk about the power of self-improvement and how it has shaped Dave's life and career, why it's so important to constantly be uncomfortable to grow, what it was like growing up Mormon and the impact of his two-year mission, how he met his wife and how they challenged each other to be better, that and so much more it's
Starting point is 00:02:25 funny every person we bring on they focus on improvement they focus on growth they focus on bettering themselves doing the things daily to improve their life and by doing so they seem to create a life of their dreams they seem to manifest better relationships better health better opportunities so the fact that you're here right now, taking care of yourself, learning, growing, inspiring, improving, you're on the path to doing something greater. You're on the path to growth because you're choosing to learn and develop yourself. So I acknowledge you for being here. If this is your first time here, welcome to the School of Greatness. If your nine hundred and twenty third time here then welcome back I love you either way and I'm super excited for you to
Starting point is 00:03:09 dive in okay welcome back to one of the school greatest podcast my man Dave sparks in the house good to see you buddy absolutely doing good dude I am so happy to be here I gotta tell you I'm big into personal development, right? Yeah. People see me as the truck guy. I'm the truck guy on Discovery Channel. I'm the crazy monster truck guy on Instagram and social media. But, man, I'm all about this, growth.
Starting point is 00:03:33 And that's what you do best, man. I started listening to your podcast. I'm good buddies with Andy Frazella. Yeah. You're a mutual friend of ours. Yeah. And he kind of turned me on to that world of podcasts and personal development stuff. And since then, I got into, I had great relationships with guys like Ed Milet, all these different people.
Starting point is 00:03:49 So what you're doing is a very good thing. And I'm pumped to be a part of it. Thanks, man. Well, I think anyone who is in shape like you, who's got a great marriage, great family life, got a great business, they can't achieve those great things without working on themselves, without personal development, without a growth mindset. You can't be stuck in this traditional mindset from the past. You have to be working on how can I improve. But the problem is there's this weird like social kind of like don't do that.
Starting point is 00:04:17 That's weird. That's your parents. When I was growing up, my parents, they bought the Tony Robbins, what was the tape set? It was a giant within or something. Personal power? Yeah, personal power the tape set? It was Giant Within or something. Yeah, it was. Personal Power? Yeah, Personal Power. That's what it was.
Starting point is 00:04:27 I remember growing up seeing this big, like, padded cassette tape thing with Personal Power. And I remember when my parents got that, their friends, like, were laughing at them. They thought they were so dumb. And I remember thinking, like, what are my parents getting into? Is this a cult? I didn't understand it. And so a lot of people don't understand. When you hear personal development or self-help, you think, oh, you got to be sick, right?
Starting point is 00:04:46 This person must have psychological issues or problems. Forget about it, dude. It's about taking somebody that's already great. I'd be like, I'm a fine-tuned machine. But guess what? I can still get better. Well, here's the thing. We learn from interviewing great leaders and from leaders in the past that they're always
Starting point is 00:05:00 working on themselves. Right. They were never like, let me read because I need to, I'm in pain. They're like, I want to read to learn, to improve. Let me go to a workshop to learn, to improve what I already have. How do I take my current empire and make it bigger? It's not, I'm sick or I'm hurt or I'm depressed and I need help. It's, I want to take it to another level. And I think that's a cause. So depression, right? There's a huge epidemic nationwide with people that have depression because I think what happens is now I know there's clinical depression where people actually there's chemical issues and imbalance, but I also
Starting point is 00:05:32 think a lot of depression is self-induced because people just stop growing. If you're not uncomfortable, you always heard this, right? If you're not uncomfortable, you're not growing. And that's so true. So, you know, as we get into the conversation, I'll tell you about some of the things that I do to intentionally make myself uncomfortable. And I think that's that's so true so you know as we get into the conversation i'll tell you about some of the things that i do to intentionally make myself uncomfortable and i think that's actually how we met uh you know we have that in common with wim hof and ice baths that is not a fun thing to do i hate cold water i'm a tough dude i can take pretty much anything you throw me but i ice water that you know you can take the heat but not the cold dude i can take anything but cold like that's rough but you gotta get yourself out of your comfort zone. And so that's what my life is all about, man. And it has led to some of the greatest
Starting point is 00:06:08 adventures and some of the greatest moments, um, you know, that I never thought I would be able to experience, but by doing those hard things, it's led me there. What are those things daily you do that are hard that you seek pain every day? So here's the deal. I'm an average guy. I started with nothing. I literally started with nothing. High school dropout, right? Yeah. Basically high school finished, done. I got one semester of college. Not even. Yeah. It was like half a semester of college under my belt. And I just left. I remember sitting there reading, I was writing a book about, or an essay on Easter Island. And I stopped mid-writing and I've always been a really good writer, even though I don't do
Starting point is 00:06:44 it that much. And I thought, what am I doing? Why am I doing this? When am I ever going to use this information? That day I walked up and left and I never went back. And luckily, I've got a family that's very supportive. They're very intelligent. Both my sisters and my brother have their master's degrees. My brother's a professor at the University of Utah. Very, very smart people as far as academics go. It just wasn't for me. I needed to get my hands on things and be working on them. So ultimately what happened is you get, you become successful, you know, flash fast forward to where we're at today. My business has become successful through a series of wild events. I am who I am now, but once you become successful and tell me if you
Starting point is 00:07:20 don't agree with this, life gets easier. Way easier. And you stop having to do things you don't want to do for the most part. I mean, you got meetings and stuff like that, but you really don't have to like be uncomfortable, right? Successful people don't. So that's the scariest part about becoming successful is getting complacent. Yeah. Getting to the point where it's like, okay, I'm good. I made it. You never made it. And if you ever get that mentality where you've made it, you are going to go downhill fast. In my opinion, I've seen it happen a lot. So, um, I intentionally get myself uncomfortable in the morning by getting up and I go down, um, to my office and my little, you know, uh, quiet space and I jump in the ice bath and in Utah,
Starting point is 00:07:58 it's an average of 26 degrees every day right now. So I take my big ice trough, put it outside every day, get down there. You don't need ice. Dude, no. I'm breaking through six to eight inches of ice to get in this thing. And you know how that feels, dude.
Starting point is 00:08:12 You went over, you did it with Wim Hof. That's super, super envious. But you know that forcing yourself to do that, A, starts to create that self-discipline. You start training yourself that, yes, I can do hard things
Starting point is 00:08:23 and it's okay to do hard things. And guess what? Hard things benefit you. How do you feel when you get out of the ice and your blood starts rushing back to your body, you start warming up? That's a perfect example for me of doing something hard has a huge payoff and you have to do things consistently.
Starting point is 00:08:37 So I've done my ice bath every single day. I've done it on and off for the last couple of years, every single day though for two and a half months and the benefits are incredible. I mean, every single day though, for two and a half months. And the benefits are incredible. I mean, obviously that's, that's, that's been huge for me, but funny story I tell another thing that I do to get to intentionally get uncomfortable for some reason, growing up, I always hated, um, let's say you're in the Apple store, right. And, uh, you're inside and everybody's in there. You're doing your thing apple store super
Starting point is 00:09:05 clicky too you know how it is like all the cool kids are in there if i were to show up and it's the store closes at nine and i grab the door handle at 901 that's locked for some reason in my life that moment of everybody seeing me not being able to open a locked doors like i hated it i freaking like it's just a weird thing i don't like people looking at me. I'm kind of an introvert. Um, and so moments like that were a lot of attention on me and I'm not able to do something. So I started playing with that a couple of years ago. I was like, I hate this feeling. I don't like people looking at me. I don't like looking like I'm not capable of doing something. So I started going to the Apple store at nine Oh one and I would force myself, all the lights are on.
Starting point is 00:09:45 Everybody's still in there doing checkout. You know what I mean? Do the old door jiggle. And I just put myself in an uncomfortable situation because I needed to get over that uncomfortable feeling of people seeing me struggle. I don't like people to see me struggle. I hate it. And so I forced myself to start doing those things.
Starting point is 00:09:59 And man, I'm telling you, like they're the dumbest little things. But to me, that's personal development. That's figuring out what triggers me, what makes me uncomfortable and figuring out how to just get over it. Yeah. I think it's, it's those uncomfortable moments, the fears, the insecurities, when we lean into those and we'll master them or get to a place where they don't master us anymore. That's when we have freedom. Yeah. We have power. I've done that my whole life. Uh, for me, I tell the story all the time about how I was terrified to talk to girls. Yeah. All the way through high school.
Starting point is 00:10:29 And it wasn't until my junior year, going into the summer of my junior year, I said to myself, I'm no longer going to be afraid of talking to girls. Right. I don't care if they all say no to me and they all reject me. I just don't want to be afraid of it anymore. So I made a challenge for myself that whole summer. I said, anytime I see a girl that gives me butterflies, that's like a little attractive, I'm like, dang.
Starting point is 00:10:50 You know butterflies where you're nervous and you're scared and you want to run? I was like, I need to run towards them. And so every day, it didn't matter if I was like at the gym or grocery store or down the street, I would walk up to the girls that terrified me the most. In the first couple weeks, I'm just stuttering and stumbling and getting laughed at. And girls walking away thinking I'm crazy. But then it's like you build the confidence over and over again. I remember at the end of the summer, I would go up to groups of like 20 women.
Starting point is 00:11:15 30-year-old women and be like flirting with them and having fun. I was just like, I don't even care. Who cares? Dude, that's it though. Because here's the deal. You told yourself, I want to do something. I want to get good at something. But that's where most I want to do something. I want to get good at something. But that's where most people stop.
Starting point is 00:11:27 They say, I want to get good at this. Or I don't want to have that problem anymore. And then they just, they hope that thinking it is going to make the problem go away. You have to set little action items. And this is something that I've, I live my whole life by this. So I'm a pilot. I fly airplanes, helicopters, all kinds of stuff. Part of flying is you have a checklist.
