Hearing and Listening are Very Different
Episode Date: December 25, 2018At this holiday time of the year, what greater gift for your child than to really listen to her. Not just hear her words, but interact with your...
Parenting is the most important job we have for which we almost never have any training. This podcast offers glimpses into effective parenting choices and communication
299 episodes transcribedAt this holiday time of the year, what greater gift for your child than to really listen to her. Not just hear her words, but interact with your...
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Many parents outright bribe their kids to "be good." Kids will take the bribe but not necessarily follow through with being good. They are not investe...
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Raising your kids is the toughest job for which most parents are not prepared to do. Balancing the endless demands of childhood with the rest of your...
Do we want power or relationship with our kids? When you come off as dominant, my way or the highway, you parent by fear, not by relationship. When yo...
Family meetings can be a great way to get everyone involved, and invested in, planning things the family does together. It could be the mundane, like...