The School of Greatness - How to Design a Life That Runs Without You | Rob Dyrdek

Episode Date: July 31, 2026

A clinical hypnotist told him the problem in one sentence. You don't believe, at a subconscious level, that you were meant to be successful. That was Rob Dyrdek in his twenties, long before the profes...sional skateboarder turned MTV star turned venture studio founder built a portfolio of brands and walked away from a run of exits. He tracks every minute of his day. He rates his life, his work, and his health on a scale of zero to ten, every single night. What the data told him is not what you would expect. The discipline is not the reward. It is the entry fee. He calls what he built the Machine Method, and he applies it to everything. Companies, relationships, health, a hundred-year plan for a family that does not exist yet. The part that will stay with you is what he says about luck. He refuses to pretend he earned all of it, and he is unnervingly clear about what makes it show up more often. You are already designing your life. The only real question is whether you are doing it on purpose. Rob on Instagram In this episode you will: Learn the Machine Method, the discovery to diligence to launch to scale process Rob uses to build and sell companies Discover why he rates his life, work, and health on a zero to ten scale every single day and what the correlation reveals Overcome the stuck stress that quietly drains your capacity long before you sit down to work Recognize the difference between failing with clarity and getting blindsided, and why one is survivable Build a life design where automation comes first, optimization never stops, and the process finally starts giving energy back For more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1961 More SOG episodes we think you’ll love! Get More From Lewis! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:53 This is the five-year anniversary since I first had you on. Five years ago, came on the show in my old apartment, my studio in my old apartment. and you told me about a dream. You painted a picture of a dream that you had for yourself. I knew you as the MTV guy from Robin Big to Fantasy Factory to then ridiculousness. And I'd seen you when I was back in college, finishing up college, my fifth, six years of college, it took me a while to finish. And I knew you as the entertainer, the professional soccer, professional skateboarder turned entertainer.
Starting point is 00:01:29 And then when I met you, you were like, I have this dream of building these things. of getting married, of building this family, of being an entrepreneur and building businesses and brands, and really becoming an investor and a co-creator with other creators of these brands. You send me a recap today. It's been five years. Over 14 brands you've built. Over 600-something episodes since five years ago of ridiculousness. I don't know how many people have ever done 100 episodes of a TV show.
Starting point is 00:02:00 That's about 600 plus. six exits of over $450 million of aggregate value from those exits. You're married now, two kids, you're building your forever home, and I feel like you're still just getting started. 100%. And one of the things that I love about you is when you were a kid, you used to, I think you told me in the past, they used to hypnotize yourself for success. I don't know if you remember talking about this, but you'd hypnotize yourself as a
Starting point is 00:02:31 child, and you're deep in the law of attraction. I know you study and learn the law of attraction and the secrets for success. Before we get into everything you've created, how you built your philosophy, what's come to fruition, and where you're going next. Can you talk about how you hypnotize yourself for success, what that was like? And I guess just that process. Look, I think the vision at a young age wasn't, I wouldn't call it as much. It was the early development of manifestation. And it was drawing, I have a self portrait of myself
Starting point is 00:03:06 from when I'm 14 years old where it's me, this is no joke. It is me in a matching hat and shoes like with a skateboard on the side, all of these like this art easel and then just stacks and stacks of money. Really?
Starting point is 00:03:23 You drew this. I hand drew it, right? And it's like the most fascinating aspect is it's this bizarre matching hat to shoes combo, you know? And to me, like, I always, like, could feel intuitively the law of attraction, right? And so even when I look at, like, I needed, I was lost at 25 years old when I was, like, searching for some sort of way to, I was, like, a fix to help, like, redirect me and get me
Starting point is 00:03:56 re-motivated and refocused. And that's why I was looking for a hypnotist, right? And then I found a hypnotist who was at the Scripps Lojolla Hospital. And so to me, I'm like, okay, this is like a clinical psychologist, hypnotist. This is real. Right. And so when I got in there. Not some stage performer.
Starting point is 00:04:16 Yeah. And so to me it was like, like when I got in there, I was like looking for like, you know, make me focused on skateboarding so I can win contest, like, you know, whatever my vision was. And he immediately did this test and said, you don't. believe you were meant to be successful at your subconscious level. And so that's what he discovered after doing some tests. Yeah, he did this like tests. And then the initial hypnosis was just reinforcing at the subconscious level that I was meant to be successful, right?
Starting point is 00:04:46 That I believe that, right? How do you learn to believe that if you hadn't believed it until then? Look, I would say that I had, I grew it and built it at an early age and was starting to lose. it. Okay. So you got it, which made you a professional at 16 and kind of go to the next level. But then somewhere you lost it. Right. He reinforced it and then boom, you know, and most recently I went to his house, you know, like a year ago. Really? Yeah, I went to his house. He's like, this hypnotist now is a lifelong friend. You know what I mean? I found him in the yellow pages. It was pre-internet. The great Dr. George Pratt. And so, you know, I will, you know, I've sent
Starting point is 00:05:24 friends there. I go see him all the time, you know, on my five-year anniversary. He presided over the five-year anniversary of our, when we renewed our vows. But I'm like, hey, can you just give me a check real quick? I just want to verify that I'm going to be a billionaire. He's like, come on in here. He's like, come on, stop it. You know that's going to happen. Wow.
Starting point is 00:05:44 His like psychological power, he's like, stop it. And it's just like, you're right, Dr. George. But look, I think even, you know, we were both in Think and Grow Rich that we had shot before we had. did the initial interview together too. He was in the movie? No, no, you, me and you. Oh, yeah, yeah, gotcha, yeah. Right?
Starting point is 00:06:04 And it was, even back then, like, now I'm evolving and getting more intuitive of things being attracted to me. But it wasn't until 2018. I was in a bit of a, you know, like a bit of a pit of chaos, right? Because here's these great plans that I have built that were unfolding. 2016, it was all coming alive, right? And our interview was at peak youthful energy of like, the world is mine. I just moved to Beverly Hills.
Starting point is 00:06:33 I'm having my first child got my new office in Beverly Hills, like my forever estates, just launched the machine that month, right? All of these things, like, I'm going to build and sell all these companies still had never done it. Just the vision, the hope, everything, the energy of what was going to become. And so, but in 2018, like, things got sideways, right? The energy got sideways. How so? Was this the NBC show that didn't work?
Starting point is 00:07:01 No, this was them talking about, like, ridiculousness going away, right? Really? And I had built Superjacket for it to be acquired, and it was just like, wow, it's like this entire thing that I've got, like, built up. And this is the first company I'm building to sell is going to kind of drift away here. And my wife suggested, like, why don't we just watch The Secret? Wow. And so I'm like, you know, like, you know, and I kind of remember the secret. You know, I sort of like remember the secret.
Starting point is 00:07:33 And then, I mean, the first 15 minutes, it just shifted my being. Really? It shifted my being and way of thinking of like, like, stop it. Like, look at who you are, what you've done. And look at like the good that has constantly, like, found its way to you. Don't lose sight of that. Like, and I began to practice. belief. And literally like a month later, my my internal medicine specialist is talking about
Starting point is 00:08:03 meditation. And I'm like, I have to meditate. And she's like, oh, I, in my office, we have this new company that has these meditation pods, the somadome, right? And I'm like, can I try it out? And inside this somadome, it's a guided meditation about manifestation. Really? And so what I started doing in 2018 as I was like, I'm not going to like hope for the law of attraction. I'm going to begin to practice it. So I would go to sleep every night watching the secret. So it was the last thing I went to bed. And then when I would get up in the morning, I would get in my dome, right? And I would just like think of all the things I wanted to happen. Right. And so instead of thinking in 2018 when they were talking about ending ridiculousness and I was in season 12. I wasn't I wasn't I decided I wasn't going to manifest
Starting point is 00:09:00 season 13 I was going I kept manifesting walking onto stage introducing season 30 holy cow so I'm thinking about the next season you're thinking about 20 seasons away right right and and so for me like like it then evolved and like it literally began it was like the the the seas began to part right because what happened is because I own the production now I was able to negotiate directly with the head of the network on the unit economics of the show rather than talent and producing fees and so we got to a place where we decided from a business perspective what was best for the network and the ever-changing landscape of linear cable. And I gave him the, I'm like,
Starting point is 00:09:52 give me the price you want, and then let me go and try to make it happen. Because you used to have a talent feed that was bigger, and then you said, let's work. And somebody else would produce it. Now I produced the entire thing, own the entire production, so I understood where all the opportunity was
Starting point is 00:10:07 to get it to his cost. And that's a nuance now, right? So I negotiated with him on the union economics where most, like, even big celebrities and producers are still like it's fees, you know, like you don't have the ability to get in that into depth because you don't understand or own the production company at that level. And so it goes from right there, I got it to his number. We negotiated and I was getting 30 episode seasons at a time back then.
Starting point is 00:10:39 And I said, I can only do this price if we get to 42 episodes and you've got to pick up multiple seasons. Wow. And I was hoping for two he picked up four. Right. And so it went from thinking that it was completely, like, I'm going to have to regroup and, like, television's over here to like, now you're shooting 186. Right. Like, and the beauty of it was is I had built the company up to that point. You needed three years of EBITA to take it to market and sell it.
Starting point is 00:11:14 The entire plan was like, we got to get the. through the third year and take it to market. And on the third year, they were like, we don't think the show's coming back. Basically like, okay, that means the production company is going out of business after I was getting ready to take it to market and be my big first win. And instead, that 186 order, I take it straight to market.
Starting point is 00:11:32 Now I took it to market. Here's the three years in EBITDA. And we have the biggest order in the history of cable television, right? That's the biggest order? One of the biggest ones, right? And so that is how huge that, that changed and then what happens now they have more episodes they air more it gets this new entirely new life then they're like can we get more really then by the by the following year you know
Starting point is 00:12:01 and keep in mind in that time i sold the company when you was this now uh the company it was acquired in 2019 right so um and then it was like it had this explosion so then it's like how many can you give us and I'm like so I went through all time management all aspect because keep in mind I'm still doing all of this while living super balanced and happy normal life so I could do 250 max 250 at a year yeah and then I was like but in order to do that like can you pick up two years and then they were like what no brainer let's do it so they then ordered 500 500 apps yes in two years And two years and that put me to 30 seasons, right? So it's like, so, you know.
Starting point is 00:12:51 Oh, my goodness. So you're visualizing 30. Visualizing 30. And I'll tell you one thing, you know, I actually spent some time with the great Dr. Joey, Despenza, right? And the one thing I heard from him is this idea of don't try to think it, try to feel it. You know, don't when you're trying to like. tap into the quantum field and generate energy and the law of attraction the things that you are thinking about think about the feeling that's why i thought of i like went through the feeling of like what it feels like to be on stage welcome to season 30 right so it's a much more richer sort of existence so now now it's like i practice it every single day i am i am in um
Starting point is 00:13:44 You know, that soma dome meditation pod, like feeling what I want to happen, seven days a week, almost never miss a day, right? And I track it super extensively. And like literally it's like 97, 97% of this entire year I have been in there. Just visualizing what I want to happen. I got to get one of these domes. Look, keep in mind. Think how hard on this is just meditating.
Starting point is 00:14:14 every day. That's so hard. Right. Think about how hard it is to just do anything healthy every day. For five, 10 minutes. Right. You know what I mean? It's a, I didn't do it. Wow. Overnight. I had to grow into it. It's a muscle. Getting that level of discipline, being able to commit to it, you need to do it over and over. You go through your highs and lows. You stop for a little bit. You go back to it. You stop like it. It goes like that until you finally grow the muscle of the consistency and the discipline to where it turns in. to a way of life.
Starting point is 00:14:46 Yeah. I just don't, now I can't even imagine not doing it. If I don't do it in the day, I'm like, oh, like, we're all my dreams. How important is it for people to feel their, what they want to manifest on a daily basis then, as opposed to once in a while? I mean, look, I'm living proof that you can exponentially accelerate towards it if it's part of your focus.
Starting point is 00:15:09 Where do you think you'd be if you didn't do that on a daily basis? It's hard to say. And go to sleep almost every night. watching the secret or something like that. Look, look, I have been, I've been falling asleep to a lot of Jim Rome, this old Jim Rome, this old school sort of, his sort of philosophy that's also super sharp. Because what I've just found is, is like you're like this, you know, I'm going to fall sleep instantly, right?