Starting point is 00:11:42 And when you get in the airplane, hit this switch first, hit that twist this bop that do all these different things and it's in a very like strategic order and the reason why it's in that order is because if you miss one of those items you could potentially crash and die so you have to follow this small checklist and it's not like you're doing big things all at once you're doing small little things which ultimately end up put you in a position where okay plane's safe to safe to fly, I'm comfortable, everything, we're ready to go. That's how life is, dude. Everybody starts thinking about all these big picture goals and things that they want to do.
Starting point is 00:12:11 And I found that a lot of people just weren't getting there because they didn't know where to start. So we started a podcast called The Heavy Checklist and it's just about checklist items. It's little things that you need to start implementing today and tomorrow and next week to be able to not be afraid of girls, to be able to not have that social anxiety of, you know, getting caught by everybody at the Apple store when the door's locked. Don't just say those big picture things though. Give yourself small little items. That's why I love you. You said like, okay, I'm just going to go out and approach girls. If you hadn't said that, how would you have not been afraid of
Starting point is 00:12:40 girls? Yeah. How do I do this? Yeah. But you got to practice it over and over again. And it's about the immersion of it. For me, it's about the immersion. I was also terrified of salsa dancing. I lived above a jazz club when I was like 22, 23. And every week they would have salsa dancing once a week. Why salsa dancing? Well, because when I lived above this jazz club, they would have like jazz bands playing downstairs. But then once a week, they would bring salsa dancers. You're from Ohio? From Ohio. Was this in Ohio?
Starting point is 00:13:08 It's Columbus, Ohio, man. Middle of Ohio. And all the Latinos would come out and dance. It was like their night to come out and dance. And they'd be a live salsa band. It was amazing. So I would go downstairs and watch this. And how old are you at this point?
Starting point is 00:13:22 I was 22, 23. I'm the only white dude, I was 22, 23. I'm the only white dude there, essentially. And you're 6'4". 6'4", I'm standing like a foot taller than everyone, right? And I'm mesmerized by these guys who are just twirling these girls and making them, it just looked incredible. I was just blown away by how confident, how smooth,
Starting point is 00:13:41 how it's just like they're making, it was unreal. I think that's what it's about. I think that's why, so to me I've watched salsa dancing as well and I spent a lot of time in Latin America, Brazil, all over South America. The men are very confident and it comes across in the way that they move and do things and that's what salsa is, it's just confidence. If you have control of your body, the movement, and you can flow and you can listen to music, it's another level of confidence. Absolutely. I can go anywhere in the world and not speak the language,
Starting point is 00:14:06 but if I find a salsa club, I can dance with the best dancers there. That is wild. I would never guess that about you. And never have to speak. Yeah, so I've been dancing for like 15, over 15 years now. Really?
Starting point is 00:14:15 Yeah, and I've gone all over the world traveling just to salsa dance. Like there's a professional salsa? There's like salsa clubs. Like an unspoken, you're on this level of salsa dancing. Yes, if you're like, if you go to a club i mean i get rejected a lot when i go to a new country or a new new club that no one knows who i am right and they see a tall white dude that doesn't speak the language what i do for myself
Starting point is 00:14:35 because i'll still get intimidated especially if it's a new place and i don't know anyone i'll go and watch the first song and see who's the best female dancer and then i'll go right up to them afterwards more than out of here. More than 50% of the time I get rejected. Yeah. And it's still nerve wracking, but I'm like, I need that. Yeah. Because I am a confident dancer
Starting point is 00:14:51 and I can dance with the best of them. Right. But if everybody said yes, it wouldn't be as much fun. It wouldn't be as fun. So it's like, it still gives me a challenge. Like, ah, like no one knows who I am here. You know, I'm just tall.
Starting point is 00:15:01 I'm like the one that don't think he can dance. Yeah. So I have to kind of prove to myself about them. And so what I'll do is I'm like the one they don't think you can dance Yeah, so I think kind of proved to myself on them And so what I'll do is I'll finally find someone who will say yes sometimes like four or five girls will reject me Yeah, just cuz they don't know me I'll speak only whatever and then finally someone will say yes to me and I will take them right to the best dancer and dance We're right next to them. Isn't the greatest feeling so they come back and ask me later and I'm like, I'm good. Thanks How do you how do you do?
Starting point is 00:15:24 How do you respond when people you, how do you respond when people tell you that you can't do something or it's just not possible? Are you the type where you're like, I'm going to prove it? Yeah. In the past I used to, I had to prove everyone wrong about everything. So I would hurt myself just to make a point. Yeah. Now I only do it to prove to myself, not to anyone else. I don't feel like you have a lot of haters. Is there a lot of Lewis Howes haters out there? I haven't seen a lot of negative comments on your posts. I don't see many.
Starting point is 00:15:50 You're a likable guy. I just try to not make it all about me. I try to make it about who I'm interviewing. Yeah, that makes sense. So I try to facilitate conversations and not be the conversation. Right. And you're not polarizing at all. I try not to talk about politics, about these other things.
Starting point is 00:16:03 So sometimes I say stuff that people don't like and they have an opinion. And I just say that I'm always looking to improve. I'm not perfect. And I'm always looking to get the best out of people. You'd be a great mediator. You know, I've, I've been in court order mediation for losses and stuff in business and mediators funny, man. It's somebody who like, even though you may see one side of the story is better than the other or somebody's clearly right or wrong you have to be able to like stay biased enough to be able to get that conversation going you're very good at that managing energy yeah absolutely thing and understanding people i'm curious um what is the biggest it sounds like you've overcome a
Starting point is 00:16:39 lot yeah of insecurities of you've done all these challenges for yourself you get up you do the painful ice bath, you do these other things. What is the biggest fear you still have yet to conquer? Man, I'm not afraid of much. Honestly, like I have so much confidence in myself that I don't really, dude, honestly, I'm not afraid of anything.
Starting point is 00:17:00 You know what my fear is? Crabs. Crabs? I don't like crabs. I don't like how they can run sideways fast. It's weird, right? They're weird. I don't like deep, dark water.
Starting point is 00:17:08 Oh, that's scary. I love water and that kind of stuff, but like... You scuba dive? I do, and I don't mind that, but my biggest fear... 20, 30 feet under, but not like... Swimming in a harbor late at night. Oh, when you can't see. Go to Long Beach, Port Long Beach down there, and swim near a pier.
Starting point is 00:17:21 Not a chance, dude. No, because you don't know what's underneath you. That's my thing. For some reason, I hate things touching my feet. But, dude, dude. I hate that. That's my thing. For some reason, I hate things touching my feet. But dude, other than that, like I'm not afraid of much simply because I've proven to myself over the years that if I want to do it, I'm going to do it. I'm going to figure it out. And what doesn't matter whether I'm meant to do that thing or whether I'm talented enough to do it, I'm going to figure it out. So man, honestly, for me, and especially now that
Starting point is 00:17:42 I've become a dad, you know, I got an eight-year-old daughter. I got a five-year-old son and a two-year-old son. My biggest fear now is missing them growing up. You know, I don't want to be 10 years from now thinking, oh, no, my daughter's 18. Like, where'd the last 10 years go? So, man, priorities change once you have a family. I bet. Because when did you have your first kid?
Starting point is 00:18:02 How old were you? I was 26. Wow. And when did you have your first kid? How old were you? I was 26. Wow. And when did you get married? When I was 25. So we got pregnant pretty much right after. So Utah's a different world, right? Yeah, you get married quick.
Starting point is 00:18:12 I met my wife at church. We're part of the Mormon church is what everybody calls it. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. And it's pretty common for young people to meet each other at what we call singles awards. So you go there and a bunch of single dudes and a bunch of single girls and it's the greatest dude because first mormon girls are super hot like i don't know if you've been to utah but utah is full of beautiful women because we live by this culture that makes you take care of yourself right you don't drink you don't smoke you don't do drugs you don't have uh premarital sex you don't have yeah so people are clean
Starting point is 00:18:41 they're well taken care of they've got good work ethic. And so, man, the pickings are very. They're not slim. No, they're not slim. And so I met my wife. She was 21. I was 25, 26. And we were engaged for a year, which is a pretty long engagement in Utah. It's usually three months.
Starting point is 00:18:58 Yeah, dude, you're three months and married. We got married. And six months later, found out she was pregnant. And it wasn't necessarily a bad thing. We weren't preventing it or anything. And then we had our little girl, Charlie. We got married and six months later, found out she was pregnant. And it wasn't necessarily a bad thing. We weren't preventing it or anything. And then we had our little girl, Charlie, and dude, that's when things changed, man.
Starting point is 00:19:11 So you're 20, how old were you when you had your first kid? 26 or 27. And you're how old now? 34, 35. Did you, how hard has it been in the last 10 years to keep your mind focused on your wife and stay committed with the success because you weren't this big you know tv star social media star back then but now with tv with opportunity monster dad all these different things how do you focus your mind
Starting point is 00:19:38 on wife and kids and not allow yourself to get distracted with the shiny objects of other people. So the first five years of our marriage, honestly, man, I give a hundred percent, 110% of the credit to my wife. Has she not been the perfect person that she is? Like just patient with me. And I think she saw the potential, right? She's like, this is a good guy. He's got a good heart. He's got good ambition. I'm just going to go on this wild ride with him. And she put up with a lot of nonsense. Like, not crazy, but just like, I'll work 14, 15, 16 hour days. And that was normal for a long time. And so she was patient. But as I started to become successful and I continued to see this woman by my side,
Starting point is 00:20:19 just my ultimate cheerleader, I was like, Cal, I got something here. Like, this woman is very important. She's very, like, she is my support system. And she's never, ever, ever told me no. And she's never told me that I can't do something, which is really great. But also as you become successful now, when she says things like, Hey, um, I want to take the family on a trip to the moon. I can't be like, Oh babe, that's not possible. I can't do that because she knows who I am. She knows my capabilities. And she's like, you're Dave, you can do whatever you want. Like she knows that I can accomplish things.
