What They Really Mean When They Belittle You
Episode Date: September 23, 2025A belittling comment is never about you—it’s about them. In this episode, I break down why people use belittling remarks as a grab for dominance, how...
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58 episodes transcribedA belittling comment is never about you—it’s about them. In this episode, I break down why people use belittling remarks as a grab for dominance, how...
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