Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2
Episode Date: October 6, 2025When things go wrong in our relationships, we often try to change the way our partners behave. But usually, trying to fix a person only makes things w...
Shankar Vedantam uses science and storytelling to reveal the unconscious patterns that drive human behavior, shape our choices and direct our relationships.
522 episodes transcribedWhen things go wrong in our relationships, we often try to change the way our partners behave. But usually, trying to fix a person only makes things w...
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You probably know someone who thinks they know more about something than they really do. But you could never be described that way . . . could you? Th...
Forgetting something — whether it's a colleague's name or where we put our keys — can be deeply frustrating. This week, psychologist Ciara Greene help...