Starting point is 00:20:46 So she sometimes has more confidence in me than I even do myself. And I'm a confident guy. I know that I can do whatever I put my mind to. So having a woman by your side like that is, man, dude, I'd be lost. I'd be, I would be nothing. Now in the Mormon faith, there's typically no,
Starting point is 00:21:04 it's really bad to cheat, right? There's not like, once you're married, you're focused. It's very, it's- You don't see much of it, especially in Utah, right? No, man, infidelity is- It's a big no-no. It's a big no-no, and I think it isn't just across the board, right? Of course, but even more so in the religion and that faith, right? It's a no-no.
Starting point is 00:21:18 Yeah, no premarital sex, you're not supposed to be involved in, you're supposed to get married, you're supposed to be faithful to that person because that's, not just from a a faith standpoint but just look at life what happens when when you're wasting energy on other people uh and so having her by my side i'm lucky because she's a beautiful beautiful girl so temptation you know it's always out there but i compare everybody to this beautiful woman who's at home with my kids and she's beautiful like i'm very fortunate that way so it's never never been, it's never been a huge issue for me. No, because I mean, granted we are
Starting point is 00:21:50 successful, right? We're in the public eye a lot. Um, you know, social media, TV, all this stuff. But I think I live my life in a way where people just know that I love my wife and because I put her, uh, as a big part of what I do and who I am. And so people know, like when we go to, you know, public meet and greets or something like that, a lot of people will say, where's Ashley? She, you're going to get a picture with her. And if she's there, she'll jump in and yeah, they're there for her. And she's got a couple hundred thousand followers on Instagram. People know everything she does. They know my kids schedules. They know where they're going next. And that's one thing that I was never really prepared for when you become famous.
Starting point is 00:22:26 Yeah, absolutely, man. You just got to be more careful. But people love real life. They love relatable, right? I think that's why people like you so much is because you're a relatable guy. Like, you're not from some big wealthy family where you had things handed to you. And you're not some, you know, starred in some movie and that's why you're famous. Like, you're just a guy who made it all come up and you grind it all the way along. And people are like, you know what? I think that's why you're famous. Like you're just a guy who made it on the come up and you, you grind it all the way along.
Starting point is 00:22:45 And people are like, you know what? I think that's why I like talking to you because it's, you're just a guy that you've done a lot of the same things that I had to do to get to where you're at. And that's why your podcast is so successful because people are pulling from that, the confidence that they might not have in themselves at the time to be able
Starting point is 00:22:59 to get through that hurdle or the obstacle that they're working on. You just use your hands in other ways and like making things. I was an athlete using that, like catching balls and grinding it out in the football hurdle or the obstacle that they're working on. You just use your hands in other ways and like making things. I was an athlete using them, like catching balls and grinding it out on the football field or the basketball court. I'm curious about who the most influential person in your life was growing up and the biggest lesson they taught you that you still hold on to today. Man, my dad. So my dad died 12 years ago from a brain tumor.
Starting point is 00:23:29 This man, so he's just an incredible story. His life should be a movie. When I was born, he was a Green Beret. So he was in the top one percentile of the US military as far as fitness goes. The dude was just a machine. And right as soon as I was born, I'm the last kid of four, he got diagnosed with a brain tumor. And I was like three weeks old when the doctors told him like, you're done, dude. Like, this is it. Say goodbye to your kids. And so he actually made a video of VHS tape. No way. Him and my wife and my mom recorded saying goodbye to the kids. 34 years ago.
Starting point is 00:23:58 Yeah. Yeah. You got to think I'm three weeks old. I don't know. I've never met the guy. And so they're giving me an opportunity to know who he was as I've grown up. But in our church, we have what's called the priesthood. Right. And men in the church have the priesthood. And with that priesthood, they have the ability to give blessings to other people. Blessings of comfort, blessings of health, blessings of whatever you need at that time. Literally, the man will put his hands on your head and basically pray and bestow blessings on you. The man will put his hands on your head and basically pray and bestow blessings on you. So my dad got a blessing that basically said, you're going to be okay. And you're going to live to see your kids grow up.
Starting point is 00:24:31 And you got to realize when my dad got that blessing, it's like, it was almost an insult because the doctors and everybody had said, you're done. See you later. He had a tennis ball sized tumor in the side of his head. And so when my mom heard that, she kind of was like, that's not okay. Like, that's not cool. Why would you say that? Don't give us weird false hope. And three weeks later, the tumor just was gone. No way. Yeah. They removed this lateral lobe. So he always had this dent in his head. And the doctors were like, we're just going to get the big chunk of the tumor out.
Starting point is 00:24:58 So his quality of life as he dies will be better. So it's not a huge thing pushing on his brain. Gone. Wow. And so that's kind of a weird thing, right? When you're supposed to die and then you don't. And so with that happening, he had a late start in life. He was 35 when he decided to go to college. And so I'm, you know, five, six, seven years old. My dad's delivering pizzas to make ends meet. No way. He delivered pizzas and installed car stereos. In Utah? Yeah. Yep. And then as he was recovering from being sick, he would have chemotherapy and stuff like that, and he would still have downtime. And so when he was at the hospital recovering, my mom would then go out and install those car stereos like under freeway overpasses and deliver the pizzas. And so
Starting point is 00:25:40 I'm growing up watching these two people that like odds are stacked against them and they just don't complain don't like i never knew that we had it rough i thought everybody's parents made their pants for school like i just thought that was a thing and so learning from my parents as they went through hard times knowing that everything's going to be okay regardless like even our whole family lived in a vw bus for eight weeks really while we were basically homeless two parents a sick dad and four young kids and we didn't know any better i just thought that was life so growing up i saw my dad just get knocked down over and over and over again he graduated you know um college got his degree went and got this job. Everything was great. Family was doing great. This age is like eight to 15, 16. Life's good, right? Finally, like
Starting point is 00:26:30 family has extra money. We bought a trampoline. I remember buying a trampoline and thinking that was like, you're like the king. Yeah, dude. Growing up, having a trampoline was a big deal. 15, 16 years old. My dad has a stroke, gets knocked down again. And then from there until he died when I was 21, it was like, as soon as he'd get back on his feet, as soon as soon as things would be going good, bam, get knocked down again. And I never saw him complain. I never saw him get upset. He was always just, he would just take it with humor. And so that's a big part of my life is humor is that's a good way to cope with things and deal with things. Like at my dad's funeral, we were telling
Starting point is 00:27:02 like dirty jokes. Yeah. People were loving it because that's my dad's life you celebrated it so definitely my dad and my mom um very very hard workers i was taught to work from an early i didn't know that there was another option i didn't know that like did you get an allowance growing up no i saw a friend get an allowance like sophomore year and i was like hold. So your parents just give you money? I'm the kid that's getting free lunch at school. Like I'm wearing these hand-me-down pants my mom made for my brother. Like I just didn't know any better. So I'm super grateful for that though.
Starting point is 00:27:36 And let me tell you, actually, you know, go back to my biggest fear, raising my kids, right? I'm well to do now. I do okay. I've done really well. And now my kids don't have to worry about the same stuff that i had to worry about how do you teach them how to have adversity when they have comfort how do you teach them how to appreciate like the the you know what they have so you have this right you can fly a plane you can do this it's like what do they how do you train
Starting point is 00:27:59 them my daughter goes to she went to school one day and she was talking about the weekend trip that we took down the lake in the helicopter and And she's talking to the kids, she's talking to the girl next to her, she's like, wait, so you guys don't take a, you guys don't fly to Lake Powell in the helicopter? And her little friend's like, I've never seen a helicopter. And my daughter was like such a big like turning point for her and for us as a family. When I heard that story, I was like, okay, hold on, reality check. We got to teach these other kids like what real life is about. So that is honestly one of the biggest things that I focus on. Reality check. We got to teach these little kids like what real life is about. And so that is honestly one of the biggest things that I focus on.
Starting point is 00:28:28 Trying to make sure that we're grateful for what we have and teaching my kids that nothing is just, you know, handed to you. You can't just live your life. You got to appreciate what you got. Yeah, not just expecting the comfort and the luxuries. Exactly. Because it's so hard. I mean, how do you teach them to have a hard work ethic? Is it just more focused on like schoolwork
Starting point is 00:28:52 and extracurricular activities? That's the biggest thing. So we've been given a lot. And so with those tools, I'm going to use them to, I'm going to hold her to a way higher standard now than I would hold another kid because she has all the resources at her fingertips.
Starting point is 00:29:06 Everything. Now she has to perform higher. You need to be number one. Exactly. And better. And you have to learn things. You have to do hard things. And so rather than having to, like, save up her money for that toy or those new pair of shoes like I had to.
Starting point is 00:29:17 Right. She has to learn how to, like, you know, master a musical instrument or just things where. Something. She's been through. Learn a language. Exactly. Exactly. learn how to like, you know, master a musical instrument or just things where- Something. She's been- Learn a language or whatever. Exactly, exactly. You're gonna send them on a Mormon trip
Starting point is 00:29:29 when they're 12, not 18. Yeah, yeah. You go to Mexico, yeah. Biggest turning point in my life is my mission. 19 years old. You went to Mexico or where'd you go? Bolivia. Bolivia.
Starting point is 00:29:37 Yeah, so- 19, two years, almost every Mormon does this, right? The boys go two years, girls go 18 months. And basically you tell them that you want to go serve and the you know church officials basically you want to go serve you do what's called your papers so you submit your mission papers you say this is who i am these are my skills this is what i do i said i learned uh you know spanish in in junior high and high school you were fluent uh no but you like learn the basics i knew the basics and i was probably a
Starting point is 00:30:04 little bit ahead of my class. Because you were working with kids. You were working at an auto shop. Yeah, yeah. That's the thing. I was by no means fluent, but I was a really smart kid growing up. Like everybody in my family is really, really smart. So I just learned things quicker.