Starting point is 00:15:34 Like I sleep pure and quick, but it's like, like, let me be in this like sort of growth mindset as I'm like drifting off asleep to like set the tone, right, for what it is. So I don't know. And it's, again, I think with a lot of stuff that I do, it's extreme, right? It's like so extreme. You track every minute of your life. Yeah, like tracking all every minute in my life, having the qualitative data of every single day asking myself how I feel about my life, zero to 10, right? And of life, work and health.
Starting point is 00:16:07 The beauty of that is it is a clear indication of the quality of your life. Yes. And I see direct correlation to my discipline on my quantitative stuff. Did I get up at five? Did I brain train? Did I meditate? Did I get in the gym? Did I have a clean diet?
Starting point is 00:16:25 Did I not drink? You could look straight up the line and look at the qualitative numbers and they are one for one. Right? And at scale, right? It's you you see you've gamified your discipline. Yes. Right? And in a sense, you've gamified driving the discipline.
Starting point is 00:16:44 quality of your life, right? Which, what does that do? What are all those things actually deliver to you? You're just happier. You're more fulfilled. You feel better about yourself. You have more confidence. You have more belief, right? Like all of these things. But again, I started it in 2015. I was, I was never able to do an entire year until 2020. It took me five years to do an entire year. I set my goals in 2021 based off of having an entire year of this data to be like, I'm going to average 20 points above on the quality of life qualitative data and I'm going to be 80% on my health balance quantitative stuff and that's what I committed to only I am currently at like 21 and like 95 it just wow it like once I gamified it and now I'm playing the stats like it made me even that
Starting point is 00:17:34 much more disciplined and in excited and energetic to stay more disciplined which in turn gives you More energy, more discipline, and more self-belief, more self-belief, more success, all these things that compound on top of each other. Because that's, you know, it really is a compound effect in all aspects of your life. If you see your life as all of these different systems that have the ability to expand. Right? Because as they expand and they're harmonious, you get this extraordinary energy and build this great. foundation that you grow into the ideal version of yourself. Because that's ultimately everybody's goal, you know.
Starting point is 00:18:21 If you can only do five things on a daily basis, that would set you up for freedom, success, abundance, what would those five things be? I mean, to me, I, with, you know, it is my decor five that I do. I'll skip brain train because that's just more like a discipline thing for fun. But you get up early, you know. Like lately I've been getting up at four and four. 30 because it's like you you get so much out of being highly organized and having time to get a ton of stuff executed before the chaos starts right because I don't care who you are the chaos starts
Starting point is 00:19:00 you know in my case it starts a seven the moment my kids get up so everything that I can get done ahead of then is is essential right and including free thinking and ideating and all these things that get lost when you're just going from thing to thing to thing and exhausted and then like veg out get up go thing to thing to thing right like you the the life force is constantly recalibrating and and getting clarity on where your head is as part of it but one for sure get up get up early meditate you know and everybody does it in a lot of different ways but like I don't meditation for me isn't get quiet and breathe I put headphones on, I get in a dome, and I listen to a guided manifestation meditation.
Starting point is 00:19:48 That's like basically like reinforcing my driving ambition and hopes and dreams rather than trying to like bring peace. And it's a different style. But I think any time you just take that like 20 minutes to be outside of your body and ultimately the reality, if you will, is a great reset. And, you know, I think, you know, number one far, you know, far and above is, is diet, man. I just don't, I don't, I don't care. I don't, there is, if I could boil down the core of my happiness, the core of my execution, the core of, it is literally clean diet. Right. And it also compounds, right?
Starting point is 00:20:37 Yes. And it's, and it goes, it compounds back and forth. right because like you you can get clean and get a big momentum and you can just start to eat lightly bad and you just level off you know what I mean you definitely can't go a layer deeper but it is of course the hardest one to maintain it's the battle between the upper self and lower self right is that that that pure battle of like you know you know you shouldn't be doing it but like you just can't stop it then once you start it here's the problem for someone like me I have to create all this discipline plan and gamify it to protect me from me because I will start to dip down to justify I just yeah yeah I'll dip down and then I'll do like fake health for a while right and then I'll be like after my wife's birthday then I'm going to get focused again you're always like you're always like like breaking that battle between my upper and lower self uh it is is you know I would say even this year is probably the the only year and I was committed to it again because I had the data and and and and like now
Starting point is 00:21:47 seeing like gamifying it as like I just want my body composition this you know what I mean like I swear like normally it would it would like literally summer dip back oh oh back up in the winter starting over January 1 it's almost like in December it's just pizza and wine and cheese and cookies ice cream oh it's in in in in to me it's like so how do you do you do an 80 20 approach to Do you have a cheap day? Like, how do you make sure you're not this discipline freak of nature all day long and not also enjoying moments of... Yeah, I try to, like, not put a...
Starting point is 00:22:22 I just try not to lose control. Yeah. Right? And then I keep a foundation of... And my foundation is just chicken, vegetables, right? And intermittent fasting. That's it. Right?
Starting point is 00:22:34 So I just, no rice, no bread, no snacks. Chicken and vegetables at, like, 10 or 11. chicken and vegetables at like three or four and and and then okay it's date night like I'm gonna go with the wife and we're gonna go move you all have popcorn right like it's it's your baseline yes that you can commit to and then it's you're now it's a battle between your upper and lower self where do I lose it I in the spring when I went on vacation so I had to and I got back into that same mode where I like I I dipped so quick.
Starting point is 00:23:11 And it was a five-day trip to combo. And I'm in a dog fight. It felt like I was like fighting to like get back to that extraordinary discipline, right? And even even with this much discipline, I was still fighting it, you know? And wavered throughout the summer. But stay committed to like let's be this year. Look at the, look at how disciplined, how much better you feel about life, all the things that are happening to. you like like let this be the beginning in at year five i finally had like a pure year that i envisioned
Starting point is 00:23:49 in 2016 that i was trying to sell to you that i was going to develop and be and it took five years and i just think that's another testament of like you're talking i'm so disciplined i'm so committed yet i still highs and lows and chaos like it took me five years before i what we're four years into the fifth year before I really got there, you know what I mean? Which is just a testament to like having a plan and knowing that, hey, it's a, you're going to grow into this over the next 25 years and not try to do it in six months, one year, two year, three years. Interesting.
Starting point is 00:24:28 Okay, so that's number three, nutrition. And then, of course, getting in the gym and moving. Yes. You know, I don't forget about, you know, another big. thing that I sat in here was talking about my passion for biomechanics. And now after years of abusing my body, I have a doctor come to my house five days a week. Wow. And all I want to do was re-engineered by biomechanics.
Starting point is 00:24:53 When I came in here, I was one year and a half into fixing my biomechanics. It was still messed up, though. Yeah. Thought I had probably another six months to go, eight months to go. I am now into year six. He still comes in five days a week. And it's like now I have this extraordinary. I know every single muscle in my body.
Starting point is 00:25:16 I know the relationship between every single muscle, every single bone, all of the fascia, all of the nerves, all of the neurology, and have had to slowly fix it all and created a system triangulated three different systems that allowed me to do quantitative muscle testing and muscle pattern correction that I could quantitatively test. And to simply describe it, your body winds, puts a layer of compensation on every time you add another movement dysfunction. And there is literally thousands. And they essentially turn your body into these Chinese handcuffs where you try to treat one area and it goes to another one and locks it. Then that one starts up. It pulls back into it. In unwinding all of those Chinese handcuffs, it has taken me almost three years.
Starting point is 00:26:08 And right now I sit on the precipice of like testable, flawless biomechanics, right? Really? And another beautiful thing about it is I was getting internal blood work the entire way through, right? So I have my blood test for the entire way through. And so this latest blood work came back. And, you know, you're no longer, you have no more inflammation markers. You no longer have leaky gut. All of these things where, and, you know, my internal medicine specialist is like, you know,
Starting point is 00:26:38 You know, I don't know. I don't know. Like, what about your diet? I'm like, my diet hasn't changed. All I'm doing is fixing the relationship between my muscular structure and my skeletal structure, which then is releasing pressure on my internal organs and my gut and the functionality of my body and all this stuff. So I digress. Extraordinary. Because now I'm like, wow, you're going to, you're going to not only have a flawlessly functioning system, but now you have all this data to show that it's flawlessly functioning. that you'll be able to use as your baseline till you die. Until you die. You'll be able to see some anomaly that happens in a muscle, in the blood work,
Starting point is 00:27:17 that you can tackle, like, so it's not, what happens a lot of times is in your blood work and all these different things, there's so many incoming things that are causing the dysfunction that you just treat the one
Starting point is 00:27:30 that's the most aggravated or the one that's at the top when really your entire body is a fully functioning system that one part of it can't be healed and the rest of it's healed along with it, right? So I go back to, I only now have extraordinary respect for the great Tom Brady and pliability. It's amazing. Because at the end of the day, it is the relationship between your muscular structure, your skeletal structure,
Starting point is 00:27:58 and how you move and how your muscles slide on and turn on and off that allows you to function pain-free and flawless. So again, what I just said was not understandable too deep and way over the top. But my number four is just move. Moving. Because like you don't don't, it's not necessarily about working. Just get all of those muscles to be turning on and off and letting like those nerves slide through and letting that fascia like not get caught where muscles overlap. And now you create a dysfunction that makes that muscle hypertonic that then now pulls you over here and then force you. is your calf to go and then you can't understand why you got planter fasciitis.
Starting point is 00:28:40 Then you go to a doctor and then they just rub the bottom of your foot. When really it was a muscle in your upper trap that really actually pulled you over to the disdirection that got your calf that then ultimately got the planner. Sure. But they don't look at it like that. You know what I mean? It's like we're going for that planner. So that's number four.
Starting point is 00:28:58 Yes. Number five. And number five is, you know, I'd rather say sleep, right? Like, you know, and all these things are standard. Yes. Right? All these things are standard. And to me, they're, you know, here's what I've learned.
Starting point is 00:29:16 Here's the biggest lesson I've learned in five years is my, the mastery of my capacity. And your capacity is taken by a lot of different things. But one of the main things that takes your capacity is stress. And what I'd call stuck stress, things that you just can't really. least can't let go. People in your life. All these different things. People just don't like the stress over money, stress over where you're at.
Starting point is 00:29:42 Relationships. Yeah. It's like there's, it is this, this drainage on your energy that pulls from your actual capacity, right? Then now you try to overcorrect and try to do all these things and then you get burnt out. Right. Like even super like like ambitious driven people like they just like it's like, it's like, Like, just keep the hammer down all the way till you need a complete reset, right? And the only way to get capacity, once you get to a place of free, right, where I have no more stuck stress.
Starting point is 00:30:18 Stress doesn't exist inside me, right? Like, all of the things that ever caused stress, I cleared and then built systems to protect me from ever happening, right? What was the one you had to let go? That was the hardest. Look, I'm, there's no specific. one, because I do that, the beauty of that qualitative, asking yourself every day, how do I feel about my life? How do I feel about my work? How do I feel about my health? When you ask yourself that, you come up with a number and a reason why. And when the number is low and you, and the reason why is
Starting point is 00:30:52 someone you work with, like, and that happens two or three times, it's so clear to you that, okay, I need to remove this. Or I need to adjust it or whatever. Yeah. And I think even like a big one early on was just not understanding money, right? Like, and, you know, we talked about in 2016 how profound, you know, money match of the game was for me and how it began this evolution of learning money. But, but it was a huge one for me. But in that period, once I saw that happening, man, this is actually bringing to surface all these things about my life, work and health that are bothering me, that I, that became
Starting point is 00:31:31 now easy to eliminate because it's just. it's like, oh, well, there's that again. Like, okay, let's just stop that, right? Versus like when it's coming from all these different ways, it's hard to tell what is actually causing the stress, right? And so as I got to that level of getting clear, now there's this extraordinary energy behind it, right? And so part of that process too was like,
Starting point is 00:31:56 okay, I no longer want to do things that take energy from me. I only want to do things that give me energy. So here's your option. You need to either, like, learn it really well so that it can be, it can take less effort. So it now begins to give you energy, like, not take it from you. You either need to automate it or you need to hire someone. Outsource it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:19 You know, and it's like as I, as I transition to seeing everything through the lens of how do I drive it to automation? Hmm. Everything began to change. What were the three biggest things you automated were outsourced that were taking a lot of energy from you. I mean, look, you've got to think I've built an entire system around my life. Right? Like, and this is my chief of staff and my two assistants run my life operating model called The Rhythm of Existence.