Starting point is 00:30:17 So I send in these documents to the church officials and I say, I'm ready to go. Tell me where to go. Six weeks later, you get what's called your mission call. And you don't know where you're going. You have no idea. I could literally go to Boise, Idaho, or I could be sent to Timbuktu. You don't know. And you have no, you can't tell them where you want to go. Is that intentional for them?
Starting point is 00:30:35 Like to not know? Like to kind of surrender to the process, trust? That's the whole point. The lesson's going to be far between. You're leaving everything for two years. You have to be 100% committed. So as a missionary, you don't talk to girls. You don't touch girls. You don't hold hands. You have no relationships. So I had a girlfriend in high school. You have to break up?
Starting point is 00:30:51 Basically, yeah. You call, it's basically, yeah. What if you're married? You don't get married. If you're married, you can't go on a mission. Really? They can do what's called couples missions. So me and my wife in five, 10, 20 years from now, we can go together and serve, but you have to be single. You can't have kids. You can't have any sort of commitments like that. And they ship you out to wherever the church needs you. And so they pray about, you know, who you are, what your skills are. And my mission call came back and said, you got to go to Santa Cruz, Bolivia. And I thought Bolivia, that's awesome. That's right next to like Russia, right? I thought I had no idea. And so I get shipped down the middle of the Amazon jungle, dude, not knowing anything about anything.
Starting point is 00:31:27 I'm 19 years old, dude. I'd only had a couple real jobs even up until that point. Right, right, right. Left my girlfriend, left all my everything. And as a missionary, one of the craziest things is you have to have a companion with you at all times. It's called your mission companion. Another guy. Yeah, you cannot like—
Starting point is 00:31:42 You can't go solo anywhere. Dude, you can't. I have to be visually within sight of this person. The whole time. For two years. You can't be alone. You're in the same room sleeping in bunk beds or next to each other. The only time that I ever saw like.
Starting point is 00:31:53 Maybe in the bathroom. Nobody around. Yeah, when I'm showering. That was literally it. Why is that? Is that for safety reasons? Yeah, it's because there's a lot of temptation out there, obviously. Sure.
Starting point is 00:32:02 Keeping each other accountable. Safety. And yeah, exactly. Like when you get sent out on your mission, you partner with a senior missionary, somebody who's been out a year or so. And they basically show you the ropes. They show you what the neighborhood is, who the people are, what you're teaching. And so I get dropped into this middle of South America country.
Starting point is 00:32:20 So he had been there for a year. And then after his two years was up, then you were doing that for someone else. You get a new companion every six months. No, no, no, every six weeks. It's called a- It's rotating. Yeah. It's called, in Spanish it's a cambio.
Starting point is 00:32:33 It's a transfer or a change. Basically, but you can stay with the same companion for two, three, four, five changes at a time, but it's pretty uncommon to stay with somebody for more than two or three of the six weekweek periods. So anyways, you're always connecting new people. You're always connecting. Dude, he was like a 26-year-old little Peruvian guy who had never really dealt with Americans. Warming guy. Yeah, from all over the world.
Starting point is 00:32:58 They get shipped out there. So basically, I get dropped into this third-world country, not knowing anything about the culture, not knowing anything about it. And I just basically went and said, all right, uh, I'm going to become part of this culture. I'm going to learn everything I can about it. And I'm just going to let myself basically,
Starting point is 00:33:12 uh, become just a total servant of the Lord, right? Go out and teach the gospel, help people serve and just do everything I can to learn. And dude, that's why Mormon missionaries, return missionaries and the younger LDS people in general
Starting point is 00:33:28 are really good workers. Their work ethic, dude, the workforce in Utah is incredible. You can pick up a 21 year old kid who's like responsible, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, knows two languages. Like it's- It's been door to door sales essentially for two years. It's wild. It is wild. So, uh, best moment of my life, obviously, uh, they call it the best two years because without those dudes,
Starting point is 00:33:51 I don't think I would have learned the self-control, the self-discipline and more importantly, the love for other people. Like at 19 years old, who are you focused on yourself? Right? Like all you care about is just going out and taking care of yourself, get the girl, girl get the get the car get the the money dude you don't you lose all that stuff for two years you don't have any money you don't have a car they give you like a stipend for food or your family pays basically into this fund and every two weeks you get like for me it was like a couple hundred bucks not extra no extra cash and you're just going door to door teaching serving serving a hundred percent service you're not worried about to door, teaching people. Serving. 100% service. You're not worried about yourself at all.
Starting point is 00:34:27 What was the greatest thing that you learned from those two years that you still apply today? To love other people, especially other cultures. Man, I love, love, love the Latino culture. Like, obviously, you've got a good connection with it, with Jeanette. I learned to love those people because it's a very different world down there. Different, man. It is a completely different, everything about Latin America is different than America.
Starting point is 00:34:52 And I think there's a lot of misconceptions and I wish everybody here in the States could go just experience a little bit of time down there and understand how much Latino people really love each other. Love each other. How accepting they are. Like we would show up show people's homes and give
Starting point is 00:35:06 you anything anything i'm talking grass shacks in the middle of the amazon jungle these people have maybe they this family i think the average uh income for family down there was like 50 bucks a month they have nothing but they will give you literally everything that they have crazy and then some and so i learned like, wow, like these people have no connection to me. Why are they so open? But they don't just do it for me. They do it for their neighbor.
Starting point is 00:35:29 They do it for everybody. So I learned that it's okay to love other people like more than what you might've been taught was okay. As you're growing up and American culture is like, you know, don't brush against me, just to, you know, give me my little space. Don't touch me, don't hug me. Right. They're kissing, they're hugging, yeah. It's's okay to do that it's okay to show the people that you
Starting point is 00:35:49 love them and latinos are the best at it because my wife it's so funny my wife met um Jeanette at Monster Jam and she's like kissing her yes so she went in and she she went to say something like uh what's your name to Ashley to my my wife. And Ashley says, Ashley. And she thought that Jeanette didn't understand her. She didn't hear her because Jeanette went in for the kiss. And she goes in there and she's like, Ashley. And it's just like, we're not used to it. But it's so good, dude.
Starting point is 00:36:18 It's so good to be able to show people that you care about them. And that's why I love that culture. And that's why I'm a big advocate for, you know, fixing the immigration problems we have here in the country and that's cool man man every time every time i go to an event um like monster jam i'll speak english and spanish yeah i have a tremendous latino support group i'm following because they know that i love them just like they love me that's cool it's good dude it's been the best thing that's ever happened to me dude what um now mormons in general don't drink. Is that right?
Starting point is 00:36:48 And once you're married and you're older, you're allowed to drink. It's no alcohol. We live by what's called the word of wisdom. And the word of wisdom is basically a gospel principle that we're taught from a very young age. No tobacco, no alcohol, no coffee, no tea, no drugs. No coffee, no tea, even like non-caffeinated tea?
Starting point is 00:37:04 Non-caffeinated tea is fine. Herbal tea, that kind of stuff. Yeah, basically, and No coffee, no tea, even like non-caffeinated tea. Non-caffeinated tea is fine. Herbal tea, that kind of stuff. Yeah. Basically, and it's not even necessarily, they never came out and said no caffeine, although the law is kind of written. I mean, I drink energy drinks. So I, you know, I do that. I've never tasted alcohol. I've never smoked a cigarette. I've never, you know, done any of that stuff because growing up, I knew that that just, I wasn't supposed to do it. And so I stayed away from it. And so you'll find in the LDS culture, like I said, healthy people.
Starting point is 00:37:28 Sure. Because it's not, you don't drink, right? I've never been drunk or high in my life. And you're not LDS. For a non-Mormon, that's pretty- Dude, I thought you were Mormon when I first started reading your stuff and hearing your podcast.
Starting point is 00:37:39 He's too clean. I was like, this guy, he's gotta be LDS. Maybe he's like just drifted away. My parents never drank or smoked. So there was never a thing to look at. My brother went to prison when I was eight for selling drugs to an undercover cop. My sisters drank a little bit and smoked a little weed and cigarettes here and there. But it wasn't that prominent. But I remember when I would go to the prison every weekend to visit my brother,
Starting point is 00:38:03 because it was a visiting room, hours you could go to the prison every weekend to visit my brother, because it was kind of visiting room, hours you could go to. So we would all go. And I think that kind of just scared me a lot. It was just like- How much older was he? He was 11 years older. So he was 19 when he went in.
Starting point is 00:38:13 So when you went into your mission, he was in prison for four and a half years. So you learned really quick what not to do. I learned quick by just being there and seeing all the other convicts and their families and how much pain the people were in from just selling a little bit of LSD on the side. It's just like, why even tempt myself? Why even flirt with it?
Starting point is 00:38:33 Even if it's fun, it's just like, it's not for me. Right. I don't care if other people do it as long as they're responsible and they don't get sick or whatever. But it was never for me. So I was the only guy on my football team that didn't drink. That's impressive. And I would go out and party with them and I would just have water and, you know, it's, it's crazy, man. That's been the weirdest thing about, it's like, I'll go to these meetings, you know, obviously, uh, in this business, you meet a lot of people that, yeah. And so we'll go to dinner and they'll be like, all right,
Starting point is 00:39:00 you know, I've already ordered their drinks and I'm the guy that's ordering, uh, you know, Sprite or whatever. Exactly. Like, but my thing is like, what's your craziest lemonade? Give me the one with the crazy fruit around the rim. And that's just, that's not just me. That's all my partners and everybody in the business. Like that's Utah. Yeah. That's the LDS culture. And man, LDS people have always been really good. All kind, loving, caring, giving. We learn how to work at a young age. We learn that it's okay to love other people and that we should love other people more than society teaches us. And we learn, obviously, very healthy lifestyle. Don't drink, don't smoke. Follow that word of wisdom that I'm
Starting point is 00:39:35 telling you about. And look at me. I feel great. I'm a healthy person. Yeah. I've been very blessed and I don't have to do much to take as far as workouts and stuff like that. I I do work out but there's a lot of times with my schedule where I don't have the opportunity I know that God's given me this healthy body because I follow those rules yeah and that's just the way it is great man and I I've I live my life by that I say obviously very deeply religious person um and it doesn't even matter if you're religious or not I think there's people who listen to this who may not have a God. They may not have that being that they report to or they're accountable to. Whatever you have that drives you, if you're religious and you have that God or if it's the universe, best advice I can give anybody is make deals with them. Make deals with God, make deals with the universe. And what
Starting point is 00:40:19 I mean by that is I'll do this, you give me that. And that's how I met my wife, man. I was, I was 26 years old in Utah. That's old being single. And I was just ready to be done. I've dated all the cute. Yeah. The dating scene. I was just, I was, didn't want to be single anymore. I wanted to start my family. And so I told God, I made him a promise. I said, God, here's what I'm going to do. I know that I know what I'm supposed to be doing at this age. I'm supposed to be going to church. I'm supposed to be helping other people. And so I made this list, basically just a contract. I said, God, I'm going to do these things. If you'll, in turn, put this girl on my path and let me get married, I'm tired of being single.
Starting point is 00:40:52 Wow. I was two weeks into that deal when my wife hopped up, like instant. I don't care if that's your relationship with God or the power of manifestation or law of attraction. It's real. I just think like intention is a powerful thing. You know, whether you're making the intention or the commitment to God, universe, but just intention for yourself and your own soul. When you say, I'm intending to follow through on these commitments, you're going to start to see things opening up in a different way. A hundred percent, because it changes everything
Starting point is 00:41:20 about what you do. You start, you start making subtle little changes, working towards a goal that you normally wouldn't be able to make it unless you had that, that vision or that goal. So that's why I'm big on small things. I'm, I hate when people talk big picture and, you know, what's the, people come to me and say, what's the best advice you can give anybody? And I'm like, you got a day, you got two days? Like, this is going to be a long list. There's no magic button. There's no magic word that is going to make you successful or make you happy. It's all these small little things. In sports, we call that the fundamentals.
Starting point is 00:41:53 Right. It's just like going back to the basics of dribbling, shooting, arm position, whatever it may be. It's the fundamentals. I wish our schools would teach this, though, to like the younger kids. I wish my daughter had a class where they taught her how to make a vision board, right? Like, you know things where it's like setting these goals in early age instead She's learning, you know, they're learning how to play hot cross buns on a recorder. Like it's just stupid stuff that You know kids in schools are never gonna put that they're never gonna implement it
Starting point is 00:42:20 So do it at home If you're a parent teach your kids and your family that if you're not, if you're still single, work on yourself, make that vision board. So, you know, these are like cliche words that you hear in this world is vision board and manifestation and law of attraction. Well, they're, they're, they're overused because they're real. Because they work. Yeah. They're powerful things that you can do today and tomorrow to make your life better and make yourself happier. I'm curious, what's the thing you're most ashamed of that you've done that you really don't want people to know about you?
Starting point is 00:42:59 Or that you're just like, I wish I would have never thought that, said that, done that. The thing you don't want people to know about you. That is a very good question, man. Seems like you follow a lot of the rules to yourself and religion and your great dad and husband. I would say that there's been times in my life where I've been ignorant to the importance of certain rules. In my business, the automotive world, there's emissions laws. There's things that you're supposed to do to vehicles and things that you're not supposed to do to vehicles. And I think there was a while there where all I cared about was doing what I enjoyed to do at that time.
Starting point is 00:43:35 And I was less concerned about what the overall effect was. And we would modify vehicles. And this is a very specific example, but it applies to pretty much every part of my life where I maybe thought the overall rules didn't apply to me. And I had my own little program, but we'd model cut five vehicles and it would create a huge amount of smoke and it would affect the air quality where I lived. And so things like that, I look back and I'm like, man, that was dumb.
Starting point is 00:43:53 It was more for selfish reasons. Yeah, I didn't care about anybody around me. All I cared about was what I was enjoying in that moment, what my vehicle was doing for me and I could care less if I was polluting or whatever it was. And like I said said that applies to a lot of different things i i think you know just not being aware of other people's feelings i'm a very you know focused person when i get set on what i want i go for it well the problem with
Starting point is 00:44:17 that is there's casualties along the way like people that are like a victim of your being just oblivious i'm not a bad person i. I've never maliciously tried to hurt anybody. I don't have that kind of energy. But along the way, there's been things that I've just overlooked that I should have paid more attention to. My partner, we call him Diesel Dave, he's very intuitive when it comes to like
Starting point is 00:44:38 how what he's doing right now is affecting everybody around him. I'm not. I have to work really hard at being able to know like the tail of the dragon is this long, not this long. And my actions are going to affect people, not just today and tomorrow, but long-term. And so that's been my biggest struggle, man, throughout life is just making sure that I'm aware of the consequences of what I'm doing and how they're affecting other people. I don't care. They affect me. I don't risk to me is not
Starting point is 00:45:03 a real thing. I don't, I don't even take into consideration. I don't care how they affect me. Risk to me is not a real thing. I don't even take it into consideration. I don't even know how to calculate risk. People always ask me, why are you successful? I'm like, because I'm too stupid to know better. And so you just go after these things. And so trying to become aware of how you affect other people, man, that is a big deal. And it's hard for somebody like me. What's the thing that's missing in your life to help you get to the next level of all of your dreams? What do you need to learn, acquire, let go of, become more of in order to step into your fullest?
Starting point is 00:45:36 Man, this is, my dad used to call this the shotgun approach. I would go after a lot of things. I would do this and this and this and this and this. I would do all these things kind of good. It's taking your talents and skills and being able to say, okay, you know what? Yes, I can do a lot of things kind of good, but maybe I should take my time and energy and focus on this and that and just go full speed ahead until I master that area. And that's it, man. And I'm learning that. And it's been-
Starting point is 00:46:05 So hard, man. Dude, opportunities everywhere. I mean, I'm the same way. I'm 80% good at so many things. Yeah. And I want to be great at all of them, but it's really hard to put your attention on 20 different things. And Tony Robbins said this to me last year.
Starting point is 00:46:20 I did like a little private mastermind thing with him where the group of us got to ask him questions. And I was like, man, I've been with him where the group of us got to ask him questions. And I was like, man, I've been, I was a decathlete. So I was 80% good at every event, track and field, which made me an All-American decathlete. It's the reason I became able to achieve my dream as an All-American. Because you're almost good at everything. I'm almost great at everything.
Starting point is 00:46:38 Yeah, almost great at everything. But I'm really good at a lot of things. Right. And so I transferred that skill into life and into business. Like we can do a podcast. We can write we can do events we can do a coaching we can do courses we can do a documentary like we can do merch we can do all these things really good right but what's the thing that's really gonna take the mission to the next level right of serving the maximum amount of people
Starting point is 00:47:00 right which is our mission yep and he was like yeah you got a you, you know, do you wanna be really good at a lot of things? Or do you wanna be known great at one great thing? And then when you break through it, at that thing, you can then kind of spread it a little more. And you've now become aware of what the consequences are of that 20% that you're not being the best at. So if you're not giving 100%, there is still some casualties.
Starting point is 00:47:22 There's bystanders, whether they be people or circumstances or whatever's in your life. Or just your dreams. Right. You're doing a disservice to your dreams. So I'm big into motorsports, right? Trucks, anything, aircraft, whatever it is. And so when I got to the point where I could actually afford to like do some of my like- Crazy stuff. Yeah, crazy stuff. I went and did everything. I i raced this i raced that you put it in front of me i was racing and i would go maybe once a year and race trophy trucks and i'd go race semi trucks and i'd go race motorcycles and four-wheelers and boats and whatever it was and i would just go do it because it was experience but um i wasn't getting that great at anything i
Starting point is 00:47:57 always thought i'm the best driver in the world i can show up and and drive and win anything no i can show up and drive but i was getting smoked by like 12 year old kids in trophy trucks and i'm like what how'd that happen i'm the i'm the best and i realized that i needed to focus and so this last couple years uh monster jam is a good example uh you know driving monster trucks everybody looks at a guy that if you say you drive monster trucks for a living they're expecting you to be like a you know w, WWE type person. That's just like, you know, beer smash cars and, and, and, you know, where my American flag bandana around. It's not that man. Like monster jam is, it's become a motor sport that I believe is going to replace the circus. And I
Starting point is 00:48:35 believe it's going to replace NASCAR. Um, it already is well on its way because if you combine all those elements of like a big performance and a stadium, dude, I performed in Petco park in San Diego two nights ago, sold out. People were like lined up outside trying to get in there and so i decided i want to become one of the best there is and so i got into the sport a year and a half ago showed up thought yeah i'll be fine my first show i did good i'm like i told you guys like i took a first and freestyle or whatever it was there There's three events in a show. And I was like, I got this. Next event, I just got destroyed. And then I got destroyed for the following 12 to 14 months of I would do okay here and there.
Starting point is 00:49:12 But then I realized like, okay, wait, there's guys that do this every single weekend for years. Yeah. Of course, they're going to be better than me. They have more seat time. They have more experience. And so I wanted to get really good at it and so you have to pull back a little bit from things that maybe seem like a good opportunity or a good idea to be able to get really good at those things that you want to become good at it doesn't mean that you have to do one of the like i can still enjoy all the different types of motorsports
Starting point is 00:49:37 but i don't go compete in anything right now other than monster trucks and maybe it'll get to the point where i'm like okay i'm a champion um i did that move on to the next yeah but don't hang up your hat until you have 100% mastered that and don't be the don't don't let yourself judge whether you've mastered that area of your life or not like make sure that people around you your family your friends the industry that you're in also agrees that you have you've made made it you've made it yeah we were just talking Tiffany was just mentioning today about a book essential Essentialism, which is about, what's the tagline again? The Discipline Pursuit of Less.
Starting point is 00:50:12 The Discipline Pursuit of Less. I like that. A book called Essentialism, which, who's the guy, Edwin something or McGowan or something, what's the guy's name? Greg. Greg McGowan, I think is the author's name. Dude, that's a powerful.