Starting point is 00:32:49 That's an 80-page document that is basically, you know, food delivery, how our housekeepers and nannies work, like travel, like haircuts, like meeting agendas, schedules, family agendas, all the weekly date nights, everything to do with operating and running my entire existence. All the else with it, like if there's a leak, you just go into the document, here's all the plumbers that would do with it. It is basically eliminating a giant aspect of your core life
Starting point is 00:33:21 that now is humming by itself. In a great example of true, like create something, automate it and then optimize it, right? because greatness is found in optimization after you've automated, right? And is ridiculousness, right? Because you've got to think I used to shoot 30 or 40 a year and, you know, it would take all this time of lead up in production. It would take so much energy.
Starting point is 00:33:50 I'd be there all day to shoot two episodes. Like, and I eventually, you know, started to optimize it, evolve it. Then I went to shooting three a day. Then I started to stop going to production meetings and standardized how we delivered scripts to me. And now I no longer have to look at no guest scripts. Like I just slowly got the entire thing down to where I don't even need to meet with producers anymore. They send me the shows. I have the scripts with all these adjustments I can make.
Starting point is 00:34:22 I watch it one time make all my adjustments and then go shoot it. And now I shoot six a day instead of shooting two a day. And I shoot six between 9 a.m. and 3 o'clock where I used to shoot 2 between 8 a.m. and 6 p.m. Right. And so, you know, when you look at my time, you know, where I've tagged my time and, you know, again, designed pure balance. Wow. And then tagged it all in the calendar. And so it pumps out the dashboards of how I spent my time. And it's even fascinating to me that, you know, I spend. 30% with my family, 30% sleeping, 30% working, 10% on health.
Starting point is 00:35:07 But when you look at the data, I shoot 250 episodes and it is 4% of my total time in a year. Right. And that is when you have just gotten to a place of extraordinary optimization and efficiency. But what is it? It becomes effortless. You're not even like, it's not even, it's no longer even like a part of your, you don't have to you it's not it only requires the energy to go and do it where in the beginning you're thinking about it all the time you're you're thinking about the get what do i got to do and like
Starting point is 00:35:42 and then you're trying to get prepared and all of these things that are part of that that ultimately get there now i go back to it's 4% and takes very little energy so it leaves i have a i have a ton of capacity right so it's like every time something comes every time i do something new It's like, how can I drive it? What's the pathway to automation? You know, because even doing the podcast, it's like, you know, like launching a podcast. Bill with Rob, make sure you subscribe, watching. Subscribe, subscribe.
Starting point is 00:36:16 But I'm, it was, I didn't want to just, I didn't know how I wanted to do it. But I knew that I didn't want to do it interview style. Because it's like, I just think of like how hard it is to like book guests. It's a lot, man. It's a full-time job. That's what I'm saying. Like, I think of like all that. Then researching the get all these things.
Starting point is 00:36:37 Like I, when I think about like pushing to that, it just didn't like it was too difficult. Then it was like, why am I doing it? Because I need a, I need a platform for people to hear the way that I speak and think about business to attract other great entrepreneurs to want to build companies with me. That is the primary focus of it, right? And ultimately, like, who better to do that with than just the people that you build companies with, right? So that's why I launched it of just telling the stories and now it's partners going through it. You know, even bringing a partner investor in mind-dried and outstanding foods on and being a part of a show. It's still not automatic, right?
Starting point is 00:37:25 That's still a ton of difficulty. And like I'm continuing to transition. the format until I can get to a place where I can see it where I could do it effortlessly. It's almost like you need a co-host to like queue it up for you or something. Yeah, no, like really the really way I envision, because you know I take pitches on on dirtikmachine.com if people want to pitch businesses, then I've transitioned to basically giving advice to them about their business and I get a ton of energy from that, right? And using the background of my experience and my current portfolio companies to give them
Starting point is 00:37:59 business then I also give them life design advice as sort of a mentor and like here's how you just think about your life and what I realize is man that that gives me a ton of energy and has broader appeal is much easier for me to execute and then I've been doing on on the ones that I'm doing now like a big monologue in the beginning of just like what like a philosophy and business or life that I'm in the middle of so now I can I can share these thoughts that I have about the way that I'm thinking about everything. I have a great form for that. And then I can share advice and knowledge with fellow entrepreneurs as like a tool for people that are actually in it. And I can automate that. Yes. Because it's the people that are sending in the questions that want to be on the show that are
Starting point is 00:38:47 producing the show. And then I am in the rhythm always of ideating on big ideas that I can share as as something more unique as part of the show to go along with it. But together those, I don't got to try to get you out there. I don't got to try to get Billy G. out there. Like, I can do these at scale. And now I can optimize it. Now, how do I just make this better and better and better? How do I, like, just turn that now into, you know,
Starting point is 00:39:18 the entrepreneur's life and business, Dave Ramsey type of show? You know what I mean? But he doesn't need guests on all the time either. It's his philosophy, coaching, mentoring. Right, right. Like, so, and something I get way more energy from. And then I still bring on my partners to be part of the monologue, to be, like, advice on part of the show.
Starting point is 00:39:39 When we launch a new company, I still do the specials to do it. But I launched it and it had to feel through it. I had to feel through it, right? Because another thing that I've really discovered over these five years that, you know, I originally developed it for the process of creating businesses, but I realized it's actually anything you ever want to do in your life. And you first have to come up with the idea, right? You know, the discovery phase, we call it the machine method.
Starting point is 00:40:05 The next thing you do is diligence. Okay, do I want to do this? What does it take to do this? Like, you've got to, like, figure out, like, you know, do I want to do this? Then you got to build the plan, right? Like, so now you build the plan and, boy, it's exciting. Because now you're like, oh, man, this is going to be amazing. Right.
Starting point is 00:40:21 Then the plan fails at some point. No, look, then you launch it. Right. Now it's real. Right. Now it's like, oh my God, this doesn't work. Is this ever going to work? It's all the doubt.
Starting point is 00:40:31 You know, in business, they call it the Valley of Death, right? You don't have a real business until you have product market fit. But I believe that then when you get past the launch and you find product market fit, you scale. You now grow. You expand and grow because you figured it out. You learned everything that you needed to learn to be able to plan more precisely to actually achieve what you didn't fully understand when you built the plan. earlier because you'd never done it before. Right. You have to actually experience something to begin to understand what you actually
Starting point is 00:41:00 need to do to accomplish it. But you could almost tie that to anything you attempt to do. That's a relationship. Right. When your first relationship, oh, we kind of like you. Well, right. Let me see. Is she really like the one? Like, hey, you're a couple dates. Like, hey, let's get into a relationship. Oh, was that offended you? Like, oh, you don't like, oh, you're like, I don't really like silent movie. You know, whatever. It's like before you decide if it a fit, boom, you can grow together. But it's this almost foundational structure of any creative idea growing, having the ability
Starting point is 00:41:32 to grow and scale. And you've got to take the exploration phase, test it out, see what works. And so when I think about our first podcast, my energy, boy, that energy. Five years ago. Yeah, five years ago. You hadn't built a brand yet. Look, no, had Superjacket a little bit, had Streetly, but had not like, like. Built and sold a company.
Starting point is 00:41:51 Yeah, hadn't built and sold a company. The vision was I'm going to build and sell 100 and make a billion dollars in liquidity. Never sold one in my life. But I did that first. I decided this is what I'm going to do. I'm going to build this plan. Then I spent all that time going through all the things that I need to do that. Then I designed it when I sat with you five years ago, August 26, 2016.
Starting point is 00:42:17 I had just launched. And it was like, this is going to be amazing. Look, it's the machine. I got, you know, it was like, here's all in the do or dire. You spent two years, like, with research firms helping you develop this process. You had the whole thing mapped out, ready to go. It was going to, it was going to just explode everything. And I literally, like, got into the deepest, craziest waters.
Starting point is 00:42:42 And by 2.0, I had almost an entirely different philosophy. by the time I re-did and now discovered those phases, discovered capital staging, discovered like all of the points of growth, what had happened to all the different companies? Because keep in mind,
Starting point is 00:43:00 I did like, literally, and from when I left, like, our podcast to like eight months later, it was like, it was like, like 10 brands. You made a touch of the best men's.
Starting point is 00:43:11 It was just like, boom, boom, boom, boom, you know, and really, you know, again, coming out of here, introducing me to Billy G
Starting point is 00:43:18 and then doing you know taking fresh soul to pig out and outstanding it's like was in that era momentous black feather whiskey like um where to like all of these
Starting point is 00:43:30 like made by science chemistry hold it was like one after another in that gap and then by the time the second year came by and they were like in chaos right like it was all of my chaos you need to restructure it was
Starting point is 00:43:45 some were really working some were not It was like, well, why is that, like, what happened? Like, why is this one out of cat? Like, it was, it was, it, it was this extraordinary, like, awakening of beginning to see, like, the triangulation of, like, all the things that they were going through were so similar. And how I could have prevented them with a better process. And then I just took the time to redo that process and then built, like, the machine 2.0 and launched the machine method, right? and then started doing businesses through the machine method.
Starting point is 00:44:19 But I digress back to, no different than the process I discovered there, I was in the launch phase, and I finally found my product market fit as it relates to the machine and the business in 2020, and then now have built 3.0 to now scale, like, you know, to as far as I could possibly even dream. Wow. What is the 3.0 version? 3.0 version is the, you know, where I really realized is, is it's, I systematically fuse art, science, and magic, right? Yes. It is, you know, it is that like, you've got to create it.
Starting point is 00:44:58 It's this building businesses and ideas, this creative process, but the science is the proven fundamentals of success, business. All these things have to happen in order for something to work. And then the magic is these intangibles. You know what I mean? This, this, this. Give an example. Here's the perfect one. tie it back to Superjacket.
Starting point is 00:45:17 Like, you negotiate for unit economics, get this big order. Then when it comes out, it has an entire resurgence. Because linear cable goes down. Then a pandemic hits. And then they now, now your show goes to like it to an even higher level. Because everybody's sitting at home and they've watched everything on Netflix and they can just sit there for four hours and just laugh and just forget it out. It has another research. You could never.
Starting point is 00:45:44 And what did all of it? of that do, it led to these bigger orders and giant return that drives to a bigger earnout for the acquisition way bigger than I could have ever even dreamed when I built it, the original idea, or when I actually sold it versus what it actually became. You could, it's completely unexplainable and it is pure magic, right? Pure, like, like complete magic. And so what season are you shooting on now? 24, right? You've already got order for. 30.
Starting point is 00:46:16 Yes, I got six. You know, I got the rest of this year than $2.50 next year. So I'm gunning, right? But again, I say it to, and then, you know, where the machine itself and how that comes alive, like now it is a fully integrated multi-platform universe of brands, media, community, and philanthropy. Right? So what did I do? not only did I like create this system for taking businesses from an idea stage all the way to
Starting point is 00:46:48 acquisition, but then I'm launching the complete media vertical that starts with build with Rob and building content around our philosophy and creating businesses. Then I launched the machinist, right? So the machinists are people that sign up and now become part of the machine method process where they are consumer collaborators where every step along the way, asking them what they think about the product. So what am I, I'm building loyal consumers because they're actually part of the process, right? So you do that.
Starting point is 00:47:20 I launched the do-or-dire foundation, right, for underserved and underappreciated entrepreneurs and put a million dollars into that. And our first program is we're doing business competitions with other great entrepreneur charities, right? We have three tracks, youth prodigies, women and people of color. and recently incarcerated, right? And building the programs to support and give them like non-dilutive capital, like, you know, proving they have the do or dire spirit and the idea. And again, all of these ultimately are built to scale, right?