Starting point is 00:50:23 Anyways, yeah, The Pursuit of Less, which is,, which is going all in on less things to maximize that thing. Perfect example of your podcast, right? Exactly. So I've been eliminating things in our business, which is like big money makers, to have energy and mind space to focus on this. It's building out a production here. This is a brand new set. It's like just trying to go all in on how can we maximize the one thing. Right.
Starting point is 00:50:47 Why not screwing ourselves and not having money coming in other places, but really trying to put as much effort into this. You're really screwing yourself in the long run by doing all those things. Too many things. Because, you know, you, yeah. I mean, I look at the numbers of what your podcast does and I know what that can turn into as far as revenue dollars. It could be huge if I just went all in.
Starting point is 00:51:06 You have to focus on it because if you're out there doing a mastermind next weekend you might miss the opportunity to interview Kobe right you had that opportunity that huge interview what would have happened if you would have been out focusing on the only time right screwed yeah miss those opportunities so you have a lot of influence that listens right oh yeah so I think that's a big deal as far as people like what is an influencer don't call yourself an influencer call yourself like figure out what it is that you want to influence people to do figure out what that industry is what that goal is and work towards that don't try to become an influencer because guess what that bubble went like this yeah
Starting point is 00:51:38 it's over the days of getting 50 grand for a post is just generic like i love coke right dude they're gone it's gone they like companies are gonna Coke. Dude, they're gone. It's gone. Companies are going to spend money with you. They want to know exactly who you're talking to and why you're talking to them and why you're the expert in that space. That's the best advice I could give somebody who is trying to become an influencer
Starting point is 00:51:55 or a YouTuber or whatever. Instead of trying to become an influencer, try to become someone of service. Become an expert. Become an expert and then serve people who need that expertise. My whole life revolves around service, man. That's it, man.
Starting point is 00:52:06 I'm curious. Now, you've got this Tesla just came out with this. I don't even know what the truck's called. Cybertruck? Is that what it's called? Yeah, the Cybertruck. Cybertruck did something like $11, $12 billion in pre-orders. Is that right?
Starting point is 00:52:16 You're a Tesla owner, right? I am a Tesla owner. I love it. You love your Tesla. Model X. It's a great experience. Great car. Gets you from point A to point B.
Starting point is 00:52:23 Comfortable. You don't have to worry about service. I haven't gone to the gas station in two years. It's a great experience for you. So gets you point A to point B, comfortable. You don't have to worry about service. I haven't gone to the gas station in two years. It's a great experience for you. So there's a lot of guys like you, a lot of people like you who have had great experiences with Tesla. And now Elon came out and said, I'm going to make a truck. Well, when he released that truck, first of all, I still don't believe that that's real.
Starting point is 00:52:41 I still don't believe. You think it's a PR campaign? Listen, I'm a truck guy, man. I come from this. My life revolves around around trucks i've used them for work now i use them for entertainment and uh it's my living when he comes out with that it doesn't look like a truck it's frustrating to me because the elon and tesla and that they're very very smart people elon's one of the brightest men that ever lived and then they released that it's the it's the it's the car you drew in kindergarten like it's just the the they tried way way way way too hard to be different and
Starting point is 00:53:09 they ended up i think really hurting themselves so here's the deal well they got a lot of pre-orders they did get a lot of pre-orders but guess what you know who ordered those tesla owners yeah guys like not truck owners no the f-150 guys the guys that use their truck at the job site they didn't order that truck i promise you because that those are my people and I'm hearing from them. And I'm a very, I consider myself open-minded for who my demographic is. My demographic is very blue collar America. You know, it's very opinionated. Could work, work hard. Exactly. And I like this. I hate that. That's my people. It's just very black or white. And so I feel like I'm kind of more on the progressive side of my demographic. I'm okay.
Starting point is 00:53:50 I'm open to new ideas. And so I thought, you know what? I'm going to give the electric truck a chance. And even when he came out with that, I was like, man, that is an ugly truck. But I'm still going to try to maybe support it. But there wasn't a lot of people like me that were going to buy that truck. There was a lot of people like you, especially Tesla shareholders, people who own stock. Who're excited. They're like, okay, let's get the price up because guess what Tesla just did? They just became the world's most valuable car company to ever exist. $150 billion
Starting point is 00:54:13 market cap is what they hit the other day. What's their stock at right now? 800, I think. It's bouncing between 750 and 800. I should have bought it a couple years ago when I bought my car. Dude, a couple years ago, Elon was saying, I'm going to take the company private. Remember when he was talking about that? I'm going to pull it off the market. We're going to go private. That's when they were like 400 bucks a share. It's a good thing they didn't because now they're worth $800 a share. The company doubled in value and it's because they released that truck. So it doubled since they released that truck. I don't know what the shares were, but I think they were like 90 billion market cap roughly when that truck came out. Now they're 150 billion.
Starting point is 00:54:43 Wow. And the truck is not, I'm not okay with it. It's not, it's not. For your community, you're not okay with it. Dude, that truck is, I don't even know how that thing's even legal. For the Tesla community, they're okay with it. I don't think they are. I think they're okay with it. They support Elon. They support that. You love what he built for you. The uniqueness, the different, being a different, you know know a symbol on the road that's different than everything else 250 000 300 000 pre-orders at 100 a piece that's not a very serious deal like and it's fully refundable and the truck's not going to be built for another 2021 is when they're going to start delivering the first models 2022 for the loaded
Starting point is 00:55:19 model i just don't think that truck is going to become i feel like they're going to have to change it and i'm still waiting for you to come out and say just kidding here's what we're really going I just don't think that truck is going to become, I feel like they're going to have to change it. And I'm still waiting for Elon to come out and say, just kidding. Here's what we're really going to make. Because all the Tesla owners thought like the truck might look like a Model X with like a bed, something cool, sexy body lines. But guess what? I love opportunities. And when I see an opportunity pop up, I'm like, game on. I saw him release that truck and I was like, well, he just dropped the ball.
Starting point is 00:55:46 He just missed the mark big time. And now there's a bunch of really excited people in the automotive world that want an electric truck and they're not going to buy that. So a buddy of mine, a kid that I grew up with 10, 12 years, we've known each other for a long time, Trevor. He's been running Nikola. He is, yep. He served a mission in Brazil. We met each other in that single world where I met my wife. Wow. And it's funny. He started this He is. Yep. Yep. He served a mission in Brazil. We met each other in that single world where I met my wife. Wow. And it's funny. He started this company called Nikola. Nikola Tesla,
Starting point is 00:56:11 right? Yeah, yeah. Nikola Tesla. That's funny. And he's been around for seven or eight years, and they started in the heavy truck world. Semi-trucks, electric semi-trucks. Electric semi-trucks. Yep. He had no desire to get into any other vehicles other than semi-trucks and then UTVs, like side-by-sides, Polarisis razors that kind of stuff he built an electric utv um it's funny his his semi truck design he was the first one to have an electric semi and then tesla came out with theirs and they basically knocked off the nikola design and now it's a two billion dollar lawsuit nikola versus tesla which is just ironic but anyways i went I went to Trevor and I said, dude, do you see what's happening? Like see what Elon did? He came out with this and I wasn't part
Starting point is 00:56:49 of the business or anything at the time. And he said, yeah, it's an opportunity. And he had no desire to get into, in fact, it's funny. When Tesla released the Cybertruck, Trevor, my buddy that runs Nikola, he's the CEO. He had an initial concept, a sketch drawn up of the truck, the Nikola truck that we just released. And he tweeted it at Elon and said, hey, Elon, sorry about your launch. Here's a design of a truck that we were going to, you know, playing around with. We're not going to make it. So here you can have our design. Just to like kind of tease him a little bit.
Starting point is 00:57:19 And then Trevor and I started talking and we decided, you know what? We need to provide the F-150 guys. We need to provide all your buddies in Ohio with a truck that they'll actually drive to the job site. A truck they can take their boat to the lake with. And it's not something you're just going to drive around Hollywood. And that's where we created the Nikola Badger. And it is going to dominate the U.S. truck market. I'll tell you that right now.
Starting point is 00:57:43 Like when Trevor and I first started talking, we're like, all right, what's our benchmark? What's our goal? Our goal wasn't to beat Tesla. Our goal was to surpass them and go straight for the F-150 market, which sells 1 million trucks a year. The F-150.
Starting point is 00:57:57 1 million F-150s. There's 3 million trucks roughly sold every single year in the US. What's the second biggest? I think it's probably split between like the Chevy and the Dodge, like half tons. And then you go into the diesel market, which is what our niche has always been.
Starting point is 00:58:09 So a million F-150. One million F-150 sold every single year. Best selling truck of all time. And so I thought, you know what? Why is it such a great truck? It's just a great all around truck. It's what you call a half ton. So it's designed to be able to,
Starting point is 00:58:21 if you got a boat, pull it to the lake. No problem. If you got a bigger trailer, you know, talking like 12,000 pounds plus, you're not going to use an F-150. Gotcha. But if you are a carpenter and you got to go frame a house on Monday through Friday, take your F-150, got all your tools in the bed. Every Saturday, you're going to hook your boat, go to the lake.
Starting point is 00:58:37 And guess what? On Sunday, you can take the truck to church with your whole family. They're comfortable. Trucks are luxury cars. You know what? Ram 1500 just won the Motor Trend Luxury Vehicle of the Year. Trucks are luxury cars. You know what? Ram 1500 just won the motor trend luxury vehicle of the year. Not truck, not SUV. It's a truck. Luxury car of the year. And it's a freaking truck. How many do they sell those? Ram's probably three, 400,000 a year. So F-150
Starting point is 00:58:58 was our market. Obviously they're selling the most and Ford, you know, big company. And they released an electric version of the F-150. And it was kind of like, yeah, it was, it was, that's exactly, you didn't know. Not a lot of people knew because it was just kind of like a lackluster. Yep. Not that exciting because here's the deal. I want people who are excited about electric vehicles. And I also want people who would never consider an electric vehicle to be my customer. So what do I got to give them? I got to give them a truck that's sexy. It's got to feel futuristic, right? For you guys, for you Tesla owners. But my blue collar guys, man, I'm going to drive a spaceship to work. So we had to find this weird fine line between building a truck that was sexy and sleek, new, futuristic looking, while at the same time being rugged, felt like a truck, didn't feel like a doorstop like Elon's. And that's where we came up with the Badger, which is basically, it's our answer to the F-150. But here's the deal. Here's what I'm most excited about.