Starting point is 00:47:56 And, you know, even as I evolved as a business person, I understood that, like, you know, you operate a business, not from a traditional standpoint, because everything's integrated and everything integrates through you. Right. And when I realized like I run a flat organization and that I, it's me and my seat president and CEO and then the heads of all these divisions, man, if I put somebody in every single one of these divisions venture, media, product, community, philanthropy, founder, brand manager for myself like operations, finance and brand and marketing, right? You look at those 10 verticals. They integrate all the way across. And ultimately I can put KPIs on all of them. And so all those KPIs ladder up to the strength of the machine and the performance of the machine to essentially be one of the most impactful venture studios ever created. And everybody understands it and understands their mission. It's fully organized and completely integrated to basically create the amplification for our existing portfolio.
Starting point is 00:49:09 and the gravity for our future portfolio, right? Wow. And all of that now, driven to automation, systemization, so that I, again, it's 10 core divisions that all have people, but I, and I oversee all of them, but it's done in a way that is highly organized and highly efficient, right? And even how I do a Monday, I do a Monday, I start at 4.30, I spend all morning going through a fully connected hot sheet where all divisions go through my hot sheet, where I have a master hot sheet with both my personal and business, and then all 10 divisions and managements go through it.
Starting point is 00:49:52 And then so I have complete and total visibility on all aspects of my life, right? And then I go first with my chief of staff for an hour, then my president and COO for an hour, and then I go half hours with every division. through the hot sheets that integrated into my hot sheets so that ultimately at the end of Monday we're all completely reset and we set the week's goals and the week's meetings like instead of because what did I used to do he's have all these standing meetings and then I'd rely on people to have like note like be picking up loose ends and having things organ out like and then it's like trying to fit it in that hour time slot and then you're trying to do five things when you really could only do one. And so I didded all that. And then on that Monday, then we set the week. And it's like,
Starting point is 00:50:41 okay, half hour on Tuesday for the Russell co-lab we're going to do for the foundation. Okay, an hour on Wednesday for KPI's for the new head of venture. Right. It's like so you become so much more efficient. But you're also creating more clarity for those that work for you and more clarity for yourself and amplifying your output because it's so focused and organized. But I digress. I would have never, I had to get to a place of like understanding like, you know, the paradigm is a structure of a company kind of has these hierarchies and people report to them and they handle all these different things.
Starting point is 00:51:25 But when I was able to finally get the clarity of like, here's the 10 divisions, here's how they integrate, I need somebody to own every single one. Then I've now, I've basically added 50 hours to my output by putting one body in each of those. Where before I used to like have three or four of those mashed together with someone more junior that I tried to support. And it's pulling energy and time and like all this stuff. How do you find these people you can trust? You know, I'm, I'm, it's funny because I've, hiring is the hardest thing in the world. It's so hard.
Starting point is 00:52:00 Hardest thing in the world. and I always looked at it as it's just this, it just is what it is. It is what it is. This is hard. And I realized that I made it hard because I never, even though I'd write these great detailed job descriptions, I still would ask you, I would try to hire people
Starting point is 00:52:22 and have them do all of these different things and then have unrealistic expectations on their ability to do the things that I wanted them to do. And they would sell themselves that they could do it all when really their skill set was really built to do one of them, right? And I think that changed because when you put someone, when you're trying to hire someone through a lens that you have total clarity on as management and your ability to interview them become so much clear.
Starting point is 00:52:54 Then when you test them, right, you give them a test, then it's so much clear like, oh, this is the right fit. this is going to be amazing. And they drop right in and their experience has led them to get here. Right. And I would say even the one I was most patient for, which is the most complex, is my chief of staff. Oh, man. Because it's like if that's the actual like cornerstone of my existence, that's basically everything,
Starting point is 00:53:19 my entire time, energy and this rhythm of existence, I created this rhythm of existence document, 80 page operation like system for my life. And in 2015, I did not implement it until 19. Wow. Because the assistants I would hire couldn't do it. Couldn't do it. And so when my assistant that couldn't do it quit, right, quit on me. And it's like, oh, man, you know, because what happens?
Starting point is 00:53:46 I'm so busy. The idea of trying to get another chief of staff was like too much, too insane. So you're taking it on yourself and you're trying to pass it off. So when she let, then I committed like, no, I need someone that cannot, that has the skills. is the perfect personality that can really do it. And I was patient until I found the absolute perfect person. And then came in and became the corner. Like now that rhythm of existence is not what I did in 2015.
Starting point is 00:54:15 It's the 2021 fully flushed out, fully operating. You know, there's like our family sink agendas in there and how we meet as a family and keep everything fully organized. It's like, you know, everything to do with all my doctors and health and everything to do with my entire life and business like yeah life and business not as it relates to organization right it's like my my main top hot sheet has it all but then each manager's um hot sheet i click through into theirs right so they they um stay separate and she might mainly like focuses on making sure i'm doing everything that i would
Starting point is 00:54:57 say I would do it from a business standpoint. Right. Wow. But what did it do? What did it do? I have more capacity. Yes. Right. I'm not thinking as much about all the details. That's it. Like you, because you're, you're, you, you underestimate how much capacity you lose by not thinking about exciting things in ideation and execution, but stressing over is that someone taking care of that? Like, what do I got to do over there? Oh, this thing happened. What am I supposed to do? Oh, like, All these things, like it is from the way I travel to food. Like, it is every last thing has been dialed. And when something isn't, it's a note is made, added to it, and optimized.
Starting point is 00:55:39 Because beyond automation is optimization. Where you just get better and better. And the better it gets, the less effort it takes. Your system gets smoother. The longer people are with you and stay in the system. The more efficient they become, the more optimized like they are and how they communicate with you. but it
Starting point is 00:56:00 and you know I heard like the great Ray Dalio say it recently of like you know I just kind of live more life than other people live because I've figured out how to like get more out of my time and he talks about like he has 25
Starting point is 00:56:15 direct reports that he gets basically an additional 50 hours that each out of to scale his capacity right and to me I have like a micro version of that the way that if that hearing him say that is what gave me the breakthrough of like no like it you you are a flat organization and that's where you get your capacity back as i was drifting into this like you know becoming so aware of like what's taking from me what do i what's taking
Starting point is 00:56:46 from me yeah and because what what happens to a guy like me you add another thing on right so this more time let me add this to my yeah and in in in in in But I don't want to compromise my balance. Right? So I don't compromise the time with my wife or family. You got 30% there, 30% sleep, 30% work. Right. So that 30% of that 30% of that is committed to ridiculousness, right?
Starting point is 00:57:12 So that means... For the year, 12% is ridiculousness. So my total work time, 12 is gone now. So that means everything that I do with the machine, all the companies, everything that I do, I now have that... um wow 88% is what i can fill in so and i won't compromise it so what happened when i i started doing press for the first time in in years i launched machine 3.0 launched the foundation launched the podcast launched the machinist launched our entire product line i lost the built and launched mind
Starting point is 00:57:44 right launched luso like so it is like i got i it was this amazing awakening of like look at you you just like did you've just taken on so much you can't do it right and that's when it was like I also was forced into like like nope you have to like be patient because you took this all along don't over correct and be like what do I got to stop it's like it's like look at what you can automate look at what pain points are slow down with some things and and ease things into automation and then be more aware of your capacity right because you don't at this level, you've grown into this amazing life. Like everything you do gives you energy.
Starting point is 00:58:30 You're fulfilling all the vision that you had five years ago. You realized. And now it's like you're even more motivated and driven and excited about like what the future holds. Now that you have gotten so good at essentially manifesting the future. Like you get even more excited of bringing it alive. So you don't. don't want to lose that energy or feeling. So it's like...
Starting point is 00:58:55 By overwhelming yourself. Yeah. So what I have to... That's when I really was like, nope. I always looked at like you have mastered time and energy. And I'm like, this is some like, I'm on some like... I'm like a yogi at this point. I'm getting into a mystic level.
Starting point is 00:59:10 Me and sad guru are like in the same vibe right now. Then I got overwhelmed. And then I realized like time and energy is what you mastered. But now you have to be aware of capacity. So now all you have to do is learn to manage it, understand it, and be aware of it, and master that. And the connection between capacity, energy, and time is where you will now essentially operate forever to where you're constantly, you're constantly fulfilled and energized. And I was trying to explain to somebody like when your systems are moving at such a pace so harmoniously, it builds this energy that basically draws in all the things you want to happen.
Starting point is 00:59:56 It is the power of the law of attraction. And when you're clear and open, all that stuff comes pouring in. But I reached a second level in this where it's like, okay, I'm swirling. But then I almost create a cone. And when I get to that level of elevation, it's almost like I'm simultaneously planning the future. experiencing the present, right? Because you can't really do both. You're either experiencing the present and everything you experience the present is based
Starting point is 01:00:28 off of what you did in the past, every action, every decision, everything that you've decided in your life, how you're feeling, your angst, your anger about yourself, your company, your diet, your relationship is based off of what had happened in the past of what you're feeling right there. And you have way, you have net, and you know you have the control to change in the future, but understanding that every decision actually all ladders up to experiencing the present in an extraordinary way. But the unusual and then or you're looking to plan the present and what that future is.
Starting point is 01:01:03 It's hard to live in them simultaneously. And when I get to the truest state, I am like, I am almost like drawn to like seeing the future while like just experiencing what I'm doing so purely. You know what I mean? And that to me is like my machine mindset and my system as a whole that's like reaching into this like more magical level that I've experienced like hits of that I know like someday I will be able to like live in that state. And it really does feel it's like some weird like high performance like mystic level. because it's still like material and output and data and all of these things like like you know that a lot of the great books will tell you that you and you got to let go of all those things to actually do them you know what I mean and into me you know I'm I think it's the idea of you have to let go of when they happen or how they happen but not let go of what they look like and how to make it clear and clear right because the clear The more clarity you get, you get drawn by the clarity.
Starting point is 01:02:19 Because it's like the more you go in a single direction, the wider your field gets, the more you can see. The more you know what to do. The more you accomplish, the more belief, the more energy you accelerate towards it. So you can't just lose sight of the idea of like, oh, there's the goal. If I get there, I'm not married to the goal. You know what I mean? It's like that's not the way, but you can't be obsessed with the outcome of the goal. Right.
Starting point is 01:02:44 You have to be. What should we be obsessed with? You have to be obsessed with making the process more evolved, more effortless, and more enjoyable on the way there. Right. Like, that's the reality. Be obsessed with creating more joy in the day-to-day life. And think about it. Like, you know, the great Gary Vee, what's he going to tell you?
Starting point is 01:03:03 Fall in love with the process, right? And to me, it's like fall in love with making the process fun and enjoyable. Effortless. Yeah, making it effortless, right? because the truth is in the beginning, the process sucks. Because you're trying to fit, you're not sure about so much, you're trying to get it going, you're trying to get it, but when it eventually gets to this place where now you understand it, now the process becomes enjoyable.
Starting point is 01:03:29 It's taking less energy. It's more clear to you. Now you're accelerating. Now it's pulling you towards what you're trying to do, right? And that's, you know, almost like this event horizon that you've got to break through. And again, I go back. It's kind of a through line. everything. Like it's in anything you ever want to accomplish, whether it's a relationship,
Starting point is 01:03:50 a goal, or a life, right? You, if you, if the life that you want to create, you still have to design it. And then you have to build the strategy and plan to get there. Then you've got to go on the hero's journey and go through that same like chaos, but stay focused on knowing that you're, you're getting better at it and you're eventually going to automate it and get it to optimization where it becomes less, takes less effort and you get more energy back. My friend, I hope you're enjoying this episode. And the School of Greatness drops new conversations every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday around money, mindset, healing, manifestation, and relationships.
Starting point is 01:04:28 And if you're not yet following the show, then you're missing all of them. Please tap the follow button right now. And you'll get notified the moment every new episode drops because the next one might be exactly what you need. Now, let's get back to the conversation. What do you think have been the three best investments you've made, whether it be financial or a personal investment that has allowed you to have more energy, more freedom, joy during the process? Yeah, I mean, look, it's so many things, you know, I mean, because you got to look, I go back to my somadome. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 01:05:09 You know, I didn't like that price tag of 25Gs. We bought, ooh. Maybe I don't need that right now. Let's get some headphones. Let's get some headphones. We'll see. And look at that. Things, you know, paid for itself a thousandfold, right?