Starting point is 00:59:50 What's it have? Compare, compare. So, pretty much specs are identical. If you were to measure the trucks, as far as like width, length, very, very similar to an F-150. Same looking size, but different modifications. Yeah, and that's kind of the whole half-ton market.
Starting point is 01:00:02 Like everything- It's the same size. In the world, yeah. Every truck you see running around, like here, especially like Hollywood, LA, they're going to be that 1,500 half-ton model or smaller. You're not going to see a lot of full-size trucks. But what's the, how far can it go, all that stuff? Dude, that's the cool thing about what we've got.
Starting point is 01:00:19 Because my Tesla goes like 280 miles, I think. Right. Maybe 300 fully charged or something. What's the furthest you've driven it? Without charging it? Or just... What's the furthest you've taken it? I took it to Big Bear from here.
Starting point is 01:00:33 But it took me like... What if you want to drive to Ohio for Christmas? You want to go see the family? It would take me forever. What would you get? What would you have to plan around? I don't know. I'd probably have to charge it like 10 times.
Starting point is 01:00:43 You get what's called range anxiety. Because you're stopping every... You get range anxiety because you know that your car's where you're going to go. Yeah. And you have to go to different places. Where's the supercharger? Where am I going to be able to get this thing to keep going? Whereas if I'm going to drive any other gas powered vehicle to Ohio... Gas station. Exactly. It's not a big deal. So what we've developed is... So in the world, this is a whole new world that people these terms aren't really you know mainstream yet bev battery electric vehicle that's what you drive okay full battery full electric no gas yeah we developed the nicola badger to be a bev as well as an fcev
Starting point is 01:01:17 fuel cell electric vehicle do you know hydrogen is it's. Hydrogen is the most abundant molecule in the universe. Okay. This right here, I got water in this cup, right? This is H2O. Yeah. Hydrogen and oxygen mixed together becomes water. Well, half of this molecule is flammable. Yeah. You know that? Yeah. Hydrogen, gas. Yeah. It's very flammable. So the problem is water's not flammable. So to be able to get hydrogen to be able to combust, you have to basically separate it from the oxygen molecule. And then you have a very, very potent fuel. Hydrogen technology has been around for a long time. People have been pushing.
Starting point is 01:01:57 Yeah. The Hindenburg blew up. Exactly. I mean, it's a very light gas, but it's also very volatile, very flammable. So hydrogen is a very viable fuel source. The problem is it's got a bad rap over the years because people have tried to use it to power vehicles and it just never has kind of quite worked because the problem is to be able to separate the hydrogen from the oxygen, it takes a lot of energy. In fact, it takes more energy than it produces.
Starting point is 01:02:27 it takes a lot of energy in fact it takes more energy than it produces so to be able to split those molecules i have to use a lot of electricity or a lot of gas or whatever it is and the result is yeah i get hydrogen fuel but at what cost it cost me more to make that than than the so technology is getting better and now it's gotten to the point where hydrogen fuel can be split you know and basically stored more cost effectively. And the technology is literally getting better every single day. So we have our battery. It powers our truck, right? This goes inside the chassis.
Starting point is 01:02:51 And then we have our hydrogen fuel cell. Our hydrogen fuel cell is basically a compressed air tank with eight. I think ours is eight kilograms is what the volume is. So you basically take the hydrogen hose. You fill your tank. Bam. You've got your hydrogen fuel cell. It stores that compressed air, basically, inside that tank.
Starting point is 01:03:09 Now, what we do. Where do you get the hydrogen? There's filling stations all over the place. Are they gas stations mostly? Yeah, it's not mainstream yet. That's the biggest hurdle is hydrogen-fueled vehicles. People are like, well, where do I fill it up? You're lucky.
Starting point is 01:03:21 In California, there's quite a few hydrogen stations. In Ohio, I bet you there's maybe one. One. Yeah, yeah and they're not very common but guess what's going to happen as the market starts to demand it gas stations will say well yeah we'll carry hydrogen sure we'll sell it because it's it's clean 100 zero emissions you run hydrogen in a vehicle the only result the only you know tailpipes big nasty smoky the only result from hydrogen is like vapor steam just water vapor so what we have is a battery that powers our truck and then we have the hydrogen fuel cell that basically acts as like a backup to that battery really so battery technology sucks dude i mean it's come a long ways but still lithium ion batteries
Starting point is 01:04:01 how far will the battery go you go like what your tesla will do it's 160 kilowatt battery that'll go roughly 300 miles an electric truck and then the so that doubles your range really so 600 miles is what we're getting but here's the best part about it is the hydrogen basically passes through there's a fuel cell uh hydrogen and then there's a regular combustion engine that's powered by hydrogen we're not going combustion engine we're talking about running a fuel cell hydrogen runs through it and it creates basically static electricity that static electricity is then captured pushed into your battery and your truck can use that power so where your battery you know throughout the day in tesla is dying we've got a hydrogen fuel cell that's hard to continue to charge it no way yeah so we can charge it back up how far as as far like like 600 miles. But here's the deal. Nobody's ever going to go through a full tank
Starting point is 01:04:49 of hydrogen in a day, unless you're on a road trip or something, then you're going to plan around those filling stations. But what it does is your Tesla does not have the ability to hold all of its power for more than eight to 10 seconds at a time, which isn't a big deal for you unless you're drag racing it, which it's a fast car, right? So fast. Zero to 60 in two something. It's fastest car on the road, I feel like. But guess what?
Starting point is 01:05:11 It'll only do that once or twice. If you try to do those pulls over and over and over again, your battery says, uh-uh, we can't keep up. And your electric motors say, nope, we're being asked to do too much because there's not enough power in the battery to support this. Well, hydrogen comes in and says, nah, we're good. We're gonna continue to do too much because there's not enough power in the battery to support this. Well, hydrogen comes in and says, no, we're good.
Starting point is 01:05:29 We're going to continue to basically power that battery. So whatever you want to do, you want to take your truck and trailer and haul it up. Go off-roading. El Cajon or whatever it is. You're going to be able to maintain your speed and your power under a heavy load. That's why we're different. And that's why we're going to dominate the market. And especially since Elon calls hydrogen fuel, he calls it a full cell. So it's a hydrogen fuel cell, he says it's a full cell.
Starting point is 01:05:51 And he doesn't believe in it. He thinks it's just never going to catch on. Well, I disagree. And I'm betting on that big. Most people also didn't think electric would catch on. They're never going to transfer over from gas. They like the sound. They like the feel of a gas car.
Starting point is 01:06:06 But it's like, how many electric cars were sold in the last few years? And now it's the most valuable car company that ever exists, Tesla. Really? At $150 billion. So obviously, it's caught on. There's a market for it. The hydrogen will catch on. There's a market for it.
Starting point is 01:06:18 Technology is getting better every single day. And it's good for all of us. Because going back to what you asked me about being ashamed of with the emissions of the emissions of diesel vehicles i've been guilty of blowing black smoke out of my my truck i hate that now i look back i'm like and i was dumb but there's a whole world of people that still think it's okay to have their truck spit black smoke and their vehicle you know create these emissions well whether you believe in global warming or climate change or not that's not what this is about this is about making life better for all of us. This is about, you know, smog as you're pulling into LA here,
Starting point is 01:06:50 like let's get that down. And you know where that's coming from? It's coming from engines. Engines that are burning fossil fuels, creating that smog. So we have the ability to literally, in my opinion, and this is because I'm an overconfident idiot probably, but I believe that with the technology that we're working on, I can get rid of LA smog. I believe that I can make the air quality better all around the world.
Starting point is 01:07:11 And if global warming is a real thing, which I'm not even, I honestly don't have an opinion on it. If it's real, I'm going to slow it down. And that's going to happen because we're going to start burning something that creates zero emissions. And we're going to use the most abundant molecule in the universe to do it. Wow. It's crazy, man. It's exciting times. So you guys pre-launched it already.
Starting point is 01:07:29 How's it doing so far? We launched it. Are you guys taking in pre-sales? We're creating basically a reservation list right now. We have not started taking orders yet because we're waiting to confirm a couple of small details as far as like who's making the truck for us. Right. Which, it'll hold it all down.
Starting point is 01:07:44 Building a truck building a any vehicle not easy a lot yeah and the margins suck like you're talking maybe 10 15 on from when ford sells a truck to what they're actually making um because you have to pay warranties dealers all that kind of stuff but so yeah we've got that stuff dialed in we launched it a couple weeks ago and we've got a few hundred thousand people that put their name on the list overnight that said, I'm interested. Yeah. Tell me more. And so we're going to open up reservations here in the next couple of weeks. And this is what I do best. This is my business. My business is going out and telling everybody why something is so
Starting point is 01:08:17 great, how it's going to benefit them and what the next step is, meaning how do you buy it? And my business has been formed around incentivized orders and sales. We give away a truck every month as part of our business. And so I'm taking what I've learned in this little grassroots social media business, and now I'm applying it to a multi, multi-billion, a trillion dollar industry in the automotive world. And I'm not a guy, two years ago, three years ago, I'm not a guy that could have been making big waves in the automotive world. Neither are you. I don't care. Neither could Dwayne Johnson. Nobody could. You couldn't because it was controlled by the manufacturers. Well, this whole twist, as far as like zero emissions and everything goes, now I'm a guy that has no business,
Starting point is 01:08:58 you know, making these big ripples and effects. I'm doing it every single day. And I'm telling you, man, within the next year or two the entire automotive world is going to change every manufacturer is frantically scrambling trying to get a hold of electric technology electric their own version of electric they're not car companies anymore man they're tech companies tesla's a tech company it is you should compare them updated every week with my new software and like how it's improving like the car is improving compare them more to Apple than you do Ford. Because you're right, the car is constantly getting better.