Starting point is 01:05:24 It's like the idea that it's, but it's the people and developing the systems. You know what I mean? It is. Investing in the people. Yeah. And investing in the systems. Yeah. And staying committed to that, right?
Starting point is 01:05:37 Like, and it's, it's, but, but I. that at the end of the day, you're not going to buy your way there. Right? Like, there's no silver bullet. There's no, there's no thing you can invest in to do it. Yes. You have, the only way to get there is through discipline, right? And discipline and consistency is the hardest thing to do, right?
Starting point is 01:06:00 How do you get more discipline and consistent? You have clarity on where you're headed. What's going to make sure you get there? Energy. You know all the things that you need to do to get energy, diet, less stress. like working out, all these things. Like, okay. Choosing better friends.
Starting point is 01:06:15 Choosing better friends. Choosing better friends. All these things. All that stuff. Now you got clarity and you start, you got the energy to push it forward. Progressing creates belief. Right. Progress creates belief.
Starting point is 01:06:27 That's right. Because as you're moving towards it, you're like, oh, I can actually do this. Right. And as I said in our first podcast, back in 16, if you can break it down into believable steps, now you're, you're, you're. it's the first action of belief and the next milestone you have to absolutely believe by all a bit of your being that you're going to be able to get there because if you can't get there to that next milestone that is the next milestone on the way to your big goal you're not going to do it
Starting point is 01:07:01 and it's okay to lose belief there it's okay to fail there right because it's it's everything you want to do you don't you can't always do it right and so it's like You would rather fail with intention and fail with clarity than the pain of like, like having no idea why you're failing and you just keep trying other things and like keep trying. Like it's that lack of understanding. But if you know exactly where you're supposed to go and you can't get there, it becomes your point of failure is so much easier to digest. And then you're, as the great Ray Dalio would say,
Starting point is 01:07:41 reflecting on that, that pain of like deciding I can't do it. It's not going to work and couldn't figure out how to move forward. Then the reflection of why, okay, move on to something else and create a new plan again and step off on that journey to do it the same way. And to me, you know, it's that power of evolution that you expand into, anything you're ultimately wanting to achieve. And Ray will tell you, pain is where you learn the most. Of course.
Starting point is 01:08:19 Great teacher. And to me, you know, and it's, you know, for him, it's the loops where it's the audacious goals, you know, make a plan, go for it, fail, learn, audacious goals, right? That's how you get there. But I... How did you have the belief in yourself to get to a billion and launch 100 brands and get to a billion when you'd never done, any of that when you never lost an exit at one brand yet yeah how do you believe that it's possible such a big audacious goal or is it okay this is the big goal that's going to be a long ways away well what's the first step what do you think the first step is do it once do it once but you're never
Starting point is 01:08:59 done it before i know so how do you believe that you can do it once so i you're not sure right you know what i'm saying i want to do this but i'm not so i designed a plan to do it so i designed a plan to to do it. To do it once. I designed the system, right? The way I I did all the planning and so like I I'm, the path was there but but for me
Starting point is 01:09:23 I had to actually do one to do it and when they started going. Then it was like then it was like got this. It's easy. And the beauty of it was right is all of them were like
Starting point is 01:09:40 nothing like I planned them. They unfolded so crazy and unreal. And that's why, again, I fell back into this like, man, you plan for clarity of direction, but just know that the way the universe works is it is just completely unpredictable. Yes. But it still goes the same direction. It doesn't like figure itself out in some willy-nilly way. It goes the same way you thought it would.
Starting point is 01:10:08 It happens completely different than you expect. And that, to me, is like, interesting another reason of why that magic was so important you know and again you build a lot of belief at the beginning in your plan right i knew the way i was building the plan that was like okay you know it's like it's like in order to do this like you're going to have to build at this stage you're going to have to look at the data and make sure that there are industries and products and markets that have scale that people are buying like you're going to have to like look at the type of product and make sure it has scale and
Starting point is 01:10:43 as a wide consumer base, right? Like, there's all these fundamentals that I learned in the beginning that I didn't practice in my early days of being an entrepreneur that were, like, basically leading to it. So, you know, as I'm going, involving and learning, I'm getting even clearer on clearer on what that even means. How to create value, what companies would buy companies and what for and what type, how to look at industry and how to look at where is an opportunity
Starting point is 01:11:09 that is white space versus one that's two, advanced, right? Like, how do you, like, begin to look at, like, how do you protect a company from losing value? Like, where are the pitfalls of what, of what happens to companies and they don't work in the Valley of Death when they launch?
Starting point is 01:11:27 Like, how come so many of them are struggling? Like, you begin to see all this to then make another way of doing it that gets clearer and clearer, right? But the beauty of it is, is I looped through failure, and winning. Yes.
Starting point is 01:11:44 Right? Because you also, I was still like, whoa, got lucky with that and then why did I get lucky? Wow, the reason you got lucky
Starting point is 01:11:53 is because it was pure market timing. Yes. Right? Like, you didn't, like, it should have,
Starting point is 01:11:59 like, been a failure that you learned from because the entrepreneur wasn't experienced enough and you realized that you were no longer looking for people
Starting point is 01:12:09 that were just do or diers. You were looking for people that understood the seven core capabilities of business, the business engine, because I used to just think you just, you got the do-or-dyeye spirit.
Starting point is 01:12:20 Not someone's just like, I'll do whatever it takes, but someone who understands. Right, because when you'll do whatever it takes, you're slamming into walls because that are unbreakable, right? And I used to think you were either brand, creative product guy,
Starting point is 01:12:33 or you were like a business guy, right? And business guys weren't creative, and creative guys didn't know business. And I realized, like, No, it is, business is brand, product, media, marketing, sales, operation, finance. And then it is all, it is all of that working together is what creates a business and the best CEOs, like a good guy, Billy G. They have general knowledge in all of them. So they can hire the right people in every single one of those.
Starting point is 01:13:05 And they have growth mindsets where they're trying to learn as much as they can as the person who's the visionary behind it. to make sure that they continue to hire better and optimize further to build their engine that is their business, right? And so to me, I still was getting wins and crazy things. And I would get a big win. And it was different than the pain of failure because it's like, wow, amazing. How lucky did I get? Right. Why did I get lucky?
Starting point is 01:13:38 Right. And now you can begin to see like why, what actually occurred there and how can you replicate that going forward. How can you get better and tighter? You just keep adding those pieces to the toolbox. And here's an interesting thing that happens along the way, right? You go from like early on trying to diligence so many things and see in it and understand it. And you get more and more intuitive.
Starting point is 01:14:05 I can talk to a founder about his idea for 15 minutes and can see every hole that he has and everything about the idea, even if I don't fully understand it. The same way I can talk to, you know, and a really good example is the recent company that we built, the Jolie Skin Care that's like a water filter system with Ryan Bamazine, who's the former CEO of Greats. Like, it was 15-minute conversation with him,
Starting point is 01:14:34 how he looked at the opportunity, like how he talked about the business. Like every single, I didn't even need anything else. I didn't need anything else. I did all the data as part of it. You knew he understood it all. I knew I could, he understood every single aspect of it. He chose the idea looking at like where the opportunity was, why there was an opportunity, what the business model and union economics were of that opportunity,
Starting point is 01:14:59 who the consumer was, where the, where sort of the marketing initiatives kind of lived in this, this free zone between like, you know, hair care and makeup and, um, and how big all those places were, but nobody's really attacked the thing that keeps you, uh, that's, that's doing the most damage, which is your water that you're washing your hair and face with. Right. Right. Then you're, you know, using all these creams and things to try to help. But it was, and I could see it all intuitively. Huh. And, and, and just did the deal like, you know, went through our entire, didn't need to go through our entire process because it was just like, this is it.
Starting point is 01:15:39 We went and validate it, right? We do our big immersion and looked into the market and saw, you know, how much white space it is. And even when you do these big, like, data insights to the market and opportunity, all it is is, like, a reason not to do it. And almost every single case, right? And the reason to do it is the reason not to do it, right? And so it's like, you know, in the game of building businesses, I don't care, in the venture game, all of it, it is, it is all opinion based. Right. And nine times out of ten, it's like the founders experience and like opinion based because you know you're kind of rolling the dice.
Starting point is 01:16:20 And there's literally a reason to never invest in anyone's idea ever. Right. Because it's just an idea, you know. But since it was my mission, as I sat here back in 2016, my personal. mastery would be to curate ideas and individuals and build profitable, sustainable, acquireable businesses. Why was that something you wanted to do when you'd never done it before? Well, I had been through the process.
Starting point is 01:16:49 I knew I loved creating business. But I knew I didn't like it unless it worked. And I knew I was the type of person that needed a score. I needed some sort of ending to it. excited yeah yeah like to be like this is what this is what victory looks like i didn't i didn't feel comfortable in this like maybe like you know it could turn into anything type of vibe and and so that's like what got me focused on like and then when i read the book you know start at the end like and the idea of like decide what you want out of a company before you ever do it like that that really
Starting point is 01:17:25 defined like okay we're going to build this for 150 million build this to 20 you know 50 million in revenue and sell it for three times revenue and it's going to need 500,000 to start, a million to launch, two million for growth, five million for a B round, and then it can be sold for 150 million. At that point, we would have been diluted down to 35%. Okay, great, we're going to make, you know, $50 million off of this transaction. Let's go, right? And that's how I do every single one of these businesses with every single founder.
Starting point is 01:18:00 And so for me, it's like, it's the map for everybody. And then I don't want to build with somebody that doesn't think that way, right? I don't want somebody, if they are like, oh, this is my passion. You know, I want to keep this forever. Yeah. And sometimes I would consider it if it was like, hey, we're going to grow this to a $10 million business that is worth that kicks off, you know, five million in profit that we split, right? I will do those, right, where it's just like a dividend split.
Starting point is 01:18:28 And what are the six exits? Which companies? Made by science, chemistry holding, superjackets, street league, where to, and momentous just merge with Matt. And I think you might, you want to check your email to see if this other. Let me see. Oh, man, that's an extraordinary. That's the magic, but actually get through. Man, you come through right now.
Starting point is 01:18:50 We'll see. You come through right now. Because you've been working on a deal for the last couple weeks. Where are you? Where are you? It's going to be in before. the end of the episode. It's going to be it.
Starting point is 01:19:03 No, no. It's going to be here before we leave. Okay, let's do it. One last check before we leave. Yes. Okay, so those are six exits. Which one surprised you the most? And what was the biggest one?
Starting point is 01:19:17 Well, Superjacket for sure is the biggest one. The production company. Yeah. You know, and why it's also so extraordinarily significant is the acquired Street League as part of it. You know, I own 70% of it, right? And who acquired it was the same group in 2013 that offered me a 360 deal to own half of everything I did for the rest of my life. And this group, like basically I was raising money for Street League. And this group was like, we don't want to just invest in Street League.
Starting point is 01:19:54 We want to invest in everything you do. And when they offered me this 360 deal to own half of everything, that I would do for life. How much would they give you up front? At the time, it was going to be 50 million. They were going to value me to 100 million. I was going to get, I was going to keep 30. It would not lock over time.
Starting point is 01:20:16 No, then they were going to put 20 in the company. And then we were going to grow this Deer Deck Enterprises to a billion dollar business. Interesting. At the end of the diligence, we won't talk about pain. it was essentially this rude awakening and not only am I not a business person. I don't understand money. I don't understand. I'm not creating any value.
Starting point is 01:20:40 They could not invest in me because I was not investable. They were willing to loan me $7.5 million, put me on a salary, and then help me figure it out so that they could have the right to then put in a few more mills. to own half of everything I did for life. Wow. And it was like, you know, the main guy there was like, look, take the money and then you're our problem. We can make, we'll figure this out, right?
Starting point is 01:21:11 And I'm like, like, I'm going to give up half of everything I did for life. And I don't even know who I am. Right. What am I even doing? What, you know, and that, that sent me on the journey of really like. Getting clarity. Getting clarity, changing life. the entire everything that that moment forward and even when they they came in as like a bitter
Starting point is 01:21:35 to buy super jacket and i was like let's get this deal done i need it for the story court yeah i need the full circle and they thought no kidding in the beginning they were like what's like they were like freaked out like why is he being like talking about the story of this and the full circle and the like and like this poetic justice right like and they kept asking are you going to take this money and just like stop working i'm like what This is like one company. This isn't even like my vision. There's like one company I built because it was the easiest one to sell
Starting point is 01:22:05 because I already had a television company. Like, no, I want this for the story and then this is like the beginning of the rest of my life, you know? And so it made it that much more special because think about it in that era, before I got rid of every company and everything that I had built up to that point, the only thing that I kept was Street League.
Starting point is 01:22:27 And I had not launched Superjacket yet as a regular production company. So, So 2013. Well, no, that's when I've spent those two years building it, right? So by the time 2016 happened and I was ready to launch the machine, the only companies I kept was Street League. And then Superjacket was just a label. Superjacket was the first company I put through the development process, a bill to sell.
Starting point is 01:22:53 And we launched it that year. and then three years later, six years from when the 360 deal, then three years later, they come in and acquire the only two things I kept from that period to basically give me the capital to now go the vision that I own 100% of and will for life.
Starting point is 01:23:18 Wow. I'm talking about it. You know what I mean? And it's like, it's magical. It's magic. You know what I'm saying? You can't. can't sit back and not be like, whoa.
Starting point is 01:23:27 Wow, man. What? Like, and again, it just, you know, from 2016 for the mega one to be that story, you know, it's right there at the end of, you know, 2019, like, it is really when I'm, like, why magic became part of it for me, right? Where it's just like, man, you can't, you can't write that. You know what I mean? Like, that is so extraordinary.
Starting point is 01:23:54 so amazing, but also like not something you could ever have planned, thought of, or even considered as being part of the narrative of the entire journey. How do we cultivate more magic in our lives? You know, again, I think you position yourself for magic to happen. And when I talk about like automation and capacity and effortlessness and clarity, all of those things are the actual energy that create the magic. Right? It's like you, I built the company to sell.
Starting point is 01:24:34 I taught myself first how to do it. I took my licks, said, I'm going to teach myself everything about business. I'm going to learn money. I'm going to like never, I'm going to be the person I thought I was rather than after I realized I really wasn't. I'm going to become the business person that I've always envisioned myself. become and then when I went on that journey to become that I it was I began to learn and learn and as I began to learn I began to see how much I actually needed to to know which like got me
Starting point is 01:25:07 even more hungry to learn more and more right so like by the time I got to the machine itself I had like like you know really developed like so much clarity and understanding and then I Now, where's my advantage? It's in television. You have a television show. So I built the first company to sell in there. So I'm keeping mind now. Had the big vision, I'm going to do it.
Starting point is 01:25:33 I learned it all. Then here's, okay, I'm going to launch it. I'm build 100 companies. I'll make 20 to 30 million off of each. I'm going to make a billion dollars in liquidity. Like, okay, here's the first one. Then it's like, oh, no, it's going away. Then, oh, my God.
Starting point is 01:25:48 No, I got this mega order. Now it's going to be even easier to sell. Like, now it's unprecedented. Take it out. like all the production companies are all over it and then who comes in the random group that gave me the 360 deal from the five years earlier right and it's like and it's like clear out these are the guys and it's like it's like
Starting point is 01:26:11 it's like it's inexplainable but it was done with clarity and purpose it was part of the bigger vision I planned it I did it it it just didn't unfold the way I would have expected, but it unfolded because I had the diligence, made the plan, learned what I needed to do, and then I went out and executed. And by executing and do it then, what happened, the magic came in, right? The law of attraction came in. So, you know, I only say that to, you should be in awe of it because you know it's luck, right?
Starting point is 01:26:49 And I don't care. Like, there's, you know, there's this, you know, there's that great debate of like, you know, I don't believe in luck. You know, I've worked so hard. You know, of course I've positioned myself for it, but no, no, no, no, no. It's luck. You know what I mean? It's like, it is such an intangible of so many circumstances that have to line up,
Starting point is 01:27:09 that allow something to happen that are so beyond your planning, your control, and all these things that you must be humbled by it. And be like, man, you are what? Wow. Like how lucky. and be in all of it, right? Like, it's more, like, how in all I am of all the magic that I've been able to create because it's like, it's, it happens not like sometimes, but all the time, right?
Starting point is 01:27:38 Magic happens every day, every week, every month. It's just so constant that what does, what do I believe in? What do I believe? I believe that I control reality and create magic. Yeah. You know what I mean? And nobody can tell me otherwise. And so all that does is make me more discipline.
Starting point is 01:27:57 Yes. You want to create more of it. Yeah. Because it's like I'm living in this really high elevated energy that's super fun to live in. And it's and I designed it in a balanced way that it puts no pressure on me because I have such control over it that it makes it. more fun and enjoyable to live through and experience and really experience, right, rather than just keep working for the goal, you know what I mean? Like, we're just going to go till we get there.
Starting point is 01:28:36 And what do we, you know, we're grinding. We're, you know, get up and go, hustle. Like, no, it's like, like, like push to effortlessness. And even when I go back to the idea of mastery, right, like, I'm getting better and better and better in a single direction. And so it made me think a lot about like when people choose careers and like what you choose to do in life. And we all we, we in, in the traditional sense, call it like, oh, they're really experienced,
Starting point is 01:29:06 right? And the truth is when you become experienced, become an expert, you become a master. Here's all these extraordinary intangibles. You have more security because people could use your expertise. you have more value, you have more self-confidence, you have more purpose, you have more self-worth, more self-belief. There's all of these intangibles that come along with that, that go so far beyond just being really good at something, right?
Starting point is 01:29:37 And the truth of what that is is you grow into that. But you can't grow into mastery if you don't know what you want to master. You know what I mean? Like you just like if you try to choose, all of these different things of like what what will be the thing that I want to be best at you know I'll keep trying all these things and then you just you get a little bit ways and like oh I don't know if that's going to deliver on what I want and you and keep in mind here's where here's what happens to people that do that they do not have aligned with who they are right physically mentally
Starting point is 01:30:15 emotionally with what they do right their passion their interest their finances, their work, and how they live, their free time, their adventure, their relationships. The coordination of all of those and the integration of all of those are actually at the core of how you have to build your life design. Who you are, what you do, and how you live. Yeah, because ultimately, if your passion is skeet shooting, but you want to drive a Ferrari and you're never going to connect it. So what you would have to do then is create financial stability at such a level in some other form
Starting point is 01:30:56 that limits the amount of time and energy so that you can put your time with that skeet shooting most of the time. You can be working for the weekends if that's where all your energy is from. So what type of job do you choose? You choose one that takes the least effort in the least amount of time that gives you the most capital to live the lifestyle that you can live, that you want to live. It's the connection of all of those. like is actually where, you know, what I'd consider like the extraordinary life lives. Yes.
Starting point is 01:31:29 Because when you like are emotionally fulfilled by doing something that you love, that is your work, and it provides you with the time and space to have the relationships and live the lifestyle you want, that's it. That's where happiness lives in when all those things are connected together, right? So to me, as I began to see that, you know, I'm, I naturally gravitated towards it, but, but it really connected for me when it was like, like, my ambitions are so great. Why do I need to fly private? Why do I need like this, you know, $40 million house and like, why do I like want to like do all
Starting point is 01:32:13 these crazy, exactly adventures, right? Why did you need these things? because I love them. And that's like how that's like, and I'll tell you why I needed them because I, when I look at myself and my identity and what I connect with like who I am, that's where my identity. My identity lies, right? Because what happens is a lot of people then get, you know, like the people that boom and bust where their identity is similar to mine, where they love like kind of living on this elevated life. lifestyle and kind of having the fruits of their work be part of their identity. When those people lose that revenue source, it is where depression and pain and all that
Starting point is 01:33:04 because it's tied to their identity. So to me, I knew it was part of my identity, but I knew that I didn't want to ever risk it. So I knew I had to grow into it. So I didn't spend the money to build forever estates when I could. I kept designing and designing and refining and refining. You showed me so many different models over the last five years. And I've continued this week, I got another VR model of what is one of the final versions. And I'm like, extraordinary.
Starting point is 01:33:36 I moved like two stair sets down and pushed out part of the land. And I did these like pulled out this overhang, like this like nuanced. I'm like, extraordinary. Right. Like, that's how much work, effort, and process and passion I put into evolving that. But I didn't allow it to put pressure on myself. Right? Like, I wanted to grow into, I established the money and lifestyle that I needed.
Starting point is 01:34:06 And then it didn't matter if I made, you know, you know, 30 or 40 million dollars or I made five million dollars. I still spent the same $2 million, right? And then again, when I sat here in 2016, what happens if one thing goes away? What if the ridiculousness contract went away four years ago? Or what happens if you don't sell a company? Then what do you do in that position?
Starting point is 01:34:32 I'm at no risk, right? So understand this. What I did from a savings perspective is I have all my high-risk venture over here. I, since we met in 2016, I've invested in 25 buildings, right? And so that 25 buildings has now ballooned not only in value, but it produces the cash that covers my lifestyle. Wow. So those buildings, that investment covers lifestyle. Cover's lifestyle.
Starting point is 01:35:00 So I, and I referred to it as a freedom fund back in 2016 when we sat, but I had nothing in there. I hadn't done it yet, right? And so now. So that was this last five years. started building that. That's it. Yeah. Wow. And so not only do I now have that, I'm free for life. I'm free for life. My lifestyle will never go away. But because that wasn't enough for me, I also then always keep 10 years of cash of what that is at all times. Where? In the bank? In the bank. Wow. And so people will tell you, oh, well, that's silly. You're losing money. Well, guess what? A pandemic hit in 2020. And it was like,
Starting point is 01:35:40 dang, that's crazy. I got money here. Anyway, even if the real estate stuff stops or collapse, I still got this for 10 years. I got 10 years. Wow. It's just more a piece of mind. It's just more peace of mind.
Starting point is 01:35:51 And that's it. And so I go, I digress all the way back. That's the system I created in 2016. I live it today. Shocking. Shocking. But what is the output to me? It's another thing of stress that keeps me with my foundation is so tight now.
Starting point is 01:36:09 I don't ever have to contemplate whether or not my lifestyle or identity will be compromised. Because you know within five years you'll be able to figure something out. If you lose it all, you've got five years of runway. And it's like it's, that's just the system. I have, I have so much money beyond that. Other backups here and there, yeah. But what I don't do is spend beyond that. I am not, I didn't go buy yet, right?
Starting point is 01:36:31 Like I'm will one day, right? I didn't go and build the house. I'm still waiting until the house would never be a, burden. Yes. And because to me, it's like it is this absolute peace and peace of mind. And the pandemic is the perfect example. What happened in the pandemic is like, and I say this from, I, what you experience in
Starting point is 01:36:59 the present is based off of what you created in the past. And I knew that I wanted to build that system because I needed that security for peace of mind, not for anything other than it eliminates it, but it was tested in the pandemic. And then when it happened, like, what did it allow me to do? It allowed me to now take all this free time and go deeper on my strategy and planning and organization and everything that I was going to do to launch this year. Right. So you don't even skip a beat.
Starting point is 01:37:33 What happens is I immediately got back all of this time that I could now turn to. optimizing my systems, like getting further in to do it. Like, okay, beginning to plan out the fully integrated multi-platform universe, start working on the brand. Like, I want to evolve the brand like and turn it into systematically fusing art, science and magic. Like all these, I basically, everything that I'm living now, all of this press, all this ideology, the podcast, the machine, all these companies,
Starting point is 01:38:01 all of this stuff is because of the time that I had to go and build. and because I had all this additional free time during lockdown in those first six months, right? Because you weren't stressing, you had already automated, you already optimized things, you weren't stressing about details. You had a free time, energy, peace, clarity to go. That's it. That's it. And what did I do? I just accelerated further into becoming the ideal version of myself and the person that I envisioned that I could be. Five years ago.
Starting point is 01:38:38 Right. Ten years ago. I would say even five years ago. Because five years ago, like I, I, it was, it was this extraordinary feeling.
Starting point is 01:38:50 Because I made a deep transition. Because I had finally, you know, you got to keep in mind, when I launched the machine, I had a stat, a team of about 25 that I all let go. I remember this.