Starting point is 01:09:29 It's getting better. You don't have to buy a new car for it to get better. So the value in the company right now is not $150 billion as an automotive company. It's $150 billion as a tech company and what they've created. So that's why it's so exciting. And that's why this truck is going to dominate the market. Obviously, we've got a ton of interest in it already. exciting and that's why this truck is gonna it's gonna dominate the market obviously we've got a ton of interest in it already because i've been able to take the tech side and bring it over to
Starting point is 01:09:49 the blue collar america and the guys that are actually gonna be able to use it yeah if you were to tell me what how good your tesla is and why it benefits you so much i really don't care because i don't need a model x to do whatever it does for you but i do need a truck and i need it to be able to be more cost effective and I need to be able to drive it further and spend less. So that's the problem that we solved, dude. It's exciting, man. It is very exciting. How do we find it? How do we? So nicola.com forward slash badger. No, nicolamotor.com. If you Google, like if you type in Nicola Badger, it's all over the place. Press releases. Nikola Motor Company, or you can see
Starting point is 01:10:25 it on my Instagram page. It's at Heavy D Sparks. We're just barely getting started. We barely just trickled some of it out. And no influencers, no media outlets, no paid media yet. And we've got like hundreds of millions of impressions, people that are excited because like I said, Elon kind of left like this gaping hole in the market. And I'm glad he did because having not done that. He's probably not even concerned with that. I mean, he's concerned with his market. He's probably not like, I need everyone to buy the truck. He's going to be now.
Starting point is 01:10:52 Really? He has to be because ultimately, if his truck is not a hoax, if that's real. Right. People are, once he starts selling those, people are going to be like, wait, he was serious? Like this is actually on the road? Like it's kind of fun and games right now, but now that he's got real competition out there. A lot of people are trying to do it too, right? Other people are not. Yeah, there's Rivian, which is a company that's making electric trucks, but nobody's using the hydrogen. So we have the
Starting point is 01:11:18 ability to run a truck that's just on battery. If you say you don't believe in hydrogen, fine, I'll sell you a truck with just a battery. But if you believe that you want double the range, double the power and renewable fuel, well, you buy the truck with the hydrogen fuel cells, this exact same truck just has the fuel cell in it. So that's where we've made a little bit of a difference and it is just so fun right now watching this industry change.
Starting point is 01:11:37 The industry has been the same for 80 years in the automotive world. Nothing major has come in and changed. There's big technology updates but nothing's disrupted it like this yeah and you're about to watch some major major like i two weeks ago sitting in a meeting with the ceo of huge car companies i'm talking the biggest car companies in the world and they were just like what's next yeah i had to sit back and be like why are you asking me these questions how do you not know this and we just happen to be the right they were just like, what's next? I'm like, I had to sit back and be like,
Starting point is 01:12:05 why are you asking me these questions? How do you not know this? And we just happened to be the right place at the right time, so. It's good, man. Yeah, it's been good. It's exciting. So obviously you can tell I'm passionate about it.
Starting point is 01:12:13 I love it, man. I love it. I'm curious, so make sure you guys check that out. Check out your Instagram. You're also doing, I got a couple questions left for you, but you're doing Monster Jam, what, once a month? Couple times a month? How many times are you doing it?
Starting point is 01:12:24 Yeah, so we have a tour that goes to a new city every single weekend. My schedule's so busy that I can't drive every single one, but we do drive, I've got Miami, Florida, coming up this next weekend, and then we've got Detroit. But if you go to MonsterJam.com, if you haven't seen the Monster Truck show, yeah, it'll show everybody's schedule.
Starting point is 01:12:40 There's anywhere across the country at any given time, there's six or seven different Monster Jam tours. It's crazy, man, yeah. You saw, you experienced it, there's six or seven different Monster Jam tours. It's crazy, man. Yeah. You saw. You experienced it. And you're not even a Monster Truck guy, but now you probably are. It was fun.
Starting point is 01:12:50 I'll come watch you again. Absolutely. Yeah, it was good, man. I got two final questions for you. This one's called the three truths. Yeah. So imagine it's your last day on Earth many years from now, and you've achieved every dream you could think of.
Starting point is 01:13:03 You've seen your family do what they wanna do, you've achieved everything. Whether it's the car world, truck world, whatever. You've done it all. But for whatever reason, you've gotta take all the information you've put out into the world, you've gotta take it with you to the next place, wherever you go.
Starting point is 01:13:17 But you get to leave behind three things you know to be true about your life experience for the rest of us. Three lessons, what I like to call three truths. And this is all we'd have to remember you by. What would you say are your three truths? Number one, your worst case scenario is nowhere near as bad as what you think it is. Meaning that failure, that bankruptcy, that breakup, that divorce, that failed business idea, you're not going to prison for it. You're not gonna get put in jail
Starting point is 01:13:48 because you failed a business. I mean, obviously if you're on the Ponzi scheme, that's a different story, but worst case scenario is really never that bad. They're always worse in our head than what real life is. And so with that, you need to approach every situation where you could potentially fail and just say, you know what
Starting point is 01:14:05 I'm not gonna let myself talk myself out of this because of what I think it could be let me figure out what it's gonna be and experience that and just know that all those bad things that you thought were gonna happen they might be bad but it's like oh wait that wasn't that was it like when you get that shot in your arm when you're a kid yeah it's the thought that the side of the needle that's not bad hurts when you get the shot you're like kid. Yeah. It's the thought, the side of the needle that kills you. It's not that bad. It's when you get the shot, you're like, no, that was it. So worst case scenario
Starting point is 01:14:28 is not that bad. And approach everything like that. Forget about risk. Just push it aside sometimes. That doesn't mean that you need to be reckless. Yeah. You got to be a little more calculated,
Starting point is 01:14:37 but don't overthink things. Yeah. Okay. Number two goes right along the line. And this is, if you would have asked me this question a year ago, I wouldn't have been able
Starting point is 01:14:44 to tell you this, but it goes back to what we talked about a minute ago which is focus figure out what you're good at and get your sights set on it and get that and become really good at what you're going after and then move on to the next thing yeah don't try to do 100 things kind of okay when you can do 10 things better than anybody else in the world. And that's like, focus on, I'm proud of you for doing that with your podcast, dude. Like masterminds, that's a big money world. I'm good at it. You're good at it. You're great at it. You're great at talking, but dude, you're better. Like this is your role. This is your position. This is where you need to be right now. And maybe it won't be that way in two years, maybe, but you're focusing on it and you're sacrificing and it's okay to make those sacrifices so yeah take that focus and just get laser focused on
Starting point is 01:15:30 something that you're trying to become good at and become the best and then third thing third thing is like it goes it's okay to love other people and not only is it okay to love other people but even if you don't have a reason or understand why you're supposed to care about somebody, do it for selfish motives at first, because just know, I promise you this every time you give, you're going to get back more than you gave. And that's, it sounds bad. I get it. But once you learn that law and you see how you can make a positive impact on other people's lives, you'll start doing things for different reasons and your motives will change. I now give to others because I see that it genuinely like makes them, it's what life's all about, dude. It's, it's,
Starting point is 01:16:15 it's the golden rule. Literally like it is okay to love other people more than, more than what society tells us is okay. And find ways to embrace, like maybe you're not in, maybe you're in rural Ohio where you don't have a single Mexican guy in your town, or, you know, find opportunities to dive outside your culture and learn another language, learn about the people in Mexico, learn about the people in other countries, because you'll find that you really like in loving other people it's proving that you love yourself so that's man that for me that's it like the more i love other people the more i love other cultures the more i like i'm out there doing good i come back check in
Starting point is 01:16:57 with myself and i'm like man i feel good i love myself and i it's it's a byproduct of loving other people so it's golden rule man man. That's it, man. Dude, I love it, Dave. I want to acknowledge you for constantly leaning into your curiosity. I feel like your entire childhood, you're just like, let me figure this thing out. Let me do the next thing. Let me try this thing out. And you kept leaning into it to improve your situation, your situation and other people's
Starting point is 01:17:21 situations around you. You're doing that now with the car company, you're doing that with so many different things. So I acknowledge you for leaning into that, for embracing all cultures, all people, falling in love with everybody. Curiosity is a very powerful thing. It's huge, man.
Starting point is 01:17:36 And if you have it, pursue it. It's okay to disassemble that radio and maybe never put it back together because guess what? If you didn't, then you wouldn't know. You wouldn't get to the point where you were able to start building and creating. So curiosity is very powerful. Yeah, man, I acknowledge you for everything
Starting point is 01:17:50 and I appreciate your passion for life and your inspiration for so many people. Final question, what's your definition of greatness? My definition of greatness is never stopping, never being complacent. Ed Milet says it best when he says blissful dissatisfaction. You've never made it. You can be okay with where you're at,
Starting point is 01:18:13 but just know that you're capable of so much more. And when you see somebody that actually lives their life by that standard, that's greatness. All your biggest guests, the most popular people, the most successful people the most you know successful people you've interviewed are they have they plateaued no they're still going you're still trying to find ways to become better so that to me is greatness my man dude thanks bro appreciate you man absolutely
Starting point is 01:18:37 my friend thank you so much for being here, for improving your life, for learning, for listening, for growing. You have the ability to change your life any moment you choose to. But it takes the right information. It takes the right accountability. It takes the right actions, the right thoughts to move your life forward. I'm so proud of you. I'm so grateful for you for showing up for yourself today, for doing something positive, for improving your life. And you have the ability to change your friend's lives too.
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