Starting point is 01:39:02 When I moved to Beverly, I went from driving to down, living in Hollywood and driving downtown through East L.A. into my warehouse next to a, dump and sitting in my warehouse to now and driving back to Hollywood to now living in a gated community in Beverly Hills driving through the most beautiful city in the world to a penthouse in the sky looking at your 360 view of the world all over this energy and so then it was that I had found the love of my life the extraordinary intangible like when did you meet her or when
Starting point is 01:39:34 did you guys get married 2015 so right before you came on yeah you just met yeah so yeah she was pregnant with Cota, my first child, right? So I still wasn't even a father. Still didn't even fully understand that. But it was now, you transitioned to now you had the entire plan. You reduced your entire cost structure because you got rid of all those bodies. You were now just you and an assistant in your penthouse living in Beverly Hills. And now you're going to do company after company.
Starting point is 01:40:02 Here's the vision of how you're going to realize the machine and all that. And so it was at the launch phase. So it was like, it was like the energy. was like, oh, you knew that you were going to like invest in buildings and, and, and chase cash in investments and build all these businesses. And then you went and did it and then had the cold reality of like, whoa, this is like, whoa, this is way more complex than I envision. How come I'm not?
Starting point is 01:40:29 All these didn't work. But you began to see some of them really working. And you're learning from and you go. So it wasn't, it wasn't all like dread because. you were so planned but it was still like this like you know you had to fight through it as you're evolving learning and growing but it was just like when i hear my voice in that ogy podcast it is light as a feather and excited about like the possibilities you know what i mean where if we would have did it like in year three it would be like you know i'm grunt you know i'd be like imagine imagine
Starting point is 01:41:05 imagine we scheduled a time uh to do the the podcast like when I was going through ridiculousness not coming back, which then would have been like, like would have crushed my dreams of building the cell, the production company and like, you know, the entire sort of aspect of everything that was kind of happening like versus, and I knew it, right?
Starting point is 01:41:26 The same way that, that when I did, you really just did your podcast and never did anything else. Didn't do any more press, stopped doing everything. And it was because I realized like, man, were talking about all the things you're going to do. Go do it. Yeah. And it was like, it was like,
Starting point is 01:41:45 go do it. And then, like, even as it's like, when I finally broke through into 19 and was like, man, this is really going down. Then when, when all the acquisitions started going down, right? Like, it was like, okay, now it's time to begin to tell the story. But then the panty hits, right? And then I'm like, Like, man, you get another year to like, like keep building the story, right? Like keep evolving it. And really think it through on how you want to launch it and give yourself another year of developing and building and having everything before you go and do it. So now when I have gone out and doing press and talking about the philosophy and everything that I'm doing, it's what I've done rather than what I'm. going to do. And it's what I said I was going to do realized in a short period of time.
Starting point is 01:42:43 It's quick, man. Five years is quick. And that's what I'm saying. And that's the... Most people can't launch and sell one company in five years. Right. Six. Right. And look, and to that point too, inside that podcast, I told you at the end, I said, you're like, I don't want to write a book. I don't want to... I'm not a teacher. You're a teacher. You love, like, sharing and teaching people. And, like, I'm like, I'd rather just, like, Like, I don't like want to share. Like, I'd rather just be an example of what you can do. That's how I felt because I hadn't done it. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 01:43:16 Now after doing it, I'm like, man, I got to share this. This is like, I really, I really figured out some stuff along the way here that I know that I can like create and share in a way that people could replicate and experience what I'm experiencing. Right. And it's a completely different philosophy. And like now, like I truly look at it as like, no, like this is your, you're a gift for storytelling and entertaining needs to be and sharing your philosophy. Because you know you're going to be able to help so many people, right? Short window of transition, right? And another big thing that that happened in 2020 after all those exits was you now have two children and your beginning.
Starting point is 01:44:03 to shape your children and think about your children. And I'm, you know, the universe presented to me Tiger 21, right? And Tiger 21 is, you know, it's basically just a high net worth peer group. And it's really amazing, all confidential, just other high net worth individuals. You meet once a month and you just like share, you know, philosophies, investment philosophies, all these different things. And they do this thing. Each month, one of the members of the group has to do portfolio defense where you have to show all your assets.
Starting point is 01:44:40 To the group. To the group. And then discuss your assets. And they come at you and say, what about this? What about that? This is wrong here. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:44:47 And to me, I was like, this is what I need to be a part of. Because I knew only the realest of the real are going to be in that room. Wow. Because you aren't going to be in that room and be like, here's everything I do, unless you are. real deal, right? And to me, I'm like, that is the peer group that I need to be in. And so, um, super eclectic, amazing, interesting group. It is, is insane. And really interesting thing about like, like everyone in there, they all have sort of like the, the same sort of expenses, right? Like, there's just sort of the standard, like, like, sort of what I consider normal guy, wealth,
Starting point is 01:45:28 management and then everybody like manages their own money and has their own system on how they do it there's nobody in there with like like people that manage their money it's super interesting right and because like i'm like oh i can't i just i've had advisors in the past i would never i was expecting to get there and be like what are you who are all your guys advisors you know what i mean it's like nobody does right they all they all manage their own money they have people like help but they've created their own personal system that they have oversight on right and But in portfolio defense, they ask you have to like also give certain aspects of your philosophy and principles. And one of them is what is your 100 year plan?
Starting point is 01:46:11 And it was this like like crazy awakening where I had finally crossed this threshold of where I was no longer like looking at self-preservation. and I had shifted into generational preservation. Like what can I do to make an impact on what it means to be a deer deck for not 100 years, for 500 years? And like what are the concepts and the things and what does it mean to be a deer deck and our core philosophy? And now building this book and designing this book is for like what it means to be a deer deck and ultimately how to live an amazing life. And how do I create a system to manage this capital that gives everybody that for generations to have an opportunity to become entrepreneurs to live their dreams and fulfill through creating a family bank system that can go on forever way beyond. Now, of course, my version is super next level. I'm also going to like before I die hide like like, you know, Picasso's and rare watches and Ferraris all.
Starting point is 01:47:27 over the world and once a year I'm going to have a family meeting where they reveal the treasure map. Wow. Don't find it. That's sick. I'm going to record like 500 inspirational messages, the hologram so that like every year here comes the inspirational from our patriarch, right? Like, you know, I'm going to make like my legacy so crazy.
Starting point is 01:47:49 And then it even, it even changes what Forever Estates is to me. When I'm designing Forever Estates, I'm thinking about how the, how it will. be remodeled in 100 years and how the family meeting where will the family meetings occur inside here when it's no when i met when i'm at g6 and there's 200 family members it's not just five of us right wow and and think about that you're now you're you're you're you're it's because you've gotten to the horizon and now you see so much further than you could have ever imagined Because if you did not reach the success level, you would never have ever, you wouldn't be thinking about generational wealth unless you created generational wealth, right?
Starting point is 01:48:33 And that's the like another side of this sort of intangible magic side of the unfolding. Right. Because I think that I, as you grow older and get more clear, you can see out five, 10, 15 years. And I think as you get older, you can see further. Right. But knowing things are going to change and evolve in such a way, you're always changing every three to five years and seeing further, and the distance is a little bit different. But the anchor that's never changing is I'm the way I own my company,
Starting point is 01:49:13 the way I manage my assets, the way I'm managing the property. All these things are built knowing that you want this to be part of your family legacy forever. Right. And it changes even like when I looked at the machine. I was like, oh, I'm going to, the ultimate is I'm going to build the machine, build the portfolio, then take on huge capital to cash out for half of it, then sell the whole thing. And now it's like, no, no, no, I'm going to keep it forever. Right. Like I'm never, I will, you know, all the executives, I give them, you know, profit shares and everything that we do. But it's still a dear deck family business. forever and it has no bearing on whether or not um you know my my children ever want to be a part of it you know or any any company i won't build it like that i will never it's you know they i you know really for me if they can just fundamentally have solid biomechanics and and great relationships you know and just simply like lock in on this philosophy that your life's this system and you get to control and design that system find harmony in that system find harmony in that
Starting point is 01:50:21 system and whatever gives you harmony, just get really good at deciding what you want to do, whatever it is and breaking it down and know that it's tough in the beginning, but you'll grow into it. And if you don't like it midway through, it's okay to quit and try something else, but you really want to get to a place where you find the things that you love to do and you can grow. And no different in a relationship. You know what I mean? Like you want to find somebody that you connect with and then grow with. And it's like, you know the intangible is I already you know had this extraordinary like by fate and destiny magic again love but then what we've grown into over five years is is extraordinary because
Starting point is 01:51:06 we grew into each other and then with each other at such scale and I defend it and protect it because I know how rare it is and how impossible it is and and so I defend and protect it and evolve it as like my number one priority in life. And it's why I never compromise like our balance as a couple and as a family. I don't want her to ever feel like I work too much. Right? I don't want my kids to ever feel like that. And again, even today, like I had to jump on a Zoom and my son was going to the park.
Starting point is 01:51:46 And he's like, why don't you come to the park? And I said, look, man, I'm about to jump on. a Zoom meeting. You know what that's like? He's like, it's like, it's like, it's like, it's like, I'm about to go to the park. I'm like, I just can't wait. He's like, all right, dad, okay, I'll see you afterwards. Have a good meeting. I just, I want them to be so connected to the idea that like, like there is not some separation between work and fun. Like when life is at its best, you just, every aspect of your life is fun and enjoyable and gives you energy. And, and to me, as a, I just want to mentor that and self-belief in them and just the tools that teach you to grow and evolve.
Starting point is 01:52:31 And then you know that this is the process of life. This is how it works. And when you try something new, this is, this is the risk associated with it. But it'll never be the end all be-all. And to me, then how do I turn that into teachable to their kids? and then their kids kids, right? To where what it means to be a deer deck is at its core, like balanced happy and harmonies, right? To where like, and that doesn't matter if you want to, you know, you love McDonald's and want to work at McDonald's.
Starting point is 01:53:04 You don't, you have no ambition and you just want to like, like, you know, play video games all day with zero ambition. As long as that aligns with your entire, like, who you are, how you feel about yourself and your passion, your interest. your time and energy and that's where you feel amazing and you're truly happy, do it. But I doubt anyone would truly find happiness sitting in that position. Right, right. I've got a few final questions for you. I feel like I can go another few hours with you because I want to ask you so much about, I feel like I am so blessed because I get to speak to you off camera about how you found
Starting point is 01:53:46 the relationship of your dreams, how you structure your relationship. energy management, fun, love, intimacy, how you do all these things. Maybe this is in two and a half years you come back on for another show and we talk about how you do all that. Because you told me one time about there's very little like stress in your relationship. It's like almost all peace. Maybe there's like a moment of like a small misunderstanding that goes right back to peace and joy. Which I think that probably gives you so much energy in finding, creating that and finding that.
Starting point is 01:54:15 I think a lot of people struggle with that. So there's more things I want to talk about with you in the future. I'm taking a lot of notes. I've got a few final questions. I'm curious, what do you think everyone misunderstands about failure and success? What do you think most people misunderstand about both of them? You know, I think that, you know, because failure, we've done a great job of like, like, just bringing failure up to the surface of, like, you know, there's no failure. There's lessons.
Starting point is 01:54:44 You know, there's evolution. But I think the, like, the reality. of failures, it's not so black and white. It's like you can micro fail along your way that prevents a major fail, right? And learning and evolving from the micro failures is just as important as the pain that happens from the lessons learned and the big ones. Right. Because the big ones you want to avoid at all cost, because they are startovers. They are much, they are, they take a emotionally, physically, energetically, right? And they take a recovery period.
Starting point is 01:55:26 It's much different. So to me, there's so much a range inside it. And I swear when you fail with clarity, it's so much easier to digest. When you can see where off on the horizon, if this thing happens that this is going to cause this to not work, because you were diligent on understanding the risk inside it and you stayed focused on trying to avoid it, but if it's inevitable, versus getting blindsided. And look, and a lot of people get blindsided and it's the nature and it's a tougher to pick up from. But more often than not, you could have seen it and made a decision to either move away from it
Starting point is 01:56:14 or stop way before it gets too painful. And then I think in success, it's, you know, it's the reality of success is the same way. And in the fact that it's, it's, there's so many ranges of it, you know. And to me, you know, your success will always lead back to your quality of life. you really just want to live a high quality of life. So if success is financial that leads it to there, it's emotional, it's relationship, whatever it ultimately is, like success is always found in quality of life,
Starting point is 01:56:59 which ultimately is happiness, fulfillment, self-belief, confidence, like all these things that make up who you are that make you feel the way that you feel about yourself. you know, and that has so, so many ranges. But you want to get good at creating success. Yeah. You don't want to just, you don't want success to just happen and then not know how it happened.
Starting point is 01:57:28 You want to know how and why it happened so you can create it over and over again, yeah. I was just talking with Matt, my good friend and COO right before with you, and we were talking about how 15 years ago I was roommates with Matt, we were broke. We were broke and we watched Robin Big. When it first came out, 15 years ago, was that when it first came out?
Starting point is 01:57:48 2006, 2007. And I always tell people you want to find, in order to gain, like, once you find some clarity in your life, you think you have a direction you want to go, you want to find a mentor or mentors with models that you can mimic. And you always had, from afar, before I knew, you always had a great lifestyle, you had a great, you had a great vision, you were building things that has been, you know, amazing for me to see and mimic and model in certain areas. I don't do exactly what you do, but I've been able to see your lifestyle design, how you build your relationship, how you structure your life, you organize it all, you optimize with health, everything, nutrition. So it's been really fun
Starting point is 01:58:30 to learn from you. And I hope everyone watching and listening can learn from you as a great mentor with an amazing model, which for some might seem extreme. I mean, you track every data point of your day over every month or over every year. You analyze it. You obsess over it. But that's part of the reason why you've been able to create so much momentum around your success. So it's not by accident you've created this much success. There's a specific design, specific model, which takes extreme discipline and consistency like you talked
Starting point is 01:59:03 about. And I'm just so grateful that, you know, I get to check in with you. now and learn about how you're doing these things. Hopefully I can come over soon and just, I want to get in the pod. Check out the pod. The meditation pod. And again, you know, I'm as grateful as I was to be able to meet you for the first time and connect with you to share it.
Starting point is 01:59:25 Yeah. It's like the same joy to share the evolution. I know. It's amazing, man. Because I give you updates and I give you the bite size, you know, and you're just like, what? Like, and it's always like, it's, it's always like this guy, like the next, and, and, but it's the format of being able to now have like the true, more in-depth conversation. Yes.
Starting point is 01:59:50 That gives me value, gives me this, another historical marker. And here we go. We get to now see, like, okay, what does the next five years? That's what's going to ask you right now. So you had a vision five years ago. You know, this is something I do. I've had Grant Cardone on my show many times. And every time he comes on, he always tells me, you know, I get frustrated because you
Starting point is 02:00:16 challenge me to step up bigger than I ever thought before. And I always say you're playing small, Grant. You know, you're playing small. I think he's got a couple billion under his asses. I know, I know, I've never seen that one. You really jammed it. You really get. He's like, ha, but it goes out and creates it.
Starting point is 02:00:30 Yeah. So I'm curious, what is the vision in five years? What will you have created for yourself? Well, first of all, I will probably float in here. Levitate, yes. I will probably be sitting here. No one will be able to hear it. You're going to be transmitting.
Starting point is 02:00:52 Transmitting the energy. To you, you know, but I truly believe what's going to happen in five years. That I will be on the truly realized like ideal version of myself holistically. Okay. Because I think I still, forever states done. That'll be done.
Starting point is 02:01:15 Yeah, it'll be done. Five years will be done. Be done. Like, so now I've lived out that vision. It's like the portfolio of brands will now be at such a scale that I will evolve into holding certain ones that are built to be like, no, we're going to carry this one to a billion dollars and go public. Right.
Starting point is 02:01:35 There's going to be such. How many brands in five years you think you'll have a piece in? Oh, in five, I would say, I would say. You'll be at least sold already. Combined. Combined at least another 25, right? So how many you have right now? 14?
Starting point is 02:01:56 Right now, no, no, I've done 14 since we were here, sold it. So the remaining ones, we have 10 remaining right now. So I will for sure have 35. than a minimum. But it's the quality and the scale of those. I will have at that point, you know, raised at least, you know, 20 to 30 million and through the foundation that I was able to deploy, you know, I think... For your philanthropy. Yeah, for the found, for the do or die foundation. Wow. I think, you know, we're talking not only flawless biomechanism, but by that time I will have been able to
Starting point is 02:02:40 what I'll probably be working on at that point is the system that I created on the baseline of human function on how what I learned through my seven years of learning all aspects of my body and fully integrating it and healing it into one harmoniously operating system both inside and out I will now have been able to
Starting point is 02:03:07 to turn into a system. I would have had an extraordinary best-selling book that would have already been out. That was a feature film and was the backbone to my now great joy of doing keynote speaking because I will want to share that energy and passion with people. Of course, on a limited basis because I will want to be spending. that balance time. 30, 30, 10. Yeah. With my, my, my, my, my, my family.
Starting point is 02:03:42 And I'm, I'm beyond that, right, like, I know that I want to eventually grow into only working 15% of my time to. Right. So now that I've mastered time, energy, and capacity, I can also plan into, like, working much less as I get up into my 50s. my kids get older because even in my planning documents I have like the next 15 years planned out and all my kids age and my wife age and all these milestones that are coming along the way and I and I know that there's a point where I want to be able to be spend more time and be more influential in my children's life before I go back to working more right so in that sort of like 12 to like 18 phase you know so I want to be able to
Starting point is 02:04:40 interesting uh live that fully but I also know who I am and what I'll transition to next right I know that like I'll transition this same ambition into one-off projects right that I'm gonna want to do these big one-off creative projects that like have these finite that's event or something yeah you're just not about money anymore they're just about like how can you create something super crazy right and and to me i know that that's going to be where i transition into right and because at some point i will now have because i'll never go beyond doing you know five six companies a year because if me and the founder don't connect and don't like and i don't help shape it with them and create it and we birth something that's i'll never do
Starting point is 02:05:33 it. I'm not building the company so that it can go on without me and build companies. Like at the end of the day, it will always be me as the co-founder of these businesses rather than just being this place that makes companies. Because then it would like no longer be connected. It would be as fun for you. Yeah. What's the thing you'll be the most proud of that you do of all these things or something maybe you didn't talk about? Yeah, look, I'm, I really believe like the same. same way I am just in awe of what the last five years had brought, but the next time we meet, it will truly be to any and every person, this is what's possible in a 10-year span. Like, every person alive could achieve this much. And here's when it happened, why it happened,
Starting point is 02:06:27 and how you can do it too is what I look forward to sharing. Robdeardek.com, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Rob Deerdeck. Where can they go to be a part of a Build with Rob podcast? If you want to learn more about your philosophy, the machine mindset, where else can we go connect with you, support you during this year and the next five years? Hey, you want to be a part of the machine method, become the machinist. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 02:06:55 You got an idea you want to pitch us. You want to be on Build with Rob. Go to Deerdeckmachine.com. you know but really you know love and support all the businesses and entrepreneurs we build with you know they're they're all amazing founders and amazing companies and just continue to build great ideas with great people absolutely I'm involved in two of them outstanding foods and mind right so make sure you guys check that out we'll link it up there I gotta get involved in more now in the future with you so now that I've seen you just hit one after another
Starting point is 02:07:26 I'm like I got to get involved more um This question, I don't know if I asked you this question the last time. I don't know if I started asking this, but it's called the Three Truths. So I'd like you to imagine that you live as long as you want to live, but it's your last day on earth. And you've accomplished all the goals and dreams that you want to accomplish from Tiger 21 and developing the hundred year plan and all that stuff. You've done it all. You've amazed yourself of how magic you create every single day. But for whatever reason, you've got to take all of your written content, audio, video, message that anyone has access to.
Starting point is 02:07:59 It's got to go somewhere else, whether with you or to another place. But we don't have access to this anymore. But you get to leave behind three lessons you would share with the world. Three things you know to be true from everything you learned. What would you say of those three truths for you? You know, I think, and I'm going to try to make it concise this time. I rambled on in the first one we did. But, you know, number one is Chase energy.
Starting point is 02:08:27 Ooh. Right? Like you have to to hunt the things that feed you, not pull from you. So good. And if you focus on building a life of around relationships, job, everything that you do about doing the things that give you energy, happiness is found there. Right. Like in chasing energy above everything else. That's so good.
Starting point is 02:08:53 will lead you to fulfillment, right? And the second one, like, design life. You know, don't live life and let life happen to you. Don't try to work really hard and then try to have free time and be focused. Decide what type of life that you want and design it. Then learn. to grow towards it and get better and better at creating the plan that you will grow belief in can happen and then you will become the ideal version of yourself.
Starting point is 02:09:34 But you cannot do that without designing life. Okay. You know, and, you know, I'm, you know, we spoke about it pretty extensively, but find joy in the process, right? Like it is not about, you know, it's not necessarily about the process. Fall in love with the process. It's life. You're living.
Starting point is 02:10:02 You're doing it. You're growing, evolving, expanding towards your ideal life, what you want to accomplish, who you want to be. But learn to get better and better at it so it takes less energy. And that you have total joy so that it is nothing more than this joyous journey to where you want to be and beyond. Because you'll never stop growing and never expand. When you fall in love and find joy in the process,
Starting point is 02:10:31 you will then just do the process forever and go beyond what you could even imagine was even possible. Chase Energy, design your life and find joy in the process. I'm really grateful for you, man. I'm so grateful I'm so grateful I've been able to watch and have access to your information over the last five years. but watch you for 10 years before then and be in your life in the last five years
Starting point is 02:10:55 and hopefully contribute to your life in certain ways as well by bringing you different things as well. Big time. Yeah, breeding Billy G. Hopefully that was a good one. But I'm grateful for, and I acknowledge you for you not only talking about what you're going to create,
Starting point is 02:11:10 which so many people say what they're going to do, probably 99% of people don't do it and you've done it. Yeah. And that's what I really acknowledge you for is like you created, you designed the video, vision for your life and you did so much in five years. Every time I talk to you, you're always doing and being the better version of yourself you want to be.
Starting point is 02:11:31 You're living it. Since the moment I met you, you've always been about positive energy. And finding joy in the process, everything, even when it's like, oh, this happened and this TV show didn't work out and this, we spent all this energy on this thing and it didn't work out the way we wanted to. You always find, like, the joy in the process. and I've watched you obsess over designing your life. Obsess over these metrics and the dashboards.
Starting point is 02:11:55 You show me on your computer of like, this is how I analyze it. And every morning and every night and I track it and I measure it. And this is the whole thing at the end of the year, the report. And now I know it to do next year for it to be even better. You fall in love with the process. You design your life. And now I can't wait for you to start creating this in book format
Starting point is 02:12:13 and speech format for others to start learning how to replicate it. Because I think that's where you're like that. legacy will really live is how you teach others how to do this because I want to keep learning how to do this myself. So I acknowledge you for all this, my man. I acknowledge you for your, the joy you bring to your friends, your family, your business partners. Because every time I'm in a meeting with you and there's other people around, you bring energy. You don't chase it, you create it. And that is a gift. So I acknowledge you for all this stuff. I can't wait for five years and all the times we hang out in the future before then. Anything else we can do to support
Starting point is 02:12:48 you are to talk about before the final question. No, no, because, you know, really we've, we just being on here again and allowing me to be on this glorious platform that you have grown and evolved, you know what I mean. I'm just thankful that we're friends and ultimately that we get to share this conversation to share with others, you know. Yeah, we're helping a lot of people. You're helping a lot of people, man. I appreciate it.
Starting point is 02:13:15 Okay. Final question. What's your definition of greatness? Oh, man, it's, it's, you know, to me, like, I really believe that, that very similar to before, because I, I, I, I see it in other great individuals, and I'm trying to chase it. But it, but it really is when your personal mastery, um, become so highly optimized that you, you grow into a level that almost no other people have. have ever done, which then inspires the masses to try to emulate you and be the best version of themselves. But at the end of the day, it's still like who you are, what you dedicate yourself to, your
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